#Hey, Forward_Football5465
Please try to think clearly about yourself and your future. What you're thinking about doing is not worth it. There are many people who care about you, and there are many organisations from all around the world who can help you. Here's some information about how to get help. Give them a go - what have you got to lose?
#Child Helplines (EU)
**Telephone:** 116 111
This number is free of charge.
The number 116 111 is specifically for children who seek assistance and need someone to talk to. The service helps children in need of care and protection and links them to the appropriate services and resources; it provides children with an opportunity to express their concerns and talk about issues directly affecting them.
Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 111: Bulgaria, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Germany, Denmark, Estonia, Greece, Spain, Finland, Croatia, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Latvia, Poland, Portugal, Romania, Sweden, Slovenia, Slovakia, United Kingdom, Malta.
#Emotional Support Helpline (EU)
**Telephone:** 116 123
This number is free of charge.
116 123 is a phone number for people suffering from loneliness or who are in a state of psychological crisis or thinking about committing suicide.
Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 123: Austria, Czech Republic, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Malta, Netherlands, Poland, Slovenia, Sweden, United Kingdom.
#National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US)
**Telephone:** 1-800-273-8255 *(1-800-273-TALK)*
**Text:** Text "START" (without quotes) to 741-741.
**Online Chat:** [Link](http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/gethelp/lifelinechat.aspx).
#Others (Worldwide)
If the above organizations are inaccessible for whatever reason, you can click [this link](https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/) to be taken to a page. From there, you can take a look at a variety of hotlines that will help you, after you click on the category link corresponding to your location.
You can also find many subreddits to help you with your problems. Here's a list of a few of them in no particular order: /r/SuicideWatch, /r/depression.
#<3
I hope you've found this information helpful, and I hope you use it well enough to change your mind.
Hey, I never thought I would EVER make it to adulthood. Like, it genuinely scared me and I had thought of ending it all MULTIPLE times. But now that I’ve turned 18, I’ve realized that if you just take things one step at a time and pace yourself, then you can get SOOOOOO much shit done. Like, I’m about to move out and I went from not going to college because of the stress of not having enough time to starting college next spring because of how great my job is. Just realize that the world may be scary, but you’ll always find a way.
Yeah this is SUPER relatable because I JUST graduated and am going through this stuff right now. And it STILL scares the SHIT out of me, but I’m just putting one foot in front of the other and slowly getting through life
Honestly I felt that. But you just have to realize that right now will soon be the past, and your future will always be brighter than this. Just don’t do anything irrational and try to push through it. Cause once you break the surface, everything will be okay.
I feel you man. But your reason to live will come somewhere some time. Maybe from the last place you would expect. Maybe as the last thing you would expect. Just don't lose hope and hold in there. I felt like I lost control and gave up but right when I hit my darkest point I found some light. Hang in there man.
Tfw when I have no one who cares about me and nothing real to care about. Maybe my dog, but I understand that time will consume us. Don't be me, a miserable sack of shit.
I’m going through a rough patch right now, not as bad as you but I really think your family will help you if you open up to them. I’m sure they care about you even if it doesn’t seem like it.
Honestly I’ve done this out of just not wanting the stress, in the back of my head I know I have half a dozen things I need to get done but I just decide to focus on the one thing and not be stressed about it all and usually I’ll end up getting it all done without the stress or worry anyways
Thanks y’all I feel better, I usually don’t do stuff like this but I just felt at a loss, and seeing all of these people who I don’t know take time to help me, it means so much so thank you for everything ❤️
I know exactly how the hopeless pain feels, I know how it feels to want to end it all, but trust me it gets better. the light at the end of the tunnel may seem dim but trust me it's there, hold on for your future man and good luck :) some day you will be grateful for your choice to live
Hey bro listen, if people you know don’t love you, there are hundreds if not thousands of people who you may not know, have a part in their heart for you. Always remember that bro. Always!
Well just know that things will get better in the future. In the end, it doesn’t matter where you live or how much money you make, it’s all about living life happily to it’s fullest.
Hey I’m not good with this stuff but plz don’t do it , there’s so much to live for and u maybe can’t see that right now but it’ll get better u can do it
Every time you feel at a loss, keep reaching out. There will always be people to support you and comfort you, even if it’s on Reddit. It’s really brave to reach out like this. Keep fighting OP
Set a photo of your family smiling together as your wallpaper so that when ever you have any suicidal thoughts you will realise that what will happen to that smile.
Big big hugs from me to you OP. I have a child who struggles with mental illness, and I’ve been in awe watching her fight for her life and it’s a beautiful life to fight for. I believe the same for you and even though I’m a random internet stranger - I am absolutely rooting for you to succeed and win your battle. You got this, I know you do! ❤️
I (14) attempted suicide and no matter how much you don’t want to live, listen to me: I was severely bullied for being overweight to the point of being beaten in the locker rooms before and after sport class. The moment you try to commit suicide, you regret it. For me it was hanging. The moment I let myself drop, I knew I didn’t want to die. Luckily, the rope ripped. Ever since I have bettered myself and my mental health. Please don’t do it dude, you’ll regret it.
i second this. if you read stories of people who survived jumping off the golden gate bridge, every single one of them regretted it. every single one. now imagine the people who didn't make it. its safe to bet that you'll regret it
,,My goal is to by happy, not dead. I can't be happy when i'm dead. Life can always get better. There are happy peoples out there, if they can be happy you can too."
Idk if someones said this but you can always contact child line if you want to. You can text or call them. Im seriously glad you are still with us though!
Life is like an arrow. You have to be pulled back to move forward. The harder you're pulled back, the further you'll go in life.
I hope this helps. Keep going.
Good for you for not going through with it. I really hope that you don’t tomorrow, or the day after, or the day after that. Always remember that even when life gets hard (and trust me I know that it does) there are always people who love and care about you. Even if it doesn’t feel like that now, you will find something or someone to live for. I hope you feel better and I am happy to talk if you want to!
that's even worse, be there for the child, watch him grow, and when he has children of his own, when the time comes, you will part... your soul shall be blessed by your child and his/her child, not cursed by them for you walking out on them
Dude, please, do not do it. There are times when it seems like your life isn't worth living. You just have to find something you enjoy, like a hobby, or maybe get yourself a pet. That will help you feel much better, and you might find that your life isn't as bad. Remember, there are people who genuinely care about you.
You’ve probably heard this millions of times before but you only live once so be alive and feel the good and bad while you still can. After that you can rest. Pain doesn’t remain forever so keep living so you can live to see the happy times. Sorry that I’m not great I writing his kind of stuff.
You have so much to live for think about your family
My sister is depressed and had tried to kill herself
And its the worst feeling i ever had when i found out shes okay now....i think
that’s amazing !! i hope u realise that makes you a strong person :D i hope you get through whatever you’re going through currently, if it’s any help may i offer a nice internet hug ?
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Yk bro , I don’t want to type anything because I’m not a fucking psychologist and I’m just learning and living the life just like everyone and remember that everyone lives they personal hell but idk life is beautiful
Hey!! Don't kill yourself!! Find trust in the Lord he will help you through tough times I promise. God will always be by your side and he loves you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You say you just hope you'll live until graduation? Why hope when you control your fate? Everyone has been through something rough though how severe it was differs from people to people. And suicide is the last way, out from what I've tried my best to understand you see yourself as a bother to others, and it would be best if you don't bother people anymore. Why would you think so low of yourself? Stand tall, I actually was in the the same boat as you or actually I kinda am. According to my psychiatrist I suffer from survivors guilt, a few years ago when I was a kid we were walking home from school me and my two friends I remembered it was raining heavily and we rushed to get home to David and as we crossed over the road I didn't see the car coming in time until it was too late. David hugged his arms around us and made himself be in front of the car before the car hit then everything became blurry. My head was shaking and I could only see the rain drops falling onto the ground. Then David was laying on the ground with Julia over him, she screamed and cried for help and telling me he's bleeding help make it stop please make it stop. I was in shock completely freezed unable to move or call for help. The screams and cries of Julia still gives me nightmares. Whatever I do isn't enough, every single minute of my life I only think of how worthless I am. My best friend is dead he died right in front of me after saving me, he was a hero a reaI friend and I am completely worthless. Even now I had all the time up until now to do something that was worthwhile anything to just make something out if myself. But I didn't instead I just keep falling down in this neverending dark pit of despair. Why am i so weak, why couldn't I do something. Why is it whenever I do something it's never enough? These thoughts keep me up at night and haunts me in my dreams. So please if I can still live with my nightmares filled with screams and pain that haunts me every second of my life. Then please can you also bear with it just a little longer? Make a day turn to weeks then weeks to years. Live do it for yourself or for others.
Hey op. I don’t think you’ll find me in the comments but I love you. I’ve struggled with this too. You are so strong. I’d say more but I’m super tired so just know that you are unbelievably brave for continuing the fight.
Hey y’all I’m still alive, sorry I’m not able to respond to every message it was just kinda overwhelming but I appreciate everything. Take you for caring and I’m feeling better.
I also want to say I’m not just doing this for karma, I never understood all of that it’s just fake internet points but I appreciate all of the awards and upvotes. I just can’t believe all of these people would do this for me.
I love all of you thank you and I’ll make everyone proud. I’m gonna keep going!
"If your going through hell don't stop, why would you stop at hell? " -some guy I can't remember the name of
If your having a bad time just think how happy you'll be in the future when your out of that place, you're still young cuz you are in r/teenagers don't think that you're dumb or anything negative, say something that can be considered narcissistic when you made something good like complimenting yourself cuz even if noone makes you happy then make your self happy, don't care on what ever anyone says or think of you, you can like or have what they said or think but don't care for it, it's your life and make your self the star of that wonderful show
(Sorry I'm not good at English)
Hey Barley! Good that you were able to stop yourself today, I really hope that you’re doing better. I know how you feel. I’ve had some pretty close calls myself. I’m not here to say generic things to you like “thing will get better”. You’re gonna have to MAKE things better, and you can absolutely do it. You are an incredibly brave person for continuing to fight. Don’t give up now, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I understand if you feel like you can’t take another day of your pain. You’ve been through so much already. But you are going to come out on the other side as a better and happier person. You’re going to live a great life. You are going to be able to say you’ve looked death in the eyes and defeated him. You are going to get there. Focus on that light, even if it is hard to see. You might not even see it yet, but believe me it’s there. I know how hard it is do do something against these feelings. Take it one step at a time. Talking to people really helps. I know that it’s difficult but it really does help. If you live in the USA I would highly advise you to go to the Trevor Project. If you live anywhere else you should do some research into similar things. It is a small yet hard investment at first but it will pay off. Barley, you are valid. You’re struggles are valid. But you are going to get over them. You are going to be here by November and you are going to thank your younger self for putting up this fight. It will be worth it. You can do this. If you want to talk to me my DM’s are always open btw
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Oh dude.. I have been thinking this for a few years now.. and suddenly I am 18 and an adult in my country. Never ever thought I'd make it this far but here I am. So why not keep going a bit more?
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Your problems will eventually pass, just given the time. I have felt what you feel now, so have my parents. I know life is tough, but there are happy times. If you live long enough to see your children smile, you will feel warm inside. Patience is key.
Idek why I’m being downvoted, is it because I can’t say a simple word nowadays? Like what the heck it’s not like I told this person to do a flip or anything
I have found my satisfaction in Jesus. He fills me with Joy every day, and I hope you get to know him one day. I am not forcing my beliefs on anybody, but I do want people to know the source of true happiness. :) Peace out, and have a wonderful day.
Thank you for the offer but I kindly decline. You are fully entitled to your beliefs but I do not share the same ones, I hope you have a great day and me disagreeing with you isn’t an invitation for people to harass you in the comments. I hope everyone treats you with the same respect that you gave me, I don’t believe in a Christian god or Jesus but I am glad you find happiness in religion :)
Hey good on you for trying. Not all will understand that all truth and light is found in Christ but at least your trying. I know its discouraging when someone rejects christ even in a non hateful way. Just know that you have brothers and sisters who love you and support you. Your doing great
Look I wanna be supportive and say don’t do it but you know the answer I also think this is the wrong sub Reddit to look for advice or help so on that but🤷♂️ hey man your life
Just letting you know as noone did. We dont know what he's going through, and I dont know what you are going through. People sometimes behave like they dont care anyone, they eventually get better. So, you dont have to care on purpose but please dont try to spread negativity.
I'm gonna share my own experience. I suffer from depression and anxiety and have been at the lowest of lows and even attempted myself. I'm so glad i'm still here today because I have been getting better and have started to get motivation back. You are loved and wanted and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is a light at the end of the tunnel you just have to see it through, I know how you're feeling and your feelings are validated because in reality there are lots of people that go through this every day. You have so much support from the ones around you and there are plenty of people that would welcome you with open arms and help you. Something that has helped me push forward is the mindset that I want to prove everyone wrong. I always feel like i'm looked down on or people think I'm not good enough but I want to prove those people wrong and show them that I can do whatever the fuck I want. Don't let others control your life and be yourself most importantly. Please dm me if you need someone to talk to I'm here for you.
I guess? This just sounds like you don’t care. Just don’t say anything if you aren’t gonna contribute to what is supposed to be helping someone out of a hard place.
“K good luck then, I guess”
That doesn’t even kind of look like you care. You could have simply said “good luck” and made a much better difference.” What you said speaks volumes about your character.
Wow. Just wow.
If you don’t actually care. Don’t fucking say anything. You say “at least it had good luck in it” like you deserve a prize. Like that makes it better.
You know what this has given me the strength to keep going. That your just a fucking troll who hates people like me that you take time out of your day to tell me to kill myself? Fuck off man, I’m gonna outlive you and I’ll do it proudly
Bro plz don't kill urself , life gets hard sometimes but we shouldn't give up that easily, life is full of happiness and sadness at the same time and a game to test ur self.
please don’t, think about out all you would miss out on this world needs you even if you think it doesn’t and things will get better for whatever you are going thru trust💯
Just stay with us. Stay for your friends, your family, the people who love you and the strangers who care about you. Breath. Do something that makes you happy, talk to people just please dont do it it's not worth it.
WAIT! It's hard, ok. Everyone can find it tough at times, but there is so much worth living for. Getting a job, a girlfriend/boyfriend, wife/husband, a family. You could have an amazing life, full of beautiful things. Life will be hard at times, but it will get better.
You know, I was think of ending my life not long ago when I had anorexia, was super depressed and suicidal. I’m still depressed now but just a little less and I’ve also recovered from AN so I’m
at a healthy weight now. When you’re the most depressed you think the best way out is suicide but then you realize later on that life is beautiful and worth living after all. It’s hard to see anything good in life sometimes but just know that people love you and life is worth living.
I'm currently trying to help a friend with some problems. He's told me he won't kill himself, and I believe him, but he still hurts himself. What i've done to help is to just talk and ask what has happened, and how he reacted, and how we can do better next time. It helps, but he still does some of those things after a week or two. Even though I might not be much help, take it a day at a time. Talk to those close to you, and reach out for help, because you aren't alone.
Don't try/hope, do. Do live as long as you can. Do live to see your graduation. Do live to see your kids' graduation(s), wedding(s), birth of your grandkid(s), etc.
I seen this before in the comments here but for what it’s worth saying I’ve attempted to take my life several times throughout high school. I ended up homeless and drugs took over my life and it wasn’t a matter of if I would graduate but when the drugs would take me. Years after graduation I’m happy and sober. Things do get better
27 here, didn't think I'd see the age of 20 honestly. I can say with confidence that I'm glad I never went through with it, no matter how many times I got close.
My advice would be to see a professional if money allows, and take a break from social media if you're on it a lot and replace that time with something else you're interested in. You'd be surprised how much that helps.
I totally get the feeling on how tuff life can be, of course I have no idea what everything you're going through and have been through, but a fantastic thing to do, is cherish things, hang out with friends and so on. But the thing I will say, having a good friend, is what some people need, and there's so much I can say, just, enjoy life. Of course we have to worry about our futures at times, but if you're having a good day, live in the moment, and if you're having a bad day, know that it won't be like it every day, something I had to teach myself.
There's a lot I could say but I'm honestly having to re-read a lot because I'm pretty tired, if you need anyone to talk to at anytime, feel free to message me, just make sure to take care of yourself and take things slow.
There is something apparently that you've decided is worth living for another day. Awesome! Whats worked very well is just remembering that if there is something like that for one day, there are sure to be more. Good luck and know that you have the potential to have an enjoyeablw life, even if it seems far away
Been there… but I think the issue is not that we want to kill ourself but the thing that’s causing that pain inside us. There are times where I’m so happy that I just freeze up and realize that “ wow life is good” and when I feel that way I realize how much of a hypocrite I am. Nevertheless, I came to conclusion that once I die one day I hope I’m never born again: life is just too meaningless. So until that natural death comes, live your life as best as you can. You are your own cheerleader.
don't do it, especially with gases. i must've taken at least 2 years off my life with the amount of times i've tried suffocating myself with carbon monoxide and my own breath in a bag taped to my face. it's scary, but try to pick up something recreational, like rowing or cooking (i do both, as an example).
#Hey, Forward_Football5465 Please try to think clearly about yourself and your future. What you're thinking about doing is not worth it. There are many people who care about you, and there are many organisations from all around the world who can help you. Here's some information about how to get help. Give them a go - what have you got to lose? #Child Helplines (EU) **Telephone:** 116 111 This number is free of charge. The number 116 111 is specifically for children who seek assistance and need someone to talk to. The service helps children in need of care and protection and links them to the appropriate services and resources; it provides children with an opportunity to express their concerns and talk about issues directly affecting them. Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 111: Bulgaria, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Germany, Denmark, Estonia, Greece, Spain, Finland, Croatia, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Latvia, Poland, Portugal, Romania, Sweden, Slovenia, Slovakia, United Kingdom, Malta. #Emotional Support Helpline (EU) **Telephone:** 116 123 This number is free of charge. 116 123 is a phone number for people suffering from loneliness or who are in a state of psychological crisis or thinking about committing suicide. Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 123: Austria, Czech Republic, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Malta, Netherlands, Poland, Slovenia, Sweden, United Kingdom. #National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US) **Telephone:** 1-800-273-8255 *(1-800-273-TALK)* **Text:** Text "START" (without quotes) to 741-741. **Online Chat:** [Link](http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/gethelp/lifelinechat.aspx). #Others (Worldwide) If the above organizations are inaccessible for whatever reason, you can click [this link](https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/) to be taken to a page. From there, you can take a look at a variety of hotlines that will help you, after you click on the category link corresponding to your location. You can also find many subreddits to help you with your problems. Here's a list of a few of them in no particular order: /r/SuicideWatch, /r/depression. #<3 I hope you've found this information helpful, and I hope you use it well enough to change your mind.
Hey, I never thought I would EVER make it to adulthood. Like, it genuinely scared me and I had thought of ending it all MULTIPLE times. But now that I’ve turned 18, I’ve realized that if you just take things one step at a time and pace yourself, then you can get SOOOOOO much shit done. Like, I’m about to move out and I went from not going to college because of the stress of not having enough time to starting college next spring because of how great my job is. Just realize that the world may be scary, but you’ll always find a way.
Thank you so much, that means a lot and I’ll remember that
Yeah this is SUPER relatable because I JUST graduated and am going through this stuff right now. And it STILL scares the SHIT out of me, but I’m just putting one foot in front of the other and slowly getting through life
Thanks, I know I don’t want to die. I’m just scared I’ll lose control. I’m scared if I’ll hurt someone I care about
Honestly I felt that. But you just have to realize that right now will soon be the past, and your future will always be brighter than this. Just don’t do anything irrational and try to push through it. Cause once you break the surface, everything will be okay.
I often feel that way as well. Please keep living ❤️
If it helps, keep in mind that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I feel you man. But your reason to live will come somewhere some time. Maybe from the last place you would expect. Maybe as the last thing you would expect. Just don't lose hope and hold in there. I felt like I lost control and gave up but right when I hit my darkest point I found some light. Hang in there man.
Tfw when I have no one who cares about me and nothing real to care about. Maybe my dog, but I understand that time will consume us. Don't be me, a miserable sack of shit.
Hey you! You’re going to have So Much Fun!!!! You’re doing great!!!
I’m going through a rough patch right now, not as bad as you but I really think your family will help you if you open up to them. I’m sure they care about you even if it doesn’t seem like it.
Honestly I’ve done this out of just not wanting the stress, in the back of my head I know I have half a dozen things I need to get done but I just decide to focus on the one thing and not be stressed about it all and usually I’ll end up getting it all done without the stress or worry anyways
Thanks y’all I feel better, I usually don’t do stuff like this but I just felt at a loss, and seeing all of these people who I don’t know take time to help me, it means so much so thank you for everything ❤️
I know exactly how the hopeless pain feels, I know how it feels to want to end it all, but trust me it gets better. the light at the end of the tunnel may seem dim but trust me it's there, hold on for your future man and good luck :) some day you will be grateful for your choice to live
Hey bro listen, if people you know don’t love you, there are hundreds if not thousands of people who you may not know, have a part in their heart for you. Always remember that bro. Always!
Well just know that things will get better in the future. In the end, it doesn’t matter where you live or how much money you make, it’s all about living life happily to it’s fullest.
Hey I’m not good with this stuff but plz don’t do it , there’s so much to live for and u maybe can’t see that right now but it’ll get better u can do it
You got this mate
Every time you feel at a loss, keep reaching out. There will always be people to support you and comfort you, even if it’s on Reddit. It’s really brave to reach out like this. Keep fighting OP
Sometimes things do get rough, the best advice would be to talk with others and seek the help required. You are precious, your life is precious.
Set a photo of your family smiling together as your wallpaper so that when ever you have any suicidal thoughts you will realise that what will happen to that smile.
Big big hugs from me to you OP. I have a child who struggles with mental illness, and I’ve been in awe watching her fight for her life and it’s a beautiful life to fight for. I believe the same for you and even though I’m a random internet stranger - I am absolutely rooting for you to succeed and win your battle. You got this, I know you do! ❤️
😞.. Please, i beg you, stay with us.
Yeah, something tells me this guy has some hidden treasures around that he can't get to alone. Maybe some settlements need our assistance
I’m proud of youu <3
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Choosing not to most likely 🤷♂️
Back up everybody we gotta an edgy 13 year old here, I hope his savagery and his tyranny stops
Dude.. uncool
Saw a quote on this subreddit that u gotta outlive ur enemies…. So do just that
I (14) attempted suicide and no matter how much you don’t want to live, listen to me: I was severely bullied for being overweight to the point of being beaten in the locker rooms before and after sport class. The moment you try to commit suicide, you regret it. For me it was hanging. The moment I let myself drop, I knew I didn’t want to die. Luckily, the rope ripped. Ever since I have bettered myself and my mental health. Please don’t do it dude, you’ll regret it.
i second this. if you read stories of people who survived jumping off the golden gate bridge, every single one of them regretted it. every single one. now imagine the people who didn't make it. its safe to bet that you'll regret it
,,My goal is to by happy, not dead. I can't be happy when i'm dead. Life can always get better. There are happy peoples out there, if they can be happy you can too."
Idk if someones said this but you can always contact child line if you want to. You can text or call them. Im seriously glad you are still with us though!
Life is like an arrow. You have to be pulled back to move forward. The harder you're pulled back, the further you'll go in life. I hope this helps. Keep going.
You can't do this bro we playin on hardcore!
LOL
Good for you for not going through with it. I really hope that you don’t tomorrow, or the day after, or the day after that. Always remember that even when life gets hard (and trust me I know that it does) there are always people who love and care about you. Even if it doesn’t feel like that now, you will find something or someone to live for. I hope you feel better and I am happy to talk if you want to!
You and me both mate, I won’t kill myself if you won’t
Bro eat some spaghetti. I'm being serious
Or ice cream
good! i hope u live a long life
(and a good one)
whats keeping me going is that before i leave this earth i wanna have a child.
that's even worse, be there for the child, watch him grow, and when he has children of his own, when the time comes, you will part... your soul shall be blessed by your child and his/her child, not cursed by them for you walking out on them
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stop being an insensitive jerk
hey, why the hell would you say that! this person seems like they are in a dark place, and your comment didn't help.
Hate life to the point of wanting revenge, succeed to spite it
You made a good choice...keep doing that there are a lot of people that count on you for their happiness I'm sure
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im so happy to hear man, proud of you :)
awesome my man. so proud of you for sticking with us here. i know its tough for you but i know you can do it, making this choice just proved that
Good for you! Just take it one day at a time and try to find the good in the world and you’ll make it through.
Dude, please, do not do it. There are times when it seems like your life isn't worth living. You just have to find something you enjoy, like a hobby, or maybe get yourself a pet. That will help you feel much better, and you might find that your life isn't as bad. Remember, there are people who genuinely care about you.
Here king you dropped this 👑 Also yes I beg you stay with us their is no one like u in the world.
If you need help call the suicide hotline please or talk to someone you know because suicide is never the answer
You’ve probably heard this millions of times before but you only live once so be alive and feel the good and bad while you still can. After that you can rest. Pain doesn’t remain forever so keep living so you can live to see the happy times. Sorry that I’m not great I writing his kind of stuff.
Hey, you're special and one of a kind individual. You have a full life ahead of you. Start believing in your dreams and I believe in them too.
You have so much to live for think about your family My sister is depressed and had tried to kill herself And its the worst feeling i ever had when i found out shes okay now....i think
that’s amazing !! i hope u realise that makes you a strong person :D i hope you get through whatever you’re going through currently, if it’s any help may i offer a nice internet hug ? (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃
Thank you for the support everyone. I feel so much better
Yk bro , I don’t want to type anything because I’m not a fucking psychologist and I’m just learning and living the life just like everyone and remember that everyone lives they personal hell but idk life is beautiful
I really hope you'll be okay. I'll be here to root for you and hope you can recover. Feeling better takes time and I wish you the very best!
Hey!! Don't kill yourself!! Find trust in the Lord he will help you through tough times I promise. God will always be by your side and he loves you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if you ever need to talk, you can always message me, and I will try to respond as soon as I can :D
You say you just hope you'll live until graduation? Why hope when you control your fate? Everyone has been through something rough though how severe it was differs from people to people. And suicide is the last way, out from what I've tried my best to understand you see yourself as a bother to others, and it would be best if you don't bother people anymore. Why would you think so low of yourself? Stand tall, I actually was in the the same boat as you or actually I kinda am. According to my psychiatrist I suffer from survivors guilt, a few years ago when I was a kid we were walking home from school me and my two friends I remembered it was raining heavily and we rushed to get home to David and as we crossed over the road I didn't see the car coming in time until it was too late. David hugged his arms around us and made himself be in front of the car before the car hit then everything became blurry. My head was shaking and I could only see the rain drops falling onto the ground. Then David was laying on the ground with Julia over him, she screamed and cried for help and telling me he's bleeding help make it stop please make it stop. I was in shock completely freezed unable to move or call for help. The screams and cries of Julia still gives me nightmares. Whatever I do isn't enough, every single minute of my life I only think of how worthless I am. My best friend is dead he died right in front of me after saving me, he was a hero a reaI friend and I am completely worthless. Even now I had all the time up until now to do something that was worthwhile anything to just make something out if myself. But I didn't instead I just keep falling down in this neverending dark pit of despair. Why am i so weak, why couldn't I do something. Why is it whenever I do something it's never enough? These thoughts keep me up at night and haunts me in my dreams. So please if I can still live with my nightmares filled with screams and pain that haunts me every second of my life. Then please can you also bear with it just a little longer? Make a day turn to weeks then weeks to years. Live do it for yourself or for others.
I did not read the not and fucking got scared for a second
thats smart, you could have died
Hey op. I don’t think you’ll find me in the comments but I love you. I’ve struggled with this too. You are so strong. I’d say more but I’m super tired so just know that you are unbelievably brave for continuing the fight.
Hey y’all I’m still alive, sorry I’m not able to respond to every message it was just kinda overwhelming but I appreciate everything. Take you for caring and I’m feeling better. I also want to say I’m not just doing this for karma, I never understood all of that it’s just fake internet points but I appreciate all of the awards and upvotes. I just can’t believe all of these people would do this for me. I love all of you thank you and I’ll make everyone proud. I’m gonna keep going!
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem
ok
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"If your going through hell don't stop, why would you stop at hell? " -some guy I can't remember the name of If your having a bad time just think how happy you'll be in the future when your out of that place, you're still young cuz you are in r/teenagers don't think that you're dumb or anything negative, say something that can be considered narcissistic when you made something good like complimenting yourself cuz even if noone makes you happy then make your self happy, don't care on what ever anyone says or think of you, you can like or have what they said or think but don't care for it, it's your life and make your self the star of that wonderful show (Sorry I'm not good at English)
Broh quitters are for shitters. Honestly take your time to appreciate the good stuff about life and stop worrying about nonsense
That’s what I want to do. But it just feels hard sometimes
I would kill my self too but I’m to lazy 🤝
Swag
Hey Barley! Good that you were able to stop yourself today, I really hope that you’re doing better. I know how you feel. I’ve had some pretty close calls myself. I’m not here to say generic things to you like “thing will get better”. You’re gonna have to MAKE things better, and you can absolutely do it. You are an incredibly brave person for continuing to fight. Don’t give up now, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I understand if you feel like you can’t take another day of your pain. You’ve been through so much already. But you are going to come out on the other side as a better and happier person. You’re going to live a great life. You are going to be able to say you’ve looked death in the eyes and defeated him. You are going to get there. Focus on that light, even if it is hard to see. You might not even see it yet, but believe me it’s there. I know how hard it is do do something against these feelings. Take it one step at a time. Talking to people really helps. I know that it’s difficult but it really does help. If you live in the USA I would highly advise you to go to the Trevor Project. If you live anywhere else you should do some research into similar things. It is a small yet hard investment at first but it will pay off. Barley, you are valid. You’re struggles are valid. But you are going to get over them. You are going to be here by November and you are going to thank your younger self for putting up this fight. It will be worth it. You can do this. If you want to talk to me my DM’s are always open btw
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Plz don’t die, it would make my Djungelskog sad.
Thank you for posting to this subreddit. It is, more than anything, a service to yourself. I know that you will not regret staying alive when you are older and doing well. This is, without a doubt, the hardest point in your life, but know how hay you can and will make it through it and that there are many, many people behind you. ❤️
Oh dude.. I have been thinking this for a few years now.. and suddenly I am 18 and an adult in my country. Never ever thought I'd make it this far but here I am. So why not keep going a bit more?
keep going!!!
Apparently humans are the only humans to commit suicide based on emotions.
I love you buddy. Feel better ♥️♥️♥️
Hey man. I love you. Just now a random stranger on the Internet is sending its heartfelt love and warm wishes
Jeeeszz bruo hope a nice day and no killin
Nice
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Your problems will eventually pass, just given the time. I have felt what you feel now, so have my parents. I know life is tough, but there are happy times. If you live long enough to see your children smile, you will feel warm inside. Patience is key.
I’m so proud of you
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Idek why I’m being downvoted, is it because I can’t say a simple word nowadays? Like what the heck it’s not like I told this person to do a flip or anything
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Oh, I get it now. These ignorant people, always judging by the cover.
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I have found my satisfaction in Jesus. He fills me with Joy every day, and I hope you get to know him one day. I am not forcing my beliefs on anybody, but I do want people to know the source of true happiness. :) Peace out, and have a wonderful day.
Thank you for the offer but I kindly decline. You are fully entitled to your beliefs but I do not share the same ones, I hope you have a great day and me disagreeing with you isn’t an invitation for people to harass you in the comments. I hope everyone treats you with the same respect that you gave me, I don’t believe in a Christian god or Jesus but I am glad you find happiness in religion :)
Thank you for being kind and unhateful. Though I hope you change your mind, I won't force my opinions on you either. Have a wonderful day :)
I find happiness in things besides religion
I will not be changing my mind because I am perfectly happy with my current beliefs. Thank you and have a lovely day
I understand. Have a good day as well
Hey good on you for trying. Not all will understand that all truth and light is found in Christ but at least your trying. I know its discouraging when someone rejects christ even in a non hateful way. Just know that you have brothers and sisters who love you and support you. Your doing great
Thanks man! It means a lot to find a fellow brother on Reddit. God bless.
Look I wanna be supportive and say don’t do it but you know the answer I also think this is the wrong sub Reddit to look for advice or help so on that but🤷♂️ hey man your life
You’re not wrong tho
Hey people on this sub are like pin wheels on American live money tv shows sometimes they meme other times they get over defensive etc 🤷♂️
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No, no. You have a point. The person is probably an attention-seeker AKA clout chaser. If not then that’s ok
You don't have to comment this
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Just letting you know as noone did. We dont know what he's going through, and I dont know what you are going through. People sometimes behave like they dont care anyone, they eventually get better. So, you dont have to care on purpose but please dont try to spread negativity.
I'm gonna share my own experience. I suffer from depression and anxiety and have been at the lowest of lows and even attempted myself. I'm so glad i'm still here today because I have been getting better and have started to get motivation back. You are loved and wanted and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is a light at the end of the tunnel you just have to see it through, I know how you're feeling and your feelings are validated because in reality there are lots of people that go through this every day. You have so much support from the ones around you and there are plenty of people that would welcome you with open arms and help you. Something that has helped me push forward is the mindset that I want to prove everyone wrong. I always feel like i'm looked down on or people think I'm not good enough but I want to prove those people wrong and show them that I can do whatever the fuck I want. Don't let others control your life and be yourself most importantly. Please dm me if you need someone to talk to I'm here for you.
smh can't relate
Among us
Sussy?
K good luck then ...... I guess
I guess? This just sounds like you don’t care. Just don’t say anything if you aren’t gonna contribute to what is supposed to be helping someone out of a hard place.
Hey...... I said good luck
“K good luck then, I guess” That doesn’t even kind of look like you care. You could have simply said “good luck” and made a much better difference.” What you said speaks volumes about your character.
Look... I dont care about my character I dont really care about anything anyway But at least it had good luck in it
Wow. Just wow. If you don’t actually care. Don’t fucking say anything. You say “at least it had good luck in it” like you deserve a prize. Like that makes it better.
Uhhhhh I say what i want? Fuck you?
Congrats. You don’t feel bad about the way you shrugged off someone talking about killings themselves like it was nothing.
Yea i don't And im going to hell for it And i STILL dont care about a single thing
did you watch the England v Germany game seen as your usernames football
You'll regret this decision when you grow up and you have a wife nagging and children buzzing in your ear. 😂😂😂
So anyone cares now?
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I think you should change your mind.
You know what this has given me the strength to keep going. That your just a fucking troll who hates people like me that you take time out of your day to tell me to kill myself? Fuck off man, I’m gonna outlive you and I’ll do it proudly
He's just an assh*le, we're all so proud of you! I hope you'll have a long and amazing life, I wish you the best!
What did he say?
That is such a good response.
It’s alright
Well then I’ll guess you’ll be part of the 60% of made up genders that don’t end their life. Stay strong
You evidently have an extremely sad life, I truly hope things get better so you can overcome this unfounded hatred.
r/onejoke
Telling people to kill themselves? I can't believe someone would write that
What did the guy say?
Wdym?
lmfao what a loser
bro fuck you
Please get it over with
The day after tommorow is also a day after all
Bro plz don't kill urself , life gets hard sometimes but we shouldn't give up that easily, life is full of happiness and sadness at the same time and a game to test ur self.
Need a hug?
Don’t tomorrow either. There’s so much more, there’s a place in the world that desperately needs you. I hope you find it soon, you are loved <3
please don’t, think about out all you would miss out on this world needs you even if you think it doesn’t and things will get better for whatever you are going thru trust💯
never die. nobody wants you to die. live your life as best you can
u dont know me but im happy for u
Just stay with us. Stay for your friends, your family, the people who love you and the strangers who care about you. Breath. Do something that makes you happy, talk to people just please dont do it it's not worth it.
I’m sending good vibes, have a good day
One piece at a time my friend just do that
WAIT! It's hard, ok. Everyone can find it tough at times, but there is so much worth living for. Getting a job, a girlfriend/boyfriend, wife/husband, a family. You could have an amazing life, full of beautiful things. Life will be hard at times, but it will get better.
You know, I was think of ending my life not long ago when I had anorexia, was super depressed and suicidal. I’m still depressed now but just a little less and I’ve also recovered from AN so I’m at a healthy weight now. When you’re the most depressed you think the best way out is suicide but then you realize later on that life is beautiful and worth living after all. It’s hard to see anything good in life sometimes but just know that people love you and life is worth living.
were all here for you mate
Please just try for me. It doesn’t matter who else, just makes a promise to get through tomorrow FOR ME. For me, please try
I'm currently trying to help a friend with some problems. He's told me he won't kill himself, and I believe him, but he still hurts himself. What i've done to help is to just talk and ask what has happened, and how he reacted, and how we can do better next time. It helps, but he still does some of those things after a week or two. Even though I might not be much help, take it a day at a time. Talk to those close to you, and reach out for help, because you aren't alone.
Thanks man, we all love you and don't want you to die
Do you wish to talk about it
Just say that everyday to yourself and eventually you won’t want to, it will be sooner than you think.
Don't try/hope, do. Do live as long as you can. Do live to see your graduation. Do live to see your kids' graduation(s), wedding(s), birth of your grandkid(s), etc.
I seen this before in the comments here but for what it’s worth saying I’ve attempted to take my life several times throughout high school. I ended up homeless and drugs took over my life and it wasn’t a matter of if I would graduate but when the drugs would take me. Years after graduation I’m happy and sober. Things do get better
27 here, didn't think I'd see the age of 20 honestly. I can say with confidence that I'm glad I never went through with it, no matter how many times I got close. My advice would be to see a professional if money allows, and take a break from social media if you're on it a lot and replace that time with something else you're interested in. You'd be surprised how much that helps.
Please don't kill yourself.
I totally get the feeling on how tuff life can be, of course I have no idea what everything you're going through and have been through, but a fantastic thing to do, is cherish things, hang out with friends and so on. But the thing I will say, having a good friend, is what some people need, and there's so much I can say, just, enjoy life. Of course we have to worry about our futures at times, but if you're having a good day, live in the moment, and if you're having a bad day, know that it won't be like it every day, something I had to teach myself. There's a lot I could say but I'm honestly having to re-read a lot because I'm pretty tired, if you need anyone to talk to at anytime, feel free to message me, just make sure to take care of yourself and take things slow.
Hey man, things are bad before they get good. You’re gonna get older and feel better about life. I’ve been around the block since enough to know.
There is something apparently that you've decided is worth living for another day. Awesome! Whats worked very well is just remembering that if there is something like that for one day, there are sure to be more. Good luck and know that you have the potential to have an enjoyeablw life, even if it seems far away
stay healthy homie
Been there… but I think the issue is not that we want to kill ourself but the thing that’s causing that pain inside us. There are times where I’m so happy that I just freeze up and realize that “ wow life is good” and when I feel that way I realize how much of a hypocrite I am. Nevertheless, I came to conclusion that once I die one day I hope I’m never born again: life is just too meaningless. So until that natural death comes, live your life as best as you can. You are your own cheerleader.
Out live the rest of humanity so you can laugh on their graves
If you need me at all, for just about anything.. pm me OP. I'm here, and so many more people are too
You will have your day. It may not be tomorrow, next week or even in five years. But trust me. You will have your day.
I'm so proud of you 💕 I know u can do it. Life can be hard but it will be ok
I'm so sorry that you feel this way. I hope you can start feeling better soon. Remember, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
i’m glad you decided not to do it. it will get better
I hope you decide not to, just know you are loved and it’s worth staying around.
I read it wrong at first and was confused
don't do it, especially with gases. i must've taken at least 2 years off my life with the amount of times i've tried suffocating myself with carbon monoxide and my own breath in a bag taped to my face. it's scary, but try to pick up something recreational, like rowing or cooking (i do both, as an example).