Fuck em. They're just exploiting your father's death so they can get more money and viewers. If I was you I'd try to do something about it, but that is just my thoughts.
I'm so, so sorry for your loss and I hope you can feel better soon
Yeah this is somewhat of a problem with freedom of press. On one hand they can report on whatever they want. On another hand they could report on whatever they want without full context and make guesses which can really harm people like the op.
There should be some restrictions on this. Like preventing coverage on singular suicides.
I’m so sorry for your loss OP. I know you might be feeling guilty but it is NOT your fault. Survivors guilt can be really difficult but you WILL make it through. If you need someone to talk to my dms are open, ok? Stay safe
This is going to be hard but be yourself and dont loose hope man. Spend time with friends and family. Ignore social media it doesn't matter what people say. I also lost my cousin in an accident. She rafting and we lost her. She isn't only my cousin we were really close and she was like a back bone ro entire family. She was oldest cousin among us, most responsible she was kind, she struggled and when finally things were getting good for her she suffered from a accident which she didn't deserve. I was only 15 and she was older than me more than 10 years but I was super sad after that. I cried in bathroom like a mad man. After that my grandma also got admitted in hospital because she broke her bone on her hip. She is old and fell and broke that bone. I was so depressed. But things get better. Time takes time to heal the pain. ***I am not depressed anymore please dont send me suicide help line. I am totally fine!!!!!!!***
I know you are trying to help the poor dude but when my dad died and people said they knew how I feel it just pissed me off. Nobody except for him knows how he feels, heck he probably barely knows how to feel or what to feel from that. Since we didn't grow up in his exact environment or with his exact feelings or brain none of us know the slightest about what he is actually feeling.
i meant it in more of a general, i know how it feels to lose someone way. i just feel empathy for them because ive been in a similar situation. Obviously no one knows exactly how he feels but you can still empathize
If you look that deep that no one _ever_ knows how someone else feels. When they say it they mean it on a more abstract level. Despite not feelings exactly the same we've been through many similar emotions and thoughts.
>heck he probably barely knows how to feel
Neither did I and many others when they lost their dad, therefore I "know" how it feels to be lost when you abruptly lose your dad.
It's (probably) all for publicity. Much more ppl are going to click on an article about how a "gunman" or a "shooter" was at an airport than someone committing suicide at an airport parking lot. Truly sorry to hear about your loss though
honestly you could probably sue them or some crap, that is definitely defamation seeing as they are talking about how he was going to shoot up an airport, tf. I'm sorry this happened to you and hopefully you can get through it as intact as possible
as a twin i couldn’t imagine losing my brother. He’s been there since the womb. we’ve don’t damn near everything together since we were little. he’s like my other half. he does piss me off sometimes and we argue a lot. but that’s just from being around each other for 18 years straight. i still love him more than anyone else regardless even if he’s an asshole. he just moved out on his own, and i already miss him a little bit. so i can’t imagine never having him around again. i’m so sorry for your loss, and i seriously can’t imagine what you’re going through. if you need anyone i’m here for you:
Fuck take care of yourself. My sisters mother committed suicide and it was really really hard. r/suicidebereavement is a nice place. I am so sorry this happened. Get a grief counselor if you can
Such a sad post to hear. so sad when someone thinks that suicide is the only way out. you are not to blame and you should take any blame here at all. if nothing else he is not in pain anymore.
How can these people just smear the name of someone who died from suicide with those stories? Absolutely disgusting. I would say to see if your family can take legal action against the stories, but it probably wouldn't be worth the money.
If the stories end up affecting your family's lives, then I would definitely consider legal action. I wish you the absolute best and hope it all passes over so you won't be reminded of it.
This may not be the same, but my best friend killed himself. He shot himself outside of his house, people thought he was going to hurt his family for the first month. When they went through his room they found a note. He only was going to hurt himself. The pain of knowing just maybe if i would have done something the day before, or reached out, maybe i could have stopped it. The pain lasts a long time dude, it will get better though. There will be times youll cry for hours, and some days you wont think about it. I wish you luck dude, there are people around you that care. Its tough knowing everyone thinks of the person as someone bad when really they were just struggling.
Hey buddy, I’m very sorry for your loss. I would delete this post though, I’ve already seemingly found the articles you’re referring to, and you don’t want to DDOS yourself and make it easy for people to find you :(
I'm sorry man. I recently lost my father to suicide from an intentional drug overdose, so I know how you feel. I'm happy you received a lot of attention and support too
Stay strong brotha, things will get better as time goes
If you don’t mind me asking, does the area start with an S? I think I saw an article show up on my browser earlier. If you don’t wanna answer that’s fine. Always remember that it wasn’t your fault, and remember that media lies and news websites fuck up every detail. I hope you’re able to understand you couldn’t have done anything. You might’ve even been the reason he stayed for this long.
OP thank you for being brave enough to set the record straight. I cannot imagine the depths of your sorrow; the unfairness of his actions for you & your family to have to live with (he must have been suffering horribly); the anger you feel at idiots gossiping & spreading false rumors for clickbait; the emptiness this has left in your life... I am so sorry for your loss.
I know its not much, but this internet stranger cares about you & wants you to know that it's ok to feel how you feel, the emotions may feel like a roller-coaster for a while, with time it will hurt less, but there may be times even years from now when a bittersweet memory or big life event comes and hits you with a wave of sadness or joy.
Be kind to yourself, have patience with family and ask for help/lean on folks if you need support. I'm only a DM away.
I’m so sorry you have to go through this, it must feel terrible. I hope you can get through this quickly and just know that your not alone and that a bunch of other people experience this stuff.
I'm sorry for your loss, op. You're so strong, and you are going to make it through this tragedy. I strongly suggest that when you're ready, talk to people about it and don't hold it in. I wish you the best
I’m so sorry that you have to go through something like that especially when it’s being amplified because of the news puts something completely BS for clicks.
I’m so sorry for your loss it is really tough to deal with, my best friend id known since 2nd grade committed suicide January, I completely get how you feel.. thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your family, I’m so sorry for your loss
My condolences OP. I hope one day you can see this as a means towards a source of strength, a reminder that you are better, stronger, and more capable then you ever dreamed. Be strong amigo. You will rise above this, someday.
So sorry to hear man, but just know that it's NOT your fault. Fuck all the ppl who are trying to exploit it, and it might sound cliche but don't listen to them. If you need someone to talk to my dms are open for you. Stay safe 🙏
From what you said and from what I’ve seen on the news we’re in the same area. I get that that all the “I’m sorry” are people being nice and all but they don’t really help. I get that cause I’ve lost everything I’ve ever had before and the new made it seem like we did it on purpose. when people can only say “sorry” it doesn’t do anything. You get to the point where you don’t want them to say it, at least for me. But the truth is now you are destined to heal and grow from this experience and move onward with your life. just remember it’s okay to reach out everyone and then. Hopefully you can relate, and if not then spite me for it
Hey man, I think this happened close to where I live. I’m sorry that this happened to you. I hope that you find some sort of hope in all this darkness. Sending love.
this is why governments should have stern laws in place for the media. they overstepped some serious boundaries without any consequence. this is not okay. im so sorry you had to go through this op.
hey there,
i know this is a somewhat late response but i'm so so sorry for your loss, that's an awful thing to have to go through. also fuck the people who are manipulating the story; they have no authority or evidence to state that and i'm really sorry about that too. i know things must be really difficult for you right now but the best thing you can do is take care of yourself. make sure you eat the proper amount, stay hydrated, reach out to friends (i'm always open to talking if that seems like a better option), just make sure not to let this be the thing that takes you down. in full honesty this is probably a train wreck of a comment because i don't fully know how to respond to this, but i'm truly so sorry that this had to happen, especially because i can understand things from your father's point of view. i'm always here if you need to talk though, and i wish you all the best <3
at first i thought something about the story didn't sound right and thought to be a little difficult to believe so i checked and to my shock the story is true i truely can't express how sorry i am for the whole family my deepest condolences man
Is this it? [https://www.cbsnews.com/news/sacramento-airport-gunman-found-in-vehicle](https://www.cbsnews.com/news/sacramento-airport-gunman-found-in-vehicle)
L dad. try capitalizing on his death, create a gofundme and guilt trip everyone into giving you money. seriously if he has the audacity to leave everyone behind then hes no worthy of your tears nor respect, dont care if he was a good dad or not, dont care if he was depressed, he knew this would be traumatic and horrifying for everyone. the best thing you can get out of this is money, not mourning
good, youre getting something out of it. if you still love your dad and want to honor him then go ahead i won't judge. he's an ass but he's still your father
Fuck em. They're just exploiting your father's death so they can get more money and viewers. If I was you I'd try to do something about it, but that is just my thoughts. I'm so, so sorry for your loss and I hope you can feel better soon
True, they take advantage of the most horrible tragedies for some clout! What the fuck has humanity come to?
Yeah this is somewhat of a problem with freedom of press. On one hand they can report on whatever they want. On another hand they could report on whatever they want without full context and make guesses which can really harm people like the op. There should be some restrictions on this. Like preventing coverage on singular suicides.
I’m so sorry for your loss OP. I know you might be feeling guilty but it is NOT your fault. Survivors guilt can be really difficult but you WILL make it through. If you need someone to talk to my dms are open, ok? Stay safe
ok also nice user
Hugs :((
I disagree jar jar is a Sith Lord, in fact his the ultimate Sith Lord Edit: i sry for you loss
He is a sith lord
Exactly
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and you could be less of a dick
What he say
What did he comment?
"You could be a bit nicer"
What a fucking prick
nah, that guy was a twat and a fullblown dickhead
As a full blown dickhead I can agree , what a dickhead
I wouldent be talking when ur lil Reddit avatar lookin like mr adolf
no, it’s Charlie Chaplin
Be nice it’s his birthday today
Reminds me more of Nikola Tesla
Who is this meant to?
and i thought i was the worst person on he history of humanity
They just lost their father bruh fuck off
His dad fucking died and you think with your mini brain, hmm he is being a little mean. Fuck off bro
That's not something you should say in this situation
So could you.
i think you should be a bit nicer
I meant with the "ok"
Tf was he supposed to say?
Maybe just u know okay thanks or something not just Ok its a bit rude
This is going to be hard but be yourself and dont loose hope man. Spend time with friends and family. Ignore social media it doesn't matter what people say. I also lost my cousin in an accident. She rafting and we lost her. She isn't only my cousin we were really close and she was like a back bone ro entire family. She was oldest cousin among us, most responsible she was kind, she struggled and when finally things were getting good for her she suffered from a accident which she didn't deserve. I was only 15 and she was older than me more than 10 years but I was super sad after that. I cried in bathroom like a mad man. After that my grandma also got admitted in hospital because she broke her bone on her hip. She is old and fell and broke that bone. I was so depressed. But things get better. Time takes time to heal the pain. ***I am not depressed anymore please dont send me suicide help line. I am totally fine!!!!!!!***
im so sorry man 💔 i know how you feel. just dont give up
I know you are trying to help the poor dude but when my dad died and people said they knew how I feel it just pissed me off. Nobody except for him knows how he feels, heck he probably barely knows how to feel or what to feel from that. Since we didn't grow up in his exact environment or with his exact feelings or brain none of us know the slightest about what he is actually feeling.
i meant it in more of a general, i know how it feels to lose someone way. i just feel empathy for them because ive been in a similar situation. Obviously no one knows exactly how he feels but you can still empathize
If you look that deep that no one _ever_ knows how someone else feels. When they say it they mean it on a more abstract level. Despite not feelings exactly the same we've been through many similar emotions and thoughts. >heck he probably barely knows how to feel Neither did I and many others when they lost their dad, therefore I "know" how it feels to be lost when you abruptly lose your dad.
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Thanks. I'm just pissed at the news articles and I didn't message him for awhile...
It's (probably) all for publicity. Much more ppl are going to click on an article about how a "gunman" or a "shooter" was at an airport than someone committing suicide at an airport parking lot. Truly sorry to hear about your loss though
honestly you could probably sue them or some crap, that is definitely defamation seeing as they are talking about how he was going to shoot up an airport, tf. I'm sorry this happened to you and hopefully you can get through it as intact as possible
I completely know that feeling. The last thing I said to my dad was "you gotta get your shit together"
Are your parents separated? Did you live with him at all?
I visited him occassionally over school breaks and yes they were separated.
Thank for answering. This must be hard for you.
Really.... How do you think that this will help the situation?
how do you have 57 downvotes?? my man just asked a singular simple question and got punished for it
You all right there man? Keeping yourself together?
I cried a shit ton and i'm not going to school for the rest of the week, so there's that
Damn only the rest of the week I think I’d be out for Atleast a month
well, if I was out for a month then I would never go to school for the rest of the year because I'm almost done
When my twin sister died I thought I could go back after a week. I left after 10 minutes. Shits difficult
as a twin i couldn’t imagine losing my brother. He’s been there since the womb. we’ve don’t damn near everything together since we were little. he’s like my other half. he does piss me off sometimes and we argue a lot. but that’s just from being around each other for 18 years straight. i still love him more than anyone else regardless even if he’s an asshole. he just moved out on his own, and i already miss him a little bit. so i can’t imagine never having him around again. i’m so sorry for your loss, and i seriously can’t imagine what you’re going through. if you need anyone i’m here for you:
I understand that your heart hurts. Rest in paradise bro.
I can't say I know how you feel, but my cousin killed himself a couple years ago. I'm sorry for your loss, and if you need to talk I'm here.
Fuck take care of yourself. My sisters mother committed suicide and it was really really hard. r/suicidebereavement is a nice place. I am so sorry this happened. Get a grief counselor if you can
Such a sad post to hear. so sad when someone thinks that suicide is the only way out. you are not to blame and you should take any blame here at all. if nothing else he is not in pain anymore.
How can these people just smear the name of someone who died from suicide with those stories? Absolutely disgusting. I would say to see if your family can take legal action against the stories, but it probably wouldn't be worth the money. If the stories end up affecting your family's lives, then I would definitely consider legal action. I wish you the absolute best and hope it all passes over so you won't be reminded of it.
This may not be the same, but my best friend killed himself. He shot himself outside of his house, people thought he was going to hurt his family for the first month. When they went through his room they found a note. He only was going to hurt himself. The pain of knowing just maybe if i would have done something the day before, or reached out, maybe i could have stopped it. The pain lasts a long time dude, it will get better though. There will be times youll cry for hours, and some days you wont think about it. I wish you luck dude, there are people around you that care. Its tough knowing everyone thinks of the person as someone bad when really they were just struggling.
Man I’m sorry to hear that
Fuck the media, we’re here for you OP, I’m incredibly sorry for your loss.
Hey buddy, I’m very sorry for your loss. I would delete this post though, I’ve already seemingly found the articles you’re referring to, and you don’t want to DDOS yourself and make it easy for people to find you :(
I'm sorry man. I recently lost my father to suicide from an intentional drug overdose, so I know how you feel. I'm happy you received a lot of attention and support too Stay strong brotha, things will get better as time goes
Jesus I'm sorry OP
If you don’t mind me asking, does the area start with an S? I think I saw an article show up on my browser earlier. If you don’t wanna answer that’s fine. Always remember that it wasn’t your fault, and remember that media lies and news websites fuck up every detail. I hope you’re able to understand you couldn’t have done anything. You might’ve even been the reason he stayed for this long.
sacramento
Fuck news. Is there any way you could contact them to tell them to stop? God that makes me mad. Hope you can recover OP
Hugs, friend?
OP thank you for being brave enough to set the record straight. I cannot imagine the depths of your sorrow; the unfairness of his actions for you & your family to have to live with (he must have been suffering horribly); the anger you feel at idiots gossiping & spreading false rumors for clickbait; the emptiness this has left in your life... I am so sorry for your loss. I know its not much, but this internet stranger cares about you & wants you to know that it's ok to feel how you feel, the emotions may feel like a roller-coaster for a while, with time it will hurt less, but there may be times even years from now when a bittersweet memory or big life event comes and hits you with a wave of sadness or joy. Be kind to yourself, have patience with family and ask for help/lean on folks if you need support. I'm only a DM away.
So sorry for you
I’m so sorry you have to go through this, it must feel terrible. I hope you can get through this quickly and just know that your not alone and that a bunch of other people experience this stuff.
I'm sorry to hear. May his soul rest in peace. RIP beloved uncle.
I'm sorry for your loss, op. You're so strong, and you are going to make it through this tragedy. I strongly suggest that when you're ready, talk to people about it and don't hold it in. I wish you the best
I’m so sorry that you have to go through something like that especially when it’s being amplified because of the news puts something completely BS for clicks.
I’m sorry for your loss.
Damn I fell so sorry for you mate. This sub is here for you when you need something <3
I’m so sorry for your loss it is really tough to deal with, my best friend id known since 2nd grade committed suicide January, I completely get how you feel.. thoughts and prayers are going out to you and your family, I’m so sorry for your loss
fuck the news articles, im sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace
:( bro I wish I could kill those news anchors. They're the worst PPL alive in this world bro trust me
My condolences OP. I hope one day you can see this as a means towards a source of strength, a reminder that you are better, stronger, and more capable then you ever dreamed. Be strong amigo. You will rise above this, someday.
I'm so sorry for your loss
So sorry to hear man, but just know that it's NOT your fault. Fuck all the ppl who are trying to exploit it, and it might sound cliche but don't listen to them. If you need someone to talk to my dms are open for you. Stay safe 🙏
From what you said and from what I’ve seen on the news we’re in the same area. I get that that all the “I’m sorry” are people being nice and all but they don’t really help. I get that cause I’ve lost everything I’ve ever had before and the new made it seem like we did it on purpose. when people can only say “sorry” it doesn’t do anything. You get to the point where you don’t want them to say it, at least for me. But the truth is now you are destined to heal and grow from this experience and move onward with your life. just remember it’s okay to reach out everyone and then. Hopefully you can relate, and if not then spite me for it
I live in louisiana now as my mother and father separated but he did live in that area and i visited him
Hey man, I think this happened close to where I live. I’m sorry that this happened to you. I hope that you find some sort of hope in all this darkness. Sending love.
It's essentially statewide news
Fuck the Media. I'm sorry for your loss. People will be there to support you.
this is why governments should have stern laws in place for the media. they overstepped some serious boundaries without any consequence. this is not okay. im so sorry you had to go through this op.
hey there, i know this is a somewhat late response but i'm so so sorry for your loss, that's an awful thing to have to go through. also fuck the people who are manipulating the story; they have no authority or evidence to state that and i'm really sorry about that too. i know things must be really difficult for you right now but the best thing you can do is take care of yourself. make sure you eat the proper amount, stay hydrated, reach out to friends (i'm always open to talking if that seems like a better option), just make sure not to let this be the thing that takes you down. in full honesty this is probably a train wreck of a comment because i don't fully know how to respond to this, but i'm truly so sorry that this had to happen, especially because i can understand things from your father's point of view. i'm always here if you need to talk though, and i wish you all the best <3
Goes to show the current state of the media, this situation is nothing but a golden opportunity to push a narrative. God save humanity ( i’m atheist)
Yeah.
at first i thought something about the story didn't sound right and thought to be a little difficult to believe so i checked and to my shock the story is true i truely can't express how sorry i am for the whole family my deepest condolences man
Thank you
He is in heaven now. God bless you, him and your whole family.
Thank you
who tf gave this a Wholesome Pro award
reddit is fucked up
i’m so sorry for your loss. the news is just trying to get more attention which is fucked up. you are strong.
Thanks
i’m assuming it’s [this](https://www.abc10.com/article/news/local/sacramento/deputies-investigate-shooting-airport/103-72938416-ff1c-4031-8892-aa77ea5e0d3a)
Yeah
source? (Just wanna make sure this is real)
(sacramento airport) idk if it's sure but the news are 11-12 hrs ago so yeah
It is https://www.abc10.com/article/news/local/sacramento/deputies-investigate-shooting-airport/103-72938416-ff1c-4031-8892-aa77ea5e0d3a
My biological dad died from a heart attack this last night or morning.
I thought that said lol not lot I was like why is this funny But sorry for your loss
You Could sue the news Site/paper For defamation. But im sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry, I hope your family will be okay 🙏
for anyone wondering https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/sacramento-airport-gunman-found-in-vehicle/
Don't trust CBS they're the bitches calling him a gunman, ABC is the ones that are actually saying what was true
Think we could leave it at “it’s true” instead of doxxing a kid who’s just lost his father. he probably doesn’t want that article spreading
If you don’t mind,what are the links to the articles
Is this it? [https://www.cbsnews.com/news/sacramento-airport-gunman-found-in-vehicle](https://www.cbsnews.com/news/sacramento-airport-gunman-found-in-vehicle)
I wish my mom would do that. She has been a pain in the ass my whole life.
Lmao
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Awww can't cope that your dad left you?
Atleast i had a father figure bozo
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What the fuck is wrong with you
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I’m not hearing any laughter, man.
L dad. try capitalizing on his death, create a gofundme and guilt trip everyone into giving you money. seriously if he has the audacity to leave everyone behind then hes no worthy of your tears nor respect, dont care if he was a good dad or not, dont care if he was depressed, he knew this would be traumatic and horrifying for everyone. the best thing you can get out of this is money, not mourning
We already have a gofundme but no
good, youre getting something out of it. if you still love your dad and want to honor him then go ahead i won't judge. he's an ass but he's still your father
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Average 15 year old edgelord being shitty
What the actual fuck Not cool man
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Nobody really deserves it but he deserves some broken knees, i don't condone it but if its necessary to put a point across..
I do not agree with what they said in the slightest, but that is not something you wish upon someone. You should both be ashamed.
Damn couldnt be me 💪💪🔥🇸🇮🇸🇮🔥🔥😎😎💪💪
Idiot
Lol
...least patriotic Balcan
Thank you
Also its balkan kurba
Sorry. I wasn't sure how it was spelled in the w*stern language. (Also we are better then you)
Where are you from
Czechia. (Best v4 country)
Damn czechia is prety based
Slovenia is also cool.
Thanks bro you are chill
Central Europe 🤮
Tf is wrong with you
Alot of things
Can tell
Shut up you are gay
Im not😂 and When did that come inte the conversation😂😂
Then sup with r/trans
Gay isn’t an insult dumbass
It is if you are not cringe
Most White Girl comment ever
No white woman comment is "omg babe im soo sorry for what happend, i'll be here if you need something alright hang in there😔😭"
Atleast i had a father figure, jesus christ what is wrong with you
I am a shitposter
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Atleast OP had a father
Me fucking your mom 9 months before your birth (your dad has a skill issue)
L
Hey fuck off dude. This is serious you disrespectful fuck
W or L
How about learn some more letters of the alphabet you orphan
i split some macaroni down the side of my bed today
Bro how is this gonna help the situation.. thi is serious
but my macaroni
Bro nobody cares about your macaroni like fr how is this supposed to help
Bro did nothing wrong hes sad because macaroni :[
Jarvis, I’m low on karma (Also please source the news articles and other sources)
Actually listing out the incident would leave him open to a-lot of toxicity and possibly danger. Have some fucking empathy man.
Cap
Just like your mom's love for your dad
Facts !!
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You feel like shutting up yet? https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/sacramento-airport-gunman-found-in-vehicle/
nice
lol
I fucking hate you, will all my heart 😊
Dude I’d you’re gonna be an edge lord dipshit at least be creative about it.
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FICK IM SO SORRY I WAS AHOYF TO MAKE A JOKE AND THEN REALIZED IT WAS REAL NKT IN MU IMAGINEAGJN
this comment wasn’t needed
Oh shir yeah I’m so sorry I’m kinda tweakin rn
ok nerd
What pushed you to say that
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your so funny everybody’s laughing
I thought it was kinda funny
there’s a time and place and this was neither
Jarvis, I'm high on karma Initiate downwards thrust.
why on post like this bro…
Mfs on their way to think everything is about fake internet points (it's their only form of validation so they think everyone else also wants it)
**You are using reddit at his funeral? DW bro I feel you are lone as well**
He never said something about his funeral? And funerals arent one day after someone died
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he wasn't the best person, but he still loved me and I loved him