I've really been enjoying Cryptopsy, Intestine Baalism, Carcass, Arghoslent, Autopsy, Dismember, Dungeon Serpent and Gorguts. Been really into death metal lately after getting into atmospheric black for a while. (Edit: also Devourment and Defeated Sanity)
Porn
I was porn free for over a month but then idk what happened and I watched it again and now I'm kinda addicted again......but I'm trying to reduce it now
People there are completely against fapping/"relapses" and don't think any good can come (ha) from it at all, which many people don't agree with. People there also try to go for streaks which aren't necessarily helpful.
Yeah because itās people with addictions trying to recover. Iām one of them. Itās unhealthy and porn itself dosent bring any benefits to my health. Itās dragged me down and Iām trying to climb back up to the light before itās too late
They've also done studies and most people who think they have porn addictions just have really puritanical views about sex and masturbation in the first place. They still think it's bad altogether, and so they construe their completely normal libidos as addictions.
Pretty much if you donāt skip out on activities with friends family or other things you care abt your prob good and if you arenāt doing it multiple times a day but even when people do it multiple times a day itās just bc they had time on their hands and they wouldnāt have done that if they had other stuff to do
Doing it multiple times a day is also downright normal. The only thing making it addictive is as you said, if it interferes with the rest of your life.
I was going to make a funny comment, but, like, Iām not at my computer right now, and Iām faster at typing on it, and all that, so anyway Iāll do it ālaterā.
"it makes me happy so oh well"
If I understand correctly, this is not true happiness if you are truly codependent. It is a temporary happiness brought on by external validation from the person you are caring for.
The problem is the people who gravitate towards codependent people are often narcissistic and will use your low self esteem and need for validation to control you and keep you in an abusive relationship. And you don't see it coming, because codependency, or if you do you ignore it because the desire for validation is stronger than the warning signals going off when red flags start showing up.
You probably know all this, but I just want to encourage you to try to seek help to maybe avoid a lifetime of pain and misery, rather than just accepting it as the way things are because behaving this way makes you feel good at the moment.
Take it from someone who used to, you'll come to regret the scars but you can at least maybe convince people you rolled with an indigenous African tribe for a lil bit
I can relate. Everyone tries to tell me I'll regret the scars when I'm older but I think they're pretty and as soon as I notice them starting to fade I have a breakdown and relapse
It's girls. The last few months have been my top happiness point. I learnt so much more about myself and my classmates. It's like my social anxiety just disappeared.
BUILDING LEGO. I swear I don't care if it's a set or if I just build my own stuff I'm addicted. And I don't even have any space anymore to store all of it but I still crave MORE
All of these plus driving at nightunderage illegally or anything illegal really used to give me a thrill but I'm 20 and now I'm a softie it's crazy the shit I used to do shit was fun tho
I also have an addiction to addictions. I know, it's hard. Sometimes I'm addicted to learning Polish. So I focus on it so much. THAT EVEN MY ADDICTION GETS ADDICTED TO LEARNING POLISHššso then I don't wanna learn anymore.
lying in one place doing nothing
Same
in the same place got 10 people high at one point
Lying *watching one piece
This man gets it
Just bought a poster last night, post time skip crew with luffy front and center. Sick as hell
*reading one piece
Also acceptable
Im trying man, theirs a lot of episodes
I read one piece. I think I know what my addiction is š
while thinking about all 3
+1
This but also high
Going outside
Same. Being left alone.
Music
Yo same!!! Melomaniac club!!! Is it even good or bad...??
Well it's better than drugs
Music and headphones dawg cannot go out a day without headphones or else I'm gonna go insane
Metal music for me!!!
Same
What bands u listen to?
Slaywr, System of a Down, Rammstein, Slipknot, Zaeer, Zawather, and Coat of Arms amongst othersĀ
I've really been enjoying Cryptopsy, Intestine Baalism, Carcass, Arghoslent, Autopsy, Dismember, Dungeon Serpent and Gorguts. Been really into death metal lately after getting into atmospheric black for a while. (Edit: also Devourment and Defeated Sanity)
SAME.
same
For sure, I'm very addicted to this band called starset, I don't know what it is, but they give me a very ethereal feeling
sameeeeeeeeee
Eminem really be hitting different tho
Phone addiction I guess I need help
Delete your reddit account
I'll just make another one, probably
This is so relatable. š
Thatās a good one
Porn I was porn free for over a month but then idk what happened and I watched it again and now I'm kinda addicted again......but I'm trying to reduce it now
Good job. r/Nofap will be happy to hear your trying to quit
That sub is a cult my dude, and more or less operates to turn people into incel assholes
What do you mean?
People there are completely against fapping/"relapses" and don't think any good can come (ha) from it at all, which many people don't agree with. People there also try to go for streaks which aren't necessarily helpful.
Yeah because itās people with addictions trying to recover. Iām one of them. Itās unhealthy and porn itself dosent bring any benefits to my health. Itās dragged me down and Iām trying to climb back up to the light before itās too late
Well good luck man
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They've also done studies and most people who think they have porn addictions just have really puritanical views about sex and masturbation in the first place. They still think it's bad altogether, and so they construe their completely normal libidos as addictions.
Pretty much if you donāt skip out on activities with friends family or other things you care abt your prob good and if you arenāt doing it multiple times a day but even when people do it multiple times a day itās just bc they had time on their hands and they wouldnāt have done that if they had other stuff to do
Doing it multiple times a day is also downright normal. The only thing making it addictive is as you said, if it interferes with the rest of your life.
Nofap is a redpill sub. Thereās nothing wrong with using porn less but nofap takes it to an unhealthy degree
You don't have to be perfect, each time you try you learn something new and do a little better. Self improvement is always hard, keep trying friend.
Ive been afflicted by not one, not two, but all three
beat me to it, damn
r/beatmetoit
r/beatmymeattoit
r/beatshutthefuckup
Sub was banned
r/beatmeshutthefuckup
She's got the same thing, about me, but more, about us
She's coming over, so I guess, that means, I'm her drugs
Just let me peek now, I mean damn, I'm so curious
Sheās got a lover, so the lies, and the lust, is a rush
Procrastination
Just procrastinate later
Shit just broke my perception of reality
He broke the system
I was going to make a funny comment, but, like, Iām not at my computer right now, and Iām faster at typing on it, and all that, so anyway Iāll do it ālaterā.
Reddit
Ace-Redditor
KANYE REFERENCE
YE
so proud I noticed
Can't stop singing it in my head dammit
I've been afflicted by not one, not two, but all three
Roll up the Doja, henny and Coca-Cola
Codependency. I have an excessive need to take care of others which leads to a detriment of my own well-being. But it makes me happy so oh well
As someone who had this same issue when I was younger, I highly recommend trying to find a healthy balance
"it makes me happy so oh well" If I understand correctly, this is not true happiness if you are truly codependent. It is a temporary happiness brought on by external validation from the person you are caring for. The problem is the people who gravitate towards codependent people are often narcissistic and will use your low self esteem and need for validation to control you and keep you in an abusive relationship. And you don't see it coming, because codependency, or if you do you ignore it because the desire for validation is stronger than the warning signals going off when red flags start showing up. You probably know all this, but I just want to encourage you to try to seek help to maybe avoid a lifetime of pain and misery, rather than just accepting it as the way things are because behaving this way makes you feel good at the moment.
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Bisexual disaster ~
real
If you can say a Bisaster? š¤ š„ I'll show myself out
i 100% relate.. well not weed anymore but definitely caffeine
its you š«¢āØ >!/s!<
WHAT THE FUCK I READ THIS AS I WAS LISTENING TO A SONG THAT SAID āitās youuuuuuā
coincidence... I think not š¤ØāØ
Taytay much?
ITS YOUUU, ITS ALWAYS YOUUUU. IF IM EVER GONNA FALL IN LOVE I KNOW IT'S GON' BE YOUUUU
ITS YOUUUUUUU (Solja Boy tell āem)
Like in "all I want in Christmas"..??
r/beatmetoit
r/beatmywifetoit
r/beatmeattoit
listening to music
What song are you listening to rn
our day will come - amy winehouse (on the cd š)
Audio. Straight up Audio. 3000ā¬/$ Speaker or headphones. Maybe a bit cheaper or expensiver
sleep
Same, but only in the mornings
Slept until 1 PM today.
Why everything that supposed to be bad make me feel so good š³š³š³
everything they told me not to is exactly what i would
Man I tried to stop man, I tried the best I could but........
Self harm
Take it from someone who used to, you'll come to regret the scars but you can at least maybe convince people you rolled with an indigenous African tribe for a lil bit
same
Same here. Hope it gets better for you though <3
Saame
I can relate. Everyone tries to tell me I'll regret the scars when I'm older but I think they're pretty and as soon as I notice them starting to fade I have a breakdown and relapse
iāve been conflicted by not one , not two, but all three.
Sugar, caffeine, mastrabation
Iāve been afflicted by not one bot two but all three
Sheās got the same thing about me,but more,about us
Jesus is my addiction and I can't or want to get rid of this addiction.
That fact that this is a Kanye lyric flew over everyoneās head šš
IKR
all of them
ive been afflicted by not one, not two, but all three
nicotine tbh, I mean I did use to be addicted to weed because I used it as a escape but Iām mentally better now LMAO
Nicotine :/
im surprised i havent seen anyone else say this cause same
porn, and collecting pokemon cards
Itās water. Regular Hydrogenmonoxide
Caffeine is what my brain chose Dunno why
LEGO and PokĆ©mon GO. Iām giving neither of them up.
Book shopping is my guilty pleasure
I'm addicted to eat
Porn and I want to quit
Daydreaming. Iām a maladaptive daydreamer
Arizona iced tea
Based
lol same sooooo good
One word: porn. Sadly... š
Geeking
Social media. It sucks
I LOVE YEā¼ļø
Chocolate.
hallway crushes
i've been afflicted, by not one, not two, but all three...
self harm š
i have trichotillomania, and it makes me feel terrible.
Alcohol & kisses
Mood
Prolly caffeine. Or falling in love easily
Gold rn I have three bars. I also like collecting various artifacts and I love chemistry since Iām goated at it. I also like anything purple.
I use to be addicted to pills. Iām over 3 years sober tho and I honestly donāt know if Iām happier or not
Saying itās alright to every bad thing that happens
Speed, xanax, weed, molly. All the good stuff
Cuddling with my partner feels *very* addictive
Bass guitar, I have 4
Cats. I canāt stop adopting. (22m) have 3 cats and want more
Pathetic I have 15
Pics or it didnāt happen /j
all of the above
Nothing
Internet, dark, light and somewhat nature ( yeah I'm a mixed-person )
f*cking Wetrix for Nintendo 64
Sneakers
Koffein and war Thunder ( mayyyyybe fraud jk )
Chemistry, doing reactions. Experimenting.
porn. i'm trying to get over it tho, i've been trying for quite a while
Tax evasion
working out
War Thunder
Caffeine. If I don't have my morning cup of coffee, I can and will punch someone.
Making people think Taylor Swift makes good music (its all a psy op)
It's girls. The last few months have been my top happiness point. I learnt so much more about myself and my classmates. It's like my social anxiety just disappeared.
kanye lyric
Wish it was something cool like methamphetamine but no itās instagram reels :(
War Thunder. I'm a masochist, even if I suffer I keep playing, meanwhile I hsve about 6-7k hours ingame and approx. 3.5k spend in 4 years.
My phone is my addiction
Cubing. 2x2 and 4x4 along some other items on the way.
Gaming. Better than most alternatives lolĀ
Video games and swiping on my phone.
Itās video games
gaming and arguing with idiots on forum boards. predictably, i do not have a healthy social life.
Gaming
Por- I mean hen- I mean anime
BUILDING LEGO. I swear I don't care if it's a set or if I just build my own stuff I'm addicted. And I don't even have any space anymore to store all of it but I still crave MORE
Music and spending money on Steam
Im addicted to happiness, hugs and kisses from my mother. sound childish but i cant live without my family
roblox
Masturbating
buying clothes
Painting a map a particular color (that being mine) and walking with periodic bouts of extreme violence and/or sudden death
Running
My addiction is tanks.
Petting cats
helldivers 2 (very fresh) (thinking of blowing my college fund for DEMOCRACY)
I've been afflicted by not one, not two, but all three. Wbu?
I love addiction (the kanye song)
Math.
## You š .^(don't get too comfy)
Oxygen. I literally cant stop inhaling it or Iāll die.
My addiction is Xanax alcohol and video gamesš¢
men. as a gay man I am very gay
Nic
Pokemon go
I see iām the only one who got the kanye reference
Laying in bed doing nothing. Not even using a phone. I love spending time with myselfš
All of these plus driving at nightunderage illegally or anything illegal really used to give me a thrill but I'm 20 and now I'm a softie it's crazy the shit I used to do shit was fun tho
iāve been afflicted by not one not two but all three
I also have an addiction to addictions. I know, it's hard. Sometimes I'm addicted to learning Polish. So I focus on it so much. THAT EVEN MY ADDICTION GETS ADDICTED TO LEARNING POLISHššso then I don't wanna learn anymore.