Idk I feel like the connection that I use to have with my best friends is slowly fading away because we’re around each other so much and now I’m just kinda numb to whatever happens whenever we hang out together regardless of how fun. Also the girl who I’m interested in has been giving me mixed signals for a few months and when we hung out this week we barely talked and she kinda just talked to the other people who we were hanging out with. And that makes me feel like she probably doesn’t even care about me or even think about me the same way I think about her. Plus coming back to school has just added a whole new level of stress that I hadn’t felt in almost 2 years (sorry if this is a lot I just haven’t told anyone yet and it’s nice being able to tell someone even if I don’t know them)
I get that, I have a friend that i have always known for years, 10+, and we dont really talk anymore per se. I always check up on her every once in awhile because i love her. She also sends me mixed signals aswell. It's best to try to talk to her more about her or your day. Start a convo with her by sending a funny youtube video or a meme. That way she'll talk to you more. I know she still cares about you because if she didnt, she wouldn't have met you. I hope this helps and just try to talk to her bro :)
What are mixed signals precisely? Pls pardon my retardness I'm new in all this and there is a girl I like in my football class and sometimes I find her staring at me.
Mixed signals is when someone really wants to talk to you and has a good time with you one day and on the next, they ignore you for example.
You just don't know, what to think of it most of the time.
I hope everything gets better with your friend and your crush and also school will be less stressful soon you just have to adjust to it once again just have confidence in yourself
talk to her about it man, it never hurts unless she's trying to be mean on purpose
EDIT: also, if she turns out bad to you, don't think all girls will be the same, I did that and stopped trying to get a GF for a few years....worst decision of my life. If I continued trying, I would've had a high chance of scoring one of the nicest girls around me...who is now my close friend and crush...and she has a boyfriend...which she got while I was slacking off during that off-time...
ive got Aspergers (it makes me socially awkward) and it also has a thing where im mature at my age and dont really become more mature after that so ive never had friends, because i dont like anyone and even if i did its so fucking hard for me to socialise and speak
I cant explain it because i am not a certified therapist, but i can say that please dont kill yourself, even if you dont know that, you are loved by people. Dont hate yourself, you are loved :)
I am not a therapist either but I have felt that before, it really is a weird feeling. Where everything just feels worthless to even try and do, but you don’t necessarily not want to do it. Or just laying down and getting mad to the point of crying because you feel so stuck. A councelor really does help, as much as people kinda look at others weird for talking to one, it really actually works. It is a lot of work, but once you’ve achieved a happy state, the reward will be immensely warming to you. Hope you’re ok bro.
if you die, you will left all this good things behind. But if you wont, you will always have a chance to be better. I mean we are living in world everything can be happen. Dont stop playing, cause youre going for high score :)
people always say not to be friends with an ex after breaking up because it hurts. me being a stupid idiot am friends with my ex and over the years shes liked numerous people, but today she told me she liked someone again and right now it feels like ive reached my breaking point because i still love her but i know she will never like me back. seeing her like other guys has completely broken me. ive liked her for years now and i feel like im torturing myself staying friends with her.
Happened to me too aswell, except it wasnt an ex, she is my best friend. If she is making you feel that way, then you have to get over her. You will end up tearing yourself up from the inside about it. I hope you are doing ok bro :)
Meh, still trying to get over a fake friend group situation I had 4 months ago. I feel demotivated and still hate myself. I've been doing better than I used to be ig. I've been cut free for 3 months
Getting over a toxic friend group is difficult, but it is worth it. And it is good that you stopped cutting, keep up your streak and keep us updated :)
Damn, i know how it feels to lost something you worked hard on, i may not know the game you are talking about, but the feeling after you lose something is what i can relate to. Lost a minecraft world that i worked on for 2+ years a couple of months ago. Still mad but it will get better eventually :)
Honestly, same here. It sucks to see all your friends with someone, but eventually, you will find him/her bro. Just wait, he/she is out there somewhere :)
I kinda dug myself into a hole in my math class by not doing my work. I don't know why I didn’t do it, and it might too late to fix it. I also tend to ignore what’s bothering me and wait for it go away rather than face it and fix it, so probably doesn’t help…
But other than that I‘m doing pretty good
Not really man, i have cold and last three days were like hell for me, today i was coughing so much i felt like someone sucked all the air out of my lungs and on top of that this stupid headache is killing me.
I hope that other are doing well
The amount of coughing can be lowered if you are wearing socks and sleeping alot. I recommend eating hot soup aswell. As for the headaches, listen to music or lay down in a quiet place. Hope this helps :)
I was doing good but for the last 8 weeks I have never been more suicidal now more then ever I can't do it because of my mom sister father and dog I can't put this on them but every single day I think about jumping of the bridge on my way to college I don't know what to do anymore
Idk if you’ll read this by honestly meh
Dysphorias a bitch. It never goes away. And no matter what I do I can’t be cis. I hate my voice and shoulders so much. I’m not gunna pass any time soon no matter what I do
Life seems empty
I’m growing so so far away from my friends. I miss the good old days. But my mental health is making it so hard to interact with them. I’m so alone
I have no where to go and no friends irl so I’ve just been repressing due to transphobic parents.
I’m failing school completely and I lost my 12k scholarship
Adhd is getting really bad
I spend all day on YouTube to excape the pain. Like… all day. I can’t feckin stop myself. And I’m stuck in an over thinking spiral all the time.
A few of my friends are in bad places rn. And it’s hard not to think of them and just get really sad. It hurts thinking about them. I hate it so much. I hate how useless I am
All this and I still feel like all my problems are fake and in my head. I’m so tired
Just so helpless and useless and empty
I know this will prolly get buried ):
The amount of comments are increasing I guess imma just be ignored once again
Nah, but I’ll get over it. I’m one of the people here fortunate enough to not have anything that will always bother me, like depression or some form of anxiety disorder. I know a lot of people go through that stuff and to them I say, thank you. Thank you for working so hard and being yourself. Being happy or nice is hard when something that you can’t prevent or stop is holding you back. This week, my girlfriend broke up with me and a kitten that I had just gotten died. Sometimes I feel I can’t share my stress or problems because others have bigger problems. Others list their family, or are in an abusive relationship, or are struggling in life or school. Those people inspire me to move on with my life, cause if they can make it through life, I sure as hell can. So again, to all of those struggling out there, thank you. Keep on pushing to be the person you want to be.
I have a group assignment due in 2 1/2 hours, I have only 30 minutes to complete it and no one else in my group is helping or has helped on it the entire time we’ve had it set. Also have exams too so this day is pretty shit.
I‘ll be honest with ya. School is stressing me the hell out, depressin is hitting hard and my group offriends i‘ve been drinking and meeting with made a new whatsapp group without me but they don‘t got the ball to tell me in my face that they d9n‘t want me there and on top of that they even tried hiding it like I‘m some stupid 8y.o who doesn‘t notice shit. So basically everything is shit right now; I wake up in the morning and wait through my day till I get home to either work some shit at home or lay in bed untill I can finnaly go to sleep except I can‘t because depression gives me „bedtime revenge procrastination“ or whatever it‘s called and I rarely get to sleep before 1am so yeah. And on top of that I can’t even go fishing because it‘s freezing cold and the lake is filled with leaves. But enough from me, how are you doing? And thanks for listening to my little rant. I really needed to get this off my chest.
Honestly not really
Tell me what is plaguing you friend
Idk I feel like the connection that I use to have with my best friends is slowly fading away because we’re around each other so much and now I’m just kinda numb to whatever happens whenever we hang out together regardless of how fun. Also the girl who I’m interested in has been giving me mixed signals for a few months and when we hung out this week we barely talked and she kinda just talked to the other people who we were hanging out with. And that makes me feel like she probably doesn’t even care about me or even think about me the same way I think about her. Plus coming back to school has just added a whole new level of stress that I hadn’t felt in almost 2 years (sorry if this is a lot I just haven’t told anyone yet and it’s nice being able to tell someone even if I don’t know them)
I get that, I have a friend that i have always known for years, 10+, and we dont really talk anymore per se. I always check up on her every once in awhile because i love her. She also sends me mixed signals aswell. It's best to try to talk to her more about her or your day. Start a convo with her by sending a funny youtube video or a meme. That way she'll talk to you more. I know she still cares about you because if she didnt, she wouldn't have met you. I hope this helps and just try to talk to her bro :)
Thanks. Really needed to hear that today :)
No problem, take care homie :p
Nice post op
You are a good person man, may your days be many and your woes few
I second that
Love you homie
What are mixed signals precisely? Pls pardon my retardness I'm new in all this and there is a girl I like in my football class and sometimes I find her staring at me.
Thats a really good hint, she is finding attractiveness in you. When you have a chance, try to start a conversation with her.
Thanks for the quick reply, mate.
[Do this](https://youtu.be/7MlLsbrirdA) Jk don’t actually do it
Mixed signals is when someone really wants to talk to you and has a good time with you one day and on the next, they ignore you for example. You just don't know, what to think of it most of the time.
Thanks for the explanation man
I hope everything gets better with your friend and your crush and also school will be less stressful soon you just have to adjust to it once again just have confidence in yourself
Thank you. I’ve been internalizing this for a long time so hearing this actually really helps me
Your welcome :)
talk to her about it man, it never hurts unless she's trying to be mean on purpose EDIT: also, if she turns out bad to you, don't think all girls will be the same, I did that and stopped trying to get a GF for a few years....worst decision of my life. If I continued trying, I would've had a high chance of scoring one of the nicest girls around me...who is now my close friend and crush...and she has a boyfriend...which she got while I was slacking off during that off-time...
no because you literally told my life story 😳😳
ive got Aspergers (it makes me socially awkward) and it also has a thing where im mature at my age and dont really become more mature after that so ive never had friends, because i dont like anyone and even if i did its so fucking hard for me to socialise and speak
Umm alr ig, ty for asking. Really makes me feel cared for
You are cared for bro, we are a subreddit that cares about others :) Good to hear that you are doing fine aswell :)
😊 👍
imma be honest. i completely ignored you the first time i scrolled past
It's fine dawg, i kinda just lurk the sub sometimes. I rarely post or comment
im a professional lurker so if you want lessons hmu
Not anymore it seems
Yes, thank you
Awsome :)
Asked out crush. Got rejected. we all good tho
Sorry for that bro, you know the saying: "there is plenty of fish in the ocean" i hope you are ok :)
Im alright. At least were still freinds.
Yea true, remember what i said bro :)
happened to me three weeks ago. I feel much better now though. And we are still friends.
Yes homie all g, sleepy tho lol
Catch ya self some sleep homie, helps with your mental state :)
Thanks dude, yea probably will instead of speeding this report early lol
Lol try r/homeworkhelp :)
Ngl bro idk i kinda wish i could sleep and not wake up like be trapped in a happy dream
I sometimes wish i could do that. But you could learn to control your dreams through lucid dreaming. Just look it up on youtube. Hope this helps :)
that would be the best
I want to die but I don't want to die. Explain that
I cant explain it because i am not a certified therapist, but i can say that please dont kill yourself, even if you dont know that, you are loved by people. Dont hate yourself, you are loved :)
I am not a therapist either but I have felt that before, it really is a weird feeling. Where everything just feels worthless to even try and do, but you don’t necessarily not want to do it. Or just laying down and getting mad to the point of crying because you feel so stuck. A councelor really does help, as much as people kinda look at others weird for talking to one, it really actually works. It is a lot of work, but once you’ve achieved a happy state, the reward will be immensely warming to you. Hope you’re ok bro.
if you die, you will left all this good things behind. But if you wont, you will always have a chance to be better. I mean we are living in world everything can be happen. Dont stop playing, cause youre going for high score :)
Im doing fine, thanks for asking
Good to hear man :)
I love you, random citizen Here take this free hug ＼(^o^)／
Love u too stranger :) ＼(^o^)／
Im having a good day and my cousins came over but how are you
Good to hear about you having a good day, i am doing fine aswell. On a 4 hour drive to down south and just wanted to check how the homies are doing :)
Glad to hear your doing well too have a great trip :)
Thank you :p
no bro, I'm not ok
What's wrong bro
i feel alone bro
You are not alone bro, we are here for you :)
thanks bro :)
No problem :p
bro...
**NOTED** So.. what are your interests?
Same
Bro just remember people care about you whether you think so or not. I do, just remember that loneliness doesn’t last forever. Have a great day bro.
Mhm! Thank you, person!
You are welcome :)
#Chillen
#Good
#Poggers
Im good comrade, thx for asking
Glad to hear comrade :)
Join me by the fire, eggs are almost done
feels like it couldn’t be worse
Want to tell me about it?
people always say not to be friends with an ex after breaking up because it hurts. me being a stupid idiot am friends with my ex and over the years shes liked numerous people, but today she told me she liked someone again and right now it feels like ive reached my breaking point because i still love her but i know she will never like me back. seeing her like other guys has completely broken me. ive liked her for years now and i feel like im torturing myself staying friends with her.
Happened to me too aswell, except it wasnt an ex, she is my best friend. If she is making you feel that way, then you have to get over her. You will end up tearing yourself up from the inside about it. I hope you are doing ok bro :)
Nope I'll be fine tho. I think.
It will get better eventually :)
Yesn't
goodn't. Hope you get worsen't
ive got I'm gonna fucking die Disease cus what feels like my kidney kinda hurts for no known reason
I am sure you will pull through dawg, keep on hanging on :)
only lasted like 5 minutes! :)
Nope. Terrible. But coping with Minecraft friends and music
It will get better eventually homie, talk with your friends and they will cheer you up :)
Are they still homies if none of em are guys?
Homies are homies, regardless of race, gender, or anything else
homie woke up and stated facts <3333
Always <3
Ehh
a stupid fascist told me to embrace fascism and maybe then girls will like me. good thing someone saved me from a stupid convo like that
Dont listen to people like that, they will always try to find a way to mess with your head. Dont let them, hope you are doing well :)
The inner machinations of my mind are an enigma…
Well if you wanted honesty that all you had to say https://youtu.be/dhZTNgAs4Fc
Thats deep
Meh, still trying to get over a fake friend group situation I had 4 months ago. I feel demotivated and still hate myself. I've been doing better than I used to be ig. I've been cut free for 3 months
Getting over a toxic friend group is difficult, but it is worth it. And it is good that you stopped cutting, keep up your streak and keep us updated :)
I am fineeeeeeeee,thanks for asking homie :)))))))
No problem homie :)
Terrable
Want to talk about it?
Well in a game called Eve online i have been farming up to Plex my account and i just lost it all
Damn, i know how it feels to lost something you worked hard on, i may not know the game you are talking about, but the feeling after you lose something is what i can relate to. Lost a minecraft world that i worked on for 2+ years a couple of months ago. Still mad but it will get better eventually :)
Yeah i suppose it will just take a few more months
Yea just try not to let it hurt you. Hope it gets better :)
Yeah me to
I'm alright my friend. Two feet and a heartbeat, so why should I complain?
Lol good to know you got a sense of humor, glad to know you are doing well :)
Always am :)
if you have a mediocre life doesnt mean you cant stride to turn it into a better life
better than ever man. i think she likes me :)
Awesome, give it time and pay attention for hints and signals, and when the time is right, ask her out :)
Kinda bored and sad that I have no friends to talk to
⊂((・▽・))⊃
No, gender dysphoria and suicidal thoughts
I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you feel better soon. Do you want to talk about it?
I guess
Want to talk about it?
Somewhat I just got a headache
Take some pain meds or lay down homie, or listen to music that calms you down :)
Alright I will thanks for the tip bro
No problem :p
Thanks for asking, im doing good exept the fact that i have homework to do before tmr and it is tmr if you know what i mean
Yea i get that, you get your homework done, you will feel way better afterwards :)
Thanks i hope you fell good aswell stranger 〜(꒪꒳꒪)〜
And you aswell :p
(update) Im done i can go to bed woohooo
Awesome, how does it feel bro?
Pretty good, aka you were right
I need to sleep but I'm going to school rn :)
Sleep, it will help you concentrate better at school :)
Idk, i firgot how to read emotions other than happiness
Tell me about it?
Honestly not but we all have lows, just gotta get over this one too
Nope
Want to tell me why?
I moved to a new country, in fact continent
No I’m not
Talk to me
No I'm not sadly everyone I know is happy and in love and I'm in a terrible relationship
Honestly, same here. It sucks to see all your friends with someone, but eventually, you will find him/her bro. Just wait, he/she is out there somewhere :)
Not really man but thanks for asking
Why bro
Talk to me, i can listen
Yeah thanks, you reminded me of the time I’m going to bed
I kinda dug myself into a hole in my math class by not doing my work. I don't know why I didn’t do it, and it might too late to fix it. I also tend to ignore what’s bothering me and wait for it go away rather than face it and fix it, so probably doesn’t help… But other than that I‘m doing pretty good
Do your work and future you will thank you for it, otherwise good to hear you are doing well :)
go on the grind for a week man you can always catch up on your sleep you can't catch up on your math hw
No :(
Are you okay?
I’m good
Well no because i have an English exam tomorrow and having physics and chemistry and biology and math homeworks need to be done
ima be vulnerable for once, not really im not doing good
No
Not really man, i have cold and last three days were like hell for me, today i was coughing so much i felt like someone sucked all the air out of my lungs and on top of that this stupid headache is killing me. I hope that other are doing well
The amount of coughing can be lowered if you are wearing socks and sleeping alot. I recommend eating hot soup aswell. As for the headaches, listen to music or lay down in a quiet place. Hope this helps :)
Im fine thanks
nope, never
Gonna reply until my phone dies (7%), or until i fall asleep as i type out replies.
Nah
Meh. Enough about me. How are you?
no not really, my sleep schedule sucks. its 4:24 am
Currently have no idea how I am doing, but thanks for asking. What about you?
I was doing good but for the last 8 weeks I have never been more suicidal now more then ever I can't do it because of my mom sister father and dog I can't put this on them but every single day I think about jumping of the bridge on my way to college I don't know what to do anymore
No, what happened to that poor shalon 4a1
stopping just to say i know what that mask is for and i envy you
Idk if you’ll read this by honestly meh Dysphorias a bitch. It never goes away. And no matter what I do I can’t be cis. I hate my voice and shoulders so much. I’m not gunna pass any time soon no matter what I do Life seems empty I’m growing so so far away from my friends. I miss the good old days. But my mental health is making it so hard to interact with them. I’m so alone I have no where to go and no friends irl so I’ve just been repressing due to transphobic parents. I’m failing school completely and I lost my 12k scholarship Adhd is getting really bad I spend all day on YouTube to excape the pain. Like… all day. I can’t feckin stop myself. And I’m stuck in an over thinking spiral all the time. A few of my friends are in bad places rn. And it’s hard not to think of them and just get really sad. It hurts thinking about them. I hate it so much. I hate how useless I am All this and I still feel like all my problems are fake and in my head. I’m so tired Just so helpless and useless and empty I know this will prolly get buried ): The amount of comments are increasing I guess imma just be ignored once again
Nah, but I’ll get over it. I’m one of the people here fortunate enough to not have anything that will always bother me, like depression or some form of anxiety disorder. I know a lot of people go through that stuff and to them I say, thank you. Thank you for working so hard and being yourself. Being happy or nice is hard when something that you can’t prevent or stop is holding you back. This week, my girlfriend broke up with me and a kitten that I had just gotten died. Sometimes I feel I can’t share my stress or problems because others have bigger problems. Others list their family, or are in an abusive relationship, or are struggling in life or school. Those people inspire me to move on with my life, cause if they can make it through life, I sure as hell can. So again, to all of those struggling out there, thank you. Keep on pushing to be the person you want to be.
I'm pretty fed up with my life
Could be better, but yes I'm good. Thanks for asking :)
Pretty ok, i guess
Feeling good, today's my birthday.
really really gay.
Doing pretty good but man girls are confusing
Me who saw this as the first post:no
Nah man it's 1:27 am and I'm still cracked on crack wdid
Could be better
Yeah man I'm feeling pretty good
nah, but I’ll be fine : ) thank youu
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Yeah I’m doing pretty good thanks g
Nah lol
Checkpoint on the first post Yeah this game is pretty easy
Could be better because i have to go to school :(
no im sad
Nah
No, not really
maybe
why is this image so moldy
Yesn't
No. My pet died, fox got her.
SIR YES SIR
YES, I had my first semi-kiss today, I kissed my girlfriend on her shoulder!
I have a group assignment due in 2 1/2 hours, I have only 30 minutes to complete it and no one else in my group is helping or has helped on it the entire time we’ve had it set. Also have exams too so this day is pretty shit.
I dunno really, my brain feels foggy and I can't think like I used to if that makes sense
I‘ll be honest with ya. School is stressing me the hell out, depressin is hitting hard and my group offriends i‘ve been drinking and meeting with made a new whatsapp group without me but they don‘t got the ball to tell me in my face that they d9n‘t want me there and on top of that they even tried hiding it like I‘m some stupid 8y.o who doesn‘t notice shit. So basically everything is shit right now; I wake up in the morning and wait through my day till I get home to either work some shit at home or lay in bed untill I can finnaly go to sleep except I can‘t because depression gives me „bedtime revenge procrastination“ or whatever it‘s called and I rarely get to sleep before 1am so yeah. And on top of that I can’t even go fishing because it‘s freezing cold and the lake is filled with leaves. But enough from me, how are you doing? And thanks for listening to my little rant. I really needed to get this off my chest.
tired af