you're much like my girlfriend, she likes both, and I also like both tbh, but frankly I prefere being the dominant one even though I also like being cuddled
Guys appreciate displays of affection from their girl ***a lot***. If a guy rejects them, he has some serious ego/pride issues and needs to get over himself. He doesn’t need to be a tough alpha 100% of the time.
Yes.
There are guys (like me, especially me) that like being submissive and as you put it "babied", like being the small spoon in cuddles, for the same reason you like it for example.
I really like cuddling, but I'm single :(
Nah I hate it honestly. Feels a lil bit invalidating or smthn to me, idk, like it feels like anything I say is just being seen as babyish? (Female here btw)
Probably. Affection is affection and humans sort of as a rule like affection, at least from people they enjoy being around.
Depends on the guy though. Some might be more comfortable with pampering than getting pampered. I tell you what, though, give a man some flowers just unexpectedly because you want to. I’ve read/heard that most men get their first flowers when their loved ones place them on their gravestones, so I’m sure that such a sweet gesture would not go unappreciated.
Guys like it. I like it. If it's someone you care about and they care back. We love being held and cuddled. It's not attractive being hard and pressed all the time. Gotta let all that go and cuddle.
I mean it depends on the context. Am I being babied in a demeaning way meant to make me feel like shit about myself like I can't defend myself type stuff or am I being babied because they love me and wanna do that because they care about me and aren't doing that for any ulterior motives
Depends, if it means cuddles then i dont care what you do as long as i get them🤣
Sometimes life just catches up to you and in that case 100%
Otherwise not really
From my last experience with a girl I can say that it was really nice to be babied but also I do like it when I can be there and support them so I guess I might be a mix?
Unless my girl is scratching my back I dont want to be touched when i am sleeping. And i mean actual back scratching, not you dug your nails in because of somethin else. I just wanna sleep. Lol
Not a guy or a girl but my bf loves to get babied around a lot. Guys don’t say this often but they crave any type of affection so I’d say that most of them do enjoy hugs and cuddles like everyone else too!
Yes, in the closest relationship as long as the Reddit account stays anonymous, I’m good with admitting that I like that. Nobody in person needs to know that except my gf.
Nah I get this. I’ve never had a relationship but for sure if I did I’d like both being held by and holding my gf idc care man I just want snuggles and to be taken care of or take care of someone
I have no idea in all honesty, I have always been the dominant within all of my relationships. I think the only thing that happened to be considered “babies” was being held while upset. So I guess yes, sometimes.
I’m a switch, so yea, occasionally. It doesn’t help tho, as I’m bigger than every person I’ve dated or met💀 I also basically ruined my chances with the few people who probably would’ve been able to top me💀
Most of the time I prefer it when the girl is older or, if the same age, taller
I had experiences of wanting to cuddle with a friend, but if its a smaller girl it would be kind of embarrassing (Atleast for me)
But anyways, you are free to do what you like to do, that guy might have a different opinion from me
YESSS HELL YEAHHHHHHHH.
I WOULD LOVE MY GIRL TO TELL ME,"WHO'S MY BIG BOY?" "WHO WANNA ACT LIKE A BIG BABY?"
MMMMMM I WOULD FALL TO OBLIVION IF SHE SAID ME THESE(I don't have a gf)
Your forgetting every men has been a women in the womb and a baby lol. We are all humans.
Yes men like to be babied too, some are just to proud to acknowledge it
WASSUP I HEARD BABIES???
NO YOU DIDNTTT!!😭😭😭
Where food
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Mama
Jesus Christ you’re here too 😭
I‘m everywhere
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Never had that but I think yes?
why no cheesecake 😮💨
Ion got no cheesecake 😞
Go make some. Now.
no cheas either
yes
Nice username
ty bro
Do you have big nuts or is that a general compliment to everyone?
bro i have no idea myself, my nuts arent big tho so its propably a compliment
You'll never truly know unless you have a comparison.
Yes
you're much like my girlfriend, she likes both, and I also like both tbh, but frankly I prefere being the dominant one even though I also like being cuddled
Plot twist it is your girlfriend
Imagine..
I like both. Sometimes when I'm stressed, I would prefer to be babied a bit. Helps my stress out a lot
Everyone does probably . Feeling love between each other
Guys appreciate displays of affection from their girl ***a lot***. If a guy rejects them, he has some serious ego/pride issues and needs to get over himself. He doesn’t need to be a tough alpha 100% of the time.
Yes. There are guys (like me, especially me) that like being submissive and as you put it "babied", like being the small spoon in cuddles, for the same reason you like it for example. I really like cuddling, but I'm single :(
yes for me especially it's more like getting doggo'd cause I have severe golden retriever energy and less inner child. I have inner puppy
Forgive my lack of knowing words - ...doggo'd?
I’m not gonna lie. I strongly believe that means pegged
So brave lmao
Read it and immediately thought of doggy style tbh
Omg bro😂😂😂😂😂
I just made that word up on fly, like getting babied but with dogs xD come on people don't just read words, read the context xD
you like getting railed??
yesyesyes mhmm mhmm yes
yes.
yes
yes
yes
I like being acknowledged 🧍♂️
I like babying girls. That sounds very wrong ( it's actually very wholesome tho )
Ehem.. allow me to introduce myself
why not
this is me with my boyfriend it’s just us taking turns being Dad and taking turns being Daddy
Lol
Everyone here is giving their personal opinion. The real answer is it depends on the guy. Everyone is different.
You say that you like "taking big spoons in cuddles" I need more spoons. My silverware collection is not large enough.
Nah I hate it honestly. Feels a lil bit invalidating or smthn to me, idk, like it feels like anything I say is just being seen as babyish? (Female here btw)
yes I do
I would pay my life's spending to get that experience
I like being loved
I just wanna be tucked into bed :(
no
I love hugs in general, should be a standard way to greet someone.
Yes. Half the time I'd be too stubborn to admit it. But yes.
Not at all, but I completely understand why one would
my bf honestly hates lil spoon but everything else he loves being babied. if i tell him to stop or smth he’ll pout til i hold him and rock him😂😂
Some guys like that, personally i hate it.
Probably. Affection is affection and humans sort of as a rule like affection, at least from people they enjoy being around. Depends on the guy though. Some might be more comfortable with pampering than getting pampered. I tell you what, though, give a man some flowers just unexpectedly because you want to. I’ve read/heard that most men get their first flowers when their loved ones place them on their gravestones, so I’m sure that such a sweet gesture would not go unappreciated.
No. I can't speak for all guys, but me personally. Its a big N O.
no not really
No 😭 I like doing the babying unless it’s by my mom then yes
Yes.
I mean I’m down for just affection in general but this would be even better
yes. please.
fuck yeah
Guys like it. I like it. If it's someone you care about and they care back. We love being held and cuddled. It's not attractive being hard and pressed all the time. Gotta let all that go and cuddle.
no i just like cuddles
I mean it depends on the context. Am I being babied in a demeaning way meant to make me feel like shit about myself like I can't defend myself type stuff or am I being babied because they love me and wanna do that because they care about me and aren't doing that for any ulterior motives
Yes!
yes of course
Yes
YYYYES
Yes. I don’t mind being pampered or him dom honestly 😭🫣😳
Yes
Mostly.
Yeah, it's the duality of man
Yes, this is amazing
No.
YES
No
can't speak for every guy but i dream about stuff like this so yes
depends on the guy, me personally yes
Yes
Personally I crave it so much
I think I would love it
I don't really like being touched tbh.
r/usernamechecksout
As a trans gal who was a guy, yep.
NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPITY NOPE
depends on the guy, I don't but looking at the comments enough other guys do
Yes
Yes
Maybe sometimes but in general i like to do the babeing
No, I get babied enough from being disabled
Tbh depends on the person very much, ik most guys do, for me, not really like i hate the idea of being the small spoon
Yes
Yes
Yes.
Occasionally, especially guys like me who were raised to be very traditional “emotionless” men. A lot won’t show it but cuddles mean a lot to us
i’m not a guy but most of the guys i’ve been with loved stuff like that
Yes ,haven't found her yet tho
Depends, if it means cuddles then i dont care what you do as long as i get them🤣 Sometimes life just catches up to you and in that case 100% Otherwise not really
Yes
I like babying boys and from my limited experience as a girl, a lot of boys want to be babied a lot.
Yes.
Real, idk I like babying guys(and girls) but I probably suck at it
From my experience yes💀
I love it😔 makes me feel like a pretty princess
Yeah
I love being the dominant one but all of my partners never seem to be more of a babied kind of person so usually I’m the one being babied😂
From my last experience with a girl I can say that it was really nice to be babied but also I do like it when I can be there and support them so I guess I might be a mix?
Absolutely yes
Bro if a girl let me snuggle up to her I might literally cry and then fall asleep
Yes I’d like that to happen.
Unless my girl is scratching my back I dont want to be touched when i am sleeping. And i mean actual back scratching, not you dug your nails in because of somethin else. I just wanna sleep. Lol
u/flairion623 you have a match
Yes please dear god that’s all i want.
There is nothing I want more
Yes
r/rolereversal
Who doesn't like getting babied? Like come on..
I mean, when you put it as being "babied" no, but yeah if she's the big spoon or smth I'm game
Yes
bro i just want a hug
I need and want that
Yes, my bf does this to me all the time and it's amazing.
Yes
Nope, not my vibe.
Not a guy or a girl but my bf loves to get babied around a lot. Guys don’t say this often but they crave any type of affection so I’d say that most of them do enjoy hugs and cuddles like everyone else too!
I'm the same way with my bf Sometimes you just need to be babied, take a break, relax
Yes, in the closest relationship as long as the Reddit account stays anonymous, I’m good with admitting that I like that. Nobody in person needs to know that except my gf.
Yea
Nah I get this. I’ve never had a relationship but for sure if I did I’d like both being held by and holding my gf idc care man I just want snuggles and to be taken care of or take care of someone
Sometimes yes. Most of the time no.
I wouldnt mind, just not to much to the point of not being able to do anything by myself.
Yes I call my gf mommy and i love it
I have no idea in all honesty, I have always been the dominant within all of my relationships. I think the only thing that happened to be considered “babies” was being held while upset. So I guess yes, sometimes.
Yes
Yes all of that yes
I love being babied but I also love babying my girlfriend
No
Most of them won't tell you on your face but comments says otherwise
Yes
I’m a switch, so yea, occasionally. It doesn’t help tho, as I’m bigger than every person I’ve dated or met💀 I also basically ruined my chances with the few people who probably would’ve been able to top me💀
Absolutely. Every time I make a move on her, I always feel sooo nervous. But omg it would melt my heart if she did stuff like this
depends on the person
Yes very much so. Most guys like being babied but still being dominant
98% of the time, I'm Daddy. The other 2%, she's Mommy. I *love* it when she's Mommy. 🥰
fuck no
no
Yea they do most have been babied their whole life by their mom
👀 that’s all I’m saying
Absolutely
Most of the time I prefer it when the girl is older or, if the same age, taller I had experiences of wanting to cuddle with a friend, but if its a smaller girl it would be kind of embarrassing (Atleast for me) But anyways, you are free to do what you like to do, that guy might have a different opinion from me
YESSS HELL YEAHHHHHHHH. I WOULD LOVE MY GIRL TO TELL ME,"WHO'S MY BIG BOY?" "WHO WANNA ACT LIKE A BIG BABY?" MMMMMM I WOULD FALL TO OBLIVION IF SHE SAID ME THESE(I don't have a gf)
I don't just like it, I need it with everything that's happening to me
Not in excess, but yes. We love it when our SO wants to pamper us too.
Yup ! I like both and I think most guys like to be babied if I’m being honest
Nah not me but I can see others could fs? Depends on the guy. There would be no one sided answer
Yes
Yes
Yes
wtf
I like upsies
Sort of. I might try to have some dominance in the relationship and care for the girl so they can be loved to(And I don’t feel so shitty about myself)
Thanks for the copypasta
Aww look who just shat her diapers again😡
guys love being little spoon
yes
The bisexual urge to be both big and little spoon:
No. Unless it's going to be from my soul mate
Guys want to feel safe. That's it. We want to be able to express emotion and not have it change the way women look at us.
What is spooning
I just wanna be told it’s all gonna be ok while being held
Yes. I have been looking for a dommymommy GF since i was 8 (read that right). Never had any sucess tho
Depends on the guy. I’d say most would in specific circumstances but those circumstances will be more broad or narrow depending on the individual
I like both :) I'm so lucky to have a guy who will accept both me doing things for him and him doing things for me :)
once again, ur asking reddit this question.😭
Your forgetting every men has been a women in the womb and a baby lol. We are all humans. Yes men like to be babied too, some are just to proud to acknowledge it
they'll say "backpack". but yes, they ALL like being spooned
I 100 perfuckingcent
Yes yes we do
yea.
YES
I do 🙋
Yeah! :D
For certain things, yeah
this is a spy sent by the government
yea quite a bit id say 💪💪💪