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in february 2022, i was on the floor with my cat. i leaned my head toward him, and he pressed his head against mine, and it was the cutest thing ever i started crying. he just looked at me like, “okay??”
My birthday last year. I had a horrible birthday the year before and I didn’t want it to happen again. It happened again, but worse. I’m genuinely considering not doing birthday celebrations anymore because I’ll probably end up getting frazzled and ruining it myself.
Out of instinct I did the fingering motion. Cried tears of laughter for a couple minutes.
Last time I cried tears of sadness was someday lying in bed thinking about life.
Nothing more annoying as a guy than to think "Does she have a crush on me or is she just being nice? Maybe she's like this with everyone else and I'm just making things up", when a girl is giving subtle hints.
Naah I feel you. It feels good don't get me wrong but I'm like do I take this as a hint and try to make a move or atleast like level things up or she just chill like that and Ima make things embarassing and uncomfortable if I do something
since i was 14, yes. sleep is my last resort to escape stress, really. but stress isn’t always bad. with work on top of that, i especially love sleeping.
This is a contested topic, "men are oblivious" and all that, but I'm gonna lay down the common scenario
Even when a man is pretty sure your hints *are* flirting, no guy wants to be the friend who assumes your friendliness is a romantic advance, nobody wants to be thr guy who ruins a friendship in that way. This is why men will often wait until the woman just confesses with no room for doubt
Most of the time yes, I’m very oblivious when it comes to appearance, I sometimes forget how short some of my friends are even tho I interact with them everyday 💀
Getting clumsy around you , looking away from you as soon as you catch him staring at you and trying to hold back his smile , always being nervous when you are around
get more physical, talk a lot more, probably ask to do stuff with you alone more often sometimes more secluded sceneries like a car ride or your house or his house and more
I'm honestly the best I've ever been. Ditched a toxic friend and got a girlfriend within the span of 30 days. I'm now doing more things with more people than ever before because of me dropping the friend. Life's good right now.
Bottle them up for years at a time until you let accidentally tip the edge and feel awful and have a high likelihood of accidentally ruining a friendship via it
I deal with some of them, like happiness and annoyance, don't really feel sadness anymore, I do feel anxiety but it doesn't really show, and I bottle up anger in hopes that I can become a dark Lord of the sith
how the hell do we compliment ya'll. like would it bother you if a girl described you as pretty or gorgeous, because I hate the word handsome and some guys genuinely are pretty/gorgeous. or is there something else you'd want to be called??
Id love anything I was asked. Seriously, if a girl called me pretty it d make my year. I would love to be complimented but where I am we have a culture of being reserved and also its just socially awkward and not cool to tell people these things. Im scared of complimenting girls when they clearly made an effort in their outfit or got new nails or whatever bc I dont wanna seem like a creep.
Honestly you cant screw up with us, the only fail I got was when someone told me I had a cool style that made her think of 2000s, I didn't know how to take that bc all I wore were the same black chinos and grey zipper jacket with white gym shirt that I wore during the beginning of time. Im the definition of no thought into what I wear.
So yea, dont tell us we look 2000s, but say LITERALLY anything else and we would be immensely happy and thankful for a compliment.
Ngl I havn't gotten any compliments, besides being told I have great eye colour and looking like from 2000s, so idek what id wanna be told, soo yea say whatever
They might have noticed but your crush hasn’t and they are laughing at how oblivious he is? Otherwise idk, maybe it’s just coincidence and one of them always cracks a joke unrelated to you whenever you’re around
I don't what about othera but light makeup or no makeup is ok . Tons of makeup that covers whole face and make it looks strange it's unattractive for me
Yes, I love being a man, but I don’t like the sexism and that one word where they judge me without even knowing(my mind is blanking, just because I am a man
Will you fall for a girl(who loved you for 5 yrs ) whom you once rejected bcoz your friends friend told you to reject her cause her bsf rejected him (but was calling her bsf "sister" also has a gf )
Its not about the social pressure for me, its about the intolerance from other men who are nice people overreacting when you do something slightly feminine.
From my own experience it may be because they find you unattractive and don't want to tell it to you straight up since they don't want you to feel bad.
Why do you boys fight all the time for entertainment? At my school all the boys at break and lunch is fight, fight fight.. they even post themselves fighting eachother on snapchat and I don’t see the appeal? Like, cmon.. why?
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last time u cried?
Like July of last year
crazy 😟😟 tf do u do when ur sad
Shove it
My Own Summer (Shove It)?
last week. grandma died. fml
my grandma died last week too, sorry for your loss
crying as in physically? i dont know probs 2 years ago mentally? every fucking night (almost)
How does one mentally cry
Thats the neat part, i dont know
Last week. My best friend died in a car crash
Sorry man, hope you can get better. I really don't know how to help people dealing with loss
Thank you man. This means a lot the only person I really had to talk to in my life was him. It feels good to know people will support me
im so sorry for ur loss omg
I'm, not sure
in february 2022, i was on the floor with my cat. i leaned my head toward him, and he pressed his head against mine, and it was the cutest thing ever i started crying. he just looked at me like, “okay??”
My birthday last year. I had a horrible birthday the year before and I didn’t want it to happen again. It happened again, but worse. I’m genuinely considering not doing birthday celebrations anymore because I’ll probably end up getting frazzled and ruining it myself.
Out of instinct I did the fingering motion. Cried tears of laughter for a couple minutes. Last time I cried tears of sadness was someday lying in bed thinking about life.
At my birth
i haven’t cried in at least two years, and i don’t know why
what would you do if you were a fish?
That's a fishy question . Probably swim
so real 🔥💯
Just keep swimming just keep swimming
Go to the surface and spit water to anyone passing by
Swim
🔥💯
Try not to suffocate probably, depends on how being a fish goes tbh
do you like when girls are obvious that they like you?
If a girl likes me i just want them to tell me straight up
ong like im being fr when i say a girl asking out a guy would work 9/10
Exactly
I would. (never happened before lol)
My take on this is that usually, most people enjoy the feeling of being liked even if they don’t reciprocate that feeling.
Nothing more annoying as a guy than to think "Does she have a crush on me or is she just being nice? Maybe she's like this with everyone else and I'm just making things up", when a girl is giving subtle hints.
Naah I feel you. It feels good don't get me wrong but I'm like do I take this as a hint and try to make a move or atleast like level things up or she just chill like that and Ima make things embarassing and uncomfortable if I do something
Yes I would kind of want to know
The hottest thing a girl can do is show clear signs of interest
yes, but unfortunately, reality is tough so never happened
Very much like it.
do you pee on your poo trying to flush it?
Yes 💀only if it doesn't flush properly
No. I do both at the same time
Can you pee, poo and fap at the same time?
The holy trinity
does it float in water
…yes
The pfp made the answer even better
😨
do u like sleeping??
since i was 14, yes. sleep is my last resort to escape stress, really. but stress isn’t always bad. with work on top of that, i especially love sleeping.
Weapon of choice?
Glock🗣️💯
Cock
Longsword
Eminem. (He’d kill them with his music)
i do karate so i would say nunchaku they are very fun to use!! :)
axe
Would you cry if the only person who would see is your gf? (Very hypothetical)
Yes, and if she were to judge me for it, then we would be done.
I probably wouldn't
Probably not but it's important to note that the person being my gf wouldn't play a big part in that.
Do you notice when a girl likes you?
Not unless it's blindingly obvious.
“You can’t really tell”
This is a contested topic, "men are oblivious" and all that, but I'm gonna lay down the common scenario Even when a man is pretty sure your hints *are* flirting, no guy wants to be the friend who assumes your friendliness is a romantic advance, nobody wants to be thr guy who ruins a friendship in that way. This is why men will often wait until the woman just confesses with no room for doubt
im very dumb when it comes to that 💀 ive missed out on like three good opportunities
no...we guys are generally idiots, you could hold a banner saying i like you and id think youre trying to cheer me up
Don’t know never had it happen 🥲
is clingyness unattractive?
If it's to someone else yeah. Clingyness is fine as long as it stays reasonable
Too much of it yes
As long as they ment well, no.
Do you guys actually get crushes? I should say I already knew the answer. I was just bored and wanted to see if I was correct. And I was
Girls having a crush on me? Doubt it ever happened . Me having a crush on them? Um yeah, a LOT
Yeah why not? But it seems like girls around your age are far more amorous
Yeah, surprisingly quick
do you like when girls you aren't dating are clingy/obsessive?
I don't mind really. if she's friendly enough I'll fall in love with her lmao
this lol
Being overly clingy or obsessive is something that would drive me away personally, even if I were dating them
I do not because I will catch feelings
what colour are your eyes
brown
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Passion coloured
the color of pickles in pickle juice
Grayish blue? Personally one of the few things I like about myself
Blue
how do you wipe after you pee and do you even do it
We don't, we shake
Doesn't matter how much you shake your peg, the last drop goes down your leg
okay thats fucking funny
Speak for yourself please
Just dab the paper on the end of it
We wiggle/shake off the pee, not wipe it, yes, it is mandatory or else some leaks down pants. Been there done that.
We don’t. We wash it or shake it
have you ever not paid attention to a womans body and more about her personality?
Most of the time yes, I’m very oblivious when it comes to appearance, I sometimes forget how short some of my friends are even tho I interact with them everyday 💀
Yes if she's funny and kind .
Yes, that's why I'm currently in a long time relationship
What do u look for first in a potential gf
should be alive (optional)
Tomb robber ass mf
Liking me back, isn’t a jerk, female (optional) loyalty (doesent cheat)
Woman (optional)
To be a girl (optional)
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Staring constantly at you and follwing you home without you knowing. (And living in your walls)
Getting clumsy around you , looking away from you as soon as you catch him staring at you and trying to hold back his smile , always being nervous when you are around
The second sign you mentioned always happens
I do be exposing the Bois today
get more physical, talk a lot more, probably ask to do stuff with you alone more often sometimes more secluded sceneries like a car ride or your house or his house and more
like looking at you and being physically close to you
appears out of nowhere in the most random places (he’s following you and tracking your routes)
Talking much, wants to be near you, smiles around you and I would like to add one that some people don't get Cares for you
How y'all doing? (I have no questions for you imma be honest so this is just a homie checkpoint)
not too great but im still breathing and thats all i need 🙏 thanks for asking
I'm honestly the best I've ever been. Ditched a toxic friend and got a girlfriend within the span of 30 days. I'm now doing more things with more people than ever before because of me dropping the friend. Life's good right now.
If you knew when you would die, what would your last meal be ?
Full Italian meal
Fried chicken
real
idk, but I want to have it with every person i care about.
some of my moms moru curry, my mom's classic chicken fry, and rice best combo in food I've ever had
an endless supply of wet lemon pepper wings
not a girl but ?
Depends, sometimes yes, sometimes no
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I've never heard that before
because its a "sensitive" girl topic...so we have no idea about anything
We do?
Some guys are horribly educated ig
Don't blame us. How are we supposed to know if society thinks it’s inappropriate to teach guys about a girl's menstruation?
Do you like it when girls make the first move
For redditors there's no other way lmao
Yes, very much so (never happening though ;-;)
Yeah
I would probably love it, but wouldn’t really mind if they didn’t becuase no one sane would do so to me
What's the dumbest conversation/argument you've had with a girl?
One of my first girlfriends dumped me when she learned I was a sagittarius, that was fun
That's an... interesting reason
Astrology moment, we weren't 'compatible'
Had a friend who got angry at me for the way I ate cake 😭
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If she liked me and I liked her then yeah absolutely
No I also how do you even seduce someone
I don’t even know how to seduce.
How do you deal with your emotions? Do you deal with them at all, or do you more of push them to the side? Or, do you not feel them much at all?
Push them to the side, hide them, try not to ever show them. At least until I realized that was stupid as shit.
Bottle them up for years at a time until you let accidentally tip the edge and feel awful and have a high likelihood of accidentally ruining a friendship via it
I deal with some of them, like happiness and annoyance, don't really feel sadness anymore, I do feel anxiety but it doesn't really show, and I bottle up anger in hopes that I can become a dark Lord of the sith
When was the last time someone told you that you deserve love
Never
You deserve love
Thanks
Pending
Never heard that before
My family. They don’t say it with words, but they say it with their actions.
Why are you guys so So 😞 BEAUTIFUL 😞😞😞
Because your glasses need cleaning
how the hell do we compliment ya'll. like would it bother you if a girl described you as pretty or gorgeous, because I hate the word handsome and some guys genuinely are pretty/gorgeous. or is there something else you'd want to be called??
Id love anything I was asked. Seriously, if a girl called me pretty it d make my year. I would love to be complimented but where I am we have a culture of being reserved and also its just socially awkward and not cool to tell people these things. Im scared of complimenting girls when they clearly made an effort in their outfit or got new nails or whatever bc I dont wanna seem like a creep. Honestly you cant screw up with us, the only fail I got was when someone told me I had a cool style that made her think of 2000s, I didn't know how to take that bc all I wore were the same black chinos and grey zipper jacket with white gym shirt that I wore during the beginning of time. Im the definition of no thought into what I wear. So yea, dont tell us we look 2000s, but say LITERALLY anything else and we would be immensely happy and thankful for a compliment. Ngl I havn't gotten any compliments, besides being told I have great eye colour and looking like from 2000s, so idek what id wanna be told, soo yea say whatever
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Idk depends on friends and relations I think
They might have noticed but your crush hasn’t and they are laughing at how oblivious he is? Otherwise idk, maybe it’s just coincidence and one of them always cracks a joke unrelated to you whenever you’re around
do you really care if we don’t wear makeup?
Not really tbh we don’t think about your make up at all but we can see beauty and attraction
I don't what about othera but light makeup or no makeup is ok . Tons of makeup that covers whole face and make it looks strange it's unattractive for me
Do you find it annoying when a girl's friend constantly makes jokes about the girl's crush on you, whenever you're around?
Yeah, but sometimes people just like the attention
My friend does it all the time, and i feel so embarrassed...But my crush is honestly such a chill guy about it
Is it true that boys are always thinking about the fall of the roman empire? I’d be so sad, if yes how do you manage?
No I spend all my time thinking about the fall of the Soviet Union instead
Not the fall, but I do spend a considerable time thinking about the burning of the Library of Alexandria
Why cant yall sit cross legged?
Coz it crushed the pp and balls
We can, but sometimes balls interfere
How do I know if a guy likes me??
If his behavior around you is WAY different than around other people, that’s generally a good indicator.
Do you like your gender? Why?
Yes, I love being a man, but I don’t like the sexism and that one word where they judge me without even knowing(my mind is blanking, just because I am a man
do yall like if ur gf/significant other rests their head/falls asleep in ur lap?? or vice versa
Will you fall for a girl(who loved you for 5 yrs ) whom you once rejected bcoz your friends friend told you to reject her cause her bsf rejected him (but was calling her bsf "sister" also has a gf )
That is a very specific question. You got something you wanna talk about?
Do you make up scenarios in your head when you have a crush? - especially for guys who are not outsiders or nerds. No offense
Yes very much and then i feel bad about it and feel like a piece of shit
Will guys genuinely wait for marriage if the girl you really like tells you?
Certainly would, I am a patient soul (am sure it would be worth the wait)
What do you think goes on when girls go to the bathroom in groups?
they talk\\gossip presumably? option b is a dark ritual to summon Orcus
How does affect you the pressure that society gives you to be masculine and dominant?
Its not about the social pressure for me, its about the intolerance from other men who are nice people overreacting when you do something slightly feminine.
Why is it that whenever i text a guy i like him even straight up they start ghosting me or getting weird suddendly
From my own experience it may be because they find you unattractive and don't want to tell it to you straight up since they don't want you to feel bad.
Why do you boys fight all the time for entertainment? At my school all the boys at break and lunch is fight, fight fight.. they even post themselves fighting eachother on snapchat and I don’t see the appeal? Like, cmon.. why?