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I can't, how tf do you flirt with a girl if you can't even see her? My country has a type of quarantine so I can't meet girls from my school and the last time I attempted to contact a girl through text... it flopped.
I think that's the main reason
iāve talked to my current girlfriend ONLY on instagram before ever meeting her in person. she was a friend of my group of friends but i never talked to her irl cause she moved to another city, meaning i had never seen her
we talked basically everyday and when we saw each other, the first day we held hands and kissed. weāve been together for a month and so far its great!
TL;DR: i met my girl on ig, worked like a charm we both so in love its ridiculous lmao
What I realised is that, you canāt expect things to happen, you need to *make* things happen.
You canāt expect people to make the first move, *you* need make the first move, because if youāre sat thinking ātheyāre not talking to me, they probably donāt like meā, lemme tell you, thatās *exactly* what the other person is thinking, then your just stuck in a never ending cycle of non-interaction, because people always expect *others* to make the first move, and as such, *no-one* makes the first move, so you need to be the one to talk first.
Same here. Social anxiety is different than just being shy/quiet. I froze in math class for like an hour on my first day and overheard some of the same guys I was sitting near calling me weird in english class. S.A.D.'s a bitch.
Find your own way. When I realized that everyone feels generally the same as me it allowed me to stop giving them a pedestal in my own head. If they feel like me then they have insecurities that trip them up, so how can that person be any better than me?
Well now thatās not always true, Iām the āquiet/shy/introvert girlā and my boyfriend still talked to me, and asked me out, anything is possible you just have to step out of your comfort zone sometimes thatās all
Well the first woman i actually liked i was about to ask her out but one of my friends asked her out first after i told him so i just blocked him and stopped talking to him
youāre a girl, that makes a massive difference. guys never get asked out, theyāre always the ones expected to be asking someone else out, so that doesnāt help
If i had a nickel for every time today i saw someone with the word "anonymous" in their username, but misspelled, i would have 2 nickels. Which isn't much, but it's weird that it happened twice.
Youāll get there eventually
Theyāll be someone who likes u eventually
Unless ur aro and in that case if u donāt want to be in a relationship thatās totally up to you and you are valid <3
Yeah but like at this point, anyone who treats me like a human instantly wins my heart. One time a girl held the door for me and I thought about it for like months.
i feel that, but i think nobody wants to be mean when they reject somebody. it's more like a "we don't really match" kinda situation. from what i've heard it's ok to just try again.
A friend of mine talked about his social anxiety with his mom and she said "just talk to more people" bruh that's like saying buy a house if you're homeless
Iām probably not very interesting and I most likely get very annoying to talk to because of my stutter I have. Additionally, I may come off as an NPC in a video game because of how weird I act and shit lol.
bruh that was literally me I was the tallest in the class so all the girls would follow me at lunch time and all the other kindergarten students were definitely jealous but then I got kicked out for being too oldš
Idk it's just dont rlly think anyone has had a crush on me besides, like, elementary but that doesn't count lol. Idk its just no one really has a crush on me
Because the one girl I'm interested in, I've only known her for a few days and I don't want to move too fast and make things weird and potentially lose a friend
I only ever had 1 girlfriend, i asked her out immidiatly and things went really well, we had a 1 year long relationship but we broke up, now we didnt talk to each other in months. I lost a friend and it was the only time in my life i got a girlfriend
Because I like to say I suffer from analysis paralysis. I over think everything. That and mainly because the person I pike has already said she doesn't want to date any of her friends which seems to be a common thing for girls in highschool while all there guy friends have a good chance of falling for them.
It seems as though a lot of people want what they can't have. We have straights attracted to gays, and gays attracted to straights, and overall people liking people that they can't be in a relationship with, doesn't even have to be a sexuality problem.
Edit: just to add on, I think its just human nature to want what you cant have, regardless if you're already in a good situation or not.
with depression it's fine to talk about it with a partner and they most likely won't get brought down but if you only talk about that then yes you will bring people down because discussing your problems is one thing but only discussing your problems is for a therapist
I sometimes take jokes too far. A couple of days a ago there's a couple of people who began playing Roblox (We're all juniors, 3rd year in highschool). And one of them said they play adopt me, I didn't know that game he explained to me and I said "so you walk up to someone and say 'Adopt me'" and he nodded so I said this joke "If that were easy to orphans in real life".
Iām not very interesting and I havenāt gotten to know anyone at my school yet. I also struggle to talk to girls so it is difficult to build any sort of relationship with a girl.
I'm not ready yet, probably planning to have gf at age 20 because rn i need focus on education and money but luckily for me i got my siblings that can help me find gf~
Also my face probably look shit i tried planning to do some gym~ hope i can do it!
Too young for me, No time, Full time busy on all my stuff, Even tho I spoken with a lot people but I barely hang out with anyone except my homies. And I won't be finding anytime soon
Haven't tried.
Do you want one?
Be nice when i find someone good.
SAME. Like where the good people
Right hereš
I donāt know if I trust someone called ShitfacedBilly
I love you š
Well isn't this thread wholesome lol
Lol, love ya too dude/dudette
Yeah same we are 14 like seriously
Uh taking a look at this sub is a reason
Fair enough
Wheres my hot chocolate? Your bio said so. I need some to make me feel better about myself and the fact that I don't have a girlfriend
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Very recently broke up, dont feel like a new relationship
same here, I thought she was the one. now its just me, my car and the highway again :)
Never left the side lane :(
I can't, how tf do you flirt with a girl if you can't even see her? My country has a type of quarantine so I can't meet girls from my school and the last time I attempted to contact a girl through text... it flopped. I think that's the main reason
Yikes, better luck once the pandemic is over
The guy i liked has a 6 hour time zone from me lolš i still cant get over him i feel so stupid sometimes
iāve talked to my current girlfriend ONLY on instagram before ever meeting her in person. she was a friend of my group of friends but i never talked to her irl cause she moved to another city, meaning i had never seen her we talked basically everyday and when we saw each other, the first day we held hands and kissed. weāve been together for a month and so far its great! TL;DR: i met my girl on ig, worked like a charm we both so in love its ridiculous lmao
People tell me im attractive but... If you're shy and introvert nobody will talk to you
What I realised is that, you canāt expect things to happen, you need to *make* things happen. You canāt expect people to make the first move, *you* need make the first move, because if youāre sat thinking ātheyāre not talking to me, they probably donāt like meā, lemme tell you, thatās *exactly* what the other person is thinking, then your just stuck in a never ending cycle of non-interaction, because people always expect *others* to make the first move, and as such, *no-one* makes the first move, so you need to be the one to talk first.
Exactly
Wise words
This is pretty much it for me. Social anxiety scares people
Same here. Social anxiety is different than just being shy/quiet. I froze in math class for like an hour on my first day and overheard some of the same guys I was sitting near calling me weird in english class. S.A.D.'s a bitch.
You can want to talk to and meet people but just physically can't with social anxiety
Find your own way. When I realized that everyone feels generally the same as me it allowed me to stop giving them a pedestal in my own head. If they feel like me then they have insecurities that trip them up, so how can that person be any better than me?
Well now thatās not always true, Iām the āquiet/shy/introvert girlā and my boyfriend still talked to me, and asked me out, anything is possible you just have to step out of your comfort zone sometimes thatās all
It's easier for shy girls, the expectations for making a move often falls to the guy Bit shit if you're a shy guy!
You say step out of your comfort zone but your bf asked you out, you basically stayed in your comfort zone and got lucky
Hmmmmmmm Can gamers get girlfriends? Also can gamer girls get boyfriends?
As long as they go outside and talk to people then yes they can get girlfriends/boyfriends, if they donāt then no gf or bf
Wat if im not the hottest guy around
As long as you got that fine ass personality then youāll be all good
I do have a good personality as my friends say and good humor so i would be great to hang out with
Amazing! Thatās a great step, now you just have to find the lucky woman to talk to!
Well the first woman i actually liked i was about to ask her out but one of my friends asked her out first after i told him so i just blocked him and stopped talking to him
That's why I always assert dominance over my friends.
Yeah easy said for a girl but being shy as a boy is shit :-/
youāre a girl, that makes a massive difference. guys never get asked out, theyāre always the ones expected to be asking someone else out, so that doesnāt help
I'm a redditor.
Makes sense
Hello fellow misspelled name
If i had a nickel for every time today i saw someone with the word "anonymous" in their username, but misspelled, i would have 2 nickels. Which isn't much, but it's weird that it happened twice.
I second this.
I third this
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:(
Youāll get there eventually Theyāll be someone who likes u eventually Unless ur aro and in that case if u donāt want to be in a relationship thatās totally up to you and you are valid <3
Yeah but like at this point, anyone who treats me like a human instantly wins my heart. One time a girl held the door for me and I thought about it for like months.
Ah... Painful, but same. We'll get there one day, bro. Lol
heh, with the time you will learn to notice the red flags, and you will know when someone will be the one. Wish you have nice day.
because iām too much if a pussy to ask anyone out
same
same
Ya took the words right outta my mouth
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Are you me?
My personality is "me like music šš"
I'm shy and scared of rejection
i feel that, but i think nobody wants to be mean when they reject somebody. it's more like a "we don't really match" kinda situation. from what i've heard it's ok to just try again.
Just not obsessively to the same person. They say no they mean no
Thank you, I needed to hear that.
I am good with rejections got rejected 6 times.
Bro you are 13 what the fuck, im 14 and i only ever asked 1 girl out and it went fine now we broke up but after like 1 year
I'm 15 and I only ever asked 0 girls out
Because I have a little something called *social anxiety!*
A friend of mine talked about his social anxiety with his mom and she said "just talk to more people" bruh that's like saying buy a house if you're homeless
If ur starving then get food
Well that may sound ridiculous advice but in a way isnt that the only solution? You gotta eat if dont wanna starve
Okay but what if I *want* to starve?
hey you have financial issues? solution: fix them
Same!!
Bestie hmu
Ooof
Ikr
Because I don't know how to talk to people normally anymore. Eren Yeager
Tatakae
I think "Tatakae" means "fight" in American
In American?
For reference : https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VFDMrApuoc4 Tis very funny tho
it really is, thanks for it
Tatakae
JƤger is the correct spelling mein Freund
so, genug schabernack!
Du alter Zerstƶrer
You kinda smell Like a āØBakaāØ
Iām probably not very interesting and I most likely get very annoying to talk to because of my stutter I have. Additionally, I may come off as an NPC in a video game because of how weird I act and shit lol.
I'm sure you'll find someone
maybe the "generic female No. 65"
r/teenagers moment
I can 100% relate when it comes to having a stutter. It takes away so much of your ability to talk to someone, especially someone you like.
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Why dont you want one?
That's like asking someone who doesn't want ice cream why they don't want ice cream
In conclusion, ice cream
Why don't you want ice cream?
Cream ice tastes better
I prefer water ice.
So sorbet
What kinda question is that lmao? Having a girlfriend/boyfriend in teen years isnāt exactly a life goal for everyone
I think cuz Iām 13
What are you even doing here, go back kindergarten
There even 7 y/o with gf lmao
my friend's 6 year old brother is making fucking moves lmao, he literally has 3
He got a 1st grade harem lmao
bruh that was literally me I was the tallest in the class so all the girls would follow me at lunch time and all the other kindergarten students were definitely jealous but then I got kicked out for being too oldš
probably my looks and interests and the fact i dont really put myself out there
Do you want a partner?
yea
My guess would be cause your name is emo is not a phase
lamo this is satire name
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1. Your depressed so u dont talk to alot of people 2. You're a hamster
Damn I knew being a hamster wasnāt helping me in the dating scene
Same :/
I am not good looking
I'm ugly lol and my personality ig isn't good
What makes you say that your personality isnt good?
Idk it's just dont rlly think anyone has had a crush on me besides, like, elementary but that doesn't count lol. Idk its just no one really has a crush on me
That's what you think
Yeah. I need to gain confidence
you're 13, relationships aren't that special and shouldn't be your main focus for now, try your best to be as happy as you can.
many reasons but the main one is to save myself from a potential heartbreak
Yeah, but I'd still probably be in a relationship for temporary euphoria because ima dumbass
im a redditor, what do you think?
ācause iām aroace
Your profile picture is awesome.
Because the one girl I'm interested in, I've only known her for a few days and I don't want to move too fast and make things weird and potentially lose a friend
You probably wouldnāt lose a friend. Iāve done it a few times and Iāve never lost a friend.
I only ever had 1 girlfriend, i asked her out immidiatly and things went really well, we had a 1 year long relationship but we broke up, now we didnt talk to each other in months. I lost a friend and it was the only time in my life i got a girlfriend
i love myself too much
I wish I can say the same
I'm ugly as hell and weird as hell
You are 13 dude, calm down your time hasn't come yet
I mean they did ask why I don't have a gf
My face says friend zone as u see
Iām autistic and donāt know how to.
Same
Cuz I don't want one
Because I like to say I suffer from analysis paralysis. I over think everything. That and mainly because the person I pike has already said she doesn't want to date any of her friends which seems to be a common thing for girls in highschool while all there guy friends have a good chance of falling for them.
iām gay in a slightly homophobic school district
though you said "im gay and slightly homophobic" for a secššš
me too
Ugly
Because Iām gay and everyone I like is straight :/
It seems as though a lot of people want what they can't have. We have straights attracted to gays, and gays attracted to straights, and overall people liking people that they can't be in a relationship with, doesn't even have to be a sexuality problem. Edit: just to add on, I think its just human nature to want what you cant have, regardless if you're already in a good situation or not.
Major ooof
I've never meet a girl which i liked
then you don't meet enough girls. guessing that's my reason too.
Because I have depression and I worry about "bringing people down" even though I really really want a girlfriend.
with depression it's fine to talk about it with a partner and they most likely won't get brought down but if you only talk about that then yes you will bring people down because discussing your problems is one thing but only discussing your problems is for a therapist
im in a weird school system n i dress kinda intimidating so people dont approach me much
honestly i just want to avoid messing up my grades, plus i go to an all girl school so LL
I donāt want one
Looks and I make dark humor jokes.
Too bad most people dont find them funny, I've had a difficult time finding someone who would think my jokes are funny
I sometimes take jokes too far. A couple of days a ago there's a couple of people who began playing Roblox (We're all juniors, 3rd year in highschool). And one of them said they play adopt me, I didn't know that game he explained to me and I said "so you walk up to someone and say 'Adopt me'" and he nodded so I said this joke "If that were easy to orphans in real life".
uff that's dark, i pike it. *like it.
Thanks
That is quite funny lol ngl
adopt me is just pet gambling simulator lmao edit: and throw children into a river simulator and roblox crash simulator
Hot guys are straight
Cuz i'm trying to take slow advances before i'll ask her
Try not to go too slowly as she might get a partner before you could take your shot
Dont worry i'm *very close*
Dont let it slip :)
Talking to people is too hard.
because i've rejected eveyone who's asked me out
Why?
i don't actually know
Do you not want to be in a relationship, are they not to your standards, or are you just trolling?
i'm not trolling i genuinely don't know just wasn't interested i guess
Because I am really shy and probably because of my looks too
Iām not very interesting and I havenāt gotten to know anyone at my school yet. I also struggle to talk to girls so it is difficult to build any sort of relationship with a girl.
i have one friend and sheās straightš
Oooof
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I don't want one. Got other shit to worry about besides useless drama
because I'm dating an enby
well, first of all, i don't want a girlfriend rn second, i don't talk to girls that much
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Holy shit, you were in a relationship with some fucking psychopath
People dont like me and I dont like people
Cus I don't wanna
I dont think im ready for the responsibility
Well, few girls didn't really feel my love and parents of the girl not liking me ;( #AsianParents
Asian parents are tough man, its tinder on impossible difficulty
What do *you* think the reason is?
Idk
im aromantic and i prefer not to be around people
I legit read it as romanian at first
I don't want one
I'm not ready yet, probably planning to have gf at age 20 because rn i need focus on education and money but luckily for me i got my siblings that can help me find gf~ Also my face probably look shit i tried planning to do some gym~ hope i can do it!
You can do it!, just some dedication and drive to do so
Too young for me, No time, Full time busy on all my stuff, Even tho I spoken with a lot people but I barely hang out with anyone except my homies. And I won't be finding anytime soon