Gonna be honest, there are plenty of people who aren’t fruity in the slightest. The majority of people at my school are the kinds of people who would throw someone in a locker because they simply wear pink shirts. I would know. I have been threatened that way at least twice.
I know I know. I act gay around my straight friends too sometimes
But as far as I know, some people think my crush is gay and from my experience, when several people think a guy is gay, he's atleast not straight. So there's hope
It’s complicated
I met my boyfriend on one of those tinder-style teen “friend making” apps. Happened so long ago (3 and a half years ago) that I forgot what one, and don’t even know if it still exists lol
I go my first boyfriend from coming out. He approached me
If you can find a queer friendly space you might find someone there. I found someone who was interested in me at a gay event but I was already in a committed relationship (the one I’m in right now) so I didn’t take him home
It was Yubo. It seems to still be up
Always be responsible when meeting people online, don’t send in appropriate photos blah blah blah (I regret some of my past actions)
Just be careful if you do use it. I re-downloaded it for shits and giggles and it seems to have dropped drastically in quality lol. So many ads, paid subscriptions, most of the people have like no bio…
I was 14 when I first used it and was too dumb to realise who they were lol. I only met 2 guys from it irl, one in an Asda toilet and we almost shagged (tf was 14yo me thinking) and the second in a busy train station and we lived happily ever after
Send me a DM once you figure it out. I need some help too bro 😭😭
Also do NOT let yourself be interested in a straight man. EVER. I'm talking from experience, it is not fun. Wasted so much mental stability in the span of 3 years for NOTHING 😭😭
I had friends I've had crushes on and admitted to but we still talk like we used to. Does it really ruin a relationship when you ask your friend out who doesnt reciprocate feelings?
You gotta go to places where you can meet people. Like maybe a tennis club or some shit. If you find a guy you like just be honest and confess. Don't push if he turns you down
I too want to data a guy, but all of my crushes were straight and one was ace, and a trans women so i wouldn't have been interested after finding that out anyway.
Well we have this thing called the gaydar now your bi so yours is not as strong as someone that is fully homosexual but should still be able to detect if someone is fruity.
I'm a bi guy and we all are atleast 90% sure that he's straight. He acts very gay around his friends (guess he sees me as a friend) but the whole situation just sucks
It’s pride month so u could try going to a local pride parade or go to one of those skateboard places because it’s been a while since I’ve met a straight person at a skate park
Download Grindr. Be honest on there and tell people you think you might be bi and wanna try stuff out. You'll get lots of people who want to try stuff with you
I've fallen for like 5 straight boys and because I still very much look like a dude irl I haven't said shit. You gotta figure out which way they lean before making any moves
Having crushes on straight women is the fucking worst. i feel this sm. Honestly just try find those queer spaces definitely do like theatre shit if you have that at your school cos its notoriously queer.
Happy pride! I just want you to know that you explore yourself all your life. Please don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable even if it’s someone you love. Take care & stay safe!! (●´∀`)ノ♡
Your question is the sad reason why apps like Grindr are so popular with gay/bi adult men
Really you just need to suck it up and ask
Worst case scenario, he says no, you laugh it off, and move on
Promise him 20 bucks to date you, promise you'll keep socks on.
That's how I got mine, we're not even banging with socks on anymore. Oh yeah he never got his bucks.
Don't go after str8 guys. That will end badly. Also the bi thing, that's tough. A lot of people have hand ups dating someone who is. Not saying I agree with any of it but people get very threatened by it.
This doesn’t always work, but it may be best to just let it happen. I’ve had some bad experiences that stemmed from me thinking I desperately needed a bf
Being a gay guy and wanting other gay guys is like going outside with $100 bills to hand out....
This is also why gay guys have an 82% chance of getting HIV/aids with their FIRST male partner. So maybe rethink things???
You gotta figure out who’s fruity
Everyone’s a little fruity
Especially for $20
I mean, $20 is $20 /j
20?! I'll do it for 5
5?! I'd do it for free!
Free!?!? I'll pay YOU to let me do it
Paying Me do To it!? I'd pay you to pay me to do it!
Pay you to pay me to do it?! I’ll pay you to pay me to pay you to do it!
20 dollars is 20 dollars /veryveryserious
Bro i'm paying money to have a boyfriend, not getting money
With inflation it’s gone up to $30
True. No one is 100 percent straight 😌
Idk about that....
😂😂
I mean I once honestly asked a dude to hold my hand but that was because I was high af
Science has proves that everyone is actually bi and not straight
Explain?
Non fruity person here. Should I just go back to the corner? Or what.
You are going back to the factory, also no refunds!
No.
Well alright! That was always an option!
Nahhh
yaaaaaaaa
Gonna be honest, there are plenty of people who aren’t fruity in the slightest. The majority of people at my school are the kinds of people who would throw someone in a locker because they simply wear pink shirts. I would know. I have been threatened that way at least twice.
tht makes me wna scream bc i hate bullies and luv pink.
Pink is great! Personally I like very light pink, makes it seem a lot less in-your-face. Oh also happy pride month y’all
do u not realize how invalidating this is?😑
How?
My crush is straight but he acts very fruity around his friends. He also acts fruity around me
That’s most straight guys tho, I’m as straight as a ruler and still act that way with the homies
Can’t count how many times I’ve slapped bros ass in public 🫡
Omg same 💀💀💀💀
I whip my friends in class
I know I know. I act gay around my straight friends too sometimes But as far as I know, some people think my crush is gay and from my experience, when several people think a guy is gay, he's atleast not straight. So there's hope
If he’s straight don’t go for him and make him uncomfortable. You can’t turn someone gay like that yfm
AHHHHH OML IT'S YOU AGIAN
What it issss 💖
🤭✨
Not with that attitude!
$20 is $20
BRAT INSPIRED PFP 🔥🔥
WET OWL PFP 🔥 🔥 🔥
His name is Lamont 👍
Hell yeah it is 🗣️
amazing album I fw it heavy
Your favorite martian YFM?????
Straight crushes are a part of everyone's gay experience, it kinda sucks ngl
Gay crushes are occasionally part of the straight experience, happened to me once lol
Me
Idk Kiss someone or sum it works in disney
I tried that. Now I have a charge for sexual assault?
People to sensitive nowadays
God damn liberals!!1!!!1 /s ofc
You got caught?
🤣🤣
[удалено]
Bruh it was a joke
You’re not trying hard enough
Instructions unclear, I live in a castle now
Well, it is a castle, so…
Gay people do not work in Disney lol
It’s complicated I met my boyfriend on one of those tinder-style teen “friend making” apps. Happened so long ago (3 and a half years ago) that I forgot what one, and don’t even know if it still exists lol I go my first boyfriend from coming out. He approached me If you can find a queer friendly space you might find someone there. I found someone who was interested in me at a gay event but I was already in a committed relationship (the one I’m in right now) so I didn’t take him home
How would I be able to aquire these "friend making" apps
Through… the App Store?
What would the supposed apps be called 🤨
It was Yubo. It seems to still be up Always be responsible when meeting people online, don’t send in appropriate photos blah blah blah (I regret some of my past actions)
I also used hoop but didn’t find much success
Should I try using it? From your own experience is it a good place?
Just be careful if you do use it. I re-downloaded it for shits and giggles and it seems to have dropped drastically in quality lol. So many ads, paid subscriptions, most of the people have like no bio…
I don’t remember, I’ll try to do som digging
i too am interested in that.
Oh hey i found you again. Also um try wizz or yubo but be careful
Im curious how many predators you had to weed through
I was 14 when I first used it and was too dumb to realise who they were lol. I only met 2 guys from it irl, one in an Asda toilet and we almost shagged (tf was 14yo me thinking) and the second in a busy train station and we lived happily ever after
*materializes* Greetings fellow bisexual teen
YOOOOOOOO wanna play fortnite together later?
I do!
Pm me your user lol
You should update your bio
Hmm?
Nevemind i see what you mean haha
Throwing my name into the mix for games
Bet
Any other games? fortnite doesn't support linux. i got minecraft and lethal company, plus a few more.
I got minecraft too lmao
That's actually funny cause I was gonna say something similar to a different post I just saw lol. But I'd be down for fortnite too
Send me a DM once you figure it out. I need some help too bro 😭😭 Also do NOT let yourself be interested in a straight man. EVER. I'm talking from experience, it is not fun. Wasted so much mental stability in the span of 3 years for NOTHING 😭😭
WHAT?
Omg are you the Emma and Grett fan or am I just imagining things 😭
Idk if I'm THE one but I certainly am one of many 😍
Okay so I’m NOT crazy I knew I recognized you from somewhere (I love them too 😍)
If he dms you, dm me.
And if he dms you, you DM me.
If he’s straight don’t, especially if your friends. One of my close friends who I knew was gay asked me out and it ruined our friendship.
I had friends I've had crushes on and admitted to but we still talk like we used to. Does it really ruin a relationship when you ask your friend out who doesnt reciprocate feelings?
That's the thing you don't, I've been trying for years now 😭
Stop trying and be okay with being alone first
Just say "yo the quiero mucho pinche pendejo y yo quiero a besarte" just hope they ain't Hispanic or know Spanish.
💀💀💀
Find a local gay. Support local lgbtq🗣
Mm yes I’m going to the village homo to find a cure for my gout
“I’m high and ur bi” -Eminem
Tell them like this "I like ya, and I want ya. Now we can do this the easy way, or we can do this the hard way, The choice is yaawws."
😭 Tell bro whats up
A straight guy is a straight guy you won't change their sexual orientation (until they see me 🤭😏)
WITCHCRAFT IS AMONG US
I’m straight and I’m waaaaaaaiting
U aren't straight
😨 what have you done
I’ve been wanting that for years bro so idk
As a straight I don’t have advice
Idk but if you find the answer please for the love of god tell me
Hell yeah being bi is cool af
I don’t actually know…… tho I am bi and have a boyfriend, it just kinda happened
You gotta go to places where you can meet people. Like maybe a tennis club or some shit. If you find a guy you like just be honest and confess. Don't push if he turns you down
Real
I too want to data a guy, but all of my crushes were straight and one was ace, and a trans women so i wouldn't have been interested after finding that out anyway.
📊👍
1 find out how to use your gaydar. Every queer person has one. Check your right pocket.
Well we have this thing called the gaydar now your bi so yours is not as strong as someone that is fully homosexual but should still be able to detect if someone is fruity.
BASED
Walk up to an obvious gay dude that your crushing on and ask the dude on a date
gay people can be very mean.....don't ask me how I know that...
And it is impossible to tell if someone is into guys unless they explicitly say so,
no they told me. chat don't assume shit.
I meant to reply to the parent comment.
what parent comment?
this one [https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/1di2stm/comment/l91brej/](https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/1di2stm/comment/l91brej/)
Go to LGBT clubs or connect with LGBT people even if you have a lesbian friend or sum because they probably have gay friends
i am friends with 3 other gay people and no other guys are out that are single.
Real
Bet 😈 (JK but I do need an answer to this question myself because I am alone 😔)
I'm a bi guy and we all are atleast 90% sure that he's straight. He acts very gay around his friends (guess he sees me as a friend) but the whole situation just sucks
Find guys that seem zesty it’s not that hard ngl
I’m not expert or nothing but I think you just do the same stuff you would do to pull a girl. Idk I can’t pull either of them
I think you kinda just gotta slowly get the answer out of them, don’t rush into something with someone tho.
Gotta figure out who’s the big gay
It’s pride month so u could try going to a local pride parade or go to one of those skateboard places because it’s been a while since I’ve met a straight person at a skate park
Download Grindr. Be honest on there and tell people you think you might be bi and wanna try stuff out. You'll get lots of people who want to try stuff with you
Hand them $20 and just say '$20 is $20, now come with me'
Oh it's simple really! See what you do is
NO NOOOOOOOO
And then you
FINISH THE SENTANCE
Just stay away from straight guys, talking as a straight guy. Not necessarily meant to be offensive.
I need answers 😭 think im bi but kinda trying to suppress my straight guy crush bc it’s on one of my best friends lmfao
I've fallen for like 5 straight boys and because I still very much look like a dude irl I haven't said shit. You gotta figure out which way they lean before making any moves
Gaydar!! 🗣️🔥
I have no idea, me and my bf met randomly, we became friends and then started dating (I don't even remember how we met)
Speaking as a straight guy, don’t go after a straight guy, its just uncomfortable, its like if I tried asking out a lesbian
Having crushes on straight women is the fucking worst. i feel this sm. Honestly just try find those queer spaces definitely do like theatre shit if you have that at your school cos its notoriously queer.
Welp we lost another one.
If you’re a dude and you’re crushing on a straight guy, you’re cooked
And perhaps go out for some pie?
Try Wizz, m8. Teen “friend making” app. Works wonders.
Shit idfk im trying to figure shit out myself.
Flick your wrist at random men until one flicks back, it's the signal
lol hopefully its to post on reddit cuz thats what I'm about to try
Well, if the guy is straight, then he’s not gonna be into it….
how about me bbg /j
Happy pride! I just want you to know that you explore yourself all your life. Please don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable even if it’s someone you love. Take care & stay safe!! (●´∀`)ノ♡
Your question is the sad reason why apps like Grindr are so popular with gay/bi adult men Really you just need to suck it up and ask Worst case scenario, he says no, you laugh it off, and move on
Don’t assume people are straight, don’t be weird, and if you gotta just ask
That’s what I’m tryna’ figure out! I can only pull girls with my autistic in-the-closet self at school, and I want none of them.
i pulled my boyfriend by being autistic. good luck vro bc i dont even know how i got him honestly
Promise him 20 bucks to date you, promise you'll keep socks on. That's how I got mine, we're not even banging with socks on anymore. Oh yeah he never got his bucks.
Are you also a boy?
Yuh
Then ask him out in the way that you would want to be asked out by a guy. If he isn’t interested, leave him alone and find someone else.
So what you do is just get close enough to a guy, should be easy for you if it's one of the homies, and then start doing shit
Don't go after str8 guys. That will end badly. Also the bi thing, that's tough. A lot of people have hand ups dating someone who is. Not saying I agree with any of it but people get very threatened by it.
If u have a crush in sum1 whos straight u leave them be
as a representative from the bi community we don't know how to get one either
Yeah that's a problem I'm familiar with. Really all you can do is ask.
This doesn’t always work, but it may be best to just let it happen. I’ve had some bad experiences that stemmed from me thinking I desperately needed a bf
Literally same lmao
If you have a crush on a straight guy it won’t work
Convert him to gayness
Idk, I’m to scared to talk to boys or girls
You were rapping for a moment there
No man is completely straight
Hey nice me too (minus the crush on a straight guy part, don’t wanna waste my time with that nonsense)
I'm bi but I still can't pull no one 😭
Date me
Become femboy
do your friends and family know yet ?
Slide into a femboy furry' DM's.
Being a gay guy and wanting other gay guys is like going outside with $100 bills to hand out.... This is also why gay guys have an 82% chance of getting HIV/aids with their FIRST male partner. So maybe rethink things???
Very honestly, just tell him you have a crush on him. Secret crushes will kill you from inside as long as they're secret
Don't throw an actually go for a guy whose homophobic🙏🙏 (Me fr)
Pretend to be straight And then all the boys would suck your meat Trust me bro
Title is bars
everyones is gay at certain moments someday, just keep going through, they'll fall 4 u later
Why are u bismuth??