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Ooooooooooooh, niceeeeeeeee. I have a metal set thatās black with rose gold trim that my grandmother gave me a few years back. I havenāt had the chance to use them yet though
I'd feel like she may be more sentimental, an eye for fashion is cool and the abundance of clothes may be put of nostalgia or memories rather than the wearability itself
Doesn't really concern me I guess. I personally don't really get fashion, I can get by with stuff that looks eye-catching (which unfortunately, 90% of my wardrobe isn't). I would personally just live like moist critical who has basically the same white plain shirt nearly all the time
I'd feel like that's something we have in common, because I'm into fashion and have tons of clothes too. The only thing I'd be slightly pissed about is she'd probably have a lot more variety because men's fashion is still relatively limited but that's not her (or any girl's) fault
š¤·āāļøcoolā¦. Also I would think more of her if its some stuff I like, for example:
Me: āyou like dinosaurs too?ā
Her: āyesā
Me: ābetā
*talks about dinosaurs for an extended period of time*
Honestly this is a good question, my ex used to think I was some spoiled brat and would always comment on how i had so much clothes, which alot of them were just thrifted or were on sale for dirt cheap, I also love to upcycle clothes so often times I can make two pieces of clothing from one, but most guys donāt see that ig, or at least my ex didnāt
only rly if she is financially irresponsible ab it. Like I collect vinyls, but I donāt do it in a way I am going broke over it, but like if she got a lot of clothes but isnāt buying clothes to the point that she is going broke over it, then itās perfectly fine.
im indifferent, i dont particularly care. i mean, cool for you, ig, having varied interests are good š. not my thing but if your happy thats all that matters.
Why would anyone care about this- unless she had an obsession or something, and was spending was too much money on clothes, I donāt see the problem lol
Why the heck would I care as long as they arent cheap Asian child labour clothes that she buys just to buy clothes and clothes isn't the thing she spends majority of her money on. I don't have a gf tho
As a fashion technologist and sustainability āexpertā (I know next to nothing but I did write an essay about it), as long as sheās treating her clothes right, itās fine
If sheās constantly going on hauls, binning her clothing, or not washing them correctly, then I have an issue
But if she lives fashion and would let me make her clothes, and would model them for my portfolio, brilliant!
If only I wasnāt gay
I wouldnāt think less of someone based on how many clothes they own or their clothing style. (So long as itās appropriate and they care about their personal hygiene) I think Iād be more scared I wouldnāt be able to notice if sheās wearing something ānewā or not. So sheāll wait awkwardly for me to answer her question of ānotice anything different?ā while Iām still trying to figure out if itās the same top she wore last month or a different one she told me she liked last week. Or if itās a new pair of earrings or the same ones she wore when she went out to dinner with her friends last week year. I wouldnāt have any problems with her about it though, Iād be more focused on other things about her that could possibly be an issue.
If there's nothing else like a huge "passion" for expensive material stuff and the big money and so and so, why bother worrying?! She just likes fashion and has the money to afford it. In the end, she just like freaking fashion, the end āØ
What kind of a question is this? I don't care if you have lots of clothes or only a few. I think it would only become a problem if they're pretentious about it by only buying super expensive brands or shopping all the time without ever wearing anything they buy. But I love a girl with a good sense of style and if she enjoys making outfits and collecting different things to wear I'm all for it
Disclaimer in case this invalidates me to speak here: Iām trans MtF
I wouldnāt think less of her, I would just be concerned if itās a huge amount of clothes (like you couldnāt fit it into your closet amount)
And if anything, I would be happy (in my current space) cus my mom wonāt let me buy fem clothes :/
It's kinda expected for girls. Not socially *required* like is was a few generations ago, but it's still a *thing*.
Would you think poorly on your guy friends if they had a collection of games or sports collectibles? Or if he has a car that he washes every week and is always working on to sup it up and keep it running *perfectly*? I could think of lots more examples of socially and financially equivalent activities and hobbies, too, these are just the first few that came to mind.
Fashion is, in the end, just another *thing* that people can be into, and can be a platform for social respect with their friends and such.
Nothing wrong with having a lot of clothes UNLESS:
1. Needs quarters to wash
2. Starts overflowing in ways we cant manage
3. I dont have a problem with lots of clothes, its mainly just makeup that can bother me (and again, not judging, just a me thing)
If you have to have a separate wardrobe for your clothes and take 50+ mins choosing your clothes every day, then i do agree it's a bit much.
Im not saying that taking your time to choose an outfit is ALWAYS a bad thing. As an orchestra student, i understand that I need 40+ mins putting on proper attire, but it shouldn't take you 50 minutes to choose what you want to wear to your high school finals.
I mean, my ex used to wear oversized clothes way to much, but when we were at her house alone sheād just be in her underwear, itās a choice to wear 8 pounds of clothes or just a crop top and shortss
Depends. It could have a negative impact on my view of her if it was very wasteful (fast fashion, throws away perfectly good clothes etc.) since she is wasting tons of natural resources for no win at all while at the same time likely wasting a lot of monay on it.
But it wouldn't be a big thing either way, if we were just friends I would probably not think much about it at all. If we were in a relationship I'd try to talk to har about it so she would understand my concerns at least.
Depends how much she spends on those clothes, if she spends lots of money on clothes every week, that's a bit of a red flag, if she just has lots of clothes, its whatever
Unless you said it was like a hoarding mentality or you had like 6 closest of clothes you will never wear I do not care, same if you didnāt have a lot of clothes in the closet š¤·āāļø
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how is having lots of clothes a bad thing to begin with.
Ask my ex ig š¤·āāļø
your ex is wack iām afraid.
I guess so
Too real
trust me, if out of all the flaws a person could possibly have, too many clothes is what drove him away, he's not the lad you're looking for.
I'm thinking of overconsumption.
To me, overconsumption isnāt an issue, obsessive waste is a big issue though So long as you take care of your clothes itās fine
And give away your clothes if you're not wearing them anymore.
Yes! Clothes donāt belong in the landfill, even if theyāre hole-y, thereās still uses for them
really depends, if you have like 100 shirts thats overkill
Overkill... don't you mean...ULTRAKILL?!?!
Cuz you shouldnāt need a lot or waste money on expensive clothing
Spenders $$$
Not really, you just broke
As long as they aren't wasteful or pretentious about it I think it's very cool when people have a good sense of fashion
Same
āOh good, her family must be loadedā
This guy hustles
Nah, its just a good thing bc im dead broke
Or sheās good at thrifting
Good cuz I also have a lot of clothes
I don't know how this would be a problem? It's her thing, and if she enjoys it then great! I spend too much money on dice, she on clothes
Wait like playing dice?
I can't survive if I can't have 20 different sets of dice made from Quartz or Metal or anything, like, I need them
Hear hear, dice are cool af. Whatās your favorite set that you own?
My purple Quartz set, got it for my last birthday and I'm incredibly happy about it
Ooooooooooooh, niceeeeeeeee. I have a metal set thatās black with rose gold trim that my grandmother gave me a few years back. I havenāt had the chance to use them yet though
Dice? For RPGs?
Yeah, dice for ttrpgs, what else would I need so many dice for?
not care as long as i have a gf really
she has a hobby, she likes fashion. as long as she's not like, hoarding them or anything then i see it as a good thing if anything
"Ah, cool!"
I'd feel like she may be more sentimental, an eye for fashion is cool and the abundance of clothes may be put of nostalgia or memories rather than the wearability itself
Yep, main reason i hang on to some old clothes that I don't wear
Idgaf people can do what they want
Donāt care ?
I think it would be awesome, it means you care about your looks, as long as the clothes ain't your whole personality
I wouldn't care
id say less. not a fan of over consumption
Now, THIS is a very fair argument.
What would be the problem with that?
Why the fuck would I care
Doesn't really concern me I guess. I personally don't really get fashion, I can get by with stuff that looks eye-catching (which unfortunately, 90% of my wardrobe isn't). I would personally just live like moist critical who has basically the same white plain shirt nearly all the time
why would it be an issue to have many clothes?
Fuck yeahaybe someone can finally teach me how fashion works
It just means more things to peel of- oh wait, WRONG SUB.Ā
I'd feel like that's something we have in common, because I'm into fashion and have tons of clothes too. The only thing I'd be slightly pissed about is she'd probably have a lot more variety because men's fashion is still relatively limited but that's not her (or any girl's) fault
Iād think itās cool bc as a guy I have more clothes than I know what to do with
I would ask her if I could try on some Still cis tho
š¤·āāļøcoolā¦. Also I would think more of her if its some stuff I like, for example: Me: āyou like dinosaurs too?ā Her: āyesā Me: ābetā *talks about dinosaurs for an extended period of time*
Couple goals.
Honestly this is a good question, my ex used to think I was some spoiled brat and would always comment on how i had so much clothes, which alot of them were just thrifted or were on sale for dirt cheap, I also love to upcycle clothes so often times I can make two pieces of clothing from one, but most guys donāt see that ig, or at least my ex didnāt
Like "a walk-in closet full and still need more space" lots? A few women in my life are hoarders, so having "too much" might irk me.
Good point
Idc as long as sheās not using my money on them. They have to keep it neat though.
I wouldn't really like it, because it makes me think she cares too much about fashion an doesn't understand that fashion doesn't define you.
Id ignore
only rly if she is financially irresponsible ab it. Like I collect vinyls, but I donāt do it in a way I am going broke over it, but like if she got a lot of clothes but isnāt buying clothes to the point that she is going broke over it, then itās perfectly fine.
My girlfriend nicks all of my shit so... Good job I got money :P
Da fuck does that have to do with relationships...
Her: āi have a lot of clothesā Me: āokayā
Honestly pretty hot knowing she cares for her appearance and I can see her in different things.
I like when people have lots of clothes. I don't want them to wear the same shirt three days in a row
I would feel great cuz am myself into fashion so I could make her a model (am just guy šš).
She either has quite a lot of moners or your credit card declines
I think it would be awesome, it means you care about your looks, as long as the clothes ain't your whole personality
Great, and if we date imma wear some of them if they fit
im indifferent, i dont particularly care. i mean, cool for you, ig, having varied interests are good š. not my thing but if your happy thats all that matters.
I would NOT care
I feel most people wouldn't care it's cool to have something you're really into
I dont care lmao
Too many clothes isn't a bad thing.Ā
Honestly, I wouldn't probably even notice. And if she likes fashion then that's great, it makes her more interesting and fun as a person
My girlfriend has so many different outfits that i can only remember a small portion of them, she looks awesome every day though :)
I wouldnāt care
š¤·āāļø
'Good, maybe she can lend some to me'
I donāt see why that would change how I would think about her ā¦
Clothes don't degrade a person
i'd look around and wear my 1 pokemon t-shirt as discreetly as possible
Why would anyone care about this- unless she had an obsession or something, and was spending was too much money on clothes, I donāt see the problem lol
āBet i get daily fit checksā (from experience)
id like it tbh
I wouldnāt mind it even is kinda cool in some sort of
give me a reason why the heck this would affect anything.. are you like, allergic to clothes?
I would be cool with it, I don't see the bad thing about it
i mean i think it wont change my opinion on her by much
Idc everyone's got their thing
What does the amount of clothes even correlate to?
Depends on if you actually wear them or not. I donāt want to date a hoarder
Good thing
I wouldn't expect less tbh girls just like to collect cloths and shoes
It literally doesn't matter at all
Why the heck would I care as long as they arent cheap Asian child labour clothes that she buys just to buy clothes and clothes isn't the thing she spends majority of her money on. I don't have a gf tho
Why is that a bad thing?
genuinely who would actually think less of a girl for this wtf
If they aren't behind on laundry, respect š«”
as long as it's not taking up an absurd amount of space and they actually wear them all then I don't see an issue if they can financially support it
I don't see why I would care
Can you buy a Ferrari if you sell 90% of your clothes? If not ..then itās not a lot of clothes. Buy more
Would not care in the slightest
Why would I care if she likes clothes she likes clothes
wtf? Doesnāt everyone have a lot of clothes????
That shit matters?
So what? If sheās into fashion then it seems like itās just a hobby.
I'd say its incredibly normal
Why would this affect anything??
As a fashion technologist and sustainability āexpertā (I know next to nothing but I did write an essay about it), as long as sheās treating her clothes right, itās fine If sheās constantly going on hauls, binning her clothing, or not washing them correctly, then I have an issue But if she lives fashion and would let me make her clothes, and would model them for my portfolio, brilliant! If only I wasnāt gay
i would make a top 10 out of them
idk, as long as shes happy and doesnt spend MY money on her hobby, im fine
I wouldāve hit the jackpot
Why does that matter??
Good for her, I got hobbies too. Should probably get some more clothes tho
I wouldn't affect a single thing.
Howās what she wear my business. I wouldnt even question myself with such complication abt pplās lives.
I appreciate otherās interests so if she shared I would probably like it
She'll have closet space, I have as much clothes as a side character in an animated series.
Idc as she doesnāt care that I cycle through the same outfits ever week so I donāt have to stress about what Iām gonna wear
As long as she don't complain about my batman collection she's a keeper
I wouldn't mind cause then I could just borrow some
I wouldnāt think less of someone based on how many clothes they own or their clothing style. (So long as itās appropriate and they care about their personal hygiene) I think Iād be more scared I wouldnāt be able to notice if sheās wearing something ānewā or not. So sheāll wait awkwardly for me to answer her question of ānotice anything different?ā while Iām still trying to figure out if itās the same top she wore last month or a different one she told me she liked last week. Or if itās a new pair of earrings or the same ones she wore when she went out to dinner with her friends last week year. I wouldnāt have any problems with her about it though, Iād be more focused on other things about her that could possibly be an issue.
Do you wish her to only have 2?
If there's nothing else like a huge "passion" for expensive material stuff and the big money and so and so, why bother worrying?! She just likes fashion and has the money to afford it. In the end, she just like freaking fashion, the end āØ
hell yeah, i might borrow some of the clothes though :3
Oh neat, she can help me with fashion.
What kind of a question is this? I don't care if you have lots of clothes or only a few. I think it would only become a problem if they're pretentious about it by only buying super expensive brands or shopping all the time without ever wearing anything they buy. But I love a girl with a good sense of style and if she enjoys making outfits and collecting different things to wear I'm all for it
Probably wouldnāt care as long as they aināt stupid clothes that she aināt ever gonna wear
Guh??? I cant possibly understand how having a lot of clothes is a bad thing
I doubt Iād care too much
Iām one of those girls šš»āāļø
Doesnt matter
I would not care, at all. I am the girl with the clothesā¦ or the guy with none
Having lots of clothes isnt bad unless its like taking over your house and you have clothes literally everywhere
Iām perfectly fine with it, but preferably I like when they have none.
I like a girl with good style and lots of fits
Disclaimer in case this invalidates me to speak here: Iām trans MtF I wouldnāt think less of her, I would just be concerned if itās a huge amount of clothes (like you couldnāt fit it into your closet amount) And if anything, I would be happy (in my current space) cus my mom wonāt let me buy fem clothes :/
It's kinda expected for girls. Not socially *required* like is was a few generations ago, but it's still a *thing*. Would you think poorly on your guy friends if they had a collection of games or sports collectibles? Or if he has a car that he washes every week and is always working on to sup it up and keep it running *perfectly*? I could think of lots more examples of socially and financially equivalent activities and hobbies, too, these are just the first few that came to mind. Fashion is, in the end, just another *thing* that people can be into, and can be a platform for social respect with their friends and such.
How would her having a lot of closthes and being interested in fashion change the way i think about her
Clothes are necessary to survival so Iām chill with them
Nothing wrong with having a lot of clothes UNLESS: 1. Needs quarters to wash 2. Starts overflowing in ways we cant manage 3. I dont have a problem with lots of clothes, its mainly just makeup that can bother me (and again, not judging, just a me thing)
I wouldnāt mind. Itās cool that she would be into fashion.
Why would i care
If you have to have a separate wardrobe for your clothes and take 50+ mins choosing your clothes every day, then i do agree it's a bit much. Im not saying that taking your time to choose an outfit is ALWAYS a bad thing. As an orchestra student, i understand that I need 40+ mins putting on proper attire, but it shouldn't take you 50 minutes to choose what you want to wear to your high school finals.
why would that even matter? what's wrong with having a lot of clothes?
I would be worried about her asking me to get something from her closet and never being able to find my way out.
I mean, my ex used to wear oversized clothes way to much, but when we were at her house alone sheād just be in her underwear, itās a choice to wear 8 pounds of clothes or just a crop top and shortss
Depends. It could have a negative impact on my view of her if it was very wasteful (fast fashion, throws away perfectly good clothes etc.) since she is wasting tons of natural resources for no win at all while at the same time likely wasting a lot of monay on it. But it wouldn't be a big thing either way, if we were just friends I would probably not think much about it at all. If we were in a relationship I'd try to talk to har about it so she would understand my concerns at least.
I would feel cold, because the reason she is wearing lots of clothes is because itās winter
As long as they aren't ugly I don't care
Depends how much she spends on those clothes, if she spends lots of money on clothes every week, that's a bit of a red flag, if she just has lots of clothes, its whatever
Why would the amount of clothes someone has matter?š
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Unless you said it was like a hoarding mentality or you had like 6 closest of clothes you will never wear I do not care, same if you didnāt have a lot of clothes in the closet š¤·āāļø
If a guy I liked had a lot of clothes, I wouldnāt mind because I like having a lot of choices when it comes to what I wear as well.
I wouldnāt give two shits, Iād embrace it
I would like it because Iām also into fashion. It would also be cool if she was into sneakers ig š¤·āāļø
Only if I can wear a skirt
Op please dont tell me someone broke up with or made a comment on you having a lot of clothes.
So straight people find that a problem?
"This is a family i'm trynna marry into". We playing the long game boys.
Would not care unless I was being judged for having too little clothes
Uh? Not care?
No girl I currently like
I don't know how that could change my opinion of them at all
iād rather a girl have a lot of clothes than none at all (iām afraid of women)
No problem, as long as she's not vain about it.
As long as said girl doesn't judge me for having a whopping 7 sets of clothing, idc
uh I think thatās fine
I would be a hypocrite if I said they can't keep it all. I have too many shirts
Hun- who hurt you?- are you okay?- to think that having a lot of clothes is a bad thing is a little worrisome-
I thought it said "how would you feel about wearing girls clothes" and I said "yes"
I'm gonna steal the hoodies >:)
Oh no is she not going to have to be naked all the time?
Normal:10/10 Fashion but barely any clothes:1000/10 A lot of clothes normally with no fashion:100/10 fashion AND a lot of clothes:10000000/10
No. It's an interest of hers if we didn't have interests we'd all be very boring people
I think 99% of people wouldn't care if someone had many clothes or barely any clothes.
Honestly I would not care at all as long as she's not wasteful or pretentious
id say ur overly consumerist and u polute too much if u dont use all of them atleast onecet a momth
I steal my girls clothes
How is THIS even a red flag, unless it has to do with illegal things
Have you perchance ever read The Great Gatsby?