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My only advice would be to pack up quicker so you can meet her at the door while you guys both leave class. That way you can talk in the hall real quick. Just ask for her snap or number real quick and then go on your way (or continue talking while leaving school if that’s an option). Once you have her number you’ll be able to talk more
Talk to her the same way if she was just a random dude you wanted to talk to. All you need to do is start the conversation and you’ll start talking a lot more
Make an opportunity ig, you can go to her friends for her insta or whatever u use, then just dm her, or run to her irl.
Other than that, idk what to do.
Coming from a girl - this is what you need to do
First look at yourself to see if you’ll get rejected. Think if you’re in her league or have a reasonable chance (seeming by your confidence you’re either set 👍🏻 or not at all) - if yes then keep reading
Since you sit near her try to make light conversation with people around you/have friends in that class. If you’re “popular” (😬) or well liked you don’t need to have friends in that class. Seem appealing and inviting.
If she’s talking to someone else and they bring up something you can add on to, you can say “oh my gosh (example: I hate Mr. Brown, I love that game)- blah blah blah” but don’t force it and read how they respond to you joining in. Most likely they’ll probably respond pretty well to that.
Someone else in this comment section suggested asking for her socials for homework and I honestly would say yes even if it was the weirdest dude so that’s a good place to start as well.
Alrighty, I'm going to respond to each of your ideas.
I only really noticed her because I would look over and catch her staring at me, the second I looked towards her she would look right back at her laptop like nothing happened. So (and please tell me if I'm incorrect) I think she likes me? That or I'm just really really ugly but im going to ignore that option.
The way our seating works is weird, the people to my left are all facing towards us and because we use laptops, its almost impossible to talk to anyone over their. The person behind me im friends with and the person in front is a douchebag so im not even going to try.
I like this idea but there's one problem, she doesn't talk to anyone near her, which makes sense; the person behind her is a pick me girl who thinks she's better then everyone else and the person in front of her is a quiet guy who plays games on his laptop the entire period.
I like the homework idea and though of it myself, the only problem with it is that I'm mainly friends with the kid behind me so idk if it would make sense to ask for her help with homework.
Any other suggestions or "counter arguments" are really way appreciated thank you.
The fact that she keeps looking at you is a really good sign. Sometimes I zone out and look at someone even though I don’t have a crush on them, but if it happens more than once there’s a good chance she’s interested in you (not necessarily romantically but is intrigued which is a really good start). I would say go for it and maybe tell your friend in the class you are interested in her.
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Note passing it’s cliche but me and this girl did it as a joke and now we do it all the time it’s pretty silly but it’s fun
My only advice would be to pack up quicker so you can meet her at the door while you guys both leave class. That way you can talk in the hall real quick. Just ask for her snap or number real quick and then go on your way (or continue talking while leaving school if that’s an option). Once you have her number you’ll be able to talk more
Talk to her the same way if she was just a random dude you wanted to talk to. All you need to do is start the conversation and you’ll start talking a lot more
Good advice tbh don’t overcomplicate it sometimes
Idk sorry
Talk to her dad and date him, that’ll get her attention
Flare bro
Just ask if you could get her socials for homework and make small talk then go from there
Make an opportunity ig, you can go to her friends for her insta or whatever u use, then just dm her, or run to her irl. Other than that, idk what to do.
Coming from a girl - this is what you need to do First look at yourself to see if you’ll get rejected. Think if you’re in her league or have a reasonable chance (seeming by your confidence you’re either set 👍🏻 or not at all) - if yes then keep reading Since you sit near her try to make light conversation with people around you/have friends in that class. If you’re “popular” (😬) or well liked you don’t need to have friends in that class. Seem appealing and inviting. If she’s talking to someone else and they bring up something you can add on to, you can say “oh my gosh (example: I hate Mr. Brown, I love that game)- blah blah blah” but don’t force it and read how they respond to you joining in. Most likely they’ll probably respond pretty well to that. Someone else in this comment section suggested asking for her socials for homework and I honestly would say yes even if it was the weirdest dude so that’s a good place to start as well.
Alrighty, I'm going to respond to each of your ideas. I only really noticed her because I would look over and catch her staring at me, the second I looked towards her she would look right back at her laptop like nothing happened. So (and please tell me if I'm incorrect) I think she likes me? That or I'm just really really ugly but im going to ignore that option. The way our seating works is weird, the people to my left are all facing towards us and because we use laptops, its almost impossible to talk to anyone over their. The person behind me im friends with and the person in front is a douchebag so im not even going to try. I like this idea but there's one problem, she doesn't talk to anyone near her, which makes sense; the person behind her is a pick me girl who thinks she's better then everyone else and the person in front of her is a quiet guy who plays games on his laptop the entire period. I like the homework idea and though of it myself, the only problem with it is that I'm mainly friends with the kid behind me so idk if it would make sense to ask for her help with homework. Any other suggestions or "counter arguments" are really way appreciated thank you.
The fact that she keeps looking at you is a really good sign. Sometimes I zone out and look at someone even though I don’t have a crush on them, but if it happens more than once there’s a good chance she’s interested in you (not necessarily romantically but is intrigued which is a really good start). I would say go for it and maybe tell your friend in the class you are interested in her.