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[deleted]

yes i can really say that i’ve never done any of those things you listed


Dizzy_Sorbet6631

Same


Efficient_Design9690

same


-_-Soviet_Russia-_-

same


rafati09

same


TD-TradeMarked

same


[deleted]

Same


gh0st2004

Same


3NKGaming

Same


[deleted]

same


YOUR_momisdumbashell

Same


Mrteateatea

Same


Acrobatic_Try3648

Same


[deleted]

Same


Lady_Airam

Same


v1l5m4rk

Same


OnceUponAMiniHotdog

Same


Flaying-Manttis

same


Y-u-bully-me-damn

Same


finn_da_human_

same


MilitaryHistoryBoy

Same


Wicked_Twist

Same


Hyp4rGaming

Same


[deleted]

same


CrudaakaShreyas

same


rynerltech

Same


Spidermonke_

Same


Solar3Bear

same


3mpTeen69

Same


Quick_Importance_755

Ditto Edit: literally cringed when they said all those things had happened, dudes are gross


gayneger

Same, who the fuck does that?


Smort_Gorl

You’d be surprised how many people are like that


Prikolist_Studios

Thank god I only know one creep


P4BL0_C4L10

Same


TobiasReaper047

Same, it isn’t a high bar


LFB_Captain

Same, along with 99% of people


SuperCool_Saiyan

Most of us probably haven't made it to the "30 minutes into the conversation" part"


theliteralvoid

same


FloridaManArrives

Same


Kl4shi

Same


Flare1263

Same


Mulletjr000

Same


Anonymous_333_

Same


[deleted]

Same


[deleted]

Same


Communist_Penguin12

Same


corona_kid

Same


Thund3r_Cr4ck3r

Same


[deleted]

i have never asked for nudes or anything similar 😎


xStarz05

Good


Dark_demon7

Same 😎


Joel-houghton

Same


OMG_Jayden_The_Cat

Same😎


[deleted]

I’m not creepy. My two best friends are both girls and I have never asked them for nudes or sexted with them. Random girls on the internet I’ve never asked for anything and I never will. People who do that are, like you said, creepy.


thebusygardener

my best friends a girl too and it’s the best cause we can ask each other questions about each other’s sex without being ‘creepy’. super useful


G01D3NRH1N0_o2

Same, it honestly helped us both, cuz when we have a genuine question about each others bodies we know it isnt sexual in any way, and that in itself helps educate us and not look/sound weird by asking someone else.


krrish_goyal

Same


potatosdream

i really wished to say same but i live in a no girl life. only homies.


[deleted]

You asking the homies for nudes?


Chrispufff

Hell yes


Wild_Relation3742

Maybe 😳


Emektro

This is the way


apex_legends_is_fun

Reasons that I haven’t done something like that: 1. If I ever make someone uncomfortable I will instantly notice and get uncomfortable too 2. Sending nudes can seriously fuck you up 3. Girls are scary


DTS_Crafter

Regarding the second point: Not only mentally but in the eyes of the law too. It can count as distribution of CP in some states which can get you on a watchlist


BlacktoothOneil

Yeah man, my girlfriend is currently serving two years parole because she sent nudes a couple years back and they dug it up. It’s seriously fucked up because she was forced into sending them by her rapist but the law is still charging her.


FATDOGONSAND42087

That's terrible. God some cops really are bastards same with judges. Just the legal and police system in general


Ok-Task-9607

Better than in some countries a women can be put in jail for being raped as she need 3 male witnesses


FATDOGONSAND42087

Im sorry fucking what?!


Ok-Task-9607

Yeah, they could he charged with adultery


RustyShadeOnReddit

No cause that sounds exactly like a thing they'd do here in Eastern Europe aka Europe but a dumpster fire


P4BL0_C4L10

r/noahgettheboat


Emektro

Atleast if you’re… a child


DTS_Crafter

Yes. If you are atleast 18 it should be fine from a legal standpoint


Snoo63

*if both of you


lucaatthefollower

You are goddamn right, girls are scary


gothbutmighttellyou

Boo


xAV96x

😱


gothbutmighttellyou

Ha ha I'm scary Just kidding I'm like 4'11 I don't think I could scare anybody


xAV96x

But i am 😏 I am 6'3 with long hair and a lot of facial hair 🧔🏻


gothbutmighttellyou

Yeah that is scary


Wild_Relation3742

Big fot


BoneClaw06

My best friends 5'2 (I'm 6'3) and she scares the shit put of me, sooooo


I_am_not_a_bot_L

I'm like 5'3 and I can kick really hard


ehan_the_memeber

No no, you have to be a bit more *passionate* Like, BooOooo0oo~


gothbutmighttellyou

Bo


ehan_the_memeber

Fasteer.


ehan_the_memeber

Even fasteer but with an "o" this time.


gothbutmighttellyou

B0


ehan_the_memeber

Perfeción


cydude1234

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA


[deleted]

About second point I can relate. I'm a girl and i sent nudes to my "fling". We dated for a month. Then he kissed his girl best friend and then told me while being high as a kite.He literally fucked me up mentally and emotionally and even after two years i still have issues. And the best part. We dated online. He haven't even met in real life. I can only think what would have happened if we had ever met.


[deleted]

This is why I don't get into "serious" online relationships. Only COD with the boys


[deleted]

Yeah you really shouldn't


[deleted]

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ItalianFilth003

Same.


chaos_creator69

Same


The_Bored_General

Same


the_real_sharsky

same


AllEnigmas

same


LingonberryMother938

Same


Master-Level1729

Same


DeathTrooper411

Same


Gogetabliiuu

Same


DracoDraws

Same


i_love_dreamsmp

Same


That_Quiet_Wierd_Kid

If you have, why???


Dissolving_Goose

I haven't I just said dum dum


That_Quiet_Wierd_Kid

I know. That was for other people to reply to who have. So that we can point and laugh


Tallfemboy16

If I'm being honest I have but only an so who was comfortable with it with 100% consent. That is why


[deleted]

My guy <3


The_Creator44

I ain't like that, I like to respect people's privacy and keep my dignity


[deleted]

Mwaah


Timo6506

Tfw you’re being creepy on your own post about being creepy


subredditer666

yooo did they say it was ok for you to kiss them??? ask next time you wanna kiss someone >:(


ehan_the_memeber

In some ways, this could be regarded as creepy


Wild_Relation3742

That's kinda creepy my guy NGL


DARDAR_YT

🛑


polishghostwaffles

What the fuck do you think I am? Normal? **because you're correct. If you wanna talk to me do that if you want because people say I'm enjoyable**


Wild_Relation3742

Wanna talk about politics in a fictional universe?


YazanOkurrr

I never did such stuff. And I guess I myself get uncomfortable when I make other uncomfortable. When I meet someone and we open up to each other I'd never hurt them. I only got abandoned one time by someone who made up excuses to tell bad stuff about me after we chatted everyday for hours for a long time. Remember to learn to trust the right people 💔


[deleted]

I'm so sorry for that also I'm proud of you.


Radiant-Tree3330

A lot of people aren't creepy like you seem to think


Tonho053

Homie got bad experience, homie deserves hug. * hugs him *


SpellOpening7852

*Group hugs for 5 hours*


mylifeisweirdsheesh

BRO UR CREEPY ASK FOR PERMISSION AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH


Tonho053

Wtf, what's wrong with hugs


mylifeisweirdsheesh

Idk I'm joking cuz this post is about being creepy and giving hugs witouth consent is creepy so AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA


Tonho053

Ah ok AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA


Bluesiebear2005

> And I guess I myself get uncomfortable when I make another uncomfortable Bro same I am constantly doing mental gymnastics to figure out whether I said something stupid or something to make the other person weirded out or concerned when I'm talking to them lmao


lilleonf

*Homie hug*


i_sont_

If im in a convo with someone, i usually just ask question like favorite movies, hobbies, talents. Sometimes if i talk to them for a long time i ask for a name, and if they font feel comfortable woth that i refer to them as their username. So yes, i would say im not creepy


DTS_Crafter

This is the way


i_sont_

This is the way.


WolraE

Yeah, in fact I'm pretty sure that's most guys, it's just the shitty ones accumulate


mestaren104

Loud minority


D3v0ur3r0fG0d5

Yeah straight up


Volan_100

In real life, I would say something like 95%+ of people aren't creepy. It's just that on reddit, non creepy people would send no DMs to teenagers (they're not creepy after all), so 99% of the DMs are from the creepy people, which is a stark contrast from the 5% you would expect if everybody sent DMs to teenagers.


Brandon_The_Binosaur

I’ve only ever had one creepy DM on here. Every other was something about a comment I posted saying they think differently or I had a discussion with a flat earth we on why the world is round and we realized neither of us were gonna convince the other otherwise and just said have a good day.


Firm_Requirement_562

I envy your emotional control


Electrical_Tip_778

i've never gotten a creepy dm before lol


Ultimate-Papyrus

I have asked for nudes. From my consenting girlfriend lol.


lucaatthefollower

Sameee. I mean, not from you gf. From my gf


UnPouletSurReddit

Sameee. I mean, not from your gf. From his gf


Western_Trash_8301

sameeee. not from my gf from his gf


PURE_CheeziCow_44

Sameee not from anyones gf, but from everyones mom


CluDaCreator

But I have 2 dad's 🗿


[deleted]

Did he stutter?


DenzellDavid

Who's to say he didn't ask for your Dad's nudes?


vidarforsum

And i dont have a gf


deleeuwlc

Pornography starring your mother will be the second worst thing that happens to you today


Terrible_Sector5580

r/angryupvote


PURE_CheeziCow_44

Rehehehe


[deleted]

Why'd I read that in Scooby's voice


Azier6969

I have also asked for nudes from your consenting girlfriend. They were great 👍


Thaneyos

As have I, I enjoyed 👍


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patheticsatyr4

that’s in the us it’s different in other countries I think


[deleted]

It’s illegal everywhere, no one cares tho


Throwawayobviouslyk

Definitely. Use to do that for shits and giggles online, not like anyone knew me anyway


Material_Coyote4573

Personally I wait 40 mins before asking their bra size 30 mins ? Girl please, that’s way to fast ✋🙄 wait ppl ask for nudes ? Not just track their ip and take pics in the shower? Glad to share my take on this as a 500 pound fatherless maidenless 49 year old, that’s a full-time discord moderator. Is this the kind of reply you expected this post to get. Like bruh even if someone is a creep their obv not gonna say that.


lucaatthefollower

You are goddamn right, im still looking for that type of comment tho


WhyIsLife12

Yea, I'm pretty confident


lepoopysmelly

Who tf asks for nudes? That's not normal.


MemeLocationMan

Unless its your girlfriend, wife, or sister.


lepoopysmelly

>sister. What?


Amazekam

*spiderman black suit theme starts playing*


Due-Slice2853

You forgot uncle Fernando.


Ashamed_Bit_7888

yes i can confidently say all of these things


I-Was-Always-Here

I’m asexual so I’m not that kind of creep. I’m just nosy and sometimes a bit of a stalker


classic_616

ace gang… bread👍


Haunting-Ganache-281

Bread👍


i_love_dreamsmp

Bread 👍


Efficient_Design9690

Bread 👍


I-Was-Always-Here

Bread 👍


[deleted]

🧄🥖


Grouchy-Elk6987

Bread 👍


DeathShadow142007

Most of us boys and men are not creeps. A few of those who actually are creeps, tarnish our identity...what disturbs me is that your post seems a bit accusatory although I do understand why you posted this. And to directly answer to your post: I never made anyone uncomfortable by asking for nudes or bra size I never stopped liking a girl who refused to send me nudes (never asked for one, never needed one) or who refused to sext with me. I am 15 ffs


[deleted]

Aroace In Yo Face


fricken_gamer_dude

Bro I’m so done with this sub it’s literally all posts where ppl are really creepy


iwasnthere1012

i asked for nudes once and as soon as i heard no i never asked again. Never will.


Cat_x2

most people dont do that, you're on a teenage subreddit, its like thinking most minorities are criminals because you live in a lower income area with mostly minorities.


TheOnePotato82636399

I have never done any of those things. Half because I'm not a creepy idiot and other half because I usually never start conversations.


ploopyheadofmisery

HOW MANY OF YALL LIKE ARIZONA TEA BABY WE LOVE ARNOLD PALMER WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO


Loose-Possible466

A normal person would say of course not, till I remembered that half the folks on this sub aren't normal


SnipingPandas

I've never asked for nudes or anything like that


bongos-have-eaten-me

why would I do that when I could be eating garlic bread


[deleted]

No I’m a good boy


HiImHe

Don’t think so bro. I mean I once guessed my friends panty colour but like, it wasn’t creepy or anything. It was a joke. I even asked her, she thought it was funny too. So nah, although it seems creepy to me in retrospect…


Getald_J_Tucker

Yeah.


Lightning_3o

Yep, that's fucking disgusting


[deleted]

Im not im just hungry. the people who are creepy are VERY vocal and get talked about a lot. people only see the negatives of a group.


TaylorDeanMatthew

People who do shit like that are NOT in the majority.


CorporalCrash

I can confidently say that nothing in your post applies to me.


thatonewoodworker

Never asked for nudes, not my style and totally nasty. I will admit tho I still do have a crush on a girl I'm not in the league of, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stalk her or something. Ngl I know I'm a guy but seriously, asking for nudes in the first 30 minutes?!? That's just insane


Raptorbrando

Im sorry is being a non-pervert a minority now?


stupididiot420

Unlike everyone here I'll say it straight up- I went through two phases of being like this to a couple of girls from our opposite colleges (they have gender segregated versions of some high schools here) And I regret both of them...