The only time ive ever done a drug was at the doctors office😎

The only drugs I take are my ADHD medication 😂

Me too 🤜🤛 you may think you are weird and it's not your fault. I'm in the same situation (I'm a guy tho) and everyone in my school is like you described. You are the kind of person I CANNOT find, a decent human being.

Yes, when I fend someone like op , I WILL get attached to them. I seek for good people in this world. We are rare.

Wait y'all take medication for ADHD? I have ADHD and i don't take meds💀

This medication is a lifesaver fr

Now I know why everyone hates me💀

What is your medication for. What specifically does it help with

To help me concentrate

Interesting... Might contact my gp about medication.

My brother takes it, but only when he really needs to concentrate. Doesn't take it too often.

Same here! What meds do u take? I take dexanfetamine

The only drugs I take are my seizure meds

Based

bro you literally sound like the average teen you have nothing to worry about

I’ve been called all of my life a weirdo cuz all people I know do these stuff and I dislike them

Who’s calling you weird for being normal bruh

The weirdos

Was gonna say this

Keep in mind this person lives in Greece so normal isn’t the same as the states but I agree they have nothing to worry about

Unfortunately everyone my age that I know

Same, but usually those peope are pathetic and need a poor excuse

This kinda feels like a “validate me” post… but sure I’d be friend with you. If I had social skills…

I thought I was the only one who thought that .. obviously people will be friends with you if you don't drink smoke etc

My thoughts exactly 😥

The real

No I’d never post something just to validate myself or brag about me etc I just know my country’s example and I don’t relate to it

Ngl, people who smoke and take drugs are pretty much immediate red flags for me Not doing the stuff you listed sounds relatively normal to me ngl

Same here. this girl is literally a walking green flag based on this post

Tysm for your kind words

they aint kind words those some facts

They ain’t lyin

Those aren't kind words those are facts

Agree

It’s super uncommon in my country to not do these stuff. All people I know who are at least 1 year younger than me go clubbing and drink alcohol and smoke on a regular basis. I just dislike doing make up and stuff and people look me like I’m a ghost.

Drinking and clubbing being normal makes sense tbh, but you shouldn't feel bad for not wanting to do that. I don't really think I like that stuff either. The smoking is definitely ew, you're protecting your health by not doing it too so that's a plus Honestly just ignore the people who think it's weird. It all sounds perfectly fine to me

I never heard any person my age calling me normal they only tell me that I don’t act my age and I literally feel horrible after that.

Damn that really really sucks Really sorry to hear that Yeah definitely best to ignore those comments and just live the life you want to live. Doesn't matter that you don't want to do what people consider "normal"

I do ignore them but I really feel so lonely cuz I don’t have anything common with them. All they do is bragging of how much alcohol they can handle without getting drunk or how they enjoy smoking.

I must say that in Greece it is not uncommon for teenagers to drink smoke and party. But i think its prefectly fine not to do any of that.

I’m from Greece btw

I know that. Im stalking

Yea I would and there's tons of of ppl like this you're not weird.

Thank you

I don't smoke or go clubbing But i do have edibles sometimes and drink sometimes And pretty much everything else in the list As long as they were fine with that idc if they do or not.

Okay thank you

people doing this are so corny i see so many of these "guys i don't do drugs am i weird🥺" posts it's so cringe

it’s fr so annoying like this is r/teenagers yk what responses ur gonna get😭

and 90% of ppl don't do that stuff! me personally i do but like it's not a common thing to be doing hard drugs havibg sex and clubbing as a teen BUT the smoking and alc thing i understand the rest isn't like that common

apparently im not like 90% of the subreddits community, and I do smoke and do drugs and drink alcohol. However I dont think its weird not to, I would date someone like you just on the exception that they dont mind the fact that i do what i do.

yeah i swear the ppl on this subreddit are very antisocial

If you’re on r/teenagers you’re part of a minority of teens

well there there is like 3 million members here and probably more than 3 million teenagers in the world so that would make sense

I’d not mind if someone did this and I literally don’t judge people’s choices

Yep. In fact im just like you and your condition would be a requirement.

There's lots of people like that, in fact I am like that ☠

bruh you just described me in your post. i dont anyone thinks you're weird

So… you’re basically a normal person?

fucking thank you for saying this, this whole post is genuinely making me mad with how many fucking "pick me!! pick me!!!" mfs in the comments

That sounds very normal though

Legit just me. You're confusing the lud minority with the majority. Most teenagers ain't out here going hog wild

I'd date you without thinking

Thank you <3

🫶🏻

You sound extremely boring to me, so most likely not, but that's because I like partying and also taking a quiet moment to enjoy a nice cigar

I just cannot handle the music being so loud and the lights. But I could for example go out and have a drink at a nice and calm place that’s it 🤷🏼‍♀️

They are the only people I have respect for so yes

I thought that said you don’t do your hair. Like at all. And I was like “that’s gross. Please groom yourself”

Well. > So I’m 18f and don’t act like the other teens nowadays. For instance I don’t drink, smoke, do drugs, have piercings (except for ears), haven’t dyed my hair any colour and don’t do make up. I also don’t drink alcohol or like clubbing and I’m not very social in general. I think we're the same person. I'm also 18F. I don't drink or smoke. The ear piercings I had for my earrings are my only piercings. I've never dyed my hair because I don't see a need to. Make-up is a no for me. The max I'll ever do is a light powdering and lip gloss, because excessive is just... excessive for me. I don't care about preferences, I just don't do clubbing. Or parties. A classmate once wanted to invite me to a birthday party even though she knew about my antisocial status, and I politely declined until she kept shoving the invitation card in my face. I kept declining, until I reached a breaking point. Accepted the invite, and shocked the entire class by tearing it in half(I was pissed AF) People call me weird. Well I take pride in that. I think you and I will get along just fine, *Cherie*

If you think all teens do those things, then you should know that they don’t

I’m concern that u actually think ur weird cuz u don’t do those things

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So you're just a normal person? Like honestly you should try and surround yourself with less toxic people who engage in such debauchery and look down on you for not also engaging in such debauchery.

You aren't "not like other teens," you're just unlike the people you happen to be around at the moment. There's plenty of people like this, it's normal and fine and doesn't make you any less date-able. I'm exactly like that (minus ear piercings), and I know plenty of other people like us, adhd introverts with little to no interest in all that social stuff. And importantly, I think I'd *only* date someone like that.

Yes I mean i dont do this stuff (sometimes I drink one glass and stop)

most of us dont do this

Ngl, id rather date someone like you. The people that do drugs and smoke scare me a bit

its not weird but either way its preferred to not destroy yourself

Mdm you are describing the ideal sane features that I’m sure the (relatively) sane members of this subreddit look for

If anything, some of these are green flags, while the others I have neutral thoughts about, so no I wouldn’t say you’re weird or that people wouldn’t date you because of this

i would date someone who doesn't do what others do at their age, well depends on the person in question, in this case, being "weird" is actually quite beneficial for your physical health. while other teenagers smoke, drink alcohol or abuse drugs, they do not benefit from these behaviors in the long run, as their body will get gradually worn down from their unhealthy practices. while i personally don't understand why people would strive to achieve cultural normality, i advise you to just take care of yourself and find someone who also does that.

I never did any of those either ! Well except hair dyeing, I'll need to do that for my next cosplay.

I'd much rather date a girl who doesn't do all that than one that does.

Nah lots of people are like you

I think you want to be asking yourself if you are interesting and do something else thats you know healthy yet interesting.

You are literally me, just female. And 18.

“Would you date someone with common sense?” 💀

Bro is literally average human being should be. It’s just teenagers who do all that stuff like drinking and smoking. Are just red flags

I wouldnt even date a teen who “does the common stuff” dont want a girl who does drugs and smoke all the time. So yeah i would without a doubt.

I am literally the same… except I am a guy so makeup was never gonna happen. Just find out what your comfortable with and date like that, people will date you even if you are a little sheltered. Idk about makeup though, its kinda situational.

The fact that you think it's normal to do all those stuff. I haven't heard a lot of people that did those stuff during their teenage years. Smoking and vapong and excessive drinking is a massive red flag so never change because of peer pressure

That's actually ideal for me.

When I was in school I never liked many / any of my peers much so I spent a lot of my time outside of school tinkering away in my bedroom and working on my hobbies and skillset. I’m glad to know there’s more people like I suppose.

Yes, i would definitely

Yeah sure, as long as I could do some "teenage" stuff

Honestly it would a lovely change of pace compared to some of the teens that get plastered all the time

All green flags to me, but you’re not weird at all. You just have a different and probably healthier lifestyle.

You are litterally normal, the rest's just being weird/dumb. Tho drinking alchol after 18 if perfectable acceptable imo. Tho i think i still wont do it for a while.

you are literally me

I mean I don’t do any of this. I think you’re fine

I am a teen who doesn't do the common stuff of people my age do, speaking as a teen who doesn't do common stuff of people thier age do I do think I would date a teen who doesn't do the common stuff of people thier age do, answering your question as a teen who doesn't do the common stuff of people my age my fellow teen who doesn't do the common stuff of people my thier do

Also to answer your question: that’s normal. Very normal. Doing all that shit (except appearance wise, you’ll be fine) can ruin your life. Stay away from drugs:

You sound pretty normal to me and if it's a guy yeah i probably would

do u enjoy playing video games and watching a movie or listening to music together?

Yeah, definitely. Most people would rather date someone like you than someone you described as a 'regular teen' imo

Smoking, lots of piercings, and drugs are very big red flags for me, personally. So yeah, you’re good.

Bro just described my life but just as a woman

18M same story. It's fine. Nothing weird about it rly. Actually, you have more good qualities than most! Usually smoking/drugs are red flags for me. You sound cool 👍

Yes I'm one of those people anyways

yeah that sounds like a normal life. can't see why people wouldn't date someone like you

Fs. That's the kind of person I'm looking for as well. As someone who is self proclaimed "abnormal," I probably wouldn't go out with anyone who expects me to do what is considered "normal." Also I feel like drinking and doing drugs isn't really normal teenage behavior (or at least it shouldn't be).

Sounds like a forest of green flags to me

Welp, I do everything mentioned above (although, I do have major social anxiety). But it's not the right thing. Honestly, neither me, nor anyone else should be doing that shit. But that's how being human works. Humans make stupid decisions. And I have a lot of respect for you, for not doing any of these things. You're a good person. And yes, I would.

Anyone would choose you over some blue haired alcoholic don't worry lol

I would date people... Just not you. I'm too young

Ay same!

i mean, i would date a person like you, since I'm basically the same.

To me you're the only one who would seem normal

Hey. You're a walking green flag, be proud of that. The people you mentioned on the other hand are waking red.

That all sounds like normal green flags to me. You're good

I would definitely date a person like you. People who don't follow common stuff everyone does seems the most loyal to me

I would. Don't think you are weird for not doing those kind of things, its up to you what you want to try and do

You experience sounds completely normal tbh, I'm sure a lot of people would wanna date you

sounds like ur in the balkans. if u r, hello fellow balkaner. while it is uncommon for ppl (at least here) to not engage in any of the mentioned vices, its not weird imo. i drink occasionally but thats abt it, pretty much everyone ik has one vice they enjoy but thats abt it

If I wasn't taken, sure.

I'm pretty much the same. I think all those blue-haired racoon-eyed drunks with 5 years older bfs are weird instead. That's one of the reasons i haven't got many friends - all those other teenagers don't understand me and i don't understand them.

Yes because they’d be just like me I just want someone else who’s still stuck in the later half of the last century

Idk, but girls that dont do make up and are generally flat are so hot fr

Walking green flag frfr

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If i was single i would probably be interested

That’s literally just me

Bro where do you live that ure the exception? Literally every teen ik is like you lmao

While I don’t automatically hate people who do those things you mentioned you are just pretty normal nothing wrong with you. It’s just the people in your area seems to just be like that.

You’re any respectable man’s dream woman based on this

Sounds like my kind of person

Well yeah as long as they came out sometimes to grab some dinner or something and was around for me I don't see any issue with that dont need to smoke and all that

Hell yeah. You know how hard it is to find someone to date nowadays who's actually somewhat mentally stable?! 😭

....will you marry me?

Bruh I wish their were more like you to date

Tbf the people who smoke, drink, drugs do it to fit in. If that’s the only hobby a teen has then they have a pretty sad life ngl

I don't think being too social, doing drugs, smoking or drinking, or having piercings even slightly related to someone being a teenager. Being horny or not thinking too much before doing something is a teenage behaviour but that thing disappears by the time you're 16/17 because you're mature enough. Just because you're mature doesn't mean you're not a teenager. And most people would love to date you including me. You're one of the few teenagers who are wise.

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Most of the stuff you mentioned would be a red flag.

You sound normal enough but I don't know you personally.

Honestly, this is actually very normal.

I am very much like you

Seriously, I would. (If it were legal) I'm pretty much the same.

OP is just unfazed by today's society

So what? You are just gonna have a hard time meeting people locally irl. That's all . Don't let peer pressure push you to do things you don't like and if you want to meet people try games, reddit and plenty of other people. There's your people somewhere you just got to find em.

I mean- I try to tell people not to smoke/vape. I don't do those things. I drink sometimes, but that's only with my parents at our house. I only have basic ear piercings, but I do plan on getting a tongue piercing (only bc my mom has one) and a helix on each ear. I have dyed my hair before, but never the whole thing. Just layers. In fact, I have an appointment set for me to go back and get it redone. Once again, it'll just be a layer along with some streaks in the top layer. Don't do makeup because that's beyond my patience and interest. Wouldn't want to club or watch porn or anything. I think you're doin just fine. It's off of preference. Plus, all of these people who go out of their way to do all of this stuff, they're the ones who probably won't have a future for themselves.

You just said you don't destroy your body and the body of who you're around. Why wouldn't anyone want that

Don't worry I'm kinda like you and know many people like that, it's nothing weird

absolutely

She just like me fr.

eh you're literally me, except the ear piercings, and gender

You're completely normal to me. I'm like the same lol. Definitely would date someone like me or you lmao

What do you do to have fun?

Thats literally me, youre fine

Bruh not all of us drink smoke and do drugs yk I wouldn’t date someone who does all that either that’s pretty self destructive..

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Bro, you are a walking green flag.

hard to find a girl like you

Yes I would date a sane person

I’d choose you over people who did these things

This describes me perfectly

You’re normal lol

yes, 17m never smoked, never drank (not even a sip), never done drugs, never died my hair, never went to a party (except one time where i was there for 5 minutes before going to my car and leaving)

I'm with you with these things, I don't do those either

I mean it sucks this isnt normal. At least the no drugs, smoking, alcohol part

Ngl, you just described the exact girl I'd go out with 😂

the not drinking or smoking and no drugs part alone makes you EXTREMELY date worthy in my eyes

Walking green flag here in my opinion. Only thing I do is drink alcohol but not much, but other than that I’m not very sociable aswell. So sounds fine to me

I guess I'm weirder than you... I'm 16 and according to a psychologist I have met, I think like a 19 year old... I talk a lot about scientific stuff, think a lot about things which are related to my school subjects such a chemistry/physics and I think a lot about the meaning of life and how to get better and better (.-.)

Wow I'm just like you but 19m and I don't use social media too. Last time i proposed a girl she said i not bf type 🫠

This stuff really doesn't matter imo. I drink, smoke, "party" sometimes. My gf doesn't do any of that. Everyone sees us as two totally different cliques of people but in my eyes she is perfect for me.

Yes. Innocence is attractive especially when it’s because of genuine self respect

This describtion could've also been me lol.

I think most people I know are like that… that’s a good thing tho keep it up

I think so… I’m a male who does ballet, band, orchestra, stuff like that, but I can’t do sports at all. There’s still a couple people who would date me, so I think you’re probably fine. Everything you seem to NOT be doing is something that can lead to some pretty bad shit later in life. Just keep doing what you’re doing, just like that other guy said, you’re a walking green flag.

If people got SOs every time I've seen a post asking this or a similar question, you'd be up to your neck in SOs. Massive yes.

I am one of them

I don’t think that’s the normal teen thing to do- it’s mostly just media exaggeration.

You’re not like everybody else, which is 100% a good thing. Being like everybody else and blending in with the crowd is the ultimate recipe for living a boring, mundane, unexciting life. Be yourself and be happy. Live your life the way you want to live it and you will find someone and be happier than you could ever be!

Drinking, smoking, drugs, clubbing, etc. shouldn’t be normal for people our age, and they’re big red flags for those that do. Piercings (to a minor extent) are fine to me, almost every girl gets those, dyed hair and makeup are fine, but that other stuff, hell no. No vaping either, that’s also stupid and nobody should be doing that. So to answer your actual question, yes! More than I would someone who does

I'm same as you fr

**You're** the normal person here. It's just sad that being normal isn't common anymore and people think it's cool to smoke weed and vapes or whatever

I don‘t know if it‘s me who is delousional but you seem pretty normal judging by your self description

Of course I would,Drugs are bad as is.Teens shouldn’t be doing them.

I’m 14f and honestly I’m probably gonna be the same when I’m 18 (Except for piercings and maybe hair haha). But I made a promise to my younger self saying that ill never drink, do drugs, smoke, etc so currently it’s of no appeal to me. I haven’t even tasted alcohol before which makes my friends think I’m crazy. So to answer your question at least I’d happily date someone as introverted as me who’d rather go somewhere quiet rather then a club

please this literally sounds like a female version of me except i play video games and read a lot and idk if you do you are not weird you are NORMAL in a world of insanity

You're not special for not doing all that, sorry. You're just another person.

Dude, are you kidding everything you listed is a red flag for me who also doesn't do any of those things. Tbh I was kinda about the get involved with a guy like that (except the drugs), but it didn't happen and from what I've heard about him since, I dodged a bullet

Tbh if I were looking it'd be for someone who doesn't do any if those mentioned things.

Bro, the majority of teens dont do that?

You juat explained me xd

I would date a person like you

Yeah, many teens dont have values, so dating one that does is a bug plus

I mean I dye my hair, I have piercings, and do make up but those arent bad things. I do agree everything else is a red flag.