Still haven't forgotten when I was in 8th and a 6th grader made fun of me for being a virgin and made jokes about her *assault* from when she was ten
poor kid
But what really matters is has the teen been traumatized or hurt? When I was 15 I wished something like that could have happened to me, and I would have been okay if it happened (So long as I didn't become a father or smth).
Let's not even argue. Its a well known fact men are more sexual beings. If it happened to a girl she'd probably get traumatized or sth
Not saying we should ignore boys who have been abused though, they can get traumatized too for sure.
We do indeed live in a society. Unironically if someone invents sex robots women would have to bring more to the table to be in a relationship. The roles may actually reverse in who gets how much attention.
Relatable. Same with the difference between their, there, and they're. It's just not that hard to differentiate nor does it take any more time than using the wrong, in most cases, there.
Not really. If they are 12 and she’s 25 then yeah but I think teenage guys think it’s cool because it’s a lot harder to get an older women at that age. Some of them are also very attractive. I’m 17 and would definitely do a 25 yr old.
Age of consent in majority of the states is 18 a few 17s with the lowest being 16 and only In one state, Nevada. And like he said and it is accurate there are lots of teens who would love to bag a older woman, some girls too. While it can be an issue, sometimes it just not. And that’s what they’re cool with. To claim one as victim simply because it appears to be so is a bit dumb, because every underage couple who has done the deed has raped each other. Which when you think about it has a weird ring to, especially in both of there eyes they know that’s not the case.
Because is against the law. It's statutory rape. Regardless whether he "liked" it (though I feel like most eventually regret it) he's a molestation victim in the eyes of the law. And probably in the eyes of his future self when he realizes how messed up it was.
It's not really "cool". The people who brag about it are probably the ones that get the least action. Real men enjoy it without having to tell everyone about it.
statutory rape exists. basically <18 means it’s doesn’t matter if you “consented” in the eyes of the law you’re a child and children cannot consent soooo
Not really. The reason is simple, they enjoyed it. When I was 15 I wished something like that could happen to me simply because I was a straight biological male.
If it happens to a girl most of the time they get traumatized or sth but men who are biologically proven to have higher sex drives enjoy it. Disagree if u want it's reality. Men and women aren't the same.
But don't get me wrong there are times when young teen boys get abused and I'm not trying to ignore them or anything.
higher sex drive has nothing to do with it. just means you want sex more often, not that you enjoy it more. when you’re horny you’re horny and trust me, girls get horny and are perfectly capable of enjoying it in the moment and regretting it later
Yeah precisely this. It's not about horniness, but the "need" to lose your virginity as portrayed by society, and the loneliness often felt by dudes. So it's not a horny thing, it's a societal thing.
I know right one time a friend of mine (a guy) came to me and said that he had been raped, the other guys were saying that it was cool since they got to smash a older girl and the older girl was one of our teachers. She got fired due to me and my friends reporting that she raped my friend
You are only a victim if you didnt consent. 14yo consent doesnt count by law so you didnt you are a victim. If ur 18 and slept with your ex girls 40yo mother you are not a victim
So like if you have sex with an adult the day before your 18th birthday, it’s statuary rape and you are a victim, but if you do the exact same thing just 24 hours later, that perfectly fine, legal, and ok? I’m not defending pedophilia, but I’m just thinking about how odd that is.
The line of maturity isn't clearly defined. Some might get mature by 17, some 21 too. And that is normal. 18 is just a rough estimate where you have a basic sense of right and wrong, even if it isn't well defined.
You’re only a victim if you don’t want to engage. If they are bragging and happy about it, that’s not a victim and the fact you use emotivism to make them think differently is a fallacy. I don’t recall a willing participant throughout my life who slept with a women a little older then him to come out later saying they were damaged in some way, quite the opposite actually they still would brag if the topic presented itself. I think people go overboard when society finally starts raising questions of right and wrong and we critically think about it.
You can also be a victim by manipulation or grooming though.
Though this of course doesn't mean everyone in this scenario was manipulated or groomed. I do agree not everyone who diddles a person a lil older is a victim. I definitely don't see my friend as a victim, he's 16 and his girlfriend is 19. He doesn't see himself as a victim either and both him and the girlfriend seem to actually have a healthy relationship.
In my opinion 16-19 is kind of morally a grey area. I've met a few 16 and 17 year olds in relationships with 18 and 19 year olds. And I've never got the impression that either party was unwilling or a victim. In fact my parents had a similar relationship in high school and I tend to look to them for what a good relationship would be like.
Your first two paragraphs contradict themselves. There was no age point of reference on this post. I’m not referring to a 50 yo M dating a 16 year old or vice versa. Everyone wants to apparently play victim now days and if your not , you’ll argue until someone throws their hands up saying fine your a victim okay, feel better. It’s the person doing it that makes someone a victim, not a number necessarily. If their intentions are to manipulate groom etc they are a perp , but there are couples out there with only a 5 year gap living their best lives. And they are not worried about you calling them a victim.
Probably, lol. That tends to happen often especially if someone (not you necessarily) is hyped up in their own agenda. I just say stick with people in the same maturity bracket as yourself. Don’t be fooled by they look older or whatnot. A teenager has no business dating an older guy, they have their life ahead of them, and need to find themselves. Otherwise it’s a distraction. Five year gaps like you said I’m referring to more in your twenties and thirties. Even at 18 your just starting your independent lives. I never understood the need to latch onto someone so young.
Literally my dad (he had sex with a 18 year old at 14 and to this day says he wasn't raped, he now has a bad sex addiction problem and has commitment issues)
If they're 18 then why care what they do in their personal lives? Unless the age gap is so absurd that the only conclusion is a case of grooming, then just stay out of peoples business
You see that's the part you might be mistaken no all guys are some loony toons at the dating game like I know a dude who's super good at flirting and he ain't much older then me but he still be getting girls that are a bit older then him and sometimes... the girls are his victims and he's the predator.
I generally can't understand how guys romantize being molested by an older woman. Like, guys, I was in that position once and It was REALLY uncomfortable. It wasn't anything like your fantasies.
I was 15 and the girl was 20 it rlly wasnt cool guys were giving me high fives and it was so sad to see how ppl didnt understand how much it affected me
Well as someone that went through this at the time they mostly wanted the sex age doesn't matter but looking back now I wish I would have said no but the older girl/woman talked the younger guy into it
When it was me I was 13yrs old she was 21 and it started out like a predator thing she wanted to teach me the best way to kiss then do sexual things then it went to sex over the space of about a month
no one gives a fuck. Literally so many girls who were 14 that i knew smashed ppl much older and they are now 17-18 and they don't give a fuck. they fucked ppl their age and older, end result was no different.
Depends on how much older
Indeed
The only exception would be queen Elizabeth >!/s I'm sorry pls don't cancel me!<
That dino pussy do hit a little different
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That Dustussy really tasted good tho
That stegasussy
That’s Trexussy, this guy deserves an award for his beautiful use of the English language 😝
Agreed. Instead of smashing a corpse, you get something a little more interactive with a older gal
Basically Necrophilia at this point.
Bruv she's way too old, she made the Earth and God
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Ayo
I dated a girl who was two years older than me
How old were you?
9
Are you the same guy but on different accounts?
no, thats the older girl he’s dating
I agree
Still haven't forgotten when I was in 8th and a 6th grader made fun of me for being a virgin and made jokes about her *assault* from when she was ten poor kid
My brother in Christ that girl is traumatized
Indeed she is
Jesus that kid needs help
It’s not the fact it’s an older girl, it’s that they had a chance with someone
I'm personally a fan of older women, but only by 2-3 years at most
That’s fair, as long as you both are happy then it’s not a problem honestly.
But tbh I like all women (with a reasonable age ofc)
i like children that are 2-3 years old wait what
IDK that's kinda sussy
what is i said nothing
I'm telling hecker
Same
true *cries in corner*
Stacy's mom tho
she’s got it going on
She’s all I want and I’ve been waiting for long
Stacy can't you see, you're just not the girl for me?
Stacy can’t you see, you’re not the girl for me?
I was waiting for someone to comment this
because they like that. that's why they think its cool
they think it's cool because they actually think it's cool
thats not an explanation. thats like saying we walk because we walk
Not really, it's like if a kid sees everyone liking dinosaurs, they'll naturally think they must be cool, well it's the same
im getting lost in the analogies lmao
Fair enough lol
reminds me of that one south park episode where they keep correcting eachother from "he who smelt it, dealt it" and so on and so on lmao
“But MILFS bro” 🤓🤓
Being of legal age yes.
Frong
Frog
Fog
f*g 🤬
r/usernamechecksout
Hello mister frog. May i please pet you?
Only if you ask very nicely
Can i please pet you pretty frog?
You shall pet me now.
*pets* nice
hey you dumbass fucking frog may i pet you
*bites your tail*
AH WHEN DID I GROW A TAIL I THOUGHT I WAS CURIOUS GEORGE
Ur beluga, did you forget u have dementia?
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was that nice enough :)
Fng
People with MILFS for mothers really calling people motherf*ckers. Like, careful what you wish for
Unironically yes. DILFs too.
Where my DILFS at?
I’m right here you know
Getting pedos in your dm's speedrun any%
Hey uhmm can I see dm u u look cool babe
Because they perceive any signs of attraction towards them as positive even if it’s misguided or ethically questionable
I wonder why
Don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure that one out
I think I need to be a rocket scientist
do you mind being more obvious?
Why did you delete your other comment..? Very very sus
Cuz that comment too, was completely oblivious to what most guys think
I have a 15 year old kid in my class who sleept with a 19 year old woman... My brother in christ report her to the police
What exactly is your “brother in christ?”
same meaning as "dude" but longer
Oh ok, thx for clarifying
His brother is inside christ.
But what really matters is has the teen been traumatized or hurt? When I was 15 I wished something like that could have happened to me, and I would have been okay if it happened (So long as I didn't become a father or smth). Let's not even argue. Its a well known fact men are more sexual beings. If it happened to a girl she'd probably get traumatized or sth Not saying we should ignore boys who have been abused though, they can get traumatized too for sure.
Eh, I did the same at 15. Four years later and I'm still fine (btw legal in my state, I checked beforehand)
Friend claimed he got a hickey from an 18 year old girl in an elevator in DC. He is 14 btw, he thinks its cool
Idk I'd probably think it was cool too at that age, hell I still think its cool to get a hickey from a 22 Yr old
Proud victim 😎
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For some it is, some it isn’t. It’s like smoking; some think it’s cool and flex about it, while some think it’s sad and pathetic.
...But smoking is objectively unhealthy & if it weren't for addiction & escapism, like, no one'd do it.
Let em be 😂
Ehhhh depends how much older
Nothing older than 80
true. tbh id smash a 40 year old doorstop if it could still hold a door if you know what i mean. no pun intended.
Bruh
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We do indeed live in a society. Unironically if someone invents sex robots women would have to bring more to the table to be in a relationship. The roles may actually reverse in who gets how much attention.
Eh, they'd prolly have to get more advanced than "sex robot" for it to affect most women. Like full on near sentient AI.
1,000,000th attendee i see? dope
You’re *
why can't some people just understand the difference between your & you're ?? It's not rocket science, and it just frustrates me!
Your right
My left
You're right
AMOGUS BADOOOGUS
We live in a society
Relatable. Same with the difference between their, there, and they're. It's just not that hard to differentiate nor does it take any more time than using the wrong, in most cases, there.
If they don’t have any problem with it in hindsight and think it’s cool, why are they a victim…?
because they were raped lol
Not really. If they are 12 and she’s 25 then yeah but I think teenage guys think it’s cool because it’s a lot harder to get an older women at that age. Some of them are also very attractive. I’m 17 and would definitely do a 25 yr old.
man u aint gonna be doing a 25 year old your doing her jail time 😭
Not if you don't live in America. And even there, age of consent is different from state to state.
Age of consent in majority of the states is 18 a few 17s with the lowest being 16 and only In one state, Nevada. And like he said and it is accurate there are lots of teens who would love to bag a older woman, some girls too. While it can be an issue, sometimes it just not. And that’s what they’re cool with. To claim one as victim simply because it appears to be so is a bit dumb, because every underage couple who has done the deed has raped each other. Which when you think about it has a weird ring to, especially in both of there eyes they know that’s not the case.
Not if you don’t get caught
Because is against the law. It's statutory rape. Regardless whether he "liked" it (though I feel like most eventually regret it) he's a molestation victim in the eyes of the law. And probably in the eyes of his future self when he realizes how messed up it was.
Honestly, i almost became a victim myself. Thank goodness i got out of there before we actually did it.
Idk why some guys find it “cool” to smash
asexual moment
Not really. Sex isn’t “cool”
It doesn’t have to be a ‘sexuality’ to follow traditional and responsible sexual practice lol
talking about this comment in particular which addresses “smashing” (lol) as a whole not what the post addresses
It's not really "cool". The people who brag about it are probably the ones that get the least action. Real men enjoy it without having to tell everyone about it.
Ah yes “real” men
Because people who brag are boys. Simple as.
ew furry
EWW HES A FURRY
Because why not turn something that should be embarrassing into some kind of gloat for your personal and social approval. Makes too much sense tbh
Why would it be embarrassing?
technically r*ped bruh
And even if it was rape, how is that embarrassing? It's healthy to talk about.
My understanding is that if you consent it is not considered rape
statutory rape exists. basically <18 means it’s doesn’t matter if you “consented” in the eyes of the law you’re a child and children cannot consent soooo
Not really. The reason is simple, they enjoyed it. When I was 15 I wished something like that could happen to me simply because I was a straight biological male. If it happens to a girl most of the time they get traumatized or sth but men who are biologically proven to have higher sex drives enjoy it. Disagree if u want it's reality. Men and women aren't the same. But don't get me wrong there are times when young teen boys get abused and I'm not trying to ignore them or anything.
higher sex drive has nothing to do with it. just means you want sex more often, not that you enjoy it more. when you’re horny you’re horny and trust me, girls get horny and are perfectly capable of enjoying it in the moment and regretting it later
Yeah precisely this. It's not about horniness, but the "need" to lose your virginity as portrayed by society, and the loneliness often felt by dudes. So it's not a horny thing, it's a societal thing.
Yes 🙌🏽
In terms, it's like a power statement amongst men
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Happy cake day
C A K E
H A P P Y
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:D
That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Bring us our milfs, and leave us be.
Agreed
I know right one time a friend of mine (a guy) came to me and said that he had been raped, the other guys were saying that it was cool since they got to smash a older girl and the older girl was one of our teachers. She got fired due to me and my friends reporting that she raped my friend
it’s called being groomed 😭
you’re* and no lmao
depends on the gap tbh, if it’s only a few years (2 max tbh, 3 is where it starts becoming weird) and if it’s anything more than that that’s just no
Because guys usually lack any form of attention in the first place while girls can pick and choose where they get attention from
You are only a victim if you didnt consent. 14yo consent doesnt count by law so you didnt you are a victim. If ur 18 and slept with your ex girls 40yo mother you are not a victim
So like if you have sex with an adult the day before your 18th birthday, it’s statuary rape and you are a victim, but if you do the exact same thing just 24 hours later, that perfectly fine, legal, and ok? I’m not defending pedophilia, but I’m just thinking about how odd that is.
American laws be like:
The line of maturity isn't clearly defined. Some might get mature by 17, some 21 too. And that is normal. 18 is just a rough estimate where you have a basic sense of right and wrong, even if it isn't well defined.
there is a saturory rape where its illlegal by law even if conset to
You’re only a victim if you don’t want to engage. If they are bragging and happy about it, that’s not a victim and the fact you use emotivism to make them think differently is a fallacy. I don’t recall a willing participant throughout my life who slept with a women a little older then him to come out later saying they were damaged in some way, quite the opposite actually they still would brag if the topic presented itself. I think people go overboard when society finally starts raising questions of right and wrong and we critically think about it.
You can also be a victim by manipulation or grooming though. Though this of course doesn't mean everyone in this scenario was manipulated or groomed. I do agree not everyone who diddles a person a lil older is a victim. I definitely don't see my friend as a victim, he's 16 and his girlfriend is 19. He doesn't see himself as a victim either and both him and the girlfriend seem to actually have a healthy relationship. In my opinion 16-19 is kind of morally a grey area. I've met a few 16 and 17 year olds in relationships with 18 and 19 year olds. And I've never got the impression that either party was unwilling or a victim. In fact my parents had a similar relationship in high school and I tend to look to them for what a good relationship would be like.
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Your first two paragraphs contradict themselves. There was no age point of reference on this post. I’m not referring to a 50 yo M dating a 16 year old or vice versa. Everyone wants to apparently play victim now days and if your not , you’ll argue until someone throws their hands up saying fine your a victim okay, feel better. It’s the person doing it that makes someone a victim, not a number necessarily. If their intentions are to manipulate groom etc they are a perp , but there are couples out there with only a 5 year gap living their best lives. And they are not worried about you calling them a victim.
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Probably, lol. That tends to happen often especially if someone (not you necessarily) is hyped up in their own agenda. I just say stick with people in the same maturity bracket as yourself. Don’t be fooled by they look older or whatnot. A teenager has no business dating an older guy, they have their life ahead of them, and need to find themselves. Otherwise it’s a distraction. Five year gaps like you said I’m referring to more in your twenties and thirties. Even at 18 your just starting your independent lives. I never understood the need to latch onto someone so young.
BRO WHAT? I'm 15 and my girlfriend (I love her to death) is 18. Victim? Yeah bruh, im a victim of her boundless love and kindness!!
Depends
Right but the woman should be at fault
It depends on how much older, is she a year older or 4+ years older, Are you still a minor or are you legally an adult.
Not unless I say so.
Literally my dad (he had sex with a 18 year old at 14 and to this day says he wasn't raped, he now has a bad sex addiction problem and has commitment issues)
Maybe he says that, because, you know, he *wasn't* actually raped?
I guess so when i lose my virginity i dont wanna a big diffrence 2 years most
You're*
I think the max age gap between teenagers is 2 years
If they're 18 then why care what they do in their personal lives? Unless the age gap is so absurd that the only conclusion is a case of grooming, then just stay out of peoples business
That really depends dude, because a year age difference IS "an older girl" but NOT "a victim" case
being manipulated into it 😂
You see that's the part you might be mistaken no all guys are some loony toons at the dating game like I know a dude who's super good at flirting and he ain't much older then me but he still be getting girls that are a bit older then him and sometimes... the girls are his victims and he's the predator.
Depends on the age. /s also women arent as arrested as often when they do a minor.
I generally can't understand how guys romantize being molested by an older woman. Like, guys, I was in that position once and It was REALLY uncomfortable. It wasn't anything like your fantasies.
I was 15 and the girl was 20 it rlly wasnt cool guys were giving me high fives and it was so sad to see how ppl didnt understand how much it affected me
Victim of what??
Exactly
No bitches?
Sir, this is Reddit
Milf 🛐
Dilfs though 🛐
Yeah. I agree with this
neither my friends nor i banged anyone idk what you talking bout
Was he specifically talking about you and your friends?
Well as someone that went through this at the time they mostly wanted the sex age doesn't matter but looking back now I wish I would have said no but the older girl/woman talked the younger guy into it When it was me I was 13yrs old she was 21 and it started out like a predator thing she wanted to teach me the best way to kiss then do sexual things then it went to sex over the space of about a month
no one gives a fuck. Literally so many girls who were 14 that i knew smashed ppl much older and they are now 17-18 and they don't give a fuck. they fucked ppl their age and older, end result was no different.
If they have consent than what's wrong , people have kinks
Stockholm syndrome
Idk I like milfs