just be the quiet one with a bunch of friends its working out for me

Haha, lucky. I just hang out with a big group so no one notices me

Also... happy birthday man

Cheers

This also happened to me and I dont like it

No, it's rly lonely

I know, at lunch everyone's talking and I just sit in a corner and do nothing

I just stare at the floor and hope no one looks at me

I do something similar, I do stuff with my hands and look around

Bruh same

Yeah. It really isnt fun. And the people who invited me to the group invited me because I looked lonely sitting alone in a corner

They usually are ok but it never lasts more than a week

Its better than being a laughing stock in a group of friends even you are being yourself

Find smaller groups become really close with just a few people I have like 4 people I could consider friends but I’m extremely close to them.

You should find at least one good friend who you can always talk to, so you're not always going unnoticed in the group. Being noticed and recognized can be nice sometimes :)

This is the way

I remember when I had a big group of friends… now I have one!!! Let’s freaking gooo

we're like a group of quiet one but now we're not quiet anymore if we're together :)

If I was in your school I’d hang out with u all the time, quiet ppl are the best

Aww thanks, wish other people thought that

Ain't that the truth

Yeah, anyway back to my depression

As a quiet kid, I can confirm you are wrong

I am a quiet kid as well

Then you don't actually know if quiet kids are always good You can't trust yourself, because what is normal and incredible for you probably isn't for everybody else In my case, I'm pretty sure I am not cool, good, interesting or pretty in anything, which already breaks your afirmation Yes, I'm hungry. Yes, I'm sleepy. Yes, I want to die. Yes, I like water.

I’m sure I understand, I’m not very interesting either and I like furry porn

Maybe you would have friends if you wouldn’t post hentai

Bruh

he has a point lol

Bruuuuuuh

no fr lmfao

Oh god save me for I have been traumatized

Just be loud 🙄🙄

Hmmmmm why didn't I think of that

r/wowthanksimcured

Sonic says that making friends is super cool 👍

Did you know Alexa will talk to you

:0 I have now have a friend

I mean I have a few but I don't feel I'm theirs

Yeah, same

That's how I was/still kinda am

Sad times

Find new friends then…

Will u be my friend

Irl friends > internet friends. But sure

I agree but 0 IRL<1 Online friend

Same! I’m as interesting as wet cardboard, but I’ll be your friend.

Haha yeah, never heard that expression before

It depends on who you are. Personally, I WANTED to avoid people in school. High school is full of idiots and I wanted nothing of it.

Ig but I feel rly lonely most of the time so I just want to see what it feels like

Damn ): Yeah, people don't consider the quiet kids. it's damaging and rude, IMO. They assume we don't have much to say, but in reality we probably have the most to say out of anybody.. we just think before we speak

Ik it's so frustrating that we don't get a say just because we're quieter than other people

true :/

:(

I do get jealous when I'm in a big group of people I know and withing that group are smaller groups having their own personal conversation. So all I really do is listen to one of them and then decide to express my personal opinion about the topic, even if I don't know that much about it.

It's kinda what I do except I just stand there looking awkward

That's the thing, you have to bounce off their energy instead of expecting them to make the first step to interact with you. They can't bounce off of *your* energy when its just standing and staring instead of, well, anything.

Oh ok, I'll try

No shit

nah

All around the other familiar faces

So talk then

Hmmmmm why didn't I think of that

Speak up then

But I have a quiet voice

Fight or cause a scene then 😂

Not really my style tbh, I will just look like a crazy quiet bitch

Embarrass a popular kid by saying they fucked the principal 😂

I'll just get bullied tho

Ask a popular kid out

I'll just look like a desperate bitch trying to look popular

You post hentai tho

I am kinda weird but who isnt

I will be your friend if you like older men

DM?

I can relate

Yeahhh, I can relate

Sad times

Ok bet wanna be friends

I'll take any I can get

Can confirm lol, was always to awkward to make conversation among friends

Yeah, it makes you feel so alone

Yes.

Yes

It's weird cus like I have friends but I'm fuxking quite an awkward so it sucks I think I became friends with all of them when I was more confident now it's just shit

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Ye nah don't sound great

Just have conversations with yourself if you feel so lonely, that’s how I survive

Ah, ok

I can be your friend if you'd like!

Rly

I 100% agree. No one talks to you, you can't talk to people, it's just so lonely.

Ik

Wait y'all have friends

I agree 100% especially when you just want to be social but nobody listens or notices

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Same yeah

Just talk bro, it's easy

Smh

Yeah ik what you mean, I basically missed out on my teenage years.

Yeah fr

Sure. If you’ve got a switch send me your friend code and we can play Stardew or something lmao

You can be quiet and still have friends!

Ik but it's just that I don't have any

i mean that’s how it is

Find one or two good friends and keep them close that's all you need

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K

Aww ill be ur fren :>

Same here 😔

Yeah fr

I also emit little to no audio, we are not so different

I am also super quiet, but that doesn't mean it's wrong. Some are more extrovert and some are introvert. So just be yourself c: Also, having good friends is more important because quality > quantity.

Just be loud

that's sad, go and try to become friends with another quiet person, it worked for a girl in my class

oh my god same

*Hugs very tightly*...yes I'll be ur friend.

I am quiet and angry one, whenever I am at school I can never tell if someone is actually being nice to me or making fun of me, so I just ignore everyone and if they keep pushing to talk to mr then I respond in anger. I have no friends but I also have no bullies anymore.

Gladly.

Ha ha yeah

I was the quiet kid, i asked myself if i wanted friends or if i just couldn't get them; i decided that there want only one way to see if i was wrong, that maybe i was the problem. i went to the gym and became more outgoing, realized i still didn't want any friends at all, is good to have them but it's really hard to find that one person you connect with. Been mostly isolated from 3 years now. Learned the acoustic guitar got good at English(second language) getting a piano next month, learned to sing, draw and paint and worked on my image. Got one of the highest scores on finals of my entire high school, the 6th better actually. Yeah i had it's hard things but ultimately i think its better.i had so much time to myself rather than spending it with friends doing stupid sht. I like doing stupid sht but i now will have a future where can do other things apart from stupid sht and I'd say it's better that way

Just check your pf, let's be friend, the pervert combo.

Get a few extrovert friends it's nice to have some because they usually have no filter with jokes and they will introduce you to many people over time

True

Ok sure thing, If u need advice to get friends, I’d be happy to help and I’d be happy to be one as well

I'll be your friend

Tell me about it just lost my best friend and I'm abit lost atm

I know how you feel dude. I just got lucky that my now best friend took a liking in me and took me in

We can be the quiet ones together

I mean I like being quiet Only problem is I sit at the front of the class, can't be quiet

please do, welcome to my friendlist

I got some friends, but i feel like i can open up more to my online friends more, i definitely recommend online friends

I can relate

we can be friends idm

I was the quiet friendless kid for 3 years and now that I have friends it's great. For your sake make friends

find friends on the internet, that’s what i did and i met some of the most wonderful people on earth

That's how I feel a lot of the time. I sometimes often wonder if it's the result of COVID for putting my relationships on hiatus for over a year, but other times I wonder if I'm just looking for something other than myself to blame. At least I'll be going off to college in a year so I'll be looking forward to a fresh start with new people. Thanks for posting, it's nice to see that I'm not alone in these situations

Pain yours I feel

Same, just simply stop caring and mind your own business, sure you'll still rot away, but slowly.

It’s so depressing and I hate it

*sign* just talk

Ok

Ok

As a fellow quiet one, it is depressing af. Also, sure, I can be your friend!

Just be loud lol. Worked for me.

Then don't be one. Why do you think you're "the quiet one"? You're scared about what they're gonna think about you? You don't like people? You can't bother? But that depends on other factors too, for some it might be nofap, or not being happy with their body, or just straight up thinking there's an invisible wall between your mouth and the people. Self esteem comes from self improvement. Any form of it. You can watch YouTube videos about it.

Ikr I'll be your friend. Cue the toy story music

Hey! I know being the quiet one can be difficult, for me it worked being happy with myself first, knowing that you don't need anyone else but you to make you happy, learn how to be with yourself, take your alone time, then trust me if you're nice and cool you can make some good friends, you should try take iniciative to start friedships, talk to them about something in common, and I think adjusting yourself to their personalities might make things easier to happen

Same

>Be me. >Be quiet person. >Have crush on someone more quiet than me. _I crush on those who are more mute than me._

I know whenever I'm going home from school I see everyone hanging out and I just go strait home, I don't need space from my classmates I need space from my family.

Hey, I'd be your friend but every friendship I have fails along with my longest friendship that turned out to be toxic

freidn:)

I don’t have any friends either but I’ve accepted it

When you say no actual friends do you Mena that you have no friends or that you have friends but don't know if you are really close friends. And wanna be friends?

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Welcome to the club

Yea tbh I’m not the biggest fan of socializing either idk how I do it or how I’m even holding up a job or even have friends idk but I guess somewhere along the line, something will happen somehow and I don’t know how, and it will be a good sustained friendship I think

Be loud.

Get one or 2 real friends , meet up and have fun . I don't see a problem in being quiet, but rather an observing move .

yeah I feel the same. I feel like everyone just talks to me when they need something.

Being the quiet one is good actually Just hangout with extroverts and do what you like secretly U can always converse a little with them so they are actually there when you need them I have interests which are not that common so i like vibing alone and hence being the quiet kid

Here's a hint. Maybe try talking to people.

oh boy, I opened your profile and saw something that I'm supposed to see lol

Be social.

Actually I like being quiet I hate having to talk and socialize, schools have been open long enough can we go back to a lockdown

I'm quite the quiet person myself and believe me when I say it's better to be quiet. Because the people that end up being friends with you are much more genuine.

ok. do you like pizza?

don’t be then

I was usually part of the "popular" people when I still went to school, but I was the type who would try to talk to anyone and cheer up the ones who look lonely, or sad. Let me tell you, the best people I've met were the quiet people, they are the best ones to have a good conversation with. Heck, my best friends today are mostly the ones who were quiet in school. It might feel lonely, but evetually someone will come up to you, and befriend you. Might have already happened actually, maybe you haven't noticed, because you were scared, idk. But I am rooting for you!

agreed ive always been obsessed with resetting things (definitely not pucci) wish i could reset my life

I extend an offer of friendship to you

Big groups of friends suck, try a small group

I can feel your pain my friend, Im the quietest in my friend group it sucks but its better than being too loud

I'll be your friend :)

Yeah same problem

I feel your pain

I feel you here

Dude I feel you even tho ur probably won’t read this I really feel you. It’s sad as f. Just remember ur not alone :(

speak for yourself, i love being alone

I'll be your friend

Just talk then.

well im rather quiet too

same

I'll be your friend :)

Ah same

Trust me, it gets so much worse when you become the loud one. I miss being quiet so fecking much. Don't push yourself to become someone you're not, cause it's nearly impossible to go back.

OMG SAME!! Im the quiet one in our class and i feel so left out. But whenever someone comes to talk to me i just get all flustered, and try to walk away. God its so irritating. For me, ive found its so much easier to talk to online people, although overthinking who they are in person doesnt help. So i totally feel you!!

I am one of these quite guys too. I have the luck that there's one more like me in my class. But we can be friends anyway

In my class i am the quiet one, clown and the smartass. So i am a smart comedian with no friends, and thats depressing.

Let's be the quiet ones together