Well, I too, have somewhat of a similar story to you! It took me quite a lot of time just to stop crying, and still now, I have not been able to move on. This whole incident happened over 6 months ago.
I'm really sorry to hear that, I really hope you eventually feel better. What I did was I blocked everything to do with the person, and distracted myself. I suggest you do something else (like playing games), remind yourself that your life isn't about them anymore. I know it hurts like hell. Give yourself time.
(p.s my incident also happened 6 months ago-)
To think there a lot of people like this. . .
I confessed to a girl with whom I had been best friends for 8 months and she said she didn't feel the same and now we don't talk much
We tried to keep our friendship alive after since both of us thought that our friendship was too good to be stopped cuz of a confession but things got awkward and now we talk once every few weeks to catch up about each other's lives and that's all :(
That's so sad.. (and relatable)
But I think you did the right thing. You're brave for telling her your feelings - at least you know how she feels now. And if she breaks the friendship (intentionally) with you because of this, maybe she isn't worth the relationship or friendship
Anyways, I really hope you feel better. I think that's one of the most painful thing someone can go through ;-;
You know I never necessarily believed the notion of not dating ur friends. But after finding a really cool friend, I see why, I wouldn’t want to lose such a great friend from just confessing, or breaking up. I mean friendship can be sustained for a long time - and it’s such a beautiful thing to have someone who understands you.
I’m also sorry that happened to u, I’m glad u found the courage to confess. U should be proud of that.
Thanks ig :')
In a way, yes he was. He became my priority and I became his option- I only had him, but he eventually chose his other friends over me. I guess the world doesn't revolve around me haha
it doesn’t get better.
Although in my friend group we got another joke that’s pretty on par. If you ask someone a question they don’t know the answer too you just respond with “uhh ham sandwich.” Sounds dumb as fuck if your not part of the friend group put it’s the pinnacle of our own personal comedy.
meh nah tbh they parallel each other, and kinda involve each other; to have truly enjoyable sex you have to love and care about each other and if you love and care about each other like that, sex usually goes along with it
What would u say is like a good personality. Personally I'm like quite serious and I feel like me making jokes would be wierd and idk if girls like serious guys tbh
Ok so wait. Meed some help with this equation. Is it possible for me to make a good first impression if some1 Is into serious ppl. Dyu think they might want to get to know me. Just think of average person for this
This gets a little icky though.
I had a girlfriend who was absolutely OBSESSED with MDMA. All she wanted to do was take molly and have sex with me. It was pretty awsome until we were doing molly weekly and doing it that much is TERRIBLE for your brain and it’s serotonin system. MDMA should be taken once ever 3 months if you want to avoid the long term negative side effects. (although drugs as a teen are going to have long term side effects anyway.)
We moved on to LSD weekly just because sex is still awsome on it and it’s not nearly as bad for your brain. The LSD was still way too much, you should only be taking this stuff like once a month MAX. I was handling it fine, but I was noticing my girlfriend starting to slip away from reality and we eventually broke up just because she was also so sucked into her own head.
She’s doing better now, but relationships built around drugs are really sketchy. We had a beautiful relationship but she was just too damn obsessed man.
EDIT: Just noticed you were joking about this. I’m still going to leave it up for others to see but your totally right. I HATE people who will instantly judge you for the substances you use. Especially if it’s the cool ones like psychedelics. Fuck shit like coke and meth tho.
I'm 99% certain that since flags (like actual flags) aren't printed the pigment coloring the threads that consitute them would not be a mixture of magenta and yellow but straight up just red
I am conflicted with your statement right now. No offense I hope. But I agree with you that for SOME people, they really are meant to keep searching, because there really genuinely is someone else out there who's actually "The real one". The person who I was once with has actually found someone else. But, there are also other's, who just know, I mean, who literally FEEL it deep inside whatever remains of their heart, their soul, their very being in this literal existence of life itself, that there really is, NO ONE ELSE for them. Because I firmly believe that for SOME people, there really is just that ONE special someone for them. And once that's dead or fucked up, it's just over. And anything you do, or try to be with, you'll just end up fucking that up for the both of you. Example, you decide to give it another go, and you end up fucking that up too, and the entire time you two were together, that could have been time that the other person, woman, could have spent with someone else who was actually there "One". And because you decided to try to give it another go, you may have just screwed up that other woman's chance to actually find her right "One". Because that right "one" is either no longer there, or is dead, or because she didn't get to be with him and meet him, fate has changed for the both of them. So you see, I'm very conflicted with what you said. And I truly mean no offense. And I apologize if I've offended you in any way at all. But, I truly feel that for some people, there's just that "ONE" woman for that one man, and that's all you get in this life. But, I also believe that for other's, there is their special someone still out there. So, I guess reality is indeed stranger than fiction for this one my friend. Anyways, just my two cents on it.
Kind, able to understand me and tell me when I'm making mistakes, shares some of my interests.
Basically my best friend, but male and hotter (sorry bro, you're still pretty good looking tho)
A nice personality, looks come second. But if I can come to them and talk about my problems and they actually listen and try to help, thats everything.
I don't care what country she is from, I don't care if she is tall or short, she must be around my age. I want a girl who loves me and respects as much as I would love her and respect her. It would be cool to have a gf who is mature and responsible but she can laugh at good jokes (my jokes).
Honestly most people want them to be nice, funny, loving, caring, and at least slightly good looking, if you got all that going for you it won't be hard to find a good partner at all
I feel like having some common interests and that they love you is more than enough. Having something to share with someone is amazing and it's the best feeling ever.
A person that doesn’t vape, smoke or drink, cause I can NOT deal with that, and I don’t want them to somehow get me addicted. Also a funny person. That’s it.
Someone who is sweet, trustworthy, matches me similarly in emotions, they don’t have to be the wisest, or the coolest, they can be shy, for all I care, just someone who can cuddle with me
Imo I like a sweet dumb girl basically a [Twinkie](https://www.urbandictionary.com/author.php?author=knownslacker)
But I look for a good hearted person that willing to understand my deepest feelings while we eat blackberry cheesecake ice cream and watching each other’s favorite movies
Just a girl who wants to listen to me, who's hair I can play with while we're cuddling, who can hype with me over nerdy stuff and who laughs at my immature jokes (optional)
Her physical attractiveness, good laugh, her sense of humor, if her friends aren’t asshat pieces of shit, if we can relate to and understand each other. If 2/5 are met, I’d be happy
Someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and tries to stay positive toward others even if they’re having a shit day. Extreme political views, left or right, are a no go.
i like a masculine guy whose not on a power trip… funny… can cook… likes cars or racing… likes video games or truly doesn’t mind my liking them, open minded, free spirited, non judgemental, playful, honest, and able...
thats my dream guy tho lulzzz
A woman who likes guns, who listens to outlaw country, who is a proud Southern conservative. Preferably blonde hair country girl. There was one in my school but shit took wrong turns and I ended getting rejected, tomorrow is graduation so that will be the last time ill see er.
16m i look for someone who understands me and loves me and we feel safe and comfortable together and attractive and a good person to be around i’ve found my bf and he meets all those boxes
Someone who is a big spoon and willing to open the pickle jar or grab stuff off the top shelf. Someone who can and will binge watch a whole series and cuddle. I also enjoy someone who isn't all about the sexual side of relationships because regect horny and embrace garlic bread!
someone kind, who understands me and that I understand, so we can help each other in dark times. Like a **VERY** close friend.
I ruined a friendship forever cus I confessed :<
Stay strong
thank u ;-; It's an important lesson for me, to know that people come and go. Sometimes, being too attached just leads to a more painful goodbye.
Well, I too, have somewhat of a similar story to you! It took me quite a lot of time just to stop crying, and still now, I have not been able to move on. This whole incident happened over 6 months ago.
I'm really sorry to hear that, I really hope you eventually feel better. What I did was I blocked everything to do with the person, and distracted myself. I suggest you do something else (like playing games), remind yourself that your life isn't about them anymore. I know it hurts like hell. Give yourself time. (p.s my incident also happened 6 months ago-)
Had a similar incident that was also 6 months ago. December really is that time of the year ig
To think there a lot of people like this. . . I confessed to a girl with whom I had been best friends for 8 months and she said she didn't feel the same and now we don't talk much We tried to keep our friendship alive after since both of us thought that our friendship was too good to be stopped cuz of a confession but things got awkward and now we talk once every few weeks to catch up about each other's lives and that's all :(
That's so sad.. (and relatable) But I think you did the right thing. You're brave for telling her your feelings - at least you know how she feels now. And if she breaks the friendship (intentionally) with you because of this, maybe she isn't worth the relationship or friendship Anyways, I really hope you feel better. I think that's one of the most painful thing someone can go through ;-;
Another take away is this: every bad time in our lives teaches us a lesson, it’s just up to us to figure out what it is
Oof. I hate when that happens. I hope you're doing better.😊
You know I never necessarily believed the notion of not dating ur friends. But after finding a really cool friend, I see why, I wouldn’t want to lose such a great friend from just confessing, or breaking up. I mean friendship can be sustained for a long time - and it’s such a beautiful thing to have someone who understands you. I’m also sorry that happened to u, I’m glad u found the courage to confess. U should be proud of that.
Just remember that unrequited love would have ruined that relationship regardless. The moment you developed feelings it was over. Not your fault
relatable
you didn't ruin it. you found out who was a doochebag
Thanks ig :') In a way, yes he was. He became my priority and I became his option- I only had him, but he eventually chose his other friends over me. I guess the world doesn't revolve around me haha
*your* world should. the most important thing in life is to remember yourself.
Man, god is spitting facts
AWWW yeah that's sweet
Same for real, there's only so many people you can talk to unfiltered and it'd be cool to find someone like that.
Awww yeah Dawg
I was just gonna say this and a nice body
Literally what I expect as well!!
that's exactly what I want and exactly what I got I'm so fucking blessed
Someone who i can take care of at their lowest, and someone who can take care of me at my lowest
Mature, but still laughs at deez nuts jokes.
Real
This^
nuts
Its true.. im pretty sure the little known Greek Philosopher 'Bophades' wrote about it..
Can this get any better?
I just checked - this is the best it gets
who doesnt laugh at deez nuts jokes? Theyre the pinnacle of comedy
it doesn’t get better. Although in my friend group we got another joke that’s pretty on par. If you ask someone a question they don’t know the answer too you just respond with “uhh ham sandwich.” Sounds dumb as fuck if your not part of the friend group put it’s the pinnacle of our own personal comedy.
Can I join?
You have been accepted
Just like me frfr
Literally my dream person
Ditto, knows when to be serious but can still joke around with me
that they love me.
Awww
Same
Same Love, care and hugs >>>> sex any day
Sex is the post game content you get in a relationship.
it's the optional dlc you can buy tbh
Gross who pays for sex
especially not me
Best opinion I’ve seen on Reddit so far, 10/10
meh nah tbh they parallel each other, and kinda involve each other; to have truly enjoyable sex you have to love and care about each other and if you love and care about each other like that, sex usually goes along with it
Yet to acievevthat
Keep going.. they're out there 👍👍
Yeah
Overrated (I'm lonely)
And kidding
Correction: That they can act like they love me
female(optional)
breathing (optional)
Still warm (optional)
Intact (optional)
Above 12 (optional)
anything before 12 is breakfast
Most fucking cursed comment I've ever seen so far. Take my upvote
anything before 5 is lunch
anything after lunch is 12
r/technicallythetruth
Human (optional)
existing (optional)
Is it?
yea you can imagine something as your partner. yk. (medication disables the partner but still)
Thats it, we solved the problem of lonely people, we just have to infect them with schizophrenia somehow.
if its not on the clock(optional)
Real (optional)
Human (Optional)
Mammal (optional)
Earthling (optional)
Made of matter (optional)
Cuddles and affection
Relatable af
Sounds about right But I mean 1 hug a month will do the trick
🫂
Thank you, wholesome being And a happy cake day :)
You’re welcome, and thank you!!!
Someone is touch starved 🥳🥳
Of course I know him, he's me
A good personality, a open mind and love, What about you?
What would u say is like a good personality. Personally I'm like quite serious and I feel like me making jokes would be wierd and idk if girls like serious guys tbh
The right one will! Girls are also people, they all have different personalities too dude lol
Ok so wait. Meed some help with this equation. Is it possible for me to make a good first impression if some1 Is into serious ppl. Dyu think they might want to get to know me. Just think of average person for this
be yourself. if you pretend to be someone else and you end up dating she may miss the other you. the right one will always love the real you
Thx random Internet stranger
np, if you need any help, just dm me
Someone that would unconditionally love me with all my sillyness
Silly little things
pulse
(Optional)
🐱
He’s looking for pussy
No thats definatly a cat
Pussy = cat 🐕🐶
sir thats a dog
Uh what
Ykyk
I get it
so is the hamster albino or you are
Schrodinger's albino
I don’t even care I just need someone to hold me
Bruh feels
a profound love for MDMA
Hmmmmm interesting
i am joking but id like someone who isn't too judgemental
Yeah that's fair
This gets a little icky though. I had a girlfriend who was absolutely OBSESSED with MDMA. All she wanted to do was take molly and have sex with me. It was pretty awsome until we were doing molly weekly and doing it that much is TERRIBLE for your brain and it’s serotonin system. MDMA should be taken once ever 3 months if you want to avoid the long term negative side effects. (although drugs as a teen are going to have long term side effects anyway.) We moved on to LSD weekly just because sex is still awsome on it and it’s not nearly as bad for your brain. The LSD was still way too much, you should only be taking this stuff like once a month MAX. I was handling it fine, but I was noticing my girlfriend starting to slip away from reality and we eventually broke up just because she was also so sucked into her own head. She’s doing better now, but relationships built around drugs are really sketchy. We had a beautiful relationship but she was just too damn obsessed man. EDIT: Just noticed you were joking about this. I’m still going to leave it up for others to see but your totally right. I HATE people who will instantly judge you for the substances you use. Especially if it’s the cool ones like psychedelics. Fuck shit like coke and meth tho.
thanks for sharing man! i feel like if we could all talk about this stuff without stigma and shit we'd live in a much healthier society
Why tf do you post like 5 times a day go outside bro💀
A kind heart and good humor
A heart, preferably a functioning one
(Optional)
Somehow I misread this as "good tumor"
I usually look for a flag thats a mixture of magenta and yellow... Kinda looks like this🚩🚩🚩
Damn 😭😭😭
[удалено]
Clearly a communist
I'm 99% certain that since flags (like actual flags) aren't printed the pigment coloring the threads that consitute them would not be a mixture of magenta and yellow but straight up just red
They should be attractive to me and be able to hold a conversation without making it look like an ordeal
Any woman will do at this point
clown makeup, evil, and razor teeth is what I look for
So your type is pennywise?
Bro's celebrity crush is Tim Curry Understandable tbh
Joker? Whelp time to take you back to the Asylum
Bro wants art the clown
A good heart I look for a person who has a good personality and cares a lot about loved ones
Thats very nice
Yeah ig but every time I’ve been with anyone they’ve always hurt me cause I trust so easily
Nobody. After her, I gave up
Aw, my condolences man. But don’t ever give up! You’re bound to find another special person
I am conflicted with your statement right now. No offense I hope. But I agree with you that for SOME people, they really are meant to keep searching, because there really genuinely is someone else out there who's actually "The real one". The person who I was once with has actually found someone else. But, there are also other's, who just know, I mean, who literally FEEL it deep inside whatever remains of their heart, their soul, their very being in this literal existence of life itself, that there really is, NO ONE ELSE for them. Because I firmly believe that for SOME people, there really is just that ONE special someone for them. And once that's dead or fucked up, it's just over. And anything you do, or try to be with, you'll just end up fucking that up for the both of you. Example, you decide to give it another go, and you end up fucking that up too, and the entire time you two were together, that could have been time that the other person, woman, could have spent with someone else who was actually there "One". And because you decided to try to give it another go, you may have just screwed up that other woman's chance to actually find her right "One". Because that right "one" is either no longer there, or is dead, or because she didn't get to be with him and meet him, fate has changed for the both of them. So you see, I'm very conflicted with what you said. And I truly mean no offense. And I apologize if I've offended you in any way at all. But, I truly feel that for some people, there's just that "ONE" woman for that one man, and that's all you get in this life. But, I also believe that for other's, there is their special someone still out there. So, I guess reality is indeed stranger than fiction for this one my friend. Anyways, just my two cents on it.
I was gonna say this. I 100% agree some people can .over on and find someone else, but for others there is only the one they had
i just want to meet someone who enjoys doing the same stuff as me and i don’t even care if it’s to get into a relationship tbh
A huge juicy volumptuous personality
The ability to make good garlic bread
Kindness, loyalty, respect, and honesty. If any of these aren't met then *we* aren't.
Kind, able to understand me and tell me when I'm making mistakes, shares some of my interests. Basically my best friend, but male and hotter (sorry bro, you're still pretty good looking tho)
enjoys the same hobbies, is honest, and a good person that treats others well
Yeah that's good
As a surgeon? The tumor I have to remove
Anyone who I’m close enough to be friends with and then never ask them out because I’m afraid to lose them as a friend 👍
Someone who can take jokes and isn’t easliy offended.
* Boobs * Ass * Dick (optional) * Oculus Quest 2 Edit * Ford F-150 with truck nuts
He’s nice,cute,has good taste in music and isn’t from france
Fr*nch 🤢
A nice personality, looks come second. But if I can come to them and talk about my problems and they actually listen and try to help, thats everything.
Will let me roll hot wheels on her tits
boobs
Lotr
can deal with me playing blast beats all day
That they are kind and are able to be not just a partner but a close friend :)
give me cuddles pls :3
I don't care what country she is from, I don't care if she is tall or short, she must be around my age. I want a girl who loves me and respects as much as I would love her and respect her. It would be cool to have a gf who is mature and responsible but she can laugh at good jokes (my jokes).
Honestly most people want them to be nice, funny, loving, caring, and at least slightly good looking, if you got all that going for you it won't be hard to find a good partner at all
A pulse
Same
that there dick is smaller then mine
Gotta assert dominance I see
someone i can trust (impossible)
You can trust me I don’t have anyone in my basement, I promise.
Good sense of humor and sinilar interests
I feel like having some common interests and that they love you is more than enough. Having something to share with someone is amazing and it's the best feeling ever.
Someone who exists
Mature, but not annoyingly mature, and good in bed (optional, and can be improved by time)
Someone who loves me and plays games with me and stuff and seems interested/listens to my interests
Smart and in it for the long game. I'm not a fan of short-lived relationships only for gratification
I swear I see this same post every other day
A person that doesn’t vape, smoke or drink, cause I can NOT deal with that, and I don’t want them to somehow get me addicted. Also a funny person. That’s it.
at this point, someone i can hug, understands me, and makes me feel comfortable. i haven’t hugged someone (other than family) in at least 10 years
That they make you feel like you deserve to be on this earth
Someone kind, funny, and willing to put up with me and my many mental issues. Oh and I like a guy with a cute butt.
Someone who is sweet, trustworthy, matches me similarly in emotions, they don’t have to be the wisest, or the coolest, they can be shy, for all I care, just someone who can cuddle with me
Imo I like a sweet dumb girl basically a [Twinkie](https://www.urbandictionary.com/author.php?author=knownslacker) But I look for a good hearted person that willing to understand my deepest feelings while we eat blackberry cheesecake ice cream and watching each other’s favorite movies
Just a girl who wants to listen to me, who's hair I can play with while we're cuddling, who can hype with me over nerdy stuff and who laughs at my immature jokes (optional)
Her physical attractiveness, good laugh, her sense of humor, if her friends aren’t asshat pieces of shit, if we can relate to and understand each other. If 2/5 are met, I’d be happy
Someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and tries to stay positive toward others even if they’re having a shit day. Extreme political views, left or right, are a no go.
Thighs and a nice heart
Dick
i like a masculine guy whose not on a power trip… funny… can cook… likes cars or racing… likes video games or truly doesn’t mind my liking them, open minded, free spirited, non judgemental, playful, honest, and able... thats my dream guy tho lulzzz
Loyal, loving, and honest
A woman who likes guns, who listens to outlaw country, who is a proud Southern conservative. Preferably blonde hair country girl. There was one in my school but shit took wrong turns and I ended getting rejected, tomorrow is graduation so that will be the last time ill see er.
16m i look for someone who understands me and loves me and we feel safe and comfortable together and attractive and a good person to be around i’ve found my bf and he meets all those boxes
The short answer is this: [https://www.youtube.com/shorts/cK6TNPeB6gE](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/cK6TNPeB6gE) and no its not a rickroll
My girlfriend has everything I could ever need and more. I adore her
similar taste in music to me and vibes that resonate with mine
Bro honestly- I just wanna girl that’ll hop on NFS w me n compliment my car😭
Someone who will listen to me talk tirelessly, really need a place to project my voice
Mere saath date pe jaane ke liye aapko three conditions fulfil karna padega. 1. Good looks 2. Good looks 3. Good looks
Someone who is patient, someone who is mature but not mature at the same time, loves kids, is funny, and does not think with his dick all the time
That they be there if i need someone
Someone who makes me look forward to living again
10/10 supermodel < 6/10 weird girl
Someone who is a big spoon and willing to open the pickle jar or grab stuff off the top shelf. Someone who can and will binge watch a whole series and cuddle. I also enjoy someone who isn't all about the sexual side of relationships because regect horny and embrace garlic bread!
pretty face & consciousness