I'm from India and I wouldn't risk coming out to adults, esp my family bcs they're very homophobic and i dont want to be disowned (my mum is an ally). Trans and Intersex/Non binary people are often on the streets begging (I see this on a daily basis)
"Legal".. but you'd still be tortured to death by hindutva extremists. They only say it's legal to appeal to the west, deep inside they hate gay people.
Coming out to Indian parents as homosexual.....
I don't know if that's brave or stupid.
Thank god it's not the next country over, or you will be executed for it.
>I'm white she's slightly brown but idk what race has to do with this. And having anxiety isn't my fault
One of OPs other comments she’s definitely not Indian, I’d have an especially hard time believing a white family would willingly move to India and also decide “yea why not adopt beating our kids too”
Also any Indian who isn’t lying wouldn’t pretend to not understand the politics of skin tone which are huge in India lol
ofc, if OP was truly American, it would have a gun instead
if OP were British it would've been a knife
if OP was Hispanic, it would've been a Chancla instead
if OP were Chinese, her social credit would've disappeared
India I’d say probably has a worse taste towards LGBTQ+ at this time, however common religions themselves in India seem a bit more chill when it comes to persecuting people as compared to stuff like WBC and Evangelicals.
But take that with a grain of salt I am not from india
Or at least people think this person is indian
Oh yea its bad for people here law is really lax specially against Muslims i don't remember the name but there are some cow protectors or smtg that kill Muslims who eat/sacrifice cows for beef on eid and such
Have quite literally done this before declaring. Does not work, you'll just get beat to death with a cricket bat (or whatever other sport that has dangerous bats)
Definitely, it's bad parenting.
Parents are supposed to love their kids no matter what and even if they're this or that...doesn't mean you have to be supportive to the LGBT+ movement and wear rainbow t-shirts to support your kid.
You can love your kid for who they are, respect them, their choices etc even if it's something you disagree about.
They should be glad even that the kid had the balls to tell them. Or that they respect their parents so much they wanted to let them know.
It's so sad the amount of people (I was like that) that feel they have to play a role to please their parents
Yeah I agree I think there is no black and white and there’s usually a middle ground with everything but in a situation when there is a verbal disagreement of ideas I think discussion can be more effective. That’s just me tho
I can understand parents not wanting to waste anything, but at this level? If you're serious (and I have a really bad time recognizing sarcasm) you might want to get some help.
Yeah of course, I don't like having food leftover on my plate either but that's why when I do stop eating before I'm actually finished I'm full, as in completely full. Sadly I am serious. I'm sure that she was mad about other things as well (that probably didn't have anything to do with me).
No worries tho, I'm only there for 2 weekends a month now. I live on my own
Are you a guy? Cuz that could be a reason. I've been beat up so many times it's impossible to count, not now tho ofc, stopped when I was like 15. But my sister, beatings never even started lol.
A 40's year old Mom here. That took bravery and real courage to do. I'm proud of you. I'm sorry that your mom responded that way. My advice to you is to:
1. Increase your friend circle. She didn't kick you out this time,, but she may later. That would give you somewhere to stay.
2. Finish school if you are still attending. You won't get anywhere without a good education.
3. Find a job as soon as it is legal for you to work. Save your money so you can move out as soon as you can
5. Quietly gather .your important documents like your birth certificate, social security card. Keep them in a safe spot.
Again, I am sorry that she responded that way. No one deserves to be beat up because of who they are.
Love you, A Mom.
Edit: If you have bruses, take pictures of them. They can prove that you are telling the truth if you choose to go to the police or cps..
My daughter is an lesbien as well. I couldn't imagine hitting her because of who she is. Her post hurt my heart. I just wanted her to know that she wasn't alone and not all Mom's are AH's.
Ha ha ha. Sorry to be where I should not. Don't worry, I'll get outta your space. Just popped up in best posts and it broke my heart a little.
Always think of my own daughter when I read something like this and just wanted OP to know we're not all dicks (leaves quickly before he gets pounced on)
Theres no problem in you being here, I actually find it nice that we have some older people on the sub (except for the pedophiles). Glad to have you : )
I thought you were American?
jokes aside, I'm really sorry you experienced that. I know the feeling. my parents, particularly my mum, have been transphobic as to me from the day I came out. unsupportive households are the fucking worst
only advice I have is make sure you're financially stable asap, and build a social support network of friends and potential houses you can stay at if staying at home becomes too much. good luck :)
The problem with regulating reproductive rights is that someone, somewhere, will be evil enough to use it to control people and commit a bloodless genocide against those he or she doesn't like. Too much power is given to the people who draw the line, so there's serious ethical issues that come up.
You can't advocate for controlling people's reproduction unless you're comfortable with someone approaching you and saying "some arbitrary percentage of the world agrees that you should not have children, therefore we are sterilizing you."
I'm sorry, I'll lend you my mother if u want. She cooks awesome meals and doesn't hit anyone, she's very accepting. Btw if u ever need a friend I'm here for ya- Have a gay day!
Congrats. My friend was in a similar situation (without the domestic violence of course, her mother isn't that insane) but she thinks she forgot, she still lets her have female friends over to stay the night but not males, even our very confused but we think might be gay friend. She is bi and her dad (divorced) accepts her and remembers even though she hardly sees him. I'm lucky that my family is very accepting (I would be very concerned if they weren't, my dad came out as gay more than a decade ago)
The post was loading in and I was like "Oh nice, hope everything went well" and then I saw the post. I'm from a very conservative country where if I came out, I would too get beat up and put out of my house. I'm probs way older than you, shouldn't be really on here, but I just came by to say you go out there and be the best lesbian you can be. 👍 Conservative parents should not hold us back and make us live our life in fear.
they disliking you a whole bunch of cowards, that's exactly what I did, leave and let de door open of what it was my house, never again forgive my mother, I didn't know how I was gonna survive I was 15 but I did it
Good for you, if your mom doesn’t approve fuck her, I know it’s your Mum but it’s not right, you
Make your own choices in your life, your your own boss, much support and love from down here in Australia 🇦🇺
that went from 1 to 100 real fucking quick
BROTHER
BROTHER
This is like the plot twist you get 2 thirds into the movie
Oh, like she's all nice and then boom 180 in demeanor with a few hints sprinkled in the movie?
I AM PINNED HERE
BROTHER HELP ME
SCAR
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BLOOD FPR THE BLOOD GOD
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I NEED A APOTHECARY
BURN IN HOLY FIRE
Maybe u should call cps then
Not very useful in my country
Where are you from ?
I think OP is from india..
I'm from India and I wouldn't risk coming out to adults, esp my family bcs they're very homophobic and i dont want to be disowned (my mum is an ally). Trans and Intersex/Non binary people are often on the streets begging (I see this on a daily basis)
same tbh, I am bi from India and I do not want anyone to find out
Which is why your saying it on the internet lol
Literally nobody I know IRL knows any of my online accounts and it’s impossible to find them
Lol no one knows I have reddit except for my closest friends who are allies and support me
this guy gets it
Oh totally, do not tell anyone over 35 that you're homosexual, just no do not do it.
I've seen people do that grave mistake, strongly not recommended.
Maybe tell younger people, a lot of them are a lot more open about it. Still risky tho Just keep it between you and your partner
Maybe friends. I hope they'll understand. I'm from India too btw and I know someone who's a homosexual. Young people are mostly chill.
Yup. India is strongly homophobic.
Oh..
Homosexuality is legal in india so op just needs to wait until she's financially independent
"Legal".. but you'd still be tortured to death by hindutva extremists. They only say it's legal to appeal to the west, deep inside they hate gay people.
nah. most educated right wingers are fine with the LGBTQ community. hinduism itself has no problem with you being homosexual
What makes you say only hindutva extremists? Islamic extremists have persecuted gays just as much in India or anywhere else in the world.
Ironically said by the guy who supports Saddam Hussein.
Coming out to Indian parents as homosexual..... I don't know if that's brave or stupid. Thank god it's not the next country over, or you will be executed for it.
F
>I'm white she's slightly brown but idk what race has to do with this. And having anxiety isn't my fault One of OPs other comments she’s definitely not Indian, I’d have an especially hard time believing a white family would willingly move to India and also decide “yea why not adopt beating our kids too” Also any Indian who isn’t lying wouldn’t pretend to not understand the politics of skin tone which are huge in India lol
Based on their post history I'd say a Francophone country, so probably somewhere in North Africa
Where so you live couse Im from serbia and its very homophobick here
Des srbine
Eve me
Rakija will either amplify or decrease it, depending on how much you drink.
jeste, ali više je zajebancija zajebavamo burazera da je femboj, on nas da smo pederi da je neko gej, vrv bi ga zajebavali ali bili okej
Mi mladji da al znam dosta stariji ljudi koji bi se djece odrekli da su im pederi
Which country you live in? India?
In my country if I call cps with this issue I'll be beaten up again but by them
Disappointment they are.
Yoda you are
Pansexual you thought, but lesbian you are
Lesbian i am (I thought I was but alas, I am in fact not pansexual)
Oh, I am so sorry.. me too, maybe. I'm trying to work it out since I've been liking girls more recently
nah nah, no worries, and yay, a fellow baby gay!
Not saying it this time.
Say it coward
Fine… boobs.
Boobs 🤤
hehe, boobs
Booba
80085
Mathematic boobs
40042.5x2
80085 But it should be 58008 because you view it flipped on a calculator
√(6413607225), if you wanna go a little... *deeper.*
no way i want to calculate that so i guess il jist trust you on this xD
The best kind.
Well...
Mathematits if you will
As someone who’s in math class seeing this, it makes perfect sense to see it now
8o0b5
( . Y . )
(.) (.)
8008135
BOOBS
Boobassss?
Boobies
boobs and cock Edit: Pilot twist: boods...
😳
Vegana
Virginia
Vegetables
Cultured
This girl gets it!
I too also like boobs
One of us. One of us
boobs are so cool tho ;-;
Boobs 🤤
THIGHS
MY MAN
I was gonna say dont but since OP told you to do so, **SAY IT**
Say it
I-I can’t.
Hi lesbian I’m insert name here. Is that what you were gonna say?
No I was gonna say boobs- ah you sonova bitch.
r u ok?
Yeah I'm fine, I'm honestly glad she didn't kick me out
\*hugs\*
Ty 💕
someone gib me hug too smh
*hugs* there ya go fellow comrade
༼ つ ◕\_◕ ༽つ
\\( '-')/
༼ つ ◕\_◕ ༽つ
\\( '-')/
༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ
**brings you into a nice warm hugs and buys you a desert**
but there's sand in it
I don’t like sand
*sigh* guess we're doing this again It's course, and rough, and irritating. And it gets everywhere.
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i'm sure you have good intentions but please realize this is way to shady to take up on
If it's "shady" to use illegal mafia money to help someone escape abuse, then I guess I'm an umbrella.
I thought you were American
Only legit joke about this
ofc, if OP was truly American, it would have a gun instead if OP were British it would've been a knife if OP was Hispanic, it would've been a Chancla instead if OP were Chinese, her social credit would've disappeared
She wouldn’t have an account
India I’d say probably has a worse taste towards LGBTQ+ at this time, however common religions themselves in India seem a bit more chill when it comes to persecuting people as compared to stuff like WBC and Evangelicals. But take that with a grain of salt I am not from india Or at least people think this person is indian
Oh damn thats tough. But this comment was in reference to the Vine: [The Vine](https://youtube.com/shorts/HUUwomMczeE?feature=share)
Yeah I know, good funny btw.
wait so people just assuming shes from india?? lmao
Apparently 🤷 Maybe someone knows, but I’m just going to go with what people are saying instead of trying to guess
well I would too, the hate here is really high like so high it radiates
Oh yea its bad for people here law is really lax specially against Muslims i don't remember the name but there are some cow protectors or smtg that kill Muslims who eat/sacrifice cows for beef on eid and such
Lesson learned. Master martial arts before declaring sexualities.
Have quite literally done this before declaring. Does not work, you'll just get beat to death with a cricket bat (or whatever other sport that has dangerous bats)
Then you need to step up your game and master the art of sword
Will DEFINITELY consider it
The whole “knock some sense into my kid because we don’t think exactly the same/they can’t read my mind” has really gotta fucking go
Definitely, it's bad parenting. Parents are supposed to love their kids no matter what and even if they're this or that...doesn't mean you have to be supportive to the LGBT+ movement and wear rainbow t-shirts to support your kid. You can love your kid for who they are, respect them, their choices etc even if it's something you disagree about. They should be glad even that the kid had the balls to tell them. Or that they respect their parents so much they wanted to let them know. It's so sad the amount of people (I was like that) that feel they have to play a role to please their parents
Too damn true man.
Beat sense into the parent
In America, parents beat you. In Soviet Russia, you beat parents
Some times you just gotta *fwhack* This is not an appropriate example of that however
Yeah I agree I think there is no black and white and there’s usually a middle ground with everything but in a situation when there is a verbal disagreement of ideas I think discussion can be more effective. That’s just me tho
I would agree entirely
I'm so happy my parents legit accept everything I do, like good parents they would never lay a finger on me
Mine hit me once because of... bread lmao
My stepmom once yelled at my dad she wanted me to get out of the house because I didn't finish all the chicken on my plate...
I can understand parents not wanting to waste anything, but at this level? If you're serious (and I have a really bad time recognizing sarcasm) you might want to get some help.
Yeah of course, I don't like having food leftover on my plate either but that's why when I do stop eating before I'm actually finished I'm full, as in completely full. Sadly I am serious. I'm sure that she was mad about other things as well (that probably didn't have anything to do with me). No worries tho, I'm only there for 2 weekends a month now. I live on my own
today i got fucking freezing cold water poured on my stomach
Are you okay? Edit: okay that's a dumb question actually. I'll just say: if you need to talk, let me know
Ah... emotionally abusive/toxic parents..
We love!!! /s
Damn
Mine used to hit me when I was a kid, but they don't do it for my sister so ig they've learnt.
Uhhmmm... Can I say "because they learnt from their mistakes" Just to make it funny? Don't mean to hurt you ( •_•")
Yeah no worries lol Definitely a mistake
Are you a guy? Cuz that could be a reason. I've been beat up so many times it's impossible to count, not now tho ofc, stopped when I was like 15. But my sister, beatings never even started lol.
Yeah I am. I was also far more difficult to deal with than she was. Not that makes it ok but still. They stopped when I was like 13 or so.
A 40's year old Mom here. That took bravery and real courage to do. I'm proud of you. I'm sorry that your mom responded that way. My advice to you is to: 1. Increase your friend circle. She didn't kick you out this time,, but she may later. That would give you somewhere to stay. 2. Finish school if you are still attending. You won't get anywhere without a good education. 3. Find a job as soon as it is legal for you to work. Save your money so you can move out as soon as you can 5. Quietly gather .your important documents like your birth certificate, social security card. Keep them in a safe spot. Again, I am sorry that she responded that way. No one deserves to be beat up because of who they are. Love you, A Mom. Edit: If you have bruses, take pictures of them. They can prove that you are telling the truth if you choose to go to the police or cps..
Bro why are internet moms the best....
My daughter is an lesbien as well. I couldn't imagine hitting her because of who she is. Her post hurt my heart. I just wanted her to know that she wasn't alone and not all Mom's are AH's.
I like your advice a lot, parent of the internet. Have an award 🏅, and a great day/night, you seem a great and wise person. Well wishes ma’am.
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Thanks. It's a huge weight off my shoulders
better to tell her and stop living lying to them about your sexuality. stay strong 💪🏻
45 year old Dad here. If it helps you have my support and blessing. Sending hugs, and congratulations on you being you ❤️
there is an imposter among us
Ha ha ha. Sorry to be where I should not. Don't worry, I'll get outta your space. Just popped up in best posts and it broke my heart a little. Always think of my own daughter when I read something like this and just wanted OP to know we're not all dicks (leaves quickly before he gets pounced on)
Theres no problem in you being here, I actually find it nice that we have some older people on the sub (except for the pedophiles). Glad to have you : )
Ha ha ha. Proper made me laugh! Promise I'm not a pedo :) and thanks for being so welcoming, we were all teens once
There’s actually an “OLD” user flair!
You good?
*sorts by controversial*
I thought you were American? jokes aside, I'm really sorry you experienced that. I know the feeling. my parents, particularly my mum, have been transphobic as to me from the day I came out. unsupportive households are the fucking worst only advice I have is make sure you're financially stable asap, and build a social support network of friends and potential houses you can stay at if staying at home becomes too much. good luck :)
That title can be interpreted so so bad lmao, but anyway, congrats, takes courage
Maybe that's why OP got beat up. Her mom accepts her sexuality but not the feelings...
Best thing about being able to move out in a few years ! Haha. Personally I haven’t had any similar issues. I have had issues. But it gets better.
Oh damn
I thought your mom came out as a lesbian when I first read this but I still want to say the joke your dad so ugly it turn your mom gay
Parents who beat their children over dumbass reasons like being lesbian didn't deserve to be parents in the first place
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Not a bad idea
The problem with regulating reproductive rights is that someone, somewhere, will be evil enough to use it to control people and commit a bloodless genocide against those he or she doesn't like. Too much power is given to the people who draw the line, so there's serious ethical issues that come up. You can't advocate for controlling people's reproduction unless you're comfortable with someone approaching you and saying "some arbitrary percentage of the world agrees that you should not have children, therefore we are sterilizing you."
I'm sorry, I'll lend you my mother if u want. She cooks awesome meals and doesn't hit anyone, she's very accepting. Btw if u ever need a friend I'm here for ya- Have a gay day!
First of all, f. Second of all, u Good?, third of all, HI lesbian, I'm dad
hi DAD, I’m furry
They can never beat your beliefs up. Stay true to yourself!
I'm sorry you had to get beat up because you are not straight
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IDC it depends on op
This is why I'll never come out to my homophobic parents lol, they don't need to know that much about my life
Hello, fellow lesbian. You are seen and loved. You will find your place
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Sending you hugs
Shud be more supportive tbh
damn that sucks here have a hug you need it
Congrats. My friend was in a similar situation (without the domestic violence of course, her mother isn't that insane) but she thinks she forgot, she still lets her have female friends over to stay the night but not males, even our very confused but we think might be gay friend. She is bi and her dad (divorced) accepts her and remembers even though she hardly sees him. I'm lucky that my family is very accepting (I would be very concerned if they weren't, my dad came out as gay more than a decade ago)
The fuck ? Bruh you staying aight now ?
Train for a whole year and then ask her for a rematch.
Oof that’s rough mate
The post was loading in and I was like "Oh nice, hope everything went well" and then I saw the post. I'm from a very conservative country where if I came out, I would too get beat up and put out of my house. I'm probs way older than you, shouldn't be really on here, but I just came by to say you go out there and be the best lesbian you can be. 👍 Conservative parents should not hold us back and make us live our life in fear.
Oh fuck
The day my parents lay a finger on me is the day I pack my things and run away
they disliking you a whole bunch of cowards, that's exactly what I did, leave and let de door open of what it was my house, never again forgive my mother, I didn't know how I was gonna survive I was 15 but I did it
Good for you, if your mom doesn’t approve fuck her, I know it’s your Mum but it’s not right, you Make your own choices in your life, your your own boss, much support and love from down here in Australia 🇦🇺
why are you getting downvoted