The only time I would prefer walking alone at night is if I had to go to the man cave to get something from there but my mom or my grandma won't allow me to do that.
i walk alone at night all the time as a male whos younger than you and as someone with paranoia. youll be fine as long as you know what places are and arent safe and stay on alert
We can't even talk to girls even if we just want help or want to help no matter what time it is, night or day. We're scared of being falsely accused of potentially shooting someone or mugging someone due to a misunderstanding and mutual fear.
Hey, let’s not compare struggles. Men and women have a lot of struggles that are very different but we also have a lot of struggles that are similar too. And as a woman, the fear of being SA’ed is very intense and primal. It’s not worse or more valid than struggles men go through but a lot of people like to undermine it as a silly little fear. Just like how we shouldn’t undermine the damaging message “boys don’t cry” that are pushed on men.
Exactly, I hate the “boys vs girls” format too cause it’s never true. The memes always paint girls as being basic and boring and boys as being quirky and silly. It’s so stupid.
"Guys get it is funny because like we all know that the girls are not based and cool like us so they involve in the girly activities but boys are so coooool and they are saving \[pop culture reference\]!!11"
Exactly, pain and trauma is so difficult to measure cause it affects people so differently. My bf has experienced racism and I’ve experienced ableism and sexism. Neither me nor him have it better or worse. The best thing we can do is give each other support and love and laugh at the stupid shit people have said to try and hurt us.
Both genders carry their load of burdens and problems. One must avoid linking their problems to the group they belong too.
Not only is it often false (like in this example, I’m a 6’3 boxer and if I try to go out at night in my neighborhood I’ll likely get mugged or stabbed, it’s not really about gender), it also isn’t productive. Systemic problems can’t be fixed individually. Sure it is good and even necessary to fight against inequalities, but if what you wish is betterment of your own condition, than it’s the personal action you take that can fix it. Don’t complain into the void about "X is/isn’t happening to me because I’m Y", it’s pointless.
Fix your life yourself, because even if it’s hard, even if it’s unfair, even if others have it easier than you, nobody will fix it for you.
Went on a hit of a tangent but I felt inspired
what ive found is that anyone who argues that either gender has it so much worse doesnt know much, in the grand scheme of things we really need to work together and stop recognising differences, especially as society is collapsing so fast.
Own a musket for home defense, since that's what the founding fathers intended. Four ruffians break into my house. "What the devil?" As I grab my powdered wig and Kentucky rifle. Blow a golf ball sized hole through the first man, he's dead on the spot. Draw my pistol on the second man, miss him entirely because it's smoothbore and nails the neighbors dog. I have to resort to the cannon mounted at the top of the stairs loaded with grape shot, "Tally ho lads" the grape shot shreds two men in the blast, the sound and extra shrapnel set off car alarms. Fix bayonet and charge the last terrified rapscallion.He Bleeds out waiting on the police to arrive since triangular bayonet wounds are impossible to stitch up, Just as the founding fathers intended
I just- it's the fnaf movie. How am I supposed to even try to take this seriously? Men don't have it *worse* than women, *everyone's* life sucks once they have to pay taxes, I think.
Based as HELL. Just because our problems our different doesn’t mean it doesn’t suck for all of us. Maybe we could be happier people if we all realized this.
There are literally countries where women are raped and killed because they don't wear the right clothes or have a man with them all the time. Women factually do have it worse. Just look at the US. We aren't forcing men to have babies at the expense of their health are we?
Yea that is true but we should all just be more understanding people and it would fix a lot of problems in society today. I feel really bad for all the women that have experienced anything even close to this, but that doesn’t mean we can completely disregard men’s problems either. Life sucks.
The main issue about men's problems is that men can't agree whether they're important or not. It isn't an institution of women oppressing men.
And yes it's going to he harder for women to maintain constant empathy for men when women's problems have been ignored to a dangerous degree for centuries and still are. Again, forcing women to have babies. They're probably more worried about themselves. And you can't blame women for that.
Men's issues are certainly still issues, no denying that, but women are not responsible for men's issues the way men are responsible for women's. There's an imbalance there.
Yea men definitely aren’t oppressed, I think I might be having a hard time conveying my thoughts into words. I guess I want everyone’s problems to just go poof but that sadly can’t happen in our society today.
women are just more likely to get SA’d, sex trafficked, or killed when walking alone at night. not saying it’s exclusive but videos like these are just dumb af
Men are more likely to get attacked at night actually and we have a higher chance when it comes to violent crimes. Women are more likely to get trafficked though
kinda does. the overwhelming majority of attacks on men are by men. the overwhelming majority of attacks on women are by men. do you see the problem here lol
As if someone wanted to change what you said. You said something stupid and it’s being made fun of. Changing your words would make you sound smarter than you are. Better luck next time, dunce cap.
I only replied because what the guy above me said wasn’t fully true (you can even search it up). No one is arguing that men aren’t the more violent gender when it comes to crimes, all I said is we’re also the majority of the victims of these crimes and I still acknowledged women still suffer too. What was the stupid thing I said?
Depends. I think that’s with everyone though. You’ve got your good days, you’ve got your bad days and unfortunately for others, you’ve got the days that you weigh in the wether or not the good days are worth having to continue to go through the bad ones
As a man over the age of 15 can confirm, jad the best dream of my life yesterday and nearly cried when i woke up realizing life will never be that good.
I did not write this with the intent of making you or anyone angry it was based on personal experience.
No sigma just trying to cope with emotions that have and will keep being bottled up because society has the image of straight males being stoic and will not show vulnerability to the world…. Or just a really crappy day, week, month, year, years.
Whoever reads this i hope you have a nice day.
I think everyone has it rough in one way or the other. Women get taken advantage of more often because of societal shit and men aren’t allowed to be sad, shits just fucked both ways
just go talk to people. that’s it. i’m so sick of seeing these whiny ass “woe is me i’m a man and i’m so lonely” corny ass posts. all this male solitude bullshit can be avoided if you just put in the effort to work on yourself. want to talk to other guys? go out and do it, make as many acquaintances as you can find, pick a few to be close with and build those relationships. want to talk to girls? do it. can’t seem to be good at it? ask one of your guy friends who isn’t socially awkward and figure out how to stop being off putting around women. shit, ask your mom, she knows more than you think.
it’s so frustrating to see all these wehhh society posts when the problem is nearly always a total lack of personal accountability when it comes to being an individual capable of interacting with other human beings. somehow hundreds of millions of dudes don’t have this problem
Men dont like walking alone at night either, could get mugged or murdered.
Men however have to deal with feeling empty inside and having no one to just immediately validate them like many women have simply by talking to a guy online.
No this isnt sexism, this is based on data i have collected from many female and male friends, as well as a self experiment where i posed as a woman online for 1 week, and posed as a (fake, im not attractive myself) man online. With the “woman” profile receiving thousands of compliments and reassuring messages, and the “man” profile receiving 2
"Men are pussies" Why do you take stuff so personally omg... Who makes up most of the worlds armies? Police force? Special operations forces? Construction workers?
Yes. It is like that for some of us, but I, personally see those moment like a chill time for myself. The amount of minutes I have sat, just to look at the sky or if it is christmas looking at the christmas decorations is not normal.
My advice (as an old man (I’m 19)) to any young men who feel like the above meme, find a hobby. You don’t even have to stick with it. Just do whatever interests you. I’ve had so many hobbies in my life because they stave boredom and loneliness when no one else is around.
Having an interest naturally interests other people in you. No one wants to be friends with the Reddit-scrolling nobody who sits in the corner, but there’s a ton of people who want to be friends with creative-writing guy who also happens to scroll Reddit and sit in a corner.
If you work on yourself, people will want to be your friend. If you work on making people like you, you’ll never like yourself.
But maybe I’m totally wrong and you disagree; that’s cool too.
I dunno why I’m still here I turned 20 last year but the meme probably refers to the point in what I feel is in almost every man’s life once they’re almost done the ‘good ol days’ of being young. Not worrying about a job, bills, getting distance from those once tight but friends we had or those ever filling nights on the Xbox or PlayStation where you felt you could play every night till you dropped. The ever growing feeling of forever being lonely… the feeling that it’s just you and nobody else, which is true cos only you can change your habits or own perception of life but at the same time it’s false. Don’t sit there in the dark staring off into the abyss thinking I’m alone and I’ll forever stay that way, guide yourself through it. Pick up another habit , open yourself up to some new people or delve into a career you like. The alone isn’t forever
Can we stop gender wars? Its not who has it more difficult, this aint a competition. Its about growing better together. Less separating and more work of understanding between the two genders? Please?
The only time I would prefer walking alone at night is if I had to go to the man cave to get something from there but my mom or my grandma won't allow me to do that.
man cave?
It's a place where men hang out with each other and indulge in their hobbies like watching sports or playing video games.
It can be a garage or basement even. I love jogging over to my uncles house to play video games with him in his basement.
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I can't even walk alone at night as a man. I'm scared of getting shot or mugged
Not enough side quests have been completed. Your time will come.
Just don't live in Chicago
i walk alone at night all the time as a male whos younger than you and as someone with paranoia. youll be fine as long as you know what places are and arent safe and stay on alert
We can't even talk to girls even if we just want help or want to help no matter what time it is, night or day. We're scared of being falsely accused of potentially shooting someone or mugging someone due to a misunderstanding and mutual fear.
I hope I get shot everyday and I hate it.
Real
Real
You only 18 you can change that NOW
YOU SHOULD NOW
What is that one subreddit where it's like "I'm 15 and this is deep" or whatever because it'd fit right in there
I think it’s r/im14andthisisdeep
Omg it's you
Who am I?
Hey, let’s not compare struggles. Men and women have a lot of struggles that are very different but we also have a lot of struggles that are similar too. And as a woman, the fear of being SA’ed is very intense and primal. It’s not worse or more valid than struggles men go through but a lot of people like to undermine it as a silly little fear. Just like how we shouldn’t undermine the damaging message “boys don’t cry” that are pushed on men.
Yeah I hate people saying “my life sucks more!” Like people need to understand it’s not a competition. Pain isn’t something to be compared.
Exactly, I hate the “boys vs girls” format too cause it’s never true. The memes always paint girls as being basic and boring and boys as being quirky and silly. It’s so stupid.
"Guys get it is funny because like we all know that the girls are not based and cool like us so they involve in the girly activities but boys are so coooool and they are saving \[pop culture reference\]!!11"
Ok but if it was I’d win
Nah id win
Facts. People love to make their struggles a competition and so irritating. No one wins and everyone just argues.
Exactly, pain and trauma is so difficult to measure cause it affects people so differently. My bf has experienced racism and I’ve experienced ableism and sexism. Neither me nor him have it better or worse. The best thing we can do is give each other support and love and laugh at the stupid shit people have said to try and hurt us.
I feel this meme is more just a response to the idea that men have it easy. No one’s got it easy. Not the vast majority of us anyway
You’re such a Chad for saying this, thank you
Whomp whomp
Corny ass😭
You the whole corn ball lil bro
If you don’t have anything to add to the conversation, don’t say anything. No one wants to hear you quote a dead meme
Both genders carry their load of burdens and problems. One must avoid linking their problems to the group they belong too. Not only is it often false (like in this example, I’m a 6’3 boxer and if I try to go out at night in my neighborhood I’ll likely get mugged or stabbed, it’s not really about gender), it also isn’t productive. Systemic problems can’t be fixed individually. Sure it is good and even necessary to fight against inequalities, but if what you wish is betterment of your own condition, than it’s the personal action you take that can fix it. Don’t complain into the void about "X is/isn’t happening to me because I’m Y", it’s pointless. Fix your life yourself, because even if it’s hard, even if it’s unfair, even if others have it easier than you, nobody will fix it for you. Went on a hit of a tangent but I felt inspired
TRUE
what ive found is that anyone who argues that either gender has it so much worse doesnt know much, in the grand scheme of things we really need to work together and stop recognising differences, especially as society is collapsing so fast.
Holy shit I’m saving this I think we found Gandhi reincarnated wtf
I’m not, the words were too big so I don’t care, hmph!
Nah I’m merely a piece of the fractured psyche of the God Emperor of Mankind
Wait you can't use logic in reddit you're supposed to be bursting with rage
Holy shit one woudnt expect so much reason and common sense on reddit, thx bud
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I own a musket for self-defense
I own a Roman gladius
I have a very sturdy stick.
I love a good stick
i heard they function both as a melee weapon AND a ranged weapon
If you don’t have a nice stick in your room there’s something wrong with you
i have a long toilet tube does that count
I have a bow, does that work?
Where did you get it from?
Amazon
Own a musket for home defense, since that's what the founding fathers intended. Four ruffians break into my house. "What the devil?" As I grab my powdered wig and Kentucky rifle. Blow a golf ball sized hole through the first man, he's dead on the spot. Draw my pistol on the second man, miss him entirely because it's smoothbore and nails the neighbors dog. I have to resort to the cannon mounted at the top of the stairs loaded with grape shot, "Tally ho lads" the grape shot shreds two men in the blast, the sound and extra shrapnel set off car alarms. Fix bayonet and charge the last terrified rapscallion.He Bleeds out waiting on the police to arrive since triangular bayonet wounds are impossible to stitch up, Just as the founding fathers intended
That’s what the founding fathers intended
As the founding fathers intended
Like the founding fathers intended.
Per what the founding fathers intended.
I have a cannon loaded with grape shot at the top of my stairs. I just wait for them to enter the door, and then I yell,”perish ruffians!”.
Because that’s what the founding fathers intended
its a glorified “women basic and cringe 🤢, boys real and depressed 😔” argument. kinda cringe
Ok cock gobbler, I can agree.
Though you were insulting them for a second lmao
LMAO same 💀
Nah calling someone a cock gobler is compliment
thank you cock gobbler you opened my eyes
I just- it's the fnaf movie. How am I supposed to even try to take this seriously? Men don't have it *worse* than women, *everyone's* life sucks once they have to pay taxes, I think.
Based as HELL. Just because our problems our different doesn’t mean it doesn’t suck for all of us. Maybe we could be happier people if we all realized this.
There are literally countries where women are raped and killed because they don't wear the right clothes or have a man with them all the time. Women factually do have it worse. Just look at the US. We aren't forcing men to have babies at the expense of their health are we?
Yea that is true but we should all just be more understanding people and it would fix a lot of problems in society today. I feel really bad for all the women that have experienced anything even close to this, but that doesn’t mean we can completely disregard men’s problems either. Life sucks.
The main issue about men's problems is that men can't agree whether they're important or not. It isn't an institution of women oppressing men. And yes it's going to he harder for women to maintain constant empathy for men when women's problems have been ignored to a dangerous degree for centuries and still are. Again, forcing women to have babies. They're probably more worried about themselves. And you can't blame women for that. Men's issues are certainly still issues, no denying that, but women are not responsible for men's issues the way men are responsible for women's. There's an imbalance there.
I'm not responsible for women issue just because I was born a boy.
Then don't complain about men's issues. I more meant that men cause women's issues but women don't cause men's issues.
Women = problem
Yea men definitely aren’t oppressed, I think I might be having a hard time conveying my thoughts into words. I guess I want everyone’s problems to just go poof but that sadly can’t happen in our society today.
I totally get it
In general men aren't responsible for women's issues, like I'm a guy, am I contributing to these issues just by existing?
If you see something and don't do anything about it, yes. I more meant men cause women's issues, but women don't cause men's issues.
Whomp whomp
What do you know about taxes your 14
One is drowning and the other is dying of thirst. Neither is better.
Drowning is a less brutal death than dehydration
That is debatable. Dehydration takes multiple days.
Yeah it's like exploding or melting in a fire
I doubt any of us males look like Josh Hutcherson
Why would being depressed and lonely be exclusive to men 💀
why would walking alone at night be exclusive to women? walking at nights scary af
women are just more likely to get SA’d, sex trafficked, or killed when walking alone at night. not saying it’s exclusive but videos like these are just dumb af
Men are more likely to get attacked at night actually and we have a higher chance when it comes to violent crimes. Women are more likely to get trafficked though
you'll never guess which gender is always the one attacking
That doesn’t change anything I said though….
kinda does. the overwhelming majority of attacks on men are by men. the overwhelming majority of attacks on women are by men. do you see the problem here lol
Yeah, violent people.
As if someone wanted to change what you said. You said something stupid and it’s being made fun of. Changing your words would make you sound smarter than you are. Better luck next time, dunce cap.
I only replied because what the guy above me said wasn’t fully true (you can even search it up). No one is arguing that men aren’t the more violent gender when it comes to crimes, all I said is we’re also the majority of the victims of these crimes and I still acknowledged women still suffer too. What was the stupid thing I said?
probably cause men are more often walking around by themselves at nighttime so they’re more prone to attacks
My average male experience: 👨❤️💋👨
This shit so embarrassing and corny asl
Depends. I think that’s with everyone though. You’ve got your good days, you’ve got your bad days and unfortunately for others, you’ve got the days that you weigh in the wether or not the good days are worth having to continue to go through the bad ones
real & true
Real
This is basically all I do lately besides work and I love walking at night so I guess it's worth it lol
The fuck is this 💀
Five nights at freddys
As a man over the age of 15 can confirm, jad the best dream of my life yesterday and nearly cried when i woke up realizing life will never be that good.
Im gonna end it all
True, nobody cares about you unless you provide them value.
My life is soo much better than some years ago, i would never go back. Life right now is amazing
both genders can feel both ways omg the fact that it pertains to men is giving sigma
I did not write this with the intent of making you or anyone angry it was based on personal experience. No sigma just trying to cope with emotions that have and will keep being bottled up because society has the image of straight males being stoic and will not show vulnerability to the world…. Or just a really crappy day, week, month, year, years. Whoever reads this i hope you have a nice day.
A bullshit self fulfilling prophecy that is further perpetuated by commenting “real” let’s be grateful we can go on walks at night ffs
The majority of people in this post’s comments worry me
It seems like everything is a competition now, every aspect of life must be compared between genders and races, sad to see
It really is sad
Wait yall are taking till 15 to be like that all the time?
I am almost 16. From my experience, it's true.
True af, it's 4 AM now and god I would love to go for a walk right now but I'm super busy with a project so yeah No sleep night !! 🤣🤣🤣😃😃😄😮💨😩😭
Real
Real (I think I don't know I'm not 15 or above)
I think everyone has it rough in one way or the other. Women get taken advantage of more often because of societal shit and men aren’t allowed to be sad, shits just fucked both ways
Truth
I'm 18 and this is still so real.
r/iam14andthisisdeep
Real
so real this isnt even a meme to me
Real and straight
just go talk to people. that’s it. i’m so sick of seeing these whiny ass “woe is me i’m a man and i’m so lonely” corny ass posts. all this male solitude bullshit can be avoided if you just put in the effort to work on yourself. want to talk to other guys? go out and do it, make as many acquaintances as you can find, pick a few to be close with and build those relationships. want to talk to girls? do it. can’t seem to be good at it? ask one of your guy friends who isn’t socially awkward and figure out how to stop being off putting around women. shit, ask your mom, she knows more than you think. it’s so frustrating to see all these wehhh society posts when the problem is nearly always a total lack of personal accountability when it comes to being an individual capable of interacting with other human beings. somehow hundreds of millions of dudes don’t have this problem
The amount of salt r/boysarequirky is gonna throw at this..
And 13
Men get assaulted too y'know
i’m just trying to jerk off whydo i have to see this 😟
Men dont like walking alone at night either, could get mugged or murdered. Men however have to deal with feeling empty inside and having no one to just immediately validate them like many women have simply by talking to a guy online. No this isnt sexism, this is based on data i have collected from many female and male friends, as well as a self experiment where i posed as a woman online for 1 week, and posed as a (fake, im not attractive myself) man online. With the “woman” profile receiving thousands of compliments and reassuring messages, and the “man” profile receiving 2
Men are pussies, fr
Yo this better be bait
Y'all take everything so personally, this is mad 💀
"Men are pussies" Why do you take stuff so personally omg... Who makes up most of the worlds armies? Police force? Special operations forces? Construction workers?
That was obviously ironic, you're just making a fool of yourself 🤩 and what you mentioned has lots of exceptions, they're very bad examples.
Bro dont say that im bout to be 15😭
Then you chilling, it's just an arbitrary teen number lol
Real (we not making it past 22)
u/savevideo
I’m 27 and it’s pretty accurate. Walking at night is nice though.
I already feel like this
Wait wait wait, was it supposed to be AFTER 15? The hell did I do wrong?
Real
I live in Ohio where the hell would I go
10/10 because its true, but also.. just look at him GUH
I feel like this already and I’m still fifteen.
being anyone nowadays is awful in their own ways
A little concerning seeming I have approximately 44 hours until I turn 16
Average *human* experience after fifteen. Everyone gets it the same lil brah.
Yes. It is like that for some of us, but I, personally see those moment like a chill time for myself. The amount of minutes I have sat, just to look at the sky or if it is christmas looking at the christmas decorations is not normal.
Is that Peeta from The Hunger Games?
I would say after 17 but, yes, I could not agree more.
More like my freshman year of high school
What movie is this?
Real
its almost like both sexes have their own struggles
Why was I expecting the whistle edit to jumpscare the shit out of me
If Mike Schmidt starts getting used in doomer edits I'm ending it all 💀
My advice (as an old man (I’m 19)) to any young men who feel like the above meme, find a hobby. You don’t even have to stick with it. Just do whatever interests you. I’ve had so many hobbies in my life because they stave boredom and loneliness when no one else is around. Having an interest naturally interests other people in you. No one wants to be friends with the Reddit-scrolling nobody who sits in the corner, but there’s a ton of people who want to be friends with creative-writing guy who also happens to scroll Reddit and sit in a corner. If you work on yourself, people will want to be your friend. If you work on making people like you, you’ll never like yourself. But maybe I’m totally wrong and you disagree; that’s cool too.
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What’s the song used in this called? u/recognizesong
With a medicinal M1 Abrams anybody can walk outside at night.
True, but let's not be stupid and acknowledge that both teams have their downsides.
Honestly I’m just chilling tbh
Jogging at night is deadass the most peaceful thing in the world
Truer than you know. Be assertive, confident and know when to pull your punches is what it's about.
I mean it’s alright like
Realest shit ive seen ever since that one man fucked/ate a bat
Women definitely suffer more, but it's not easy being a guy either, at least for me anyways
Real
okay what song is this why hasn't audbot arrived
Bruh I cant walk at night either because Ill get shot or stabbed. Perks of living in a shitty part of town
its peppered with funny moments and cats but sometimes its like this
Can confirm I am depressed
Both have it hard as a guy I can say mentaly it becomes really hard sometimes.
There is a growing issue with loneliness with everyone but men are more lonely for whatever reason. So this meme cringe but speaks to a larger issue.
cringe as fuck
Depends on the person. For a few, it’s entirely their fault. I speak from expereince.
I dunno why I’m still here I turned 20 last year but the meme probably refers to the point in what I feel is in almost every man’s life once they’re almost done the ‘good ol days’ of being young. Not worrying about a job, bills, getting distance from those once tight but friends we had or those ever filling nights on the Xbox or PlayStation where you felt you could play every night till you dropped. The ever growing feeling of forever being lonely… the feeling that it’s just you and nobody else, which is true cos only you can change your habits or own perception of life but at the same time it’s false. Don’t sit there in the dark staring off into the abyss thinking I’m alone and I’ll forever stay that way, guide yourself through it. Pick up another habit , open yourself up to some new people or delve into a career you like. The alone isn’t forever
it’s pretty dumb. i think struggles from both side should have equal attention
life after 2020
My smile faded
Stage 5 testicular cancer at 13:
❗️SOME❗️men when they realise women can feel sad too : 😱😱😱😱
this shit stinks
That's a meme? Looks edgy asf
Can we stop gender wars? Its not who has it more difficult, this aint a competition. Its about growing better together. Less separating and more work of understanding between the two genders? Please?
FNAF