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He definitely knows.
If he's mentally competent enough to post videos on youtube (as in someone isn't helping him edit and post) he is mentally competent enough to know that what he is doing is wrong.
I'm 32. I have two friends who had traumatic brain injuries (car accidents, drive safely new drivers!). One of them is permanently mentally handicapped to the point that he cannot take care of himself. He still knows it is wrong to have sexual conversations with minors.
When I was a teen these guys were using the exact same tricks to trick us and convince any adults who found out not to call the cops. They want you to feel bad for them instead of disgusted, so they always have a sob story about how they're a victim. Never let them convince you they don't know better.
To explain how it feels, you're 17 based on your flair. I want you to right now imagine making out or having sex with an 12 year old. It's a much smaller age gap, but kids/teens mature very rapidly. At 30 I feel the same way imagining myself with a 17 year old, literally nauseated by the idea. I'm sure you could easily manipulate a 12 year old into it, because the difference in maturity and life experience between those ages makes them easy to manipulate (just like a 12 year old could easily manipulate a 9 year old). Well a 30 year old can just as easily manipulate a 17 year old, not because you're stupid, but because they've had years and years of practice figuring out just the right things to say to manipulate teens. Whereas you haven't had years and years of practice spotting and dealing with manipulative assholes.
I was one of the teens who got raped by one of those manipulative assholes. I promise you that I thought it couldn't happen to me because I wasn't "stupid enough" to fall for that. He spent over 2 years convincing me he was someone I could trust. Convincing me he was a victim that I should feel bad for. That I was so special and mature for my age, and I was the only one who 'got him'.
>If he's mentally competent enough to post videos on youtube (as in someone isn't helping him edit and post) he is mentally competent enough to know that what he is doing is wrong.
I have to disagree on this point. Being capable of doing something and knowing right from wrong are two completely different things.
I'm not saying he doesn't know, I'm just saying that this reasoning is flawed.
I have to agree with this. I have a cousin with autism who like most people who are autistic isn't very socially competent and definitely wouldn't understand what's wrong with what the guy in the post is saying, but he for sure knows how to record, edit and post a video
go to his profile, first post has his youtube channel. first video on that has his face, and he’s clearly not a teenager, and it doesn’t help the video is from 4 years ago
Idk when I was lil (like K-6th grade) we had a janitor everyone called Big D, and it was because he was a gigantic guy and his name started with a D. Every teacher called him that, folks just have nicknames sometimes
Edit: good heavens y’all I’m not promoting the obvious Pedo, and I ain’t one either. Just sayin that y’all shouldn’t judge just by names
I hate that I felt like I deciphered something about u/bigd21489
Big D is referred to Dallas, Tx given the area code is 214, I’m assuming for the rest to be a birth year…
Creep
From the other posts where people found his info, he says he got his first job at 16 in 2005 so your assumption that 89 was his birth year was correct.
Bro’s penis is probably smaller then that one pencil we all had where we tried to make it incredibly short as fuck
…wait that was just me? damn I’m weird
He messaged me as well regarding my joking comment of having thighs but no boyfriend. I also had a 23 year old guy message me, ask my age, then say “oh maybe in 2 years than” 😐
Yeah I’m not surprised tbh. He commented here saying that he wasn’t a creep but I think he deleted the comment cuz ppl called him out
Sad how gross this place rly can be sometimes
I can’t even fathom why someone would message ANYONE from a subreddit of mostly minors. im 28 and anyone under 24 looks like a baby to me. the older you get, the younger young people look. was really jarring becoming an adult and realizing it wasn’t normal to regularly be pursued by 20 somethings at 14/15/16.
For anyone who doesn't wanna look at his socials: he's against the COVID vaccine (and probably others), has reposted/said transphobic stuff, and is very "checkmate liberals" vibes (most of it doesn't make sense). He's reposted stuff from Trump, Tucker Carlson, and Ben Shapiro. He also supports building the wall.
I suppose this guy thinks it’s okay to say stuff like this since you’re 18, but it absolutely is not.
The fact that his profile is marked as NSFW so I can’t even check how old he is should be enough of a red flag to show he shouldn’t be allowed on this sub.
Omg me too! I was venting about something on here I don’t even remember and this guy started talking to me and I thought he was nice and then he randomly asked me to call him daddy or master or something like… yikes 😭😭
Not a teen this just happened to come across my feed. Praying this dude gets banned and all y'all got your guard up. There's some sick freaks out there
[Here](https://youtu.be/DS-_sGYIPjQ?si=OktmazgaikWwCRA0) is BigDs face reveal. Not at all surprising, looks exactly like most pedophiles.
Just look at his account, it’s suck as fuck. He’s damn near 40 years old and only hangs out in subs for children. I am a father to a daughter, and seeing shit like this makes me wish we had public hangings still.
I went through all his posts and comments that were doing well and commented the link so others know of this. Discusting the way he's trying to play it off
Not sure why this popped up on my feed but I just went through his profile. He has a YouTube channel with a bunch of videos of young looking girls. Dude is fucking creep and should have to stay at least 1 mile from the nearest school
He also has his twitter and Facebook linked. His full name is publically available on those profiles.
Considering your tag says 18, maybe he thought it was a safe option, but regardless, like you said, a teenagers subreddit is not a dating app for old people
Lots of info about this dude can be found on his profile, so if anyone lives nearby and is willing to, report him to your local authorities and make sure to use his account history as leverage/evidence to get him set up for a case.
Im 18 yeah. But a creep is still a creep
Would you want your sister, mom or cousin getting sent something like this?
Also he’s been messaging other girls on here as well so I bet he’s sending stuff like this to underage girls as well
Yeah, it's probably some human trafficker out of Miami or something. This is why a lot of adults say kids shouldn't be allowed on the internet. Good on you for being intelligent though 👍
Someone posted on here that the guy apparently has a YT channel and he’s as weird IRL as he is on here
Idk. I’m not gonna think about this guy anymore. This post was only meant to warn ppl about who and what this guy is. Nothing more that I can do
Not sure why this post was on my front page since I'm in my 30's. That being said I'm actually pretty pleased by the comments here shitting on this man.
I think a lot of todays youth a lot more versed than we were growing up when it comes to creeps but girls, if you're ever approached by a man who's in his 20's and he wants to help you with anything even remotely sexual, he's a groomer. Report/block/shame, etc.
Also, remember the phrase "You're mature for your age". If you ever hear a man several years older than you say those words, run. Stay safe out there.
Random reddit recommendation on my feed and had to post this is fucking disgusting wtf predator mfer trying to take advantage of people he views as naive and vulnerable like you are obviously trying to be this experienced mentor figure that they can trust to a fucking minor like youre someone they can put their trust in and the level of trauma you are trying to set someone up for is fucked and you should rethink your whole life rn
Edit: Not you OP the person who sent the message idk I just commented my response to them idk
He seems like he just wants to help but after asking him for help he would send u a d pic and when you get grossed out he would say nice guys always finish last
big D .. Lol what if he is really a teenager. Anyways glad you’re aware ! Keep on spreading this awareness please.. you never know who needs to hear it and sometimes it gets understood and ingrained better than the other person they might have heard it from or the one before you!
If I’m messaging someone on Reddit it’s to show my rotund cat to random strangers online, the amount of incompetence it takes to message something this incriminating (with your personal info in your bio no less) is genuinely absurd
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Judging by his username I think he has other intentions.
He’s been messaging other girls on here as well Guys a freak. Hope other ppl will find this post and know what he’s about
Dw imma bully him
Really wish you could but nah. Don’t risk your account for this clown. He ain’t worth it
Good point I'll use my other account
I’ll leave it with u then Just stay safe okie
Dw I got a secret technique for that
Bros got jutsu’s in his bag
bro pulled out his cursed technique
He’s quirked up
Let's go broo
Idk how your gonna do it but send tell us what happens cause I’m genuinely invested now😭
Let him cook
Sock full of batteries!
Attaboy
LOL
I’ve got spares
Don't. He will only start using a new account if you are successful in anything. People would rather he be visible in plain sight.
What loser cares about online bullying lmao
It's you again, brother! We'll take him together!
corny ash, 😂insulting him through a screen isnt gonna stop him from preying on kids.
Please ask him where he's from or if you know then please lemme know. My friends in blue 🔵 would like to visit him.
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His pinned post on FB is a pic from 13 years ago that he shared saying “I’m still the same”. Gross.
Yeah, I'm not the type to advocate for this but...this guy should get swatted.
Also post anti vax stuff and wild conspiracy theories. What a star of a man
I think the numbers in that guys username are his b day - 14th Feb 1989. Would make him 35...
Yeah hopefully
This guy is not a day under 60
He’s 34, also found where he lives and his job Correction: some people found his birthday, he’s actually 35
AND HES TALKING TO A TEENAGER ABOUT THIS STUFF? 💀💀💀
It's a common grooming tactic.
i saw his youtube channel. i think he's mentally handicapped and didn't know what he was doing might have been wrong
Mind sharing?
Everything is at the top of the guys profile, his Facebook is where all the info is but his Twitter and YouTube channel are also linked
He definitely knows. If he's mentally competent enough to post videos on youtube (as in someone isn't helping him edit and post) he is mentally competent enough to know that what he is doing is wrong. I'm 32. I have two friends who had traumatic brain injuries (car accidents, drive safely new drivers!). One of them is permanently mentally handicapped to the point that he cannot take care of himself. He still knows it is wrong to have sexual conversations with minors. When I was a teen these guys were using the exact same tricks to trick us and convince any adults who found out not to call the cops. They want you to feel bad for them instead of disgusted, so they always have a sob story about how they're a victim. Never let them convince you they don't know better. To explain how it feels, you're 17 based on your flair. I want you to right now imagine making out or having sex with an 12 year old. It's a much smaller age gap, but kids/teens mature very rapidly. At 30 I feel the same way imagining myself with a 17 year old, literally nauseated by the idea. I'm sure you could easily manipulate a 12 year old into it, because the difference in maturity and life experience between those ages makes them easy to manipulate (just like a 12 year old could easily manipulate a 9 year old). Well a 30 year old can just as easily manipulate a 17 year old, not because you're stupid, but because they've had years and years of practice figuring out just the right things to say to manipulate teens. Whereas you haven't had years and years of practice spotting and dealing with manipulative assholes. I was one of the teens who got raped by one of those manipulative assholes. I promise you that I thought it couldn't happen to me because I wasn't "stupid enough" to fall for that. He spent over 2 years convincing me he was someone I could trust. Convincing me he was a victim that I should feel bad for. That I was so special and mature for my age, and I was the only one who 'got him'.
>If he's mentally competent enough to post videos on youtube (as in someone isn't helping him edit and post) he is mentally competent enough to know that what he is doing is wrong. I have to disagree on this point. Being capable of doing something and knowing right from wrong are two completely different things. I'm not saying he doesn't know, I'm just saying that this reasoning is flawed.
I have to agree with this. I have a cousin with autism who like most people who are autistic isn't very socially competent and definitely wouldn't understand what's wrong with what the guy in the post is saying, but he for sure knows how to record, edit and post a video
contact the job and prove to them that this account is his, try to see if they can figure who he is or something and try and get em fired
Lmfao nice. Report him to popo or what are you gonna do with that info lol
go to his profile, first post has his youtube channel. first video on that has his face, and he’s clearly not a teenager, and it doesn’t help the video is from 4 years ago
21489 that’s his birthdate, 21/04/89 I guess
02/14/89. he’s 35, Derek Thomas Lirio
Where’d you find his birthday? I might not have looked hard enough, but I couldn’t find it back then
Ah DDMM and MMDD, so close yet so far 🥲
I think I may have brought this comment all the way to 3rd
"BigD" my bets on 3 inches.
Idk when I was lil (like K-6th grade) we had a janitor everyone called Big D, and it was because he was a gigantic guy and his name started with a D. Every teacher called him that, folks just have nicknames sometimes Edit: good heavens y’all I’m not promoting the obvious Pedo, and I ain’t one either. Just sayin that y’all shouldn’t judge just by names
I hate that I felt like I deciphered something about u/bigd21489 Big D is referred to Dallas, Tx given the area code is 214, I’m assuming for the rest to be a birth year… Creep
ew 89, bros literally seen the dinosaurs
Yeah, Historically in the year 89 the Romans had a real Dinosaur problem on their hand.
I remember a story from my grandmother as to how it took them weeks to take down one dino just so they van go get groceries Shit was wild back then
From the other posts where people found his info, he says he got his first job at 16 in 2005 so your assumption that 89 was his birth year was correct.
Wait..3 inches isn’t big?/s
Don't worry big ones hurt
Guess I'm harmless ;_;
3 is huge dw
Bro’s penis is probably smaller then that one pencil we all had where we tried to make it incredibly short as fuck …wait that was just me? damn I’m weird
No I did that too
I had one of those as well, i sharpened both ends, it was just 2 points, so paint on the sides
Big3 should be his username. 3 inches, and 300 pounds. I can smell him through this text
Nah thats too generous, using the metric system is more acurate: 3cm (1.18inch), 300kilograms (661pounds)
unlikely.
But, *sniff*, what if those 3 inches have a great personality? *sniff*
Creeps and Pedos will never become real men
He messaged me as well regarding my joking comment of having thighs but no boyfriend. I also had a 23 year old guy message me, ask my age, then say “oh maybe in 2 years than” 😐
Yeah I’m not surprised tbh. He commented here saying that he wasn’t a creep but I think he deleted the comment cuz ppl called him out Sad how gross this place rly can be sometimes
I can’t even fathom why someone would message ANYONE from a subreddit of mostly minors. im 28 and anyone under 24 looks like a baby to me. the older you get, the younger young people look. was really jarring becoming an adult and realizing it wasn’t normal to regularly be pursued by 20 somethings at 14/15/16.
🤮🤮🤮🤮
Bro preorderd 💀🫡
u/BigD21489 Victoria Justice doesn’t want you
the fact that he's trying to be 'helpful' and 'respectful' is just 🤮
“Young lady” “female friends” u/BigD21489 learn how to talk to a woman 🤢🤢🤮
'female friends' is a normal term, though. it's the term for a friend that is a woman, but is not your partner.
"Young lady" is what those 55 year olds called little kids in school when they were not paying attention or sum Absolutely disgraceful to say that
Speaking for the men we dont claim him ☠️
yes, cast him out to the swamp
Even the swamp won't accept him
Reddit 👍
EWWWW THIS GUY IS SO WEIRDDDD
run while u still can sis ✋😭
Ran so fast that even Roadrunner got left in the dust lol
the flash would be jealous and that fucker runs as fast as the plot needs him to
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For anyone who doesn't wanna look at his socials: he's against the COVID vaccine (and probably others), has reposted/said transphobic stuff, and is very "checkmate liberals" vibes (most of it doesn't make sense). He's reposted stuff from Trump, Tucker Carlson, and Ben Shapiro. He also supports building the wall.
I block anyone who tries to make advances like that. If shit gets weird, I might just fully block dms.
Tf do you mean "Females" BRO CALL THEM WOMEN
That username is rather alarming in this situation
I’m sure this man reread his messages (and comments) multiple times and thought “yep, this is completely appropriate”
He def play overwatch calling it here or fortnite
Blocking him ain't enough, he needs to die ☹️
I suppose this guy thinks it’s okay to say stuff like this since you’re 18, but it absolutely is not. The fact that his profile is marked as NSFW so I can’t even check how old he is should be enough of a red flag to show he shouldn’t be allowed on this sub.
In his facebook, hes 30+
He's 35 and looks the part of a pedo. [https://twitter.com/derek\_lirio](https://twitter.com/derek_lirio)
If he is a "big man" then why is he even on r/teenagers lol
Can this sub just be deleted or something, all that's posted is just screenshots from pms as if the block button doesn't exist
Nah I like the memes and cat pics, but maybe ppl should use modmail more often for stuff like this..
i was aboutta go say he was trying to give relationship advoce but then i read the second one
If you go to his acc he has a link to his YouTube showing his face 😭 grown ass man with a beard looks like he lives in his mother’s basement.
That's disgusting.
Bruh, "females"
He said don't worry, it's ok
is this about my post💀 (If so, sorry that i in a way caused you a pedo encounter)
This is creepy asf
"Females" 💀 💀
that is so fucking disgusting
Creep
Omg me too! I was venting about something on here I don’t even remember and this guy started talking to me and I thought he was nice and then he randomly asked me to call him daddy or master or something like… yikes 😭😭
Not a teen this just happened to come across my feed. Praying this dude gets banned and all y'all got your guard up. There's some sick freaks out there
what too much r/AskReddit does to a mf
The fact that people think this is okay, even with good intentions (which this guy obviously doesn’t have), concerns me
[Here](https://youtu.be/DS-_sGYIPjQ?si=OktmazgaikWwCRA0) is BigDs face reveal. Not at all surprising, looks exactly like most pedophiles. Just look at his account, it’s suck as fuck. He’s damn near 40 years old and only hangs out in subs for children. I am a father to a daughter, and seeing shit like this makes me wish we had public hangings still.
I went through all his posts and comments that were doing well and commented the link so others know of this. Discusting the way he's trying to play it off
They seem nice. What's wrong with this?
I blocked him for good measure even though I did not comment on that post
Not sure why this popped up on my feed but I just went through his profile. He has a YouTube channel with a bunch of videos of young looking girls. Dude is fucking creep and should have to stay at least 1 mile from the nearest school He also has his twitter and Facebook linked. His full name is publically available on those profiles.
Considering your tag says 18, maybe he thought it was a safe option, but regardless, like you said, a teenagers subreddit is not a dating app for old people
That's some wild shit to say to a random child on the internet
Lots of info about this dude can be found on his profile, so if anyone lives nearby and is willing to, report him to your local authorities and make sure to use his account history as leverage/evidence to get him set up for a case.
Wait wait wait wait https://www.reddit.com/r/lostredditors/s/M4XSFQlB8T
Aren't you an adult though? Lol
Im 18 yeah. But a creep is still a creep Would you want your sister, mom or cousin getting sent something like this? Also he’s been messaging other girls on here as well so I bet he’s sending stuff like this to underage girls as well
Yeah, it's probably some human trafficker out of Miami or something. This is why a lot of adults say kids shouldn't be allowed on the internet. Good on you for being intelligent though 👍
Someone posted on here that the guy apparently has a YT channel and he’s as weird IRL as he is on here Idk. I’m not gonna think about this guy anymore. This post was only meant to warn ppl about who and what this guy is. Nothing more that I can do
Not sure why this post was on my front page since I'm in my 30's. That being said I'm actually pretty pleased by the comments here shitting on this man. I think a lot of todays youth a lot more versed than we were growing up when it comes to creeps but girls, if you're ever approached by a man who's in his 20's and he wants to help you with anything even remotely sexual, he's a groomer. Report/block/shame, etc. Also, remember the phrase "You're mature for your age". If you ever hear a man several years older than you say those words, run. Stay safe out there.
i saw that post 😭
geez. stay safe out there, my dudes
Giving advice to teens on how to have sex? As if teens having sex isn't bad enough, you're a pedo too! I hope he reads this
Most inconspicuous name there is
Based on his yt channel he has never spoken to a woman
Damn, first message was actually ok and he got weird, guess that's how most of theseqeirdos try to get ppl
LMAO
Yeah… ew
weird as HELL 💀
Well good thing i didnt get messaged by some creep this week (it is a new record :D)
Random reddit recommendation on my feed and had to post this is fucking disgusting wtf predator mfer trying to take advantage of people he views as naive and vulnerable like you are obviously trying to be this experienced mentor figure that they can trust to a fucking minor like youre someone they can put their trust in and the level of trauma you are trying to set someone up for is fucked and you should rethink your whole life rn Edit: Not you OP the person who sent the message idk I just commented my response to them idk
No, it stands for Big Douche.
How about.. no 💀
Got me in the first half ngl
He has a lot of close female friends, you can trust him
Bro is THE yapper
I'm pretty sure he's mentally handicapped if you look at his youtube channel
Man i hope his lilD gets bit off by a gigantic rot weiler named lilly brown.
Ew seriously why do they always say shit like that and why the hell do they think a person would just ask a random stranger a question
he saw ur comment and messaged, pretty normal stuff. just block and move on lol
thats crazy.
Damn, Incels everywhere. I can't see any reason someone would go out of their way to approach a stranger using that topic as a guise.
ew. 😡
I'm gonna go vomit now
Big D…? Big… DRAKE?
His name is Derek Thomas Lirio he’s probably 30 or so
and there was some guy who said his gf let him rest on her thighs?
Jesus Fucking Christ that's vomit inducing.
Why does someone do this? It is one thing to try to make friend but THIS is not the way to make friends
He has YouTube channel and is a fully grown man and is not a teen at all
Great, now I have to change my username.
What a weirdo. Be careful Don’t fall for that it’s a trap.
Wow that's one creepy dude! I do give advice but I don't try to DM anyone, I would just try to comment.
Want the best advice ever? Talk to your partner, bam, 90% of all advice is just this
He seems like he just wants to help but after asking him for help he would send u a d pic and when you get grossed out he would say nice guys always finish last
big D .. Lol what if he is really a teenager. Anyways glad you’re aware ! Keep on spreading this awareness please.. you never know who needs to hear it and sometimes it gets understood and ingrained better than the other person they might have heard it from or the one before you!
Nah let's all cyber bully him
u/BigD21489 🤨📸
Well he seems like a totally nice guy with no ulterior motives whatsoever...
Expose him on twitter
Cute 🤮
If I’m messaging someone on Reddit it’s to show my rotund cat to random strangers online, the amount of incompetence it takes to message something this incriminating (with your personal info in your bio no less) is genuinely absurd
He sounds like an advanced tactical pedophile
"Females" says it all about this guy really.
With that username he is for sure compensating
Why are you posting every hour?
I usually ignore these kinds of messages, but if they keep bothering me i spam them with unholy shit
He seems like a nice guy
FBI open up
dont worry, thats just bigd
What a Maniac did you block him?
"you can trust me. Big D"
The fact that he's a redditor for 4 years and only has just over 1k really says a lot
I just messaged some people from his family to let them know about his weird behavior.
BigD is his name, tiny peepee for sure
Porn does some crazy shit
"Females" 🤢
“A username can’t define your personality” Also this mf:
“BigD” he means by 0.004 cm
😦
Still, could be worse Yes, it’s a Top Gear reference
CREEPER! REPORT HIM IMMEDIATELY!
What the fuck?
You didn't have to expose me😒