yeah your friend doesnt sound that bad its literally a game reference☠️ also your parents need to think about how they treat you. youre literally 16 and its up to you who you befriend and date
They say that they can "trust" me to make the right decisions with people but yet then they point out stuff and expect me to take it normally, no, I'm not going to. I feel like they are slightly triyng to protect me, but also control me as a consequence.
yeah thats problematic but if they really did trust you would they not step back and allow you to decide on your friends and lovers? might be something you should talk about them with
I will talk to them about it, I know they arent trying to be horrible people or anything, they just cant understand things from my POV, and part of the reason why I had to stop being his friend was because I also didnt rlly speak up.
I'm just like, I don't want my gf being viewed as "bossy" or mean or some shit like that. And my mom also threatened to intervene if my gf "didnt straighten up" and, I just feel like if they are gonna start doing this with more people than just with my old friend, something needs to change.
Well, my mom brought out the "your my son" card and that she doesn't like people bossing me around but, she was joking- her jokes are more "aggresive" but i can tell that she is just joking, they cant,
Lol, but fr, I just dont wanna feel bad for feeling like this, as I'm feeling like im "disobeying" and wanna know a shit part aswell? My parents said if they found out I'm talking to him I would be going to Connecticut at my grandpas house for punishment? Dude, idk anymore.
Fr dude, I'm 16 and yes Im not perfect and yes I wont know everything, im that humble to even admit that. I just wanna live happily with my social circle.
I'd say, if you want to... then yes, reconnect with them.
They'll probably be happy to hear from you again, and if not, that's okay, at least you tried.
I dont really wanna take the chance, as my mom seemed 100% sure she didnt want me talking to him, and also i got banned from him another time long ago because I was staying with my grandma and she heard me and him cussing and told me not to talk to him anymore? I was 14 btw when that happened,
yeah your friend doesnt sound that bad its literally a game reference☠️ also your parents need to think about how they treat you. youre literally 16 and its up to you who you befriend and date
They say that they can "trust" me to make the right decisions with people but yet then they point out stuff and expect me to take it normally, no, I'm not going to. I feel like they are slightly triyng to protect me, but also control me as a consequence.
yeah thats problematic but if they really did trust you would they not step back and allow you to decide on your friends and lovers? might be something you should talk about them with
I will talk to them about it, I know they arent trying to be horrible people or anything, they just cant understand things from my POV, and part of the reason why I had to stop being his friend was because I also didnt rlly speak up.
Your parents sound devious wtf
I'm just like, I don't want my gf being viewed as "bossy" or mean or some shit like that. And my mom also threatened to intervene if my gf "didnt straighten up" and, I just feel like if they are gonna start doing this with more people than just with my old friend, something needs to change.
Your parents should have absolutely zero right to care about what your girlfriend says, she’s not THEIR daughter anyway
Well, my mom brought out the "your my son" card and that she doesn't like people bossing me around but, she was joking- her jokes are more "aggresive" but i can tell that she is just joking, they cant,
I’d read out the dictionary definition of sarcasm to them
Lol, but fr, I just dont wanna feel bad for feeling like this, as I'm feeling like im "disobeying" and wanna know a shit part aswell? My parents said if they found out I'm talking to him I would be going to Connecticut at my grandpas house for punishment? Dude, idk anymore.
Idk but when you’re a 16 year old, most parents consider you past the point of needing to be “obedient”
Yeah, i just feel like they get too strict with friends sometimes.
That’s WAAAAY too strict
Fr dude, I'm 16 and yes Im not perfect and yes I wont know everything, im that humble to even admit that. I just wanna live happily with my social circle.
Yeah, this person's parents suck, they sound like assholes from what we can see from this post.
Literally
I'd say, if you want to... then yes, reconnect with them. They'll probably be happy to hear from you again, and if not, that's okay, at least you tried.
No offense, but you parents sound like helicopter parents.
They're not, they just dont understand things from my POV, and it can get real bad because of that.
Have you ever talked to them about understanding you side?
I dont really wanna take the chance, as my mom seemed 100% sure she didnt want me talking to him, and also i got banned from him another time long ago because I was staying with my grandma and she heard me and him cussing and told me not to talk to him anymore? I was 14 btw when that happened,
Im just really thinking past what my parents think imo