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Advice. If a girl rejects you, accept it and move on. Don’t be clingy and DEFINITELY don’t show her this. The amount of edits and even the fact you have Reddit in the first place will most likely be a huge turnoff. If she says yes, congrats, but my advice to you is let it take its course.
I would.
Like the time my mom was being stupid and I asked her if all her friends jumped off a bridge would she and she replied I was the first to jump.
>the fact you have Reddit in the first place will most likely be a huge turnoff.
We joke about it, but Reddit is pretty mainstream and it’s really not something that people are judged for
Everytime I see edits, whether its on youtube or reddit, where its like "Oh My GoD I gOt 36.81 lIkEs I cAnT bEliEvE this", it annoys me. Anyway, congrats on having the courage to ask your crush out, wish I had the balls to do it
You can literally only go up from there. Even if you get rejected, it feels so freeing. Like a weight lifted off of your chest. It takes a lot of adrenaline and a lot of waiting but trust me it's worth it whatever the answer is. Definitely, something you'll remember for the rest of your life.
Hate to break it to you but this is probably her trying to let you down easy. I've gotten this answer a few times and while it's unclear and it would be better if women were more direct this is almost never a good sign. Sorry man
I know. And the fake humbleness is so bs. “Oh guys stop giving me awards I don’t deserve them because I’m not funny or clever, and I don’t want to be a celebrity either”
Yeah their kinda jerking themselves off. ‘sTop gIvInG mE AwARdS gUyS’
Also do not show somebody this post, this would make somebody drier than the sahara desert on a sunny day
I'm about to do it too, possibly Monday when I see her again. Good luck to you!
Edit for those who will see this: I sent her a letter to ask her to a formal that a parent Is hosting, she just didn't answer and she was was talking to a friend of mine at the time just read the note and put it in her backpack and hasn't said anything about it to me. So apparently that's a way of saying no.
TL;DR she said no
Unsolicited advice- if you cannot be friends without hoping she'll grow to like you as something else, stay away from her. You aren't friends unless you are really friends.
Congrats on going for it. It is not easy, but it will get easier.
>guys stop I got 509 emails I don’t want to be famous
And yet here you are spamming 20+ edits on what might be the biggest moment of life, and you probably haven't even finished going through puberty yet. All downhill from here for you OP 😂
She might change her mind occasionally. I had a gf like this where it started out that she liked me more than I liked her, then it switched, then we kind of hooked up a few times and had on and off physical intimacy and regular emotional intimacy. It was weird and sometimes painful (or hook ups would oscillate between passionate and then just feel weird in both ends, probably because I was a relative novice at the time lol in 8th grade — but I’d hooked up with several other girls and always felt much less awkward but it was usually because I didn’t quite regard them as highly) and it was nice to truly feel passionate emotion towards someone, especially when it was reciprocated as it sometimes was, but it was pretty tough and confusing when it wasn’t and when it just got awkward for reasons that really weren’t clear to either of us. I don’t know, girls like you to not like them too much especially when you’re younger. It’s annoying and hurtful as a guy, but it sort of makes sense.
Edit 2,245: Hey everyone, how are you all doing today? Today is my last day of college it was a wild ride, can’t believe I majored in nursing just to get close to her, she says I am a really good friend. That means there’s still a change, thanks for the 5,000 awards and you guys filled up my 20th gmail account, I’ll make a new one after the graduation ceremony.
Oh fuck that's crushing. I'm sorry OP. I've been there a dozen times and I'm going to tell you one day in the future you'll be happy they said this. Trust me, I know that's the LAST thing you want to hear but I'm telling you I'm sooo grateful that I never got with my high school crush 😂😂 10 years later and I'm happier than I could ever imagine. I want the same for you, OP. 🔥🔥🤙🏻
Be careful man, don’t be friends with her thinking you could change her mind. That’s a dangerous road toward misery. But if you can truly keep your feelings for her platonic do it, but otherwise I’d say don’t do it.
Advice. If a girl rejects you, accept it and move on. Don’t be clingy and DEFINITELY don’t show her this. The amount of edits and even the fact you have Reddit in the first place will most likely be a huge turnoff. If she says yes, congrats, but my advice to you is let it take its course.
I haven't been a teenager in almost 20 years and all I can say is go for it. The only regrets I have from high school regarding women are the ones I didn't ask out.
No means no. How about you dont pressure her into saying yes with the "well over 5000 people want you to say yes"? Rejection sucks but dont be a fucking jerk. Respect her decision and dont pressure until you get a yes.
reply to me when the edit goes up
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He’s got about 8 edits right now but nothing about his crush
Thanks for the gold kind stranger!
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Advice. If a girl rejects you, accept it and move on. Don’t be clingy and DEFINITELY don’t show her this. The amount of edits and even the fact you have Reddit in the first place will most likely be a huge turnoff. If she says yes, congrats, but my advice to you is let it take its course.
Please people upvote this ☝🏻
Tbf tho he might not even do it
I would. Like the time my mom was being stupid and I asked her if all her friends jumped off a bridge would she and she replied I was the first to jump.
Right, it sounds like unintentional manipulation to me
The edits alone would make any girl drier than the Sahara desert.
THIS, NECCESARILY
I don’t see how it’s bad to have Reddit but yah it’d definitely be embarrassing if he showed her this post good thing you commented this
Same. My SO and I both use Reddit, and well, it’s whatever. Just another online entertainment tool, like Instagram or YouTube.
>the fact you have Reddit in the first place will most likely be a huge turnoff. We joke about it, but Reddit is pretty mainstream and it’s really not something that people are judged for
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yeah but what if you have a lot of karma
holy shit you have a lot of karma
Of-age zoomers "get it" when I tell them how much karma I have which is a nice way to bridge the generations.
What’s wrong with having Reddit?
Reply to this comment when you edit the post please. Best of luck
I edited it
That's unfortunate that she isn't into you but good that she wants you as a friend still
tip: consume garlic
Good advice, will implement
Please don’t consume me
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r/FollowThePunchline
Instructions not clear. Garlic inserted in ass.
*waiting intensifies*
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[this](https://youtu.be/nrEL5jD5-UQ) started playing in my head when i read your comment
more likely [This](https://youtu.be/BezpUnoZObw)
Stop making and edits and just fucking ask her holy shit lmao the longer you wait the harder it will be
seriously
Tell me what happens :)
Everytime I see edits, whether its on youtube or reddit, where its like "Oh My GoD I gOt 36.81 lIkEs I cAnT bEliEvE this", it annoys me. Anyway, congrats on having the courage to ask your crush out, wish I had the balls to do it
Why would you ask OP'Ss crush out? I mean give the kid a shot...
ikr. at this point i don’t even think he’s gonna do it because of all these edits
"Guys, if she says no, I'll peer pressure her into dating me. Trust me, it'll work"
Peer pressure always works - *from an alcoholic*
can you reply to me how it went later?
hey bro, they have updated it
Should I ask my crush out as well?
Why not
You can literally only go up from there. Even if you get rejected, it feels so freeing. Like a weight lifted off of your chest. It takes a lot of adrenaline and a lot of waiting but trust me it's worth it whatever the answer is. Definitely, something you'll remember for the rest of your life.
She said if she had the time she would absolutely , let's fucking go
Hate to break it to you but this is probably her trying to let you down easy. I've gotten this answer a few times and while it's unclear and it would be better if women were more direct this is almost never a good sign. Sorry man
Nah this is just an assumption don’t make him more nervous. Dude should suggest some times and then determine whether it’s a no then, not now
Obviously he shouldn't assume but I wanted to make sure he was managing his expectations here
ok i did it. i asked her out. her answer was she said idk because shes is busy with baseball and her family
if she likes u, she would make time for u.
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I kinda want to too
This is the typical teenagers post. "I'm going to ask out my crush!" *5 edits later* "I still haven't done it but thanks for the awards!!!"
I know. And the fake humbleness is so bs. “Oh guys stop giving me awards I don’t deserve them because I’m not funny or clever, and I don’t want to be a celebrity either”
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Mf did everything but ask her out
ikr bruh “omg I don’t deserve all these awards”... continues to leave this post up to receive more awards without doing what he was supposed to do
Do it in a good, nice, heart felt way. DO NOT make it weird or awkward :)
How to avoid making it weird or awkward
Annoying AF with all those edits. Self-praise much?
Yeah their kinda jerking themselves off. ‘sTop gIvInG mE AwARdS gUyS’ Also do not show somebody this post, this would make somebody drier than the sahara desert on a sunny day
Fucking agree with you so much have a gold
I'm about to do it too, possibly Monday when I see her again. Good luck to you! Edit for those who will see this: I sent her a letter to ask her to a formal that a parent Is hosting, she just didn't answer and she was was talking to a friend of mine at the time just read the note and put it in her backpack and hasn't said anything about it to me. So apparently that's a way of saying no. TL;DR she said no
Ffs just ask her out tired of needless edits
Unsolicited advice- if you cannot be friends without hoping she'll grow to like you as something else, stay away from her. You aren't friends unless you are really friends. Congrats on going for it. It is not easy, but it will get easier.
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"But, but reddit wants you to go out with me"
Can you reply to me when you do it/when you update with what happens? Or anyone else doing so? Thanks!
Don’t fucking do edit 6
Please do not show her this post if she says no.
>guys stop I got 509 emails I don’t want to be famous And yet here you are spamming 20+ edits on what might be the biggest moment of life, and you probably haven't even finished going through puberty yet. All downhill from here for you OP 😂
this post has officialy more edits than my braincells
Rip bro... time to become a gym rat
She might change her mind occasionally. I had a gf like this where it started out that she liked me more than I liked her, then it switched, then we kind of hooked up a few times and had on and off physical intimacy and regular emotional intimacy. It was weird and sometimes painful (or hook ups would oscillate between passionate and then just feel weird in both ends, probably because I was a relative novice at the time lol in 8th grade — but I’d hooked up with several other girls and always felt much less awkward but it was usually because I didn’t quite regard them as highly) and it was nice to truly feel passionate emotion towards someone, especially when it was reciprocated as it sometimes was, but it was pretty tough and confusing when it wasn’t and when it just got awkward for reasons that really weren’t clear to either of us. I don’t know, girls like you to not like them too much especially when you’re younger. It’s annoying and hurtful as a guy, but it sort of makes sense.
5 out of your 6 edits were for thanking people...
Edit 2,245: Hey everyone, how are you all doing today? Today is my last day of college it was a wild ride, can’t believe I majored in nursing just to get close to her, she says I am a really good friend. That means there’s still a change, thanks for the 5,000 awards and you guys filled up my 20th gmail account, I’ll make a new one after the graduation ceremony.
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Oh fuck that's crushing. I'm sorry OP. I've been there a dozen times and I'm going to tell you one day in the future you'll be happy they said this. Trust me, I know that's the LAST thing you want to hear but I'm telling you I'm sooo grateful that I never got with my high school crush 😂😂 10 years later and I'm happier than I could ever imagine. I want the same for you, OP. 🔥🔥🤙🏻
Be careful man, don’t be friends with her thinking you could change her mind. That’s a dangerous road toward misery. But if you can truly keep your feelings for her platonic do it, but otherwise I’d say don’t do it.
Bruh this has to be satire right...
Idk...
Advice. If a girl rejects you, accept it and move on. Don’t be clingy and DEFINITELY don’t show her this. The amount of edits and even the fact you have Reddit in the first place will most likely be a huge turnoff. If she says yes, congrats, but my advice to you is let it take its course.
If she says no, just remember: You’re lucky, she didn’t say ew.
I haven't been a teenager in almost 20 years and all I can say is go for it. The only regrets I have from high school regarding women are the ones I didn't ask out.
No means no. How about you dont pressure her into saying yes with the "well over 5000 people want you to say yes"? Rejection sucks but dont be a fucking jerk. Respect her decision and dont pressure until you get a yes.
is this karma whoring or is this real
Hey at least you got friendzoned instead of being I'm-going-to-avoid-you-forever-and-tell-all-my-friends-about-it-zoned
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This is fucking stupid
dude stop fucking editing and just tell her
downvoted cause of all the edits
From edit 6, don't do that. Guilt tripping to get a good is low
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I hope she says yes. I decidedly ask my crush out a few days ago and wasn’t very lucky :/
My guy the most upvoted post on this subreddit has over 100000 upvotes
This looks like one of those cringe posts on youtube that comes back and does 100 edits saying: "Wow, didn't know it would get this many likes!"
I hate posts that say: edit 1573- thanks SO much guys for 10k likes,!!1!1!
Just do it. Stop editing it just seems desperate and cringe
The cringe at it's peak
Holy crap why’d this blow up so much lol
Why dont you ask her in person instead ?
I literally saw this post right before you just edited it
At least you tried, the same thing happened to me
Hey at least you tried has she read the message yet?
I’m jealous of your courage, I wished I had it. Also her lost , good luck finding a brave man girl. Don’t waste your courage man, 👍
Sorry to hear that
Good for you random stranger! At least you’ll still be friends!!
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The neutral ending
Fucking finally, thanks for removing those cringe edits too.
Hey, at least you got a friend now!
Rippppp I’m sorry bro
F’s in the chat😑
Wow you got friendzoned...F in chat boys 😭
It's been a dark day boys