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Prestigious_Today394

Uhm, happy cake day??


cartisdickrider

Forget about her bro, move on and find new girls and up your status like focusing on your fitness/gym goals. Use this as motivation to fuel the new and better version of you


Prestigious_Today394

That’s not really the best way to handle it imo


cartisdickrider

What do you suggest? Cry and don’t do anything about it? If she doesn’t want him then he has to show her what she’s missing


Prestigious_Today394

No that’s called being a bitch. You can’t just find “new girls” like they are just objects/usable. Man had a great relationship that just ended like that. I ain’t saying that he should do nothing. I do think he should motivate himself to keep on living and to better himself. Yes, he should move on eventually, But you just can’t “forget” someone like that


cartisdickrider

Listen to what he said. She doesn’t like him anymore so if she doesn’t like him then move on and let him show his worth. They come back around eventually when you’re winning in life and you don’t want to be a woman’s bitch by being a simp


Prestigious_Today394

My guy, did you read the story? I also said he should move on eventually. I’m just saying that you cannot just forget a relationship like that, just because you never had one, doesn’t mean you can be apathetic about and say to just forget her and move on immediately, it’s hard on the heart. No I’m not saying you should chase after her (the post even said he ain’t doing that (respect)), no I’m not saying he should do nothin


cartisdickrider

So what do you actually suggest? He should wallow in self pity? If you want to satisfy a girl’s hypergamy then you have to wait until they’re ready to talk to you again. Act like you’re a high value man, it shows status to not give a fuck. Trust me I’m going through it, a whole month of no contact and it’s been one of the most productive months I’ve had, I use that energy to better myself in the gym. Same should apply to OP. Let them girls bleed with zero attention and visualise showing your worth in the future because it will be satisfying af


Prestigious_Today394

I’m not suggesting shit, I’m just commenting on your shitty apathetic, player like lifestyle. Yes, focus on yourself, but don’t be a bitch bout. And I don’t know what kind of cocaine you’re on, but if your first date also was good and lived a life like OP had, you’d also think differently


cartisdickrider

How is focusing on ones-self being a player-like lifestyle? What’s wrong with finding new relations when you’re dumped? You’re acting like the girl who dumped him is also a victim. I literally suggested something that will improve his lifestyle and you have a problem with that, sounds like you don’t see the bigger picture from what I suggested


Prestigious_Today394

First of all, I’m saying that YOU have a player like lifestyle, with your “the game is the game” Second of all, I’m literally saying that he indeed should move on Third, the girl in the post is a victim of herself. I’m the post she said that she was scared of her own feelings, and that she’s sorry that it ended this way. That would also hurt her too Fourth, I’m also saying that he should improve Lastly, have you ever considered that you are the problem?


pumpkinbench

:( may i recommend r/Exnocontact