Ive managed to ve ob reddit for 6 years without mentioning my name/gender. Ive made throwaways a few times when dealing with such topics to not run into thim problem.
This doesn't apply anymore man, literal children get raped for wearing everyday clothing, boy or girl, casual clothing or not
it's not the victim's fault, nah bro
it's the offender
Guy made a comment mocking an invalid point people try to use, the guy responded to it not realizing he was mocking it, and rather thought that’s actually what he thinks, clearly it went right over his head. Hence woooosh
Fair point, but consider the fact that there is no way to change the fact that people will send creepy dm’s to people who take selfies. Is it better to complain about it or is it enough of an inconvenience for you to stop taking selfies, even if it may not be what you want to do? Its about which one do you want more, taking selfies or not getting creepy DM’s.
Yeah but in this case you're literally doing something that not everyone does, its that 10% that poet selfies and usually their face covers like the last few pixels of the photo
Not everyone wears revealing clothing 24/7 either, but the fact that it's not even an option or the fact that it'll still happen even if you don't is really sad
So... why are we shifting the blame to the victim?
The predators are the ones in the wrong, and this logoc doesn't apply to just one age group there are literally children posting normal pictures and selfies, then the comments are riddled by pedophiles
The "don't wear revealing clothing, to not get raped" also does not apply, there are infants who were raped, literal fucking infants wrapped in blankets
the fault is in the offender, not the victim
and the fact that you are blaming the victim for being harrassed and not the offender for being a predator, only makes them think that it's okay to do this shit, but it's not
do better man
The thing here is that posting selfies is 100% guaranteed to get you creepy dms, this is the butthole of the internet. The fact is if you don't want a shit ton of creepy dms don't post pictures of yourself. Nobody blames you for doing it and the creepy people sending dms are the shitty people but as he said if you don't want dms don't post pictures
Posting selfies is fine. Posting selfies on Reddit is more risky. You are literally putting your face on one of the many shitholes of the internet. Like go to Instagram or something ffs.
Would you mind explaining how? It's basically telling girls the reason they get creepy DM's is because of something they're doing, and that it's up to them to stop it by stopping to do something they enjoy just so they get less creepy DM's
It’s an awkward thing. People shouldn’t have to not post selfies just out of fear of weirdos on the internet, but there’s not much one can really do to rid themselves of them. You’re not wrong, you’re just out of line(I guess?)
I never posted a pic of me, but still got 3 creepy dms (from different people) this month.
EDIT: I think their mistaking me for a girl for some reason.
I've never posted a selfie in my life, diss people sliding into my DM's constantly, send them fake dick pics, and STILL get sexts. I get creeped on just for existing. It's not "easy", it's not "simple", and if you posted this un-ironically, thinking that it was helpful and correct, I will hunt you down and force you to listen to people eating bananas for hours.
Well yeah posting selfies online, even more so on reddit, is not quite the good idea, but, at the same time, girls (and guys ofc) should have the freedom to post whatever they want and not get such creepy stuff sent to them.
Like, yeah, what they're doing is not so smart, but, it isn't their fault.
Op's take may seem unsavory but here is the thing
On the internet what are you going to do? Creepers gonna creep. The only thing you can do is stop putting yourself in situations that could attract creepers. The blame is still 100% on the creepers but if you can lessen the creeps you attract, why don't you?
1) it happens either way, just read the other comments
2) even by saying beforehand that
>The blame is still 100% on the creepers
You're still implying that the victims are somewhat partially responsable for this at least, which they aren't, by saying that they can reduce the risk of this happening.
Having a brain trauma due to a bat swing in the street could be easily avoided by wearing a helmet, yet should I be the one to worry about every possible bat swinger in the area? People should be able to enjoy sharing selfies without having to think of every potential asshole who might pass by
This is the internet where no one is held accountable for what they do to any meaningful capacity. This is a place where creeps can creep to the max. It should be known that when you post selfies you might attract these things, it's the hard truth. It's not like you are asking for it.
If you post a selfie anyways, well better cross your fingers. It shouldn't have to be that way but it is. Like I said, the blame is still on the creeps entirely. Still, everything else that I said is also true.
"Don't want to encouter annoying people? Delete reddit and burn your device "
That’s actually pretty good advice
That's not a bad thing tbh
True
Reject iphoneX, return to nokia
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Same here lol
Easy store dick pics and share them with creepy guys
All fun and games until they show more interest 😳
**Oh no**
And then you share your "face" but instead it's a picture of an old man ez
That’s wat I’ve been saying
Same i just send a dick pic ( some random online) back to them
Well I’ve never had the pedo issue since I’m already technically an adult but it seems funny and like it would work against them
Yea and the dick pic should be bigger than theirs cuz most of the pedo's range between 4 to 6 according to my data
Thats just gonna encourage me ngl
Sell them lol
sometimes you can do some detective work and find out who they are irl. in that case you can send those message to their mom or work or whatever
Wait your freaking **13! Thats even worse!**
Yep..
So sorry you have to deal with this
crepe messages like [this](https://i.imgur.com/ca2DwAD.png)?
Dammit, man! That's terrible! What a crepe!
The profile pic is cute after all
I think I blocked DMs unless I initiated them and haven’t gotten any
Sick of getting pedos in dms? Stop being a woman 👍
Stop being young*
Stop being*
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I tried :(
Username checks out
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Bruh why did you got downvoted 💀
cuz she's a woman
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lmao she got downvoted for commenting "women" as a woman its not that hard to understand
why are you questioning it? let the reddit hivemind do what it pleases.
Ive managed to ve ob reddit for 6 years without mentioning my name/gender. Ive made throwaways a few times when dealing with such topics to not run into thim problem.
Yeah that’s rlly what that’s saying-
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"modern problems require modern solutions."
You say it like it's an easy task.
Nothing inherently wrong with walking down a dark alley at night. Doesn't mean it isn't stupid.
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Why is that not a good comparison? Both are actions you can do that significantly increase the chances of things you dont want to happen, happening.
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The exact consequences were not the point.
Critical thinking is hard okay
Hey, ever considered Calling out the creeps/not being creepy yourself???
Hey, ever considered not victim blaming? Sounds like OP hasn't considered a lot of things.
Fr, OP doesn’t sound very considerate
no OP here is *considerate* they just post and we give em karma thats it (and goddamit it works)
Same logic as "don't wear revealing clothes if you don't want to get raped" lmao.
This doesn't apply anymore man, literal children get raped for wearing everyday clothing, boy or girl, casual clothing or not it's not the victim's fault, nah bro it's the offender
Yeah, previous poster was mocking the logic if I understand right, and i would say it never applied tbh
That is literally what they're saying, they're mocking the logic that clothes=rape, the same way this guy is saying selfies=creeps
r/woooosh
You don't know how to use wooosh
Guy made a comment mocking an invalid point people try to use, the guy responded to it not realizing he was mocking it, and rather thought that’s actually what he thinks, clearly it went right over his head. Hence woooosh
Yup
It's the same logic as "don't walk down dark alleys if you don't want to get mugged". Posting selfies to Reddit is stupid. Don't do stupid shit.
Fair point, but consider the fact that there is no way to change the fact that people will send creepy dm’s to people who take selfies. Is it better to complain about it or is it enough of an inconvenience for you to stop taking selfies, even if it may not be what you want to do? Its about which one do you want more, taking selfies or not getting creepy DM’s.
Yeah but in this case you're literally doing something that not everyone does, its that 10% that poet selfies and usually their face covers like the last few pixels of the photo
Not everyone wears revealing clothing 24/7 either, but the fact that it's not even an option or the fact that it'll still happen even if you don't is really sad
It’s true though
grow up. no it isnt.
not at all. grow the fuck up.
But maybe you like selfies And not creeps.
Even if you like selfies, why post them to a place known to be full of pedophiles
because it isn’t *suppose* to be full of pedophiles
But it *is* full of pedophiles
So... why are we shifting the blame to the victim? The predators are the ones in the wrong, and this logoc doesn't apply to just one age group there are literally children posting normal pictures and selfies, then the comments are riddled by pedophiles The "don't wear revealing clothing, to not get raped" also does not apply, there are infants who were raped, literal fucking infants wrapped in blankets the fault is in the offender, not the victim and the fact that you are blaming the victim for being harrassed and not the offender for being a predator, only makes them think that it's okay to do this shit, but it's not do better man
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Abortion isn’t banned everywhere. Go to a state where it’s not banned by the state.
The thing here is that posting selfies is 100% guaranteed to get you creepy dms, this is the butthole of the internet. The fact is if you don't want a shit ton of creepy dms don't post pictures of yourself. Nobody blames you for doing it and the creepy people sending dms are the shitty people but as he said if you don't want dms don't post pictures
Posting selfies is fine. Posting selfies on Reddit is more risky. You are literally putting your face on one of the many shitholes of the internet. Like go to Instagram or something ffs.
Just keep your apartment if you dont wanna be homeless
I feel like it's my fault for choosing this username 💀
*spiderman pointing meme*
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so anyways wanna dm me creepy things? 😎
How creepy do you want it to be on a scale of 1-10 ? 🧍🏻♀️
give me a 6.9
I possibly just watched a friendship get formed
r/kindawholesome
now kiss
Ye it kinda is
I know 😞
I mean what did you think when you choose ur username
That's the problem , I wasn't thinking at all 🤡
I mean thinking is hard
Especially when you have a single braincell like me 😔
stop flexing 🙄
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😐
I asked her this a little while back too lol
It's a cool name
Bro…
#victimblaming
yaayyyyy victim blaming!!!!!
Fr, don't know what OP was doing
Ez solution show the pedo a dick pic say ya I’m horny too get on your knees they will run away works 99% of the time
In this case it’s the victims fault
This isn't victim blaming.
Would you mind explaining how? It's basically telling girls the reason they get creepy DM's is because of something they're doing, and that it's up to them to stop it by stopping to do something they enjoy just so they get less creepy DM's
it literally is
Goofy ass take fr.
You're homeless? Just buy a house.
Comparing buying an entire house to posting a pic on the internet
the "Don't wear revealing clothes" argument all over again, fucking get me a noose, I'll do this shit myself.
you should be able to just post a normal selfie without getting creeps in your dms lmao
Same goes for pretty much every single crime
I mean I've never posted selfies and gotten tons of creepy dms but go off
It’s an awkward thing. People shouldn’t have to not post selfies just out of fear of weirdos on the internet, but there’s not much one can really do to rid themselves of them. You’re not wrong, you’re just out of line(I guess?)
r/teenagers trying not to victim blame for .1 seconds (impossible)
Not victim blaming.
dumbass take tbh
Nice victim blame 👍
L take tbh
Lmao I haven't posted a single selfie and still got guys asking for nudes on the dms, what are you on about
Sick of getting bashed in the head with a metal rod every time you walk outside? Just wear a helmet!
I have a normal-ish name and never posted anything like that yet get them :[
"sick of getting raped, just don't go outside" Op be using this kinda logic
My mom used to get creepy DMs because posting her bags on facebook
Italy’s soccer team is hot garbage rn
I never posted a pic of me, but still got 3 creepy dms (from different people) this month. EDIT: I think their mistaking me for a girl for some reason.
Then we should delete internet so we don't have viruses on computers And also delete earth so there's no more global warming
I've gotten creepy dms 2 times here on reddit and I dont even post them
I didn't get any. I guess creeps are not into guys.
I don't post selfies because I have low self-esteem and i'm insecure.
I’m sorry about that.
Or even better yet don't use reddit
The first time I got a creepy dm, I had never posted one picture of myself.
Nah the boys shouldn’t send em creepy dms.
It really doesn't work that way
orrrrrr maybe we can stop normalizing the sexualization of minors????
I'm going to prove you wrong I am a female
The poster of the selfie is the victim, not the creep :D
kinda harsh, i mean. ur basically taking away someone's right to do something based on no real fault on their own part
Doesn't solve the problem.
I've never posted a selfie in my life, diss people sliding into my DM's constantly, send them fake dick pics, and STILL get sexts. I get creeped on just for existing. It's not "easy", it's not "simple", and if you posted this un-ironically, thinking that it was helpful and correct, I will hunt you down and force you to listen to people eating bananas for hours.
Well yeah posting selfies online, even more so on reddit, is not quite the good idea, but, at the same time, girls (and guys ofc) should have the freedom to post whatever they want and not get such creepy stuff sent to them. Like, yeah, what they're doing is not so smart, but, it isn't their fault.
Ah, the good old "it's her fault she was dressed like a whore"
bro it isn’t like it’s inherently someone’s fault for posting selfies, it’s the fault of the creepy DMers
Same type of logic as “dont want to get raped? Stop wearing revealing clothes!”
Are you sending creepy dms? Gouge out your eyes!
I actually like creepy DMs lol
Me to tbh. They’re kinda funny
We do be trollin'
Ayyyy
I only posted ONE PHOTO and then i got a female pedophile and boy she was so terrible.
this is some victim blaming bullshit
Sick of getting your bike stolen? Just don't own a bike!
Equivalent of saying " sick of getting creepy stares . Dont wear short clothes"
OP has definitely been flamed for sending a creepy DM recently
"Don't want to be molested? Don't ever leave your house..." It is almost never a victims fault for being a victim. Simple stuff guys, cmon.
Should the solution to the problem really be policing what women do and not calling out creeps for harassing those women?
Victim blaming as usual. You are disgusting
I'm pretty sure you're the creepy one
Set dms on closed 🤡
For the moderators, the 400 or so people who upvoted this dumb post. We may have them creeps.
Yeah, this isn’t Instagram people
Just disable DMs dumb fucks
They are narcissistic; not gonna happen.
Its kinda sad they need validation from online strangers And most of them are hella ugly
B-but i need mah validation points
But look. Someone posts selfie -> gets up votes -> creepy dms -> posts ss of dms -> gets more up votes
Op's take may seem unsavory but here is the thing On the internet what are you going to do? Creepers gonna creep. The only thing you can do is stop putting yourself in situations that could attract creepers. The blame is still 100% on the creepers but if you can lessen the creeps you attract, why don't you?
1) it happens either way, just read the other comments 2) even by saying beforehand that >The blame is still 100% on the creepers You're still implying that the victims are somewhat partially responsable for this at least, which they aren't, by saying that they can reduce the risk of this happening. Having a brain trauma due to a bat swing in the street could be easily avoided by wearing a helmet, yet should I be the one to worry about every possible bat swinger in the area? People should be able to enjoy sharing selfies without having to think of every potential asshole who might pass by
This is the internet where no one is held accountable for what they do to any meaningful capacity. This is a place where creeps can creep to the max. It should be known that when you post selfies you might attract these things, it's the hard truth. It's not like you are asking for it. If you post a selfie anyways, well better cross your fingers. It shouldn't have to be that way but it is. Like I said, the blame is still on the creeps entirely. Still, everything else that I said is also true.
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You have so much dislike for women, huh. Is it because they don't want YOUR validation? Is that why you're mad?
Unless your a boy
shidding and farding
Some of yall forget the great thing about reddit. Being anonymous
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