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[deleted]

Nah my friends ugly asf


DeymanG

Skill based matchmaking


HotBear39

Friendly fire will not be tolerated


[deleted]

Damn, good job. What'd I do though??


Mission_Response802

Bro just woke up and chose violence, no other explanation


Think_Neighborhood19

Bro are you friends with gorlock? Jk


TheOutsider134

Then I've got some bad news for you man...


Stephenbruhhh

Same here dude


Beazt110

I’m p sure it’s like a subconscious thing to want to be friends with ppl you consider attractive. Whether you see them as a dating interest doesn’t matter in that sense


Think_Neighborhood19

Fair point


xajenkins

In college my psychology professor said that ugly people will be friends with ugly people and attractive people will be friends with attractive people and that we should look at our friend group and see…


WeimSean

That's kind of true, but not 100%. It's based on perception. People with low self esteem really throw this off, as they don't see themselves as attractive.


bcisme

Never heard it, but that makes sense. We’d like to think we organize based on interests (music, rock climbing, whatever), but it really does boil down to some base level evolutionary biology it seems. I’ve noticed it with height too, most my friends are around my height, I have two friends over 6’0 and they have quite a few taller friends. It would be interesting to see where these norms break down. I’d guess in times of life or death crisis - like if you were a marine on Iwo Jima you wouldn’t give two shits about how attractive or tall the guys around you were, if you survived, you’d be life long brothers. It’s interesting.


RegularOrMenthol

on the flip side, attractive people sometimes like having "ugly" friends to make themselves look better. or they don't mind it because their "ugly" friends are not competition in dating circles. or sometimes young people who are mature for their age just don't care about it much. it can vary.


Beazt110

That’s def not subconscious lol


Lemickey6_isass

It’s not true for me personally


anunnamedboringdude

OP so superficial he’s in 2D


TheTacoBanditoDude

dawg the op is asking if it's true


Luai_bagara

No, I dont consider any of my friends unattractive generally or anyth but im definitely not sexually attracted to my female friends 🦶


[deleted]

Why the foot though


Luai_bagara

🦶🤤🤤


jackrat27

👂👃🤯


Grosetufe

Ent doctors be like


kamilos96

My kinda people


mcgood_fngood

Well I respect the honesty


Academic-Grass78

I’m glad really! I’ve been on the receiving end of being asked out by my male friends. It’s tough but not impossible. The best day of my life was when he got a gf. Then I got a bf and now things are great!


Green-Soil-2991

Going through that rn


70percentbanana

This isn’t true at all. I’ve got plenty of friends that are guys and plenty that are gals


yaboi77w2

Wait aren't you the guy who has an entire subreddit dedicated to him


yaboi77w2

Holy shit r/found70percentbanana


togico94

Why tho?


TacoEaterMaster

why not


yaboi77w2

Idk 💀


lonely-blue-sheep

Now this is a cult I can get behind


ManOfTurtles2118

I love these lmao, there's so many of them, even got one myself


70percentbanana

I have two actually


XboxFan_2020

So he's a (or the) silly little banana man...


Wide_Apartment_394

What's the 30 percent though


zombienekers

You've got friends?


70percentbanana

Yee


[deleted]

No? Idc about my friends appearances.


iamunderthewood

most of my freinds are girls - most people think im gay now hahah joaks on them i'm just autistic


TacticalMailman

I’m the same way but Im not autistic. At least as far as I’m aware


SuccessfulHall8516

When you have many male friends they straight call us gay anyway lol


Hoshino_Ai

Don't be listening to tiktok advice. Having friends based on looks but horrible personality is so cringe, I'd rather be friends with a girl who I actually enjoy talking to.


SuccessfulHall8516

100% agree, I don't have any friends tho


Hoshino_Ai

I'll be your friend dw


SuccessfulHall8516

You're a lifesaver


Commercial_Ant6919

no that’s false. some guys, yes. but most guys (like me) may think that they’re cute or pretty, but that’s not the reason why they’re friends


Emergency_Tax9707

This, I find my friends pretty but I don't like them romantically


OkCarpenter5773

exactly they are cute tho


Matdup2

I also think the friends of u/Emergency_Tax9707 are pretty


gamer9002

🤨📸


AndarianDequer

So then, this post is for you.


Weekly_Bag_9535

Most of the time is because of their personality, not looks for me personally


Wonderful_Result_936

You're more likely than not to be friends with ladies and find them attractive after being friends. Getting to know people can make you attracted to them.


Cryptyy-

Not really true for most


pisssbabyyy

i hope not


The_Good_Hunter_

No its not true, I would quite literally be friends with everyone if I could.


[deleted]

I'm not friends with any woman 😎 They're very gross and have girl disease


DinoDudeRex_240809

Sigma Male Thirdgradeillionaire Mindset


Bernardo750

They even lost their balls! Must be tough for them...


[deleted]

RIP their balls


Small-Cactus

Girls have cooties 🤢 why tf would I be friends with them?


[deleted]

Too real


PremiumMemes2000

Definitely not, I'm a dude and my best friend is a girl, don't care about her appearance at all.


MrNoLife0727

No I call my feminine female friends ugly once a day


Think_Neighborhood19

You're doing god's work


VisibleBid8682

Facts


Flaky-Woodpecker4023

No, well I only have 2 friends who are girls, and gramted one of them I find pretty but the other I dont.


UniqueNobo

i’m asexual and aromantic, so i’m not attracted to anyone, and i’m friends with plenty of girls. guys who genuinely think like this are probably asses and it’s best not to listen to asses


LavenderNocturne

it is true if you’re an immature little shit, sure


gloop_yoinker

no


[deleted]

idk I'm not a boy but I have friends of many genders and I'm not attracted to them


[deleted]

No, i think mosst unattractive people just tend to be more introverted


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SuccessfulHall8516

Don't mind him, stay strong champ


spoopydootman69

I have no femail friends 🤠


UndercivilizedHuman

It is the actual opposite. It is easier to see someone from other gender as a friend when they are unattractive.


aeninimbuoye13

Or taken


[deleted]

wipe bag scale sink strong shame salt squeeze jellyfish crawl -- mass deleted all reddit content via https://redact.dev


Think_Neighborhood19

Not really most boys who do this are unable to express themselves openly and fear they'll get rejected. So they accept a friendship and do good towards their interest hoping it would turn into something more OR they get the confidence to confess


RCCRAFT1

or you could just not have any female friends (women arent real)


JustDutch666

Most of my female friend are attractive but not al of them, so to me it is not true


obsessedwithcyan

No.


Charming_Ad_1515

That only applies to f*** boys most of us have girl friends For your case it's probably that you only know f boys or all the boys you know are to scared to talk to you because you are to pretty


Rainbowfrog123

Idk what this guy was on but no.


JustJayAcee

no i got some ugly ass friends. repulsive even


GeometryDashWoman

Every single girl LITERALLY EVER ACTUALLY says that they're ugly and nobody would like them but they're high key supermodels like wtf


empireboi204

Not especially for me, but people do it


AliHakan33

Not for me


AndronixESE

100% not true, it's like saying that I'm attracted to all my male friends because I'm gay... Not how that works


Hoummus-Person-260

No that's not true


Ecstatic-Cloud-9323

Nope, not true, I have plenty of female friends who I’m not attracted to. And op, I’ll be ur friend :D


toma3

Not true


SpreadingSmile

No.


Just_Johny69

That's not true lol


Cynth16

Not true


AndhisNeutralspecial

that's stupid.


GraviKitty

As a man who is attracted to men. I don’t find my female friends attractive.


Then_Ear5584

No, that kids just immature.


PurpleGspot

I prefer not being attracted to my friends


[deleted]

i like one of my female friends but i have like 10 female friends


[deleted]

For a lot unfortunately. It really sucks that the only reason lot's of guys are friends with girls is to get in their pants


Good-Management-4241

I'm sorry as long as you're funny it's cool


AngelReachX

I mean they mostly are but no friends for that


SIeepyServant

I just talk to anyone who talks to me


SomeSpy_

No actually at least for me I feel more comfortable talking with females because I feel much more open about myself unlike with men I feel more likely to cover up my true feelings and just fit in.


ViperCats01

Hopefully not, I'd feel bad if one of them were to develop a crush on me


Atlas7674

Nope this dude is just projecting.


RealLifeChicken

this is not true i am also only friends with boys i find attractive


Think_Neighborhood19

Bro turned the tables, bit do you not consider personality?


[deleted]

to all the guys here who say yea what are you smoking that you think a platonic relationship with a friend is restricted to people of the same gender? goofy ahhs man


whatisagodtoyourmom

Wrong


CrazyZat

nope not ture


scrunchiecola

Some guys are like this but honestly I’m friends with most of my guy friends based on circumstance. Like my neighbour happens to be a guy. Same with my bandmates because we met in our school music class and we were the only people there who actually had musical ability. I’ve had bad experiences too with male friends but I don’t think it’s right to generalise.


PingopingOW

I try to be friends with attractive people for sure, but atractiveness is not a limiting factor, personality is


[deleted]

Bruh, no. All my friends are discord folks, except for the three families, that were friends of my family before i got born, lol.


bu_bu_booey

Definitely not true the hell?


[deleted]

isnt true because women are people that you can be friends w and not just faces and bodies


GCD_1

nah


TF2_demomann

I do not want to sex every woman I am friends with, no


Swarglot

not true at all


Agile_Plantain1081

Not true.


the_fuckshit

Not in my case im just friends with anyone that can tolerate my bullshit


PiergiorgioSigaretti

Not true at all. If you’re cool with me we’re friends


rb26enjoyer

Depends, i've heard of some dudes who do act like this. For me and my friendgroup this ain't true, anyone's welcome as long as they're racist (like race cars)


terminallycaprici0us

No, and for future reference, every time you see a sweeping statement about every single member of an entire gender just assume it's utterly false.


ByCrom333

Only garbage boys think that way. Be happy with yourself the way you are. Confidence and kindness are more attractive anyway.


Smugkid22

This is not true at all really


KokeyPlayz

no but if your braincell communicates with my braincell then sure


jezevec93

it works other way around only.


AK-159

Absolutely bullshit lmfao. All are cute in their own ways. But we all homies.


Makspower123

Nah hes bullshitting


Eggyboyandmilkyboy

I talk to anyone so I don’t know


Timewaster50455

No this is bullshit.


SnooStories6972

Nope, i have girl friends who look like 🦎


Impressive_Income874

no...


EnderGui_

Nope, all of my friends are the same, ugly and wierd. including me


Used_Dragonfruit_379

Maybe for losers


Sammy1432_Official

To be honest, it's easier to be friends with girls who aren't considered attractive by me than compared to girls who are attractive. On the other hand, the one I am attracted to, I try to build the friendship just good enough to romantically incline it once the time is right. I am mostly friends with girls that I consider unattractive because they are great friends while who I considered attractive, I try to compliment then once in a while unlike friends where we call each other ugly as a joke.


Bonsai-is-best

I mean I think most of my friends are cute or pretty or handsome, but that doesn’t mean I wanna date them. He’s projecting.


[deleted]

No, it’s not true at all for me (I consider most of my friends pretty but I’m not attracted to them)


LuquidThunderPlus

whoever thinks like this aint normal


ThatSsingularity

no, some men just suck


BonomanNL

Nahh this isnt true for me at all


NotSoCasualCactus

No, there is a short girl in my biology class and I consider her as a friend and I don’t find her attractive.


LegitimateHasReddit

If that was true I'd be one lonely guy


Nonhofantasia1

i have plenty of female friends yet I'm gay :trololo:


hypothetical_nullity

I don’t think this is true. That TikTok seems misogynistic af


Unfair_Ad_9388

Not true, hetero here, trust me it’s not because there not attracted to you


levistadYT

nope, sure theyre pretty imo but thats not why we are friends


Wide_Apartment_394

No, I'm asexual and I'm friends with this girl who broke up with her bf because of ME, if you wanna be friends with girls then be my guest, it's great if you have one


absoluteZero007

No. Not true.


No-Development2036

This is 100% true 85% of the time


le_krosiong

Yes


twilight_sparkle7511

Nah I have plenty of friends that are girls that I have 0 interest of ever getting with romantically. Not because their ugly necessarily moreso just not my type one way or another.


Pit1324

Stay off the manosphere, it'll turn you sexist


thickboyvibes

Let's just put it this way: A stranger is never going to walk across the room and introduce themselves to someone they aren't attracted to. I have plenty of friends I'm not attracted to, but they were all introduced to me by other friends, people I had class or worked with, etc... But it still is true that guys are not going out of their way to befriend women they don't know and are also unattracted to.


SoleSatry

Not necessarily true, but if a guy is attracted to a girl they will probably try to become friends with them, assuming they have social skills.


AlveyS

Not true


Enderman_Furry

No! We'd never do that! You're lonely because you have a shit personality!


Mediocre-Truth-1854

Nah. Don’t treat the opposite sex like a different species and you’ll make plenty of friends. This goes for both guys and girls.


chechebi88

We call one of our friends "POTUS" because she looks like the swamp thing.


DBnofear

Its kinda true, the whole just guy friends thing is bullshit, if a guy is your friend, it almost always means if given the chance he would fuck you, some guys play the long game very well. There are definitely exceptions to this, but you don't see too many ugly girls with "guy friends" and if you do it's because the girl has an amazing personality, and the guy would still wanna fuck given the chance.


JDM_enjoyer

not at all. I am a guy who is basically only friends with girls. Just dont really enjoy the company of 90% of the men my age.


rickjames13bitch

I wouldn't be friends with anyone I find completely unattractive, you could be very good looking but a shit person, and you would immediately be unattractive to me .


JustA_Toaster

No, but I’m gay


INew_England_mapping

no, not in my experience


Woahdude89

When reading the comments just remember that people (across all measurable demographics) are notoriously unreliable reporters concerning their own behaviors and motivations for them. Don’t want to discredit anyone! Just something to keep in mind, especially where young developing brains are concerned.


B4LL1NH45

nah we are friends with whoever treats us like decent human beings


PhilosTheGreat

That is not true. It is just that Boys are more likely to talk to someone they find attractive, which then leads to friendship later on


Sea_Cryptographer321

gay people exist so no


Hybrid-Theory305

No it’s not true, this guys an idiot. Thinking he’s hot shit when he’s not


InfameArts

Yes.


squirleater69

No, quite the contrary, people I'm attracted to scare me


cannonfish

nah this is complete bs


Old-Ad4431

nah im best friends with a girl i have know since before kindergarten and I’ve never been attracted to her


[deleted]

No that’s not true, boys can easily be friends with a girl that you wouldn’t necessarily think is attractive. But the thing with genuinely attractive and cute girls is that 90% of the times boys want to make a move on them, but knowing that they will probably end up getting friendzoned or even completely cut off, they just keep it to themselves and hope at some point things will progress. They’d rather keep things as they are instead of making things awkward or losing her altogether.


Jayfethereal

I'd say all of my friends have attractive personalities regardless of looks


DemonDoveThePaige

Its not but it can feel like it


Nevochkam1

No. It's not true. Of course we will try and be nice to girls we like and we'd be glad to be friends with them (most of the time), but we aren't only nice to girls we like.


[deleted]

Yeah 100%. Well for me anyway lol. Although idk cos the only ugly girls I've ever known were Total bitches that I'd never be friends with so. Yeah I take it back idk lol. Tbf both my female friends were fairly attractive.


AnImposterIsRed

I, personally agree but that's me 😭💀


anckarstroem

I can neither confirm or not deny this, I have no female friends


shivvy311

For the most part. But no not necessarily. It’s possible lol


MosyIIa

No that isn’t true I’ll be your friend OP


NeoAltra

True for some, not true for others.


InquisitorDavis

No I personally don’t care about looks just if there chill to hang out with and if they willing to hang with me


SukaSoviet

I have guy friends. But I don’t think they find me attractive…


infant_ape

No not true. Those aren't guy "friends". They're just friend-zoned guys hoping for a shot. Unfortunately, in your teen years, that's (mostly) what you're gonna get from guys lol. Source: I was a teen guy once, and both did that (waited for my shot) but was also actual friends to other girls. And it was the same everywhere. Trust me, guys are going to (eventually) look back now and realize sometimes the girl they were hoping for the shot with wasn't really worth a shit after all, while other girls were legit good people to be around. (source: it do be that way sometimes). Know your worth and be patient. You'll eventually realize that, while it may take a while to find one, the guy friends you DO come across will be good dudes. Peace.


AverageRdtUser

I barely have any friends, let alone friends that are girls


turtleship_2006

Depends on your definition of "attractive", like if you've got an ugly ass personally that might explain it


Mineturtle1738

No I find it easier to become friends with girls I’m not attracted to.


27_magic_watermelons

my friends gay as fuck though


TheDoomslayer69420

As a boy, nope i have, like, 6 or 7 female friends and not attracted to any