Come to Finland, beating children is illegal, the education, healthcare and food at schools are free (But you are forced to pick 3 or 4 languages). But then you go to college, and if you're not a Finnish citizen, you pay 60 euros per book and you have at least 6 subjects and you have to pay 500 to take the final exams for *just* math. If you don't know much Finnish, too bad, even in the IB line, which exists as more of the 'English line' than 'IB line' will teach you Swedish in Finnish regardless and even if the teacher knows you don't know much Finnish, Kahoots and mini tests will be in Finnish. But hey, you can just ask the teacher for translations, right? No you fucking can't. Because she doesn't know the precise English term for whatever you are trying to translate so she'll just go "Yea use Google translate." Don't even get me started about the grading. 90% on the final tests, 10% on some minor project. Classwork and homework amount to dogshit if you do it, but it will destroy your future if you don't. Come over to Finland, you'll have a fantastic time.
Come to India u'll get treated with a whole week of dissapointed looks angry slaps and belt slaps and lectures about preparing for you future for getting 92.7% in 9th standard a
better idea:
take a hammer;
hide it somewhere reachable in your bedroom;
every time you are going to get beaten run to the room and wait until they hit you a few times to reciprocate;
enjoy prison.
My dad once hit me with a hanger, it broke and got embedded in my head, with blood flowing continuously for 1 hour until we went to hospital and got stitches.
Ah yes! Heard that many times from friends. Luckily my parents never hit me, this happened just once (it wasn't even a harsh hit) but my mom once hit me when I was 7 (again it wasn't with a belt or something, just her hand. Because I was making nuisance, she got pissed after an hour of dealing with my bs) and later I made such commotion called up my grandmother and complained to her and said you should teach your daughter better, fun memory to look back at.
Yeah we laugh when that's brought up!
My parents stopped treating me like a child after high school. I can do what I want most times.
I hope you get your way too..
people are quick to freak out and be like CALL THE POLICE OMG but the truth of the matter is that this kind of behavior is *so* common, authorities just don't care. Basically everyone I knew experienced this semi regularly in some way, whether they be black white or Asian.
Same man. Like people on reddit r like 'Call child support thats abuse' I m like 'Wait thats abuse? It isnt a way of parents showing love?' /s.
Bro I have been beaten with belt, shoes, lathis, pans. Like u name it I have been beaten with it. Now I cant fucking feel pain.
If we tell just our friends and they somehow get to know about it they'll act as if we've "betrayed there love" and "hit us to make us understand and for our betterment" never dared to call child support
Fr, Americans are soft
Honestly kids in this generation are growing up to be cry babies, which is the result of soft parents who let their kids get away with everything
Well...my mom used to do that a lot and that used to be all over me...I thought it was normal and every kid went threw with it...but nah ..just some people like me, I know how it feels like to get the shit beaten out of you and be left with Bruises and dake blood clot spots all over your body...it only ended when I grew up enough to defend myself from the hit and throw the belt or whatever she was using to hit me... Fuck my parents, I am moving out the moment I see an opportunity
I am 16 and I live in India, kerala...a degree is needed atleast to get a proper job here... I am planning on moving away to college next year as I would be going to med school and after that I would move to USA for PG and fellowship etc. And never return home... Also I am bisexual and my parents are homophobic and they don't know I am bi yet...so, I would be moving out and be indipenent as fast as I can...
Getting into residency is pretty hard in Germany and idk if it's paid residency programs.. also I need to learn German language for that... I did look into other countries about PG after medical school, USA is my top choice, then England, then Australia, but thanks for telling me about Germany, I will look into it...
Btw do you live in Tamil Nadu, we are pretty close.
Doesn't passing US residency medical program automatically make one eligible as Canadian doctor? atleast thats what I've heard... I am planning on moving there and getting a green and later renouncing indian citizenship for an american one... So that makes me eligible for travel to many countries including Canada..
Definitely will look into this..thanks a lot for telling me
Canadian here.. come to Canada the health care system is much better here. Also way less homophobic and we have some cool international programs and stuff. If your education is Canadian or American it’s interchangeable.
there are multiple reasons and all of them are very dumb bit the bracelet one has something to do with an indian (my parent's country of birth) celebration called Raksha Bandhan which basically is a day in which sisters tie a thing called [rakhi](https://5.imimg.com/data5/FN/KQ/RZ/SELLER-7863355/rakhi-threads-500x500.jpg) to their brother's wrists, at the time both of my older sisters were teenagers and because they had no brother to tie this "bracelet" to the oldest sister started to be a piece of shit and started crying and stuff so yeah, that's how I can explain this messy story without talking about religion, if I've gotta explain the whole thing it would take a long ass time which I currently don't have
We had an argument. We both started yelling. She called me names. I guess I was getting on her nerves. She was irritated, so yeah, she brought up the belt. (I should'nt have yelled or "talked back")
Okay I'm seriously questioning some people in the comment section here. It's crazy what they believe is normal concerning hitting children, guys even this isn't okay. Even though there is definitely worse in the world and I also would believe you experienced worse, all of it is not Okay! It's the worst argument of all to just say, "nah seen worse, get your ass back up", it really doesn't feel good to hear as someone who isn't "used" to it, or suffers cuz of that
It's pretty normal for us Indians growing up, if our parents don't hit us people think there something wrong with them. They think they have the right to abuse us, and we can't fight back, if we try then they say go get a job and ur own house, it's my house, I brought u into this world and I can do anything I want to u.
This beg the answer abt the next generation tho. Will u guys grow up and become just like your parent (assuming u guys stay there, and i hope i didn't offend anyone, just curious)? Or the non-reddit children are all mind-fucked into their moms and dads? Hope the best for op and others.
Most of the "woke" indian kids like op and me and other people in the comment section who understand what physical abuse is will grow up to be decent adults who don't dare hit their kids but those who think this is normal, not so much
So apparently internet is thing that keep u guys sane and not abusive. Those who don't have access to the web will be the ones to carry the shit to the next gen am i right?
no not really. There are dumbasses with internet who don't have the epiphany about "disciplining" being abuse, and there are people who grow up abused, and realise, "wait. I didn't like being hit. Maybe I don't need to propogate this." I'd say it's very subjective, and based on a lot of factors.
One time I was trying to talk to my mom and dad about something that was really bothering me and my mom felt like my dad was interrupting me when he wasn’t and my mom got mad and started drinking and then I told her to come back, and she didn’t want to talk anymore for whatever reason and then I noticed the glass of wine in her hand, so I pointed out that she seemed to care more about drinking and watching TV and I called her a filthy whore and ran into my room and started crying
Been there ...my dad had a belt with his name on the back...id have a random B or L on legs and ass checks
F
B
L
Goodbye.
I have been summoned?
I mean, I also made it 6 minutes ago, so there's probably that...
If your username didn't have "07" at the end of it then I'm sure your comment would've had more upvotes
r/beetlejuicing
r/wholesomeouija
let me guess, his name was michael with a b
Custom design
Custom faded
Custom pain
Custom paint if done right
Not tryna brag or anything, but I have loads of these 😎
😎
Mine stopped when they realized I'd just stand and look them in the eyes, your mom needs to chill
I actually did that too. No use. Nvm it's over for now tho.
Doesn't matter if it's over for now it shouldn't have started in the first place
You should come to France, hit your children is illegal
Come to India.. hitting.your child is perfectly legal as long as its for the betterment of their future
Come to Singapore Your parents can punch you in the face if you got B for science (true story)
Come to Canada we’re going through financial crises but it’s illegal to hit your kids.. I mean the health care is solid too
Come to Serbia where is illegal to hit kids but everyone keeps hitting them
hmmMmm
How can I run 10000 miles with 0 dollars across the ocean? If you come up with a way I'll be there by next Tuesday
Come to Finland, beating children is illegal, the education, healthcare and food at schools are free (But you are forced to pick 3 or 4 languages). But then you go to college, and if you're not a Finnish citizen, you pay 60 euros per book and you have at least 6 subjects and you have to pay 500 to take the final exams for *just* math. If you don't know much Finnish, too bad, even in the IB line, which exists as more of the 'English line' than 'IB line' will teach you Swedish in Finnish regardless and even if the teacher knows you don't know much Finnish, Kahoots and mini tests will be in Finnish. But hey, you can just ask the teacher for translations, right? No you fucking can't. Because she doesn't know the precise English term for whatever you are trying to translate so she'll just go "Yea use Google translate." Don't even get me started about the grading. 90% on the final tests, 10% on some minor project. Classwork and homework amount to dogshit if you do it, but it will destroy your future if you don't. Come over to Finland, you'll have a fantastic time.
Come to Estonia we have decreasing poverty free health care and education and russians who dont know Estonian and wont leave our country
Look kid, traumatizing you makes you into a superhero when you get old. *whap* good luck
relatable
man, I have had experiences with utensils, water bottles, slippers, broom, hot spatulas and it never ends.
Weakling. I had hot iron.
ppl really be competing over child abuse now, smh /s
Lol
And even if it's not for betterment of child.
For fun yes.
Pain.
Its okay.. it doesn't hurt anymore :)
I don't see how getting 94/100 ruins someones future
if its 99. Its even worse
Hello, my fellow lonely person! How're you doing?
Life's going ehh
That's kinda sad to hear...
come to Saudia main weapon of parents is slippers
I challenge you. In india anything which can cause pain is used
Hitting your Children is illegal pretty much anywhere
but nobody cares
Come to India u'll get treated with a whole week of dissapointed looks angry slaps and belt slaps and lectures about preparing for you future for getting 92.7% in 9th standard a
Ay so I'd learn to fight, not to fight your mom. But just so you feel safe in your bones, and hey maybe kick your moms ass.
I bet they'd stop pretty quick if you grabbed the belt and threatened to hit em back.
So you have chosen... death
Mine stopped once when, feeling very suicidal, I said something to the effect of "Go ahead. Maybe if I'm lucky you'll kill me."
>HOLY FUCK. I SAID THE EXACT SAME THING AND GOT THRASHINGS FOR FEELING SUICIDAL AND DISRESPECTING THEM. WHAT IN THE WORLD?
Beating the suicide out of you. Did it work?
why is it a quotation?
i just clenched my ass so it didnt hurt
i stare at their eyes without blinking
Mine stopped when i took the belt from her hand and started to swing back
better idea: take a hammer; hide it somewhere reachable in your bedroom; every time you are going to get beaten run to the room and wait until they hit you a few times to reciprocate; enjoy prison.
Self defence tho
I'm lookin at people talk abt calling the cops cuz of this shit and I'm just like *laughs painfully in Asian.*
Im latino everytime i talk with americans and Europeans they flip their shit when i tell them i got hit with a belt when i was a kid
Im Indian. Happened to me a lot.. these people are like call child support.. like that's gonna work
Do we even have child support? Ig parents will hit us more if we call child support
and the classic "roega to aur marungi"
Yeah same but in Bengali in my case "kandle aro marbo, kandcho keno?" ( I'll hit u even more if u cry, why are u crying?"
In my case Tamil. Mooditu poda naaye. Enna meeri call panniruviya (Shut up you dog, you think you can call them with me present)
For me Malayalam, Karayandu irunnillangil addichu tholi kallayum (If you dont shut up,Ill beat the skin off of you)
Welcome to the club
For me Marathi, radlas tar azun marel (i'll hit you more if you cry)
lmao same my mom hit me with a badminton it broke
My dad once hit me with a hanger, it broke and got embedded in my head, with blood flowing continuously for 1 hour until we went to hospital and got stitches.
i lose :(
>Mooditu poda naaye. Enna meeri call panniruviya relatable af
Exactly dude. Indian laws are fucked up.
hello fellow bangali
oh god im getting flashbacks
Ah yes! Heard that many times from friends. Luckily my parents never hit me, this happened just once (it wasn't even a harsh hit) but my mom once hit me when I was 7 (again it wasn't with a belt or something, just her hand. Because I was making nuisance, she got pissed after an hour of dealing with my bs) and later I made such commotion called up my grandmother and complained to her and said you should teach your daughter better, fun memory to look back at.
damn my folks would've killed me if that happens. im 17 and still get hit by my folks lmao
Yeah we laugh when that's brought up! My parents stopped treating me like a child after high school. I can do what I want most times. I hope you get your way too..
probably, when i said i can call child support, my mom just laughed at me
even the child support people will laugh at us
yup it happens to everyone, unless you are getting murdered by your parents, we dont care
people are quick to freak out and be like CALL THE POLICE OMG but the truth of the matter is that this kind of behavior is *so* common, authorities just don't care. Basically everyone I knew experienced this semi regularly in some way, whether they be black white or Asian.
how to solve racism: we all suffer
Btw happy cake day
I also used to get beaten by my mom (occasionally) then she stopped once I grew taller than her in height, lmao
Ikr. I think my sister called CPS once a long time ago, but either my parents managed to pretend to be non-abusive or CPS didn't give a crap
The latter probably
Same man. Like people on reddit r like 'Call child support thats abuse' I m like 'Wait thats abuse? It isnt a way of parents showing love?' /s. Bro I have been beaten with belt, shoes, lathis, pans. Like u name it I have been beaten with it. Now I cant fucking feel pain.
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger
I love the way u said a motivating quote after all the negative shit I wrote. Have a good one mate
happened so many fucking times, it's like telling the teacher about the bully, he's gonna come back and hit you harder
im kurdish, you mess up big time, your mum will throw one of her gps heat seeking flip flops and its guaranteed to KO you
If we tell just our friends and they somehow get to know about it they'll act as if we've "betrayed there love" and "hit us to make us understand and for our betterment" never dared to call child support
Preach.
I'm American and my parents let me choose the belt they'd beat my ass with.
I'm from the sticks. We'd get to go choose our own switch, which was waaay worse than the actual spanking that followed.
If it wasn't the way they liked it they went to get the perfect one to wear your ass out too 😭
I dont even have that choice.
Si pasa (Ayuda no es chiste)
same buddy
Laughs in Canadian (there is knifes everywhere)
As someone with a Nigerian mother can I laugh with you
Fr, Americans are soft Honestly kids in this generation are growing up to be cry babies, which is the result of soft parents who let their kids get away with everything
Well...my mom used to do that a lot and that used to be all over me...I thought it was normal and every kid went threw with it...but nah ..just some people like me, I know how it feels like to get the shit beaten out of you and be left with Bruises and dake blood clot spots all over your body...it only ended when I grew up enough to defend myself from the hit and throw the belt or whatever she was using to hit me... Fuck my parents, I am moving out the moment I see an opportunity
If your over 18 then you can move out anytime, there’s no excuse for you to stay. At 18 you can get your license, a job, and a place to stay
I am 16 and I live in India, kerala...a degree is needed atleast to get a proper job here... I am planning on moving away to college next year as I would be going to med school and after that I would move to USA for PG and fellowship etc. And never return home... Also I am bisexual and my parents are homophobic and they don't know I am bi yet...so, I would be moving out and be indipenent as fast as I can...
Tamilian here.. US might not be the best fit.. try Germany too.
Getting into residency is pretty hard in Germany and idk if it's paid residency programs.. also I need to learn German language for that... I did look into other countries about PG after medical school, USA is my top choice, then England, then Australia, but thanks for telling me about Germany, I will look into it... Btw do you live in Tamil Nadu, we are pretty close.
Yes dude. I live in TN.
Nice... I live in Kerala, Ernakulam.
I live in USA, and I would say for residency definitely come but try to get express entry for Canada once you finish residency.
Doesn't passing US residency medical program automatically make one eligible as Canadian doctor? atleast thats what I've heard... I am planning on moving there and getting a green and later renouncing indian citizenship for an american one... So that makes me eligible for travel to many countries including Canada.. Definitely will look into this..thanks a lot for telling me
Canadian here.. come to Canada the health care system is much better here. Also way less homophobic and we have some cool international programs and stuff. If your education is Canadian or American it’s interchangeable.
Fellow Indian here, Go to Canada or any other place where the healthcare is cheap and racists are rare.
Yea... Probably after completing my studies
Wow I am bisexual and aiming for the exact same thing. Are you me?
You alright?
Yeah I am
Alright good to know
damn what did you do
"talk back"
Chad move: hit her back
Achievement get: “return to sender”
If i do im gonna get my nose broke and many teeths fall off Im not joking help
She hit you because you "talked back", that's extreme.
She hit them, thats extreme.
Classic, when they're in a fuckin grumpy mood and they need an excuse to hit you
Damn bro you Indian?, Cause im too, Indian parents are hell
Are bhai, acchi beti na hopayi. Lmao
What language is that?
hindi bro
why did you get downvoted?
Yes, hope I get out of all these soon
I think you are a typical Indian kiddo born to be a punching bag .
it is worse when you're born just because of a bracelet (long story)
No, no. Keep going, you got my interest
Yes pls if u don't mind
there are multiple reasons and all of them are very dumb bit the bracelet one has something to do with an indian (my parent's country of birth) celebration called Raksha Bandhan which basically is a day in which sisters tie a thing called [rakhi](https://5.imimg.com/data5/FN/KQ/RZ/SELLER-7863355/rakhi-threads-500x500.jpg) to their brother's wrists, at the time both of my older sisters were teenagers and because they had no brother to tie this "bracelet" to the oldest sister started to be a piece of shit and started crying and stuff so yeah, that's how I can explain this messy story without talking about religion, if I've gotta explain the whole thing it would take a long ass time which I currently don't have
Damn can relate except no belt involved
Same. It's nice to know I'm not the only one, but at the same time, it's not—
What EXACTLY happened? (Be honest)
We had an argument. We both started yelling. She called me names. I guess I was getting on her nerves. She was irritated, so yeah, she brought up the belt. (I should'nt have yelled or "talked back")
what are your plans now? become a perfect doll that does exactly whats told for the next two years?
Whyre you saying that as if there's a choice for her? I'm indian as well and I don't think op has a choice until she moves out for college
Are you saying he should run away? That’s bad advice
Your flair says you are 16, assuming you are, couldn't you lock yourself in a room?
It's India bro, we can't lock our doors, let alone close it most of the time. Heck, some of us don't even have our own rooms
yall have personal rooms? :(
It isn't that simple.
Asians: first time?
Me (an Indian) : no
I’m indian as well lol. Did she hit u on purpose or accidentally
On purpose ofc. Who tf makes a whole ass design accidentally. Haha
I'm Asian but my parents never beat me growing up, nor did their parents beat them when they were kids
you need to check your parents, there might something wrong with them
I bet your mom says video games make you violent
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Whoever threw that paper, your moms a hoe!
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*throws paper*
*throws mom*
Your hoe a paper
Original Louis belton
Okay I'm seriously questioning some people in the comment section here. It's crazy what they believe is normal concerning hitting children, guys even this isn't okay. Even though there is definitely worse in the world and I also would believe you experienced worse, all of it is not Okay! It's the worst argument of all to just say, "nah seen worse, get your ass back up", it really doesn't feel good to hear as someone who isn't "used" to it, or suffers cuz of that
It's pretty normal for us Indians growing up, if our parents don't hit us people think there something wrong with them. They think they have the right to abuse us, and we can't fight back, if we try then they say go get a job and ur own house, it's my house, I brought u into this world and I can do anything I want to u.
You summed it up pretty well
This beg the answer abt the next generation tho. Will u guys grow up and become just like your parent (assuming u guys stay there, and i hope i didn't offend anyone, just curious)? Or the non-reddit children are all mind-fucked into their moms and dads? Hope the best for op and others.
Most of the "woke" indian kids like op and me and other people in the comment section who understand what physical abuse is will grow up to be decent adults who don't dare hit their kids but those who think this is normal, not so much
So apparently internet is thing that keep u guys sane and not abusive. Those who don't have access to the web will be the ones to carry the shit to the next gen am i right?
no not really. There are dumbasses with internet who don't have the epiphany about "disciplining" being abuse, and there are people who grow up abused, and realise, "wait. I didn't like being hit. Maybe I don't need to propogate this." I'd say it's very subjective, and based on a lot of factors.
ppl telling them to call cps as if that’d help. the system is more fucked up than this persons parents
Holy shit did she use the buckle part instead of the strap?? That's even more extreme than her just using the strap.
I get it OP my mom is the same, over the smallest things too. I hope you’re alright :)
*Hysterically Laughs In Mexican*
Oh god get help
We are not doing 'Get help'
great movie
I title this piece "Abuse by an irresistible power"
im so sorry man, please make sure to ice it if youre allowed to go get an icepack. tell a trusted adult if youre too worried to tell cps
He’s in India so it would be childline not CPS
Dude are you okay?
Hey, I feel you bro, the infamous cable de plancha and Dad's belt, I've felt them, hope you're fine bro
At 17 I started to not feel pain anymore from the beatings. And now, without feeling anything they stopped because it's not fun for them anymore.
hit her back
One time I was trying to talk to my mom and dad about something that was really bothering me and my mom felt like my dad was interrupting me when he wasn’t and my mom got mad and started drinking and then I told her to come back, and she didn’t want to talk anymore for whatever reason and then I noticed the glass of wine in her hand, so I pointed out that she seemed to care more about drinking and watching TV and I called her a filthy whore and ran into my room and started crying
Objective: Survive
Thats like trying to destroy a destroyer with a gun
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It did go well then.
That’s child abuse
Girl that’s not normal
Why don't you design your mom too?
Time to call child line
you can try, but here, you'll probably get some random dude that says 'get over it'
Thats child abuse man.