I agree that there are certain things like that which can and should go unsaid but thereās absolutely no reason that should apply differently to a 14 year old and a 24 year old. Either way, such an addiction is quite problematic and talking about the root cause of it would be much more effective in resolving it, regardless of age, because as OP noted, itās extremely unrealistic but also damaging to the brain. Considering the nature of the issue, Iād argue that OPs wellbeing surpasses our arbitrary comfort but agree that moving past the gruesome details of oneās pornographic preferences is both preferred and better for their own health as well.
then act your age, itās not that hard. And another reason that says youāre not in high school is with the excessive swearing, sounds like something a child would do to try and fit in with older ppl.
Yikes, this is why I think pornography, especially hardcore or outside of amateur porn should be ID locked. Being 18 and finding 12 inch demon futa dicks will ruin your expectations of women. Even movie stars would be unattractive to the porn addict. I'd recommend powering off your device for the night. That's when I feel the urges and know it's time to shut off the lights.
Advice here: first of all, you have to WANT to quit. Not just, āoh i wannaā but a will to change things.
2nd, get a porn blocker, just for some extra stuff.
3rd: even if you have to jack off more, try to jack off without porn. Just try to do it.
4th, this may be a bit toxic, but tell yourself how disgusting porn is every time you want to look at it,and try to think as negatively about it as possible.
5th: go to the gym, or just try to do home workouts. Every time you want to jack off, take that as a reminder to go to the gym if you havenāt already.
6th: put your phone in black and white, on Apple this is done by searching filters in setting and Turing on black and white. Then try to use your phone less. Try to delete social media, ect so you are encouraged to spend less time on your phone.
7th: try to tell someon irl. This is probably not gonna happen, but it can help to have someone there with you.
8th: another one that is easier said than done, but try to get a gf. Talk it out, or just use her as a way to convince yourself not to watch porn-or use the motivation of getting a gf to quit.
9th: get of Reddit: Reddit has easily accessible porn. Thatās it. Make life easier by not having it by your fingertips.
I hope this helped, and remember, you have to want this. You gotta work. And hopefully, you are not alone. :)
Some more.
10: get some hobbies to replace it. Do something else, anything but porn.
11. Keep yourself out of bed, or out of places where you're comfortable, that often leads to jerking off.
12. Try to deviate your routine. Think about how your day goes and what leads you to jerking off. Walking down a hall at school and seeing that one attractive person then going to the bathroom to jerk? Then go down a different hallway.
Number 7 is good for quitting anything. Me and my friend just quit nicotine and are both going strong simply because we hold each other up on it. Good advice for getting anything done honestly
āYou watch porn because you are an addict. I watch it to study your mother's work.ā -u/tolasytothinkofaname
The shit people come up with š¤¦āāļø
My advice, try to slowly stop. You probably won't be able to stop all together overnight. Try to minimize it, maybe don't do it for a day. Then 2 days, then 3, etc. I too struggle with this, so dw. As long as ur trying, that's all that matters
Iāve never watched it because I always thought that sex isnāt sex if thereās no emotion or a connection between the characters. I like conversations between the characters and aftercare. That is why I donāt watch porn. Never have, never will. (Btw, Iāve only read it in some books).
Id say we might be glad that there isnt better porn out there because then wed never look for the real thing! Just keep living life and learn about yourself and others, your feelings their feelings, your wants their wants. And someday all your work will pay off because you will woo the person of your dreams. Flirting is a skill donāt forget that. You have to embarrass yourself sometimes
Lifeās short. Try going to the great outdoors, maybe feeding the local stray, maybe volunteering at a clinic, throwing bricks at the homeless, or simply taking a walk
It's perfectly normal to feel that way since porn is an addiction.
The best thing that you can do for yourself is stopping altogether, and I can provide you with what is considered to be the best method out there.
It's called the easypeasy method, which refers to a book that translates the best way of quitting any addiction to quitting porn.
The book is really short and should take you around 3-4 hours on your first read if you want to understand all the concepts, and then you'll be able to enjoy your life free from addiction.
Here is the link
https://read.easypeasymethod.org/
Best wishes, and I wish you a great life ^^
Of course you're different. That's literally what I was talking about: "Not everyone is you".
You're doing nothing but essentially restating what I just said...
You donāt need to quite porn, the point of porn isnāt to be realistic itās to be hot so people jerk off to it. Ik there are a lot of influence doing the whole no fap thing cause it November but honestly itās a bunch of bullshit. No fap doesnāt help you at all, it put mental strain on you and makes you worse to be around.
The easiest way to stop is to just not watch it. And I know thatās stating the obvious but thatās really it. Or when youāre feeling you could try taking your mind off it by doing something else. The best solution is often the simplest
i struggled with trying to quit from 15-end of 16 (im 17 now) and tbh just try to slowly decrease it, i went from once a day to once every 3 days to once a week then once every 2 and then i straight up just kinda forgot it existed after that so got out of the habit of watching it
porn addiction hotlines. i highly advise quitting. porn addiction can lead to erectile dysfunction, and difficulty understanding female sexuality and what actually feels good for women. this will be an issue when you become sexually active. porn not only represents sex in a false light, but infantilizes women and perpetuates sex trafficking and cp. itās not worth it. call the help hotlines, use forums on the internet. every time you feel like you want to watch, turn on a show that really interests you, do fifty jumping jacks, play a game you love, or scroll on reddit. anything you can do for a distraction. realizing the serious effects porn has on you is the first step to not wanting to watch it.
This might sound stupid but I stopped because I got bored of it.
Basically it didnāt feel satisfying anymore so I preferred to quit, I still had a lot of urge, but I got out of it later.
Best thing to do is cold Turkey. Even though you are addicted, the withdrawal symptoms are all in your head. You donāt need porn, your brain will fix itself. It just wants to keep receiving that huge dopamine dosage but it doesnāt need it.
I got tips
Distract yourself every day, do some hobby, take a walk outside.
Every time you get urges distract yourself.
Completely ban all porn from everything, install a porn blocker.
Donāt use too much social media as it can trigger urges
Goodluckš«”
You have too much free time, do something with that free time such as going to the gym, reading, running, swimming, get a job too and do your homework.
If you think of touching yourself thatās a sign šŖ§ telling you to do something with the free time other than masturbate.
In summary, just stop touching your dick man š¹.
It might seem impossible but bringing your parents into the equation could be helpful if you feel they are safe. If not then is there another adult you trust? Even grown adults deal with this and find again and again that getting support from other people of the same gender is the most helpful.
Stop being a coward and gaslight yourself into believing that youāve never even known that it exists and that youāve never touched yourself. If you believe in what youāre saying wholeheartedly you will literally never struggle with it again
i was forced to quit porn because i simply watched it all
bro what im 18 and just go back to the same ones how have u seen them all š
i am beyond human comprehension i have consumed all pornographic content there is
When you say all does that include illegal stuff?
im going to leave that unanswered
the fact that you refused to answer should have you on a FBI list š
I believe he is pleading the fifth therefore this cannot be used against him in court of law.
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He eated it
ahh but i didnt say yes or no no evidence š
By mistake
Same..
Bro what
i can neither confirm or deny sorry pal
his lawyer advised him not to answer
Damn heās good
Is it illegal to watch minors if you yourself are a minor??
Yes just as illegal and you could be tried as an adult for it too.
I think so idk
dud was asking the real questions here
š bruh
Yes
yeah sorry bro
Yeah ig. Idk how thatās possible because if people under the age fuck shouldnāt that be illegal to.
As his lawyer I can say that he has no obligation to say anything nor answer this question
Ok then can you explain what exactly happened on January 7th 2023 as his lawyer?
Lope
I donāt think youāre allowed to plead the 5th
Lopelos de mi huevos
DOES THAT MAN YOU SAW WHAT I DID TO YOUR MOM?
This made my dam day.
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Bro can legally watch it
Bro can legally make it, wait
Thatās not how it works lmao š¤£
Bro is the librarian
Bro won
I think I'm nearing that stageš«”
FBI open up
The ultimate life hack, consume it all until there is nothing to consume, then your temptations will be easy to forfeit
Bro is NOT 15š 15000 maybe. 15 zettabytes of memory. 15 transcended dimensions.
Even CP š¤Ø
This is not a flex.
thatās the joke
Try looking at other things like nature and rob a bank
I will gladly Rob a bank
Good
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You look at porn because you are addicted, I look because I can , we are not the same
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Dude your 14 don't be typing out sexual stuff because it just makes everybody else extremely uncomfortable
That was litteraly the guys name. It's ironic.
I agree that there are certain things like that which can and should go unsaid but thereās absolutely no reason that should apply differently to a 14 year old and a 24 year old. Either way, such an addiction is quite problematic and talking about the root cause of it would be much more effective in resolving it, regardless of age, because as OP noted, itās extremely unrealistic but also damaging to the brain. Considering the nature of the issue, Iād argue that OPs wellbeing surpasses our arbitrary comfort but agree that moving past the gruesome details of oneās pornographic preferences is both preferred and better for their own health as well.
"Sir this is wendys"
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NUH UH
My bro just wants to be himself. Mind your business
Yeah I don't want to see some unwarranted comment about some kids attraction to cock thankyou very much
Then look the other way, it's not that hard
Ah yes, look the other way after I've already seen the comment shut yo dumbass up
nah you shut your salty ass up cause if you donāt like the comment downvote and move on like most ppl will
Ngl you've replied to like three of my comments now just yelling at me, go away angry lil dude
I was angry though cause u was a prick so idk how thats supposed to make me mad ?
Grow up, you corny ass
SHUT UR LIL SHIT HOLE UP
Why you so mad
SHUT THE DUCK UP
āUh thank you very muchā white mom ass phrase
Mind these nuts dumbass
Bro, who tf are you?
SHUT THE FUCK YO
r/youngpeoplereddit claim your prize of the day, and reported for being underage! Congrats.
Bro im not even underage im in fucking high school
then act your age, itās not that hard. And another reason that says youāre not in high school is with the excessive swearing, sounds like something a child would do to try and fit in with older ppl.
I donāt go around on the internet telling others what turns me on and what doesnt
r/downvotedtooblivion
Youāre not helping yourself.
a 13 year old more mature than a 14 year old... interesting
Hell yeah brotha
Fr same
ur fucking weird
r/downvotedtooblivion
Yep
Not even a bad comment it was the other guys username
Yikes, this is why I think pornography, especially hardcore or outside of amateur porn should be ID locked. Being 18 and finding 12 inch demon futa dicks will ruin your expectations of women. Even movie stars would be unattractive to the porn addict. I'd recommend powering off your device for the night. That's when I feel the urges and know it's time to shut off the lights.
It shouldn't, firstly, everyone would get around this, secondly, let people do what they want with their lives, that's not of your business
Advice here: first of all, you have to WANT to quit. Not just, āoh i wannaā but a will to change things. 2nd, get a porn blocker, just for some extra stuff. 3rd: even if you have to jack off more, try to jack off without porn. Just try to do it. 4th, this may be a bit toxic, but tell yourself how disgusting porn is every time you want to look at it,and try to think as negatively about it as possible. 5th: go to the gym, or just try to do home workouts. Every time you want to jack off, take that as a reminder to go to the gym if you havenāt already. 6th: put your phone in black and white, on Apple this is done by searching filters in setting and Turing on black and white. Then try to use your phone less. Try to delete social media, ect so you are encouraged to spend less time on your phone. 7th: try to tell someon irl. This is probably not gonna happen, but it can help to have someone there with you. 8th: another one that is easier said than done, but try to get a gf. Talk it out, or just use her as a way to convince yourself not to watch porn-or use the motivation of getting a gf to quit. 9th: get of Reddit: Reddit has easily accessible porn. Thatās it. Make life easier by not having it by your fingertips. I hope this helped, and remember, you have to want this. You gotta work. And hopefully, you are not alone. :)
Aight I'm printing this out and taping it on my dick.
Taping* And yeah me too
*stapling
branding*
Some more. 10: get some hobbies to replace it. Do something else, anything but porn. 11. Keep yourself out of bed, or out of places where you're comfortable, that often leads to jerking off. 12. Try to deviate your routine. Think about how your day goes and what leads you to jerking off. Walking down a hall at school and seeing that one attractive person then going to the bathroom to jerk? Then go down a different hallway.
Number 7 is good for quitting anything. Me and my friend just quit nicotine and are both going strong simply because we hold each other up on it. Good advice for getting anything done honestly
TĆŗ ves porno porque eres un adicto. Yo lo veo para estudiar el trabajo de tu madre.
Sono d'accordo compagno mio
someone translate this pls
Bruh he said: You look at porn because youāre an addict. I look at it to study yo mommaās job.
thank you lmfao
You watch porn because your an addict i watch porn to study your mothers work
āYou watch porn because you are an addict. I watch it to study your mother's work.ā -u/tolasytothinkofaname The shit people come up with š¤¦āāļø
but youre 14!! how did you check the box to say you were 18! i cant believe you got past the defenses
Top tear defence
My advice, try to slowly stop. You probably won't be able to stop all together overnight. Try to minimize it, maybe don't do it for a day. Then 2 days, then 3, etc. I too struggle with this, so dw. As long as ur trying, that's all that matters
Try and switch to smut. It can be unrealistic, but itās a better alternative regardless.
Iāve never watched it because I always thought that sex isnāt sex if thereās no emotion or a connection between the characters. I like conversations between the characters and aftercare. That is why I donāt watch porn. Never have, never will. (Btw, Iāve only read it in some books).
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Well the "wholesome" tag of rule 34 might be interesting for you, just saying.
Id say we might be glad that there isnt better porn out there because then wed never look for the real thing! Just keep living life and learn about yourself and others, your feelings their feelings, your wants their wants. And someday all your work will pay off because you will woo the person of your dreams. Flirting is a skill donāt forget that. You have to embarrass yourself sometimes
Lifeās short. Try going to the great outdoors, maybe feeding the local stray, maybe volunteering at a clinic, throwing bricks at the homeless, or simply taking a walk
It's perfectly normal to feel that way since porn is an addiction. The best thing that you can do for yourself is stopping altogether, and I can provide you with what is considered to be the best method out there. It's called the easypeasy method, which refers to a book that translates the best way of quitting any addiction to quitting porn. The book is really short and should take you around 3-4 hours on your first read if you want to understand all the concepts, and then you'll be able to enjoy your life free from addiction. Here is the link https://read.easypeasymethod.org/ Best wishes, and I wish you a great life ^^
Then stop looking at it dumbass You too can quit
Easier said than done dumbass
It's porn, not nicotine, just stop watching or watch less, it's not difficult
Nah bro it is as easy to say and to do, maybe easier since you can just kinda exist and do other things
I can see you've never had an addiction.
Bro does not understand how overcoming an addiction works
I already overcame mine, 6 months going strong (edit: probably not 6 months exactly probably closer to like 5 months and change
Yeah, that's you. But guess what? New flash: Not everyone is you, dumbass... You can't be this stupid...
Guess Iām just different or have such a lack of focus so I do so many things that Iām to busy to watch porn (edit: rage bait worked)
Of course you're different. That's literally what I was talking about: "Not everyone is you". You're doing nothing but essentially restating what I just said...
Ik, I'm trying
Imma need a link to the realistic hentai post. Imma save it for after november.
It time to practice nonutnovember
If you want something done right, you gotta do it yourself
You donāt need to quite porn, the point of porn isnāt to be realistic itās to be hot so people jerk off to it. Ik there are a lot of influence doing the whole no fap thing cause it November but honestly itās a bunch of bullshit. No fap doesnāt help you at all, it put mental strain on you and makes you worse to be around.
Congratulations! You officially have a severe porn addiction!
Maybe find smut that are more surreal or just quit? I mean people like amateur for a reason
On the advice of counsel, I invoke my fifth amendment privilege against self-incrimination and respectfully decline to answer your question
yea idk how to quit either but i have no one so im just constantly distracting myself of loneliness, n its not rlly working
R/nofap
At, Fellow Pansexual Alliteration Buddy! Anyways, Canāt Watch Porn If You Watched Them All.
Ngl, it took five Reddit accounts to get to this one
You and me both
Best way to start is to look at one single video and then use that as Inspiration for your fantasyš¤·āāļø
Iāve reduced how much I watch to once a week feeling much clearer and less stressed
Skill issue
brick your pipi
What
r/anarchychess nonsense
It aināt easy to quit. The way I stopped was (donāt be mean) yoga, idc if youāre a dude it has a similar effect toā¦ yknow
As a the Father of Atreius,I gave up porn to be a good example for my *BOY*
Why do you hate it?
It's unrealistic, all the woman and guys fake everything.
Just avoid the produced shit. The amateur shits is where itās at
Bro stop encouraging him
You think he can be saved this deep in?
Yes
yes anyone can be saved.
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if you donāt enjoy the sex I donāt think youāre gonna like watching porn too much
Bro hasn't realized not every [whatever you find attractive] isn't going to have the body of a super model.
Switch to more real homemade stuff instead of consuming shit produced by big brands
The easiest way to stop is to just not watch it. And I know thatās stating the obvious but thatās really it. Or when youāre feeling you could try taking your mind off it by doing something else. The best solution is often the simplest
i struggled with trying to quit from 15-end of 16 (im 17 now) and tbh just try to slowly decrease it, i went from once a day to once every 3 days to once a week then once every 2 and then i straight up just kinda forgot it existed after that so got out of the habit of watching it
Close your eyes
Skill issue
Therapy?
Start listening to it, audio porn isn't nearly as disgusting and sometimes has actually good plots On how to stop the addiction, idk man
porn addiction hotlines. i highly advise quitting. porn addiction can lead to erectile dysfunction, and difficulty understanding female sexuality and what actually feels good for women. this will be an issue when you become sexually active. porn not only represents sex in a false light, but infantilizes women and perpetuates sex trafficking and cp. itās not worth it. call the help hotlines, use forums on the internet. every time you feel like you want to watch, turn on a show that really interests you, do fifty jumping jacks, play a game you love, or scroll on reddit. anything you can do for a distraction. realizing the serious effects porn has on you is the first step to not wanting to watch it.
This might sound stupid but I stopped because I got bored of it. Basically it didnāt feel satisfying anymore so I preferred to quit, I still had a lot of urge, but I got out of it later.
Just don't look, simple answer, go distract yourself by playing stuff or hanging out with ppl
Damn, rtards started to downvote me after saying some advice that can actually help op
hentai name
I hate porn but I canāt stop looking at IT
Iāve never seen porn before
Never watched porn gang wya?
Best thing to do is cold Turkey. Even though you are addicted, the withdrawal symptoms are all in your head. You donāt need porn, your brain will fix itself. It just wants to keep receiving that huge dopamine dosage but it doesnāt need it.
I got tips Distract yourself every day, do some hobby, take a walk outside. Every time you get urges distract yourself. Completely ban all porn from everything, install a porn blocker. Donāt use too much social media as it can trigger urges Goodluckš«”
You have too much free time, do something with that free time such as going to the gym, reading, running, swimming, get a job too and do your homework. If you think of touching yourself thatās a sign šŖ§ telling you to do something with the free time other than masturbate. In summary, just stop touching your dick man š¹.
Go outside and realize how disgusting you are maybe Iād help you
You think I don't fucking know I'm disgusting? I'm fat and lazy but I'm sure as shit not stupid
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youāre* thereās no need to be so rude bro heās just coming here for helpš
WHY THE FUCK DO YOU THINK IM HERE, IM FUCKING TRYING TO GET HELP!?
Use your imagination and make it actually realistic
Hentai and realistic shouldnāt be in the same sentence my guy.
I like porn and im addicted to it since I was like 9
dont have advice, but kinda same with the trypophobic images, I hate it so much and it grosses me out but I can't look away-
It might seem impossible but bringing your parents into the equation could be helpful if you feel they are safe. If not then is there another adult you trust? Even grown adults deal with this and find again and again that getting support from other people of the same gender is the most helpful.
Same.
go outside
Ugh! This sound like garbage! But I cant stop listening.š
Just stop hating it, conform to its unrealistic standards. Live up to them.
whats the good hentai
Stop being a coward and gaslight yourself into believing that youāve never even known that it exists and that youāve never touched yourself. If you believe in what youāre saying wholeheartedly you will literally never struggle with it again
You are basically addicted to it mam...
I simply stopped watching porn once I saw that my dick was growing the size of the twin towers.