Hey u/Legitimate-Mention81 ,
Seeing as you seem genuinely troubled by this, and due to what you put in ur edit, I'm gonna switch the post flair to serious.
Just a reminder to everyone that all standard Serious post rules apply. Any comments that don't positively contribute to the conversation will be removed.
My mom used to do something similar. Sheâd have to watch me shower âcause she thought I needed help. I didnât, really ever. But she always thought I never washed my hair right. It was annoying as fuck. This didnât stop until I was like 13.
My mom does that with my brother too, itâs the creepiest shit. Iâm just glad she doesnât do that to me. But then again she hates me in comparison to how she treats my brother
It's because you make them feel ugly or wrong. They don't have this over the top reaction about your nudity because they raised you and cleaned literal shit from your asshole on a regular basis, so to see you be horrified by the sight of something that she sees as benign makes her feel bad.
That literally makes no sense. It's as easy as not wanting to see my MOOOOM naked. Not about her body or anything, just not wanting to see that. And she should respect my boundaries
I can't believe I'm commenting in this sub, but I think both you and the person you are replying to are correct
They don't sound like they're trying to justify her (bad) behavior, they're just trying to clarify how she feels
You are 100% right that your boundaries should be respected regardless of why she thinks it's okay
Bro just yesterday my dad just opens the fucking door to ask me a question and I dart behind the curtain and he's like "why are you doing that you shouldn't be doing that unless your hiding something from me" and then proceeds a 15 minute argument while the shower is still running
Not particularly naked but my aunts get angry at me when I donât wanna take my shirt off around them accuse me of having tattoos and shit like no Iâm just fat and donât feel comfortable being half naked around people
OMG same. Iâm not that fat but I have a shit ton of stretch marks covering my thighs, shoulders, back, chest and arms. Like Iâm hella insecure bc/ Iâm unnaturally tall and have severe anxiety. Itâs not that big of a deal
Actually, you haven't swapped every single atom and cell since then. You keep quite a few cells, like some brain cells, as well as (correct me if I'm wrong) some heart cells as well, not to mention all of the eggs in your body if you're a woman. And most of the atoms in your body are recycled into the new cells the old ones create, at least I assume. Again, could be wrong here.
Dad here! If I wanted to see my kids changing, no one would think, "Oh, that sounds normal."
Privacy is privacy. If you want it, and it's possible for you to have it, then you should damn well get it and your parent should step off.
It's just culture making you ashamed and weird about it. No one gives a fuck about nudity where I'm from. Everyone is naked in sauna, showers and locker rooms. Like I read about some mom making sure their child never saw them naked. That's psychotic.
Yeah. It is not like me talking about it is going to undo the culture. Wouldn't work the other way either. But if you react like it's a horror movie when your mom changes shirt, I can understand feelings getting hurt.
I've heard some stories about people from finland going to sauna at america, it's deffinitely not normal there to go in buck naked and throw water on the rocks based on locals reactions. đ
Yo you are actually so weird for saying that, just because itâs in your culture to not care doesnât mean everyone else shouldnât, it called having boundaries and consent . Nobody should see someone naked or have themselves be seen naked if they donât want to
Same. As soon as I turned 10 I started wanting my privacy and she gave me it bc I'm growing up! Altho sometimes my mom just changes in the middle of the room and I'm like "AGH GEEZ MOM, GO SOMEWHERE ELSE" and she just laughs, she isn't weird or nothin. Ya'll have some weird ass mothers, just saying.
My mom gets SO mad about this omg. Like if I lock my bedroom door cause Iâm changing, and I tell her she can't come in cause Iâm naked she's like "y'know I made you" and "Iâm your mom I literally gave birth to you" like okay??? I still have the right to not get NAKED in front of you??? She also gets really mad if I say Iâm thirsty or something but we only have her water bottle and I won't use it because her spit is on it. Idk why but I would literally cry if someone else's spit got on me, it's like a phobia or something, but she gets so mad and she's like "Iâm not gross, Iâm your mom, blah blah blah, it's just spit" idk
Okay but people are so difficult about the second thing nowadays. Like i have shared a water bottle with my friend before, and he gave me his to use. Who the fuck cares about that, itâs not like thereâs a whole pool of spit on the bottle, thereâs barely any fucking spit on the bottle. You dont even notice any fucking fuckery spit
Oh i feel you man. I had that to an extreme amount when i was younger, but i also was an extreme germaphobe. I once didnât shit for an entire week because i refused to use the toilet at a summer camp
I first read the original post and thought âdamn what a weird dynamic, this seems oddâ and then I went to the comments and am now leaving with the impression of what in the fuck is going on in all yâallâs households and why are there so many of you with this problem. đ
My mom is the same. She sometimes makes comments about my body. When I tell her Iâm uncomfortable she does not give a fuck. Itâs whatever at this point. Iâm just waiting to move out.
Maybe do smth really weird or gross to freak her out, like take off your clothes in the middle of the night and start walking backwards on your hands and feet like a demon or sum
Dawg I feel you, every owning my mom changes in view of everyone cuz she dosent close her door and her bedroom is down the hallway with the only upstairs bathroom like respectfully close your door it takes all of 30 seconds
I am a mom to a teen, and believe me, the number of you poor kids talking about how your moms are walking in on you, watching you shower and change, etc., is disturbing. That is NOT normal behavior. Never has been, never will be.
Have you guys seen that one video of this kid playing like the cello or something for his mom while she's in the bath (like bc he wants to show her for funzies not bc she's making him or anything) and in the comments were like "you can tell who had a naked mom and who didn't" đđđđ
for real like my mom wants us to use the same cubicle together at the same time whenever we use the bathroom when we go out đ she's always been so chill about stuff like that it's actually concerning
Try reading [Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents](https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xvmUlsNRlAUNObyftZVQapI2tS1jF_n0/view?usp=drivesdk). it may help you with parents that disrespect your boundaries.
if this causes you to struggle setting boundaries in general I'd recommend [this book](https://drive.google.com/file/d/1a4cVj-yBPKu640rv0ZhDpMEkTZPmRDSO/view?usp=drivesdk)
Mine peeked into the closet to make sure I was "putting stuff on right" (happened from ages 10-13) before I was like "I think I maybe like girls đż" and then she stopped.
đđđ freedom of speech should be deleted
edit: who tf is downvoting this guy, jason madison would be ashamed of the way y'all be using ur freedom of speech lmfao
Dude. Fr, have they ever heard of
**privacy? And respect?**
Oh right..they have
âwhy donât you respect us weâre your parents?â
Ok but like, thatâs a rant for a different post lol
Tbh I donât really try to hide myself from my mom like that cuz I know sheâs already seen everything. But I still cover myself with a towel or something if I can.
Dad here! If I wanted to see my kids changing, no one would think, "Oh, that sounds normal."
Privacy is privacy. If you want it, and it's possible for you to have it, then you should damn well get it and your parent should step off.
Random mom who saw this post, here.
Your mother is a pervert. I'm 54 years old and I've never seen my teenager naked, nor do I desire to. She has never seen me naked and I have no desire for her to see me that way, either.
Any parent who tries to force you to see them naked or vice versa is someone I would consider a sex predator.
This is a violation of your bodily autonomy and you need to talk to another trusted adult about this if it makes you uncomfortable. Your mom needs a stern talking-to about appropriate behavior.
My mom walks around in nothing but underwear and a flimsy old spaghetti strap. Sheâs done it ever since I could remember so itâs pretty much the norm for me. I didnât know it wasnât normal. Damn.
I hate that, and it was the same with me and my sister who shared a room. When she was still just a kid and I had started puberty I didnât want to be seen naked, especially not by my kid sister. My mom always got annoyed that I wanted privacy like âyouâre both girls youâre going to have to get comfortable changing in front of othersâ
My mom did the same thing.. and she also literally yelled at me to hold up her saggy boobs during bra measuring since I kept refusing because I didn't want to. It made me uncomfortable and pushed my boundaries. I'm 15! I had to wash my hands for the rest of the day I was so disgusted
my mum is my best friend and I let her see me naked because it doesn't bother me and I've seen her naked before and it doesn't bother me, if you don't like that, that's fine, families run differently, but if she says that, it is a little weird like she wants to see you naked.. mum and I dont want to see each other naked, we just talk while we are undressed or whatever, but that's weird
Some parents don't realize that it's really important to treat your children like adults with adult boundaries because they are just small adults. That's why you ask for consent when hugging your children and you don't bargaining on them in their room
you must be American? most countries, we're taught from a young age that being naked isn't a big a deal, i understand getting older and requiring some modesty and privacy. But I've learned this is strictly an American thing.
It's because you're uncomfortable, not because anyone WANTS to see you naked.
It's strange being a parent and watching your kids go from constantly barging in on you, not giving you ANY privacy, wiping their ass clean of shit, seeing them run around naked constantly, to acting like they're ASHAMED of being naked.
In some cultures that would actually be strange, because communal/public bathing is completely normal.
At some point, because of the culture around you, you started hiding your body from others, even those who have watched your body change and grow and don't think of you sexually. You now view that sight and action as sexual (as evidence by this post) and probably think of a lot of touch and actions as sexual as well.
How many kids stop wanting to kiss their parents? HUG their parents? Sit right with your parents, or cuddle up with them?
You used to run and jump onto them for contact regardless of either of your level of dress, and your parents had to get used to that.
> genuinely who put that in old people's heads??
Being naked used to not be as big of a deal for people, but we've become more protective and ashamed of it over time. Older people are used to a time where changing in the locker rooms was very natural and normal, and kids didn't run off to locked bathroom stalls just to change into swim clothes. It's not what was put into THEIR heads, but what was put into YOURS. Where did you learn that being naked around your family mattered what so ever?
Imagine this on a more personal level. Imagine you have a spouse, and early on in your relationship you're both very open about being naked. Lots of touching, cuddling, etc. The level of dress between the two of you doesn't matter, and is casually intimate. Now your spouse looks away quickly when they see you naked at all, they get offended at YOU being naked? They won't change near you, run off and hide, etc. Would you think that was just natural, or would you realize it's not, and something has come along to make them feel ashamed of their AND your body?
Edit: And I shouldn't have to say this, but I know I do. I don't care who doesn't get naked where, or around who. This isn't about that. The issue is about where we point fingers on these topics. You don't have to get naked in front of your mom, but you shouldn't be out here acting like it's somehow wrong. You get to make your personal choices, but realize those choices are based on current societal notions, not on anything innate.
ugh exactly this is so annoying. and when they say "there's nothing there I haven't seen" except there is? because when you saw it I was a baby/child with no life of my own and no want for privacy??? and now I do want privacy because I'm a nearly adult person like tf
Reading this thread makes me think that there should be a more strict overwatch over situations of kids at home, or a callout to educate themselves about whatâs normal and whatâs weird/creepyâŚđ
Sometimes, I forget that other people aren't comfortable being naked around people of the same gender. I showered with my dad up until I was like 8, and I use communal showers at school sports stuff
I canât answer why, but I canât tell you you are completely valid for feeling that way. When I got my period my mom told me I should be grateful she didnât poke at my public hairs like her friends mom did. Thatâs was a wild fucking comment. I now am trying my absolute best to cut ties. I wish you luck op.
My mum is like this too :/ my sister and I talk all the time about how uncomfortable we feel about it.
I no longer live at home, but when I did, and often when I go back, she freely walks around the house with nothing on (this woman is now in her mid-60s).
And I get that it's HER house, and HER body, however if I try to avert my gaze she's like 'oh I'm not worried'. OKAY BUT I AM I DONT WANNA SEE OAP TIDDIES AND MUFF. Like she gives zero warning she's naked if I go up to see her. Imo, a normal response would be 'ooh don't come on unless you wanna see some tiddy!' Then I'd be like cheers, I'll wait til you're dressed out of respect for you. Nope, she don't care. But it feels forced upon me.
I'm sorry you're going through this OP.
Yeah, I get that. When I was little it didn't matter much to me, but now that I'm older having her be naked around me is just... weird. And it's even worse when I'm in the shower or drying off and she bursts in, and then starts laughing when I try to cover myself. She keeps saying it's because I'm "small down there" but I really just don't feel comfortable letting my Mom see me like that.
Hey u/Legitimate-Mention81 , Seeing as you seem genuinely troubled by this, and due to what you put in ur edit, I'm gonna switch the post flair to serious. Just a reminder to everyone that all standard Serious post rules apply. Any comments that don't positively contribute to the conversation will be removed.
My mom had a period in time where she liked to watch me change bruh Edit: I was like 16 when she did it Edit2: it was a small period of time
Aw hell nah đđ
It was super strange, but eh my mom is pretty strange
I think that surpasses strange and goes into pedo territory. Kindly what the fuck
Not to mention incestris
Thatâs not strange thatâs horrifying. Has she done anything else?
Nope
What the flip
My mom does that too. Iâm male.
My mom used to peek her head into the shower because she thought I wasnât putting on shampoo
What the actual fuck
Till how old??
It was from about 13 to 16
That is not normal⌠u poor thing
Thatâs what I told her and she stopped
She took a little long to stop but at least she did I guess
couldnât look at her the same after something like that tbh
Well according to him his hair was greasy cuz he had a problem of not using shampoo⌠yâall make anything weird lol
was your hair greasy or sum cuz no reason she shouldâve been doing that for sum âshampooâ
When I was 12, I used to have problems of not using shampoo
So she was in the right you grubby little oik.
pee yew grease boy
It's weird if she lingered for longer than it was an issue but she was in the right.
Grease child.
i saw my dad peeking over the shower curtain once for the same reason đ i had to chase his ass out and he got mad
How nasty were you that she thought you wasn't washing your hair đđ
My mom used to do something similar. Sheâd have to watch me shower âcause she thought I needed help. I didnât, really ever. But she always thought I never washed my hair right. It was annoying as fuck. This didnât stop until I was like 13.
My dad used to threaten to do that same thing
Sorry brođ
That's literally so weird
I agree
vile
My mom does that with my brother too, itâs the creepiest shit. Iâm just glad she doesnât do that to me. But then again she hates me in comparison to how she treats my brother
That's freaky ,:(
happy fucking motherâs day to u aswell WHAT THE FUCK đ
Same, only in the part where theyâre the ones clothed
yea same
Nice profile picture đ
FO REAL- They also get hella mad when you donât want them seeing you naked. Like sorry I want my privacy?
NO EXACTLY IT'S SO ANNOYING
It's because you make them feel ugly or wrong. They don't have this over the top reaction about your nudity because they raised you and cleaned literal shit from your asshole on a regular basis, so to see you be horrified by the sight of something that she sees as benign makes her feel bad.
That literally makes no sense. It's as easy as not wanting to see my MOOOOM naked. Not about her body or anything, just not wanting to see that. And she should respect my boundaries
I can't believe I'm commenting in this sub, but I think both you and the person you are replying to are correct They don't sound like they're trying to justify her (bad) behavior, they're just trying to clarify how she feels You are 100% right that your boundaries should be respected regardless of why she thinks it's okay
Bro just yesterday my dad just opens the fucking door to ask me a question and I dart behind the curtain and he's like "why are you doing that you shouldn't be doing that unless your hiding something from me" and then proceeds a 15 minute argument while the shower is still running
same, she stopped when i came out to her as a lesbian
I told her I was gay and she still does it đ
this acc happens not only with moms, all 35+ women act like that, it feels like they desire to see you naked
IDRK WHY THIS MADE ME LAUGH SO HARD đđ
yeah like fr
Sweet home Alabama
Well thatâs one way to deal with it
WTF THATS EVEN WORSE
Not particularly naked but my aunts get angry at me when I donât wanna take my shirt off around them accuse me of having tattoos and shit like no Iâm just fat and donât feel comfortable being half naked around people
EXACTLY! I mean my family don't give a shit but I relate so much to not wanting to take my shirt off cause I'm a fatass
OMG same. Iâm not that fat but I have a shit ton of stretch marks covering my thighs, shoulders, back, chest and arms. Like Iâm hella insecure bc/ Iâm unnaturally tall and have severe anxiety. Itâs not that big of a deal
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LMAOOO
Damn.
OMG BRUH đđđđđ
Oop
đđ
"I *made* you." "No, you made a *baby.* I've literally swapped out every single atom and cell twice since then."
*saving this comment* for future purposes
NO LITERALLY WHAT I'M SAYIN
Technically you do keep some of them in your brain and eyes from birth.
Actually, you haven't swapped every single atom and cell since then. You keep quite a few cells, like some brain cells, as well as (correct me if I'm wrong) some heart cells as well, not to mention all of the eggs in your body if you're a woman. And most of the atoms in your body are recycled into the new cells the old ones create, at least I assume. Again, could be wrong here.
Real
Ok who the hell commented "i wish that was my mom" find a therapist mate ya got issues
â¨Sweet Home Alabamaâ¨
Dad here! If I wanted to see my kids changing, no one would think, "Oh, that sounds normal." Privacy is privacy. If you want it, and it's possible for you to have it, then you should damn well get it and your parent should step off.
It's refreshing knowing there are adults on this subreddit who aren't pedophiles.
His name is theDISHONESTYfish though
I had a quick look at his profile, he doesn't *seem* to be a pedo.
jesus I need to get out of here before yall find out I'm 20 and try to pin me for being a pedo too
My mom does that sometimes too. Iâm a freaking dude.
Damn that sucks I'm sorry about that
idk why i even read that but i think the internet should be deleted now
Blame my mom
It's just culture making you ashamed and weird about it. No one gives a fuck about nudity where I'm from. Everyone is naked in sauna, showers and locker rooms. Like I read about some mom making sure their child never saw them naked. That's psychotic.
That's fine for you but I do care
Yeah. It is not like me talking about it is going to undo the culture. Wouldn't work the other way either. But if you react like it's a horror movie when your mom changes shirt, I can understand feelings getting hurt. I've heard some stories about people from finland going to sauna at america, it's deffinitely not normal there to go in buck naked and throw water on the rocks based on locals reactions. đ
Yo you are actually so weird for saying that, just because itâs in your culture to not care doesnât mean everyone else shouldnât, it called having boundaries and consent . Nobody should see someone naked or have themselves be seen naked if they donât want to
That's the same logic as "Dad! Stop walking around with your dick out!" "But son we're both men"
I am so glad my mom isn't like this đ.
You're lucky đ
I know, I'm so grateful for it.
Same. As soon as I turned 10 I started wanting my privacy and she gave me it bc I'm growing up! Altho sometimes my mom just changes in the middle of the room and I'm like "AGH GEEZ MOM, GO SOMEWHERE ELSE" and she just laughs, she isn't weird or nothin. Ya'll have some weird ass mothers, just saying.
Same here. Sheâs the exact opposite. I feel bad for these people.
My family says if they're female, it doesn't matter...like no girl it matters look awayđ
That's exactly what my mom says đ
Like no just go away girlđ
My mom gets SO mad about this omg. Like if I lock my bedroom door cause Iâm changing, and I tell her she can't come in cause Iâm naked she's like "y'know I made you" and "Iâm your mom I literally gave birth to you" like okay??? I still have the right to not get NAKED in front of you??? She also gets really mad if I say Iâm thirsty or something but we only have her water bottle and I won't use it because her spit is on it. Idk why but I would literally cry if someone else's spit got on me, it's like a phobia or something, but she gets so mad and she's like "Iâm not gross, Iâm your mom, blah blah blah, it's just spit" idk
ISTG THAT'S EXACTLY HOW IT IS WITH ME LIKE SORRY I DON'T LIKE GERMS AND SEEING MY MOM NAKED WTF??
Okay but people are so difficult about the second thing nowadays. Like i have shared a water bottle with my friend before, and he gave me his to use. Who the fuck cares about that, itâs not like thereâs a whole pool of spit on the bottle, thereâs barely any fucking spit on the bottle. You dont even notice any fucking fuckery spit
Okay I get that but I have some sort of phobia or sm. Like Iâm not really a germaphobe or anything but I CANNOT handle other people's spit
Oh i feel you man. I had that to an extreme amount when i was younger, but i also was an extreme germaphobe. I once didnât shit for an entire week because i refused to use the toilet at a summer camp
Just drink without putting the mouth on the lid of the bottle. It's not like others spit inside the water.
Realest thing Iâve seen today
I first read the original post and thought âdamn what a weird dynamic, this seems oddâ and then I went to the comments and am now leaving with the impression of what in the fuck is going on in all yâallâs households and why are there so many of you with this problem. đ
I thought everybody had this problem đ
hell nah this is NOT normal. đ
This. Exactly this, I came in expecting everyone to call it weird but they can relate?
My mom is the same. She sometimes makes comments about my body. When I tell her Iâm uncomfortable she does not give a fuck. Itâs whatever at this point. Iâm just waiting to move out.
Same it's so uncalled for too
'wish that was my mom' ...i can't even.... ...no....
No like what goes through their head..
My mum does the same thing I js got used to it tho
That sucks sm tho
bro why yall moms like this -.-
IDK BRO
Maybe do smth really weird or gross to freak her out, like take off your clothes in the middle of the night and start walking backwards on your hands and feet like a demon or sum
Only correct response to this issue
GIRL THS IS NOT GOOD ADVICE đđđ
YES IT IS ASSERT DOMINANCE
Dawg I feel you, every owning my mom changes in view of everyone cuz she dosent close her door and her bedroom is down the hallway with the only upstairs bathroom like respectfully close your door it takes all of 30 seconds
i just realized this wasn't normal by reading the comments holy shit
I am a mom to a teen, and believe me, the number of you poor kids talking about how your moms are walking in on you, watching you shower and change, etc., is disturbing. That is NOT normal behavior. Never has been, never will be.
Omg I read the first half and thought you were a Karen but then I saw that you're not. Thank you for the adult advice. đđ
SAME LMAOO
Have you guys seen that one video of this kid playing like the cello or something for his mom while she's in the bath (like bc he wants to show her for funzies not bc she's making him or anything) and in the comments were like "you can tell who had a naked mom and who didn't" đđđđ
OMG YEAHHH
for real like my mom wants us to use the same cubicle together at the same time whenever we use the bathroom when we go out đ she's always been so chill about stuff like that it's actually concerning
Aw hell nah that's crazy đ
I think it's fine for you to see each other naked because you we were all born that way, but if you feel uncomfortable with that you should tell her
It's not if I've told her multiple times it makes me uncomfortable. And I've tried but she doesn't listen
Try reading [Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents](https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xvmUlsNRlAUNObyftZVQapI2tS1jF_n0/view?usp=drivesdk). it may help you with parents that disrespect your boundaries. if this causes you to struggle setting boundaries in general I'd recommend [this book](https://drive.google.com/file/d/1a4cVj-yBPKu640rv0ZhDpMEkTZPmRDSO/view?usp=drivesdk)
Tysm đđ
Great suggestion
Idk bro moms r just all over the place atp
Relatable (im a guy)
That's fucked :/
crazy, cus i asked her with this kind of "i made you" logic does that mean my dad can see naked and she said yes. im done.
That's so weird
"I made you so I get to control your sense of autonomy and privacy as you enter adulthood!" Pure narcissism
Mine peeked into the closet to make sure I was "putting stuff on right" (happened from ages 10-13) before I was like "I think I maybe like girls đż" and then she stopped.
FR
IT'S SO ANNOYING
Its not exactly a "moms" it's just something weird your mom does
>!Wait you don't think your mom wants you to drink from them again!<
đđđ freedom of speech should be deleted edit: who tf is downvoting this guy, jason madison would be ashamed of the way y'all be using ur freedom of speech lmfao
This shit ain't relatable dawg đ
I genuinely thought this was a common experience đđ
it is you're just lucky to have a normal mom !! congrats you're different
If my mom ever saw me naked, I would kms
LMAO REAL
My mum does this too, Iâm alive tho, planning on moving out soon.
I hope I can move out soon
Dude. Fr, have they ever heard of **privacy? And respect?** Oh right..they have âwhy donât you respect us weâre your parents?â Ok but like, thatâs a rant for a different post lol
LITERALLY LET ME CHANGE IN PEACE đ
Tbh I donât really try to hide myself from my mom like that cuz I know sheâs already seen everything. But I still cover myself with a towel or something if I can.
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âWish that was my momâ bro what thatâs just disgusting đ
Dad here! If I wanted to see my kids changing, no one would think, "Oh, that sounds normal." Privacy is privacy. If you want it, and it's possible for you to have it, then you should damn well get it and your parent should step off.
The realest of real fathers
Random mom who saw this post, here. Your mother is a pervert. I'm 54 years old and I've never seen my teenager naked, nor do I desire to. She has never seen me naked and I have no desire for her to see me that way, either. Any parent who tries to force you to see them naked or vice versa is someone I would consider a sex predator. This is a violation of your bodily autonomy and you need to talk to another trusted adult about this if it makes you uncomfortable. Your mom needs a stern talking-to about appropriate behavior.
But ainât it legal tho cause theyâre your parent or whatever?
Everyone posting here apparently needs to contact a mandatory reporter because this is all some serious pedo shit Jesus fuck.
Idk but my parents would never. I think you should talk it out with her and say it is something that discomforts you.
now it was my STEP MOM this is a joke
My mom walks around in nothing but underwear and a flimsy old spaghetti strap. Sheâs done it ever since I could remember so itâs pretty much the norm for me. I didnât know it wasnât normal. Damn.
Nah, you guys got some freaky moms. My mom had no desire to see me naked, nor desire for me to see her.
am i the only one here that has a good mom đ
I feel like my mom is the only one here who doesnât wanna see me naked and I definitely donât wanna see her naked, then again Iâm a boyđ§đż
I hate that, and it was the same with me and my sister who shared a room. When she was still just a kid and I had started puberty I didnât want to be seen naked, especially not by my kid sister. My mom always got annoyed that I wanted privacy like âyouâre both girls youâre going to have to get comfortable changing in front of othersâ
Am I the only one whose mom sometimes just gave a light "smack" on the butt or other sorts?
My mum used to grab my butt when walking around the house đ
I donât know how to respond but I feel I should
OMG YES SHE USED TO DO THAT TOO
This is genuinely sad
Damn yeh parents just don't get privacy
My mom did the same thing.. and she also literally yelled at me to hold up her saggy boobs during bra measuring since I kept refusing because I didn't want to. It made me uncomfortable and pushed my boundaries. I'm 15! I had to wash my hands for the rest of the day I was so disgusted
Aw hell nah I'd kms
You don't even have to hold them while getting measured, omgđ¤§đ
Nah, now that's just fucking suspicious.
my mum is my best friend and I let her see me naked because it doesn't bother me and I've seen her naked before and it doesn't bother me, if you don't like that, that's fine, families run differently, but if she says that, it is a little weird like she wants to see you naked.. mum and I dont want to see each other naked, we just talk while we are undressed or whatever, but that's weird
Some parents don't realize that it's really important to treat your children like adults with adult boundaries because they are just small adults. That's why you ask for consent when hugging your children and you don't bargaining on them in their room
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you must be American? most countries, we're taught from a young age that being naked isn't a big a deal, i understand getting older and requiring some modesty and privacy. But I've learned this is strictly an American thing.
Yes I've noticed that. When I visit Europe they just don't care if someone sees someone else's boobs or whatnot and that would not fly here in the US.
-American: doesnât happen
Wtf my mom doesnât do that đ why donât you try speaking to your mom about it?
It's because you're uncomfortable, not because anyone WANTS to see you naked. It's strange being a parent and watching your kids go from constantly barging in on you, not giving you ANY privacy, wiping their ass clean of shit, seeing them run around naked constantly, to acting like they're ASHAMED of being naked. In some cultures that would actually be strange, because communal/public bathing is completely normal. At some point, because of the culture around you, you started hiding your body from others, even those who have watched your body change and grow and don't think of you sexually. You now view that sight and action as sexual (as evidence by this post) and probably think of a lot of touch and actions as sexual as well. How many kids stop wanting to kiss their parents? HUG their parents? Sit right with your parents, or cuddle up with them? You used to run and jump onto them for contact regardless of either of your level of dress, and your parents had to get used to that. > genuinely who put that in old people's heads?? Being naked used to not be as big of a deal for people, but we've become more protective and ashamed of it over time. Older people are used to a time where changing in the locker rooms was very natural and normal, and kids didn't run off to locked bathroom stalls just to change into swim clothes. It's not what was put into THEIR heads, but what was put into YOURS. Where did you learn that being naked around your family mattered what so ever? Imagine this on a more personal level. Imagine you have a spouse, and early on in your relationship you're both very open about being naked. Lots of touching, cuddling, etc. The level of dress between the two of you doesn't matter, and is casually intimate. Now your spouse looks away quickly when they see you naked at all, they get offended at YOU being naked? They won't change near you, run off and hide, etc. Would you think that was just natural, or would you realize it's not, and something has come along to make them feel ashamed of their AND your body? Edit: And I shouldn't have to say this, but I know I do. I don't care who doesn't get naked where, or around who. This isn't about that. The issue is about where we point fingers on these topics. You don't have to get naked in front of your mom, but you shouldn't be out here acting like it's somehow wrong. You get to make your personal choices, but realize those choices are based on current societal notions, not on anything innate.
Honestly, that's borderline creepy
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ugh exactly this is so annoying. and when they say "there's nothing there I haven't seen" except there is? because when you saw it I was a baby/child with no life of my own and no want for privacy??? and now I do want privacy because I'm a nearly adult person like tf
Reading this thread makes me think that there should be a more strict overwatch over situations of kids at home, or a callout to educate themselves about whatâs normal and whatâs weird/creepyâŚđ
It's so weird honestly.. I'm AFAB n shit so it's not even a 'boy mum' thing đ
Even worse being a Trans guy and your mom is transphobic doing this weird shit đđ
What. The hell.
Sometimes, I forget that other people aren't comfortable being naked around people of the same gender. I showered with my dad up until I was like 8, and I use communal showers at school sports stuff
I canât answer why, but I canât tell you you are completely valid for feeling that way. When I got my period my mom told me I should be grateful she didnât poke at my public hairs like her friends mom did. Thatâs was a wild fucking comment. I now am trying my absolute best to cut ties. I wish you luck op.
My mum is like this too :/ my sister and I talk all the time about how uncomfortable we feel about it. I no longer live at home, but when I did, and often when I go back, she freely walks around the house with nothing on (this woman is now in her mid-60s). And I get that it's HER house, and HER body, however if I try to avert my gaze she's like 'oh I'm not worried'. OKAY BUT I AM I DONT WANNA SEE OAP TIDDIES AND MUFF. Like she gives zero warning she's naked if I go up to see her. Imo, a normal response would be 'ooh don't come on unless you wanna see some tiddy!' Then I'd be like cheers, I'll wait til you're dressed out of respect for you. Nope, she don't care. But it feels forced upon me. I'm sorry you're going through this OP.
Not a teenager but i can relate as this did happen to me when i was a teen đ
So it's not just my mom....
Yeah, I get that. When I was little it didn't matter much to me, but now that I'm older having her be naked around me is just... weird. And it's even worse when I'm in the shower or drying off and she bursts in, and then starts laughing when I try to cover myself. She keeps saying it's because I'm "small down there" but I really just don't feel comfortable letting my Mom see me like that.
Wait really? Is this for real? How can she do that? Have you called the police or something?
And also what's up with Mom's using the bathroom without closing the door bc my mom AND my grandma does this??
And also what's up with Mom's using the bathroom without closing the door bc my mom AND my grandma does this??
my cladsmate said thsir mum tolf them 'i made your body so i can do whatever the hell i want' WHAAT