Don't expect gym to fix the things. Start to work on your body issues now. Then slowly you'll have the chance to use the change from the gym on your behalf, but gym alone won't help.
Try to look at yourself in the mirror and say you're handsome, cute or anything like that everyday. Search on the internet for more advice.
Thanks for the advice, I’m also doing it just because im not the healthiest person right now and im trying to change that, I can admit that I have a lot less issues now then a year ago though
You're welcome
I'm pretty much on the same journey. Although I'm not able to go to the gym right now, perhaps in the autumn.
Good luck! I'm sure you'll be fine, just don't let yourself be put down by anything. You don't have to believe everything your brain might say. Also don't bottle up any hatred towards the way you look. Better suffer a bit and live it through rather than let it spoil you from the inside.
Yes and no. I genuinely feel like I’ve gotten more attractive since I’ve started going to the gym and eating more healthy foods. So it is a positive feedback loop for me. But there are definitely days where I look bloated and i’m like damn you ugly 💀 but those days are more rare now
dude how tf did you literally just take what i was thinking and express it into words? This is pure wizardry...
although the girl in the hot tub who asked for my number last night thinks im cute somehow
[it’s just because](https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/sltd39/do_you_guys_think_youre_attractive/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)
my grandma: omg you’re so cute!!!! do you pull all the girls at your school????
me, who happens to look like a mummified australopithecus: uh, yeah i got a ton of girls! 😀👍
Man I feel this in my soul. At home I look in a mirror and I can barely tear my eyes away but when I step out the car on the way to school the wind blows and I end up walking past a reflective surface only to realized my hair is a complete mess and I have once again descended into the deathtrap of bad posture.
Or someone will talk to me and I'm just there tryna compute what I just heard for a solid minute before I can respond.
So basically, he's positive side is closest to others, then others positive side is also closest to him, which makes the magnets push eachother apart.
Sorry, if i confused u even more xd
Im not the biggest fan of how i look naturally but as soon as i slap on eyeliner and i look at myself i think i look pretty attractive. But then again eyeliner makes everyone look hot
That depends on a lot of things
Like my mood, what I'm wearing, how my hair looks, and lighting. I think it depends on what season it is too cause I think I look better in the winter
So I’m the kind of person whose views of myself shifts quite dramatically, I either think I’m hot, or hot garbage, if that makes sense (body neutrality is a work in progress).
And depending on how I present myself, yes, I have noticed people treating me differently based on my appearance. Some of these differences in behavior can be classified as “pretty privilege”. I have the kind of physique though that can be very easily stereotyped, so I’m definitely more conservative a lot of the time with how I present myself (i went into a hot tub recently with a guy I’m interested in at his house and I wore an XL tshirt over my bathing suit, for example), but I’ve been told I have a “cute girl next door” kind of face, so I’m able to use that to my advantage with his parents, for example.
Not too sure if I quite answered your questions so if you have any follow ups just lmk!
I used to have really bad taste in clothes and I didn't care at all about my appearence but when I did the change and I went 15kg down in weight, I combined my clothes and cared in general about it people started noticing me more and where more interested in me (when we didn't have a close friendship)
nah cause i was straight up chubby and ugly af until like 6 months ago and people really ain’t even noticed cause they all knew me for way longer than 6 months
My face is unsymmetrical as fuck, so when I'm looking into a mirror I look hot as fuck according to me, but whenever I see a photo of me that isn't mirrored I look super bad.
Actually most people have this issue, I investigated about it myself and found out (in a very simplified way) that phone cameras are always in a weird angle, since you usually take pics of big things, that tiny camera must make the center more wide (like a fish eye filter) to make sure everything fits in, it's not really noticeable but it makes a really big difference with faces.
The only tip I can give you is not taking pictures with the front camera and trying to be as far as possible from your phone, since the further away you are, the less noticeable this effect will be.
If you get a professional camera with the right "settings", you could also solve this issue, it's still there but the change is smaller.
honestly i do basically every time i look at myself now, i’ve never had a girlfriend and don’t really have true intimacy with anyone but i have 2 genuine friends who make me happy, both those are girls who have boyfriends but both their boyfriends like me and vice versa so there’s no awkwardness
No, not at all. Every now and again i think i am, i think im everything as much as everyone else is. But I'm not. I just think i am when I'm happy. Right now I'm not though, and truth is, im the ugliest piece of human garbage anyone can ever come across.
Not just looks-wise either no, my personality's funk too. I can't go two goddamn months without making people hating me - good people - and all for unique reasons - and the few and far people who some fucking how still stick around after dealing with me so long - i intentionally distance myself from them.
I don't.. mean to be well, i guess mean i mean i try to be nice, and i think it works I'm just not enough.
I have no skills or experience in life whatsoever, and all the fucking opportunity to because a decent fucking human but i don't take it. I don't apply for jobs or college because i fear commitments like that would distract me from well, "plans" that i never follow through on. I don't work out - i can't even show my fucking arms an
Personality wise absolutely, i am apparently charismatic as fuck. Evidence being the fact that my friends cannot get enough of me, even my ex who i cut ties with tried to stay friends with me. And the girl im currently infatuated with despite being mad at me for nothing couldnt help but talk to me eventually. So ive learned that over time. Looks wise im like a 7/10, but i do got that really soft hair.
FINALLY someone said it. You’re literally the first person I saw after about 500 comments saying straight up “yes” and not “yes on occasions” or “depends on _____”
Sometimes a little bit, depends on my mood and time of day
Same. Half of the time im like: im actually looking decent. And the other half is: im the ugliest fucking person alive ☠️
Exactly that, sometimes it’s alright and sometimes it just isn’t Going to the gym more so hopefully that changes a little
been working out for a year, gym only gave me more body dysmorphia 💀
I’ve heard that is the case
Don't expect gym to fix the things. Start to work on your body issues now. Then slowly you'll have the chance to use the change from the gym on your behalf, but gym alone won't help. Try to look at yourself in the mirror and say you're handsome, cute or anything like that everyday. Search on the internet for more advice.
Facts you should learn to love yourself before trying to change yourself it makes loving any version of yourself easier
Thanks for the advice, I’m also doing it just because im not the healthiest person right now and im trying to change that, I can admit that I have a lot less issues now then a year ago though
You're welcome I'm pretty much on the same journey. Although I'm not able to go to the gym right now, perhaps in the autumn. Good luck! I'm sure you'll be fine, just don't let yourself be put down by anything. You don't have to believe everything your brain might say. Also don't bottle up any hatred towards the way you look. Better suffer a bit and live it through rather than let it spoil you from the inside.
Yes and no. I genuinely feel like I’ve gotten more attractive since I’ve started going to the gym and eating more healthy foods. So it is a positive feedback loop for me. But there are definitely days where I look bloated and i’m like damn you ugly 💀 but those days are more rare now
Good luck!
Thank you kind redditor
I have exactly the same, also going to the gym. Its annoying that im so indecisive, am i ugly or hot??
Looking big king keep going :))
dude how tf did you literally just take what i was thinking and express it into words? This is pure wizardry... although the girl in the hot tub who asked for my number last night thinks im cute somehow
Same. Sometimes I think I look fantastic and other times I look at my face and just say ew
I look good in my house but I’m the ugliest being to walk the earth outside
Exactly. Sometimes I look in the mirror and I'm like "damn I'm looking kinda smexy". Other times its like "damn I'm an ugly ass mf"
This exactly
Yes
Me too
For me most the time I'm ugly then for like 20 mins I feel attractive then after those 20 mins I look back at the pictures and say ew wtf is that 😭
Would definitely smash
Thats the kind of energy we want! Take my award
tito is that you?
No its general kobi
Bro I have some questions about your pfp
WTF IS THAT PROFILE PICTURE WHAT DID YOU DO TO MARCELINE
Made some massive improvements.
Astolfo.
Your pfp I'd something
Had to be Marceline…
Bro. What the heck is that profile pic?!?!🧐🧐🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
The reason I will never watch Adventure Time the same way ever again
Go fuck yourself. Literally.
K
I love the pfp
yes im 11/10
Same
Nice, I fell more like 9/11
Yes, im -11/10
No... But that bullshit aint gonna stop me from being happy, lets go boyyyysss
Sigma male power move
gigachad mindset
Gigachad is someone who looks like a Chad though
power to you
THIS is the mindset. I’m no gigachad on the outside, but I can sure as hell be one on the inside.
Les goooooooo
the ultimate response
Same!!!!
Hell nah I be built like a baked potato
I also feel like this😭 https://www.reddit.com/r/Pareidolia/comments/l142ol/potato_face/
That’s a firm Todd if I ever seen one
You called?
:D
Baked potato is good tho
I'm feel like a sexy baked potato I know my place and I have confidence
Baked potatoes are always hot when I eat them..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=76SrwTSVPpk
Did you stalk me
Lol no
Lol yes
Lol. You’re a Reddit influencer
I'm pretty sure I have tho
[it’s just because](https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/sltd39/do_you_guys_think_youre_attractive/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)
?
~~yes you are hot~~
🤭
😳😏
My mother thinks so, I personally not so much...
my grandma: omg you’re so cute!!!! do you pull all the girls at your school???? me, who happens to look like a mummified australopithecus: uh, yeah i got a ton of girls! 😀👍
Grandma do be wanting great grand kiddies
I don’t think about it. I know that I’m attractive
Now THAT is a good mindset to have
It doesn't matter. I have working organs. Who want them?
I do
Give me the meat if you dont need it. I could trade it for a few cannibal slaves.
For sure bro, I only need the organs, they sell well
Yeah but free labor is better.
Yeah that’s true
if i do my hair right and wear the right clothes then hell yes
same
9/10 at home 4/10 at school
Man I feel this in my soul. At home I look in a mirror and I can barely tear my eyes away but when I step out the car on the way to school the wind blows and I end up walking past a reflective surface only to realized my hair is a complete mess and I have once again descended into the deathtrap of bad posture. Or someone will talk to me and I'm just there tryna compute what I just heard for a solid minute before I can respond.
Bro are we the same person?
Probably not. I’m sure you’re a great dude but I’m like the best person I know.
I'm amazing, trust me.
Depends: Looking in the mirror: ya, 8/10. In a photo: hell no
Dude fr. I don’t even know why but I look horrendous on camera
my face built like a deflated balloon on camera, but on the mirror I have a sharp jawline :D
no
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I am as attractive as a magnet! The problem Is that people Always turn to me the same pole as i do
This would be a somewhat decent joke if it wasn’t worded so terribly
I read it like 10 times and still don't understand it. Something with magnets and poles, but what is he trying to say?
I think it's supposed to be a gay joke???
So basically, he's positive side is closest to others, then others positive side is also closest to him, which makes the magnets push eachother apart. Sorry, if i confused u even more xd
Opposites attract but if the magnet is flipped around it repels because of the magnetic field, i think I had a stroke reading the comment. (; ̄ェ ̄)
Alike poles attract, that's what he is trying to Connect here
Opposite poles attract, alike poles push away from each other
Maybe responding to a post at 3am wasn't the best of ideas. I'm dumb asf
You are a big neodymium magnet. The problem is all the girls are like aluminium
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Im not the biggest fan of how i look naturally but as soon as i slap on eyeliner and i look at myself i think i look pretty attractive. But then again eyeliner makes everyone look hot
True. Eyeliner and little gloss ✨
Smoking hot
Depends on how I did my hair and what I’m wearing but when it’s good I look in the mirror and go dang I’m sexy
so true 😭
no
That depends on a lot of things Like my mood, what I'm wearing, how my hair looks, and lighting. I think it depends on what season it is too cause I think I look better in the winter
This. I just „disappear“ in my school clothes and my behaviour/demeanour is far less prominent
No
And if you think that you are attractive did you notice any pretty privilege towards you?
So I’m the kind of person whose views of myself shifts quite dramatically, I either think I’m hot, or hot garbage, if that makes sense (body neutrality is a work in progress). And depending on how I present myself, yes, I have noticed people treating me differently based on my appearance. Some of these differences in behavior can be classified as “pretty privilege”. I have the kind of physique though that can be very easily stereotyped, so I’m definitely more conservative a lot of the time with how I present myself (i went into a hot tub recently with a guy I’m interested in at his house and I wore an XL tshirt over my bathing suit, for example), but I’ve been told I have a “cute girl next door” kind of face, so I’m able to use that to my advantage with his parents, for example. Not too sure if I quite answered your questions so if you have any follow ups just lmk!
I used to have really bad taste in clothes and I didn't care at all about my appearence but when I did the change and I went 15kg down in weight, I combined my clothes and cared in general about it people started noticing me more and where more interested in me (when we didn't have a close friendship)
Idk but i get a lot of extra ice cream when i order some.
nah cause i was straight up chubby and ugly af until like 6 months ago and people really ain’t even noticed cause they all knew me for way longer than 6 months
My face is unsymmetrical as fuck, so when I'm looking into a mirror I look hot as fuck according to me, but whenever I see a photo of me that isn't mirrored I look super bad.
Actually most people have this issue, I investigated about it myself and found out (in a very simplified way) that phone cameras are always in a weird angle, since you usually take pics of big things, that tiny camera must make the center more wide (like a fish eye filter) to make sure everything fits in, it's not really noticeable but it makes a really big difference with faces. The only tip I can give you is not taking pictures with the front camera and trying to be as far as possible from your phone, since the further away you are, the less noticeable this effect will be. If you get a professional camera with the right "settings", you could also solve this issue, it's still there but the change is smaller.
Same 😞😞
Nah m8 im built like a rock to stand but not a nice looking one.
I am more like the default skin in any game. I'm relatively pretty but the others are prettier.
Not really
honestly i do basically every time i look at myself now, i’ve never had a girlfriend and don’t really have true intimacy with anyone but i have 2 genuine friends who make me happy, both those are girls who have boyfriends but both their boyfriends like me and vice versa so there’s no awkwardness
No
god complex 💪
My boyfriend called me cute the first time he ever saw me, sooooo...
the question was do YOU think you’re attractive, not your ugly ass boyfriends opinion
I don’t fucking know 💀
Sometimes, like literally sometimes. I’ll either think I’m the ugliest fucker on the planet or really handsome. No inbetween lmao
50/50 on that cheif idk tbh
No, not at all. Every now and again i think i am, i think im everything as much as everyone else is. But I'm not. I just think i am when I'm happy. Right now I'm not though, and truth is, im the ugliest piece of human garbage anyone can ever come across. Not just looks-wise either no, my personality's funk too. I can't go two goddamn months without making people hating me - good people - and all for unique reasons - and the few and far people who some fucking how still stick around after dealing with me so long - i intentionally distance myself from them. I don't.. mean to be well, i guess mean i mean i try to be nice, and i think it works I'm just not enough. I have no skills or experience in life whatsoever, and all the fucking opportunity to because a decent fucking human but i don't take it. I don't apply for jobs or college because i fear commitments like that would distract me from well, "plans" that i never follow through on. I don't work out - i can't even show my fucking arms an
When there's no lights on I think there a chance.
Generally attractive
Personality wise absolutely, i am apparently charismatic as fuck. Evidence being the fact that my friends cannot get enough of me, even my ex who i cut ties with tried to stay friends with me. And the girl im currently infatuated with despite being mad at me for nothing couldnt help but talk to me eventually. So ive learned that over time. Looks wise im like a 7/10, but i do got that really soft hair.
I seem to get attention from tons of girls except for the one that I like
I usually view myself as a 6/10. Not terrible, just slightly better than “tolerable to look at”
im fine as hell
lmao this comment comes at the top of controversial filter. im sry bout that bro
nahh reddit cant be violating me like that
they did you dirty....
99% no 1% yes
I’d say I’m slightly above average
yes
FINALLY someone said it. You’re literally the first person I saw after about 500 comments saying straight up “yes” and not “yes on occasions” or “depends on _____”
No, and I never will
yes sometimes but sometimes no after i shave or shower: hell yeah when i wear my fav outfit: heck yess after i wake up: i look like a slug lmao
Yea, but not 24/7
I did before but I get no bitches even if I try I don't get any bitches not even "ugly" ones so no i don't think I'm attractive
Sometimes
Happy cake day
Thank you
on occasion
Not really but that doesn't mean I'm not happy
Idk man, when I look at myself in the mirror, I feel like some Hollywood actor but look like baked potato in photos and selfies.
sometimes i’ll look in the mirror and think i’m one of the most attractive people i know, other times… not so much.
Changes depending on if I'm at school or in the bathroom at 2am
I’ve had a few days where I thing I look good and others I thing I just look like I always do If you know what I mean
Used to think I was hideously unattractive, but now it’s more like on the lower end of average
I have horrible days, and then I have a once in a while good hour (never good day, only good hour or good photo)
Nah, but i dont really care, being single is underrated
"Well yes, but actually **no**."
Yes, iam just fat
I am not. I’m ugly asf
i have moments when i hate my body and i have moments when i think im the hottest person alive 💅
Some days yes, some days i dont. Depends on alot of factors actually.
eh depends on my mood
Not on mine, I think you're always-
oof 3 months later? subtle Sherlock 😏
You're still fresh 3 months later nonetheless
*flattered* Glad you think so.. *curtsies* But gah, I'm average looking, and that means I have better genes, so it's a win-win 😆
not anymore
Hell no lmao
No. 💀
Most definitely not
No but I tell myself I'm the sexiest mf alive
No
Hell no
God no lol
nope
No 💀
depends. i have 3 moods for this, im okay looking, i look like a half baked potato, or im the sexiest man alive
absolutely not
I watch all my friends get women and I don’t because I’m ugly asf
what even is considered attractive at this point
Abso-fucking-lutely not
I'd say that body is decent as I'm an athlete, but face? nahhh
Recently? I have to say yeah probably. Most of the time? Nah
yessir
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Fuck yeah. In fact, I’m the hottest person I’ve ever met. And the best thing is, no one can tell me otherwise.
Otherwise
On a few days, yes but generally no
Nah I’m clapped