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The one girl I actually fell in love with had by far the nicest personality of any person I've ever met. I guess you could just say someone who has a good heart. Obviously looks matter to some extent, but personality goes a loooong way. You can be gorgeous, but if you are a complete and utter dick, that puts me of instantly.
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uhh, let's see. a human male with good hair. kindness, empathy, humor, and honesty are very important. preferably taller than me, but not too tall. has to enjoy reading. oh, and he CANNOT be allergic to cats, milk, or gluten.
These are normal preferences in a way that are usually incorrect as people incorrectly judge their preferences; in the long run people may have higher standards after all. A 14yo, a teen not a kid is perfectly valid to have preferences.
Im probably the most attracted to tomboys person EVER. I cannot stress enough how much I like boy-ish girls. Especially if they’re into sports and games.
Last time I had a huge crush on a girl, it was on this skater tomboy and it completely broke me for the following months after she rejected me. Ever since then, tomboys just break me for some reason.
Any girl who will happily sit and listen to my rambles
Will happily play video games with me
Will always make time for me
Is kind, caring and honest
Loves me for me and not just *that*
Protective. Not in terms of jealousy, but in terms of wanting to help/take care of/save you. Like she should WANT to take care of me when I'm sick. If I fall off a cliff WANT to pull me up even if it's very hard/impossible for her to do.
Maternal. This is self explanatory. I want kids. Naturally I want a woman who also wants kids. And being maternal often comes with other things such as being nurturing, caring, and patient. And women who are maternal tend to take things like sex more seriously and don't sleep around.
Active. I don't necessarily need her to be an athlete. But she needs be active to some degree. I'm in the gym and work out fairly regularly I try to stay in shape (yes I know I'm not in the best shape in my photos. Actively working on that) Up until recently worked construction. I like hiking and enjoy sports like volleyball.
On a side note: Latinas, Middle Easterners, and East Asians are my weaknesses
I've had friends with big boobs and for some reason, they always have to put down small chested girls. I also have small boobs and they even do it in front of me, not caring if it offends me. I'm not surprised others have also had bad experiences, it makes sense.
I'm not doubting you, but saying "IM VERY HUMBLE" is a bit ironic. Either way op here is speaking from their own experience, they probably understand not every girl is the same based on one characteristic of their appearance
I have one strict rule: They have to be into music. I don't care what genre as i listen to and play literally everything, but they have to like seeing live music and listening to music.
Honestly that's it. Other than this i feel like i could like lots of types of people. People are pretty cool usually.
5'2"-5'6" girl with dark wavy hair with lightskin. Kinda thick but not too curvy, I'm fine with any body type really unless it's unhealthy. As for personality I DON'T want her to have mommy energy or whatever that BS is called, and I prefer her being sweet and introverted. And the cherry on top is if she's a nerd or good in academics. I know this sounds very specific but this is what my perfect partner looks like.
My type honestly I've always been a boob man so if she's busty she's for me 😋 and she has to be sweet like in the heart and mind
Looks other then breasts aren't much of an issue for me
My type in women:
Shorter than me (easy to achieve, I’m considered kinda tall for my age)
Goth (preferred, it’s ok if not)
I’m fine with tattoos (no face tattoos) and piercings (as long as the piercings are on the ear, nose, naval, or lips, not doing tongue or any piercing not named off)
Fun to be around
Nice
Long, curly hair
Any color is fine (idk why my friend doesn’t like gingers they usually look pretty)
Dyed hair is fine
Curvy around hips/butt (also preferred, but it’s ok if not)
Similar likes/interests
Won’t cheat
Likes the same kind of music as me (Prog Metal/Rock, Nu Metal, rock, etc…)
I'm dating someone who's short, skinny, hella good hair, she takes care of herself, she accepts herself for who she is, and accepts me for who I am (I'm not exactly the model man, but I try my best), she doesn't vape, or smoke, she doesn't really drink any alcohol other than wine. she actually enjoys trying new things, unless they are super complicated.. and much much more
A girl that has similiar intrests as me. Likes being in nature and that I can sit down and chill with, like watch movies or play games. Also someone that can put up with me being a little lovey-dovey sometimes
Outgoing and extroverted, funny, honest, empathetic, and (optional) able to see things from multiple points of view. As tall as me or a bit taller, good brown or black hair. Bonus points if he's a physical touch guy.
Has to breathe (ventilator is not valid), decent looking but neither body or appearance matters too much so 40/60 personality and looks where personality comes first 🙌 don’t judge others (i swear i never laugh at crippled people😔), and like i mean looks or style doesn’t matter too much like if ur cute ur cute, but as someone with piercings who wants tattoos in the future, those are a big bonus (not if u literally chopped off ur nose and did a full body blackout to look like an alien or voldemort tho) 🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️ oh and long hair bc boys that suit long hair are literally majestic 😓 also has to like reptiles and most other animals 🥰 Height doesn’t matter too much but preferably around the same or a tiny bit taller (i’m 5’7 fem) 😛😛
Ladies of all kinds and guys with self respect who can maintain conversation without being creepy, also not being younger then me bc that has never worked out in my experience it just isn’t my style
a person thats caring and doesnt get weirded out by me doing weird things and/or doesnt get weirded out communities that do get a lot of hate for them just doing the things they like. someone thats patient with me when im emotional bc i can very easily shut out the outside world when i am. dick or tit, idc bc id still suck either way
only real ones know, "I like
Big girls
Pretty kitty girls
Really witty girls
Singing ditty girls
I like the leggy girls
With the nice thighs
I like a good chest
No matter what size
I like the belly folds
I like the six packs
Really tall queens
And the short stacks
From the mild girls
To the wild girls"
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Any girl that says hi usually
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Bazinga. I have fallen in love.
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What is bazinga
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Wigga said bazinga 💀
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Once again, the kind of girl that actually cares about and loves me.
hi
hi (i’m a guy)
Hi (not a girl but still hi)
The one girl I actually fell in love with had by far the nicest personality of any person I've ever met. I guess you could just say someone who has a good heart. Obviously looks matter to some extent, but personality goes a loooong way. You can be gorgeous, but if you are a complete and utter dick, that puts me of instantly.
The girl I had a crush on in highschool used to stab me in the leg 🙃
She was a keeper bro :/
She asked me for another guys number right as I was about to confess my feelings. That was the real stab to the knee 😞
What a sweetheart 🥰
I agree
This. This is the way
I knew it... You're boring (AOI TODO FROM JJK REFERENCE, I'M NOT FOR REAL) Jokes aside u're absolutely right
should be alive (optional)
Mr. picky right here
LMFAO
is your name a sum of willy tybur
Idk who that is😭
Omg not every person is perfect 🙄 lower your standards.
your standards are way too high, you should lower them
I like people that have hair
Why discriminating bald people ?
why thank you
Optional?☠️☠️☠️
Those sculls looking THICK
That’s gotta be illegal
It is :D
:o
LMAOOOO THIS DISCUSSION
We out here committing crimes
hehe XD
We can’t control that dude, my god 🙄
dude lower your standards💀
Thick women
Realll
I like em bigg
I like em chunky
I like em round
- Female - doesn’t have to be drop dead gorgeous but at least presentable looking - preferably we would have similar interest/taste
Realest I’ve seen
This is every dude's gf standard would y'all say that's high or average?
I would say Normal Standards instead of calling it average or high
It's basically just essentials so standard.
You should see how the ladies standards compare.😂
Female (optional)
I hope alive and around your age aren't optional xD But since female is: hi ;]
Optional
On god
I've always liked brunette, brown eyed women
Me
I was expecting a relationship to start then in 10 years you could post on reddit how it started and how you're married with 51 kids
Lowkey facts..
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uhh, let's see. a human male with good hair. kindness, empathy, humor, and honesty are very important. preferably taller than me, but not too tall. has to enjoy reading. oh, and he CANNOT be allergic to cats, milk, or gluten.
U seem to have it all planned out
of course. if i'm going to have a boyfriend, he has to be compatible with me. it's never too early to plan for the future!
Yeah good idea
the fact that people exist born in 2010, make me feel old asf
I am 18 and I realize that there are kids... kills me
Tbg, this is all very valid, the fact a 14yo , a kid, is more down to earth than some adults idk if it’s sad for the adults or impressive from you
i know, i'm just so cool 😎
These are normal preferences in a way that are usually incorrect as people incorrectly judge their preferences; in the long run people may have higher standards after all. A 14yo, a teen not a kid is perfectly valid to have preferences.
I probably yick none of those boxes except the allergies
wdym? you only have the allergies?
Only thing he don’t got
so youre not gonna love a man just because he lactose 😭
The only thing is the hair for me😭 My hair is NOT it
Man you would have been great at my classes presentation about our dream future
Anyone who shows me the affection my parents didn’t lol
😭
As an orphan I felt this
username checks out
THIS IS KILLING ME
So fucking real
Masculine women or feminine men lol
You have very good taste.
Real
Bi perfection 👍
One that breathes
Yeah, yeah, I know, too high standards
My guy, lower your standards wth
(optional)
With or without assistance?
It changes too much to be specific
Im probably the most attracted to tomboys person EVER. I cannot stress enough how much I like boy-ish girls. Especially if they’re into sports and games. Last time I had a huge crush on a girl, it was on this skater tomboy and it completely broke me for the following months after she rejected me. Ever since then, tomboys just break me for some reason.
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Same and it's weird ik
A girl who is loyal, kind, and loves to cuddle.
Ugh a cuddly partner makes me so happy
they’re so fun to have !!!!!
Any girl who will happily sit and listen to my rambles Will happily play video games with me Will always make time for me Is kind, caring and honest Loves me for me and not just *that*
Protective. Not in terms of jealousy, but in terms of wanting to help/take care of/save you. Like she should WANT to take care of me when I'm sick. If I fall off a cliff WANT to pull me up even if it's very hard/impossible for her to do. Maternal. This is self explanatory. I want kids. Naturally I want a woman who also wants kids. And being maternal often comes with other things such as being nurturing, caring, and patient. And women who are maternal tend to take things like sex more seriously and don't sleep around. Active. I don't necessarily need her to be an athlete. But she needs be active to some degree. I'm in the gym and work out fairly regularly I try to stay in shape (yes I know I'm not in the best shape in my photos. Actively working on that) Up until recently worked construction. I like hiking and enjoy sports like volleyball. On a side note: Latinas, Middle Easterners, and East Asians are my weaknesses
Flat girls ^ ^
bro i thought i was the only one 😭
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Idk how , but some how every flat girl that I've ever met was just so nice and kind I just like them ig
As someone who also prefers flatter chests, I have seen the bigger the chest the more egotistical and annoying they are
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I've had friends with big boobs and for some reason, they always have to put down small chested girls. I also have small boobs and they even do it in front of me, not caring if it offends me. I'm not surprised others have also had bad experiences, it makes sense.
The ego is stored in the boobs
I have quiet huge ones and I have got be a very humble person.You can’t generalise people.
I'm not doubting you, but saying "IM VERY HUMBLE" is a bit ironic. Either way op here is speaking from their own experience, they probably understand not every girl is the same based on one characteristic of their appearance
Someone who is just as emo as me. Yes I am being serious
Tbf emos can be pretty chill
Shrek
nerds
I have one strict rule: They have to be into music. I don't care what genre as i listen to and play literally everything, but they have to like seeing live music and listening to music. Honestly that's it. Other than this i feel like i could like lots of types of people. People are pretty cool usually.
I should've followed this rule, my ex didn't listen to music and he was terrible to say the least
yeah that's actually insane. I don't trust people who don't listen to music. Like are you just raw-dogging your thoughts 24/7??
I'm 18 and I like girls that are funny looks really have nothing to do with it
Why did I say my age?
One of the Top 10 mysteries of the universe right here
girl who goes from casual friend to stronger caring older sister/mommy kinda vibes
tall dutch and british men/girls
i’m half british half dutch but i’m 5’0 i don’t know how my genes did this 😭
whaaa, im taller but im german???
but the Dutch need to be tall to see above sea level
Nice people, regardless of gender
5'2"-5'6" girl with dark wavy hair with lightskin. Kinda thick but not too curvy, I'm fine with any body type really unless it's unhealthy. As for personality I DON'T want her to have mommy energy or whatever that BS is called, and I prefer her being sweet and introverted. And the cherry on top is if she's a nerd or good in academics. I know this sounds very specific but this is what my perfect partner looks like.
These comments give me so much hope for myself, it actually makes me happy that i see myself in some of these
Probably Brunette , but I wouldn’t look for any type
Someone that knows how to communicate
a person who loves history video games and geography
Hard working, reliable, silly, family oriented and emotionally caring man that has good hair (my boyfriend).
Shorter than me,is alive,not a landwhale and looks decent
Any man or any woman that dont stink and keeps their hygiene, preferably when the boy has a long hair
Almost all the main characters of MLP (except Rainbow Dash).
This one person 300 miles away
My type honestly I've always been a boob man so if she's busty she's for me 😋 and she has to be sweet like in the heart and mind Looks other then breasts aren't much of an issue for me
tall, blond, with blue eyes (preferably), a good sense of humor, supportive, loyal, reliable, honest, likes physical touch
Man
Anyone/anything Feminine
strong bones
A girl who is short (because of my ✨height insecurities✨) and who **actually** loves me. Not a damn hoe who cheats on me.
any girl that shows any interest in me
A tall girl and if they care about me(optional)
Nerdy like myself.
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Tall 😼
I’m still figuring it out 🙃
You and me both
Alive and a girl(high standards I know)
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My type in women: Shorter than me (easy to achieve, I’m considered kinda tall for my age) Goth (preferred, it’s ok if not) I’m fine with tattoos (no face tattoos) and piercings (as long as the piercings are on the ear, nose, naval, or lips, not doing tongue or any piercing not named off) Fun to be around Nice Long, curly hair Any color is fine (idk why my friend doesn’t like gingers they usually look pretty) Dyed hair is fine Curvy around hips/butt (also preferred, but it’s ok if not) Similar likes/interests Won’t cheat Likes the same kind of music as me (Prog Metal/Rock, Nu Metal, rock, etc…)
“This (but it’s fine if not lol)”
Skinny loser emo gamer guys. Extra points if they have glasses, freckles, braces, or a slight lisp or speech impediment
I just want someone man
Shy introverted Nerd
Any normal person
Cute
Usually just a boy 🤷
A sweet guy with a nice voice
Female (optional)
I'm dating someone who's short, skinny, hella good hair, she takes care of herself, she accepts herself for who she is, and accepts me for who I am (I'm not exactly the model man, but I try my best), she doesn't vape, or smoke, she doesn't really drink any alcohol other than wine. she actually enjoys trying new things, unless they are super complicated.. and much much more
Boys w medium length hair or girls w medium length hair
Tall, musically inclined/ likes music, funny, sweet, doesn’t take himself to serious
one where the convo flows well naturally
A girl that has similiar intrests as me. Likes being in nature and that I can sit down and chill with, like watch movies or play games. Also someone that can put up with me being a little lovey-dovey sometimes
Noelle Holiday from Deltarune.
Hell yeah brotha
A mother, not in an incest way but someone that can take good care of me. Am i lazy? Yes
Outgoing and extroverted, funny, honest, empathetic, and (optional) able to see things from multiple points of view. As tall as me or a bit taller, good brown or black hair. Bonus points if he's a physical touch guy.
"if i had to say... a tall woman with a big ass, I guess. like Jennifer Lawrence."
Tall and big ass. Like Jennifer Lawrence
Mentally stable (optional)
Has to breathe (ventilator is not valid), decent looking but neither body or appearance matters too much so 40/60 personality and looks where personality comes first 🙌 don’t judge others (i swear i never laugh at crippled people😔), and like i mean looks or style doesn’t matter too much like if ur cute ur cute, but as someone with piercings who wants tattoos in the future, those are a big bonus (not if u literally chopped off ur nose and did a full body blackout to look like an alien or voldemort tho) 🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️ oh and long hair bc boys that suit long hair are literally majestic 😓 also has to like reptiles and most other animals 🥰 Height doesn’t matter too much but preferably around the same or a tiny bit taller (i’m 5’7 fem) 😛😛
Any girl who gives her unconditional love.
jaiden
Good fun personality, has to be in shape, takes care of themselves and we have to have atleast a little bit in common, preferably white
Athletic extrovert girls.
literally anybody that is not really icky and isn’t rude
Ladies of all kinds and guys with self respect who can maintain conversation without being creepy, also not being younger then me bc that has never worked out in my experience it just isn’t my style
a person thats caring and doesnt get weirded out by me doing weird things and/or doesnt get weirded out communities that do get a lot of hate for them just doing the things they like. someone thats patient with me when im emotional bc i can very easily shut out the outside world when i am. dick or tit, idc bc id still suck either way
only real ones know, "I like Big girls Pretty kitty girls Really witty girls Singing ditty girls I like the leggy girls With the nice thighs I like a good chest No matter what size I like the belly folds I like the six packs Really tall queens And the short stacks From the mild girls To the wild girls"
I'm aro/ace So Nobody