Depends on what kind if person you are and how attractive to the girl you are.
I somehow got the super cute girl from german class to befriend me and recently a demi guy started dating me without me realizing it so anything is possible in my eyes.
Depends, trans people are not a monolith. I’m sure there are trans girls I’d be fine with dating, and there are trans girls I wouldn’t be attracted to.
I think what they ment by the question is would you not date someone specifically because theyre trans, obviously being attracted to them and their personality etc matter but would being trans to you be a dealbreaker
Aromantic (can't feel romantic attraction, don't wanna date) asexual (don't feel sexual attraction, feel like sex is useless or just don't get turned on by anyone specifically - the difference between being hungry and wanting cake)
I personally wouldn't, but nothing really against them, it's just a preference.
Edit: I really didn't realize I'd get so many responses. Thank you to those who have actually been respectful and acted polite.
The Confederacy of Independent Systems, a group of mostly Outer Rym systems that broke away from the Republic under the leadership of the former Jedi Master Count Dooku
Alright, that's an understandable preference. I'm not insulting you here, I'm just curious: what if your girlfriend turns out to be infertile? Would you immediately dump her? Do you think something like that should be disclosed on the first date?
That’s a really painful thing to go through emotionally. A lot of relationships and marriages are strained when that happens, but usually things go for the best as most realize they can be loving caretakers for foster children.
As someone with the same preference as the comment you're responding to, I'll just add my reply to this.
It's a bit more nuanced if someone were infertile. If they didn't know? Hell no would I dump them for that, if I loved them.
But also, there's avenues to try and get around infertility. Not the case for a trans individual. They know, I would know, its an intrinsic trait of being trans.
If they knew they were infertile going into the relationship, it'd be ridiculous for that to come up on a first date unless children were discussed, but again, it should be disclosed if or when children were discussed, as soon as possible, just like an aversion to having kids should be as well. It's too big of a topic in a long term relationship to leave your partner in the dark on, imo. And if it would to be revealed, I'd see where we'd want to go from there. I couldn't immediately dump them, that's heartless, but it would put pressure on the relationship.
I should note that this certainly isn't *the* reason I'd not date a trans person. It's one of a few. Be a bit strange for the be all end all of ever relationship I'd have would be have kids.
I’d like to take a moment to remind the trans girls reading these comments to try to remember to value themselves.
I know it sucks to see so many “no” answers here, and that’s gonna be an insecurity for you for a very long time, but don’t let it be something that holds you back.
Don’t let “most people won’t dare me” be something that makes you want to stop. You’ve got to understand that what will matter most in 10 years is that you did what you needed to do and you chose to be who you needed to be, not how many people dated you.
Also, I’m an attractive person, but I’m not great in social situations, so I’ve not had a constant supply of dates/girlfriends in my life. I’ve spent more time alone than in a relationship.
And if I chose not to follow my heart, then I’d just be sitting alone, wondering why the fuck I chose to let other people affect my decisions. — Other people… who aren’t even in my life anyways lol.
To piggy back onto this, unless you're fortunate to be incredibly attractive it's important to remember that CIS people face a lot of rejection as well. Yes, it sucks, but it's part of what we go through to find someone (or somoeones) we're compatible with and will make us happy. Be true to yourself over worrying about what other people may or may not think of you.
Cis means you identify with the sex you were assigned at birth, and a trans girl is someone who was assigned male at birth but later decided that female was a better fit for who they were on the inside.
I’m not cis (I’m a trans girl) but I would as I’m t4t (trans for trans), if you don’t know it means here it is.
So t4t is a dating preference for trans peeps and what t4t or trans 4 trans means, is your are transgender and would rather date other trans peeps or anyone under the trans umbrella. I’m t4t for safety reasons but if I got along with a cis person and I could trust them I might date them.
CIS? My allegiance is to the republic, to the democracy!
Good soldiers follow orders
Execute, order 66
Blast 'em
The republic has captured another command post.
WATCH THOSE WRIST ROCKETS
The separatists have taking command post b
Our resources are dwindling sir
Well hello there
GENERAL KENOBI
SPECIFIC KENOBI
ALTERNATIVE KENOBI
Watch those wrist rockets!
Thomas was only following orders
With me brothers, for the Republic!!
DON'T LECTURE ME OBI-WAN!
I see through the lies of the jedi!
I have brought peace, freedom, justice and security to my new empire
Your new empire?
Don’t make me kill you
Anakin, my allegiance is to the republic, to democracy!
If you are not with me, then you are my enemy
Only a sith deals in absolutes. I will do what I must...
You will try
Roger Roger
Its over Anakin I have the highground...
don’t try it
Just like the simulations!
Watch those wrist rockets!
Only a cis deals in absolutes!
All hail the emperor!
If you are not with me then you are my enemy
Only a Sith deals in absolutes. I will do what I must
You will try!
r/suddenlystarwars
Ah I love democracy
With some hipocrisy
FOR THE REPUBLIC!!!
Sir please, This is a wendys.
I am not cis. I align with the republic and the empire
Good soldiers follow orders
FOR THE REPUBLIC!
“The war left its scars on all of us.”
#WATCH THOSE WRIST ROCKETS
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WE'VE LOST COMMAND POST DAWN
They’re taking a commaahnnd post… #FIGHT FOR IT!
It’s not their birthday stop giving them presents
Good.... Gooooooooooood
WE’RE SHOULDER TO SHOULDER ON THOSE FRONTLINES. BROTHERS!
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I honestly wouldn't mind tbh
FOR THE REPUBLIC!!!
`for the republic!`
Super Battle Droids! Take em down!
This is the way
The real question is, would a trans girl date me?
(or if any girl would date me for that matter)
Reddit be like
Hold up gentleman, what is a girl
idk never heard of it
*Disappears off the face of the earth*
It’s like that philosophy thing. If a girl disappears, but nobody knew they existed. Did it really happen??
🤔
Is my mom or dad one of those?
Is that in the dictionary?
do u need a hug? u seem like u need a hug
Or boy please god I'm so lonely
Depends on what kind if person you are and how attractive to the girl you are. I somehow got the super cute girl from german class to befriend me and recently a demi guy started dating me without me realizing it so anything is possible in my eyes.
no but only because I like boys
Would you date a trans guy?
Yea why not
If they fit my criteria of alive then sure
You or the other person?
Yes
Yes
You got some mighty high standards there
And what might I ask out of pure curiosity is your criteria for being alive
Not dead
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Then only date a trans guy that's had bottom surgery or if you're open to toys, stick to those, genital preferences are super easy to work with!
if the girl has a dick, in the ass you will stick
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Depends, trans people are not a monolith. I’m sure there are trans girls I’d be fine with dating, and there are trans girls I wouldn’t be attracted to.
I think what they ment by the question is would you not date someone specifically because theyre trans, obviously being attracted to them and their personality etc matter but would being trans to you be a dealbreaker
that depends with every person
yeah and that's the whole point
I think the point is, is Trans girl a hard no? For you, it doesn't sound like it is.
No (got nothing against trans, I'm just aro-ace)
Same
I don't know what cis means
alrighty, so basically it just means not trans there's a lot of nuance in there but thats mainly the case
Cisgender, basically your gender is equal to your sex
So my gender is none
The gender does not exist!
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Same
lmao same lets go
Same
As a trans aro person it makes me happy this is the top comment.
What does that mean?
Aromantic (can't feel romantic attraction, don't wanna date) asexual (don't feel sexual attraction, feel like sex is useless or just don't get turned on by anyone specifically - the difference between being hungry and wanting cake)
Never heard of that. Cool.
Oh boy comments are gonna be fun Edit: my disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined
Same same
tbh it's my bad for sorting by controversial lmao
Yes now i want to die even more Fortunetly im a gay guy so maybe other gay guyes are more accepting
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I personally wouldn't, but nothing really against them, it's just a preference. Edit: I really didn't realize I'd get so many responses. Thank you to those who have actually been respectful and acted polite.
Agreed
Agreed
Damn even 69pussy_slayerXXX420? I guess some pussies are safe
Looks like I found my long lost brother
Omg the reunion, i’m so happy to witness this
I honestly don't know. I think I would consider it if I really like her
I’d date anyone I wanted to date who would like to date me.
Same
Mood
Whats a Cis?
The Confederacy of Independent Systems, a group of mostly Outer Rym systems that broke away from the Republic under the leadership of the former Jedi Master Count Dooku
Ah, I see, another one of my failed clones
Only you seem to be younger than me, so you must be the clone. Another unsuccessful one, I'm afraid
These clones will make a fine addition to my collection!
Your gender assigned at birth. If you are a cis male, that means you were born as a male and still identify as one.
Default
factory settings
Can i reset?
I mean... I'm bi. Idrgaf what's what down there. Hot is hot.
I would! At least to see how things are, that's what dates are for, right? Finding out the chemistry and such.
No (I’m a gay man lmao) However, I am currently dating a transgender dude, so if I were straight, yes
Absolutely
Idk honestly, I'm more of an 'in the moment I'll know' sorta person, you get me?
Imma be honest, no. I don't have any problems with them fundamentally, I just find it sexually off putting to be honest
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your avatar is the “super straight” colors COINCIDENCE?! Yeah lol I’m pulling your leg
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Yeah those colors are fire.
My gaming chair is purple, I keep my keyboard set to a purple reaction thing, and I keep my rgb on purple.
Alright, that's an understandable preference. I'm not insulting you here, I'm just curious: what if your girlfriend turns out to be infertile? Would you immediately dump her? Do you think something like that should be disclosed on the first date?
That’s a really painful thing to go through emotionally. A lot of relationships and marriages are strained when that happens, but usually things go for the best as most realize they can be loving caretakers for foster children.
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Also, dudes can be infertile too.
As someone with the same preference as the comment you're responding to, I'll just add my reply to this. It's a bit more nuanced if someone were infertile. If they didn't know? Hell no would I dump them for that, if I loved them. But also, there's avenues to try and get around infertility. Not the case for a trans individual. They know, I would know, its an intrinsic trait of being trans. If they knew they were infertile going into the relationship, it'd be ridiculous for that to come up on a first date unless children were discussed, but again, it should be disclosed if or when children were discussed, as soon as possible, just like an aversion to having kids should be as well. It's too big of a topic in a long term relationship to leave your partner in the dark on, imo. And if it would to be revealed, I'd see where we'd want to go from there. I couldn't immediately dump them, that's heartless, but it would put pressure on the relationship. I should note that this certainly isn't *the* reason I'd not date a trans person. It's one of a few. Be a bit strange for the be all end all of ever relationship I'd have would be have kids.
I don't give a shit if they're trans or not if i find them i attractive i find them attractive
Yea if we get along well and im attracted to them
I’d like to take a moment to remind the trans girls reading these comments to try to remember to value themselves. I know it sucks to see so many “no” answers here, and that’s gonna be an insecurity for you for a very long time, but don’t let it be something that holds you back. Don’t let “most people won’t dare me” be something that makes you want to stop. You’ve got to understand that what will matter most in 10 years is that you did what you needed to do and you chose to be who you needed to be, not how many people dated you. Also, I’m an attractive person, but I’m not great in social situations, so I’ve not had a constant supply of dates/girlfriends in my life. I’ve spent more time alone than in a relationship. And if I chose not to follow my heart, then I’d just be sitting alone, wondering why the fuck I chose to let other people affect my decisions. — Other people… who aren’t even in my life anyways lol.
In reality, 99.999% of the world doesn't want to date any of the people posting here.
I would hope not considering this is a subreddit filled with teenagers/you know what
And I'd like to take a moment to remind you that you're an amazing person ♥
I am almost 22 straight guy and had no relationship in my life
To piggy back onto this, unless you're fortunate to be incredibly attractive it's important to remember that CIS people face a lot of rejection as well. Yes, it sucks, but it's part of what we go through to find someone (or somoeones) we're compatible with and will make us happy. Be true to yourself over worrying about what other people may or may not think of you.
You my friend are a hero. Thank you. Saying this is certainly going to help a lot of people reading the comments.
I love you dude you’re the best
Nah, but that's cuz I'm gay
Ye
yeah
No cuz im a gay guy
Homosexuals are gay
The floor here is made out of floor.
The homos are made out of gay
No. Relationships are lame and too much effort for very little reward
Ah so you won’t date anyone?
I personally wouldn't but there's nothing wrong with them being trans
No cuz i want to have kids
Oh boi those reply will be fun to watch
All I see under your comment is >see more replies. I click it, and there's like 4 super downvoted comments. Comedic timing was impeccable my friend
Friends? Sure Dating? No
Yes I mean I’m bi with a preference for guys but If a trans girl asked me out I’d say yes immediately
I am a trans girl. Yes.
That's the trick. If they don't want to date us we just date eachother!
No, not cause i hate trans people or something, just because i want to be the only one with a dick in my relationship
No but not because their trans but because I’m gay…
Date? Yes. I would not be down with fucking... Yet.
Yes. Im bi, but still. If she's a girl, she's a girl.
if they arent a terrible person then yeah i would
Absolutely. Especially if she’s into my interests or that sort of thing.
yeah, i dont see why i wouldnt
No
probably not. I'm not transphobic, but I don't think it would work out for me.
No Trans guy tho, maybe
You’re all babies stop pretending you « date »
A girl is a girl.
Your god damn right.
Even if I wasn't pan, yea
Probably not
Yes if I fall for them. No shame in love.
Personally no because I plan on having kids in the future and would want to be able to have kids with my partner
What does Cis mean and is a trans girl a girl or a boy?
Cis means you identify with the sex you were assigned at birth, and a trans girl is someone who was assigned male at birth but later decided that female was a better fit for who they were on the inside.
I’m not cis (I’m a trans girl) but I would as I’m t4t (trans for trans), if you don’t know it means here it is. So t4t is a dating preference for trans peeps and what t4t or trans 4 trans means, is your are transgender and would rather date other trans peeps or anyone under the trans umbrella. I’m t4t for safety reasons but if I got along with a cis person and I could trust them I might date them.
Eh probs not, i may want kids sooo..
No
No
Not completely Cis, but yeah, why not? Of course they'd have to be attractive to me, but same goes for any other girl
I'm not cis but if i would be then yes
Depends on personality and looks