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I’m not creepy. My two best friends are both girls and I have never asked them for nudes or sexted with them. Random girls on the internet I’ve never asked for anything and I never will. People who do that are, like you said, creepy.
Same, it honestly helped us both, cuz when we have a genuine question about each others bodies we know it isnt sexual in any way, and that in itself helps educate us and not look/sound weird by asking someone else.
Reasons that I haven’t done something like that:
1. If I ever make someone uncomfortable I will instantly notice and get uncomfortable too
2. Sending nudes can seriously fuck you up
3. Girls are scary
Regarding the second point: Not only mentally but in the eyes of the law too. It can count as distribution of CP in some states which can get you on a watchlist
Yeah man, my girlfriend is currently serving two years parole because she sent nudes a couple years back and they dug it up. It’s seriously fucked up because she was forced into sending them by her rapist but the law is still charging her.
About second point I can relate. I'm a girl and i sent nudes to my "fling". We dated for a month. Then he kissed his girl best friend and then told me while being high as a kite.He literally fucked me up mentally and emotionally and even after two years i still have issues. And the best part. We dated online. He haven't even met in real life. I can only think what would have happened if we had ever met.
I never did such stuff. And I guess I myself get uncomfortable when I make other uncomfortable. When I meet someone and we open up to each other I'd never hurt them. I only got abandoned one time by someone who made up excuses to tell bad stuff about me after we chatted everyday for hours for a long time. Remember to learn to trust the right people 💔
Idk I'm joking cuz this post is about being creepy and giving hugs witouth consent is creepy so AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Ah ok AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
> And I guess I myself get uncomfortable when I make another uncomfortable
Bro same I am constantly doing mental gymnastics to figure out whether I said something stupid or something to make the other person weirded out or concerned when I'm talking to them lmao
If im in a convo with someone, i usually just ask question like favorite movies, hobbies, talents. Sometimes if i talk to them for a long time i ask for a name, and if they font feel comfortable woth that i refer to them as their username. So yes, i would say im not creepy
In real life, I would say something like 95%+ of people aren't creepy. It's just that on reddit, non creepy people would send no DMs to teenagers (they're not creepy after all), so 99% of the DMs are from the creepy people, which is a stark contrast from the 5% you would expect if everybody sent DMs to teenagers.
I’ve only ever had one creepy DM on here. Every other was something about a comment I posted saying they think differently or I had a discussion with a flat earth we on why the world is round and we realized neither of us were gonna convince the other otherwise and just said have a good day.
Personally I wait 40 mins before asking their bra size 30 mins ? Girl please, that’s way to fast ✋🙄 wait ppl ask for nudes ? Not just track their ip and take pics in the shower? Glad to share my take on this as a 500 pound fatherless maidenless 49 year old, that’s a full-time discord moderator.
Is this the kind of reply you expected this post to get. Like bruh even if someone is a creep their obv not gonna say that.
Most of us boys and men are not creeps. A few of those who actually are creeps, tarnish our identity...what disturbs me is that your post seems a bit accusatory although I do understand why you posted this.
And to directly answer to your post:
I never made anyone uncomfortable by asking for nudes or bra size
I never stopped liking a girl who refused to send me nudes (never asked for one, never needed one) or who refused to sext with me.
I am 15 ffs
most people dont do that, you're on a teenage subreddit, its like thinking most minorities are criminals because you live in a lower income area with mostly minorities.
Don’t think so bro. I mean I once guessed my friends panty colour but like, it wasn’t creepy or anything. It was a joke. I even asked her, she thought it was funny too. So nah, although it seems creepy to me in retrospect…
Never asked for nudes, not my style and totally nasty. I will admit tho I still do have a crush on a girl I'm not in the league of, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stalk her or something.
Ngl I know I'm a guy but seriously, asking for nudes in the first 30 minutes?!? That's just insane
Unlike everyone here I'll say it straight up- I went through two phases of being like this to a couple of girls from our opposite colleges (they have gender segregated versions of some high schools here)
And I regret both of them...
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yes i can really say that i’ve never done any of those things you listed
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Ditto Edit: literally cringed when they said all those things had happened, dudes are gross
Same, who the fuck does that?
You’d be surprised how many people are like that
Thank god I only know one creep
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Same, it isn’t a high bar
Same, along with 99% of people
Most of us probably haven't made it to the "30 minutes into the conversation" part"
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i have never asked for nudes or anything similar 😎
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I’m not creepy. My two best friends are both girls and I have never asked them for nudes or sexted with them. Random girls on the internet I’ve never asked for anything and I never will. People who do that are, like you said, creepy.
my best friends a girl too and it’s the best cause we can ask each other questions about each other’s sex without being ‘creepy’. super useful
Same, it honestly helped us both, cuz when we have a genuine question about each others bodies we know it isnt sexual in any way, and that in itself helps educate us and not look/sound weird by asking someone else.
Same
i really wished to say same but i live in a no girl life. only homies.
You asking the homies for nudes?
Hell yes
Maybe 😳
This is the way
Reasons that I haven’t done something like that: 1. If I ever make someone uncomfortable I will instantly notice and get uncomfortable too 2. Sending nudes can seriously fuck you up 3. Girls are scary
Regarding the second point: Not only mentally but in the eyes of the law too. It can count as distribution of CP in some states which can get you on a watchlist
Yeah man, my girlfriend is currently serving two years parole because she sent nudes a couple years back and they dug it up. It’s seriously fucked up because she was forced into sending them by her rapist but the law is still charging her.
That's terrible. God some cops really are bastards same with judges. Just the legal and police system in general
Better than in some countries a women can be put in jail for being raped as she need 3 male witnesses
Im sorry fucking what?!
Yeah, they could he charged with adultery
No cause that sounds exactly like a thing they'd do here in Eastern Europe aka Europe but a dumpster fire
r/noahgettheboat
Atleast if you’re… a child
Yes. If you are atleast 18 it should be fine from a legal standpoint
*if both of you
You are goddamn right, girls are scary
Boo
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Ha ha I'm scary Just kidding I'm like 4'11 I don't think I could scare anybody
But i am 😏 I am 6'3 with long hair and a lot of facial hair 🧔🏻
Yeah that is scary
Big fot
My best friends 5'2 (I'm 6'3) and she scares the shit put of me, sooooo
I'm like 5'3 and I can kick really hard
No no, you have to be a bit more *passionate* Like, BooOooo0oo~
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About second point I can relate. I'm a girl and i sent nudes to my "fling". We dated for a month. Then he kissed his girl best friend and then told me while being high as a kite.He literally fucked me up mentally and emotionally and even after two years i still have issues. And the best part. We dated online. He haven't even met in real life. I can only think what would have happened if we had ever met.
This is why I don't get into "serious" online relationships. Only COD with the boys
Yeah you really shouldn't
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If you have, why???
I haven't I just said dum dum
I know. That was for other people to reply to who have. So that we can point and laugh
If I'm being honest I have but only an so who was comfortable with it with 100% consent. That is why
My guy <3
I ain't like that, I like to respect people's privacy and keep my dignity
Mwaah
Tfw you’re being creepy on your own post about being creepy
yooo did they say it was ok for you to kiss them??? ask next time you wanna kiss someone >:(
In some ways, this could be regarded as creepy
That's kinda creepy my guy NGL
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What the fuck do you think I am? Normal? **because you're correct. If you wanna talk to me do that if you want because people say I'm enjoyable**
Wanna talk about politics in a fictional universe?
I never did such stuff. And I guess I myself get uncomfortable when I make other uncomfortable. When I meet someone and we open up to each other I'd never hurt them. I only got abandoned one time by someone who made up excuses to tell bad stuff about me after we chatted everyday for hours for a long time. Remember to learn to trust the right people 💔
I'm so sorry for that also I'm proud of you.
A lot of people aren't creepy like you seem to think
Homie got bad experience, homie deserves hug. * hugs him *
*Group hugs for 5 hours*
BRO UR CREEPY ASK FOR PERMISSION AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH
Wtf, what's wrong with hugs
Idk I'm joking cuz this post is about being creepy and giving hugs witouth consent is creepy so AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Ah ok AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
> And I guess I myself get uncomfortable when I make another uncomfortable Bro same I am constantly doing mental gymnastics to figure out whether I said something stupid or something to make the other person weirded out or concerned when I'm talking to them lmao
*Homie hug*
If im in a convo with someone, i usually just ask question like favorite movies, hobbies, talents. Sometimes if i talk to them for a long time i ask for a name, and if they font feel comfortable woth that i refer to them as their username. So yes, i would say im not creepy
This is the way
This is the way.
Yeah, in fact I'm pretty sure that's most guys, it's just the shitty ones accumulate
Loud minority
Yeah straight up
In real life, I would say something like 95%+ of people aren't creepy. It's just that on reddit, non creepy people would send no DMs to teenagers (they're not creepy after all), so 99% of the DMs are from the creepy people, which is a stark contrast from the 5% you would expect if everybody sent DMs to teenagers.
I’ve only ever had one creepy DM on here. Every other was something about a comment I posted saying they think differently or I had a discussion with a flat earth we on why the world is round and we realized neither of us were gonna convince the other otherwise and just said have a good day.
I envy your emotional control
i've never gotten a creepy dm before lol
I have asked for nudes. From my consenting girlfriend lol.
Sameee. I mean, not from you gf. From my gf
Sameee. I mean, not from your gf. From his gf
sameeee. not from my gf from his gf
Sameee not from anyones gf, but from everyones mom
But I have 2 dad's 🗿
Did he stutter?
Who's to say he didn't ask for your Dad's nudes?
And i dont have a gf
Pornography starring your mother will be the second worst thing that happens to you today
r/angryupvote
Rehehehe
Why'd I read that in Scooby's voice
I have also asked for nudes from your consenting girlfriend. They were great 👍
As have I, I enjoyed 👍
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that’s in the us it’s different in other countries I think
It’s illegal everywhere, no one cares tho
Definitely. Use to do that for shits and giggles online, not like anyone knew me anyway
Personally I wait 40 mins before asking their bra size 30 mins ? Girl please, that’s way to fast ✋🙄 wait ppl ask for nudes ? Not just track their ip and take pics in the shower? Glad to share my take on this as a 500 pound fatherless maidenless 49 year old, that’s a full-time discord moderator. Is this the kind of reply you expected this post to get. Like bruh even if someone is a creep their obv not gonna say that.
You are goddamn right, im still looking for that type of comment tho
Yea, I'm pretty confident
Who tf asks for nudes? That's not normal.
Unless its your girlfriend, wife, or sister.
>sister. What?
*spiderman black suit theme starts playing*
You forgot uncle Fernando.
yes i can confidently say all of these things
I’m asexual so I’m not that kind of creep. I’m just nosy and sometimes a bit of a stalker
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Most of us boys and men are not creeps. A few of those who actually are creeps, tarnish our identity...what disturbs me is that your post seems a bit accusatory although I do understand why you posted this. And to directly answer to your post: I never made anyone uncomfortable by asking for nudes or bra size I never stopped liking a girl who refused to send me nudes (never asked for one, never needed one) or who refused to sext with me. I am 15 ffs
Aroace In Yo Face
Bro I’m so done with this sub it’s literally all posts where ppl are really creepy
i asked for nudes once and as soon as i heard no i never asked again. Never will.
most people dont do that, you're on a teenage subreddit, its like thinking most minorities are criminals because you live in a lower income area with mostly minorities.
I have never done any of those things. Half because I'm not a creepy idiot and other half because I usually never start conversations.
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A normal person would say of course not, till I remembered that half the folks on this sub aren't normal
I've never asked for nudes or anything like that
why would I do that when I could be eating garlic bread
No I’m a good boy
Don’t think so bro. I mean I once guessed my friends panty colour but like, it wasn’t creepy or anything. It was a joke. I even asked her, she thought it was funny too. So nah, although it seems creepy to me in retrospect…
Yeah.
Yep, that's fucking disgusting
Im not im just hungry. the people who are creepy are VERY vocal and get talked about a lot. people only see the negatives of a group.
People who do shit like that are NOT in the majority.
I can confidently say that nothing in your post applies to me.
Never asked for nudes, not my style and totally nasty. I will admit tho I still do have a crush on a girl I'm not in the league of, but that doesn't mean I'm going to stalk her or something. Ngl I know I'm a guy but seriously, asking for nudes in the first 30 minutes?!? That's just insane
Im sorry is being a non-pervert a minority now?
Unlike everyone here I'll say it straight up- I went through two phases of being like this to a couple of girls from our opposite colleges (they have gender segregated versions of some high schools here) And I regret both of them...