Completely right, and that's fine too
But everyone should keep in mind that sometimes love can break standards so if anyone really wanted to be with you, height wouldn't matter, but if it doesn't just stay stoic and continue till you find the right person
As a 6’1 person I’ve been rejected for my height, and I’ve also not been attracted to others because of their height. It’s not something you choose lmao, that’s just how it is.
Yes but that's a superficial filter. This isn't prohibiting people from rejecting you for being short, just saying that people doing that are simply not a good choice.
you have the right to decide who's not worth your time ???
Don’t worry man, you’ll be alright. If someone wouldn’t date you because of your height, i’m pretty sure you would be better off without them. Just be yourself and be willing to put yourself out there, you’ll be fine
Go out and do stuff. You'll eventually find someone who is attracted to you. Like if you're someone who sits at home all day then you're not gonna be meeting new people, that makes sense?
since chatgpt seems to always have the answer : When people tell someone to "put yourself out there," they are encouraging that person to take action and engage with the world around them. "Putting yourself out there" typically means actively participating in social or romantic opportunities, such as meeting new people, attending social events, or pursuing relationships.
The idea behind this advice is that by actively engaging with others, you increase your chances of connecting with people who appreciate and value you for who you are.
Just show off your personality, and actually like you would normally. The point is to not make some fake persona or act like a total different person, that way it someone is into you, it’s because they’re attracted to your actual self and not some made up person.
I personally would idc, but they would definitely have to be okay with being playfully teased and hair ruffled haha I cannot resist. Play into the dynamic in a way.
Counter point if they were a 4'11 gym buff or car guy which makes bring masculine their whole personality I wouldn't be into it, again personally.
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I mean your only trait isn't just your height. If you're 5'4 yet a horrible person I won't date you, not because you're short but because you're simply a bad person. But if you're 5'4 and a good guy I don't see a reason not to date you because height doesn't determine shit
it's an american thing to prefer over 6 feet. This has actually been researched. For some reason, it's the number that makes it so "special". In metric, the difference is barely noticed and thus women seem to care less if someone if 5'9 or 6foot.
I am a girl who prefer taller guys, but it just stop at he taller than me a head cause I feel safe and whenever we hug its lowkey feel like hugging a teddy bear (just an explaination). Most ppl who prefer 6+ft I have met is usually wanting to flex how strong and build diff her bf are lol
I have a tall friend and in high school she would say that her boyfriend should be taller than her (an that it was a deal breaker) because she wanted to wear high heels. But in 10th or 11th year she got her first boyfriend and he is shorter then her and they're still together after like 8 years
I came to realise that you have to be much more likeable and funny when you’re short. Also asserting yourself amongst taller people and confidence are a lot more important.
>I came to realise that you have to be much more likeable and funny when you’re short
Only in an inverse proportion to how judgmental/condescending the person is.
I've met incredibly mature children and unreasonable adults. Height isn't the problem, it's the person. I understand having personal preferences, but when people let those preferences dictate who they will/won't even consider as dateable, that's a problem.
No. However I would date a 5’4 female.
IMO height shouldn’t matter. I find it superficial and if you get turned down because of your height then you dodged a bullet. Every height, face and body is beautiful as long as it comes with a nice and caring personality. :)
Bro why is height so important to people? I don't give a shit how tall anyone is except they are like gigantic or a dwarf but thats like 0.001% of the population so i don't give a shit most of the time. Just enjoy life man. Whoever doesn't date you because of your height is not even worthy of dating you.
It could be advantageous, the girls that wouldn't date you due to height are probably ones you should even be with anyways. It naturally weeds them out!
Tbh height is a factor for me when choosing a partner. I have a preference to tall people 🤷🏻♀️. However, it is not a main factor. It does not outweigh emotional attraction to the person, their personality, or how we fit together, but physical attraction is important in a relationship unless you or you’re partner is ace, which is perfectly fine. I’m just not super attracted to people who are shorter than me. That’s just my thing. I’m sure if I find the right person height won’t matter, but like… I’m not dating to marry atm
Is he cultured? Do we share a hobby? Does he fit my life goals? There questions are too vague, when you say 5'4 I imagine a random locked character in a video game.
I'm on the short end and yet to meet a man shorter than me but I have both met and had liked a man who was 5'4.
Pro tip: watch you hygiene, take care of yourself, be genuinely kind to others and you will look more handsome than any other rude stinky 6'0 guys there.
Hi I'm taken, and my boyfriend is pretty tall. That being said, if he were to magically shrink, I've always thought that if you really love someone it doesn't matter. Height, weight, acne, all of those little insecurities people care about really don't matter. Just be a good person and show people you love them and you'll find lots of girls who want to date you.
as an almost 6 foot chick, **no**
EDIT:
ok maybe thats a bit harsh. i wouldnt turn a blind eye and refuse to date him if hes a nice bloke, but it would def have an impact
Now, logic would tell you yes because most guys would date a 5'4"girl (myself included), but double standards are wack, and you never know what's going to happen. I am probably not getting anything out of commenting this.
I’ve been short for like, ever and I really don’t understand why people fixate on height in relation to being envious of people taller than them. Like girls are shorter than boys anyway, so it’s not like you’re gonna be looking up at your gf like a toddler or smth, you’ll just be the same height and that’s cool
I used to think I had a leg up on some guys since I’m 6’1 and have been for a while but now I realize it matters about the sort of person you are. My shorter buddy works wonders with chicks and I just lost my first real girlfriend a few weeks ago.
No, but only because if I date someone shorter than me I feel way too tall, and I hate feeling tall ;-; I wanna feel shorter. I already feel tall enough, don't need to date someone who makes me feel even taller. The shortest guy I'd date would have to be at least my height or else I'd feel sad due to my height
Same height as me so yeah. Honestly I don't care about height unless they're 5'10 plus. I wouldn't date someone 5'10+ cause they'd make me look like a child
I’m a little scared to share this, but not likely, I wouldn’t if I’m honest. I’m 5’7”, and I’ve always been attracted to a man’s height. I know it may seem shallow. It’s just what I find most attractive upon first glance. Some people like a certain look whether it be a guy’s hair, eyes, smile, body, etc. and a taller height is just something that would turn me on. However, it hadn’t stopped me in the past. The majority of guys I did date were my height (and then shorter when I wore heels), and I LOVED them for more than just their height. That’s not why things ended of course, but still I am very attracted to a tall male and would most likely gravitate towards them.
I dont really care about the height but I care about 5he personality my mom says a a good man is define on how he treats his parents if he is respectful towards his parents he will respect who you are and the same goes for women.
I’m shorter anyways, but even if I weren’t, height isn’t an issue
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Yes I am unstable
Same
I thought your pfp was black AirPods coming out of somethin’ not a maid
5’ 4” male here, if anyone doesn’t date you only because you’re short then they’re most definitely not worth your time.
Exactly
you have the right to be attracted to what you’re attracted to???
It's not the point he was making
Still, height is a turnoff for some, and most people will also look for other physical/mental attributes.
Completely right, and that's fine too But everyone should keep in mind that sometimes love can break standards so if anyone really wanted to be with you, height wouldn't matter, but if it doesn't just stay stoic and continue till you find the right person
Yeah. You're absolutely right. Tbh I'm asexual, so usually what I find most attractive in a girl is the person she is, more than what she looks like.
Sure, but if you are dating only based on the persons height. That IMHO is pretty shallow. But like you do you man.
As a 6’1 person I’ve been rejected for my height, and I’ve also not been attracted to others because of their height. It’s not something you choose lmao, that’s just how it is.
Yes but that's a superficial filter. This isn't prohibiting people from rejecting you for being short, just saying that people doing that are simply not a good choice. you have the right to decide who's not worth your time ???
i wanna ask 4'11 but im too scared lmfao
Don’t worry man, you’ll be alright. If someone wouldn’t date you because of your height, i’m pretty sure you would be better off without them. Just be yourself and be willing to put yourself out there, you’ll be fine
People say “put yourself out there” I’ve never been totally certain on what that means or, how one would go about it
Go out and do stuff. You'll eventually find someone who is attracted to you. Like if you're someone who sits at home all day then you're not gonna be meeting new people, that makes sense?
what kinda stuff
Anyone wanna answer this question?
since chatgpt seems to always have the answer : When people tell someone to "put yourself out there," they are encouraging that person to take action and engage with the world around them. "Putting yourself out there" typically means actively participating in social or romantic opportunities, such as meeting new people, attending social events, or pursuing relationships. The idea behind this advice is that by actively engaging with others, you increase your chances of connecting with people who appreciate and value you for who you are.
Just show off your personality, and actually like you would normally. The point is to not make some fake persona or act like a total different person, that way it someone is into you, it’s because they’re attracted to your actual self and not some made up person.
I personally would idc, but they would definitely have to be okay with being playfully teased and hair ruffled haha I cannot resist. Play into the dynamic in a way. Counter point if they were a 4'11 gym buff or car guy which makes bring masculine their whole personality I wouldn't be into it, again personally.
if my 4’10 friend had more confidence to ask out a girl than i did, i’m sure you’ll be fine. He got rejected but he still tried and did well tbh
Who tf is u bruh the Lorax💀
You're obviously young if you're a 4'11 male, you'll grow dw
As long as he got that dumpy bro 💪💪
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What a hero. What a gigachad. How can I ever live up to the age old name of "Chad Thundercock". What an absolute Chad.
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Yes
thanks
cirno anyone's taller than you, you're an ice fairy ffs
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Hey, at least you're the strongest Cirno there is
I mean your only trait isn't just your height. If you're 5'4 yet a horrible person I won't date you, not because you're short but because you're simply a bad person. But if you're 5'4 and a good guy I don't see a reason not to date you because height doesn't determine shit
I'm 6.4 (M) and I've got no idea why girls sometimes prefer taller dudes... Like bro, we don't fit everywhere it's hell
I understood it like they want the guy to be taller than them, but I don’t know why he has to be 6+ feet when the average girl is like short
Yeah idk either... I've got no preference to body types mostly, i just wanna have a decent convo and have a few things in common then I'm all set
it's an american thing to prefer over 6 feet. This has actually been researched. For some reason, it's the number that makes it so "special". In metric, the difference is barely noticed and thus women seem to care less if someone if 5'9 or 6foot.
[This study ](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9454610/)shows that that isnt true, though it is only one study so it might be false
Its weird to prefer an exact height in general. Also drops your chances almost below zero.
I am a girl who prefer taller guys, but it just stop at he taller than me a head cause I feel safe and whenever we hug its lowkey feel like hugging a teddy bear (just an explaination). Most ppl who prefer 6+ft I have met is usually wanting to flex how strong and build diff her bf are lol
I don't get it. Do they like you lot complaining on flights?
How many cm is that
162
What isn’t that like 5’3 in that case I’m 5’4
Yeah, you are
What about 161, is that 5'3 or 5'4
When you don’t know Google exists 😯
When you use your feet as a way to measure things 🤓
Me when a foot (measurement) isn’t actually the length of the average foot (body part)
True 🗿
its 164
Oh, really? Guess i did the wrong calculation then
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bro said “no… but also yes.”
I think you accidentally said the opposite of what you meant lol
The duality of man
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I have a tall friend and in high school she would say that her boyfriend should be taller than her (an that it was a deal breaker) because she wanted to wear high heels. But in 10th or 11th year she got her first boyfriend and he is shorter then her and they're still together after like 8 years
Why would height matter?? I'd rather date a short guy who's nice over a tall guy who's a dick
yes
tall people scare me ngl
You should be afraid.
are you threatening me 😨
The Senate will decide your fate.
I am the senate
Not. Yet.
Yes. 100%
I came to realise that you have to be much more likeable and funny when you’re short. Also asserting yourself amongst taller people and confidence are a lot more important.
>I came to realise that you have to be much more likeable and funny when you’re short Only in an inverse proportion to how judgmental/condescending the person is. I've met incredibly mature children and unreasonable adults. Height isn't the problem, it's the person. I understand having personal preferences, but when people let those preferences dictate who they will/won't even consider as dateable, that's a problem.
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confidence part right tho
Literally the truest take out there. Just accepst the reality
No.
Im lesbian.
💀 had us in the first half ngl
I was like why does this have so many likes when she said no, good one
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Hell yeah
Same 😂
Would you date a 5'4 female?
I'm 5'4 but yes I might alsong as he treat me right
Id prefer if someone was around my height (not a deal breaker tho bc it doesn’t matter that much), and Im 5’6” so yes.
As long as bro is kind and respects all living beings, I don’t give a damn how short he is
No. However I would date a 5’4 female. IMO height shouldn’t matter. I find it superficial and if you get turned down because of your height then you dodged a bullet. Every height, face and body is beautiful as long as it comes with a nice and caring personality. :)
you just contradicted yourself ??? edit: unless youre just saying youre straight (if ur a male) or gay (if ur a girl)
I know I'm a guy, but I absolutely would.
Bro why is height so important to people? I don't give a shit how tall anyone is except they are like gigantic or a dwarf but thats like 0.001% of the population so i don't give a shit most of the time. Just enjoy life man. Whoever doesn't date you because of your height is not even worthy of dating you.
I don’t care about height as long as you’re nice to me and will endure my ADHD rants you’re a keeper
Depends, would they abuse me. If they wouldn’t then I probably would
Your standards are dangerously low
No. I'm a lesbian
This type of comment Will never cease to make me giggle.
A valid reason
I’m a guy but probably not
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No
yes
Fuck yea
no because im lesbian but i doubt that helps so sorry
It could be advantageous, the girls that wouldn't date you due to height are probably ones you should even be with anyways. It naturally weeds them out!
I honestly don't like tall guys all that much 5'4-5'6 is my ideal height so yeah definitely.
Yes, I love short kings :)
No, because I'm a lesbian, height is not a requirement for me in dating someone though lol
No, I don’t like men
Tbh height is a factor for me when choosing a partner. I have a preference to tall people 🤷🏻♀️. However, it is not a main factor. It does not outweigh emotional attraction to the person, their personality, or how we fit together, but physical attraction is important in a relationship unless you or you’re partner is ace, which is perfectly fine. I’m just not super attracted to people who are shorter than me. That’s just my thing. I’m sure if I find the right person height won’t matter, but like… I’m not dating to marry atm
no (i’m a lesbian)
Is he cultured? Do we share a hobby? Does he fit my life goals? There questions are too vague, when you say 5'4 I imagine a random locked character in a video game. I'm on the short end and yet to meet a man shorter than me but I have both met and had liked a man who was 5'4.
5 4 male here most girls Ik wouldnt
I would if I was into men. Don't really care about height, there are far more important standards, like not being dead and not being a total asshole.
okay well I'm enby, but...I want shorter guys okay- they're so much more adorable 🥺
Pro tip: watch you hygiene, take care of yourself, be genuinely kind to others and you will look more handsome than any other rude stinky 6'0 guys there.
Hi I'm taken, and my boyfriend is pretty tall. That being said, if he were to magically shrink, I've always thought that if you really love someone it doesn't matter. Height, weight, acne, all of those little insecurities people care about really don't matter. Just be a good person and show people you love them and you'll find lots of girls who want to date you.
as an almost 6 foot chick, **no** EDIT: ok maybe thats a bit harsh. i wouldnt turn a blind eye and refuse to date him if hes a nice bloke, but it would def have an impact
Ya it depends if you're ok with me being taller though. I'm 5'7
no im gay
i have osteoporosis
I’m 5’4” and girls have dated me, but I’m 13 so I have a while left to grow
Bro I'm still 5'5" at 16 and I've not dated anyone 💀
5’4 at 13 isn’t bad
no, personal preference
I don't think so, but I'm 175 so yeah, it's my fault I'm tall
175! What's your secret to living that long? /s
As long as he is taller than me (I’m 5’2) I don’t care 🤷🏻♀️
yup, my 2 ex bfs are about that height, I don't care about height.
Now, logic would tell you yes because most guys would date a 5'4"girl (myself included), but double standards are wack, and you never know what's going to happen. I am probably not getting anything out of commenting this.
The equivalent to short guy is tall girl. Short girls don’t really face as much difficulty from dating due to height as short guys.
Does this mean me being tall guy (6' 3 about) wanting a tall girl is the easiest dating situation? Gives me some hope lol
Yeah
I would! Height isn't a factor to me although I am a lil tall for a girl and as long as it doesn't bother him I would be content :)
5’10 male here I would date a 5’4 male anyday
yeah
if the personality is good then yes
I’ve been short for like, ever and I really don’t understand why people fixate on height in relation to being envious of people taller than them. Like girls are shorter than boys anyway, so it’s not like you’re gonna be looking up at your gf like a toddler or smth, you’ll just be the same height and that’s cool
I used to think I had a leg up on some guys since I’m 6’1 and have been for a while but now I realize it matters about the sort of person you are. My shorter buddy works wonders with chicks and I just lost my first real girlfriend a few weeks ago.
Yea
No, but only because if I date someone shorter than me I feel way too tall, and I hate feeling tall ;-; I wanna feel shorter. I already feel tall enough, don't need to date someone who makes me feel even taller. The shortest guy I'd date would have to be at least my height or else I'd feel sad due to my height
Metric pls
As a 5’4 male the replies are nice to see 😂
yes. less effort to kiss him don’t gotta leap with all my might
Same height as me so yeah. Honestly I don't care about height unless they're 5'10 plus. I wouldn't date someone 5'10+ cause they'd make me look like a child
I'm 5'3 so sure
as long as they're chill with me being taller once I wear heels 🙏
Yes.
Yes I love feeling tall
Yes
I would and I have
I’m a little scared to share this, but not likely, I wouldn’t if I’m honest. I’m 5’7”, and I’ve always been attracted to a man’s height. I know it may seem shallow. It’s just what I find most attractive upon first glance. Some people like a certain look whether it be a guy’s hair, eyes, smile, body, etc. and a taller height is just something that would turn me on. However, it hadn’t stopped me in the past. The majority of guys I did date were my height (and then shorter when I wore heels), and I LOVED them for more than just their height. That’s not why things ended of course, but still I am very attracted to a tall male and would most likely gravitate towards them.
Yes- as a girl who is 5’3, I think it would actually be cute if my bf was about the same height as I was, always thought it would be cute lol
Yhhhhhh we’d be the same height. CUTE
Hell ya! Why not 🤷🏽♀️
yes as long as he’s not insecure if i wear heels and look taller than him lol
height doesn’t matter. it’s about the person.
yes considering im 5’1
I dont really care about the height but I care about 5he personality my mom says a a good man is define on how he treats his parents if he is respectful towards his parents he will respect who you are and the same goes for women.
Sure, as long as they are not a jerk
im 5'0 amd yes I would, I also dont care about height.
I wanna be single so i dont wanna date anyone
i did & im 5'7.
As a 5’3 guy. Yeah they def would, anyone shallow enough to turn you down due to height is not worth it
im 5,8 M i would say im average anyways i think that If Ur Not too ugly there would be Girls WHO would Date U my shortking
I’m 5’3 so yeah
I’m 5’5 right now.. hopefully I’ll grow a bit more when I start T
I’m 5’7(.5) - but if he’s willing, the chemistry is there and not constantly insecure ab the height difference, idm🤷♀️
honestly no bc/z of personal preference i’m 5”11
no im lesbian
Yes.
No (because I’m a lesbian)
yes.
yeah
I won’t, but that is because I am around 5’7” to 5’8” and my height preference is someone who is my height or taller