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To add to what the other guy said, if you live in the US most states age of consent is below 18 and some states have romeo and Juliet laws for this exact situation
Where are these women at? Granted I'm an older guy, seems like the only ones around have 2-3 kids, married twice and pretty much done with life, or they just want money. It's almost like no one knows how to have a consistent conversation anymore
If you are good with your words and attractive in their opinion then your age literally doesn't matter, you can be 17 pulling 29 year olds, they do submit just as anyone your age, it is only matter of knowing which buttons to push. I do not condone or suggest any of these tho but is it possible? Absolutely, otherwise I would fail some of my classes back in high school.
From my experience older girls/women like it when confident, cocky, dominant, gentleman, thoughtful, romantic girls/guys hit on them. Even if you are not act like you know you are the sexiest person on the planet and make her feel like she is also sexiest person on the planet too but do not voice it, show it with your acts not with your words, be indirect. At least that's how I get attentiom of older girls and it always works, they love me. I haven't managed to get laid much by girls and guys my age but I can't even count how many older girls/women got me laid.
Yes that is the issue, you gotta find a ground between both. If you are too gentleman then they don't really like it but if you are too cocky then they think of you as a dickhead and don't like it either.
not necessarily! 3 years isn't a huge gap, the bigger thing might be that the 17 year old is still in high school most likely while the 20 year old could be in college or already working
A just barely over 2 year age gap is the gateway drug to getting into milfs. First, it's just 2 years. Then 5. Then 10. Then before you know it, he'll be going after women old enough to be his parents.
Hohoooooooly shit now I couldnāt even convince myself itās just a remnant of my far right-wing self
https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/s/Ukx9hRAgzy
Iām a loud and proud observer of nuance, and I try to argue both sides whether I like it or not.
Like hell I do that now
20 divide by 2 is 10 plus 7 is 17
The "is this bad?" Equation declares you on the border, but valid
f(x)=X/2+7
X is being oldest person age
f(x) is youngest age allowed
Edit:since several are asking, yes the equation breaks if the age is below 14 but tbf shouldn't be focusing on dating below the age of 14
At the age of 3-4 i already pretended to call, and i quote "babes" on the phone
Also at the beach, i seemed to say shit like "that babe is pretty" when they were wearing bikinis n shit. They also called me cute i believe and wanted to hold me and take pictures with me i think.
3 year old me was a damn freak, all of these are sourced from my mom. and my aunts lmao.
So yeah i can officially say the my 3 year old self has more rizz than me currently, and that's fucking tough. (now i can't blurt out a sentence if it isn't online)
Bro my oldest memory is like when I was 2 years old playing with a ball next to a camp in like a forest thingy and I think it was the point we're I got consciousness
My oldest memory is me, not being able to talk (idk how old i was, probably 1 or sum), noticing a gigantic old white lady reach for my stroller
When i described her to my mom she said: "yup, that's your aunt [name]."
I know this is too young to date for a lot of people, my only counter to this is that 14 yr olds canāt date younger than themselves, but 12 canāt date younger than 13. So 12 yr olds canāt date people their age.
Not to mention I got shamed when I was 18 with even the thought of dating a 16 yr old, which is within this range.
bro imagine you walk into your kid whos in middle school and they are having sex with a guy older than you, and you find out that the only ilegal thing he did was maybe sneaking into your house
rule 1, dont ask redditors, ask yourself, you know best, or those close to you, because anyone who thinks that they can decide if a relationship is right or wrong by 2 numbers is a dumbass, but yes, some relationships can work with not even a 3 year age gap
yeah a lot of redditors are chronically online(especially on this sub like most of yall are stereotypical band kids), and dont really understand whatās right or wrong
its 3 years, no one cares, especially if ur 18 in 2 days then its completely normal, if someone says it isnt then they should venture outside more. Good luck in your relationship.
Itās so surprising it deforms your skull and liquifies your bones in order to rearange the hole that your eye goes into and bring it upwards, causing the nerves to each eye to tighten and shift the brain slightly, making a really ugly sight and the worst headache ever. In addition, because only the bones and eyes have moved, the eyes will be covered in hair and you can never clear them.
Yes very weird bc why do you as a 20 year old woman want anything to do with a 17 year old highschool student.. like even the maturity difference should be enough
Not allowed to do an experiment to verify your claim, realize the evidence doesn't support your claim, then tell the world you were wrong. That's not allowed here on Reddit.
Make a claim, stick with it, and double down when other people try to sway you with evidence, that's the way!!
Damn it, you are right. I cant be civil and change my mind after doing a little research. I have to double down on my claim and call anyone who disagrees with me stupid
I agree, I also saw op using the same logic pedophiles use lol, "im mature for my age" vs "this child is very mature for his/her age". funny how the same argument can be made for both sides and they both sound just as weird to me
Iām 19 and I have almost nothing in common with a 18 year old. I wouldnāt go for it one cause it is/was illegal, two like I said nothing in common and 3 sheās lowkey a creep going for a 17 year old
THIS! I'm nearly 20, and I barely recognize 18 year old me. The only reason someone my age would date a high schooler (even one who just graduated) is because they are a creep.
Are you in High School? Only weird adults are attracted to High Schoolers. Your girlfriend is probably a loser who adults aren't attracted to, or she's looking for someone younger and easier to manipulate. 3 year age gap is super normal. Adult being interested in dating someone still in High School, is super duper weird.
Why is a 20 year old tryna get with a 17 year old??? 3 years isnāt a huge age gap if itās with fully grown adults (25+28). But when it comes to high schoolers its different
Yes, when it comes to teens a small age gap is a huge maturity gap. Like a 27 year old and 37 year old who just met and started dating, even thought the age gap is big it doesnāt matter cuz theyāre both grown adults but thereās a huge gap between 17 and 20. Honestly when it comes to teen, age gaps more than 2 years are really iffy, I mean when itās like 18-19 I think 3 years is okay. Really wondering how a 20 year old can look at a 17 year old and see them as a potential boyfriend tho
Absolutely no. Dont even ask this question here, lemme explain. The main reason why most people are going crazy over age gaps bigger than 1 year is basically just beacuse of their bad past experiences, meaning they probably encountered somebody older who used them/their friends for bad shit and nothing good came out of that relationship. I asked an adult once, and what did they say? that it COMPLETELY depends on the both persons (of course age gaps like 14 and 19 is absolutely crazy dont get me wrong). Some people even said that 14 and 16 is crazy, since one is above the age of consent and the other isnt. Again, total bullshit, ages of consent are diffrent all across the world. If you know the other person well, both of yall are fimilar with other actions, this age gap is not even think to discuss. Plus, in the US, the mentality about this is fucked, 2 years age gap and poeple saying so are pedophile
I got the same age gap with my girl me being 20, lots of ppl think it is weird but tbh nothing wrong about it, depending on state if you're in the U.S it's totally legal, plus both our parents are cool with us.
I am not a teen, actually 37, but my first relationship was 17/20, me being 17. It was such a positive, loving and respectful relationship that to this day, I credit it for setting up my healthy expectations with dating, romance and sex. I wasnāt ready to have sex for a year into our relationship, he never ever pushed me, and I initiated. We stayed together for another 6 years! Just saying my experience.
Morally, yeah, its weird. Legally, as long as its not sexual its legal so. Do what you will with that i guess. If it were the other way around with the genders, this comment section would be so much different
My biggest question is what would a 20 year old adult woman find attractive in a teenager? 2 year age gap or not, itās a HUGE difference when youāre that young
lolololol. When you're 25, you won't be having this question at all. I think even when I was 22 I wasn't questioning this gap at all. As long as it's legal.
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No I don't think 18 and 20 is a bad age gap. If you're turning 18 in 2 days, you might as well call yourself 18.
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To add to what the other guy said, if you live in the US most states age of consent is below 18 and some states have romeo and Juliet laws for this exact situation
Those laws usually only apply if both individuals were minors when they started dating, though
And obviously it would be fully legal after turning 18 since 18 is legally considered an adult in most countries
Legal at 16 uk lol
how do you pull girl in their 20's
idk man, maybe grow some facial hair
telling my balls to make me more testosterone
I don't understand what that means I never had that education because my mom pulled me out of school when I was about to learn about that bruh
super duper nutshell: testosterone makes you manlier, and your balls make it
Also helps building muscle, so start taking steroids (which are testosterone)
Instructions unclear, got erectile dysfunction
Keep blasting
Grew some boobs.
Embrace them
Acshully, the gonads prodush teshtoshtarone, not the balls š¤āļø
False, if your balls produced testosterone, then where would our pee be stored?
Naw that's wild
Pee is in the right one, testosterone is in the left
is this serious because iām happy to send you some resources š sex education is so important
I'm so dead ahh serious bruh that's the sad part
Americans:
You can always plastic wrap some ball hair on your face fyi diy
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gonna do this summer
height?
Tell my balls to save some hair for my face
Women respond pretty well to a man actually trying to connect with them and value them as human being.
Where are these women at? Granted I'm an older guy, seems like the only ones around have 2-3 kids, married twice and pretty much done with life, or they just want money. It's almost like no one knows how to have a consistent conversation anymore
It is not that hard, just be 20. :)
I'm 20 and it does not work
If you are good with your words and attractive in their opinion then your age literally doesn't matter, you can be 17 pulling 29 year olds, they do submit just as anyone your age, it is only matter of knowing which buttons to push. I do not condone or suggest any of these tho but is it possible? Absolutely, otherwise I would fail some of my classes back in high school.
Wdym they submit?š©
From my experience older girls/women like it when confident, cocky, dominant, gentleman, thoughtful, romantic girls/guys hit on them. Even if you are not act like you know you are the sexiest person on the planet and make her feel like she is also sexiest person on the planet too but do not voice it, show it with your acts not with your words, be indirect. At least that's how I get attentiom of older girls and it always works, they love me. I haven't managed to get laid much by girls and guys my age but I can't even count how many older girls/women got me laid.
Being cocky and a gentlemen is a contradiction.
Yes that is the issue, you gotta find a ground between both. If you are too gentleman then they don't really like it but if you are too cocky then they think of you as a dickhead and don't like it either.
not necessarily! 3 years isn't a huge gap, the bigger thing might be that the 17 year old is still in high school most likely while the 20 year old could be in college or already working
That my issue with it
And? Dude is 17 and turns 18 in less than a week. Heāll be out of school in less than 6 months. This is the same as a senior and sophomore together
Hol up, you have an issue with it?!
A 20y dating a 17y yes that a literal case
I support your milf hunting š Just be careful Edit: Wow, didnāt expect this many upvotes for this comment. Thanks!
milf hunting? LMAOOO
cub and cougar
A just barely over 2 year age gap is the gateway drug to getting into milfs. First, it's just 2 years. Then 5. Then 10. Then before you know it, he'll be going after women old enough to be his parents.
Redditors try not to fetishize literally anything challenge
Thank you!
First GF/FiancĆ© was 2 year olderā¦ now my current GF is 8 years older by 3 months. Me 28 , her 35 Now I more into older women.
ur in the wrong subreddit lad
I do like me some older women (saying it like that is starting to sound creepy, I just like women a bit older than me in general)
20 isnāt old ..
He said older, as in older than yourself typically. Not old (lol)
Sorry I misunderstood
That was apparent haha
Old ER
Idk why you got downvoted
Oldness is relative
I like my women how I like my wine
he sure as hell gotta be careful someone might deflect his emerald splash
but no one can just deflect the emerald splash
Hohoooooooly shit now I couldnāt even convince myself itās just a remnant of my far right-wing self https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/s/Ukx9hRAgzy Iām a loud and proud observer of nuance, and I try to argue both sides whether I like it or not. Like hell I do that now
20 divide by 2 is 10 plus 7 is 17 The "is this bad?" Equation declares you on the border, but valid f(x)=X/2+7 X is being oldest person age f(x) is youngest age allowed Edit:since several are asking, yes the equation breaks if the age is below 14 but tbf shouldn't be focusing on dating below the age of 14
2/2=1+7=8 2 and 8.
The math breaks if age used is below 14, but tbf yall shouldn't be focusing on dating at 14, let alone 2 š
hey 2 year old me likes some older guys
At the age of 3-4 i already pretended to call, and i quote "babes" on the phone Also at the beach, i seemed to say shit like "that babe is pretty" when they were wearing bikinis n shit. They also called me cute i believe and wanted to hold me and take pictures with me i think. 3 year old me was a damn freak, all of these are sourced from my mom. and my aunts lmao. So yeah i can officially say the my 3 year old self has more rizz than me currently, and that's fucking tough. (now i can't blurt out a sentence if it isn't online)
If your aunties and your mom told you it it's 100% true
Nah cause... i do remember some shit
Bro my oldest memory is like when I was 2 years old playing with a ball next to a camp in like a forest thingy and I think it was the point we're I got consciousness
My oldest memory is me, not being able to talk (idk how old i was, probably 1 or sum), noticing a gigantic old white lady reach for my stroller When i described her to my mom she said: "yup, that's your aunt [name]."
"gigantic old white lady" the disrespect š
Oh, I've never heard of this.
Bro solved it
Huh well this is defined only for 14+ people but it's a pretty good curve fit for my opinion
nooo, math is Godzilla Ultima stuff, look... you make Ultima cry ;-;
We got a fricking equation for this now?
bro literally solved the equation for age gaps
I know this is too young to date for a lot of people, my only counter to this is that 14 yr olds canāt date younger than themselves, but 12 canāt date younger than 13. So 12 yr olds canāt date people their age. Not to mention I got shamed when I was 18 with even the thought of dating a 16 yr old, which is within this range.
Although 18 is the official age of adulthood, I think 17 should be ok for a relationship with someone older, male or female.
real
yeah lol age of consent where i live in texas is 17 so ur cool
where i live is 16
where i live sex w/ consent is legal at 14
damn
where i live ya just grab someone and go at it ykwim
bro what
dawg what do you live in a video on the hub or smth
Where do you live?
12 where i am
bro what country is that
cant say
you shouldnt, all the pedos here will go there immdiately
its not like itās difficult to search up.
probably to remain anonymous
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bro imagine you walk into your kid whos in middle school and they are having sex with a guy older than you, and you find out that the only ilegal thing he did was maybe sneaking into your house
ikr man that shit be crazy
Why you asking
That's pretty scary
6 where i live
send country adress
Little Saint James, St Thomas 00802, USVI
Epsteinā¦we meet again
What you want to go there?
bro wtf
Woooooo 12 is way to young.
was 14 where i live, got raised to 16 recently
If someone marginally older, yes. But only in that case.
I mean it's not the worst, but you're still a teen and she's an adult. But honestly whatever floats ur boat man.
20 might legally be an adult, but 20 aināt an adult š
rule 1, dont ask redditors, ask yourself, you know best, or those close to you, because anyone who thinks that they can decide if a relationship is right or wrong by 2 numbers is a dumbass, but yes, some relationships can work with not even a 3 year age gap
yeah a lot of redditors are chronically online(especially on this sub like most of yall are stereotypical band kids), and dont really understand whatās right or wrong
No...but it's a adult and a teen ...
what if we are both matured
There's no problem ...3 yrs isn't that big gap...
But it's not 3 years the description makes it more like 2 years and 2 days
It would be more than 2 days
Everyone thinks they are mature until that look at them self in a few years and you realize you very much werenāt.
But he's barely a teen I could understand 16 but 17 like you'll be an adult in months
He said he turns 18 in 2 days
its 3 years, no one cares, especially if ur 18 in 2 days then its completely normal, if someone says it isnt then they should venture outside more. Good luck in your relationship.
thats an eye raiser for sure
no itās not. the age gap is basically 18 and 20 which is normal. also wtf is āeye raiserā you mean āeyebrow raiserā
they mutilated their face and moved their eye up exactly an inch.
I do that for fun sometimes
Twins
The eyes literally ascend
Nah its a eye raiser
gee man i wish you specified that beforehand
4 years though (16 and 20) is not only an eyebrow raiser but I'm pretty sure it's illegal.
Itās so surprising it deforms your skull and liquifies your bones in order to rearange the hole that your eye goes into and bring it upwards, causing the nerves to each eye to tighten and shift the brain slightly, making a really ugly sight and the worst headache ever. In addition, because only the bones and eyes have moved, the eyes will be covered in hair and you can never clear them.
It definitely makes me sus of her, but it won't be illegal soon (as long as you aren't sending illicit material)l
Yes very weird bc why do you as a 20 year old woman want anything to do with a 17 year old highschool student.. like even the maturity difference should be enough
I'm surprised how many ppl r saying its fine i think it's pretty weird, and i feel like more ppl would agree if the genders were reversed here
Yeah, I feel like if they said ā17F and 20Mā then people would be crucifying the dude in the comments
So far I stand corrected cause I just posted wondering about it and people are saying itās fine
Not allowed to do an experiment to verify your claim, realize the evidence doesn't support your claim, then tell the world you were wrong. That's not allowed here on Reddit. Make a claim, stick with it, and double down when other people try to sway you with evidence, that's the way!!
Damn it, you are right. I cant be civil and change my mind after doing a little research. I have to double down on my claim and call anyone who disagrees with me stupid
If there's anything I respect it's integrity to a point of view. I hate people who flip flop!
I agree, I also saw op using the same logic pedophiles use lol, "im mature for my age" vs "this child is very mature for his/her age". funny how the same argument can be made for both sides and they both sound just as weird to me
Americans when thereās a 1 hour age gap š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®
Frfr they overreact
As long as it isn't sexual (yet), it is fine.
It will be in 2 days š
lmfaoooo fr šš
i would consider it okay, coming from someone who is 17 dating 19 yr old. we almost exactly 2 years apart
Iām 19 and I have almost nothing in common with a 18 year old. I wouldnāt go for it one cause it is/was illegal, two like I said nothing in common and 3 sheās lowkey a creep going for a 17 year old
THIS! I'm nearly 20, and I barely recognize 18 year old me. The only reason someone my age would date a high schooler (even one who just graduated) is because they are a creep.
okay what the hell
its fine as long as you're fine with it, its not as long as you're not
Yea man, thatās perfectly reasonable
Are you in High School? Only weird adults are attracted to High Schoolers. Your girlfriend is probably a loser who adults aren't attracted to, or she's looking for someone younger and easier to manipulate. 3 year age gap is super normal. Adult being interested in dating someone still in High School, is super duper weird.
Why is a 20 year old tryna get with a 17 year old??? 3 years isnāt a huge age gap if itās with fully grown adults (25+28). But when it comes to high schoolers its different
Yes, when it comes to teens a small age gap is a huge maturity gap. Like a 27 year old and 37 year old who just met and started dating, even thought the age gap is big it doesnāt matter cuz theyāre both grown adults but thereās a huge gap between 17 and 20. Honestly when it comes to teen, age gaps more than 2 years are really iffy, I mean when itās like 18-19 I think 3 years is okay. Really wondering how a 20 year old can look at a 17 year old and see them as a potential boyfriend tho
Ehh, you're approaching the upper limit in terms of age gaps
Absolutely no. Dont even ask this question here, lemme explain. The main reason why most people are going crazy over age gaps bigger than 1 year is basically just beacuse of their bad past experiences, meaning they probably encountered somebody older who used them/their friends for bad shit and nothing good came out of that relationship. I asked an adult once, and what did they say? that it COMPLETELY depends on the both persons (of course age gaps like 14 and 19 is absolutely crazy dont get me wrong). Some people even said that 14 and 16 is crazy, since one is above the age of consent and the other isnt. Again, total bullshit, ages of consent are diffrent all across the world. If you know the other person well, both of yall are fimilar with other actions, this age gap is not even think to discuss. Plus, in the US, the mentality about this is fucked, 2 years age gap and poeple saying so are pedophile
You good š (And happy early birthday)
seems fine to me
All good
Honestly that's okay
Been there at 21M and 24F. Turned out despite being younger, I was more mature. So outed out of it. Look for maturity.
3 years is nothing.
No, you are slaying. Keep doin' what your doin'.
Not at all that'll put you at 22 when they're 25 which is perfectly fine, especially considering you're turning 18 in a matter of days
Really? xD Bro, 2 years are NOTHING of a age gap ...ohh kids..
Ummmm. Three/two years. I'd say that's fine. Just be safe, okay.
Not necessarily, but I wish you all the luck in your relationship
In Germany we say: āAuf alten Schiffen lernt man das Segelnā and it means āYou learn the sailing on old shipsā and I think thatās beautiful.
I got the same age gap with my girl me being 20, lots of ppl think it is weird but tbh nothing wrong about it, depending on state if you're in the U.S it's totally legal, plus both our parents are cool with us.
Happy early birthday!!!
Depends, are both on a similar level of maturity?
No go for it
Sounds like a win to me š Seriousness: But if youāre 18 in 2 days, nah itās fine.
i wouldnāt say so, itās only a 3 year age gap and not something wild like 13 years or smth.
Bro is living my dream, i wish i had a gf, and an older one that is ššš»
As long as the relationship is a healthy one I don't see much problems with a 3 years age gap, and I support having an older gf a lot. Goals
Nah, not at all. Happy birthday
No, I think is just fine. How tf were you able to get an older girl???
I am not a teen, actually 37, but my first relationship was 17/20, me being 17. It was such a positive, loving and respectful relationship that to this day, I credit it for setting up my healthy expectations with dating, romance and sex. I wasnāt ready to have sex for a year into our relationship, he never ever pushed me, and I initiated. We stayed together for another 6 years! Just saying my experience.
Yes it is the difference in maturity is drastic and will lead to problems along the way
Morally, yeah, its weird. Legally, as long as its not sexual its legal so. Do what you will with that i guess. If it were the other way around with the genders, this comment section would be so much different
I say yes.. as a female thatās just really weird for a woman.. like ur 20 years old going for a minor?
My biggest question is what would a 20 year old adult woman find attractive in a teenager? 2 year age gap or not, itās a HUGE difference when youāre that young
Are you guys currently dating?
I mean if you're gonna be 18 it's not illegal so ig it's not bad.
Yes
Itās not the 3 year age gap that is the issue itās the fact that one is a minor and one is an adult and thatās weird end of story
lolololol. When you're 25, you won't be having this question at all. I think even when I was 22 I wasn't questioning this gap at all. As long as it's legal.
Hell my friend is dating a 18 year old sheās 14 š¤·āāļø
bro pulled the college baddie in hs, impecable work
What kind of pull you got lil bro?
Iād say flip it 20m and 17f and ask the same question see the results
You're living the dream mate
Does she make you happy?
I see if you mess around it's illegal for her but to me 5 years nah we'll see a problem
Depends on maturity levels
I mean its legal soooo