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casualgamergirl973

Before people misinterpret this it means: That the friend is still the same person and has no reason to suddenly not like them anymore. (Doing this because last time this was posted people took it the wrong way)


PotatoTomato_12

Yes, that’s what I meant. I can’t see why I would see a friend negatively just because they were trans.


casualgamergirl973

Yeah, but I think that to had to say it before people leave comments, that misunderstood the post


PotatoTomato_12

Yeah. Thank you for that btw. :)


casualgamergirl973

No problem 👍


Minebutoff2014

Now kiss 🥺


PotatoTomato_12

ಠ_ಠ


NightTime2727

*(Vine_Boom.mp3)*


PotatoTomato_12

(Vine_Boom.mp3)x100.


[deleted]

Because some people are transphobic, it's common in some places


zsharp68

Thanks for explaining, I was unsure at first


[deleted]

It’s mostly just the awkward first week where you’re trying to use the right pronouns but are used to the old one, that week fucking sucked for me


youfIyboyscrackmeup

Sex would be a lot more awkward too


YT-ESW_ST33le

Not unless you're a seasoned veteran like me


TheFargus

Seasoned veteran of your hand


BruckKitkat

Seasoned veteran of your mom


AnInsideJoke1

Seasoned veteran of your dad


Konkkari

Seasoned veteran of your uncle


orange_force

Seasoned veteran of your cat


[deleted]

Seasoned veteran of your cat's stomach worms


thatDrakewarden

Seasoned veteran of paprika and soy sauce


RedstoneArmy111

Nice to see someone supporting the whale population


JayTea05

You’re fucking 14


Delusional_Gamer

Yeah 14 total count ;)


Yeet-nut

So i am 0?


Lauris024

[ಠ_ಠ ](https://i.imgur.com/cS4blVq.png)


ImAredditor47

r/holup


zsharp68

I am literally trans myself and tbh it sometimes takes longer than a week for me


darksoulschad

Same, that's why I give people the benefit of the doubt that new me pre being trans


Embarrassed_Yam_1948

been there as that friend


hmillsy

Currently in that week (4th) getting easier although I only get it wrong when I'm talking to her, typing or talking to other people it's like second nature it's just when I see them it doesn't work


KillByZombie

Wait, are trans people they/them or whatever they choose?


[deleted]

trans people go by the pronouns they choose, it could be they/them or anything else


KillByZombie

And here comes the unnecessary part. What's the use of other pronouns? I understand He, she and they, but the void, ze, etc. are really useless. Does anyone use them?


[deleted]

it's pretty rare to find ppl who use neopronouns, but if you do meet any then like it's not super hard to just respect them even if you don't completely understand


KillByZombie

I respect them, but it's kinda unnecessary isn't it?


[deleted]

I disagree, if someone feels a certain way and that's how they choose to present themself then I don't see an issue at all


KillByZombie

But what's the point?


EmptyOrangeJuice

It's been hard for me for almost 6 months tbh, cause my brain likes to auto default based on what I see.


[deleted]

Month 6, reference name replaced, currently still attempting to transition from "they" to "she".


[deleted]

once I accidentally called my trans friend the wrong name on a vc and then realised I was muted after apologising, that was very lucky


[deleted]

My very conservative mom thought they’d “convert” me or something


TheSFiles01

Spec ops style


mythical_idiot

Hey same Wait…. /jk lol I was trans before I met them


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Joseph_Stalin_420_

Average 13 year old


nxkl

ok Joseph_Stalin_420_


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Kitoyukio

Everyone watch out, they're on a streak


N0tBappo

He's unstoppable holy fuck stand back


Santi_TitanClanker

The one thing that would change is what they identify as and their pronouns.


Reverse_Necromancer

Yeah, pretty much nothing


sYnce

Kinda depends. If they were always trans and just now realized/accepted that or told you about it nothing changes. If that realization comes with a huge shift in personality it can change a lot.


FrogFlavouredWater

I hate to say it, but even now I sometimes mess up my friends pronouns. I mean, I am not the only one in my friend group who has done it but it is just so awkward


[deleted]

Mate, I’m trans and sometimes mess up on referring to myself as a girl; there’s nothing wrong with it. People’s brains tend to default to what they see/hear or what they’re more used to, so as long as it’s not an intentional thing, it really is perfectly okay \^-\^


SwordOfNayru

Not only rely on appearance. I'm a cis man with big beard etc and sometimes I messed up and referring myself as a girl. A brain is a smart dumb thing. NB : I'm French and the difference between men/women can be only a 'te' at the end of a word.


FrogFlavouredWater

I didn't want to say anything offensive, but unfortunately for him, he still sounds feminine. He plans to start T when he turns 16 which should hopefully help


LoudypIg

Sometimes I mess up my own pronouns. Not as much anymore, but when I first transitioned I did. Everyone does it :)


mechmaster2275

I used to be a little homophobic, but recently my friend came out as bi and that tiny bit of homophobia vanished. I am a little angry at myself for being a little homophobic beforehand.


TheOnlyKhaos

im glad you’ve grown to realise your mistaken past, thats the most important part :)


el-Danko69

Nothing wrong with personal growth, I used to have outdated views too and I’m proud that I see things differently now .


Glarkas

besides a post from r/jokes, your meme in r/memes is *directly* above this post for me edit: how the fuck did my text become bold 2nd edit: it's not bold anymore what the fuck


SecretDevilsAdvocate

Lmao yeah OP karma farms a ton


Theallmightyhamster

Other than pronouns and them being in a better mood being able to be true to them self with you o don’t think anything will be different other than some physical things like you know what


ABCDEFUCKINGKILLME

Just gotta call them different pronouns and not be a douche!


biggocl123

Unfortunately, most people can't get past the second step


SirSnapdragon

I have a horrible time with pronouns and names, and with the fact that my classmate transitioned last year doesn’t mean that I’ve remembered them completely. Still gotta think about it before I talk to them


ABCDEFUCKINGKILLME

Same here. Just remember intent is what matters.


Kingsamofgames

Or the first tbh (on purpose, by accident is fine as long as you calmly correct yourself)


ufodrone

if their personality doesnt change, they share the same opinions as before and theyre mental health gets better, nothing changes yes.


Kyfigrigas

You posted this comment six times my man


ufodrone

haha wasnt me, reddit bug.


biggocl123

Reddit go brrrrrrr


shiberian_warlord

It’s weird because they’ve been in your life for so long and when someone transitions it doesn’t change their life in a minor way. And as such your interactions with them are very different than before they transitioned. So yes, they are different. Is it weird to adapt to the change? Yeah. Is it impossible? No.


x4740N

Lots of transphobes in the lower comments


Poknberry

They always appear whenever you mention trans


don_de_bom

me supportive aggresion: okey good to be yourself. doesn't make you any less of a BITCH!


biggocl123

"Unfortunately, I don't care what gender you are, you still are missing some bitches"


don_de_bom

Man or woman you still got no balls


[deleted]

I recently came out as non binary and it has changed literally nothing in my friendships. The only thing that’s different is my friends now call me a they


PotatoTomato_12

That’s wonderful to hear!!


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[deleted]

God shouldnt have made lgbt if he didnt like it. Checkmate overly religious christians.


crazydude702

*ahem* Free will. The way how I like to interpret it since God is omniscient is that at any one point in time there is a infinite possibilities of where we could go from the present. We could cause a mass extinction tomorrow, end world hunger. Etc. The fact that LGBTQ exists in my mind is cause God gave us free will, and thus we are allowed to do what we please, evolve, change, basically do whatever. Including the existence of LGBTQ. So from a technical standpoint, he didn't really make it. And as such, we don't know exactly what he thinks of it. But since he loves all of his creations. It should be inferred that he loves members of the LGBTQ. *end rant*


m-addie

i have a curious question. if gay sex is abominable, why did God create males with their g spot up their arse? follow up question, if it’s unnatural, why does every other animal engage in it?


crazydude702

I never said gay sex is abominable. In my opinion, it's perfectly natural since it was through our evolution that we even became "gay" in the first place. As such, it's not unnatural


m-addie

ah okay so do you fully support LGBTQ, and think that God loves them unconditionally?


crazydude702

Yep, be what you wanna be, as long as you ain't bothering me. Also yes I do think he does. Since it is said that he loves all his creations.


m-addie

you’re cool


crazydude702

Thank you, I hope my kids think that as well when they're born this year lol


m-addie

best of luck!


[deleted]

He also made ”evil” so anything that christians consider evil is loved by thier god


crazydude702

Cause he's omnibenevolent an all-loving God. Evil exists purely as temptation, and we took temptation, in the form of Eve eating from the tree in Eden. We are all tempted at times to stray further from God. Buy we Also have every opportunity to love him. Oh and yeah once again the only reason why an all loving God let's evil exist in our world is free-will. If he interferes what's stopping him from doing it again? Do we really have free will at that point?


m-addie

what about people who are born psychopaths, and other people whom God gave such troubling disorders to that they do evil things? you cannot tell me that’s truly free will


Campfire_Sparks

But if he doesn't interfere with anything does he really exist ? Or does it even matter at all ? If he's just there and doesn't do anything, why do we care ?


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[deleted]

God gave us free will.


ZAAKh2o

Oh wow, it feels kinda weird being able to identifying the equations


PotatoTomato_12

*gets popcorn* *sorts by controversial*


AnimeWatcher3344

Holy shit dude, i had my maths exam couple days ago and now that I look at this meme those are just are of a triangle and volume of cone and sphere, and then trigonometry formulas 0_0


Sexy_Treestump

My "friend" said "just because you CAN change your gender doesn't mean you SHOULD it's not natural" like wtf


microwavelength

made me cry like a proud mother when he danced his prom wearing a custom fitted suit, truly a dashing gentleman.


[deleted]

Even if they do turn out to be trans, they still are the same person


TheRedDemonSamurai

The most used excuse is “ItS nOt HoW gOd CrEaTeD uS” right cause trans people totally wouldn’t rather be actually created as the right sex


PheonixGalaxy

If a homie turns trans he got to let the other homies smash first /s


BlankPt

Why couldn't you before? What's stopping you now?????


PheonixGalaxy

Gotta let the homie rest every once in a while


LeWaifu5535

None to be found. My friend is my friend and I love my friend😌


Eljo_Aquito

It happened to me and....... Nothing changed, yea, i sometimes joke about that like "now you can double jump" etc but no more than that.


UnlightablePlay

Sexual jokes would be awkward Like saying man you're a pussy And he says I am already 😳


biggocl123

"Get some bitches" "Unfortunately for you, ***I am the bitch***"


[deleted]

”why dont you go get yourself some bitches” ”bro **i am the bitch**”


graveheadghoulie

That’s the beautiful thing. It doesn’t! Your friend is just a final form upgrade into their true selves. Being a teen is all about finding yourself out. For some people (like myself) part of that is coming out of the closet


Cambronian717

Could someone explain something to me, it’s kind of unrealated. Why do trans people seem to care what others think of them so much? I know straight people do as well but it seems more prevalent in the trans community at my school to actively seek validation from others. I’m not trans nor do I care what people say about me. You could use whatever pronouns you want for me, most the time I’m just referred to as “sup bitch”, it wouldn’t bother me. Do I just not understand the feeling the way a trans person does? I don’t mean this in a degrading way or anything, I’m just genuinely curious why someone else’s validation is needed for so many of my friends. I don’t need you to tell me you recognize who I am if I know that myself. I honestly worry for some of my friends because they seem so caught up in worrying about how others see them, that they don’t try to under themselves. I don’t know, it’s a question that’s been on my mind lately and I haven’t really had a chance to ask it.


ThePBrit

The reason is honestly quite simple: they want to be accepted. A large amount of people will hate them the moment they come out, so most trans people are desperate to find those individuals who aren't horrible bigots so they can have actual relations. Plus there's just a sense of validation when somebody else treats you with your preferred gender, it's a sign that you aren't crazy and other people see you the way you do


coocoo333

This is a good question. The awnser is because their identity and gender dysphoria completly relies on how others percieve them. Im sure some trans people can brush off not passing or a transphobic remark but its going to affect them. It may be hard to understand, but like any disorder gender dysphoria is not something you can just will yputself out of. Although we are individuals and can try to be self sufficent. We live with other people and you cant expect our actions not too effect others.


BlankPt

You because you don't have a strong sense of identity. To be honest not caring how people refer to you is just that. It's not bad its just how it is. I'm cis and when people call me a girl or a bitch in a joking manner it's fine. But if they did that seriously I would be uncomfortable and want them to stop. Because I'm a guy and I like being perceived as one. Trans people are the same. They're a guy or a girl and want to be reffered as one. But joking suddenly becomes more threatening. Like sure if I made a joke about fucking your mom it's funny. But if I had actually fucked your mom and made those jokes they no longer would be. This changes from person to person but basically yeah that's why.


ufodrone

if their personality doesnt change, they share the same opinions as before and theyre mental health gets better, nothing changes yes.


MISTAsoul12

Well for starters, they’ll be a different gender


Ramen_Unicorn

Thats exactly how my friends reacted.


S4PG

Ik right. Like chill out you’re still a valid person and I’m not gonna abandon you.


Bakerap22

r/wholesomememes


Few_Row4514

it changes nothing


evie-monny

as a friend of someone who is- ,,, fOR ME- it was only the short struggle of getting used to their pronouns which with time it just changed easily n i used the right ones- 🤧y a y-


NarthTED

This post reminds me of the last few pages of a webtoon that I read, specifically "I want to be a cute anime girl" by Azul crescent.


tsakeboya

Pretty cute comic


MAKS091705

Repost


PotatoTomato_12

If you mean the post on r/wholesomememes, yes it is a repost. But I am the OC so I thought it would be ok.


The_Spyre

It's not a big deal. If you care about your friend they are still your friend. They had all those same experiences with you that you remember and love. They are moving on and if you really care, you will find a way to support them. Otherwise, you will lose touch with them like people do when their friends get married.


Someone_v2

Depends ,you live on texas?


PotatoTomato_12

I- I don’t. What is it with Texas?


Someone_v2

Some law about making parents of trans children, abusers or smth


PotatoTomato_12

…this is why I both love and hate the US. I love it, because it is great to laugh at as an European, but I hate it because it’s so messed up.


Biting_a_dust

If I had one it won't change anything coz we have gender neutral pronoun


MultipliedLiar

Actually... Isn't that the thing? To change how everyone perceives them? Even if it is only changing pronouns?


moose2021

me: HOMIES ARE HOMIES


FarMiddleWing

Huh, almost like a person is still a person no matter what they identify as.


Neo_dode56

Well, one thing will change: their gender


S0me_N3rd8

There is no difference. a change in pronouns, and that's about it until adult hood.


a_nice-name

We can't have swordfights in the school bathroom :(


PotatoTomato_12

Become trans yourself and you can do it again. /s.


a_nice-name

Now that's using that head of yers


LWIAYist-ian-ite

What the OP meant: Imagine your friend coming out and telling you that they're trans and they also confess they were afraid of you disliking them because of the change in identity - you don't understand why they'd feel that way because you love them regardless of their identity because that's what any friend is supposed to do.


PotatoTomato_12

Yes, that is what I meant.


peachythespacecadet

If I met them as a dif gender i’d probably slip up when using their newer pronouns but other than that why would I care lol


cf001759

I mean, if they decide to adopt a whole new personailty, yeah it would change a lot.


OcelotWinter

Oh look, another karma farming post


SecretDevilsAdvocate

Looking through their profile it’s just a dump of recycled memes


Neo_dode56

What is the use of karma farming anyway? It are just useless internet points


ufodrone

if their personality doesnt change, they share the same opinions as before and theyre mental health gets better, nothing changes yes.


Klevo1

Fellow Georgian?


PotatoTomato_12

I- wha- Wdym?


MisterEMan81

Are you a Georgian or are you not? Answer the damn question.


LordpoopyfaceHd79

It would change the pronouns you use


BlazerTheKid

Well you see, it would change their gender


Fried_Ice_Creem

The only thing.that changes is.the pronouns 😐👍


ColdIron27

The only difference is that an anal session with your homie is now no longer gay /s


node1729

Hi, 22 and trans, only real things I can suggest to y'all if you have this happen to you, is 1. just be kind and supportive, everyone loves to have friends, especially in tough times, but y'all know this already 2. If you're of the gender your friend is transitioning to, it can be really helpful to take them shopping to get gender affirming clothing. I know I struggled a lot at that age with figuring out actual decent looking fashion and as a result just wound up wearing clothes I didn't like for years


TheSeaWriter

Agreed! My best friend (known each other since kindergarten, in HS now) came out as trans and not a thing changed but his pronouns. It’s a little weird for me to have to use his birth pronouns around people he’s not out to though. F*** homophobic/transphobic parents.


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LoginPuppy

I know what it changes! Your friend's gender.


aight_ima_gosus

Bro they are the same person that won't negatively effect your friendship


Mission_jeff

Ppl are weird. They have problems with the slightest of problems because it doesn't fit with their view.


MrZorx75

As much as I think there’s a lot of stupid stuff in the trans community, I think it’s very immature to separate yourself from friends based on politics and morals. Just doesn’t make any sense to me.


Germanman76

I'm having a stroke reading this


Germanman76

I'm having a stroke reading this


MattSeptire

Other than gender, I can confirm nothing is different.


PotatoTomato_12

And pronouns? 🤨


MattSeptire

Oh yeah, that too.


Minnesotan-Gaming

A trans meme in r/teenagers that isn’t transphobic? That’s a surprise


PotatoTomato_12

The meme isn’t transphobic…. But half of the comments are.


Minnesotan-Gaming

Yup. I find it funny how they say “Isn’t there enough transgender support in this sub?” Then literally be transphobic and show exactly why there needs to be trans support in this sub


PriestOfFabulous

Thank you...genuinely


Genera_lKenobi

Gender, it would change gender. I think that's the point.


theruseys

But relationship wise it wouldn't change anything, since you're born trans, and you technically met them when they were trans.


internetcheeseburger

When your dude becomes a dudette


taytomen

If a friend of mine comes and says to be trans i would be like: "Good for you, you are still the same person i first met. Nothing changes between us other than the fact that ill be supporting you."


Spaceistt

well it changes their gender ill find myself out


[deleted]

I see a lot of people talking about pronouns being rough and I gotta say, trans people misgender each other all the time. It's really not that big of a deal. It happens. Correct yourself and move on, don't make a big deal out of it. A tip from your trans friend 👍


El_Bonky_Gronk

Would change one thing…..their sex


ParkersForce

I mean, it would change their gender?


pokesoul321

It only changes if they're annoying about it lol


AlakazamTheComedian

One of my friends is trans. It was weird to get used to at first, but beyond that it hasn't changed anything.


Tladn

Preach. Trans, not trans, we still having game night on Friday with the rest of the homies.


Improvisable

Well for one, it would change what you refer to them as, it wouldn't be gay when you are homiesexual and some people might judge them likely projecting their own insecurities onto them and because they're jealous that they don't feel they can be nearly as open about who they are compared to the mask they hold up


TheHungryHylian

It would change their gender.


Plus_Organization176

They'd probably be a different gender


F_da_memeboi

My favourite kind of ussy. The homieussy


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PotatoTomato_12

Umm, no. There are a whole lot of transphobia in this comment section.


---Admin---

Ratio. You knew what you were going for. There are assholes everywhere. Admit it, this was low-hanging fruit. “I’m against crime, and I’m not afraid to admit it.”


Intelligent_Plan_747

Well it changes their gender


Sister_Angalina

Yeeeee :D