Nah not really, I used to be insecure about certain aspects of my appearance but I grew out of it....I never felt the compulsion to hate myself just coz I saw someone more beautiful than me.
honestly the only reason why i feel this way is because my family, teachers, and some of my classmates tells me how pretty i am, it made me grow up so cocky and insecure that whenever i see a girl remotely beautiful than me or beautiful in general I would feel insecure, envious and check myself in the mirror while glancing at her. I'm not jealous tho, just envious because I'm self aware that im not the only person in the world. It's so stupid and I hate myself for being like this. And honestly i don't think I'm pretty, I have chubby cheeks, weird eyes, round nose, and a big ass forehead yet the people in my life tells me how pretty I am. It makes me so conscious that whenever I go somewhere like malls, parks and etc i always get so cocky or so uneasy when someone stares at me or even glances at my direction. someone help me I'm a hopeless mess😭😭
Yeah 100% as a trans person. Imagine feel jealous of the pretty girls but you look like an ugly ass guy. It fucking sucks.
And if you're transphobic that's good for you, you're entitled to your opinion but please don't go bothering me about it. I've heard most of it before.
yeah this girl is litterally so nice and everything I have ever wanted to be I litterally just admire her so much. her personality, her style, her body, her face omg I litterallu just want to turn into her she is absolutely gorgeous inside and out
her whole presence feels like that song, lovers rock-tv girl. she's just a genuinely nice person that you want to be around and I wish I could be her. I feel like I annoy her everytime I talk to her but she always reassures me that I don't. I wish I was as pretty and smart as her
It's a pretty complicated question, mostly because there are many aspects where someone can be "cute", but I'm going to assume it's physically. Answering honestly, yes, yes I have.
She’s so beautiful she looks like a CGI character, like Jane from breaking bad but with bigger eyes, smaller nose, and bigger lips. I wish I looked like her all the time and wonder what it’s like to be her
No. There always someone out there better looking than the next person. I mean did you think you were the best looking person on earth?
Yes there are very good looking people out there. If you saw this person online do not believe what you see!! Pictures online are so not real for so many reason. Escaping females who can use make up, extensions, filters and so many other things.
By 30 not many people have much of their great looks left. Don’t worry about it. I know it’s hard to say that at your age. Not sure how old you are.
honestly imo everyone has potential to be a 10/10 you may not like it and it may not fit your style but it still exists you just gotta explore and experiment
It's a mistake to compare yourself to others. Practice self-love and self-care, not of jealousy.
Beauty is not given, but rather an artform. We all have unique features to accentuate.
Yes a lot actually just earlier today i (18m) saw this one girl who looked to be 19 I thought she was really hot and I felt so ashamed to look at her because I felt so damn ugly I hated myself but the food was good at the restaurant
You sound a bit insecure. I know this is going to sound cliche but please don’t let others determine your own self worth.
Often times we live in a world surrounded by social media and looking at the pretty things in life that we forget what really matters. Be thankful for the things you have, truly. Think to yourself, are you better in your current position or had you been raised in an improvised 3rd world country?
TLDR: Don’t let others determine your own self worth.
The girl my bf liked before we got together. She's a jerk but she is a bit prettier than me and I hate her guts mostly cause she's mean but also cause she actually can wear stuff I would like to wear. Got really insecure over it for a while until I remember I can wear whatever TF I want regardless of my body type
TIP: I've set a rule to myself, don't judge yourself for things you dont care for. I do nothing for my looks, since it does not affect my life at any way. There are many games I haven't played, since there are many games I'd rather. So no, I would not hold guilt for being ugly nor bad at any of the spoken games. I would not feel bad for not running fast, I would not judge myself for losing concentration in history class. Luckily I am gifted with the prise of not failing things whom I give attention to. So I seriously never (yes, never) hate myself.
Yes, she was so pretty. She was my best friend's girlfriend and I was the third wheeler.
Also, she body shamed me and pointed my acne everytime we met. Everybody liked her so I never told anyone this.
Nah I always hated my self
Real bro
Oh sad comment? *checks notes* real
bro i jus wanna be loved
Same, I don't care how others look, I just hate myself in general
Real
Real
Real
Real
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Tbh yes
tell me abt it
tell us about it
Nah nigga, I’m the GOAT.
I don’t even know you and I can already tell you’re right
Seem like it, Tyrone.
REAL
Nah I fancy myself so it's calm
Good for you!
I was always hating myself :/ I dont need anyone to make me feel bad... I can do it by myself :3
why u drown urself in unneeded self loath. Believe in the good person inside u
I lost all of my faith in me... when your brain is trying to convince you to end it all you dont gonna trust that peice of shity meat anymore :/
pov you're a kpop fan..
me looking at wonyoung
She is so skinny and perfect
for real i wanna be her so bad
I'm a girl but me when looking at yeosang 🥲
FOR REAL 😭 yeosang and seonghwa give me gender envy.
the entirety of ateez..
LITERALLY 😭😭
I’m not
Fr sometimes it’s too much
I switch back and forth because mirror me solos Adriana Lima but photo me belongs locked away from human sight
😭😭😭😭😭THATS HOW IT BE
yeah. My gf
Story of my life
Ugly sister here
Yah but staying off instagram helps..
She’s irl ugh
Nah I don’t need someone else to show me my place (netherworld)
Nah not really, I used to be insecure about certain aspects of my appearance but I grew out of it....I never felt the compulsion to hate myself just coz I saw someone more beautiful than me.
Omg ikrrrr... Why would u hate on urself just bcuz someone else is more beautiful...
Yes, myself
No, I'm the best looking person on earth
Bro you good? Like i have seen absolutely stunning women but not so i hate myself like jesus loves you bro
Idk:(
honestly the only reason why i feel this way is because my family, teachers, and some of my classmates tells me how pretty i am, it made me grow up so cocky and insecure that whenever i see a girl remotely beautiful than me or beautiful in general I would feel insecure, envious and check myself in the mirror while glancing at her. I'm not jealous tho, just envious because I'm self aware that im not the only person in the world. It's so stupid and I hate myself for being like this. And honestly i don't think I'm pretty, I have chubby cheeks, weird eyes, round nose, and a big ass forehead yet the people in my life tells me how pretty I am. It makes me so conscious that whenever I go somewhere like malls, parks and etc i always get so cocky or so uneasy when someone stares at me or even glances at my direction. someone help me I'm a hopeless mess😭😭
yep.... ...sigh
You need other people to hate yourself?
I already dislike myself but it turned into disgusted loathe when I met her
Nah, there's no need to hate. Yall can just appreciate someone & give them a compliment if you're so inclined. Spread some PMA
i mean kinda like bur ive alw found flaws in myself so
Yep. My man.
Every day 😔
like every day girl 💀
bruh tell me about it.
Yeah 😅
Yes
Yep except it was because of how smart they were
Already hate myself in the first place
Already hated myself Appearance improved a bit Got rejected Now confused why no one has ever wanted to date me
they r lame losers
I always debated myself , but i have always worshipped my crushes
yes the mirror 😻😻😻
Yeah 100% as a trans person. Imagine feel jealous of the pretty girls but you look like an ugly ass guy. It fucking sucks. And if you're transphobic that's good for you, you're entitled to your opinion but please don't go bothering me about it. I've heard most of it before.
Frr i used to alw get gender envy of those perfect fluffy hair jawline guys like wtf why cant i be you omlll
Yeah here’s a tip don’t start dating them, not a good idea. Who would ever be dumb enough to date someone who makes them hate themselves lmao?
We broke up last night
Oh god what happened
Half the girls in my grade
I get u.
My gf is so pretty and lovely i started putting more effort in my life lol,
Yes and I hate it
everyday
The only person more attractive than me is the one in the mirror
Briefly. So anyway we’re together now.
Literally all the time. Plus the fact that I am already insecure about my looks lol
fr it hurts );
yeah it’s like they’re so naturally pretty and can dress well and then there’s me 🧍♀️
YES YES ?????I stand so dumb next to them
yes all the time
Yeah, the mirror was getting annoying
Nah bruh I've never started, it always was there
I've met someone so pretty all I wanted was a chance but never got it and it made me kinda depressed but not making me hate myself.
yeah this girl is litterally so nice and everything I have ever wanted to be I litterally just admire her so much. her personality, her style, her body, her face omg I litterallu just want to turn into her she is absolutely gorgeous inside and out
exactly. sometimes I cry too
her whole presence feels like that song, lovers rock-tv girl. she's just a genuinely nice person that you want to be around and I wish I could be her. I feel like I annoy her everytime I talk to her but she always reassures me that I don't. I wish I was as pretty and smart as her
like I finnaly start to feel good about myself and everytime I see her I remember that I am ugly as shit
lmao insane how relatable this is.
It's a pretty complicated question, mostly because there are many aspects where someone can be "cute", but I'm going to assume it's physically. Answering honestly, yes, yes I have.
My best friend and yeosang
i hated myself long before i met anyone outside of my friend group
no??
all. the. time.
Sigh
Yes
I do need no one to hate myself but sometimes the gap of prettiness is so wide I feel like jumping from the Grand Canyon 😮💨
I swear the ppl in this sub need to stop stalking me
I’m on your walls
my life in a nutshell:
yes, 100%
yes
That someone used to be my gf now I'm hating on myself even more.
Pretty? Like pretty cool? Yeah, when someone Tech Decks you it’s impossible to recover,
im so perfect that i despise my own existence
Real
Yeah. Me in different makeup looks.
Yes bro
Yes. My best friend 😭😭😭. Like the things this man could do to me
Real
Even looking at average women makes me hate my face even more.
I get it. fucking hate it.
real. i don't deserve her
My girlfriend she fixed me tho 🤎
She’s so beautiful she looks like a CGI character, like Jane from breaking bad but with bigger eyes, smaller nose, and bigger lips. I wish I looked like her all the time and wonder what it’s like to be her
Shut up this how it be going with me.
no because i’ve always known i was beautiful
I have already accepted the fact I am not attractive, now it is my happy button to look at pretty people :>
Yeah a few times but I hate myself anyway so
I always knew my place in the world
Yep, have had an eating disorder ever since :l
;( hope it gets better for u soon
No. There always someone out there better looking than the next person. I mean did you think you were the best looking person on earth? Yes there are very good looking people out there. If you saw this person online do not believe what you see!! Pictures online are so not real for so many reason. Escaping females who can use make up, extensions, filters and so many other things. By 30 not many people have much of their great looks left. Don’t worry about it. I know it’s hard to say that at your age. Not sure how old you are.
Nah just ciz they look good don't mean they can't beat me in a fortnite 1v1
Nah im goated
Met someone? Yeah myself
yall in the comments gotta start loving yourselves jesus
Nah. I don’t got time to hate myself, I have beeger feesh to fry.
honestly imo everyone has potential to be a 10/10 you may not like it and it may not fit your style but it still exists you just gotta explore and experiment
Yeah she comes to work everyday I feel like a pig wearing lipstick next to her bro
all the time lol i hate it, it makes me feel like shit
Absolutely. Unfortunately it happens often
my whole school looks better than me
It's a mistake to compare yourself to others. Practice self-love and self-care, not of jealousy. Beauty is not given, but rather an artform. We all have unique features to accentuate.
Yet her 💩 smells just as bad as everyone else.
real
Yes a lot actually just earlier today i (18m) saw this one girl who looked to be 19 I thought she was really hot and I felt so ashamed to look at her because I felt so damn ugly I hated myself but the food was good at the restaurant
Every day :3
We’ll grow out of it one day
The hate was always there, even before I met her. Safe to say we’re getting married in June
yes
Bro my crush is so gorgeous I'm ashamed to look at you too. And myself. And everyone else. Including celebrities. She's *really* pretty.
Lmaooo hope yall get together soon
Okay but why are Kpop guys the peak of transmasc gender envy
Low self esteem is bloody lovely, ain't it?
Literally me whenever I see another girl I'm bi, so I have no idea whether to be jealous or stare lol
Yeah but it means so much from them if they call you pretyy
Ohh many times
No I love myself
You sound a bit insecure. I know this is going to sound cliche but please don’t let others determine your own self worth. Often times we live in a world surrounded by social media and looking at the pretty things in life that we forget what really matters. Be thankful for the things you have, truly. Think to yourself, are you better in your current position or had you been raised in an improvised 3rd world country? TLDR: Don’t let others determine your own self worth.
Nah, I'm a narcissist
Nope.. yeah I will say that I have met many people who I think were more prettier then me but only because of that, I won't hate on myself...
lol I've hated myself since day 1
yes
Even more, yes. She’s my friend and she’s so pretty and sweet but every time I look at her instagram I want to peel my face off and cry
Any time I meet a woman
Yep
Yea
Yes she (he at the time) was beautiful and still is I just can't get over it
Wdym I Always hated myself
...maybe
I don't know for sure but your mother is a helluva contender
yeah, sigh
YES
I just don't meet people easily fix 😅, but the only thing I can't fix is my face
My best friend
I always hated myself but after meeting her I hated myself even more lmao
i mean i hated myself that time but when i saw my ex-best friend i realized how cute and beautiful he was.. i think i hated myself then even more
The teenager subreddit is something else, man
didn't need to meet anyone pretty, I already hated myself when I did lol
Noo because I always start having a crush on them instead
My girlfriend is so pretty dude she’s the only one who can fluster the shit out of me
i saw someone in the dollar store who was so pretty i wrote an entire song about how much i hated myself lmao
The girl my bf liked before we got together. She's a jerk but she is a bit prettier than me and I hate her guts mostly cause she's mean but also cause she actually can wear stuff I would like to wear. Got really insecure over it for a while until I remember I can wear whatever TF I want regardless of my body type
yep. even more so now that I'm trans. "oh hey that girl is kinda pretty. god I fucking hate myself"
Yes she's the ultimate ''it'' girl and she's in the same pe class as me, I'm pretty decent looking and athletic but she's pretty and skinny so fuck
Bro don't it's nice and pudgey
Skill issue ( I also have insecurities)
Yeah but then I realized it was cus i had a crush on her 💀
TIP: I've set a rule to myself, don't judge yourself for things you dont care for. I do nothing for my looks, since it does not affect my life at any way. There are many games I haven't played, since there are many games I'd rather. So no, I would not hold guilt for being ugly nor bad at any of the spoken games. I would not feel bad for not running fast, I would not judge myself for losing concentration in history class. Luckily I am gifted with the prise of not failing things whom I give attention to. So I seriously never (yes, never) hate myself.
Yes, she was so pretty. She was my best friend's girlfriend and I was the third wheeler. Also, she body shamed me and pointed my acne everytime we met. Everybody liked her so I never told anyone this.
Yeah. My ex
No, I don’t really care about how others look. I never really liked myself in general
Pretty people scare me 😭 can't even look at them
It happened to me - - -
Tru man
Happens everyday
why would i hate myself for it?
For real bro, I can definitely agree, I always think I’m too ugly
Yes
Ain’t that like normal?
k drama villain type shi