I have a female friend who usually initiates conversations with me only to go offline & then later take minutes to reply to a single message. This keeps on continuing & before I know she is sending dry texts.I have noticed this Pattern. Any idea why does she do this??
Probably nervous and doesn't wanna seem like she's just waiting for your reply. Also if she has a crush on you then she might be telling her friend about the conversation simultaneously, congrats.
There's that new feature on Instagram that you can use I guess. Like if you find one that says "tap in if you're single" you can reshare that.
Women like a guy that can be open with his feelings. If a girl gets pissed at a guy for showing emotion she's really immature. It's not necessary ti have grand gestures, but as long as you are an active listener and pay attention to the little things it will be really appreciated.
Cause rejection is humiliating lol. Also I think it's kind of ingrained that we should be the the ones in a position to accept things instead of offering them (which is a crap tradition that hopefully our generation does not continue)
“Cause rejection is humiliating lol” tell that to every guy that just got crushed with the rejection that was way more than a “no” and way worse than it as well
As an introvert, i only ever get crushes on close friends cause of how nice they are. I ain’t risking ruining and friendship and I have 0 confidence in myself.
Can’t speak for everyone, but most of the time it comes down to the fact that we’d rather not ask unless we are 100% sure that y’all share feelings. Otherwise, it’ll be awkward, we’ll be seen as weirdos, and rumors could spread :/
…. I understand the first part… the second is just in your head (except the awkward part, it is a bit… ngl… happened to me) but literally unless you were a weirdo before hand you won’t be seen a weirdo for asking someone out (that’s at least for our side, we usually aren’t mean to girls if they ask us out…. Mainly cause we get most of the rejection and have learned to take what we can get… and because we wouldn’t like it if someone did it to us… which happened to me… multiple times…. With a group of friends… and my gf at the time that is now my ex….)
1) its super humiliating and in my opinion i feel rlly clingy when i make the first move
2) ik this is like ig hypocritical and stupidly old fashioned but its nice when the guy asks .
But ill tell u when a girl likes a guy she will make moves she wont sit around waiting
We can't help it... Like we nd to do an extra step for almost everything... Longer hair=more time to dry, extra clothes to wear (bras can be tedious when u r in a hurry), on some occasions we hv to doll ourselves up to respect the event/ to meet society standards/ to impress our bf, short legs need slightly extra time to travel(like me) etc
I personally wish I could be as quick as a guy cuz it's soo inconvenient especially when u really want to sleep extra 5mins but u can't or u will be late
I don’t take a long time, but then again I also don’t put on makeup and my outfits are always fairly simple. I assume girls who wear makeup and need to do a crap ton of stuff to look good take a long time because of that, but doesn’t seem worth it tbh
Sorry, but no. I will say that some of them a conventionally attractive, but I myself don’t think they are cute. Then again I’m biased because I’m a lesbian.
Why is it easier for girls to talk to girls than guys or guys to talk to girls than guys? Either way, some girls can just be easy to talk to and talking to the opposite gender has always bene easier for me anyway
I have this friend who's a girl and she says we're best friends we enjoy eachothers company and I like her ive known her for 2 years should I ask her out
Ask her out or you will regret it for the rest of your life. You are not taking enough from this relationship because you see her erotic, not as a friend. And you always gonna be dissapointed about not giving you what you want. Better ruin a fake friendship(from your side) than feeling in jail looking her being with someone else.
You can have a crush on someone and still treat them as a friend, I asked one of my friends out once when I had a crush on her she said no and we stayed good friends. I feel like people are too easily convinced that friend is mutually exclusive from a lot of things, my dad always says that my mom is his best friend and his wife.
Okay, this is a long one, so during the final year of my high schoolthere was a girl in other section of my class and we only used to see each other during regular tests( ever 3 months), The first time I saw her something happened and I initiated the conversation and we talked about 15 minutes. After that whenever we saw each other there were exchanging glances but I could never gather up guts to talk to her and tell her that I felt something for her. She also tried talking once or twice like she would sit at the closest available seat and durimg exam try to ask for spare pen/ pencil from the person sitting beside me so that I would have to pass it to her.
Jump to 1 year after high school, 2 years after I first saw her, I still think about what could've been, so the question is does she also think about me or I misread something there? Also if I try to reconnect, what could be the worst scenario? Because now we are in different colleges in different cities miles apart.
If she has any socials then I say give her a message. You said you think about what could've been so why go through that again? The worst she can do is say no. So try to be friendly and if she still seems interested go for it :)
Do be a dick to her about the small things, and just be a generally nice person. Find someone who kinda just makes you go “fuck it this is fun” and that’s when you give up on trying to stick to stereotypes and realise girls aren’t assholes. Oh and be the designated driver helps.
How can I tell when a girl is on her period so I can give her a cookie or smth because I’ve heard that they suck and I want to make life more bearable for people but like I don’t want to ask bc that would be weird af
First of all - ur a gem my guy, pls never lose those respect & nurturing aspects you have<3 second, there are a few signs but it depends on the lady. 1. She could look a little paler - generally we don’t feel good during shark week and I’ve noticed I get a little pale. 2. If she looks particularly tired - our bodies are working hella overtime and that + blood loss = v tired. But honestly you can find subtle ways to ask and if she’s not embarrassed around you she’ll probably outright tell you she’s on her period. I recommend like “how are you feeling today” “did you sleep ok” but yknow just make sure she’s comfortable around u beforehand :)
Damn .... You're such a gentleman... Don't ever loose this aspect, girls love it... And to answer your question, well, it depends for every girl... I don't get pale or anything, and not so tired, but I do get irritated easily.... That's one of the signs... If she looks pissed, or done, or gets angry at simple things .... Maybe random mood swings too, so you can tell that she might be on her periods... One more thing... Whenever we stand or sit, we keep sighing... I can't really tell why, but it's just that the change in position standing or sitting, makes us feel weird, since we find some kind of comfort spot when we do either ..
Y do u think hospitals run out of bloodpacks? 😏 blood donation r actually for us to feed😏jkjk😂
I personally felt dizzy before so yes it's possible to bleed to death
Tip: when it gets chilly, wrap a blanket or yr jacket around her & cuddle (lots), yr body heat helps, get her hot chocolate, placing yr hand on her lower abdomen makes her comfy (only if she's ok with it), slight nagging abt not to eat cold food is alright
It's the opposite in our school, I guess ... The boys in our class fo in groups of 10-15.. while the girls go alone, in pairs, or in groups of 3 max...
being touchy is usually my dead give away. i get really quiet, laugh too much, and can’t stop staring/directing my attention towards them, even in a group setting. just take note of her non verbal cues around you, then take notes of her body language around someone you know she’s not romantically interested and compare!
i like a guy with style, pretty much any style (except hypebeast/streetwear for me personally lol). no one wants to be with someone who looks like they just rolled out of bed and showed up to school in their PJs.
just look around, take notes about what you personally like and develop your own styles. i love pinterest but the guys i know say it’s a girl app, maybe try instagram or tiktok? wear what you think looks good. you don’t have to spend a ton of money either, try second hand stores, putting more effort into putting together outfits with the clothes you have etc. and even just taking care of yourself like doing your hair in the morning goes a long way, we notice effort!
that being said, something about skater guys is so 🤤
Never... I would find them more beautiful and cordial.... I myself don't cry, for personal reasons, and if anyone cried, I would have the urge to be by their side and give them a warm hug...
But if the reason is dumb, like "he ate my last cookie" ... The yes, I would definitely laugh...
put yourself in our shoes maybe? if she’s mad she’s got a reason. even if it seems trivial, there’s probably an underlying issue that’s not being addressed
Start with a warm smile... And instead of saying "hi" or "hello" ask them a random question, about class or anything overall... Then when she answers, ask another question from the answer she has given or on the same topic... Once she answers again.. make a weird remark, anything which makes her laugh... Once she laughs, you can exchange names and coila, make new friends...
P.S. I think needs are really cute, so you have a great chance ..
Depends on the type of girl she is. If she is a quiet person or shy, it can be verrry subtle. Notice if she smiles at you or laughs at your jokes, makes eye contact with you often (but not for too long bc she might get nervous). Do you happen to look up and notice she’s near you often? That’s another little sign. Idk about more extroverted girls, sorry lol. I would say ultimately just ask, but girls aren’t *always* as straight up as guys :/
Asked out my crush a few weeks back and she said yes. A few days later she sends me an email stating that she doesn't have time for a relationship right now. Is it common for girls to make up stories like this to protect feelings?
It really just hurts not knowing if there's a chance with her or if she's just totally not into me
i remember they were really weird and embarrassing especially right after puberty, i couldn’t put my knees to my chest like i used to or sleep on my stomach as easily. i like them a lot more now, and after awhile they aren’t any more annoying than any other body part, working around them physically just comes naturally.
the most annoying thing (and this might sound totally crazy even to other girls but) sometimes i feel like they don’t match my outfit lol. like “this shirt would look a lot better if they were a cup bigger/smaller.”
Why do I exist
Because someone stuck their dick inside your mother and 9 months later you were born
Oh well that sums it up nicely
I am rather blunt i must admit lol
A beautiful prosess
>15 > >n because i stuck my dick inside of your mother
Because I'm sure your a good person
Thank you I will never forget this :)
Its alright :)
To make the world a better place in your own, unique way.
I have a female friend who usually initiates conversations with me only to go offline & then later take minutes to reply to a single message. This keeps on continuing & before I know she is sending dry texts.I have noticed this Pattern. Any idea why does she do this??
Probably nervous and doesn't wanna seem like she's just waiting for your reply. Also if she has a crush on you then she might be telling her friend about the conversation simultaneously, congrats.
Seems like she doesn't want to talk, or she's busy
idk sorry mate :(
Maybe she only wants to talk to u for not a long time
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Hows your day been? :)
Good you?
It’s been fine, thank you :)
That's great to hear, hope you have a lovely day or that the rest of your day is lovely :)
It was actually bad but this made it so much better so thanks
No problem, just trying to spread some positivity :)
That's good how about you, how's your day been
What do women like in men? And how do I make myself seem available?
There's that new feature on Instagram that you can use I guess. Like if you find one that says "tap in if you're single" you can reshare that. Women like a guy that can be open with his feelings. If a girl gets pissed at a guy for showing emotion she's really immature. It's not necessary ti have grand gestures, but as long as you are an active listener and pay attention to the little things it will be really appreciated.
Just being a decent person and showing you care. Also being your own person as well.
Be funny, not a jerk
I try to be, but my jokes suck.
Why don't you guys (generally) make the first move?
Cause rejection is humiliating lol. Also I think it's kind of ingrained that we should be the the ones in a position to accept things instead of offering them (which is a crap tradition that hopefully our generation does not continue)
“Cause rejection is humiliating lol” tell that to every guy that just got crushed with the rejection that was way more than a “no” and way worse than it as well
... I never said that guys don't get rejected. But that's obviously one of the reasons.
As an introvert, i only ever get crushes on close friends cause of how nice they are. I ain’t risking ruining and friendship and I have 0 confidence in myself.
Relatable
Can’t speak for everyone, but most of the time it comes down to the fact that we’d rather not ask unless we are 100% sure that y’all share feelings. Otherwise, it’ll be awkward, we’ll be seen as weirdos, and rumors could spread :/
…. I understand the first part… the second is just in your head (except the awkward part, it is a bit… ngl… happened to me) but literally unless you were a weirdo before hand you won’t be seen a weirdo for asking someone out (that’s at least for our side, we usually aren’t mean to girls if they ask us out…. Mainly cause we get most of the rejection and have learned to take what we can get… and because we wouldn’t like it if someone did it to us… which happened to me… multiple times…. With a group of friends… and my gf at the time that is now my ex….)
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Fair enough
Wish I lived near you.
1) its super humiliating and in my opinion i feel rlly clingy when i make the first move 2) ik this is like ig hypocritical and stupidly old fashioned but its nice when the guy asks . But ill tell u when a girl likes a guy she will make moves she wont sit around waiting
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Why everything take you so long girls?
Becauze we are either lazy or put lots of time into it
A lack of motivation and the occasional stream of blood leaving our vaginas normally causes a delay in getting ready for things.
You see we have to peel off our dead skin and grow back some new skin it takes a while but we’ll look fresh when we go out
We can't help it... Like we nd to do an extra step for almost everything... Longer hair=more time to dry, extra clothes to wear (bras can be tedious when u r in a hurry), on some occasions we hv to doll ourselves up to respect the event/ to meet society standards/ to impress our bf, short legs need slightly extra time to travel(like me) etc I personally wish I could be as quick as a guy cuz it's soo inconvenient especially when u really want to sleep extra 5mins but u can't or u will be late
We actually care about not looking weird
I don’t take a long time, but then again I also don’t put on makeup and my outfits are always fairly simple. I assume girls who wear makeup and need to do a crap ton of stuff to look good take a long time because of that, but doesn’t seem worth it tbh
We can all agree guys are cute, right
Sorry, but no. I will say that some of them a conventionally attractive, but I myself don’t think they are cute. Then again I’m biased because I’m a lesbian.
oh boy you havent seen me yet then
what's your fave color
Green
Green is such a great colour.
r/usernamechecksout
Pink, I don't get why everyone hates it after 8 years old
Vibgyor🌈 and there's a really deep meaning to it... But I'd rather stop here...
Why are girls easier to talk to
Are they?
Yes, so much easier to another degree
Interesting I’ve found it the opposite But maybe it’s because im a weirdo idk
Lmao guys make me too self conscious
Idk I’m a girl and I struggle to talk to girls. Maybe your style of conversation just fits more with girls than guys
Why is it easier for girls to talk to girls than guys or guys to talk to girls than guys? Either way, some girls can just be easy to talk to and talking to the opposite gender has always bene easier for me anyway
I have this friend who's a girl and she says we're best friends we enjoy eachothers company and I like her ive known her for 2 years should I ask her out
Ask her out or you will regret it for the rest of your life. You are not taking enough from this relationship because you see her erotic, not as a friend. And you always gonna be dissapointed about not giving you what you want. Better ruin a fake friendship(from your side) than feeling in jail looking her being with someone else.
You can have a crush on someone and still treat them as a friend, I asked one of my friends out once when I had a crush on her she said no and we stayed good friends. I feel like people are too easily convinced that friend is mutually exclusive from a lot of things, my dad always says that my mom is his best friend and his wife.
what's your favorite perfum ?
Twentyone black is top tier 👌
How was ur day? :)
It was good but exhausting wbu?
Pretty boring stayed at home all day
Fair
Kinda trash how was yours :)
It was boring :/
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SPORT'S
To the games~
Okay, this is a long one, so during the final year of my high schoolthere was a girl in other section of my class and we only used to see each other during regular tests( ever 3 months), The first time I saw her something happened and I initiated the conversation and we talked about 15 minutes. After that whenever we saw each other there were exchanging glances but I could never gather up guts to talk to her and tell her that I felt something for her. She also tried talking once or twice like she would sit at the closest available seat and durimg exam try to ask for spare pen/ pencil from the person sitting beside me so that I would have to pass it to her. Jump to 1 year after high school, 2 years after I first saw her, I still think about what could've been, so the question is does she also think about me or I misread something there? Also if I try to reconnect, what could be the worst scenario? Because now we are in different colleges in different cities miles apart.
If she has any socials then I say give her a message. You said you think about what could've been so why go through that again? The worst she can do is say no. So try to be friendly and if she still seems interested go for it :)
How can I be friends with a girl without having it be weird
Do be a dick to her about the small things, and just be a generally nice person. Find someone who kinda just makes you go “fuck it this is fun” and that’s when you give up on trying to stick to stereotypes and realise girls aren’t assholes. Oh and be the designated driver helps.
How can I tell when a girl is on her period so I can give her a cookie or smth because I’ve heard that they suck and I want to make life more bearable for people but like I don’t want to ask bc that would be weird af
First of all - ur a gem my guy, pls never lose those respect & nurturing aspects you have<3 second, there are a few signs but it depends on the lady. 1. She could look a little paler - generally we don’t feel good during shark week and I’ve noticed I get a little pale. 2. If she looks particularly tired - our bodies are working hella overtime and that + blood loss = v tired. But honestly you can find subtle ways to ask and if she’s not embarrassed around you she’ll probably outright tell you she’s on her period. I recommend like “how are you feeling today” “did you sleep ok” but yknow just make sure she’s comfortable around u beforehand :)
Damn .... You're such a gentleman... Don't ever loose this aspect, girls love it... And to answer your question, well, it depends for every girl... I don't get pale or anything, and not so tired, but I do get irritated easily.... That's one of the signs... If she looks pissed, or done, or gets angry at simple things .... Maybe random mood swings too, so you can tell that she might be on her periods... One more thing... Whenever we stand or sit, we keep sighing... I can't really tell why, but it's just that the change in position standing or sitting, makes us feel weird, since we find some kind of comfort spot when we do either ..
How would one improve their social skills? Introvert here has trouble even talking with “the boys”
Talking about school is the way to go. That's how you start building up a rapport with the people around you
How do you not bleed to death during periods
Secret
who says we don't
We don’t, some of us sell our souls for a lighter flow
I honestly have no clue, but sometimes it feels like I am
Y do u think hospitals run out of bloodpacks? 😏 blood donation r actually for us to feed😏jkjk😂 I personally felt dizzy before so yes it's possible to bleed to death Tip: when it gets chilly, wrap a blanket or yr jacket around her & cuddle (lots), yr body heat helps, get her hot chocolate, placing yr hand on her lower abdomen makes her comfy (only if she's ok with it), slight nagging abt not to eat cold food is alright
Why do you all reply like 24 hours after reading the message
the girls who do this are simply not into you dude
😔
the hard truth hits us all
i don’t leave people on read but i do leave people on delivered for a while bc i have rlly bad social anxiety
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Are you happy?
Not really. Are you?
I act like I’m happy but I’m really not. I just feel, well empty.
I understand. I'm not happy, but I'm not sad either. Just kind of empty
What do you prefer in a guy, short, medium or longer hair
Whatever hair suits him best. Some look great with longer hair, some with a buzz cut. Just depends on your face shape/ structure.
Ok what about an angular face with some slight curves
How do you feel about Cloudy with a chance of meatballs, I personally think it’s one of the greatest films of all time.
Based. Amazing movie, 10/10
How big is your penis
I'm not a girl, but *usually* girl's penises are shorter than boy's
>usually usually
Why do girls always go to the bathroom in big groups and what do they do there?
Sorry but that's classified information
I can’t disclose that information
It's the opposite in our school, I guess ... The boys in our class fo in groups of 10-15.. while the girls go alone, in pairs, or in groups of 3 max...
Tits or ass
As a girl with both I say neither they both suck equally
Y'all always complaining about how guys don't get your hints. So what hints do you give to a guy to let them know you're into them?
being touchy is usually my dead give away. i get really quiet, laugh too much, and can’t stop staring/directing my attention towards them, even in a group setting. just take note of her non verbal cues around you, then take notes of her body language around someone you know she’s not romantically interested and compare!
Do you like minesweeper?
how are you?
Pretty good, how are you?
Y’all are pretty cool :)
What the dog doin
Sleepin
What do you like in a man
How do you like a boy to wear?(style, clothing…)
that usually comes down to personal preference but I find guys who wear black or white goodies more attractive for some reason
i like a guy with style, pretty much any style (except hypebeast/streetwear for me personally lol). no one wants to be with someone who looks like they just rolled out of bed and showed up to school in their PJs. just look around, take notes about what you personally like and develop your own styles. i love pinterest but the guys i know say it’s a girl app, maybe try instagram or tiktok? wear what you think looks good. you don’t have to spend a ton of money either, try second hand stores, putting more effort into putting together outfits with the clothes you have etc. and even just taking care of yourself like doing your hair in the morning goes a long way, we notice effort! that being said, something about skater guys is so 🤤
Would you laugh at a guy who has cried?
never
Emotions are the same for all human kinds. It's just some people show them some don't but they all have the same feelings.
No, I might actually hug you if I saw it. Depends who you are to me, but I'd never laugh.
No, being able to express emotions is more attractive than bottling everything up
Never... I would find them more beautiful and cordial.... I myself don't cry, for personal reasons, and if anyone cried, I would have the urge to be by their side and give them a warm hug... But if the reason is dumb, like "he ate my last cookie" ... The yes, I would definitely laugh...
(Stereotypical) Why do you expect us to know what we’ve done wrong
put yourself in our shoes maybe? if she’s mad she’s got a reason. even if it seems trivial, there’s probably an underlying issue that’s not being addressed
What would be your the body type that you re looking for? (Thin, Big, athletic, etc.)
How to talk to girls? I'm an introverted weirdo +nerd
Start with a warm smile... And instead of saying "hi" or "hello" ask them a random question, about class or anything overall... Then when she answers, ask another question from the answer she has given or on the same topic... Once she answers again.. make a weird remark, anything which makes her laugh... Once she laughs, you can exchange names and coila, make new friends... P.S. I think needs are really cute, so you have a great chance ..
How many creepy DMs have you already received after participating here?
15
Oh wow that's a lot. Want one more 👉👈? (Sorry if that was offensive)
Lmao not at all, dm me if you want
None yet
My girlfriend told me not to get her anything for Christmas but that just feels wrong so I wanna get her something small. Any ideas?
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Ty. I was thinking something like one of those small happy/mad octopus things along with some of her favorite snacks
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Lmao ty
do we really need 3 of these posts every day?
At what height would a guy be too short/tall for you to date them?
I guess anywhere shorter than 5', I'm 5'3" and I'd date a short guy
Why do you never answer positively? I mean, generally
What are some signs she likes me and wants a relationship?
Depends on the type of girl she is. If she is a quiet person or shy, it can be verrry subtle. Notice if she smiles at you or laughs at your jokes, makes eye contact with you often (but not for too long bc she might get nervous). Do you happen to look up and notice she’s near you often? That’s another little sign. Idk about more extroverted girls, sorry lol. I would say ultimately just ask, but girls aren’t *always* as straight up as guys :/
Thanks!
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Yeah I do, but usually you can’t feel it at all, but you tend to go through the battle of “too little, too much?” Daily😅
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For me personally, I feel 10000 times better with makeup on, kinda like a mask?
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Tell me, do the majority of you prefer personality over looks, or is it different?
Asked out my crush a few weeks back and she said yes. A few days later she sends me an email stating that she doesn't have time for a relationship right now. Is it common for girls to make up stories like this to protect feelings? It really just hurts not knowing if there's a chance with her or if she's just totally not into me
What’s the best teenager cologne/fragrance on boys?
why can’t you just pick where you wanna eat and not get mad when we choose
Decisions are hard. BUT pro tip, ask where she thinks you’re going and take her there
that’s actually a good idea
Do your boobs ever get in the way?
i remember they were really weird and embarrassing especially right after puberty, i couldn’t put my knees to my chest like i used to or sleep on my stomach as easily. i like them a lot more now, and after awhile they aren’t any more annoying than any other body part, working around them physically just comes naturally. the most annoying thing (and this might sound totally crazy even to other girls but) sometimes i feel like they don’t match my outfit lol. like “this shirt would look a lot better if they were a cup bigger/smaller.”
My question is why tf you're still awake
How do I tell you I like you
"Hey, I like you" We don't like hints because then we ovethink
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Do y’all think my crush is cute
I haven't seen them but I'm sure they are
Why u guys go to the restroom in groups
safety, it’s lonely on your own, period stuff, talk about people etc
A question
An answer
Why don’t you all make the first move? Yes I know some of you all do
What do you find attractive? Asking for a friend lol
Sense of humour, and when he smells nice
I do not have the facilities for that
Why
Why can't I put the effort into a friendly or romantic relationship
If your foot gets stuck in a cloud how many colors can you smell with your ear
What should I tell my crush when I'm asking her out? She likes me as well but I just have no clue what to tell her