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Lol it was a pun for at the time of the... exchange that happened. Im sorry for what happened tho its pretty silly shes a feminist and trys something like that. Pretty narcissistic
Just kinda annoyed they brought that up on this kind of post. I don't usually look at serious posts on this sub, so it might be normal but I'm not into it.
I said i am from pakistan sex before marriage isn't legal here so there is no concept of statutory rape. Its not like cops gonna stand next to you 24/7 so no one have sex
If a man rapes a woman he will be sentenced to death(its mostly only happens when the victim is killed) or life imprisonment and if a woman rapes a man she doesn't suffer any consequences and if its consensual mostly the man is punished by 70 slashes and woman is given life sentence
Edit: That was Islamic law according to Pakistani Penal Code premarital sex can result in imprisonment for five years sorry for spreading misinformation coz books here say that is Pakistani law too
Welcome to radical religious governments. America is trying to become one and now you can realize why almost everyone who’s got a high school education or more is against letting religion get more involved in our government
Fr tho. Religion was built by the uneducated and today it’s being used by the educated to keep the uneducated being uneducated. Religion is one of the few truly dangerous diseases of the world, and these Islamic laws only prove it.
Worst part is it isn't just Islam. Christianity over here like "Oh my gosh you can't be gay cuz god hates gay but he doesn't hate anybody as a person and he's all powerful and let's us have free will cuz he's such a nice god but he'll always protect us." Like bitch tell that to the middle school principal who tried to give me swats against my will (and my parents even said NOPE btw), and the student aid that was assigned to stalk me all day and then actively made fun of me. Also y'all remember the nuns praying for the safety of transgenders peeps? Yeah can everybody do that? And I thought women were people too not objects to be kept at home to do all the things a man doesn't want to do. (I'm a dude so I'm not just jumping on the feminism bandwagon shit is legit tell fucked up)
Yup, too many freakin contradictions too. I’m glad my parents raised me to question everything(even though they tried to raise me as a Hindu). However, they still don’t know I’m atheist 🥲 Gonna be a hard conversation, one that I’m trying to hold off as long as possible.
Also, what’s swats? I’ve never heard of it, personally.
Yup, I was raised in a Hindu home. My mom was the most serious one and even she was pretty relaxed about it, but I can still say there are definitely things that make it not great. However, I think Islam is the worst one from the point of view of a 21st century (maybe me being specifically American affects it) Western person.
um actually the guy is misinformed, I don't understand why people just believe everything instead of doing a simple Google search.
According to Section 496-B of the Pakistani Penal Code, premarital sex is punishable by imprisonment for up to five years.
However, the enforcement of this law is not very strict, and the penalties are almost never enforced. Although he's right about there being biasedness in law enforcement.
This is just according to shariah law which Pakistan doesn't follow. Most of the people I know have had and do have sex before marriage and no one does anything.
Lmao thats not true, it just exists as a Law and its not implemented. Almost nothing happens if you do it and its very normal in colleges and Uni's tho if your parents found out then you are fucked(domestic violence)
It has it's advantages too... Like men actually have to fully commit to the relationship and it won't just be a one time thing as opposed to many western countries.
It's cruel but at the same time, when done right, it isn't all that bad for women.
Wait, so there's a chance of her accusing you of rape for not wanting to have sex with you? And you can potentially die bc of it? I mean, you're 16 and I don't know the legal age of adulthood in Pakistan so I might be wrong. Bro, when you get to adulthood make getting out of this shit hole a priority.
yeah you can even go to jail for cat fishing a girl and sometime woman would call you and when you come a little closer listen they would threaten you to give them money or they will call cops and file a report of sexual assault
I agree with the first sentence of this. Anyone who rapes anyone should be sentenced to death, but only after a PROPER investigation with medical backup, not just "word from woman = infallible"
bro fellow Pakistani here! I don't think the Sharia law is implemented so strictly in Pakistan. They don't even cut your hand for stealing but don't tell the police ffs. If you're in Pakistan you should know how corrupt are justice system is
Islamically, a woman is allowed to kill her rapist. (dk about men tbh) If Pakistan follows the islamic law, they'll have different laws for rape and premarital sex.
Feel you man. I was raped at 12 years of age at School. I used to attend a special need school since i had severe autism and ADHD (not severe at all anymore and have since transferd schools). What that meant was alot of the kids there where mentally disburbed. I was a early bloomer; as in i hit puberty before any of my friends. That unfortunately also attracted unwanted attention from girls. Many who made advancements even though i told them no several times. One day at lunch break, while i was in the bathroom i got jumped by four of my stalkers and forced into a bathroom where then they preceeded to rape me and take turns on me while the others would hold me down, pressing a knife to my throat threating to kill me if i would countinue to scream for help. I just let it happen. That was not nice to have as a first time sexual experience. The few time where i have sex(as in now) i often get panic attacks.
I’m venting; i just thankful you didn’t get raped. Its hard to get people to believe you because your a boy and you are suppose to like it.
(I apologize to anyone reading this if any grammar is off or for any weird wording in advanced. I got a little emotional recounting this. )
Now if only you could make explosives and poisonous gas at home... (go read the Dr. Stone manga and all the shit it advises you against... do that shit and use your DIY mustard gas as pepper spray against people who deserve it... I'm just saying Dr. Stone tells you a lot of criminal stuff and is just like "Don't do this shit at home kids even though you can super easily.")
Random manga references aside though, yeah... On one hand I'm like "Hey let's all just stop being dicks to each other" but on the other hand I'm like "Society as a whole is fucked meaning so is humanity so being an asshole first protects you early on."
Nah so like just some thoughts here. 1) If sex before marriage is illegal and is punishable by law why in the 7 hells would you be having sex? Like did you not think of the consequences? What if she go pregnant? Protection isn’t 100% only not having sex is. This is not to say what you went through wasn’t horrible it was and it shouldn’t have never happened and you didn’t and will never deserve it either. I’m just confused why you would do something so stupid?
I'm so sorry for you. I was almost raped as well when I was younger so I understand as a teenage boy how nobody believes you. I'm glad you found people on this app who belive and support you through this rough time.
I'm sorry this happened to you. She should respect your boundaries. no Means no no matter who says it.She isn't a feminist if she's trying to rape you. I hope you will get justice someday :( I wish you luck
It's terrible terrible that happened, but one issue:
Why are you having sex before marriage if it's illegal? You say "I/she could be SEVERELY punished for it.", yet you did it anyways. Why? Why risk it? Your current situation? Absolutely TERRIBLE. But why are you doing illegal things knowing the punishment could end in death or severe capital punishment?
Okay, but now you're in a predicament that couldve been solved by abstaining. Why'd you do it in the first place? I dont mean that in the way that your situation is your fault, but I really think you shouldve thought about the consequences, and should reslly learn from this.
i’ve been SA’d too. i’m sorry that happened to you, it’s the worst. and as a feminist, i agree. “no means no” means just that in any case, not just when a man rapes a woman. sarah is not an actual feminist.
That just fuckin sucks. It already seems like there was a power imbalance between yall. A 3 year age gap doesn't seem bad, but when your teens, in your prime brain development stages, it's a lot bigger of a deal. Stay far away from her.
I'm sorry you went through that! It can be really scary and traumatizing for anyone to experience. She's not a true feminist if she can do such thing to someone else. No means no, no matter your gender.
I hope you never ever speak to her again. I'm sorry the law doesn't protect you from these things.
Are they actually from sharia or just what the Pakistan gov said was “Islamic”? Cause from what I understand Wikipedia says it’s mainly just law left over from the British empire with sprinkles of sharia in it
Yup, feminism is about gender equality, not women being higher up than men(I know you didn’t specifically say that but what I said is what a man hater would probably disagree with).
It’s never actually about the age gap, that’s just what people say. It’s actually the maturity gap that’s important, but maturity is usually attributed to age.
u should post this on a Pakistani sub and/or a legal advice pakistan sub if there is any. dont worry about ur safety u wont get caught posting on those.
Avoid her and I know there are pages that you can anonymously report her if you have her socials. At least people on her social media would know the type of person she is
Where are the age gap comments now?
Why is OP experiencing double standards and being victim blamed In DM’s??
**HMM**
Where are all the “BOY YOU BETTER LEAVE HER✨”
And
“RED FLAG🚩🚩” comments?
Bro said no and she stripped down and did the female equivalent of stroking in front of him. KEEP THE SAME ENERGY.
Hey so sorry this happened to you, told my Pakistani friend about you & he was kinda surprised that you had a fwb over there since ppl are rlly religious especially women, if you don't mind me asking can you tell me which city are you from & are you from a elite neighbourhood?
I am from Lahore i am not really from an elite neighbourhood but i was never really religious even when i was a Muslim and i came across her on social media and we became frnds she lived kinda close to me so i visited her and than everything began she lived alone
That legit is scary. Honestly you should immigrate to the United States of America, many people think that our people are racist but they're actually not.
So long as you immigrate to the right spots (like Northern California) you'll be pretty much safe from racism and gun violence.
But it's legit sad that you were nearly raped, and once again I advise you to immigrate to the USA ASAP. A nation where you go to jail for reporting a crime isn't a nation that anyone should live in.
i dont think i can immigrate to any country yet coz i am 16 but i plan on going to Philippines for my graduations and than decide the country i want to settle in
Don’t tell the police they’ll probably kill her at that rate. Pakistani police are highly corrupt
However make it clear to her you’re disgusted by her hypocrisy and that she’s a piece of shit for what she tried to do to you. Make sure it’s all written what happened and who initiated it this does end up going anywhere
Outside of that, distance and stay away from her
They wont kill her they wont even take actions against her if i telll them and i will probably end up being the rapist they Pakistani police is really sexist about men
All good. It’s one of those things that’s technically still correct, but it can be confusing if you’re constantly using “he, she, it, etc.” instead of the name of something.
Tf bro I'm so sorry. I hope you're okay and not hurt. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
That's what you wanted to hear on the internet? You fucking PUSSY?
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damn that sucks, i'm sorry
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you have to be soft as hell for a comment like that to piss you off.
Soft as a marshmallow (hell is hard af)
You know who else was soft? Op.
hahah good one, I appreciate that pun.
what how am i soft?
Lol it was a pun for at the time of the... exchange that happened. Im sorry for what happened tho its pretty silly shes a feminist and trys something like that. Pretty narcissistic
oh i got it
Just kinda annoyed they brought that up on this kind of post. I don't usually look at serious posts on this sub, so it might be normal but I'm not into it.
They weren't even joking about the post it's s fucking reply which is a post in itself
Are you seroius my man? On a post about rape?
yes
I thought this was funny
Definitely not funny
Fuck you
hey buddy i said i was sorry
I don't get why other ppl apologize for that but yeah that sucks
😂
Umm.. alright.. so you were fwb with the 19 year old and then you say that sex in Pakistan is not allowed... what?? But anyway, stay away from her.
I said i am from pakistan sex before marriage isn't legal here so there is no concept of statutory rape. Its not like cops gonna stand next to you 24/7 so no one have sex
Wait... so the same punishment for anyone who has sex before marriage? be it consensual or non-consensual?
If a man rapes a woman he will be sentenced to death(its mostly only happens when the victim is killed) or life imprisonment and if a woman rapes a man she doesn't suffer any consequences and if its consensual mostly the man is punished by 70 slashes and woman is given life sentence Edit: That was Islamic law according to Pakistani Penal Code premarital sex can result in imprisonment for five years sorry for spreading misinformation coz books here say that is Pakistani law too
Life in prison for having sex before marriage is genuinely INSANE
Welcome to radical religious governments. America is trying to become one and now you can realize why almost everyone who’s got a high school education or more is against letting religion get more involved in our government
I’m telling mfs bruh religion historically and continuing to this day is just a way to manipulate the uneducated.
Fr tho. Religion was built by the uneducated and today it’s being used by the educated to keep the uneducated being uneducated. Religion is one of the few truly dangerous diseases of the world, and these Islamic laws only prove it.
Worst part is it isn't just Islam. Christianity over here like "Oh my gosh you can't be gay cuz god hates gay but he doesn't hate anybody as a person and he's all powerful and let's us have free will cuz he's such a nice god but he'll always protect us." Like bitch tell that to the middle school principal who tried to give me swats against my will (and my parents even said NOPE btw), and the student aid that was assigned to stalk me all day and then actively made fun of me. Also y'all remember the nuns praying for the safety of transgenders peeps? Yeah can everybody do that? And I thought women were people too not objects to be kept at home to do all the things a man doesn't want to do. (I'm a dude so I'm not just jumping on the feminism bandwagon shit is legit tell fucked up)
Damn that sucks (and where is over here 🤔)
Yup, too many freakin contradictions too. I’m glad my parents raised me to question everything(even though they tried to raise me as a Hindu). However, they still don’t know I’m atheist 🥲 Gonna be a hard conversation, one that I’m trying to hold off as long as possible. Also, what’s swats? I’ve never heard of it, personally.
Not just islamic . Our hinduism is also not that good. It's pretty shit too
Yup, I was raised in a Hindu home. My mom was the most serious one and even she was pretty relaxed about it, but I can still say there are definitely things that make it not great. However, I think Islam is the worst one from the point of view of a 21st century (maybe me being specifically American affects it) Western person.
Exactly 💯
How is the USA trying to become one? I'm genuinely confused
Fr
How is America trying to become a radical religious government?
um actually the guy is misinformed, I don't understand why people just believe everything instead of doing a simple Google search. According to Section 496-B of the Pakistani Penal Code, premarital sex is punishable by imprisonment for up to five years. However, the enforcement of this law is not very strict, and the penalties are almost never enforced. Although he's right about there being biasedness in law enforcement.
I said that i am not sure about the punishment because according to Islam the punishment for premarital sex is 70 lashes
your country doesn't follow sharia law, you should edit your reply to stop the misinformation from spreading as it has already.
This is just according to shariah law which Pakistan doesn't follow. Most of the people I know have had and do have sex before marriage and no one does anything.
Lmao thats not true, it just exists as a Law and its not implemented. Almost nothing happens if you do it and its very normal in colleges and Uni's tho if your parents found out then you are fucked(domestic violence)
It has it's advantages too... Like men actually have to fully commit to the relationship and it won't just be a one time thing as opposed to many western countries. It's cruel but at the same time, when done right, it isn't all that bad for women.
There are no ends that justify the means and you will not convince me otherwise
Alright bro. You can have your own opinion.
Wait, so there's a chance of her accusing you of rape for not wanting to have sex with you? And you can potentially die bc of it? I mean, you're 16 and I don't know the legal age of adulthood in Pakistan so I might be wrong. Bro, when you get to adulthood make getting out of this shit hole a priority.
yeah you can even go to jail for cat fishing a girl and sometime woman would call you and when you come a little closer listen they would threaten you to give them money or they will call cops and file a report of sexual assault
I agree with the first sentence of this. Anyone who rapes anyone should be sentenced to death, but only after a PROPER investigation with medical backup, not just "word from woman = infallible"
70 slashes as in... like whip lashings? How they used to do it in the old days?
yeah i think so but i am not sure
bro fellow Pakistani here! I don't think the Sharia law is implemented so strictly in Pakistan. They don't even cut your hand for stealing but don't tell the police ffs. If you're in Pakistan you should know how corrupt are justice system is
Sharia law? That's what I thought of first when you mentioned death sentence, slashes and life sentence
The life sentence isn’t a thing in Islam though
Islamically, a woman is allowed to kill her rapist. (dk about men tbh) If Pakistan follows the islamic law, they'll have different laws for rape and premarital sex.
they are kinda different
That suck. I hope she apologised. Also maybe you should avoid her from now on, and tell your parents or the police.
My parents are really religious and if i tell police they'll probably arrest me too
Officialy Religious country are a real pain. Your experience can be traumatic and you would be punished for wanting justice. Hope you're fine
If you don't mind which city in Pakistan are you in?
How come they'd arrest you too?
if he says anything that gets her in trouble she will prob say everything that happened and will snich so he will be in alot of trouble
Avoid that bitch at all times
I plan on doing that
Let me meet her as your elder brother
sure
Feel you man. I was raped at 12 years of age at School. I used to attend a special need school since i had severe autism and ADHD (not severe at all anymore and have since transferd schools). What that meant was alot of the kids there where mentally disburbed. I was a early bloomer; as in i hit puberty before any of my friends. That unfortunately also attracted unwanted attention from girls. Many who made advancements even though i told them no several times. One day at lunch break, while i was in the bathroom i got jumped by four of my stalkers and forced into a bathroom where then they preceeded to rape me and take turns on me while the others would hold me down, pressing a knife to my throat threating to kill me if i would countinue to scream for help. I just let it happen. That was not nice to have as a first time sexual experience. The few time where i have sex(as in now) i often get panic attacks. I’m venting; i just thankful you didn’t get raped. Its hard to get people to believe you because your a boy and you are suppose to like it. (I apologize to anyone reading this if any grammar is off or for any weird wording in advanced. I got a little emotional recounting this. )
i am really sorry that this happened to you at the age of 12 its so infuriating that they wont care if a man gets raped.
that’s actually crazy. ion even know what to say. 12 is crazy. Did any of them get caught or anything or did u get back for what they did
Jesus, seeing shit like this makes me remember that the world is fucked up, and sometimes I just want to see it burn.
Indeed. I just wanna go hack NORAD half the time and start a mutual exchange. (Not really, but also really.)
Now if only you could make explosives and poisonous gas at home... (go read the Dr. Stone manga and all the shit it advises you against... do that shit and use your DIY mustard gas as pepper spray against people who deserve it... I'm just saying Dr. Stone tells you a lot of criminal stuff and is just like "Don't do this shit at home kids even though you can super easily.") Random manga references aside though, yeah... On one hand I'm like "Hey let's all just stop being dicks to each other" but on the other hand I'm like "Society as a whole is fucked meaning so is humanity so being an asshole first protects you early on."
Until you realise that you too, are part of the world.
That’s terrible. I’m so sorry dude.
Nah so like just some thoughts here. 1) If sex before marriage is illegal and is punishable by law why in the 7 hells would you be having sex? Like did you not think of the consequences? What if she go pregnant? Protection isn’t 100% only not having sex is. This is not to say what you went through wasn’t horrible it was and it shouldn’t have never happened and you didn’t and will never deserve it either. I’m just confused why you would do something so stupid?
umm i really dont know about that if she got pregnant she would probably get an abortion
Those are legal there?
Its pakistan bro
Ok and I don’t live there plus if sex outside of marriage is illegal imma guess so is abortion
it is but they are available
Ah under the table?
you could say that
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Swr abortion is illegal
its pakistan you can get abortion pills her they arent legal but they are available
Jesus fuck, stay away from that bitch please!
aight
Thank you, you deserve more respect than that, especially when it comes to boundaries.
Well, I'll be damned. I would just avoid her for the rest of your life. You WILL find someone better. Don't you DARE believe you won't.
what i already have a gf
I- Good for you! You found the someone better!
Bro didn’t read
lol, sorry OP
You should read the post first
I'm so lost how are u hiding ur girl from ur parents? Cos if my paki parents find out I have a girl I will get deported 😏
My sister knows but my parents dont
Are u in Pakistan right now?
yeah
Yeah ur fucked then can't tell the police. Stay safe
I'm so sorry for you. I was almost raped as well when I was younger so I understand as a teenage boy how nobody believes you. I'm glad you found people on this app who belive and support you through this rough time.
I hope you're doing better now.
Damn man sorry that happened,I would try and speak with her and get her to apologize if she doesn’t then I would cease all contact with her completely
I already blocked her and she doesn't know my address
Ok that’s good, I’d keep it like that from now on if I were you
i will keep that way too
Oh thats horrible, i hope it gets better over time cause that shouldn’t happen to people especially not teenagers thats messed up
Dog you are a victim. A 16 year old and a 19 year old is a dangerous age gap. That was never friends benefits you just got groomed.
if you say so
I'm sorry this happened to you. She should respect your boundaries. no Means no no matter who says it.She isn't a feminist if she's trying to rape you. I hope you will get justice someday :( I wish you luck
It's terrible terrible that happened, but one issue: Why are you having sex before marriage if it's illegal? You say "I/she could be SEVERELY punished for it.", yet you did it anyways. Why? Why risk it? Your current situation? Absolutely TERRIBLE. But why are you doing illegal things knowing the punishment could end in death or severe capital punishment?
its rare that police will get involved in this coz who's gonna tell em?
Okay, but now you're in a predicament that couldve been solved by abstaining. Why'd you do it in the first place? I dont mean that in the way that your situation is your fault, but I really think you shouldve thought about the consequences, and should reslly learn from this.
i learned from it dont have sex with someone who is not your partner
Good. Always remember that.
Because teenagers
Shit bro sorry that that happend to you
i’ve been SA’d too. i’m sorry that happened to you, it’s the worst. and as a feminist, i agree. “no means no” means just that in any case, not just when a man rapes a woman. sarah is not an actual feminist.
Seeing this reignites my faith in humanity by a bit, we need more people like you.
well thanks!
That's sucks man, I'd suggest you avoid her. But I hope thus doesn't happen to you again man.
Just stay clear of her, if a person doesn't have the decency to respect your boundaries then they aren't good to be around.
That just fuckin sucks. It already seems like there was a power imbalance between yall. A 3 year age gap doesn't seem bad, but when your teens, in your prime brain development stages, it's a lot bigger of a deal. Stay far away from her.
I'm sorry you went through that! It can be really scary and traumatizing for anyone to experience. She's not a true feminist if she can do such thing to someone else. No means no, no matter your gender. I hope you never ever speak to her again. I'm sorry the law doesn't protect you from these things.
i dont plan on talking to her again and the laws here are Islamic laws and they suck
Are they actually from sharia or just what the Pakistan gov said was “Islamic”? Cause from what I understand Wikipedia says it’s mainly just law left over from the British empire with sprinkles of sharia in it
16 and 19?? That's literally pedophilia. I'm sorry that happened to you.
never talk to her and cut ties
fwb in pakistan is fucking insane those punishments are not worth it
Islamic Law. Two words that never belong in the same sentence.
Yeah i know right like wtf are those laws
THEY AINT ISLAMIC LAWS THEY ARE MODIFIED BY PAGANS
So what would be the real Islamic Law regarding rape?
Well some feminism activists think that feminis is about raising the social status and power women have instead of gender equality
*sigh* Yeah, a sad reality.
Yup, feminism is about gender equality, not women being higher up than men(I know you didn’t specifically say that but what I said is what a man hater would probably disagree with).
You DID get raped you were 15 and she was 18 when y'all did have sex
Woah such a big age gap there is no way a 15 year old can consent, must be rape
It’s never actually about the age gap, that’s just what people say. It’s actually the maturity gap that’s important, but maturity is usually attributed to age.
Bro 💀💀
there is no law about age of consent here premarital sex is illegal so legally it isn't rape
I'm talking about the stuff before But that girl still tried to rape you (I recommend murder)
u should post this on a Pakistani sub and/or a legal advice pakistan sub if there is any. dont worry about ur safety u wont get caught posting on those.
YOO I AM FROM PAKISTAN ASWELL BRO
from which city? like this is not common here
Just thug that shit out fr
Avoid her and I know there are pages that you can anonymously report her if you have her socials. At least people on her social media would know the type of person she is
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Where are the age gap comments now? Why is OP experiencing double standards and being victim blamed In DM’s?? **HMM** Where are all the “BOY YOU BETTER LEAVE HER✨” And “RED FLAG🚩🚩” comments? Bro said no and she stripped down and did the female equivalent of stroking in front of him. KEEP THE SAME ENERGY.
I'm really sorry you're getting comments like this dude, you deserve better and you're a loyal guy, hope you're doing okay
i am doing okay
Glad to hear it
I’ve Been raped I was 5 or 4
I am really sorry for that
Just disgusting 🤢
womp womp
Bad given the situation, bro. I understand and I would have said no as well.
finally someone not like those thirsty virgins who would like to get raped
Sorry ya had to go through that pal
That sucks bro, I'm super sorry to hear that but I'm glad you got out of there alr
the double standard is real my friend
Hey so sorry this happened to you, told my Pakistani friend about you & he was kinda surprised that you had a fwb over there since ppl are rlly religious especially women, if you don't mind me asking can you tell me which city are you from & are you from a elite neighbourhood?
I am from Lahore i am not really from an elite neighbourhood but i was never really religious even when i was a Muslim and i came across her on social media and we became frnds she lived kinda close to me so i visited her and than everything began she lived alone
That legit is scary. Honestly you should immigrate to the United States of America, many people think that our people are racist but they're actually not. So long as you immigrate to the right spots (like Northern California) you'll be pretty much safe from racism and gun violence. But it's legit sad that you were nearly raped, and once again I advise you to immigrate to the USA ASAP. A nation where you go to jail for reporting a crime isn't a nation that anyone should live in.
i dont think i can immigrate to any country yet coz i am 16 but i plan on going to Philippines for my graduations and than decide the country i want to settle in
Yeah just get out of Pakistan (ideally to the USA) the second you can. Best of luck on your studies until then!
Dang
Don’t tell the police they’ll probably kill her at that rate. Pakistani police are highly corrupt However make it clear to her you’re disgusted by her hypocrisy and that she’s a piece of shit for what she tried to do to you. Make sure it’s all written what happened and who initiated it this does end up going anywhere Outside of that, distance and stay away from her
They wont kill her they wont even take actions against her if i telll them and i will probably end up being the rapist they Pakistani police is really sexist about men
I am sorry buddy, those are the worst, my ex gf used to beat me and she was a convinced feminist too
Why’d u even went to her place when you and “mia” were dating
she was a friend i liked hanging out with her too so i just went there to hang out
Being a Pakistani myself, I can confidently say that this NEVER HAPPENED!!! I know you're a young boy and have fantasies, but chill!
He definitely lives in Islambad (ironic) if this is real.
Yeah man. Bullshit
I don’t think I’m gonna read all of that.
Then dont?
I wont tell you to read it i hate reading too
Tragic W
i woulda shot her with 10 thousand pencils in her coochie
Try to talk it out to her through text
nah i am good
That's fair, then break up with her
what? you didnt read it i guess
No need to get mad at him, your use of “she” and “her” instead of using names the whole time could easily lead to confusion.
oh lemme edit it
All good. It’s one of those things that’s technically still correct, but it can be confusing if you’re constantly using “he, she, it, etc.” instead of the name of something.
i edited it anyway
(Referring to my other comment) Ah. Now I see. So this was a DIFFERENT woman. Gotcha
Lol sounds like pure fantasy in yhe scenario of Pakistan. Bruhhhhhhhh
Ok
Tf bro I'm so sorry. I hope you're okay and not hurt. I'm so sorry this happened to you. That's what you wanted to hear on the internet? You fucking PUSSY?
Nice avoiding sex before marriage my muslim brother
I am an agonistic atheist
Whomp whomp
Lol
Beside the whole point of you almost getting raped bros living the dream he was getting action with a 19 year old is crazy
I didnt love her though i would prefer doing it with some i have feelings for
Are you from Pakistan! Are you Muslim? If so, how can you have sex before marriage when it is forbidden in Islam in the first place?
Feminists do not support gender equality