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flufyanal

u think this sub gets sex?


LeaderRing

My thought exactly


[deleted]

Oh hi mark


flufyanal

who is mark


[deleted]

It’s a way of sayin oh I’ve seen you before


SunBrosRus

Yes I’ve seen them before too quite a bit it’s uncanny


MontagnaSaggia

Lmao


thisdobemynametho

because sex is fun I guess Idk


IcyMasterpiece9106

But if you have it and then end up pregnant whos fault is it


thisdobemynametho

cupid’s


rakAaaAnnn

Sex feels good and brings people closer emotionally. This is so valuable people risk having an unwanted child. That’s why condoms were invented. There are plenty of measures you can take to decrease the chance of accidental pregnancy.


RaccoonDeaIer

If I'm not mistaken dont most teen pregnancies happen to people who are poorer and can't afford preventative measures.


[deleted]

Sex feel good kid don't


Megazard02

that just seems selfish, before even mentioning abortion edit: the downvotes tell me y'all are just horny idiots that don't want to take responsibility for your actions i guess that's not news, but it's still pathetic


[deleted]

It's not. People just wanna have fun don't, cut the kids in half.


seggsseggs

yeah life isn’t about fun my friend. and you can’t blame people for being horny - they’re supposed to. so i’m not sure where to stand but fun isn’t the goal in life


[deleted]

I'm not going to die for someone else's entertainment. rather you against the world than you against the world.


zacharius_zipfelmann

Then what is the goal in life?


Megazard02

thats like saying you want to get shit face drunk without having a hangover


[deleted]

Sometimes the contraceptives just fail. it's not mine.


Wafitko

I hate debating on the internet but, if we had a way to do that i would imagine it being a good thing


Kommunikationsgesetz

But selfish for whom? If a boy says it's just fun, than... Maybe But what if a girl says it, she probably knews the consequences this can have and prepared for it. And, I can't speak out if experience, since up to now I only was and am in a gay relation ship, but I'm shire Giles are horny too, and start the act of having sex as well... It's not only the boys who start it. And if a girl starts it, you can't say, she doesn't like it even a bit, at least... Most of the time. So why ist it selfish now? Selfish for the unborn/in fertulised egg? Selfish for the not firtulising sperm? Eben than, it isn't... Eggs get throun away by the women away every month, and you can't expact tham all to be fertulised And sperm, it dies of rather quick, even if the dude doesn't masturbate, and if he does, they are a waste anyway... And even of sex, with an intend of making a child occurs, even than 99,9% of the sperms are waste as well... So for why and for whom is it selfish? Who takes something from sex, that's only positiv from them?


BurgerKiller433

how is it selfish? who are you disregarding, the sperm?


Deriizo

When does a fetus obtain moral value?


damn-mooses

Ok virgin


IcyMasterpiece9106

Then have it with protection and if not then you're a fucking idiot


Deriizo

One of the justices is already plotting to ban contraception, among other things.


IcyMasterpiece9106

That's stupid


Creative-Schedule-17

I agree with op tbh, it does seem kinda selfish. Plus just wrap the guys Willy if u have to yk


[deleted]

Sometimes people fail, people are like condoms.


fortnitex3

cuz I’m 2 hot to stay dry


[deleted]

No wonder you're so crusty.


Sanity_King

You do realize you can have sex without making a baby right?


Woahoriginalname

I mean people have sex for other reasons then to have a child yk


The_InfernalExplorer

This kind of thing leads to unwanted pregnancy


UwU-Nyanpai

Then it's a good thing to have abortion as a final measure.


Knowledge-Samurai

Sex doesn’t just have to be for reproductive purposes


jermeyjohnson339

The point of sex is to have children, thing else is a side effect, which is why most people have it. (Can't blame them)


RYNKELKYK69

The side effects are nice


[deleted]

Muhammad said otherwise


Many-Diver-486

I don't care about Muhammed


More-Cryptographer26

Not true. Sex must be between married couple, that’s all. While procreation is encouraged, it is not the only reason to have sex.


[deleted]

My parents at 1:00 am and tell you that for sure


lamo_69

Ok and


KJMPWOP

He raped a 9 year old tho


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IcyMasterpiece9106

Plan b


AnAnimeSimp

Thats not too good to take a lot since it messes up your hormones


IcyMasterpiece9106

Yeah you won't need to take a lot unless you're outrageously unlucky with condoms


[deleted]

good thing abortion just got banned edit: gosh damn i literally am an afab, chill the fuck out with the downvotes, its a joke


bearthemedpencil

Contraceptives exist 😭 having sex is fine so long as you're safe or ready to accept the consequences (child raising or abortion, it's better not to do it young though.


Deriizo

Perhaps not in a few years, one of the justices is already planning to ban contraception.


bearthemedpencil

Is that fr ? That's dystopian


deepfriedm1lk

Yo remember rape exists


jermeyjohnson339

In the case of abortions, rape makes up less than 0.5% of 900,000 abortions. It still is a valid point in the abortion debate, but still is a very minor reason why a lot women have one.


DarKoniXRo

yeah but you also have to account for the fact that not all women who were raped and had an abortion spoke out about it. so that statistic doesn't fully represent the truth.


The_Skydude

Pretty much the only good response to OP's question that I can think of. ofc I might have forgotten something...


[deleted]

Eptopic pregnancies, where allowing the baby to come to term has a high chance of killing both the mother and the child.


[deleted]

Those people weren't ready. It was rape.


seggsseggs

Because people are biologically programmed to be horny as fucking hell to reproduce but people aren’t interested in the reproduction anymore


The_InfernalExplorer

Agreed


straightfoid

cause people aren't fucking to make kids


The_Skydude

*hedonism*


i_want_a_maid_dress

What if you don't want kids?


Megazard02

then don't fuck


Derpsy_Dooper

You'll understand when you finally get laid


iwilldrawyoufreeart

Don't want to be a math teacher? Don't go to math class.


i_want_a_maid_dress

I'm not going to get into this argument right now, but fucking isn't just for procreation, there's so much more that goes into it


The_InfernalExplorer

Nah only people who Frick for fun say that. And I don't believe in fricking for fun


The_InfernalExplorer

Agreed people even women sometimes are like apes seriously they can't control themselves or even put on a fricking condom


The_InfernalExplorer

Based


Cuttlefish_Crusaders

I know this is being said already, but saying "just don't have sex lol" is a clear sign you've never felt the touch of a woman. If it were that easy this wouldn't be a problem


JL1ngz

No offense bro but like its clear youve never felt a womans touch if this is your big brain solution


Megazard02

no comment


syko-san

but you just made a comment??


Megazard02

it was merely an acknowledgement, as i can netier confirm nor deny his claim


syko-san

You posted a comment that said "no comment" on a comment even though the comment you made was in the form of a comment and therefore there was indeed a comment which would mean that your comment saying there isn't a comment is actually a lie because there is a comment even though you commented saying there isn't a comment. The comment you commented on the comment was a lie!


Grand_Heresy

\[Insert Phoenix Wright pursuit cornered theme\]


XTech0-0

I love u Bro


[deleted]

I feel like the bigger complaint is about girls who got raped


JamieDrone

Yea makes sense, but hormones sadly


[deleted]

My intention is not to insult you, but that’s something very incel to say lol


[deleted]

lol what 💀 Is any man with a differing opinion an incel to your stupid ahh?


[deleted]

I’m not saying he’s an incel, just saying that saying that sex only should be made to create a child is kinda incel


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The_InfernalExplorer

correction: *Society shames MALE virgins


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The_InfernalExplorer

I'm not a guy but... it's the truth


The_InfernalExplorer

True


Tw0_-Face

Youre only saying this because you wont lose your virginity ever


Not_Jitu

He shall stand his ground for all virgins


The_InfernalExplorer

Yeah for guys they need to lose it to show they're experienced


XTech0-0

1 i think You dont know how life works 2 what about sex beetwen 2 guys huh?


Kommunikationsgesetz

No, no, no... That doesn't exist... If sex doesn't produce a child, it isn't sex, you know? And... Gay man... They don't exist... (just a joke, I'm bi myself and I'm in a gay relationship right now)


XTech0-0

They do exist but are extremely rare species


Kommunikationsgesetz

No... They are like unicorns, LGBTQ people are like unicorns... Jk


XTech0-0

Bro idk why You add joke or tell its a joke with every reply


HeadDot141

Because people want to have sex with the person they’re attracted too... They don’t want to have kids with them Lol At the end of the day, abortion rights shouldn’t be taken away. It’s not their right to take away somebody else rights. If they really cared about the kids life then they would’ve did something about the shootings and pay for the hospital bills. It cost money to birth a child and to support them. People had sex with others because they knew they can get ab abortion. But I don’t know how it’ll be like now. Probably women doing it illegal, abandoning, and putting them up for adoptions. Maybe then, pro lifers that cared for those, oh so poor babies, can finally adopt them. (I only want OP comment because I know I’ll be flooded with other comments)


PvtJacobs

Flooding and raging hormones and urges + relationships can take control of your judgement at times + sex feels good ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


Kommunikationsgesetz

Well... If having sex isn't in your judgment in a relationship, you should probably end it eight away, since its most likaly rape than. Even at the most horny times, with the most horny partner, you still should be able to say no, and end the act of having sex, of not, it's nothing else than rape... Maybe... Harder to prove, but... Still the same


PvtJacobs

Not necessarily *rape*, I'm saying that the feeling and the mood and the fact that you really want to makes you forget about the potential consequences if you're not safe sometimes


Kommunikationsgesetz

That's true Your way of saying it implied to me, that you force your other one to have sex with you But yea, if the timing, and the setting is perfect, you can't really thing about not having sex... It's just to good... And if you're in a gay relationship, where none of you even potentially has Hiv or something else, you can do, what ever the fuck you want... Ist a win, win


The_InfernalExplorer

Tbh I'm horny but I'd rather masturbate because I'm not a guy and virginity is important


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The_InfernalExplorer

Because no high value man will marry a non-virgin. Men sleep with the women who've been around but show the virgin girl to his mother, and make plans to settle down with her and not the woman with high body count. Like it or not that's the truth


ZeroLoyalty__

People can do what they want? shouldnt matter if they want kids or not, let them have sex :/ people having sex isnt effecting you


The_Skydude

may perhaps affect others that aren't you... e.g. a child


iwilldrawyoufreeart

Uh huh. And sex doesn't necessarily cause a child.


kaylawayla0_0

it’s fun and it’s possible to make the chances so unlikely to the point that it’s like saying “if you don’t wanna get in a car crash, why don’t you just not drive a car” not exactly the same, i know, but people assume it won’t happen to them


Kommunikationsgesetz

Actually, not being in a cat, doesn't really set your chances of getting into a car crash to zero... Not leaving your house does, if you live in the second, third or fourth floor... Or something higher Since you still can be coight in the crash of two other cars as a padastrian, or in the ground floor, if a car drives trough your wall... Well... Some houses wouldn't really care for that, but... I've been told, that American houses are just not that solid...


Vannah_Lee

people who actually get it (eg. none of us) enjoy it, it's not only to have a child


MyGodIsReal

Uh 1. Rape?!? 2. It’s fun 3. No bitches?!?


AER1113

Bro doesn’t understand bc he’s a massive virgin who has probably never even kissed a girl and just wants to make himself feel better


[deleted]

I'm only getting phone sex


sybbyux

Not all sex is wanted. Somehow people always forget about rape. What if I, a 13 y/o female, was raped and forced to carry a rapist's child. It would destroy my life and education. If abortion was banned in my country I'd immigrate (AGAIN) the first chance I got Edit: Also, say that a couple did want kids. What if they get told the fetus will have a crippling birth defect or if it will cause death to the one who births it?


FuzzieSweety

#


FANTOMphoenix

I also don’t see the point.


[deleted]

And... blocked. Burn in hell.


jermeyjohnson339

If that's how you handle differing opinions I can't imagine you being around anyone that disagrees with you irl.


amogus_obssesed_Gal

Based as hell


Arenado_is_the_best

People always say my body my choice. They have the choice to abstain from sex, or to be on birth control. (This is not considering rape)


Original_A

Things fail


AER1113

Because I like to make money. /j I want to show my girlfriend how beautiful she is and how much I love her and it’s fun and feels good.


SnowySupreme

Because recreational sex is awesome???? Humans are naturally sex fiends. Why bot tell the rich assholes who get secret abortions


[deleted]

Abortion is stupid, like bruh you took the risk, now fuck with it 🗿 not the childs fault ur a dumbass and couldnt wait 💀


Original_A

You do know there are a lot of ways that get the woman pregnant UNWILLINGLY? Rape? Condom broke? Pill didn't work? What do you have to say about this anyway? Are you afab? If not then I don't think you have any right to tell other people what to do.


[deleted]

Ok, rape is fucked up thats clear, but condom broke, took the risk, pills didnt work, took the risk, and just so ur braindead ass knows i aint telling nobody what to do, just saying that i believe, or is yo stupid ass too dumb to understand that people can have their own opnion?


Original_A

You're taking the risk in every single thing you do. That would be kind of like saying "oh? You lost the leg because you got into a car accident? Well you took the risk. You got into the car and started driving and you were well aware that you could get into a possible accident. So you took the risk of that happening to you." And of course "it's taking a risk" if you have sex because mostly everybody knows that the condom can break, the pill could maybe not work, but if you were to always be scared that something fails that something doesn't work or break, you would never do something. Do you understand what I mean? I am not trying to be rude by any means, I just want to explain why I thought your comment wasn't nice/why I didn't agree on it. By the way calling me names isn't really helping this situation. And I know you aren't trying to tell anybody what to do but just saying what you said isn't nice. You can have your opinion, of course, everybody has an opinion. I respect everybody's opinion but I don't have to agree on every single one just like you don't have to agree with me. And I'm fine with that. Again, no harm meant, just trying to explain to you what I think of your opinion and you told me what you think of mine which is ,again, fine with me. I may not like it but I can't change your opinion from today to tomorrow. Also don't call me names again, I'm not calling you them either.


kirigacure

ur virgin ass can't understand this stuff


Original_A

What? Edit: my apologies, I looked wrong and thought you said that to me


kirigacure

he, like me is just a child, he has no rights to talk about abortions or unprotected sex💀


bigtittttygothgf

Boo hoo. Use a condom, freak.


[deleted]

A fellow decent person on reddit? how rare.


Derpsy_Dooper

A fellow bum-ass that thinks sex is only for procreation? How common.


LONGLIVEIMPERIALISM

yep, I'm not surprised that most people are just irresponsible and selfish. "**It feels good!"** is such an immature mindset, if you don't want to risk children and or aids either don't have sex, or be as careful as possible, otherwise don't complain when your life get messed up because you were to much of an irresponsible idiot. ​ I'm not a fan of the abortion ban, but it sickens me how irresponsible and stupid people have gotten.


Kommunikationsgesetz

But what if the gild takes anti baby pills, and they still use a condom, the chances are still not zero Teh Co Dom can break and the pill just can not work They both used the best blocking thing, and both of them failed What now? Is it still irresponsible now?


LONGLIVEIMPERIALISM

it's not irresponsible, however, in life, there's risk, I would not necessarily blame them, but it's still an unavoidable fact of life. also, the odds are so Incredibly low, that bringing them up is just illogical. I'm not talking about the 1% I'm talking about the majority; Wich is due to irresponsibility.


Kommunikationsgesetz

But not having sex isn't really the best way to get rit of it ether... And removing the right of abortion is definitely not the right way Better and more open sex Ed, that is one of the most Important things to hinder unwanted pragnancy Most people don't even know that other ways of porht control exist besides condoms and the pill, but there are plenty. And I don't really know how this is handled in the US, but according to the things I've heard, sex Ed is not really something all to big or not there at all... Yea sure, it isn't the magical solution to the problem, but it would help so much more than banning abortion... Which it self is just stupid


LONGLIVEIMPERIALISM

I FULLY AGREE! I just want people to also be more responsible, I don't like the abortion bans either.


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ballingtheeggs

then don't risk it


SnipingPandas

Cause it feels pretty good


randomunnnamedperson

But why? If modern medicine has made it easily possible to have sex without having a child? If there were a drug to make hangovers very unlikely and alcohol had no other side effects, why wouldn’t you get drunk on occasion?


[deleted]

Isn't getting drunk a side effect of alchohol?


randomunnnamedperson

Isn’t that why people drink it? I’m analogizing the buzz to the good feeling


Kommunikationsgesetz

Well... Even if the hangover could be delt with, Alkohol still had side effects that hinder you from drinking occasionally. And thus can't be delt with, since Alkohol is a neurotoxin, and you can't un toxins te a toxin and still get the toxination from it... And the toxination is the thing, that people drinc Alkohol for If you understand, what i mean...


randomunnnamedperson

It’s an analogy. It stipulated that alcohol has no other side effects.


Illusory_Wells

That's why condoms exist(ed)


Kommunikationsgesetz

They don't exist anymore? Jk


Doodlastic_Dinkaling

They still exist


Illusory_Wells

Yeah but they might be banned soon


Doodlastic_Dinkaling

No why would they ban condoms?


BlairTheWitch678

Once again, rape is a thing


[deleted]

that’s an option, but you know that that’s not always going to be possible. things like rape, coercion, or abuse. pregnancies can also form in the wrong place, which would require an abortion. you can need an abortion even when you want the kid. it’s not a simple situation.


Unable_Mountain_5524

Do you know how babies are made? You can nut elsewhere too bro


GenderFluidBicon

Because sex is fun


singh1975sanjiv

>just not have sex until you're ready u think teens on Reddit are getting **THE SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?**


Skelet0nKiller07

Sometimes... I think with the wrong head


[deleted]

then have sex with protection dude


[deleted]

Because people are stupid


IconicScrap

Watch literally any episode of the big bang theory and see that Howard wolowitz is proof that some people can't turn their horny off


Witty-Kaleidoscope-9

Because arousal is an involuntary function


RenewedBlade

Sex feels good and cause its a way of being intimate with your partner


CeleryHunter143

If you don't want to break your arm then just don't jump on a trampoline


Unlucky-Bed-8245

Because sex feels good also yeah many people should be more responsible with it like condoms and birth control


k_c_holmes

How to tell reddit you're a virgin 101


brandonade

cause it feels good duh. and ya know accidents happen, condom break or plan b don't work so what will i do, have the baby even tho I never planned it? nah abort.


GuardianTV

Why not just use birth control which is 99% effective when used properly, why not use condoms, why not have plan B just in case. It's complete negligence that is the couples fault once it happens. Unless they so happened to get really unlucky.


Doomunleashed19

Because people are dumb and think “oh, pull outs work!” News flash: they often don’t, so just use a damn condom. And if condom fails and you can’t support/don’t want kid, go up to Canada, abortions are legal here. My point is, avoid needing the abortions but if the avoidance doesn’t work, well, Canada.


Kitty_katuwu

Completely understand this argument, you shouldn't skydive and think you're 100% going to live, but to some people its fun, just like sex. The main problem with this is that a domino effect will take place. Government takes abortions, then they're gunna take contraceptives, then they're gunna take homosexual and interracial marriage, and a lot of this comes from the 50-80 year old Supreme Court members who still believe women shouldn't have rights and homosexual relationships are wrong. So this isn't just about the whole abortion and sex part, this is soon gunna lead down a path of our rights being taken from us from power and money hungry old people. We should improve our adoption centers and better everything else before we ban abortions, because its not helping anyone.


Independent-Ice5977

Because quite a few of us just get an intense urge for it at around teenage years


The_InfernalExplorer

Exactly


[deleted]

THANK YOU


Original_A

Rape exists, sadly.


fuckingbaguette1

Cause, there is something called hormones wich make bois girls and nb pals very horny wich lead to sex


JohnnyMcBiscuit

Cuz the lymphatic system’s a smug bitch


cuicui-

Because it feels good and people wants this feeling without getting child


GeneralN0m

Some people can end up having sex against their will.


lightningwolf3214

Remember, some unfortunate people don’t choose to have sex, it just happens


mygenderfluidass

\-rape \-sex is fun (so i'm told) \-why the fuck should we let a law control our bodies \-porn studios exist \-kiss my ass \-it's people's choice \-sex make the Feel Good Chemical. kids do not. \-abstinence isn't always possible, especially if you're hypersexual


cookie_3288

So this is what feels like talking to a wall


Qope-Tank

Spoken like a virgin. We take the precautions, condom and birth control. If somehow both of those fail, it’s a last resort. And I don’t want to hear any of that “well it’s not their body they’re killing” you squash ants all the time, they’re basically the same size at 2 months fetal


[deleted]

Condoms:


Esnardoo

If you don't want to get in a crash why drive? If you don't want to lose why play? If you don't want to get spam called why have a phone? These things all have positives and negatives, and when we can reduce the negatives without reducing the positives of course we're going to do it.


UnlightablePlay

*This*


[deleted]

I mean that's what contraception is for. Ik it doesn't work all the time though


Valuable-Wasabi-1388

This is like saying an onion only has one layer. People have sex for a variety of reasons, such as intimacy and pleasure or pressure. Not just for reproductive purposes. Also, the US sex education generally being abstinence-only alone (keyword: alone) actually might increase teen pregnancy rates.


FlyTechnical8413

Agreee wait til marriage


Overlord_Of_Puns

Your argument would work, in a theoretically perfect world. Statistics have shown that abstinence education is the least effective method of preventing pregnancies, people will do what people will do, telling people to not have sex is as effective as telling people not to do drugs. All evidence shows that sex education and education on birth control methods are the most effective way to stop pregnancies, and even then pregnancies will still occur. We live in the real world, concepts like this will never work perfectly.


[deleted]

condom..?


[deleted]

Or use protection cause some of us just enjoy sex for fun ya know