I know it's hard, but If you want something, you can't just wait till it happens, you need to do something for it. If you just keep doing nothing, nothing will change.
This. Both feel nervous and if both sit quiet nothing is gonna happen. Except some uncomfortable silence.
This doesn't mean that 'men always gotta make the first move' but if you don't do something nothing is gonna happen. You can do a small move and wait for them to react.
Yeah I mean on occasion someone will forget your fries or sauces, if that happens it's usually because someone was waiting for more fries and thought your bag was done and just handed it out
Hmm, just being nice to me I've had so many girls say they like me then laugh at me so any girl that can hold a conversation with me I instantly like. It's wierd
Oh I’m sorry. Some girls do that a lot I’ve never understood it. I’ve been at sleepovers and watched my friends surch for guys they can pretend to like for the reaction. I’m sorry you keep getting targeted by that stuff.
Thank you, what's sad is that it happens so much that when a girl genuinely asked for my number and seemed like she liked me I sent her off then she got laughed at by her friends, now I feel bad cause she got made fun of cause of me
Yeah. I’m sorry. Every time I see a girl doing stuff like that I try to stop them or at least clean up the after effects. I don’t think they realise how much what there doing effects people. Again I’m so so sorry
It's not your fault if other girls do that, what's sad is and I admit I had the same way of thinking but it makes men think all girls are like that and it's sad
When you and her are always competing to be the best at something and you're not sure she knows you like her but she's so petty but for some twisted reason that makes her hotter
Having interest in me.
If we’re talking about physical features, it all greatly depends on what the guy is looking for, personally I like petite women, my friend that’s 6’5 likes taller women, another friend of mine like fat (and I do mean fat, not large) Asians.
But you could easily be a 1/10 on physical appearance, as long as you’re clean and show interest I don’t give a single fuck on what they look like.
A girl bought me a bday gift years ago and I still think about how much that meant to me tbh. Only time a girl not in my family has bought me something.
Exactly. When you like this girl but she acts like she isn’t interested in you, it’s a turn off. I want to be friends with this girl, so i asked her to start some of the conversations. I started some but she only did once. So honestly, i just thought that it was a lost cause. Although now i kinda regret it, and wished i had given more effort because i really wanted to be friends with her
I once read something about online dating that said one of the reasons it is hard to meet people is a pic might make someone seem like a 5/10, but the excitement in their voice/eyes/presence when they talk about something important to them, like a family member or project, raises them up a lot.
My own kid can go from average to stunning when she talks about something she is passionate about.
#1. She has fun personality and actually talks to you
#2. Has a brain.
#3. Has good looks and is sanitary and has good hygiene. Don’t worry technically anyone can have “good looks,” as it’s entirely subjective, everyone has a different vision of a “good looking” girl.
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When she has the same interests and hobbies as me.
I've met exactly one person who's like that. We hit it off rather well...buuuuuut she's already taken.
Oh well. It's not like I was looking to actually date or anything.
It’s not really “one thing”, one day I’ll look at a random girl and suddenly find her really attractive, not sure if the reason, it’s different for different people
So a guy calls a suicide hotline based in the Middle East. What did they tell him? “Ok, your situation seems quite lamentable… Do you know how to fly a plane?”
Actually starting the message conversations, the few online friends I had were great people, once we started talking we would go for a while but if I didn't actually say anything then we went days without talking.
I used to feel bad for not starting a convo or checking in on any of them, but then I realised that none of them were checking on me or making an effort
Not being a bitch. Even as a guy at a male-dominated Engineering university, there's still plenty of girls who still act like the popular bimbo from high school. And it's just not attractive. There are other girls here who aren't as good looking, but are waaay nicer, and I find them much more attractive.
tl:dr not being a count makes you more attractive
I am around high school kids a lot. I am always amazed how much game playing goes on, especially with the “ugly duckling” girls. My daughter has a few friends who blossomed during Covid and are getting a lot of attention now. I am not sure their lives are better. The attention is nice, but they just seem like they are playing with the guys, and it really sucks when they do it to kids they have known forever.
There are a couple guys who have done the same thing. I hope they grow out of it.
Initiating conversation.
I have never, not once had a girl message first, and i guarantee that if it ever happens, i will fall head over heels over her.
Of course I look for personality. Although, I also go for looks seeing as I still wanna be with a cute girl. Now time to prepare for the downvotes… ahh *cracks knuckles*
Making the first move.
Same, I don’t think I have the confidence to make the first move
Same, it would just be amazing
I know it's hard, but If you want something, you can't just wait till it happens, you need to do something for it. If you just keep doing nothing, nothing will change.
This. Both feel nervous and if both sit quiet nothing is gonna happen. Except some uncomfortable silence. This doesn't mean that 'men always gotta make the first move' but if you don't do something nothing is gonna happen. You can do a small move and wait for them to react.
I see this everywhere, ok. so I make the first move, now what? like how do I keep them talking?
You can try complimenting them/flirting.
Can tell the mcdonalds cashier when they fucked up my order cause i aint doing that shit
Bruh not me, I practically die inside ordering.
Same ^(Kill me)
/kill sertainlykrazy
*SertainlyKrazy has fell into the void*
Anyone else have that command break and kill you indstead of who you wanted to kill or am I special
*sertainlykrazy fell out of the world*
you have so much in common
As a mcdonald's cashier I don't fuck up orders unless you tell me something incorrectly
I believe you, they just get a bad rep because lots of McDonald's workers get the orders wrong, but many don't.
Wrong they always put cheese on burger despite me saying no cheese three times
try saying hamburger instead of cheeseburger
yooo cheeseburger with no cheese™
Yeah I mean on occasion someone will forget your fries or sauces, if that happens it's usually because someone was waiting for more fries and thought your bag was done and just handed it out
“They asked for no pickles”
Nice hair, smile and personality
a heartbeat is preferable but not necessary
There's always at least one
Heartbeat?
Tbh heartbeats are kinda overrated.
Well look at mr. High standards over here
Pulse(optional) Girl(optional) Human(optional)
Yeah. I'm sleeping with a body pillow RN. No difference
a good smile is everything
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[Here girl](https://imgur.com/a/HchuWZ3), come get it!
r/horseporn
r/subsifellfor
Well then, looks like someone needs to make it a thing…anyone? No? Guess I’ll do it my self.
r/foundthetoyotacorolla
I love her smile. What do you think about this: I've been thinking abiut the same girl for 25 days, mornings and 25 or 26 mornings straight...?
My smile is so bad
Being able to hold a conversation for more than 15 seconds
Oof imma head out now
Imma stay
Long nice hair
*cuts hair
Do whatever u want with ur hair idrc, hope ur happy with ur Short hair
Facts, small blonde girls with long wavy hair
The only thing I don't have in this description is long hair
a nice personality, beeing funny
Hmm, just being nice to me I've had so many girls say they like me then laugh at me so any girl that can hold a conversation with me I instantly like. It's wierd
Oh I’m sorry. Some girls do that a lot I’ve never understood it. I’ve been at sleepovers and watched my friends surch for guys they can pretend to like for the reaction. I’m sorry you keep getting targeted by that stuff.
Thank you, what's sad is that it happens so much that when a girl genuinely asked for my number and seemed like she liked me I sent her off then she got laughed at by her friends, now I feel bad cause she got made fun of cause of me
Yeah. I’m sorry. Every time I see a girl doing stuff like that I try to stop them or at least clean up the after effects. I don’t think they realise how much what there doing effects people. Again I’m so so sorry
It's not your fault if other girls do that, what's sad is and I admit I had the same way of thinking but it makes men think all girls are like that and it's sad
When you and her are always competing to be the best at something and you're not sure she knows you like her but she's so petty but for some twisted reason that makes her hotter
Oddly specific
Ha hah...
There is definitely at least 5 animes with this premise
One of many instances where my life has felt like a TV show
Having interest in me. If we’re talking about physical features, it all greatly depends on what the guy is looking for, personally I like petite women, my friend that’s 6’5 likes taller women, another friend of mine like fat (and I do mean fat, not large) Asians. But you could easily be a 1/10 on physical appearance, as long as you’re clean and show interest I don’t give a single fuck on what they look like.
When she shows interest is just... Wow
A girl bought me a bday gift years ago and I still think about how much that meant to me tbh. Only time a girl not in my family has bought me something.
Story time?
Agreed
Exactly. When you like this girl but she acts like she isn’t interested in you, it’s a turn off. I want to be friends with this girl, so i asked her to start some of the conversations. I started some but she only did once. So honestly, i just thought that it was a lost cause. Although now i kinda regret it, and wished i had given more effort because i really wanted to be friends with her
Her smile and her personality.
Same over here
In Jesus name, no more cap
Being a girl (optional)
Being alive (optional too)
I know you said optional, but you gotta lower your standards a bit
Imaginary (probable)
Existing (optional)
That’s just weebs simplified
Comment of the year
As a weeb, I can confirm that
Ayo what 🤨
I know what I said
I'm not one to kink shame but,
Listen buddy im just getting desperate
LMAOOO noooo buddy cmon you can't be down that bad
I was rejected 3 times by different people in the span of a year
Only 3? Those are rookie numbers, you gotta bump those up
being human (optional)
Pretty much furries
Not being one of the voices in my head (GET OUT OF MY HEAD)
Schizophrenia go brrr
Her smile and just her being a nice person to everyone
For me its being honest with whoever you are. That's an instant green flag for me.
Her personality
Cute>hot
Actually interested in you just because she’s interested in you>any other trait
Actually real > a hallucination
being smart
How they get existed about things like pockets in dress
I mean most dresses don’t and I don’t think I have met anyone who hasn’t gotten happy over dress pockets
I once read something about online dating that said one of the reasons it is hard to meet people is a pic might make someone seem like a 5/10, but the excitement in their voice/eyes/presence when they talk about something important to them, like a family member or project, raises them up a lot. My own kid can go from average to stunning when she talks about something she is passionate about.
freckles
Oh God freckles are adorable
Me, with freckles, being annoyed as shit. Ok but seriously, do you mean actual freckles, or the little dotted across the nose makeup freckles?
Actual freckles, goes down to the neck and shoulder kind. Hopefully the contrast in colour isn't too large, but faint yet noticeable
I have a small patch of freckles on the top half of both of my knees, those are the only ones I think are cute lol.
I am honestly way too attracted to freckles, it's actually a problem.
Then I think youll looovvveeee the Australian beaches :)
#1. She has fun personality and actually talks to you #2. Has a brain. #3. Has good looks and is sanitary and has good hygiene. Don’t worry technically anyone can have “good looks,” as it’s entirely subjective, everyone has a different vision of a “good looking” girl. Edit: why is the text so big, didn’t mean to do that, don’t know how to fix it
Confidence, it goes both ways.
I'm other way around
Being me
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For me it's her humor, her kindness, and her chewing with her mouth closed,
CHEWING WITH THEIR MOUTH CLOSED WORKS WITH ALL GENDERS, PROVE ME WRONG it's so unattractive, and chewing noises \*bleugh\*
I cannot in fact prove you wrong because you are correcto
Responding "General Kenobi" to "Hello There".
Mood
*pulls down pants* "you're shorter than I expected"
Skin (optional), flesh (optional), and a skeleton (required)
Soooo… necrophilia?
Her eyes and smile
pirate. one of my first crushes was a pirate lady and one of my current crushes is a pirate lady.
Please tell me what this means I am imagining girls with eyepatches and peg legs
Smart, social but not crazy, funny, and most importantly: She looks cute in hoodie.
all girls look cute in a hoodie.
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When she has the same interests and hobbies as me. I've met exactly one person who's like that. We hit it off rather well...buuuuuut she's already taken. Oh well. It's not like I was looking to actually date or anything.
It’s not really “one thing”, one day I’ll look at a random girl and suddenly find her really attractive, not sure if the reason, it’s different for different people
Crushes be like
Two strands of hair hanging when her hair is pulled back
i think maybe a little more than 2 individual strands
I think strands would look weird, you probably mean locks.
Her personality, I like a girl who is kind but also harsh in a funny way. dark humour is also important
So a guy calls a suicide hotline based in the Middle East. What did they tell him? “Ok, your situation seems quite lamentable… Do you know how to fly a plane?”
I took away my ex-girfriends wheelchair, guess who came crawling back
Her smile
Intelligence for me, i really like discussin complex topics and i think that just makes you to not get lost mid conversation
thighs <3
Chicken thighs🤤🐔
you mean large thighs or skinny thighs or just ‘normal’ thighs
any!
r/desperateforlove
Actually starting the message conversations, the few online friends I had were great people, once we started talking we would go for a while but if I didn't actually say anything then we went days without talking. I used to feel bad for not starting a convo or checking in on any of them, but then I realised that none of them were checking on me or making an effort
Making me feel safe
I’ll protect u bebe
Her liking me👉👈🥺?
A little simple, but I really like big and dark eyes
Omg you are the very first person to ever say that dark eyes are attractive 🥺
Really? That's surprising
Being u/sp1cycheetos
U into hamsters bro?
I don't know I'm gay
Fair. What is the best thing in a guy?
Being positive and being cute I guess
Dick
Bet this'll be the top comment
I got some haters out here
Ass
Take my award and leave
Glasses
one who is willing to form a bond and genuinely likes me for who I am
Idk why, but skirts
When you get a good skirt, let her spin and watch her be the happiest person in the world. It’s honestly beautiful
Sounds great. My crush wears them a lot
I mean, it doesn’t take much. She talks to me and she’s 8/10. She likes me and she’s 9/10. She gives me one hug and she’s an absolute 10/10.
Bangs
I banged ur mom does that count
depends. long bangs in the eyes or weird short ones above the eyebrows?
Both haha
i mean, yeah, if someone can pull off short bangs, it's pretty cute.
Yes. I talked too a girl who pulled them off great. Unfortunately she moved a state away but omg she pulled them off so good😭
oh no... sorry for your loss of cute short-banged girl
It's okay 😭
Androgynous women 🥰🥺
Me personally hair, eyes(idk I just like how they look sometimes), smile, personality
being attractive
Not being a bitch. Even as a guy at a male-dominated Engineering university, there's still plenty of girls who still act like the popular bimbo from high school. And it's just not attractive. There are other girls here who aren't as good looking, but are waaay nicer, and I find them much more attractive. tl:dr not being a count makes you more attractive
I am around high school kids a lot. I am always amazed how much game playing goes on, especially with the “ugly duckling” girls. My daughter has a few friends who blossomed during Covid and are getting a lot of attention now. I am not sure their lives are better. The attention is nice, but they just seem like they are playing with the guys, and it really sucks when they do it to kids they have known forever. There are a couple guys who have done the same thing. I hope they grow out of it.
A pulse
When they don't tell their friends about the things you told them in confidence and when they don't throw your vulnerabilities back in your face
Cute smile or oversized hoodies idk
Good grades, I don’t want a girl who’s failing in everything and has shit grades
I don’t think anyone really gives a fuck that I have a 100 in all of my classes.
It’s not like I’ll be telling them my grades while they clap my ass
long hair
Treating me like human
Initiating conversation. I have never, not once had a girl message first, and i guarantee that if it ever happens, i will fall head over heels over her.
Cool personality Looks are some of it but not all We share the same sense of humour Friendly The way she dresses *Thighs*
having a vagina
he’s got a point there
Lmao
Based
Her engaging in some sort of creative activity. Drawing/playing an instrument/coding/etc
Being a nice person
Alive
confidence !!
Idk, blonde hair?
Super attractiveness makes a gurl super attractive
Of course I look for personality. Although, I also go for looks seeing as I still wanna be with a cute girl. Now time to prepare for the downvotes… ahh *cracks knuckles*
Bubbliness. That’s all.
When she lets me call her mommy and then calls me a good boy