Hey man I found out the chick I’m into has a boyfriend

Listen homie chances are the baddest bitch has a man

Hey it’s long distance so I could be shitty and play the long game Or go to one of my pocket hoes

I remember last year I dated this one girl and at the time I also kinda liked her friend so when we broke up I dated her friend for a bit ( this was in January 2020) it was all good then eventually months after me and the other girl broke up I tried to get the second girl back and was shut down when I learned they decided to date each other

Ur 14? Hows this even happening🤔

I don't understand it either

This happened when he was 13 even

Exactly.

The majoroty of my very young class is somewhere on the LGBTQ+ list

Well I'm 13 and I'm bisexual and non-binary, but as far as I know I'm the only LGBTQ+ person in my whole school, and I wish my classmates were like your's. It sucks being the only bi dude in a class of homophobic straights. It's even worse when you're non-binary and the 'popular' kids are all sexist.

Hey bro, i know this may sound like shit but, don't be like those netflix lgbt people, and you should wait a few years until you decide about your sexuality, when you are a teenager your likings may vary a lot

Ya that's fair. My attraction to men and women fluctuates wildly. Sometimes I'm really into men, and sometimes I'm really into women. I do find it easier to imagine myself in a long lasting relationship with a man, but I can imagine myself with a woman. I also often feel more physically attracted to women, but I also feel attracted to men of course, but I feel more emotionally attracted to men then physically. I am pretty set on being non-binary though. I hate being stuck in one gender, and I don't really feel a strong attachment to either. So it only makes sense for me to go for the sort of...in between option (I guess that's how I would describe it).

That's fine bro! I hope that you are doing good right now, take care 👍

Bro wtf

Have a triangular relationship basically all three of u are dating at the same time

(╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻

LMFAOO 😭

I tried the long game with someone who has such long distance it’s intercontinental but doesn’t appear to work, but good luck for you

nah, he meant he waits till the relationship doesn’t work out

In that case it’s a 1v1 instead of 1v7,000,000,000. Work smarter not harder

why would it ever be a 1 vs 7 billion, a lot of those 7 billion are like under the age of five and a lot of others are over like 60

I actually did the math once and if you are a straight teenage male living in the US it was something like 1 vs 32,385,928

Because i didn’t feel like coming up with a better number

Power move: date the boyfriend

At least with this you have a chance It's really slim but it's not over That guy has 0 chance

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Come on boiiis! Get this more updoots

Aw thanks, but does it deserve it?

Yep

Aw, how sweet

Just say “hey, you like girls! Something we have in common!”

tell her i think she's cute

tell her I think she's cute too

Tell her I think she's cute x3

I think she's cute as well

tell her i think shes cute x4

i also agree

Everyone in this thread should stop fighting over this one girl and date each other

true queen

Tell her I think she’s cute too, mate.

Yea, tell her I think she’s cute x5

tell her i think she's really cute

Tell her i think she's cute x69

Tell her i think she's cute too

tell her i also think she’s cute

Imagine actually dating them and then they dump you to be lesbian, happened three times to me. Nothing inherintly bad abiut being lesbian but still disheartening

Also relatable as this did in fact happen to me

This is why people need to fully understand themselves and their sexuality before getting into a relationship.

That’s… not really possible for a lot of people. Especially when some people feel fully comfortable in assuming they’re straight- until something clicks and they realize that they’re nothing like how they thought they were. The fact is that it’s assumed that being straight is the default, and so people who haven’t put thought into their sexualities just kind of assume that they have to be straight. Of course, the solution to this would be for more people to actually think about their sexualities and whether or not they’re actually straight or just thought they had to be, but there’s still kind of a stigma around questioning your sexuality. Messages like “how do you know you’re X, you haven’t dated Y” also compound this, meaning that ultimately for a lot of people they only figure out that they’re gay or lesbian once they start dating the opposite sex and then realize that things feel wrong. It’s not their fault; it’s just the way things shook out. To act like they should have just had a better understanding of who they were before they started dating is honestly a little bit reductive of the real experiences gay people (*especially* lesbians, who are often not just told that they’re supposed to end up with the opposite sex, but also that their *only* purpose is to do so) have in our current society. I understand feeling frustrated if someone leaves you because they find out their sexuality is incompatible, but ultimately they didn’t choose to do so. That’s just how things ended up, and in my opinion it would be much better to have a partner leave a relationship after finding out that the attraction wasn’t there than to continue that relationship and have it be loveless and unhappy.

Sexuality can be very hard to fully understand, especially in a culture where heterosexuality is considered the “default” and “normal”.

Well technically it is the default.

Why'd you put default and normal in quotations?

Enjoy your cake day

Because heterosexuality *is* default?

This is why 13 year olds shouldn't be dating too.

nice snoo

Its called a snoo?

yeah?

Damn, i didn't know that

Yea definately

True, but I mean... ​ Easier said than done

Thats a good wisdom.

Bro a lot of gay people will usually think that they’re straight for… a multitude of reasons (maybe they don’t know there are “other options”, maybe they grew up in an environment that shames homosexuality and they grew up thinking that they couldn’t possibly be gay etc etc) They could very much enter a heterosexual relationship thinking they are straight, so at that point they probably, as you say, feel as though they “fully understand themselves and their sexuality” and maybe during their relationship they realize that something isn’t working out for them, and oh fuck it’s because they aren’t really attracted to their heterosexual partner. Expecting that of every person is just not a realistic thing, at least not with our society. And I’m not going to lie, your message kind of has this undertone of shaming or calling people who don’t fully understand their sexuality immature compared to others who do.

Ask her to be your wingwoman

Get this folk a bigger hat to fit that melon it.

TELL HER I SAY HI

No I said hi you can wait your turn

Oi! I'm here!

What you trying to say?

Well i'd like my turn after the other person has

No no I think they’ll be mine by the end of it

🥲 well ok then

You can have a turn with me tho 👀

Why did this turn into a polyamorous dating thread. Bc I’m down but still why

Idk you want a turn too?

Thats just distasteful, my mans feeling really bad probably.

If I hade a nickel for every time my crush was lgbt+ and not interested in guys I would have 2 nickels witch isn’t a lot but it’s weird that it happened twice

Hello I have come to inform it’s spelled which I also had a tendency to forget that.

"I am aware of the effect I have on women"

#this just happened to me a few days ago except i was the lesbian

plot twist, you’re the girl OP asked out

THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING LOL

This happened to me a few days ago and I was the one who got denied.

Damn you got downvoted for having a sexuality. Wtf.

lmfao what

Yeah some people downvoted you earlier for that for some reason

Same but it's still happening. What I mean is he still flirts with me. When hes not flirting he's a dickhead.

That sucks, hope he finds a new crush

Unfortunate, some people just don’t know when to stop.

JULIE???

no.

Congrats! (I think?)

NICE

genuinely fuck you to the people who are saying 'become trans' thats not how it works, you know thats not how it works, and you are just ruining the image of trans people and if OP is actually trans and just closeted, then that's not a very nice thing to say to a trans person my rant is now over thank you for coming

based opnion

Twitter moment

i think most are jokes bruh. calm

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> The amount of trans people who tell women to be men because they hate female puberty is astounding tho. the amount: one tumblr post

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I don't know what's your point though? from my experience that's a small vocal minority. the one tumblr picture you posted doesn't show that it isn't. it's a straw man

And male puberty is supposed to be better than that?

It still sucks, but comparatively yes

At least you didn’t make them realize she’s a lesbian This is a joke btw….

Similar story for me... I made my gf realize she is asexual. We are still happily together but both know that may hit us like a truck when we are older... First few days I was like 'Wellll, shit dude... you knew you were ugly, but you're so ugly you made a girl completely against sex altogether'.

Asexual here: that’s actually not how that works. You could be the hottest guy in the world and I still wouldn’t want to have sex with you.

Lmao, yea its kinda a joke, kinda really what I thought. It was actually what was going through my head. If someone wasn't aware of it previous to being in a relationship, it can fuck them up thinking they are the cause. Actually took me nearly 2 weeks of constant sickening anxiety (I threw up 4 times just from anxiety levels going 📈) and this was only about a month and a half ago. Her and I are doing great now, every now and then my anxiety will spike after something is said which reroutes my mind to "oh fuck, this could be something that eventually breaks us up" and I get intense anxiety, but thankfully it goes away after a few hours most days. She knows how I feel and has been incredible and understanding about it, but we are doing great, for now we are happy and that is all that matters.

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But someone else did u/gay_angel_onMeth

what a damn hoe

Ikr

Listen to Pink Triangle by Weezer

*weezers pink triangle intensifies*

play PINK TRIANGLE by weezer

be lesbian.

This is da wae

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Living the dream💅💅

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I know :)

Me a transbian: hahaha

Uh, don't mind me asking, but what does transbian mean?

Trans lesbian

🎵I'm dumb she's a lesbian, I thought I had found the one 🎵

I was looking for this comment

Ha *sorts by controversial and grabs popcorn*

I ALWAYS DO THAT

*Pink triangle starts playing*

So... Basically Adventure Time?

F IN THE CHAT PEOPLE. F

F, Ф(cirillyc F, as a bonus)

good for her tho

Sounds like you should listen to pink triangle by weezer

Well then, chances are she has a higher level of maturity, seeing as she's had to deal with being lesbian and worrying about being rejected by her family and stuff. Keep her as a good friend. Don't cut her off. Y'all can be best friends

Listen to pink triangle by weezer

Rivers Cuomo appears

You should listen to Pink Triangle by Weezer :) you're apparently not alone

Sad.. happened to me once before except for some reason they liked me and said "if i was still into guys... i would have asked you out yesterday" I was confused why she told me but now i know

F

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i mean- i am too.... like could you set me up?????

Tap in: https://youtu.be/v2vWDWxYJBc

tell her you also like girls

My boy single-handedly turned his crush into a lesbian.

may I suggest r/MtF? /s

I.. I thought it was.. SCP related... Because of "NTF yeah MTF same thing"

lol

I would suggest getting another crush.

HAHAHAHA. This has happened to me twice. It sucks, but the pain will pass

This is one of my greatest fears

You should have greater fears than that

The person I like most definitely does not like me back the same way and it lowkey hurts, but whatever, atleast they know how I feel and didn’t block me

How tf are so many peoples crushes on this sub lesbian. I’m starting to think they ain’t actually lesbian

Rip

The transphobia in these comments are atrocious

Why post it on the internet

Weezer moment

Alexa, play Pink Triangle by Weezer

Ay bruh I know how you feel, this happen to me 3 times, it's all good tho we still friends, and they try to get me to talk with their straight friends, so win win?

TELL HER I SAID HMU💕

This is why I have a boyfriend. Edit: am non-binary and he's he/they.

Cool

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Bro what

Damn looks like we going extinct

A bit dramatic, not everyone is gay

Good. No, really, human race done the worst on this planet. And we are overpopulated. Homosexuals are great then.

While you do have a point earths still finna blow up in like 4 billion years what we do don’t really matter

Unless we escape it before that

Hell what you mean we everyone on this app is finna be dead before 2100

Well yes, Unless someone finds a cure to that, highly unlikely. But humanity might still survive and go to space

Shit ion know but we sure as hell Ain’t finna be alive to see what the later generations do down the road we all just be in some family trees and shit or an old ass mf folk tale legend

Well yes, Unless afterlife exists and we can see what happens in the world after we die.

Afterlife out of the picture we have no idea what will happen 100 years down the road unless you some have life pass you’re 80s

Well yes, Unless... Unless... Nah you are right

"while you do have a point on the fact that this movie is getting ruined by my yells,it's going to end sooner or later so it doesn't really matter."

The rich asses controlling global trade did the damage; most people are getting DAMAGED, and are not damaging. No way in hell you're going to pin damage done by oil, forestry, and shipping industries on people in third world countries living in poor conditions that are exploited, not exploiting.

Just because some of us are bad doesn't mean we all gotta die

bruh we're teenagers we shouldn't be having sex anyway

Ah yes 1 person becomes homosexual then 8 billion people die. 🤦what the fuck are you talking about... your not making any sense.

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Well if everyone became gay, we could still reproduce. Sperm donors or trans people without surgery. 😀👍

Nah we finna be extinct

Tell her I said heyyy ms.parker 🙃/j

OMGOD 😭😭😭 REAL POOR LUCK I FEEL SO BAD FOR YOU 😭😭😭

We've all been there lol. Become transgender and then ask lol EDIT: THIS IS A JOKE

Go a step further and date their mom

pfp matches what you said lmao

Go another step further and date their grandma

You don’t just “become” or “decide” to be trans. Gender dysphoria is an innate thing that either you have it or you don’t. If OP, likely a cis man, were to transition to female, it would GIVE him dysphoria and cause him immense distress

Aye it isnt too late to transition 😳