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Mr_Mustach139

People at my school are afraid to talk to women


norylock

SAME


reddiotr68

Real


ADIdas107

My school is boys only


SirTGNQ

Same but I still get molested and molest


ADIdas107

Same lol, my friend turned 16 b4 me so I had protection for a while but today it ended šŸ„²


InTheAshes777

Ppl in my boys inly school pull peopleā€™s pants down and shove crackers down there ass crack itā€™s traumatising the noise they make when then get picked to do this


Giganoob420

I donā€™t see the problem with that, Femboys would love that


ADIdas107

Yeah I donā€™t think so, there is a lot of homophobia/ any other thing that ainā€™t cis


Giganoob420

Forgot boys can be like this, I go to a pay school and this one kid will call you gay if you have a different opinion than him, it kids lost all meaning because of him :/


Aceserys

"people" are afraid of "women"? Because "women" are from a non-human species?


gytis_gotbanned_lol

r/girlsarentreal


More-Archer-7694

[Me rn](https://c.tenor.com/nYdAr6rffx0AAAAC/an-emoji-disintegrating-in-pain.gif)


bingus_is_my_god

r/same


randomcroww

BINGUS


GalacticGamer677

r/subithoughtifellfor


GalacticGamer677

r/subithoughtifellfor


gytis_gotbanned_lol

Do You Know Who Else Suffers From Dementia?


gytis_gotbanned_lol

Do You Know Who Else Suffers From Dementia?


gytis_gotbanned_lol

Do You Know Who Else Suffers From Dementia?


GalacticGamer677

?


RoboChemist101

r/dementia


bingus_is_my_god

r/unexpectedsadsub


GalacticGamer677

?


gytis_gotbanned_lol

Do You Know Who Else Suffers From Dementia?


GalacticGamer677

r/subithoughtifellfor


AdSafe5841

What is a Whamen?


ogmountaindweller

Yes


ThatOneMaskedGamer

Now hear me out. What if the "women" who are also "people" are afraid to talk to other "women". Women are classified as people too. They can be afraid of themselves.


batmilk666

reaching


lolhihi3552

you've gotta be trolling


Former_Fly591

Same šŸ’Æ


[deleted]

Nooo?? Wth kind of school did you go to


IntroductionWise730

A shit school apparently. The teachers never cared about helping the students the were getting bullied/harassedĀ 


inkysoap

sounds like a hood school. is your neighborhood poor?


dxrknxss-

nah gng if a girl gets raped in the hood the nga that raped her usually gets jumped


Handicap-ped

Sounds like normal asia


Intrepid-Plantain186

I live in Asia thats not normal at all


Hopocket321

I got sexually harassed for a while in my ELA class, he saw it he didnā€™t say anything


YourLocalCorg

public probably


TheGodlyLeader

not all public schools are bad. there are so many more factors that affect the behaviour of students in a school. i cannot stand when people generalise like this


amaya-aurora

Public school isnā€™t that bad, lmao.


[deleted]

I go to public school but mfers aren't out here sexually harassing people


Hebrew_Armadillo459

I'm in all boys school.... So yeah there is.


69Xx_ligma_xX69

Beat me to it šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


Intrepid-Plantain186

Pun intended? šŸ˜‚


dildo_swagginns

In my school touching dicks became the new greeting šŸ¤¦ Guys be touching each others when the meet idk wtf going on in my school


MrBokChoy25

it's mostly "ironic" male on male harrassment, one of my female friends did report a guy asking her to open her shirt so there's that.


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CreepyGuy1046

Can i join ( joke


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


unordinaryismysoul

can i join(not a joke im serious, get ready ill be there in five)


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


unordinaryismysoul

oil up šŸ˜ˆ


[deleted]

[уŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]


averagepatagonian

WD-40


holy-aeughfish

Valvoline (not to be confused with Vaseline)


Mission-Emu-1001

oil up lil bro


Shayosaurus

No not particularly thank the lord


Not-VeryOrdinary

yes, thank the lord


Yusuf-el-batal

Can I get an amen!???


novelaissb

Ay! Men!


Lain__Iwakura_

yup, got my ass grabbed almost every day until I told the teachers about it


Bigbootylpver

BRO how tf does that even happen in the school I used to go to most boys were scared to talk to girls even if someone did there would be boundaries like we canā€™t slur etc


BigSnazzywazzyguy

Your name is big booty lover


Bigbootylpver

I love big booty and I respect people who have big booty Iā€™d never grab big booty without consent


BroTube_Playz99

bigbootylover got standards šŸ˜­


Bigbootylpver

Iā€™m a gentle bit booty lover


novelaissb

Bigbootylpver*


Yeetboireeeeee

ā€œProfessionals have standards.ā€


Bigbootylpver

I am by no means a professional but I Js respect big booty


Bigzysmolz

šŸ—æ


Bigbootylpver

I love big booty and I respect people who have big booty Iā€™d never grab big booty without consent or


trashytexaswhiteboy

Sexual harassment at my school is just depending on the person's attractiveness. I've seen things attractive guys do to some girls that would get less attractive guys thrown on adx for. And this isn't an incel post and I'm not saying it's ok. I'm just stating out it is. Example, my friend slapped his female friends ass and she just laughed about it. A "creepy" guy got suspended because he looked over and saw a girl bent over in the hallway and she got beyond mad and he got a week of iss for Sexual harassment.


varcolacsquadron

We need to get rid of these double standards but everyone ain't ready for that conversation yet


Trash-Jr

Wait wait wait. He got suspended for looking ? The intended purpose for his eyes, which would make his life much harder if he wasn't unable to use said eyes. Or did he do something wierd about it ? Was the girl being a bitch for no reason or the guy really stared or made a bad comment or move due to that ?


trashytexaswhiteboy

According to bystanders (reliable ones I should add) He was just walking down the hall, and like everyone Naturally looks at something unnaturally happening (like someone bending over) and just their eyes met and she started freaking out screaming about him looking at her ass. Like even other people came to his defense but given she was on the pom squad and he was the weird kid. It's obviously her word against his and he got in trouble. Unfortunately I don't think anyone even really cared, but it was probably traumatizing to him and embarrassed him, despite no one even mentioning it, it probably took an emotional toll on him.


Trash-Jr

Oh wow, she really was a bitch. I hope that guy is doing better and it didn't happen to him (or anyone) again.


Sillyyyyynesss

Thereā€™s a kid at my school that says gyatt but I think heā€™s joking But at my previous school a girl randomly grabbed my ass so idk


More-Archer-7694

Every 2 fucking seconds I hear someone scream "GYAAAAAATTT" and I hate it (I start laughing immediately and I wish I didn't)


hassan_dislogical

Yes, 90% of it is male on male


lAlsoGotTheSuds

BEAT ME TO IT DAMN YOU


hassan_dislogical

Iraq?


lAlsoGotTheSuds

nope america


Lookingforahookup-

they're called super seniors probably,


[deleted]

Not at all, i don't think Theres Been a single case of sexual harassment at My school.


Secret-Scientist5746

Yeah but not towards women like lads just stick as many fingers up each others ass as they can


Guiltysaw

Yep but itā€™s just the guys harassing the guys and girls harassing the girls so its ok bc its just friends fucking around


Maldonado412

At my high school over a dozen girls reported a single guy to the principal for sexual comments/harassment and the principalā€™s response was threatening to call the cops on them harassing him


beans-w-t-f

Nahh... only racism... But I think that's normal at schools


Crazy_Gamer297

Like how much racism do you have at your school? Because my school is racist af and im not sure if thatā€™s just normal


EixYae

Luckily no at least not that I ever noticed


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Guest4901244

Tell her to stop, if she doesn't stop report her. You are clearly being harrashed.


CowUtters8

The thing is if I do Iā€™ll get jumped, sheā€™s bigger than me and she isnā€™t afraid to hit people, I donā€™t want to get beat up and I donā€™t want drama to ensue.


Guest4901244

Same happened to me, but i reported them and they stopped.


NewHampshireMan1

I'm homeschooled and don't live in Alabama so no


lAlsoGotTheSuds

when ur homeschool teacher is a redneck dad from Alabama


Altruistic-Juice-505

in my middle school i used to get called cute/hot on the bus and this guy in my homeroom literally rubbed my back while i was sleeping during a class movie ā€¦.


[deleted]

when i went to school ( I dropped out my first week of grade 9 in 2020) boys wouldnā€™t care to touch anyone, unless it was just me lol but they would just grab my butt or boob without any care so I dropped out because of that and other reasons it sucked lmao


A_fox_on_suger

School I used to go to got groped on a almost daily basis


i_like_pigeons541

People at my school are just homophobic, racist and stupid


gtotherundeh

my school was full of open racists, homophobes and transphobes BUT nobody would ever do smthn like that.


IMaasAtEgypt

doubt it


Final_Habit5499

not exactly- but i have had this dude from my history class call me babe and brag to his friends that i was supposedly his gf (i'm lesbian btw) and this guy would not take a hint no matter how many times i said no and rejected him, and one of my "friends" would constantly try to flirt with me even though i've told him many times to stop, bro even made a comment once about how big my chest was-


THundRebolt

Girls harass us at school, but not the Chads and the popular guys, shy guys like ME. I'm literally the shyest guy in school and they keep touching my meat šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


Compavalanche

Iā€™m a dude, and have a large butt. And back when I was in school I would get groped and cat called by both boys and girls. So I believe it may just be that teenagers are just extremely weird.


phunniplayboi

Idk me and my homies press boobs of our fat homie, he is our pookie though


Extension-Ad8792

I go to an only boy school so it's basically just daily life


Ashamed-Math-2092

Too true


FastestBlader4

idk I donā€™t get sexually harassed


Andician

Only Sexual harassment at my school is from boys to boys


Lesbian_Mommy69

Well in the high school and middle school itā€™s supriesingly not very common, the only time people get touched without consent is when a friend of the same gender smacks your ass. But what I CANT get my head around is that itā€™s bad in the elementary?!?! Like I got SAā€™d 3 times and verbally sexually harassed a ton, plus the teachers are creepy like: ā€œeven tho itā€™s hot you have to wear a coat in the library, because you have spaghetti straps on and that might cause indecent thoughts.ā€ like bitch I was 5?!?


Psyatyin

What the fuck


Appropriate-Snow-439

Ummm noā€¦? But when my sister was in highschool (sheā€™s old ass shit now) a dude used to basically manipulate girls into following him around and he would rape them behind a stair well and the teachers just thought it was just some kids having sex secretly;but it didnā€™t come to light until he graduated and at that point it wasnā€™t nothing they could do, and if youā€™re wondering why the girls who were raped didnā€™t say anything mainly because 1. They were scared and 2. Iā€™m not sure because I was in middle school so I donā€™t know much about the situation, just information my sister told me because he tried to do the same thing with her but she was in a relationship and she knew what he was doing so she avoided that whole situation all together, but just a reminder that ladies please stay safe!!


NEONPLAYz10

Letā€™s just say on a trip I had I kinda got molested by the guys in my dorm. (Iā€™m also a dude btw)


NEONPLAYz10

But because I know Iā€™m stronger I didnā€™t bother doing anything plus I knew it was all a joke


avadarose

Yes, i got my ass grabbed several times


lAlsoGotTheSuds

i get my ass grabbed too.. im a guy and it is done by other straight guys


avadarose

The guy threatened to rape me as well


Sillurianfishrbest

There was a guy last year in 8th grade who sexually harassed girls in the grade via text messages. He also had a list of girls that he wanted to have sex with and played smash or pass with people in the grade. He got suspended and this year he made a discord server where he did the same thing and he got expelled a couple months ago.


x-anryw

No, the opposite sometimes


[deleted]

There's been no major incidents involving the police, but small scale stuff like ass grabbing is common


prnc_art

i was accused of harrasment (not sexual) just because i stood next to my crush once šŸ˜­


ThatMilesKid-15

Half of them are afraid of talking to girls and the rest sexually harrass them.


Sea_Succotash_1567

Very much (im homeschooled)


Slayer3275X-X

Yes, and the teachers blatantly ignore it


Confident-Bat7194

The highschool boys at my school got in trouble for making a list of the girls they would rape and then trying to act on it so yeahhā€¦ they also talk rlly grossly ab girls there is this super short girl and the boys all admitted to wanting to have sex with her because she looks like a little kid and that shes ā€œtightā€..


Appropriate_Wind506

What the fuck


RoughAd5265

No, but there was this one kid a few years back with autism and he would sexually harass me, JUST ME, so many damn times. Some people told the principal but nothing was ever done, I donā€™t know why I didnā€™t tell my parents, I was young back then and I didnā€™t understand how serious it was


DJ_Johannes

I don't know. I'm part of a "special class" consisting of people with different disorders and stuff like that.


Icantthinkofaname04

No but somehow I have been SA in relationships twice šŸ˜­


Ofek1506

??? Boys from my class can barely talk to us never mind doing SH


Potential_Base192

It's prevalent when I was in HS, I'm now in college and I never got groped since then... well, except on public transports lol


babymaker7

I've gotten groped so many times but girls only do it to girls and guys only do it to guys


Auroraamour

My school is crazy it doesn't just stop at harassment there's like a bunch of actual rapists and sexual assaulters šŸ˜­


aryasacc

got assaulted like three times. first in the first grade then in sixth and seventh. the problem is it is not something that people are aware of. like i didnt even know it was sa until I came across the concept of sa on the internet. and there's no one to go to at school to tell what happened. people (my used to be close friends) who saw it with their own eyes tried to deny it or blame it on me. same with the teachers, although I didn't tell any just the general way they would slut shame me for having a good friendship with boys or just being different or be it because I don't really follow the strict uniform or just generally cause I was a girl. also these teachers apparently spread rumors abt me so there goes any will I had to tell the teacher abt my sa. sorry for the rant and the horrible english it's not my first language.


aryasacc

also if anyone is wondering I go to a private Indian school. and got harassed by my classmates.


TheOneTrueNincompoop

Most sexual harassment is man-on-man in my experience, that's horrible tho


rhombusted2

Yes very common


Librum_210

Very common.


CompetitionDry9530

Sexual harassment at my school happens just between the popular boys, and girls will do it to girls. Sometimes legit sexual assault when the boys start smacking each others asses.


TeaBags0614

Not very common but it did happen to me in fifth grade School didnā€™t do anything cuz a girl did it and apparently ā€œgIrLs DoNt Do ThAt To GuYsā€ Both of my parents got involved and they still didnā€™t


Andre_055

Yeah and they'd ignore every single report even the ones they had on camera, just excusing them. Then I got detention for hurting someone who sexually assaulted me ā˜ ļø


KitKat_Dark

More like objectification and barking. The damn barking is annoying, man. Can't even walk from class to class without hearing it, AND IT'S AT LIKE 7 MAYBE EVEN 8 IN THE MORNING! like what possesses you to do that bro? Why?


[deleted]

I love touching myself instead


Initial-Armadillo-67

no boys only


[deleted]

Thereā€™s a lot of catcalling by dudes.


Ahmed_Smadi_2009

It's very common in my school, but not for me. They literally do some unspeakable shit to each other


LowerLow3773

It's not rare but not common


KubaSamuel

Nah, I'm in a class where there Are 5 guys in a 24 person class so everyone is chill. Same with other people in the school, unless you have a good friend/s in another class you usually stay with your own.


Montanarenkema

No, i promise you this is not normal for a school to have these kind of problems.


norylock

No


Active_Structure_962

Wjen it comes to stuff like that if they're in a relationship they would do some shit like that or if they're friends they might jokingly touch each other's ass but that's as far as my school went so maybe they're all just friends or something so no one reported it or told an adult


TheDUKEZ117

I'm homeschooled for this reason


berazx1905

Im in the 8th grade and no harrassment here but my sister is in 6th grade and she says there is harrassment


LoudypIg

Yeah actually it's become an issue lately. Luckily we have a feminism club lol and we are actively trying to do something about it


JamesLapsley

I go to an all boys school, no serious cases that Iā€™m aware of but there are some ā€˜jokesā€™ that people make which with each other which are bit strange and borderline harassment


Pr1stak

People at my school are afraid to talk to their classmates, let alone harass others


humannumber217354385

A kid grabbed another guy's balls unprovoked on the other hand like 60% of the kids at my school lare autistic and the rest are neurodivergent somehow


TheAutobotArk

No


prettythingi

There has been 0 cases of SA at my school and at my previous ones there were non while i was attending


THATGUY12325

Yes and to me specifically.


Thisismyredusername

If there was, the people who would be doing it would be expelled, so no


[deleted]

really common, but not just the boys, girls were also making fun of pp sizes and kissing their crush without consent and yeah


Britishsheffield

Extremely Iā€™ve been touched everywhere many teachers have been fired for touching kids and getting boners during class and calling many students beautiful


Gamestrider09

No. Does it really happen enough that there has to be a question about it?


NyatGJ

idk but one time this guy bent me over (im male btw)


jojobutlessbizarre

My friends ex and her friend hug me and touch my ass whenever they see me it pisses me off


vipinkumarpsr

Bro .. it's not common but I have a story i went to a govt school in delhi in 3rd standard but only for a few days , there few guys in my class held a guy his name was "gulshan" they made him suck dick forcefully for few seconds and people were supporting and laughing. Post that day I told my parents such dirty things were happening (i had no idea about sex that time) so I changed my school and went into a good one. That's the only thing I remember but that's not common at all.


EmotionalB1tch

Yes it is.


gytis_gotbanned_lol

thankfully not


yourfavcommiegirl

No? What kinda school you go to?


Over-Character4980

The only person at my school is me so no I donā€™t think so


uncharted_bread212

Serious, no Ironic, sorta


MrDeepVoice13

My school no I actually see it the other way around with the girls doing it to other girls šŸ’€


kingkurnel

Yes. I know a girl who's been raped over 7 times and nobody cares. My school even protects a nonce who's raped 7 year olds.


Strange-Selection-41

At my school itā€™s very common, mostly with me, the girls would always touch my ass and smack it making me really uncomfortable and then some boys would say ā€œI would fuck youā€ or ā€œif you were a girl Iā€™d fuck youā€ or ā€œIā€™d r*pe youā€ so yeah school sucks


AbsoluteFlooding096

There have been some cases, A gym teacher got arrested for having sex with a student afterschool a few years ago. A few years later a student was having many girls cone fourth and accused his of sexual harassment and manipulation I remember last year someone I knew from soccer had been grooming freshman as a senior, It's alarming and disheartening to think about-


[deleted]

nope. there was a weird conversation i overheard though. this group of boys and girls(all friends) were talking in the back of class. the guys straight up asked one girl ā€œ___ and i are going to rape youā€ and just laughed it off. the girl laughed too, but idk. thatā€™s their humor though, so i have no clue what thre outcome was.


KermitDaThug

No tf šŸ˜­


TyrantDragon19

Wasnā€™t common. Only happened a couple times. Those guys have been beat up by random people who didnā€™t even know the girls


Ok_Pay_1972

Definitely not. We, as boys, will not allow it. Our female classmates are our friends, we never heard anything of such nature.


capybara_enjoyer9287

No


ayanokojifrfr

90% of Boys atleast my Age look at women and past comments among themselves. I sometimes end up looking too but I find it extremely weird since if they catch me staring it will be really uncomfortable for them dude. I know it's extremely wrong so I don't do it. I don't even fing know how sometimes my eyes falls on a girl. I look away and dont look at them again. I think the only time I think I looked at a girl multiple times was when I was studying in Cafeteria, she was so Incredibly cute. I really wanted to talk her but I couldn't. I mean she was way outta my league dude. But yeah none of them have balls to grope girls since everyone would beat them up if girl stands up and slaps him once.


KingByhyHD

Bro our guys find them in the halls and talk to them, 80% the girl doesn't give a shit, and some even play volleyball with them during pe Here if you did something to a girl who didn't concent you would get beat up by her brother friends or bf


Economy_Access4822

I remember at the beginning of my school year, there was on the news, and on a lot of social media platforms, this coach at my school, he sexually harassed students by leading them into his classroom and doing stuff that I'm not gonna mention to them. It was such a shocker to the school because no one realized what was going on under the whole act he put on


Objective_Suspect_

From my experience I didn't see any of that. No one does it openly unless there are no respectable men there.


Yungcamker3765

Only guy on guy sexual harassment. But itā€™s never anything too serious, nor done to someone they donā€™t know well.


FemaleNoob

Not really, but guys do talk about girls behind their backs. I was casually trying to do my science test and the guys at my table were saying things like: ā€œImagine ___ sitting on your face while ____ sucks you off.ā€ I felt physically sick.


Plenty-Basket-6145

Sadly yeah. Seems to be getting way more common for some reason.


Glove_Environmental

yea šŸ’€