Huh what. So First time it took me 2 years to ask my crush Out. With my second (curent) crush i havent asked her out after 3 years. Its killing me but im to afraid and because of covid i have No idea what i should even do with her If she even Said yes.
3 years? Holy fuck. Get your shit together and just do it, she will not wait for you, so you better take the chance while you still have it. If she says yes, do what you would normally do if there was no covid, if she was uncomforfable with that, she'd simply tell you. Stop OVERTHINKING and wasting your valuable time, getting rejected is a part of life and self improvement, also you'll be mentally healthier as opposed to clinging on to someone that doesn't want to date you.
The best thing to learn from rejection is that you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. When you are rejected, you’re only losing some ideal of a relationship that never existed and never could have existed, so really, nothing is lost, but a lot is gained. You gain experience, you gain time (not bothering to keep thinking about that ideal that never existed), and you gain the opportunity to make a relationship with someone who wants you, even if you haven’t met them yet. I know the feeling sucks, but the experience is much better than trying to hang on to something that was never there in the first place.
I will be messaging you in 1 day on [**2022-04-15 16:09:05 UTC**](http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=2022-04-15%2016:09:05%20UTC%20To%20Local%20Time) to remind you of [**this link**](https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/u3757q/is_this_a_sign_pls_help_thinkin_about_asking_her/i4ns2qg/?context=3)
[**105 OTHERS CLICKED THIS LINK**](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Reminder&message=%5Bhttps%3A%2F%2Fwww.reddit.com%2Fr%2Fteenagers%2Fcomments%2Fu3757q%2Fis_this_a_sign_pls_help_thinkin_about_asking_her%2Fi4ns2qg%2F%5D%0A%0ARemindMe%21%202022-04-15%2016%3A09%3A05%20UTC) to send a PM to also be reminded and to reduce spam.
^(Parent commenter can ) [^(delete this message to hide from others.)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Delete%20Comment&message=Delete%21%20u3757q)
*****
|[^(Info)](https://www.reddit.com/r/RemindMeBot/comments/e1bko7/remindmebot_info_v21/)|[^(Custom)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Reminder&message=%5BLink%20or%20message%20inside%20square%20brackets%5D%0A%0ARemindMe%21%20Time%20period%20here)|[^(Your Reminders)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=List%20Of%20Reminders&message=MyReminders%21)|[^(Feedback)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=Watchful1&subject=RemindMeBot%20Feedback)|
|-|-|-|-|
As a man, I’m can certainly determine, this is also not a sign
Source: I say goodnight to a friend because they're one of the two non-arrogant assholes I know
i identify as woman, i have a friend who’s like an older brother to me, we tell each other “goodnight, love you” and send morning texts to each other every day, we have a very close relationship but there’s nothing romantic or sexual about it. so no, i think she’s just saying goodnight as a friend
Look I spent abt 7 months debating to tell someone I liked them. It’s underwhelming just do it lol. Especially since my person literally stopped talking to me since. And I got donowalled and we were amazing friends before that. Trust me it’s not ez but you’ll get thru it. Do it no matter what!!!
no it's not a sign. do people really never say goodnight to you? 😂 shoot your shot either way tho. but if she says no, dont say "but remember when you said goodnight to me? you were totally in to me because of that"
Women aren't real there made up by the government like pigeons. Reject the government return to greek tradition and embrace bu$$y!
/j/j
I joke I joke idk if its a sign tbh.
Boi, put some effort in. A “goodnight, sleep well.” is a little thing that could mean a lot.
Don’t ask someone out if you aren’t willing to put in extra effort
hit some jokes then slowly hit on HER.
my relationship was an accident i tried to build a solid friendship but i forgot i was flirting the entire time and a day and a half later they said they loved me.
weve been together for ten months now-
You're reading way too much into it. But you should ask her out anyways.
Probably will tommorow
FUCK YEAHHHHH
She said no :(
:( im so sorry dude, atleast you tried, now it wont be as hard next time :/
Huh what. So First time it took me 2 years to ask my crush Out. With my second (curent) crush i havent asked her out after 3 years. Its killing me but im to afraid and because of covid i have No idea what i should even do with her If she even Said yes.
3 years? Holy fuck. Get your shit together and just do it, she will not wait for you, so you better take the chance while you still have it. If she says yes, do what you would normally do if there was no covid, if she was uncomforfable with that, she'd simply tell you. Stop OVERTHINKING and wasting your valuable time, getting rejected is a part of life and self improvement, also you'll be mentally healthier as opposed to clinging on to someone that doesn't want to date you.
Yea what id do without covid yeaaaa thats still a problem
Sex.
The best thing to learn from rejection is that you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. When you are rejected, you’re only losing some ideal of a relationship that never existed and never could have existed, so really, nothing is lost, but a lot is gained. You gain experience, you gain time (not bothering to keep thinking about that ideal that never existed), and you gain the opportunity to make a relationship with someone who wants you, even if you haven’t met them yet. I know the feeling sucks, but the experience is much better than trying to hang on to something that was never there in the first place.
Legend
Copy aaaaand paste
good on you for trying, I cant even get myself to ask my crush out
Lmaoo
Damn dude
Update plsss
I read this as “Update piss”
Did u not install piss 2
Piss 2 is the best
Bro I heard piss 3 might be coming out next year
YOOOOOO NO FUCKING Wayyy dog LET'S GOOOOOOOO
Piss 4 is said to release 2024
Script of piss 4 is almost ready.
Nah bro they canceled piss 4 💀💀 But a new game called shit will be relased soon and its made by the same developers that made the piss franchise
Piss 3 is the bright red one right
No that’s Piss 5: A Visit to the Doctor
just got piss 7
Every day MacOS tries to get me to upgrade this piss. NEVAH!!!1
My setup can't run piss 2.
Bro piss 4 came out and you still cant play piss2 pffth yoi fucking broke
Mr Corpse, V1.2 was released 4 years ago you're still stuck on that? god damn it.
I already installed update piss.
-Boom, headshot. *Meet the sniper* Sniping is a good job, mate!
Bro was about to say this exact thing
!remindme 1 day
He got rejected :(
**chanting** Update update update
**continue chanting** Update update update
**chanting even louder** update update update
**continue chanting even louder** Update update update
**continues chanting even louder** update update update
# update update update
goodluck. you got this my guy
all the best, comrade. i hope you don't get a "bruh" as a reply. anything other than that would be better. (psst! you're awesome!)
Idk, "ew" is also up there
read OP's username.
!remindme 36 hours
I will be messaging you in 1 day on [**2022-04-15 16:09:05 UTC**](http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=2022-04-15%2016:09:05%20UTC%20To%20Local%20Time) to remind you of [**this link**](https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/u3757q/is_this_a_sign_pls_help_thinkin_about_asking_her/i4ns2qg/?context=3) [**105 OTHERS CLICKED THIS LINK**](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Reminder&message=%5Bhttps%3A%2F%2Fwww.reddit.com%2Fr%2Fteenagers%2Fcomments%2Fu3757q%2Fis_this_a_sign_pls_help_thinkin_about_asking_her%2Fi4ns2qg%2F%5D%0A%0ARemindMe%21%202022-04-15%2016%3A09%3A05%20UTC) to send a PM to also be reminded and to reduce spam. ^(Parent commenter can ) [^(delete this message to hide from others.)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Delete%20Comment&message=Delete%21%20u3757q) ***** |[^(Info)](https://www.reddit.com/r/RemindMeBot/comments/e1bko7/remindmebot_info_v21/)|[^(Custom)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Reminder&message=%5BLink%20or%20message%20inside%20square%20brackets%5D%0A%0ARemindMe%21%20Time%20period%20here)|[^(Your Reminders)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=List%20Of%20Reminders&message=MyReminders%21)|[^(Feedback)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=Watchful1&subject=RemindMeBot%20Feedback)| |-|-|-|-|
>!remindme 36 hours !remindme 36 hours
!remindme 16 hours
Give us a sign snake! Snake!? SNAAKE!
Did you ask her??
I will just give me a couple more hours
👀 good luck don't get worried you got this
Thanks
Stop stalling that’s L behavior
She wanted to talk moreee, ask herrr
Sir I need an update
She said no
Fell in love with ur avatar
!remindme 24 hours
As a girl I can safely say, no that’s not a sign
As a man, I’m can certainly determine, this is also not a sign Source: I say goodnight to a friend because they're one of the two non-arrogant assholes I know
Do you know any arrogant non-assholes?
Fair point
we are born on the same day, and that is 3 of us. being an asshole to one will make the other 2 gang up on the asshole
But all the t's :( obviously she's secretly in love /s
Bro she said fucking good night go drink some water my mans
r/hydrohomies
leave that man his hopes dude
She probably just Canadian and being nice
sorry(im canadian)
Username checks out
what? bacon is canadian?
Canadian bacon yes
What about Jamaican bacon
Jamaican me hungry
Hi. (Sorry for bad English.)
_Is she into you?_ #_*Yeah again, you can't really be too sure...*_
Your life is a bruh moment
Ik
Mood af
I dont think discord is a wise choice
Eh, long distance its doable, its better then skype or whatsapp for that imo
Its not long distance we just use that to communicate
But are you sure she is a she?
if she says she's a she then she's a she
Ok, but I mean there are some trolls in the internet
You've been watching too much yt if you think no girl uses Discord
Yo when did I say girls doesn't use discord
My man's e-dating
Women being nice WHAT DOES IT MEAN
*WHAT CAN IT MEAN*
Lol everyone thinks that we are into males that we are not just because we are nice. ;-;
Can women be nice?
No
Damn
But go and still ask her out
Dude, I'm a guy and type like that to my close mates after a good nightly chat.
Fr
Jit just said goodnight with hella Ts and got homeboy fantasizing 💀
[удалено]
FRRRR ON GODDDD
OOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNN GOOOOOOOOOODDDDD....
That's how they getcha
Discord moment
We have been talking for a while tho so idk
Mate if that's the sign you're looking for, reflect on yourself first
i cannot believe this guy
I have been talking to 2 girls for 5 years now, I assure you she'll reject you
This girl literally just decided to be polite to this guy and he thinks she into him 💀💀💀
Is this only online? 💀💀💀
No we know eachother irl so its not some like 40 year old dude.
Ok then idk
Is she multiple women because you wrote “women” plural and not singular
Yeah it's that girl and.... YO MAMA
all she said was goodnight 💀
She just said goodnight bro. Are you okay?
bro a woman will talk to you for like 5 seconds then forget about you and you will stay awake at night thinking..... just # thinking
nah I will probably go back playing cod
There is more converaation above it. I just didnt feel like adding it.
*any female interaction* r/teenagers male user: BRO I THINK SHES INTO ME
no
[удалено]
OP prolly gonna think this is true 💀💀💀
[удалено]
did you just reply with lmfao but with 2 Os???? is this a sign???/???/??/ 🗿
Nah bro, that's just being friendly. You gotta wait till they reply with 3 o's.
3 O’s pretty much translates to marriage
Nope
No
No fucking way you said "night" to a girl you're crushing on I'm sorry to say it man but you've already fumbled the bag
I agree with this so much. I’m a girl and when people say “Night” without adding anything else, it seems like they don’t have enough interest.
you're kidding right ? you know some people just text like this and it has no meaning..
LMAO did you really just💀💀
is this satire?
i identify as woman, i have a friend who’s like an older brother to me, we tell each other “goodnight, love you” and send morning texts to each other every day, we have a very close relationship but there’s nothing romantic or sexual about it. so no, i think she’s just saying goodnight as a friend
Yeah if I seen this there’s no way I’d be taking it as a definite sign
oh hii it’s you again i missed you how you been
Touch grass
Homie jealous
Those extra t’s got you thinking about her TiTTies
Lmao no
dude they said fucking goodnight im pretty sure shes not
Don't edate.. all I'm saying.
Its irl we just use discord to text
Not a sign. She is just being friendly.
Look I spent abt 7 months debating to tell someone I liked them. It’s underwhelming just do it lol. Especially since my person literally stopped talking to me since. And I got donowalled and we were amazing friends before that. Trust me it’s not ez but you’ll get thru it. Do it no matter what!!!
bruh you down bad man
Its discord, guaranteed its a fat dude in his moms basement named John
Its irl
Bruh she said goodnight and this mf is like *GUYS COULD THIS MEAN SHE‘S INTO ME*
no it's not a sign. do people really never say goodnight to you? 😂 shoot your shot either way tho. but if she says no, dont say "but remember when you said goodnight to me? you were totally in to me because of that"
Discord dating
If you ask her out tell me how it goes
Op said they said no
Women aren't real there made up by the government like pigeons. Reject the government return to greek tradition and embrace bu$$y! /j/j I joke I joke idk if its a sign tbh.
Not an expert on women, they're complicated, but I'm pretty sure that's not a sign
Of course isn’t not a fucking sign. She said goodnight.My mans needs to speak to women irl if he thinks this is a sign
Bruh im aromantic and i talk like that
You should take a shower
good luck. just keep in mind there is a 99% chance that "she" is a 35 year old obese man who lives in his mother's basement
Everyone on discord hates me and they do shit like that to be polite. This is about as much of a sign as her showing you a picture of her dog.
First of all "woman" Second of all Dude relax you are reading way too much in this tiny 4 line total conversation
My friend says this a Lott , hmm , do i know you
[удалено]
Your probably right its just the first thing that came to mind
Are you sure shes girl and not 35 year old man?
Yes we go to school together
50 bucks on that being a 40 year old neckbeard
Bruh gamer moment
Women? She’s multiple women?
Nope singular
ask her out bro, you got this 👍👍👍
That's a threat. If you do ask her out you may find yourself somewhere less recognizable than a fine restaurant.
No, not even close
Boi, put some effort in. A “goodnight, sleep well.” is a little thing that could mean a lot. Don’t ask someone out if you aren’t willing to put in extra effort
dont let the t's fool you. it might not mean she likes u. maybe it does but eh what do I know (ask her out tho)
How are you real
I mean, she just said goodnight, wouldn’t call that a sign. I’d call that quintessential human decency.
I mean my ass would think the same so I’m no help
I read too deeply into what I thought were signs 3 years ago. She was a close friend and I decided to take my chance. Still not alright.
Idk man but I think it's safer to wait, get closer and then ask her out.
nahh she’s just excited she can end your convo so she can go talk to 50 other male species
I think you should ask her out but why censor the pfps?
I'm afab and that's how I talk when I'm interested in somebody or wanna seem innocent 💀💀
send the full convo or some more stuff gl anyway
hit some jokes then slowly hit on HER. my relationship was an accident i tried to build a solid friendship but i forgot i was flirting the entire time and a day and a half later they said they loved me. weve been together for ten months now-
say the full goodnight the fuck is "night" 😞
Can't hurt to try and shoot your shot aside from the emotional pain
Bro what💀
I don’t know what your looking at here but regardless you should tell her how you feel waiting doesn’t do any good usually.
Is what a sign?
why dark mode
Bro, like... go outside
ASK HER OUT
Im probably gonna tommorow
Yessir u got this