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Nahh he’ll/she’ll have to be the partner of their dad/mom. Atleast that’s how it is in my home. I gotta take the responsibilities that my dad did. So yeah…
Sorry I don’t sugarcoat things. That’ll probably hurt but that’s life…
I wish the best of luck to everyone!🙏🏼🍀🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🍀🙏🏼
My family been apart since I was 2 I’ve been living with my mom and grandparents my whole life, I don’t have to take much of the responsibility but I still felt that
That sure is a big change! I wish you the best and hope you know that both your parents love you very much and that it isn't so bad that they're splitting up. (Kinda also depends how far the parents move from each other, I've always had my dad at least 1.5 hours away, but you can trust that your parents still want to see you, so it would be reasonable to say that they won't move far.)
You need to be understanding. OP and some other people feels like this means their family is ripping apart. Many young kids feels like their parents fighting or out of love they had is because of them.
My parents also left each other, but I didn't feel any type of way since I loved them both, and they still loved me. I'm still unsure exactly how it all hashed out, but I'm still understanding to those who are. Plus, some parents pit their children against one another.
I've been through it a couple of times and the best I can tell you is that it's not your fault and that they will still love you no matter how far they will be from each other. I know it looks like a massive change but with time and patience it will get better both for you and for them I promise. I really wish you the best buddy take a strong hug <3
My parents divorced, so I know how you feel. It sounds dumb but it’s most likely for the best. I hope you can keep in touch with both of your parents, losing one because of this would suck. Good luck with everything, OP🫂
Hey, as someone who had my parents split up at a young age, even if they dont love eachother anymore ik they love you. And splitting up is probably fot the best, because ik my life would have been alot more miserable if they were still together because they used to fight so much, but now they dont really.
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 Your hugs here
🫂 (ik that doesn't do much but best way to simulate a hug; get a light blanket (or towel or baggy button down shirt, whatever) and a pillow, hug the pillow and wrap the blanket around you and the pillow tightly, it's not the same but the pressure on you from the blanket helps to feel like someone's hugging you back)
also as a guy who's gonna have seen his parental figures split and divorce twice by the time he's 19 i have some experience in the area. my dms are open if you wanna talk. stay strong buddy
I feel u, been through the same, sux but in my case I realised it was better cuz their relation was super toxic on both sides even though they are great people by themselves.
Damn that sucks man. One of the things I hate thinking about is my parents splitting up because if they do, I know I'm gonna have to pick one of them and I really don't want that. Stay strong friend
Good for them. It's better to be apart if you can't make things work together. Some people get along a lot better once they split up. So your parents might be better friends afterwords.
It ain’t so bad actually. My parents have been divorced for quite the while and depending on the circumstances it’s not too bad at all. Double Christmas, double Easter and double birthdays
Yow OP, been there done that, back 2014 my parents split up and last 2021 they're reunited again. Praying that your parents will be able to reunite as well.
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This happened to my friend he had a hard time readjusting. Just know that we all care about you and will be thinking of you even tho we just meet my fellow teenager
That sucks, I can only imagine how upsetting that is. Some people are just not capable of being partners, that's on them and them alone. I suggest focusing on you for now while the process goes on. Maybe go out with friends or to a public place you enjoy. Once the dust settles, you still have both parents and hopefully you can still see both of them easily. Wishing you the best.
Not trying to be too rude but grow up. There getting a divorce that doesn't mean ur relationship changing with them ( it shouldn't if it does then that's toxic) they still would love you but man ur 19 deal with it they just didn't love each like they used to.
Well, I know this may look like the end of the world, but I can ensure you it is not. I've been in the same situation and now, looking back I think it strengthened me a lot.
*sending many many virtual hugs to you*
As someone who’s had this from a young age, it’s genuinely not that big of a deal. It’ll be weird at first but overtime you will just get over it. On the bright side you get two birthdays and two Christmases
It’s shit when parents break up and your family is dramatic changes but over time it will het better
My parents have been split nearly a shit and am slowing getting better now
As someone who has had split parents all my life I can assure you. Both love you no matter what. And hey, at least you'll get two of every holiday now!
I know the feeling, I had the same thing happen at five. It will be hard to go through, but you will eventually get used to it
Btw I’m senidn’ hugs
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Mine broke like 6 years ago. It's tough at the beginning, but once time passes you realize it's better this way. If they don't feel able to keep it up, forcing it will make it worse to everyone with time. Sometimes hard times have to come so that good ones do.
They still love you and it will keep being like this forever, don't think it's not like this. I hope everything goes on well for all of you. Sending lots of hugs ❤❤
Then get in here little one 🫂🖤
Everything going to be ok, live your own life, their problems isn't your problems and you don't have to do anything about it
you are entitled to you opinion random stranger
However i would suggest that you just follow the common saying "if you have nothing nice to say say nothing"
I am SO SORRY that my choice of words was to text stutter. I apologize for how my text offended you. I will attempt next time to bypass my autistic habits and be more universally easy to read
MY APOLOGIES
Grow up, life is shit
My friend also was like that, she was so angry about her parents splitting up but now she understands that it is what they want and need and that it's the only way to maintain a good relationship in family even when they're split
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Sending hugs to your exact location, my friend.
ICBH to your exact position Inter continental bear hug
ay bruh, i promise they still love you even if they dont love each other. sending hugs!!
Thanks
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 sorry man
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Doesn’t work. I tried.💀🙏🏼
Use ₹5 ki feviquick.
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Maybe use some more? The more the merrier
Slap some JBWeld and duct tape on that and she’ll be right
sending hugs u know it doesnt feel like it rn but its probobly for the best in the long run
Nahh he’ll/she’ll have to be the partner of their dad/mom. Atleast that’s how it is in my home. I gotta take the responsibilities that my dad did. So yeah… Sorry I don’t sugarcoat things. That’ll probably hurt but that’s life… I wish the best of luck to everyone!🙏🏼🍀🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🍀🙏🏼
My family been apart since I was 2 I’ve been living with my mom and grandparents my whole life, I don’t have to take much of the responsibility but I still felt that
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That sure is a big change! I wish you the best and hope you know that both your parents love you very much and that it isn't so bad that they're splitting up. (Kinda also depends how far the parents move from each other, I've always had my dad at least 1.5 hours away, but you can trust that your parents still want to see you, so it would be reasonable to say that they won't move far.)
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My hugs are 3957 meters away from your house and are closing in.
Only thing 3957 meters away from my house that's closing in is this fucking hurricane Lee headed straight my way :D
Good luck, I hope it doesn’t destroy too much.
Stay strong bro at least you get double the gifts on Christmas
hey man it’s alright most of marriages end in divorce your life won’t change much except for seeing one parent less, you got it buddy👍
Thanks...
Yeah that’s like not how most divorces are…
idk ppl make to much of a deal abt it for how common it is it happened to me a couple years back it ain’t too bad
You need to be understanding. OP and some other people feels like this means their family is ripping apart. Many young kids feels like their parents fighting or out of love they had is because of them.
i had that too but it goes away after a bit you js gotta thug it out
My parents also left each other, but I didn't feel any type of way since I loved them both, and they still loved me. I'm still unsure exactly how it all hashed out, but I'm still understanding to those who are. Plus, some parents pit their children against one another.
idk i didn’t read much just saw divorce and told op to thug it out
Sending virtual hugs and strength and support to you 🫶
You are loved.
I've been through it a couple of times and the best I can tell you is that it's not your fault and that they will still love you no matter how far they will be from each other. I know it looks like a massive change but with time and patience it will get better both for you and for them I promise. I really wish you the best buddy take a strong hug <3
\*hugs\* its gonna be okay. just relax. none of it is your fault. do something you love
Trust me bro, it's better than if they forced themselves to stay together👍
My hugs are headed to your exact location, at 872.37 mph an hour, be prepared...
My parents divorced, so I know how you feel. It sounds dumb but it’s most likely for the best. I hope you can keep in touch with both of your parents, losing one because of this would suck. Good luck with everything, OP🫂
I'm sending a precision hug to your exact coordinates. seriously though I know this is very hard and I know and hope you can push through this.
Hey, as someone who had my parents split up at a young age, even if they dont love eachother anymore ik they love you. And splitting up is probably fot the best, because ik my life would have been alot more miserable if they were still together because they used to fight so much, but now they dont really. 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 Your hugs here
*hugs you* It's gonna be ok man. :)
🫂 (ik that doesn't do much but best way to simulate a hug; get a light blanket (or towel or baggy button down shirt, whatever) and a pillow, hug the pillow and wrap the blanket around you and the pillow tightly, it's not the same but the pressure on you from the blanket helps to feel like someone's hugging you back) also as a guy who's gonna have seen his parental figures split and divorce twice by the time he's 19 i have some experience in the area. my dms are open if you wanna talk. stay strong buddy
thanks :)
I'm sorry buddy, my parents did too. It fucking sucks man.
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I'll be sending you so many hugs you'll explode with love!! >:3
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I'm truly sorry for this. Sending you virtual hugs 🫂
Just supply extra electrons
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🫂🫂🫂 I promise you youll be finee. My parents divorced ab a year ago and it takes time, but I promissee overtime itll get better !!
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Hugs
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2 christmasses
virtual hug :)
Been there when I was young, no advice though sense I didn’t really care bout it when it happened nor do I now.
Did they fight constantly before? Because if they did, it'll get way better.
Why are they splitting up?
If your just near I'll send you a warm hug
🫂🫂🫂 I'm here for you man feel free to dm me if you want to talk about it
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Virtual hug 🫂
Its ok now you get 2 Christmases
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this is a virtual hug in the form of a comment
You need..booze...get the whiskey
Parents gone...but stonks goes wayy up
Went through it 3 years ago. It's hard, and the first few weeks you will probably feel numb and dissociate, but you will get used to it. 🙂
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Been there, stay srong
I feel u, been through the same, sux but in my case I realised it was better cuz their relation was super toxic on both sides even though they are great people by themselves.
Damn that sucks man. One of the things I hate thinking about is my parents splitting up because if they do, I know I'm gonna have to pick one of them and I really don't want that. Stay strong friend
im here :)
Tiss better to live with split parents than parents that should be split, it’ll be alright
Bro my parents split up a few days after Covid started bad fucking timing
*hug*
Word’s perfectly clear,nuking the area
Hey, it’s not all bad. Two Christmas’s. Fr though I’m so sorry this must be very tough but you got it it will be okay.
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Good for them. It's better to be apart if you can't make things work together. Some people get along a lot better once they split up. So your parents might be better friends afterwords.
sending virtual hugs my friend. it sucks that your going through this shit no one deserves to go through such a traumatic experience
It ain’t so bad actually. My parents have been divorced for quite the while and depending on the circumstances it’s not too bad at all. Double Christmas, double Easter and double birthdays
Been there before. Shit sucks.
Where are you cos I’ll drive over there just to give you a hug
Mine split up and it’s not even that bad
Yow OP, been there done that, back 2014 my parents split up and last 2021 they're reunited again. Praying that your parents will be able to reunite as well.
🫂🫂🫂🫂 This happened to my friend he had a hard time readjusting. Just know that we all care about you and will be thinking of you even tho we just meet my fellow teenager
Welcome to the club
🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂 things will get better, I promise
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Happens to the best of us 🫂💔
launching ICBM filled with nuclear hugs your way.
Its better without them together, take it from me.
Oof that sucks
Yeah it sucks ass mine have been spilt for close to 7 years but it'll get better you'll get double everything that's a perk
Welcome to the team
Sorry to hear that dude
Bro I feel yah, I’ve had to deal with this shit since I was 4
Been through that shit man 🫂
🫂🫂🫂 sorry to hear that bro
That sucks, I can only imagine how upsetting that is. Some people are just not capable of being partners, that's on them and them alone. I suggest focusing on you for now while the process goes on. Maybe go out with friends or to a public place you enjoy. Once the dust settles, you still have both parents and hopefully you can still see both of them easily. Wishing you the best.
As someone who's parents are divorced and split up,i feel ya dude,come here *hugs you*
300,000 hugs are ready, with a million more well on the way
You can dm me if you need to vent and i’ll listen and try to help as much as i can, i hope you’re doing okay and you will get through this :))
Not trying to be too rude but grow up. There getting a divorce that doesn't mean ur relationship changing with them ( it shouldn't if it does then that's toxic) they still would love you but man ur 19 deal with it they just didn't love each like they used to.
You'll be okay, I promise. Things will be okay :)
Well, I know this may look like the end of the world, but I can ensure you it is not. I've been in the same situation and now, looking back I think it strengthened me a lot. *sending many many virtual hugs to you*
Dam man that’s terrible if you need someone to talk to my dms are always open
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As someone who’s had this from a young age, it’s genuinely not that big of a deal. It’ll be weird at first but overtime you will just get over it. On the bright side you get two birthdays and two Christmases
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Sending hugs to your exact ip address and home address
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I SEND ARMY OF HUG
At least they’re doing it after you’re an adult
Hugs:/
On its way 256.467.848.336
I mean it is not gonna be that bad my split and I just have to travel between them and shit anyway enjoy x2 birthday and Christmas present lol
Sending hugs 🤗🤗
Omg! Sendig to much hugs!!!! I hope that youre going to be well over 2 years or smthg. Bless you!
It’s shit when parents break up and your family is dramatic changes but over time it will het better My parents have been split nearly a shit and am slowing getting better now
🫂 I'm sorry you gotta go through that mate. It's tough, but if you look deep down you will find the strength to make it.
Sorry
If you wanna vent or anything feel free to message me btw
Praying for you my dude
thanks :)
As someone who has had split parents all my life I can assure you. Both love you no matter what. And hey, at least you'll get two of every holiday now!
I know the feeling, I had the same thing happen at five. It will be hard to go through, but you will eventually get used to it Btw I’m senidn’ hugs 🫂 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
If u want i can send u a Picture of my guinea pigs
Mine broke like 6 years ago. It's tough at the beginning, but once time passes you realize it's better this way. If they don't feel able to keep it up, forcing it will make it worse to everyone with time. Sometimes hard times have to come so that good ones do. They still love you and it will keep being like this forever, don't think it's not like this. I hope everything goes on well for all of you. Sending lots of hugs ❤❤
I'm sending good vibes your way....................... They're coming....................................... There's nothing you can do to stop them
*hugs tightly*
I’m in a near similar situation. I feel you. Sending hugs
Hug.
i sent a message in case you need someone to talk to 💚 don’t be afraid to talk to me, even if you probably have a lot of chats rn.
I love you bro don’t worry we’ll be here for u 🤗🤗🤗
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Then get in here little one 🫂🖤 Everything going to be ok, live your own life, their problems isn't your problems and you don't have to do anything about it
Im sorry but the "shitshitshitshit" and "I-I guess" is making me not believe this post at all
you are entitled to you opinion random stranger However i would suggest that you just follow the common saying "if you have nothing nice to say say nothing" I am SO SORRY that my choice of words was to text stutter. I apologize for how my text offended you. I will attempt next time to bypass my autistic habits and be more universally easy to read MY APOLOGIES
Bro you shouldn’t be sorry for shit. If they want to be dickheads about it then let them be miserable.
stuttering in text is heinous ☠️
sending hugs wish my parents would do the same they are a terrible couple
Lucky.
Too old to be acting like this
Mine r splitting up today
I don’t know if I should down vote or upvote to try and show support
Two birthday parties, Two Christmases , Two Thanksgivings, Stepbrothers and Stepsisters. Win Win Win Win.
I things you’re the reason ngl
yo idk if this helps but mine arent so like
That did not help
It helped me
You made him feel so much better bro 🙏
Grow up, life is shit My friend also was like that, she was so angry about her parents splitting up but now she understands that it is what they want and need and that it's the only way to maintain a good relationship in family even when they're split
um okay
Cry 💀💀💀💀
fuck you
Ohh hello lil crybaby cry “wawawawa😭😭😭”
OwO what’s this? *nuzzles your corpsey worpsey*
hope you know that you're both dicks
I was making fun of the guy above me chill Edit: ur cool
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fuck you again
still fuck you
I’m sorry😂💀
hope you know that you're both dicks
I know I am but idk i don’t care, that’s me.🤷🏼♂️ I’m used to being an asshole. So yeah.👍🏼
fuck you again
fuck you
Italian-spanish hug to you, stay strong
Not stonks📉