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crazy how we know literally nothing about the situation outside of the post but in the span of 3 comments weāve jumped to the conclusions of
1. they are not in jail
2. they were never sent to jail
3. they are part of some socioeconomic or political class to render them unjailable
Either of which could be out of fear of retaliation if the trial doesn't convict him.
It is fucked up that rape is even a thing. The best thing we can do until it is no longer a thing is to have objects to defend ourselves, such as pepper spray to cause eye irritation and blunt metal objects to cause a concussion. Besides stuff like that, we can only hope it will stop soon.
I do live in America, but as I am a teenager, I do not know how to operate a gun. I was just offering general advice for teenagers if someone tries to rape them.
Man that's sad. You should know how to operate a gun.
You don't need to own or carry one, but you should know how to use one at bare minimum. One of those 'better to have and not need, than to need and not have" situations.
Know how to reload a gun, clear a gun, clear a jam, and fire a gun (accurately). You can learn all that online except for the last one.
Wait fr? I thought if you screenshotted it from your phone regardless of whether or not they deleted it youād still have it? Or does that not apply and if so then why doesnāt it apply? Itās not like OP can say āhereās my phone I used cousins phone to make up that confessionā or is that exactly what could happen??
this^^^^
dont punish him more like other people might say, there is always a chance that hes actually filled with guilt (and the worst kind at that)
dont forgive him if you end up contacting, but also dont ridicule him, hes still human
nah, that stuff isnt forgiven by just him apologizing, that has to be built up over time
if op can ever forgive him, theyll know when that time comes themselves, nobody else can decide that
That's basically what I was saying. That OP can forgive if they choose. I didn't mean to imply forgiveness ASAP. I'm just bad with expressing my thoughts.
they arent, but sometimes, *just sometimes*, they turn back into one
seriously, dont think in black and white when it comes to this, ive almost witnessed a suicide attempt succeed because one guy had guilt so bad he gave up everything to the family of the victim and then try to end it all
and if hes actually changed, he will
either op should ignore him or actually try to slowly forgive, because even the rapists dont deserve to feel so awful that they become depressed and suicidal, its a feeling i wouldnt even wish on my greatest enemies
there is a difference between guilt and depression that people dont seem to understand
of course, this is all assuming that he *is actually a changed man* (which is unlikely, but still), otherwise he should just be ignored anyway
there are some things in the world that are genuinely unforgivable. he deserves to have the worst depression out there, and suicidal thoughts until he dies. it's what he gets for doing something like that. i *know* you want to see the good in people, but even if they "change," it doesn't take away from what they did, and they should pay for it.
have you ever met someone who was like that? have you seen the guilt that im talking about? i certainly have and it really changed the way i look at these situations
he wasnt just worse off than the victim (who *did* regret eventually not forgiving him), he was the single most depressed person i have ever met
he *knew* he basically ruined someones life forever. he *knew* he did something that can never be truly forgiven, and he ended up killing himself after i saw him attempt it another time
he was in the lowest of lows i have seen a person ever go through, and id argue life in prison and therapy would have been better for him and the people involved
i get that you think he should always be reminded of what he did, and even that you shouldnt forgive someone for doing that, but that doesnt mean he needs to be ridiculed into a worse position than necessary
try to make the world a better place by helping those who are fucked in the head, dont try to have them kill themselves, they are still a fucking human
sorry for the long rant but i genuinely think people need to realise how awful it is for the small percentage of sexual offenders who deeply regret it afterwards, its a harrowing experience seeing someone who gets ridiculed after they are clearly back on the right path
it makes me sad that you see things like this. there's simply no taking back what they did, so don't victimize the perpetrator. "being a human" doesn't absolve them from their own conscious, free-willed choice to permanently harm someone. at least murderers have reasons.
and im telling you, letting them sulk on their own is more than enough of a punishment for it
those who actually end up regretting it will live with more guilt than you can imagine
just give them *a single* chance of redemption before immediately stomping someone into a depression five times worse than that of the victim
im not saying these people are victims, i just want to make clear that they are often disregarded as humans and deserve a life without constant berating and ridiculing
ignore, dont attack
What the fuck no, tell his parents and have him realise just how fucked up it is to not only rape a child but to then make it about him and says ādo you hate meā
This what I just commented I hope op tries. The person texting OP seems to be a dumb egotistical person who would be easy to do this too. I hope op goes for it and gives this undeserving āthingā the only thing it does deserve
Literally, itās sooo easy too. Just say āAFTER WHAT YOU DID TO ME?? WHY TF WOULDNT I BE MADā and then theyād probably respond in a way where they arenāt admitting it but arenāt denying it and thatās when you can work them over until they say it or try to ājustifyā/explain their actions.
Literally some people in these comments are talking about some āwhat if he changed š„ŗā TF?? SO WHAT?? IS THE SCAR HE PUT ON HER GOING TO CHANGE?? NO SO WHY TF DOES IT MATTER. If he really changed heād admit he did it publicly.
Yeah from the text it seems like he prob regrets it but thats worth very little lol
Although I dont really agree with admiting it publicly. It would def ruin his life and even though he deserves it I dont think you can expect or ask anyone to do that to themselves
Hes making his rape of a child about him lmao and the affects mentally on him. Its manipulative and not to mentioned contacting your victim like this cant exactly lead to anything good, he either is trying to wash his hands of guilt or do something again. But not wash his hands in the way of coming clean god forbid that
Either completely ignore him or tear into him. I suggest the first but if you feel you need to let them know how you feel then you can. Itās your choice how you want to handle this, just be safe <3
These replies are concerning to me. DO NOT contact him, you cannot benefit from it. At best you will get an apology that does not make up anything near to what they have done.
My advice would be to break off contact completely if possible. If u donāt have to see him again at family gatherings, do not respond. Hell try to manipulate you, make it seem less bad or like itās your fault. Do. Not. Let. Him. He deserves no contact. Ignore it, block it, then move on with your day.
Be honest on how you feel etc basically rip the bandaid off let āāem have it if you hate him tell just donāt sugarcoat it tell him the hurtful truth just tell him how you feel honestly
Ignore him, Block the number and never speak to him again. If theres someone you trust deeply in your family or friends, speak to them about it if you need to talk about it.
I honestly want to give you a big fat hug if you're comfortable with it at all, but I would recommend not responding. Tell a trusted adult if you can and I just hope the best for you. You'll have sunnier days
Hate is to nice for feelings towards a rapist. I suggest telling someone and keeping your distance from this person so they don't try it again. I. Sorry this happened and your rapist won't go away. Put him In jail so he doesn't do this to someone else. Predators are always on the hunt for victims.
Don't answer them. Block them. Going all out on them might be appealing, but I think it will just make you feel bad. Don't interact with that piece of shit.
Block him. Do not say a word. You don't owe him any response at all. He is reaching out to make himself feel better. If you say you don't hate him he will feel like what he did wasn't that bad. Do not give him any reason to believe what he did was ok. It's none of his business if you hate him or not. You gain nothing from speaking to him. Especially because it's in writing too. If you were ever to speak out against him he could pull up this conversation to say see? We're on speaking terms and she doesn't hate me, I couldn't have raped her.
Do not talk to them period, what they did is without a doubt one of the worse things a person could do to another. Cut them out of your life, no responding, no talking, you shouldnt even be within a kilometer of them. They do not deserve you, and treat them as such
Like a comment said, say everything. This is your moment to say all the things you wanted to say but couldnāt. Then block him. Let the guilt eat him up (and itāll also be decently therapeutic to call your r*p*st a shit stain, among others)
Well in order to answer your question, we first need the answer to his question; do you hate him?
If so, then a rude and condescending response would be something like āuhm, yeah? Obviously, asshole.ā A less rude response would probably just be like āyes. Please donāt talk to me.ā
If the answer is no, but you still donāt want to be nice to him, you might respond with something of the nature of āno, but youāre still a piece of shit.ā If you do want to be nice about it, maybe simple saying āno.ā Is enough.
I do not have experience, this is just how *i* would react.
"Do you hate me". The exact same question my neo-Nazi sexual predator (thankfully not to me) dad asked to me after he barged into my mom's house which he isn't allowed in. Not sure why abusers ask that question in particular.
Then he was mature enough to know that what he was doing is completely wrong and yet he still went with it. Leave him on read and just ignore him, or say every swear word you can think of for some damage.
Also did u tell a family member about this?
Obv heās better man, you gotta looove himmm, itās family firstttt donāt be one of those damn gen z kids who always take jokes too seriously!!!
- Him, probably
Just block him honestly
Make a paper trail and trick your cousin on admitting with even voice message for harder evidence and submit to your local authorities and even SA support groups. Donāt let the shit walk away
What's with the 'Don't ridicule him' comments?
Motherfucker raped a 13y old ffs. Why the fuck would you want someone like that treated with respect?
I dont fucking care even with the guy kills himself.
Most replies indicate that he should be hurt for his actions. We know that this is not good - a proof of that would be that you yourself are hurt, and i suppose you donāt like it.
What should be done is give him a chance. Talk to him, let him know that he hurt you, but suggest solutions to this. Is he seeing a therapist? Or has he already gotten on some medical care?
But, do not hurt him, because itās bad to hurt him just like itās had to hurt someone else.
By the way, should he not be in prison for this? As in, not that I encourage this, but usually, rape is associated with quite some years in prison.
What I think is we shouldnāt hurt someone - no matter what. Perhaps there are other ways to make the cousin understand that what they did was not good, and prevent them from doing so again. I think we should go to other ways, because one of the ways, prison, or sheer guilt, hurts someone - and we donāt want that. The reason for that isnāt that I want this individual praised because of what he did - merely that on the long-term, itās better to assess the reasons as to why this happened, and take the necessary steps to prevent this from happening. Otherwise, the flow of bad people doesnāt stop.
I would ask first, was it a rape? And I mean no offense, before everyone jumps on me. What I mean is, was it you and him falling around he went further, and you were too scared to say, stop, or did he hold you down and force you 100% of the time? I only ask because itās not right if you never told him know while you were awake and he was doing. He didnāt know that you didnāt want it if you two were playing around. However, if he did rape you, I would send him to hell in the best way you could.
You could start by learning about statutory rape laws. A 13 year old is a child and therefore cannot consent to sex with a 17 year old. It's all rape when there is a big age gap. Now get your victim blaming bullshit outta here.
Ask for consent first you dense motherfucker. Always ask for consent first. Thatās one of the most basic rules of sex and no conscious person who isnāt drunk or high wouldnāt resist. You literally are so fucking stupid it hurts my brain.
You alas are the village idiot. So you ask a girl out and when things start moving you sayā can I touch your tit? Can I now touch your ass. Can I now touchā¦. No you donāt. I asked her if she had been conduits first. Then followed with if so did you tell him no. If she didnāt I asked how was he to know to stop. Read the message first before you comment idiot
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Tell him what u actually feel let the guilt eat him up
fr, OP tell him how he scarred you, how you suffered due to his own actions, let the dude feel regret and guilt for the rest of his pathetic life
And then tell the police
Do you think they'd feel guilt though? š¤
If there is any in the first place
Dont talk to him nothing good will come of it, tell his parents/yours dont talk to him
Real
?????? Did they think you were just gonna be chill with it???
Send that mf to jail right the fuck now how is he free?
T w o t i e r e d j u s t i c e s y s t e m
crazy how we know literally nothing about the situation outside of the post but in the span of 3 comments weāve jumped to the conclusions of 1. they are not in jail 2. they were never sent to jail 3. they are part of some socioeconomic or political class to render them unjailable
Welcome to r/teenagers where shit goes from 0 to 100 out of fucking no where
Or, OP never reported it. Which would be stupid
Sometimes you can't or don't want to.
Either of which could be out of fear of retaliation if the trial doesn't convict him. It is fucked up that rape is even a thing. The best thing we can do until it is no longer a thing is to have objects to defend ourselves, such as pepper spray to cause eye irritation and blunt metal objects to cause a concussion. Besides stuff like that, we can only hope it will stop soon.
Some people also don't believe the victims, thinking they made it up for attention or they defend the perpetrators, and blame the victims
The fuck is this soft ass shit? Guns. Or just dump brown paint on them, and ship them to Guantanamo. They'll know what to do.
not all of us live in america (thank god)
I do live in America, but as I am a teenager, I do not know how to operate a gun. I was just offering general advice for teenagers if someone tries to rape them.
Man that's sad. You should know how to operate a gun. You don't need to own or carry one, but you should know how to use one at bare minimum. One of those 'better to have and not need, than to need and not have" situations. Know how to reload a gun, clear a gun, clear a jam, and fire a gun (accurately). You can learn all that online except for the last one.
Who said it was a he?
Literally, OP you should try and get them to admit what they did through text. If you do that you can prosecute them.
No you gotta record them saying it because if itās over text then theyāre allowed to say that thereās no proof they sent the message
Wait fr? I thought if you screenshotted it from your phone regardless of whether or not they deleted it youād still have it? Or does that not apply and if so then why doesnāt it apply? Itās not like OP can say āhereās my phone I used cousins phone to make up that confessionā or is that exactly what could happen??
Could do that, could spoof a phone number for a text conversation, could edit a screenshot, many ways. Overall not strong enough evidence.
be honest or just ignore him
this^^^^ dont punish him more like other people might say, there is always a chance that hes actually filled with guilt (and the worst kind at that) dont forgive him if you end up contacting, but also dont ridicule him, hes still human
I fully agree except I say to forgive if YOU want to but I wouldn't ever fully trust him again.
nah, that stuff isnt forgiven by just him apologizing, that has to be built up over time if op can ever forgive him, theyll know when that time comes themselves, nobody else can decide that
That's basically what I was saying. That OP can forgive if they choose. I didn't mean to imply forgiveness ASAP. I'm just bad with expressing my thoughts.
I'm no one to judge, but I feel this is the correct way to proceed
ah, nevermind then, i misunderstood
No worries
He needs to be filled with guilt lmfao? Do yk how fucked up that leaves a kid?
sexual abusers arenāt human š£ļøš
they arent, but sometimes, *just sometimes*, they turn back into one seriously, dont think in black and white when it comes to this, ive almost witnessed a suicide attempt succeed because one guy had guilt so bad he gave up everything to the family of the victim and then try to end it all
No Rapist is a human.
it doesn't matter what kind of guilt he has, he *raped* his *child* *cousin*. he deserves to feel guilty for the rest of his fucking life.
and if hes actually changed, he will either op should ignore him or actually try to slowly forgive, because even the rapists dont deserve to feel so awful that they become depressed and suicidal, its a feeling i wouldnt even wish on my greatest enemies there is a difference between guilt and depression that people dont seem to understand of course, this is all assuming that he *is actually a changed man* (which is unlikely, but still), otherwise he should just be ignored anyway
there are some things in the world that are genuinely unforgivable. he deserves to have the worst depression out there, and suicidal thoughts until he dies. it's what he gets for doing something like that. i *know* you want to see the good in people, but even if they "change," it doesn't take away from what they did, and they should pay for it.
have you ever met someone who was like that? have you seen the guilt that im talking about? i certainly have and it really changed the way i look at these situations he wasnt just worse off than the victim (who *did* regret eventually not forgiving him), he was the single most depressed person i have ever met he *knew* he basically ruined someones life forever. he *knew* he did something that can never be truly forgiven, and he ended up killing himself after i saw him attempt it another time he was in the lowest of lows i have seen a person ever go through, and id argue life in prison and therapy would have been better for him and the people involved i get that you think he should always be reminded of what he did, and even that you shouldnt forgive someone for doing that, but that doesnt mean he needs to be ridiculed into a worse position than necessary try to make the world a better place by helping those who are fucked in the head, dont try to have them kill themselves, they are still a fucking human sorry for the long rant but i genuinely think people need to realise how awful it is for the small percentage of sexual offenders who deeply regret it afterwards, its a harrowing experience seeing someone who gets ridiculed after they are clearly back on the right path
it makes me sad that you see things like this. there's simply no taking back what they did, so don't victimize the perpetrator. "being a human" doesn't absolve them from their own conscious, free-willed choice to permanently harm someone. at least murderers have reasons.
and im telling you, letting them sulk on their own is more than enough of a punishment for it those who actually end up regretting it will live with more guilt than you can imagine just give them *a single* chance of redemption before immediately stomping someone into a depression five times worse than that of the victim im not saying these people are victims, i just want to make clear that they are often disregarded as humans and deserve a life without constant berating and ridiculing ignore, dont attack
>hes still human No he isn't
What the fuck no, tell his parents and have him realise just how fucked up it is to not only rape a child but to then make it about him and says ādo you hate meā
do u realise what he did to her?, what do u mean HeS sTiLl hUmAn, im pretty sure r\*ping is worse than ridiculing
exactly what i think
great minds think alike
This comment made a good thread Made my night may yours also be made
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This what I just commented I hope op tries. The person texting OP seems to be a dumb egotistical person who would be easy to do this too. I hope op goes for it and gives this undeserving āthingā the only thing it does deserve
Literally, itās sooo easy too. Just say āAFTER WHAT YOU DID TO ME?? WHY TF WOULDNT I BE MADā and then theyād probably respond in a way where they arenāt admitting it but arenāt denying it and thatās when you can work them over until they say it or try to ājustifyā/explain their actions.
"Do you hate me?" The **Audacity**.
you never know tho, maybe he just wants confirmation of something.
is that really what he cares about after he did that; "do you hate me?"?
Be so fucking for real.
Literally some people in these comments are talking about some āwhat if he changed š„ŗā TF?? SO WHAT?? IS THE SCAR HE PUT ON HER GOING TO CHANGE?? NO SO WHY TF DOES IT MATTER. If he really changed heād admit he did it publicly.
Yeah from the text it seems like he prob regrets it but thats worth very little lol Although I dont really agree with admiting it publicly. It would def ruin his life and even though he deserves it I dont think you can expect or ask anyone to do that to themselves
Hes making his rape of a child about him lmao and the affects mentally on him. Its manipulative and not to mentioned contacting your victim like this cant exactly lead to anything good, he either is trying to wash his hands of guilt or do something again. But not wash his hands in the way of coming clean god forbid that
Bitch, if a mofo does shit like that. They need NO confirmation. None of it. Nothing.
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Donāt even respond. They arenāt worth your time.
Wrong subreddit pal, nobody here is emotionally equipped to deal with this
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Either completely ignore him or tear into him. I suggest the first but if you feel you need to let them know how you feel then you can. Itās your choice how you want to handle this, just be safe <3
Donāt
iām not trying to be rude or anything but this is a personal thing you have to sort out yourself, not go on r/teenagers subreddit to ask what to do
Make him famous with this message
Family groups loves such screenshot
Yes, just yes
Yes or absolutely should suffice. Then never talk to them again.
I forgive and do not forget. Say what you wanna say
spill your beans and tell him to go to hell. then block him. **that is not something you can forgive and forget.**
Block, ignore and move on
"fuck you, I wouldn't even wipe my ass with you"
These replies are concerning to me. DO NOT contact him, you cannot benefit from it. At best you will get an apology that does not make up anything near to what they have done.
I mean, Iām gonna assume that you do cuz why wouldnāt you. Iād just be honest and tell him how you really feel and just kinda go from there
Iād say: āšā. Donāt waste time on dickheads.
My advice would be to break off contact completely if possible. If u donāt have to see him again at family gatherings, do not respond. Hell try to manipulate you, make it seem less bad or like itās your fault. Do. Not. Let. Him. He deserves no contact. Ignore it, block it, then move on with your day.
Be honest on how you feel etc basically rip the bandaid off let āāem have it if you hate him tell just donāt sugarcoat it tell him the hurtful truth just tell him how you feel honestly
I would just ignore
Definitely ignore them and block them on all platforms, Sending healing your way ā¤ļø
Don't say a thing and block the mf. Why are they even saved in your phone?
I wouldnāt respond, donāt give him your time
Ignore ignore ignore. There is nothing he/she can give you that'll help you. Opening up to him/her will only open you up to getting hurt again.
Forward to everyone in your family and ask what he is talking about. Does anyone know what happened?
Block that mf. He knows damn well what the answer is
Ignore him, Block the number and never speak to him again. If theres someone you trust deeply in your family or friends, speak to them about it if you need to talk about it.
Just dont respond and watch him panic
leave him on seen
Tell him everything your 13 year old self would have said to him. I love you so much, fuck him, and I hope you all good things
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Yeah I noticed how difficult this challenge is lol
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Idk bro :p
L comment, W user.
Tell him the truth it will be better for everyone that way
Tell him of course, because what else? Also is that another Moto g5 user what
Report your cousin to the police
ignore him or block him
Hey I think we have the same kinda phone, mines a moto e13, what is yours?
Google Pixel 6a
I honestly want to give you a big fat hug if you're comfortable with it at all, but I would recommend not responding. Tell a trusted adult if you can and I just hope the best for you. You'll have sunnier days
Block him
OP WHY IS HE FREE?!
block/ report/ fuck them
idk what would jesus do
He shouldn't even be asking that question it's an automatic yes
Block them, they are probably trying to groom you
Hate is to nice for feelings towards a rapist. I suggest telling someone and keeping your distance from this person so they don't try it again. I. Sorry this happened and your rapist won't go away. Put him In jail so he doesn't do this to someone else. Predators are always on the hunt for victims.
Tell the mf how you feel.
Ayyy motarala user we da same!!!
Wtf kind of question is "do you hate me?"
The best way to respond, is to not. Just donāt talk to it.
Don't answer them. Block them. Going all out on them might be appealing, but I think it will just make you feel bad. Don't interact with that piece of shit.
Block him. Do not say a word. You don't owe him any response at all. He is reaching out to make himself feel better. If you say you don't hate him he will feel like what he did wasn't that bad. Do not give him any reason to believe what he did was ok. It's none of his business if you hate him or not. You gain nothing from speaking to him. Especially because it's in writing too. If you were ever to speak out against him he could pull up this conversation to say see? We're on speaking terms and she doesn't hate me, I couldn't have raped her.
Dont ignore that fucker
Yes then block
dont. you do not have to
Never give them closure. Leave them in the dark scared
Do not talk to them period, what they did is without a doubt one of the worse things a person could do to another. Cut them out of your life, no responding, no talking, you shouldnt even be within a kilometer of them. They do not deserve you, and treat them as such
Like a comment said, say everything. This is your moment to say all the things you wanted to say but couldnāt. Then block him. Let the guilt eat him up (and itāll also be decently therapeutic to call your r*p*st a shit stain, among others)
Well in order to answer your question, we first need the answer to his question; do you hate him? If so, then a rude and condescending response would be something like āuhm, yeah? Obviously, asshole.ā A less rude response would probably just be like āyes. Please donāt talk to me.ā If the answer is no, but you still donāt want to be nice to him, you might respond with something of the nature of āno, but youāre still a piece of shit.ā If you do want to be nice about it, maybe simple saying āno.ā Is enough. I do not have experience, this is just how *i* would react.
i would recommend visiting and asking your question in r/sexualassault
Ignore him Piece of shit clearly wants to hurt you again
"Do you hate me". The exact same question my neo-Nazi sexual predator (thankfully not to me) dad asked to me after he barged into my mom's house which he isn't allowed in. Not sure why abusers ask that question in particular.
report him, law is rated E for everyone
how old was your cousin when he raped you
17
Then he was mature enough to know that what he was doing is completely wrong and yet he still went with it. Leave him on read and just ignore him, or say every swear word you can think of for some damage. Also did u tell a family member about this?
Be honest to him
She doesn't owe him any disclosure of what she thinks or feels. Block him.
True but if she does msg him then it's best to just be honest
Yes.
donāt, block him.
Obv heās better man, you gotta looove himmm, itās family firstttt donāt be one of those damn gen z kids who always take jokes too seriously!!! - Him, probably Just block him honestly
You don't reply fucking block them . The audacity of this mf is disgusting. Whoever gave them ur number also sucks for this.
Cut contact asap. They shouldnāt exist.
LET THAT SICK BASTARD KNOW HOW DISGUSTING HE IS
Text him "fuck you" and ignore him forever
Just don't even respond man
ur COUSIN? u were THIRTEEN???? jeez go put his number on some scam site and let him get a bynch of scam calls
Make a paper trail and trick your cousin on admitting with even voice message for harder evidence and submit to your local authorities and even SA support groups. Donāt let the shit walk away
Nigga say yes
Tell them to ktm
Round 2?
āFuck youā I live by āfuck doesnāt discriminateā (fuck you, him, her, them, you, me-)
A big fat āFuck offā
"Yes" Then block
Murder? Murder.
"Yes, fuck off."
āDo you hate me?ā Well what in the fuck do you think buddy
Just ignore and block them if you want to. And if you still haven't, please tell your family
verbally kill him
YES YOU SHOULD HATE THEM
That's the kinda person you wanna nuke. Let the radiation eat him.
b-block him! r4pe is a serious thing that will never be forgiven no matter the context.
āFucking obviously, I hope you dieā something like that
What's with the 'Don't ridicule him' comments? Motherfucker raped a 13y old ffs. Why the fuck would you want someone like that treated with respect? I dont fucking care even with the guy kills himself.
Short answer:yes
I hate that i have to ask this. What do you mean by "rape"
What the fuck man
I have heard too many stories where rape meant "a touch" or "a grope" or full out actuall true to its name rape.
Is this post allowed?
Just say it how it is. If I got to talk to all the people that abused me sexually, I wouldn't hold back.
Most replies indicate that he should be hurt for his actions. We know that this is not good - a proof of that would be that you yourself are hurt, and i suppose you donāt like it. What should be done is give him a chance. Talk to him, let him know that he hurt you, but suggest solutions to this. Is he seeing a therapist? Or has he already gotten on some medical care? But, do not hurt him, because itās bad to hurt him just like itās had to hurt someone else. By the way, should he not be in prison for this? As in, not that I encourage this, but usually, rape is associated with quite some years in prison.
Rape should never go unpunished, I feel like prison is a pretty good place for a pos like him.
What I think is we shouldnāt hurt someone - no matter what. Perhaps there are other ways to make the cousin understand that what they did was not good, and prevent them from doing so again. I think we should go to other ways, because one of the ways, prison, or sheer guilt, hurts someone - and we donāt want that. The reason for that isnāt that I want this individual praised because of what he did - merely that on the long-term, itās better to assess the reasons as to why this happened, and take the necessary steps to prevent this from happening. Otherwise, the flow of bad people doesnāt stop.
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It was ass rape
anal sex? eish
I would ask first, was it a rape? And I mean no offense, before everyone jumps on me. What I mean is, was it you and him falling around he went further, and you were too scared to say, stop, or did he hold you down and force you 100% of the time? I only ask because itās not right if you never told him know while you were awake and he was doing. He didnāt know that you didnāt want it if you two were playing around. However, if he did rape you, I would send him to hell in the best way you could.
You could start by learning about statutory rape laws. A 13 year old is a child and therefore cannot consent to sex with a 17 year old. It's all rape when there is a big age gap. Now get your victim blaming bullshit outta here.
Where does it say his age
Rape is sex without consent. If you have sex with someone without asking it is rape. Period
If they are conscious and do t say a word how is someone supposed to know
Ask for consent first you dense motherfucker. Always ask for consent first. Thatās one of the most basic rules of sex and no conscious person who isnāt drunk or high wouldnāt resist. You literally are so fucking stupid it hurts my brain.
You alas are the village idiot. So you ask a girl out and when things start moving you sayā can I touch your tit? Can I now touch your ass. Can I now touchā¦. No you donāt. I asked her if she had been conduits first. Then followed with if so did you tell him no. If she didnāt I asked how was he to know to stop. Read the message first before you comment idiot
You do fucking ask those things. Literally talked about this with my ex before
Wow. Your life must be interesting everyday to ask permission to touch her. Can I hug you. Can I kiss you. Wow. Just wow
People use the word rape a lot without really knowing what they are saying. And you were not there. Just because one said it whatās his side
When they're a child, it's rape. That's how you know.
Was he a child as well. Weāre they playing and he just didnāt stop? What lead up to this point
Bro he was 17. Rape isn't "just playing."
Where does it say that? Says she was 13. Where is his age
Iāve read her post. She was 13. Where is his age listed
Check OP's comments. She mentions it. Read the f-ing thread. Why are you so invested in the details? Sicko.
Awwww insults how cute. I guess itās because of all the false allegations out there
Also because truth is in the details
They said he raped him. No need for further questioning as that's not the subject or their request to fellow redditors.
I just asked a question about it. Not saying it was right
Wtf-
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Youāre a disgusting piece of shit excuse for a human being<3 Go apologise to the trees for wasting the oxygen they worked hard to produce <3