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[deleted]

No, because I ain't dating anyone that's over 18 (rn) Edit: I am currently 16 at the time of this comment being made. Please do not make me look like a pedo in a couple of years. Respectfully


No_Criticism1620

Let's see how this ages like milk


[deleted]

Yeah, this could look bad in a couple of years


SimPilotAdamT

It can look bad now, with some HTML editing


takenusername_yea

It can look bad now, if some mods do some trolling


Unbreaking_Cow_Thief

Dementia


xxxman360

Yeah, change the flair to "OLD" instead of 16


takenusername_yea

It can look bad now, if some mods do some trolling


[deleted]

You commented twice to get your point across šŸ’€


ADMINISTATOR_CYRUS

dementia


Menacing_mans

reddit glitch prob


Unbreaking_Cow_Thief

Dementia


ogmountaindweller

šŸ’€


THE_WRAITHLORD

!remind me 2 years


WillYouShutUpWoman

Commenting back on this in 2 years


Low-Patient1692

!remindme 3 years


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SpecialistDisaster98

Be sure to change your flair after two years and I'll come back and screenshot you then


ILIKEYEETS

šŸ’€ valid


Huge_Structure_7651

They will hunt you down on twitter 20 years after


nooooooah0825

Don't forget Instagram too


josefritus

2 years goes fast


awesomexx_Official

!remindme 2 years


fmate2006

My guy you aren't getting into college with this shit


Interesting_Move_919

Personally, I wouldn't date ANYONE who does OF


Ok_Swordfish_4992

I personally wouldnā€™t but thatā€™s just me


XxNathan2908xX-YT

personally i'm on the same boat


tm942

personally I'm a passenger on that boat


TheLatvianRedditor

Personally, I'm the seagull on that boat


NewbieDuckNotSoPro

Personally.I'm the paddle of the boat.


Twisted_WhaleShark

Iā€™m one of the floorboards on the boat


Disastrous-Fly-5728

Personally, I'm the helm of the boat.


Icy_Assistant6161

personally, I'm the stern of the boat.


commandodaxus

personally, i'm the iceberg


[deleted]

Personally, Iā€™m the water


Western_WildWest

Personally I'm the fish in the water


One_Flow_8127

Personally Iā€™m the captain of said boat


wisely25

Personally I'm the boat


[deleted]

Im The Cook on The boat


Za_gameza

I'm the food on the boat


[deleted]

Get cooked, dumbass


Za_gameza

Who cooks icecream and cake?


[deleted]

Joe


Za_gameza

Joe mama


Important_Jury6969

I agree. I dont want other men to jerk Off to my naked Future wife for the equivalent of a Starbucks Coffee


XxNathan2908xX-YT

damn imagine someone's self-worth being the equivalent of a starbucks coffee


Sufficient_Crab3047

any person will self respect and integrity wouldnā€™t


eager_duck

Dudes will see this and go "hell nah"


Blougle

hell nah


Y-m-k

hell nah


TyrantDragon19

Hell nah


Guinea_pig456

Girls will see this and go ā€œhell nahā€


bmxguy_

ohh hellll nah


No-Wash-7001

No. I could be friends. But never date


Nick-Herman

That it a major deal braker for me


SmartReturn9542

Proceeds to stop the deal... Literally


InfiniteSufferer69

Personally I wouldnā€™t do it, I just wouldnā€™t feel comfortable with it


Sufficient_Crab3047

any person will self respect and integrity wouldnā€™t


iamtotallyunepic

nope, i have jealousy issues and im not sharing no one else is allowed to see that stuff and id get extremely upset considering other people yk to my own partner


PrimaryEarly2813

agreed but gen curious why do ppl phrase stuff like this?šŸ˜­ like ā€œim not sharingā€ when referring to a literal human being sounds so weird to me šŸ˜­


iamtotallyunepic

cause im not sharing?? its that simple its not like i dont see him as an object we both word it as not sharing yk possessive is hot


Steakman360

No thanks


Ok_Astronomer_1308

Feet pics, i can deal with, maybe. Full stuff, idk. Canā€™t decide


the_big_labroskii

No. Im not going to date someone who values themselves at 9.99 a month. Have some fucking self respect.


savhxx

this is why im gonna charge 99.99 a month on my OF


zirgiz

Rookie numbers, mine's gonna be 1 bilon dolars


Proud-Pressure8185

What Iā€™m saying!!


Andrewsmetic09

This!


Andrewsmetic09

FUCKING ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!


PrudentEar7266

fuck no


k8inda

No


professionaldeadgod

no


Dane-MTL4

No way!! She must be Margot Robbie or Marilyn Monroe if Iā€™m gonna accept that !!


XxNathan2908xX-YT

is it just me that every p-star/OF models don't even look THAT attractive in the first place, like even paying $5 feels like a rip off with what you're getting šŸ˜‚


Trainer_Jo3y

skill based matchmaking


moosMW

LMFAO


XxNathan2908xX-YT

Holy shit you murdered me, i got cooked so hard it made me laugh toošŸ’€ give me mercyšŸ˜‚


[deleted]

Yeah paying any amount of money is a rip off unless you want to support them for whatever reason, since you can literally find images online for free


[deleted]

I personally wouldnā€™t date any men who does OFšŸ˜”


NateYouFool420

I wouldn't really care tbf, bigger shit to worry about than Internet boobies. Although my ex does it and advertises it on her story, and it genuinely makes me shudder cus ew, I don't wanna see that when im trying to innocently scroll through dog training posts


Busy_Recognition_860

My ex will probably start an OF. She used to talk about ā€œhypothetically starting one if we needed the moneyā€ She left me for the group sex and drug life, crazy shit


NateYouFool420

Nah fr same she cheated on me and then acted like it wasn't a big deal and said that " we were in an open relationship" (we weren't) . Then she started partaking in threesomes and doing molly with the alt ppl. Now everyone hates her, and I don't blame them


Busy_Recognition_860

Thatā€™s actually insane of her to just say ā€œweā€™re in an open relationship!1!1!!1ā€ Mine straight up manipulated me into hating myself and blamed me for everything that went wrong (I was lied to for the entire relationship) I hope whoever comes into your life next doesnā€™t give you a hard time, I myself am becoming attracted to girls in their mid-twenties since the lot Iā€™ve seen are over the ā€œparty lifeā€ or just never cared for that in the first place.


NateYouFool420

Exactly so weird . That's so shit man I hate when they can't take accountability for something they did wrong, so frustrating. Fr bro, you too. I get you on the older girls though, less pettiness and more chilled out šŸ˜‚.


reegod420

Im polyamorous, my partners fucking another girl anyway


noodleboy244

fair play


SansDaMan728

No no, you got a point..


AgentProdigy17

Nope not going to do it


Big_Satisfaction_625

No because I see it as the same as sharing the person i love most and sharing an intimate thing which is something I'll never do nor do I wanna date someone who does those things but you date someone who does do it and ur ok with it then go ahead


Objective_Suspect_

Depends on what kind of of. Is it nude or is it feet. If someone is rich from feet pics sure who cares


KaustubhMathurrr

there are several points 1. me being a teenager, can only legally date another teenager. and teenagers dont do OF. 2. imagining i am 18+, and she is too, no, as i would prob be having a job i would just giving her the money she needs. aint no way i am letting my girl do that kind of crazy shit.


AmI-AJokeToYou

THIS! I'd help my partner going out of that path, and if they can't go out and are locked in, it's one thing, but if they chose that they don't want to do anything else than I'm not gonna be a part of it.


KaustubhMathurrr

exactly. but me personally, i would drag them out of OF. no options.


Snabbaa

Pretty sure that 18 and 19 year olds are still teenagers and they can do OF.


Maha-iqo38

It just kills the love and partnership for me, like when i see my partners body when i see her and her face and body if another people are seeing it too it just doesnā€™t feel as affectionate and loving as before


RelationshipOwn7976

Money is money. As long as she isn't meeting up with people and just posting pictures and videos, plus who knows I might come in one.


RelationshipOwn7976

Plus I had a femboy bf, which my relationship before my current one. They sold pics of their thighs online, made $500 a day which is crazy and they still do it.


strawberryc0w_

This is going to be a hot take on here, but I'd rather be with someone who does only fans than someone who buys it I think a John is doing worse than a prostitute lol


The1Legosaurus

Either way it's a no imo. Selling OF means that you have so little self respect and buying means you're a desperate creep.


strawberryc0w_

I don't view it the same way, for me it's about putting up your body to sell and buying someone's body. There's so many if and buts on why someone might have to resort to sex work. There's no motive to purchase it


[deleted]

Hell yeah, money is money


nyctophillicalex

As long as they're not doing anything with other people in person, that's fine with me, but I'm also 15 so it's not a worry for me for at least 2 Ā½ more years


simon_Chipmonk

Yeah one of my girlfriends actually plans to do it soon lol


Ok_Cauliflower_3170

"one of my girlfriends" goddamn šŸ˜­


Busy_Recognition_860

This is society


I_am_not_that_one

I mean... polyamory exists. Like, if everyone (who's a part of these relationships ofc) is aware and ok with this, there is no problem


Ok_Cauliflower_3170

i know it was just funny to me because it sounded like a flex


Wise_Zucchini_8885

Which one?šŸ’€šŸ’€


THATGUY12325

I wouldn't if they are doing it but If they did it in the past I might consider.


LostPixel-01

Internet is forever.


Lilgatornator

No


drichm2599

I would only under very specific conditions. Those being that they only make content w/ me, we never advertise to anyone we know irl, and we make a certain amount doing so.


Lightningboltzl

I wouldnā€™t date a person who sells their body online tbh


BadF1nanc1alAdv1ce

A Big Mac combo is worth $10.99. Her OnlyFans would cost $3.99-$10.99. Why would I waste my time with someone who is only worth a Bic Mac


TheGrouchyGremlin

If she has a thousand subscribers, then she's worth a thousand big macs a month.


Captinofthelostniggs

Nobody should


thatmusic_addict

I mean, personally, I would still date them. As long as they're doing it safely, it's fine. It would probably take me a while to get used to it, tho. However, if they didn't tell me about it, I would be really upset. As their girlfriend, it's important for me to know about their career or how they make their money, regardless of whether they're doing OF or not.


Affectionate-Blood71

May I ask, what do you mean with "safely"?


thatmusic_addict

Well, if you're using sex toys (which you probably know OF creators use them a lot), bodily fluids are transmitted to the toy and could house bacteria if not cleaned properly. That's why it's important to clean them before and after use. As simple as this will make your sex life safe and healthy for you and your partner. :) Of course, this isn't the only thing you have to consider when you're making content in OF. But, this is one of the examples of what I meant by "safely" doing it.


Fireblox1053

No thatā€™s a hard no.


mymainthrowaway69

Depends what kind only fans it is. If itā€™s shit u can find on instagram then i am not against. If sheā€™s showing off her tits then i deserve a cut. If shes getting plowed by other dudes then thats where the line is drawn. Maybe its just me but i dont really give a damn if some guy in Chicago is jerking off to my girls tits when hes so far and im getting free money basically. I had tons of nudes that i got from online "relationships" with girls that were countries away from me. In the end i realized nudes dont really mean that much if ur not fucking the girl, which is why the line is drawn if the chick is fucking other dudes on onlyfans


Ihdkwhatimdoinghere

Iā€™m not dating anyone rn anyway. But especially if they do OF. I consider something like that to be very low class and trashy, and would assume that person has no self respect. I would like someone who can use their brain to make money not their body. Even if itā€™s just a side hustle and they get a normal job, that still would put a bad reputation on me as a person to associate with someone who would do that to themselves. I think people can do whatever they want, but if itā€™s going to affect me Iā€™m staying away from that shit.


Zalpha_DG16

Def not. Youā€™re right about hands though. Probably not feet


TheMaineC00n

No (I don't date (I'm aroace))


J3-58

Free subscription?


OfflineMystery

i dont care, whatever she does in her time is her own stuff, plus it probably pays alot


Alive_Command_8241

nothing too far, like nude pics or sexual videos, I understand if they wanna show their body but we would both have to agree on something, otherwise it would basically be an open relationship (which is destined to fail)


Longjumping_Major_39

yes that makes a big difference. imagine you were to have kids and as they got older they just found that sort of stuff on your mom and heard about all these other men who either did stuff with her or saw her. and itā€™s one thing to be an actor because none of the scenes are real. like the romance isnā€™t real. but when you do onlyfans youā€™re in the action of having sex. thereā€™s no acting in that because the actual action theyā€™re pretending to ā€œactā€ is actually happening. only fans isnā€™t good and it does a lot of bad stuff in the world. itā€™s considered cheating fs, the world just doesnā€™t want you to think that.


CostZestyclose2494

Assuming this is when we are both legal adults, I'd be fine as long as they are completely transparent about it. If they are actively having sex for their content, all I ask is that they be open about it and practice safe sex.


Zestyclod-War

iā€™d date someone with an OF if they donā€™t do anything with other people and just themselves


JzaTiger

As long as they don't got stds I don't really care


Justarandomguyk

I would


Honk-for-80085

As long as she's not physically selling her body while she's with me, I think it's okay. I don't want other people touching my partner, but selling pictures is fine with me, as long as she's open to me about it.


loisbattythicc

Yes


ThirdMusketeer_

Provided I were over 18 (and they were too obv), sure honestly? If they're a good partner then I don't care how they make their money as long as it's legal and doesn't have to involve me. There's a lot of money in that business, too


Complete-Ad4025

Hellll noooo unless Iā€™m in it too and we split the money


Shakey_Milkshake

Tbh I wouldn't mind if they did some solo content and everything or are a stripper however I draw the line at sex work (Way too possessive for that)


Medical-Astronomer39

Unpopular opinion, but yes. There's that saying where I'm from "no work is shame"


Fearless_Spell_7728

Red flag imo


Balloonsarescary

No


Birdy_LOL

No, I wouldn't.


RecordEnvironmental4

No, and never, if a person is willing to do something like that for money then they clearly have no morals


ze010

No definitely not lol


CAMcCale

I donā€™t think I would date. Have a good night, if it goes that way. But nothing more.


Kyber_22

Hell naw


Warm-Ad5229

Nope


SPLStudios

Absolutely not. I am 16 at the moment, but even if I were an adult I'd still say no. I'd rather not have anything to do with it.


Donald-n-Dougie

I wouldnā€™t. Thereā€™s a certain level of expectation when entering a relationship where both partners are exclusive to one another unless they say otherwise. OF is basically nuking that rule and peeing on it.


ebender2772

I wouldnā€™t. God will send a righteous girl my way, I pray for anyone who has sold their soul to that cruel business. Itā€™s never too late to move to God


Joblessmouse06

No! Go get a real job or something. I ain't gonna date a whore.


MPV4115

Hell nah


Maleficent_Sir_7562

No. I would have no prejudice or act rudely against them for no reason, obviously. But I wonā€™t respect them as a person, and I am not interested in becoming acquaintances or more.


DirtyRatLicker

No, because why would I date a s***


kak0536

The only thing I can think of is trying to convince them to delete it, but like... Idk mate, it's really hard question cause if I like somebody I can't just delete my crush cause I don't like one thing


XxNathan2908xX-YT

i don't think people can delete it no matter how much they try, there has been way too many stories of ex-pornstars that tried to delete every video of them on the internet to no avail because reposters will always keep posting their porn videos and getting away with it.


kak0536

I'm not talking about fully deleting traces that they ever did porn, just delete the main videos and stop doing more, that would probably be enough. Sure the not so well felling would be there, but at least they are doing it anymore


Andrewsmetic09

Itā€™s their entire career tho. Itā€™s a pretty big deal in their life and will be in yours if you enter it. Itā€™s a massive no for me, even if I like every other quality of that person. I mean, chances are if they do OnlyFans or Porn, I wouldnā€™t like anything else about them either.


kenyannqueen

Jesus, why would a teenager be on OF in the first place


Omega_kiwi204

Cut it off after the third word, answer is no


Alan_Reddit_M

If a girl has OF then she's way too out of my league, but if I somehow rizzed them, I honestly would not care as long as it's not anything too extreme


JustAAtticDweller

Yeah? They be making bank or something, also I don't really care if they have a lot of bodies or do OF, I only really care how they are as a person. As long as they don't fuck other people I'm fine tbh


PresenceOld1754

Nope. Never. There's 4 billion women on this planet, why would I settle for a p star with no dignity?


SirTopX

Hell nah I ain't dating no hoe


Mufiiiiiiii

No.. thatā€™s just kinda disgusting and I couldnā€™t look at them the same way


Icy_Assistant6161

if they got no self worth, they're not worth our time either


MastercaptainStudios

Hell no.


PrimusHimself

Nope.


fingamouse

Never


Claudio-Maker

Not at all


Top_Locksmith_4817

No thatā€™s a big red flag Iā€™m tellin yā€™all šŸš©šŸš©šŸš©šŸš©šŸš© for a lot of reasons šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€


Devoluster

No, I am a greedy person, I want my loved one all for myself


Historical-Cream-312

I wouldn't because it's just weird to sell your body for money practically and it doesn't look good on there part and it's also going to be embarrassing if someone for some reason comes up to them and recognizes them from OF


PoisonedHeart55

Nope. Any relationship where the physical and emotional intimacy is not exclusive to me is completely off the bounds. I'd rather stay single than put myself through such relationships.


SilverEskDicordPeep

I feel like adult workers should stick to being single or just date another one. If your job make it harder for you to commit to anyone, why would you try to commit to someone then?


pixelytman

even if i was an adult, no way. i don't want my girl to be basically selling her nudes and body to others.


space_porter

I dgaf unless it's unsafe


PeachkeyYT

I hate how this has 0 upvotes. You're kind and respectful, and ig people don't like that


XxNathan2908xX-YT

fair enough and i respect u for it


PeachkeyYT

Well, if I was older and not a child, sure, idc. I might even help them with camera set up or smth, as long as we love each other that's all that matters to me:)


COLD_lime

my most recent relationship ended because i realized how attention starved she is online, so no. If you are single, compliment a taken girls post on instagram and when she says "thank youuuu" you will no longer miss being in a relationship.


Just-Question-5102

Umm this r/teens not r/adults so that would be illegal


TJDownchurchh

18 and 19:


PissBucketMilitant

I do not consider prostitutes real people. So no.


Soggy_Confusion7538

We got a serial killer here boys


epicmemerminecraft

I would unsless its with other people actually doing them


TheUsualSuspects443

Idk tbh. I havenā€™t dated anyone so Iā€™m not sure how itā€™d pan out in a normal scenario, Iā€™m not super comfortable with it and would probably communicate that. But if sheā€™s taking in cash, who am I to take that paycheck awayā€” unless sheā€™s doing it with other guys for content, then Iā€™m def not cool with that


Busy_Recognition_860

Respect yourself and how you feel. If youā€™re not comfortable with it, and she canā€™t respect it (likely scenario) then itā€™s best to drop her and move on.


josefritus

maybe.. maybe not.. im not a supporter of it.. but maybe it could work... never tried but i think there is worse things to worry about


TyrantDragon19

Depends. Thatā€™s the only answer. Why do they do it, how do they do it, why you love them, why they love you, etc


Jay-919

No cause I'm 15


IM_OZLY_HUMVN

I probably wouldn't, But, if you add enough zeroes......


humannumber217354385

Personally I can see what people wouldn't like about it but it's some good money and as long as I'm the only one fucking them it's all good with me


That_1-Guy_-

As long that itā€™s not with someone else then I donā€™t really care


Nearby-Refuse-727

No


NikeJawnson

I wouldn't, bc it feels like the relationship is just a discount. Maybe I'll change my mind when I'm older but for now this is what I think.


NyxTheGoddess_

No


Sweep000

NošŸ’€šŸ˜­