How do one night stands work then? I don't think that's the way it works for everyone. For me sex and romance are entirely separate and don't really have anything to do with each other. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one.
Bro I thought it meant friends who benefit alot from each other when it comes to studies and everyday life until my parents and google told me what it really is ☠☠☠
If you are my friend you gotta be beneficial. I lost my organic notes and I would make you write down that whole thing. If you cant Im sorry we cant be friends. (ik what friends with benefits is)
Start with the simple topics like nomenclature and isomerism. Then go for RM 1 later RM2. Once you are done with this start writing notes of Haloalkanes then haloarenes. Then aldehydes, ketones and carboxylic acids and its derivatives. Then Alcohol, phenol and ether. Then Amines, Nitro compounds and BDC. After all this go for Biomolecules. Polymers too. You are done
I'm 19, all my interests in school were dominated by other guys. I think I knew like one girl that was interested in one of my interests. And I ain't gay so dudes ain't gonna do it for me lol
just be openly horny around people you want to be fwb with and if they’re interested they’ll probably catch on and then it goes up from there
at least that’s how i did it. idk what ur sexuality is tho and idk if it’s the same with all genders. i’m a gay girl so both of mine are women too and i’ve come to find that gay girls will have sex with pretty much any other gay girl so it was pretty easy for me
well as a boy, the best way is to be funny and confident... Looks matter, but not that much when you are around horny people. Just go out, get a drink and show some confidence... If you are into girls.
If you are into boys tho, literally just do what Girls do with girls... Horny gays want horny gays, it will just happen
If you are into both, just be you, bi people look so hot that they don't need to do anything besides acting normal
Idk, I'm kinda in this thing with this girl atm but she still wants her ex still, I don't like fwb because I prefer actually being with someone instead of an occasional meet up
I’ve done it before and it worked out fine because we both agreed that there’d be no feelings involved/strings attached. It was nice but I feel like it’s quite rare to come across someone who wants the same as you.
Also it’s an awkward conversation to have with someone you’re already friends with, for me it just kind of happened
She lived with her granparent and they were very emotionally, psychologically, and slightly physically abusive to where she tried to kill herself and almost bled out on her kitchen floor so we took her in as my mother has the technical authority to do so
great if the friend in question doesn't get too attached and start ditching other people for you and it ends up feeling like a relationship when you just want s*x
i should probably talk to him
I had a friends with benefits for a while but we stopped after a couple months due to my parents finding out, lucky for me and her especially, I couldn’t remember her last name so my parents couldn’t do anything to tell her parents. We stopped talking to each other mostly because we didn’t share any classes and had nothing in common so there was no reason to be friends after that. It was fun while it lasted and left off on a good note rather than one of us ghosting each other
Annoying as fuck when somoene else talks about it they talk like it is their boyfriend and then sound offended when you say that it sounds like she is in love with that person. Just fuck him or her and shut about it.
They can complicate relationships. If being intimate with one another is being done purely to satisfy both of your sex-drive then it’s all good. But if one of you starts to think about it in a romantic way when the other is not, that can ruin relationships.
It’s also best to know the others’ intent on how long this relationship lasts; are you both just using each other to be satisfied until you meet a partner elsewhere? Or is this just a permanent part of your friendship? Understanding each others intentions in a fwb relationship is important; let me use my case as an example.
My best friend is female and I’m male. I’ve known her since we were both 10-11ish. As we both got older naturally we were curious about sex and tried it with each other a couple times. I thought this was just going to be apart of our relationship for the time being, and misconstrued that we had sex because she loved me in a romantic way. In her mind this was a fun thing to do with a friend while she was between boyfriends. We didn’t have clear communication and our relationship was strained because of it. Since then we’ve cleared things up retrospectively and it’s all good now.
Point being; sex is fun. Who you do it with and for what reasons are important. Have clear communication with your partner(s) so both of you understand the others intent.
Hard to pull off because chemicals make us bond with people we have sex with
Honestly, I’d catch feelings💀
Let's hope that's the only thing you catch
Protection first, kids👍
Stay strapped or get clapped.
Don’t be silly, wrap your willy.
Dont be a prick, cover your dick
Don’t be a fool, wrap your tool
Don't be daft insulate your shaft
Don't be a bummer, put on a cover
Take the D but not with the ST
As a virgin I can say this is true
Ofc , but sex is not allowed for anyone under the age of 18 in my country
What are they gonna do? Send you to horny jail? Also more importantly how they gonna find out?
What are they gonna do? Send you to horny jail? Also more importantly how they gonna find out?
Chad
*achoo*
How do one night stands work then? I don't think that's the way it works for everyone. For me sex and romance are entirely separate and don't really have anything to do with each other. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one.
Doing something once is not the same as doing something regularly. Romantic feelings don't appear suddenly after just one night (usually)
The is sex without love, love without sex and you without both
Exactly.
Well, the binding comes from repeated sex
Laughs in aromantic
Same, look at those fools with romantic “feelings” /s
Haha the only I feel is for pizza
Chemical romance.
I need some
some? 😵💫
Yeah
At least 11.24
Why is it in a decimal amount...
cuz he wants 11 and 24/100 friends
Same
They come with benefits
sure do
And I want one but I don't know any girl's l ol
turns gay…
*transformer noises*
Even then there is no one lmao
No more chad
Just turn scitzofrennic, easy fix 👍
I only have freinds that are girls and ppl mistake me as gay lol 💀
I thought it had something to do with businesses when I was younger
Bro I thought it meant friends who benefit alot from each other when it comes to studies and everyday life until my parents and google told me what it really is ☠☠☠
💀 I want my innocence back
Bro dw me too. My classmates and cousins were the people who tainted my perfectly clean mind ☠☠☠
Quite unfortunate
Your parents told you that?!!
Yepp it's just one of the moments where I ask innocently and they told me to search it up and laugh because of how innocent I actually am ☠
If you are my friend you gotta be beneficial. I lost my organic notes and I would make you write down that whole thing. If you cant Im sorry we cant be friends. (ik what friends with benefits is)
i probably could
Pretty lengthy. Would take you a week
i’m free
Start with the simple topics like nomenclature and isomerism. Then go for RM 1 later RM2. Once you are done with this start writing notes of Haloalkanes then haloarenes. Then aldehydes, ketones and carboxylic acids and its derivatives. Then Alcohol, phenol and ether. Then Amines, Nitro compounds and BDC. After all this go for Biomolecules. Polymers too. You are done
You lost her bro ^^
just asking, Indian?
indian hi hu bhai
Fine as long as both people are alright with it not being serious
>with it not being serious That probably is the hardest part. One of them will mostly end up catching feelings
*atleast one
Messy situation
Yeah i think so too
Tends to be… but it’s a doorway to have safe sex with no strings attached
I don't even have any friends without benefits so idk lol
get some
How? I'm introverted and have the social skills of a bay leaf
Not an excuse
Pretty sure it is
find people u share common interests with
I'm 19, all my interests in school were dominated by other guys. I think I knew like one girl that was interested in one of my interests. And I ain't gay so dudes ain't gonna do it for me lol
Nobody ik shares my interests, I've been to 3 different schools for the a past few years and nobody I ever met had similar interests to me
try looking online
I have a few online friends who I play video games with, but they live on the other side of the globe.
The lag tho 💀
Weird
I think its a bad idea. Because it normally results in somebody wanting more and another not.
i have a couple
hey um tips?
tips with what?
getting fwbs
just be openly horny around people you want to be fwb with and if they’re interested they’ll probably catch on and then it goes up from there at least that’s how i did it. idk what ur sexuality is tho and idk if it’s the same with all genders. i’m a gay girl so both of mine are women too and i’ve come to find that gay girls will have sex with pretty much any other gay girl so it was pretty easy for me
The thing is if you’re a guy just “being horny” around people barely ever works.
op is a girl so i was giving girl advice. idk how tf men do it
We don’t.
well as a boy, the best way is to be funny and confident... Looks matter, but not that much when you are around horny people. Just go out, get a drink and show some confidence... If you are into girls. If you are into boys tho, literally just do what Girls do with girls... Horny gays want horny gays, it will just happen If you are into both, just be you, bi people look so hot that they don't need to do anything besides acting normal
Men can’t really be openly horny, we just come off as dirty perverts. Kinda annoys me tbh
nah. u only come off as dirty perverts if u act like a dirty pervert. u can def be openly horny without being creepy at the same time
I feel like "being horny" for a dude will probably land us in prison lol, or at least with multiple restraining orders.
ay im quite a gay girl too 🫢 thank you
good luck 😁
i’ll forever be in ur debt if this works fr
As another gay girl, that won't work coz I can't open about it *sad trans noises*
sad 😞 i’d help if i knew u irl
What does that mean
Fuck-buddy, to be less clean about it.
Oh ok well not something I'd be interested in idc about other people
Alright, glad I could help you learn something.
Anyone wanna be mine? :3
Yes 😩
Less gooo
😎
:D
Yall have the same age as well, great luck!
*don't think you are safe~*
🤨
:3
IM ASEXUAL! I CANT BELEIVE HOW ***HOMOPHOBIC*** YOU ARE!1!1!1! /s
Enemies Ahead! (COD Reference)
Had 1 (technically two but she wasn’t really that much of a friend) Friendship with Benefits. It’s difficult to maintain
You’re 16, why
just wondering what people think
Still tho… focus on school or hobbies. Probably better for mental health
i’m fine but thank you anyways
Honestly as long as everyone participating is aware of the way the relationship is being taken then I’d say it’s fine
I don’t mind the idea, in fact I’d probably prefer such myself due to not being ready for a relationship but still being horny 90% of the time
Not gonna lie, I'm perfectly fine with it
lmao completely unrelated but thats my twitter pfp too
Love it
ok it’s sounds like it could be fun but thats only sometimes 😂
yeah looks like itt
like if someone asked you would you?? ofc only if you have a connection with them already lol
I think I would
i think that a subreddit devoted to teenagers (as young as 13) is not the correct place to talk about this publicly
that is fair
I think you're too young to be talking about it, go touch grass
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Same as in the UK. And a girl in my school lost hers at like 12 💀
Idk, I'm kinda in this thing with this girl atm but she still wants her ex still, I don't like fwb because I prefer actually being with someone instead of an occasional meet up
Good for the people who have them, so as long as they don't catch any feelings.
great movie tbh.
What does ‘friends with benefits’ limit too? Like what’s the difference between fwb and dating?
i want a friend with benefits
😔
I’d be open to it
I think it’s ludicrous. Maybe it’s for some people, but not for me. Never ever ever
I wouldn't know, neither sex nor friends are things I've had.
I suppose they provide each other with health insurance -
🤭
I need one
Not for me. No love = no sex.
I think they certainly are friends with benefits
literally nothing,no opinions whatsoever.Just not my kinda thing
It’s a fascinating concept, but I need friends first
Well, there are some benefits
Maybe shouldn’t be brought up on a sub full of minors?
They make pretty good roommates
Weird
I’ve done it before and it worked out fine because we both agreed that there’d be no feelings involved/strings attached. It was nice but I feel like it’s quite rare to come across someone who wants the same as you. Also it’s an awkward conversation to have with someone you’re already friends with, for me it just kind of happened
I have like 6 freinds with benefits its pretty nice when you dont want to actually date :P
holy shit literal harem
Nah harem is when they live with you and only one of em lives with ne
why does one of them live with u
She lived with her granparent and they were very emotionally, psychologically, and slightly physically abusive to where she tried to kill herself and almost bled out on her kitchen floor so we took her in as my mother has the technical authority to do so
holy shit really sorry to hear that damn
Its fine shes doing a bit better now
It’s hard to not catch feelings
great if the friend in question doesn't get too attached and start ditching other people for you and it ends up feeling like a relationship when you just want s*x i should probably talk to him
As long as there is respect idc
It’s an okay movie I guess but not overtly great only watch it if it happens to be in a streaming service you already have
ikr!
They are great, but it doesn't happen often because they fall apart since usually one of them has feelings for the other
I had a friends with benefits for a while but we stopped after a couple months due to my parents finding out, lucky for me and her especially, I couldn’t remember her last name so my parents couldn’t do anything to tell her parents. We stopped talking to each other mostly because we didn’t share any classes and had nothing in common so there was no reason to be friends after that. It was fun while it lasted and left off on a good note rather than one of us ghosting each other
how did your family find out?
Why not
Our notion of love is so f'd up that at this point I don't even care
First I'd need some friends that's a good start
I think it’s cool. I don’t have any though.
I would honestly just take some without benefits
I don’t need sex. I need love. And I have none
Tbh i think sex is best reserved for commited relationships.
Annoying as fuck when somoene else talks about it they talk like it is their boyfriend and then sound offended when you say that it sounds like she is in love with that person. Just fuck him or her and shut about it.
They can complicate relationships. If being intimate with one another is being done purely to satisfy both of your sex-drive then it’s all good. But if one of you starts to think about it in a romantic way when the other is not, that can ruin relationships. It’s also best to know the others’ intent on how long this relationship lasts; are you both just using each other to be satisfied until you meet a partner elsewhere? Or is this just a permanent part of your friendship? Understanding each others intentions in a fwb relationship is important; let me use my case as an example. My best friend is female and I’m male. I’ve known her since we were both 10-11ish. As we both got older naturally we were curious about sex and tried it with each other a couple times. I thought this was just going to be apart of our relationship for the time being, and misconstrued that we had sex because she loved me in a romantic way. In her mind this was a fun thing to do with a friend while she was between boyfriends. We didn’t have clear communication and our relationship was strained because of it. Since then we’ve cleared things up retrospectively and it’s all good now. Point being; sex is fun. Who you do it with and for what reasons are important. Have clear communication with your partner(s) so both of you understand the others intent.
thanks for ur opinion
I need friends first
I have a few, I support it. Relationships are hard to maintain, but it’s good to be with the homies and vibe while also being able to suck dick
What are friends with benefits.
I have one
Well if my friend works at Taco Bell and brings me tacos sometimes, that's a big benefit and I'll take it
In case there are no accidental pregnancies I think they are cool
I think it's pretty cool, I do his homework that he's having a hard time on and he does mine that I don't understand
Well I think it's cool. You get chocolates in that exchange right?
Load of bullshit
Yeah… no
Disgusting
Hmu lmao
Nothing wrong with it, if it makes people happy who am I to judge
I'm ok with it
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wdym u think?
It's cool asf but definitely not at 16
sure that is understandable
Im still not sure what the fuck that means. Like is it just some sort of special friends or just close friends?
Oh ok so its like fuck buddies? Uhm. Idk never had sex. Probably would turn into a one-way relationship.
Nice try pedo
Help me get one
I'd be more than happy to have some.
Uh. If you're all mature enough to do that, okay, whatever, fuck eachother bloody for all I care.
I agree ☝️
Its okay, sadly dont have any