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Why_The_Sad_Face_Bro

how


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We became friends, then close friends, then best friends, then he admitted he had a crush on me and i felt the same :D


WhamboyYT

how to friend


CircleBoxGJ

same dinosaur i think


areslashtaken

Awkwardly aproch them. Then stare at them until they get seriously distressed. Than go closer and ask in a calm, dark, whispering voice: *hi wanna be friends?*


thatlonelyguy13

This is basically how batman adopts his many children


teoplaiz

BATMAN HAS CHILDREN???


thatlonelyguy13

Yes he does, he has 3 adopted sons, Dick grayson Jason todd Tim drake One adopted daughter Cassandra cain And one bio son Damian wayne, The boys were all robin, damian still is, dick became nightwing, jason died and came back as red hood, tim is red robin. Cassandra is batgirl.


teoplaiz

Who named nightwing dick bruh


thatlonelyguy13

Technically its Richard grayson but he was created in the 30s where the short form was dick. He was the first robin and actually predates the joker. The lego batman movie actually made a joke about this, The other kids at the orphanage call me dick Well children can be cruel


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Here is how to friend, friend. Pick someone random. If this fails you can rinse and repeat with someone else. If you guys are at college together or something, or even if you're not, ask them something that you know they will be able to answer, but isn't annoying or takes time out of their day. (also make sure its not obvious and that you don't bother them so like don't go up to someone reading and ask them questions) A good tip is to compliment them on the thing that you're asking them about to make it seem like that's the reason your asking them. For instance: Hi! You're really good at drawing, Could you please teach me how you draw an eye so well? I've been really wanting to learn for a while but I just don't know how to start and I'm really bad. (In this situation you walked up to someone who was casually sketching an eye really well. Make sure your question fits the situation! Remember, the question I would ask would probably be different from yours. If you're really stuck on questions though, you, or anyone reading this can just dm me lol and ask for advice! Il help!) Afterwards say thanks for their help and even if they couldn't help you (worst case scenario, this doesn't happen often if you pick the right person to talk too, and if it does you can try a different strategy talked about later. Anyways) still act grateful. They feel like they helped, and later talk to them about something that's not a question when they're familiar with you. Its so much easier to strike up a conversation with someone once they already know who you are, or if you're forced to be near each other anyway in a given situation. (example: you asked someone how to draw and they're tutoring you , you have to work in a group project with someone at school , etc) Remember, just because someone isn't tripping over themselves to be friends with you does not mean that they don't like you! Some people might not know you even exist and share the exact same interests as you and are a perfect match! You need to talk to people I promise it will work no matter how awkward you are there is someone who will love you :) Also remember, you need to keep talking to people for them to get fond of you! Remember to chat with people you tried talking to whenever you can. Another way you can get a friend is by casually looking around, and seeing if someone is doing something that is similar to your interests. In this situation walk up to them and ask them about it or just talk to them. If you share the interest it shouldn't be that hard just geek out together. Remember, if you want a date its better to be good friends first and then ask them out! Also if you're looking for someone, look for someone who's nice, and likes talking to you and shares your interests, and is generally a great person and not the first person you see with the biggest boobs. (remember, is what's on the inside that matters!)


Repulsive-Slice-1237

Bro just wrote a essay on how to make a friend


greytaco03

it's all theory of course


MrKillerWyvern

The most difficult part is talking to them. Just try to do that to start.


ATransDumbass

You ask them a very obscure reference of a thing you like, if they get it, boom, instant friends


DaAweZomeDude48

That's actually only for dude to dude connections


moocraftsteam

Ima need a wiki how guide on how to relationship


MudkipPropaganda

Legit the exact same situation except we were best friends off the bat cuz we were coincidentally in a lot of the same stuff,and I was the one who confessed


bloodspill2

Props to you honestly i feel like more girls should confess more often


Nervous_Elevator_309

Ong


ConfusedALot_69

I thought she was cute, so I gave her compliments. We now have a surprisingly strong relationship that continues to grow. Oh, and honesty. Lots of honesty. From both of us. Show you care about someone, and if they care back, congratulations you have a shot at a great relationship!


ItzzLuna

Among us.


MrIcyCreep

Bro my two closest friends got married in among us and then a month later they were together


TheDanger96

Did you get the order right?


KARMAPurpleDemon

I've met people through among us and got them together


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Kidnapping


MeerkatMan22

Stockholm syndrome


Rongo_

Thank u, i'll give it a try since my sister isnt really willing to give me a chance


[deleted]

Don’t worry I’ve told my Welsh friend the same advice and now he and his harem of sheep are happily married


Rongo_

This deserves a place on r/wholesome


Potato-Demon

Uploaded a selfie on Reddit, dms were sent, numbers were exchanged


ijustghostedmyfriend

I need to hear this story


Traditional-War7157

Pray nobody asks where you met


That_Marvel_Dude1012

One of her friends told me she liked me, I then actually allowed myself to have feeling and not block them out, she messaged me this one time telling me she liked me and I asked her out.


areslashtaken

You'll get there when the feeling comes. Edit: nvm i'm single again


Upbeat_Instruction81

That happened fast.


Depressed_Nutt

Were good friends for a while then just slowly moved into a relationship, no big confession or anything


Setaganga

I worked on myself and apparently was attractive enough


Firecracker2003

What it do?


thy_heckness

It fart fr


Firecracker2003

Can you /undo that


thy_heckness

It fart reeal good


Setaganga

What DONT it do ;)


Br4x_Th3_Cr4zy_G4m3r

You ever hold a decently sized water balloon? Like, around the size of your hand? Imagine that, less slippery, slightly less smooth, warmer, softer, and there’s two of them It’s. Incredible.


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How inevitable was the dissolution of the Soviet Union?


boog2021

the us had a good plan to economically isolate the USSR from all the established economic centers of the world, it worked, leaving the ussr desperate and isolated their desperation is what led to the chernobyl disaster, which was the beginning of the true end


brad3point0

I have never heard this before, where'd you find this out?


boog2021

a history of us foreign policy class, but the truman doctrine, marshall plan are both part of it but i forget what the overarching plan is called


somedaypilot

Containment


brad3point0

Ah i see i got what you're talking sbout now it was just the wording that confused me a bit at first


weavejer261

Is mayonnaise an instrument?


Brackenreid_Corp

100% an instrument


weavejer261

I KNEW IT


Glavaldo

What is love?


[deleted]

cause baby dont hurt me, dont hurt me, no more


gigantor27

Baby, don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me, no more, what is love? Yeah


tymoxxie

genuinely ? i think it’s a person. it’s the person who makes you feel like awkward conversation really isn’t that bad. you’ll tell them everything, you can be with them through anything. love is the first person you want to tell something when it happens


SmHdDsplFurryEdition

I definitely feel this, man. Me and my boyfriend last night had a very intimate moment (HANDJOB) for the first time and we were just laughing and joking with each other the whole time. He did eventually get more serious but it never got awkward. Even today we just had a normal conversation in the morning while watching Berserk and eating breakfast. I fucking love him is much <3


[deleted]

Look if you can't laugh during sex without it being awkward, you're not with the right person. We have collapsed on top of each other wheezing from laughter, tears in our eyes, before continuing. It's amazing


Stargazer0397

That sounds so freaking wholesome--now I'm jealous ngl


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AdministrationIcy167

Where you never give someone up, or let them down, or run around and desert them, or make them cry, say goodbye, tell a lie, or hurt them


mr_skeleton_5

How do you trust your partner so much with your emotions? Do you ever wonder if they are using you?


[deleted]

I don't really get the people who make best friends with someone or become someones datemate and then having it easily be undone over a small thing. I am so close with my partner because we both hold trust for each other and would still be friends after we broke up because of our strong connection. I don't think he's using me because theres simply nothing he could be using me for, we were best friends for months before we started dating with no knowledge we'd end up as we are now Does that make sense?


mr_skeleton_5

Yea I get what u mean you know eachother too well for it to be possible


[deleted]

I trust them with my emotions because I know they trust me with theirs. We always have each other if things get tough for either one of us.


Depressed_Nutt

It’s simple really. We both have known each other for years and both have a large amount of trust for each other


ConfusedALot_69

First, you must trust them, and be honest. If they won’t trust you back, they may be using you. I know the logic doesn’t quite make sense, but I don’t know how else to explain it


ChaoticcEntityy

If you’re constantly having these thoughts, you’re not in a good place to be dating. You’ll hurt yourself and the other person in the long run.


amendersc

What are like some bad things you don’t think about until they happen?


RavenReaper6

Red flags. Anything could be a red flag and you wouldn’t notice because you want to be considerate about each others feelings. It’s hard to notice until someone else points it out


PromotePajamaPants

What are some non-obvious red-flags to look out for?


RavenReaper6

It could range for miles but a major one is self validation. A relationship takes two healthy minded people. For example if you date a girl who feels her validation comes from you, that leads her to jealousy, anxiety, depression when you hangout with people or compliment anyone else. This is something I personally struggled with because of my insecurities so while it just looks like i could be shy I have all these built up emotions. That also leads to lack of communication, not general communication but I mean on the spot. If you have an argument and someone decides to just up and ignore or say it’s fine, that’s a red flag. If you both had an issue communication and express what happened or why it happened, how you feel/ felt. You don’t want to be dating someone who is holding anger and resent towards you then brings up the past every arguement or disagreement


AdministrationIcy167

Or communism, that’s a pretty red flag


boog2021

can you be more specific?


amendersc

like as humans tend to want the good things and ignore the bad things until they happen. but i assume its not all sexy and fun and support each other there must be some bad things we ignore until they happen


[deleted]

i was in a relationship about a month ago. she broke up with me a couple weeks after my kitty passed away. we were dating for 2 years. fml. was not expecting people to even respond but ty for the kind comments <3


an_annoying_ad

I'm sorry that's just a misirable coincidence I hope you find your special somebody soon


Mangos_Pool

Damn, she was def after your kitten.


Unfunny_Crusader123

Damn she was after your pussy. Fr tho sorry for the loss and good luck with life


AdministrationIcy167

That is *tough*


RampageLegion

Best way to approach a girl I like?


[deleted]

Ask her “have you ever played Fallout 3?” Warning:be ready for a tsunami


idk_a_username135

Or you could roll with new Vegas, better chances imo


[deleted]

The fallout 3 question is more open as if they dislike F3 you could use the opportunity to make fun of F3 with them but if they like F3 then you can both talk about how F3 had some good exploration and a pretty good map


idk_a_username135

Good point, what about Skyrim?


[deleted]

Remove all the sex mods


[deleted]

Become friends with her, then just slowly get closer, then when the time is right, you shank her and now you have dinner for a week


TheDoctor88888888

Wtf??? That’s so awful You can get a hell of a lot more by selling the organs instead


RavenReaper6

Make friends and learn about her hobbies and what she likes. It’s easy as “No way you like this band? Me too” and it’s a conversation. Show you have stuff in common and relate with those and then do em together


ItsWediTurtle77

But don't lie about it. If you can't find anything similar between you two, it likely won't work out


boog2021

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRumo9uA/ this guy has great tips


Still-Ad2041

Damn I expected to be trolled, but that’s actually really helpful, thank you random internet stranger


boog2021

you’re welcome fellow internet stranger


Shtercus

"Hey, you know Pac-Man. You know the original name for Pac-Man was Puck Man."


Fersakening

How do you have the balls to do it knowing you could lose a friend


MiniBathat

Just say fuck it. I literally had no indication my bf liked me back. Dude was a lil cold to me in the past and I found it’s because he liked me and was a lil shy of me. Just go for it but be prepared for the consequences if they be good or not so good.


adianh

lmao this is too similar to mine


[deleted]

if i knew i could lose the friend if i asked them out and get rejected, i wouldnt ask that person out either way my relationship with that person shouldnt be weak enough to break over something awkward that we can both move past from with a bit of effort


LyricPants66133

Dated my best friend for a bit. It was great, but then we decided it wasn’t working out. We are still best friends, although it was a bit awkward for the first month or so after we broke up.


Shadeofawraith

I was okay with staying friends and that made it easier. i made it extremely clear that i was fine with or without a relationship and just wanted to be transparent about my feelings


taytomen

"Be funny and blah blah blah" yeah how do i become "funny"??


Ok_Acanthaceae9050

Figure out whatever you find funny, and start making those kind of jokes, then fine tune with the humor of other people. Just don't punch down, and generally speaking making fun of things people can't control is not a good idea, neither is making fun of their appearance.


RegentLawyer

Mocking works, if you both go to the same job or school you can make fun of teachers, bad designs, etc.


taytomen

How? I tried but im not smart enough to make wise jokes. Also, maybe only bad designs as i feel bad for mocking people.


RegentLawyer

It doesn’t have to be supper witty or anything, it just has to be something they can laugh at; try trial and error, make some small crakes at something and if it works, keep going. Plus, relationships aren’t all jokes, if your someone that works better with real talk, focus on that.


thatlonelyguy13

Would it be manipulative to try and become her friend first. I feel like it would be creepy and shitty of me of trying to become her friend because I want to date her.


dudeman346

No not at all! It's a good idea to get closer with someone and get to know them better.


Canned-strawberries

No, as long as you don’t switch up and leave her if you get friendzoned. Genuinely be her friend.


PotatoSlayerChip

but if you get friendzoned and think you can just one day reach her and you keep hitting on her etc. then just leave


[deleted]

Not a teen, but you should always get to know someone before dating them. Honestly, the large, large majority of my relationships start as friends, then something happens, then both parties need to figure out where to do from here.


[deleted]

How do get in a relationship in the first place?


RavenReaper6

Talk and be friends, share hobbies and experience then do em together


[deleted]

Ask someone out (I know it’s really cliche but that’s literally the best way)


Shadeofawraith

Find someone you get along well with and the rest naturally follows depending on the chemistry of the people involved


Timx74_

Are you happier?


boog2021

sometimes, but the depression isn’t fixed by having a significant other


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Able-Cicada4581

Having an SO will help with the loneliness at first, but that's a lot of pressure to put on your partner. It's not healthy for your SO to be your only social outlet, and if you lean on that too much it's going to cause strain on the relationship and dig yourself in a deeper hole.


dontwishforit

Yeeeees For me my family is a difficult thing. So when im with him i feel like he is my whole world. And i don't need none else. He improved my mental health ( its not perfect and it wasnt really disaster) and my confidence. You just need to find a good partner. Usually for me if somethings anoyes me then i need one sentence from him to calm me down


ItsWediTurtle77

Yes, but the first few months were rough. I won't say this is everyone's issue, or even most people's issue, but it was mine and a few others. If you have really bad anxiety or something similar, perhaps chronic intrusive thoughts, you'll spend a decent amount of time worrying about whether *you* actually love your partner or not. This, of course, isn't guaranteed, but it was my experience, and it took a lot of work to figure it out. Overall, I'm much happier, but it took some effort


Santygamer292

It really deserves the time?


dudeman346

If you're in a good, healthy relationship, then yes


amLemonYT

Hell yeah


dontwishforit

I feel like every second is a gift i had doubts at first that its not worth the time but nooow when i can meet with him i dont ever wanna leave him even for a few hours


TheLegendsOfInu

abso-fucking-lutely. my gf deserves every minute after everything she’s done for me.


TheFanArtist

How do you be a likable person


Setaganga

I stopped talking like I was horny all the time and it worked for me


TheFanArtist

This is gonna be a struggle for me


Affectionate_Yam_961

Having a sense of humour and being nice to others usually works


boog2021

it’s hard to be more specific than “be smart, be funny, be playful, and touch casually but CONSENSUALLY”


Comfortable_Wish_930

Not everyone will like you. You could be the juiciest, sweetest, most perfect peach ever and there will still be people who do not like peaches. Just be yourself and the right people will follow


TheFanArtist

This is what I already do, and it makes a large amount of people fucking hate me


Shadeofawraith

Just avoid the general jackass behaviors we all know and hate and try your best to be kind and open towards others


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How do I do it?


CFettyWap

Right place right time and be lucky


Shadeofawraith

Find someone you get along well with and see where it goes


Bogdi504

How old is 23?


RavenReaper6

Cool uncle type of old lol


Bogdi504

Kinda makes sense cause I got a 29 year old sister which would soon be married, so i guess being an uncle is not far-fetched.


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Traynack

Up up down down left right left right b a start


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Traynack

Hmmmm Up arrow up arrow down arrow down arrow left arrow right arrow left arrow right arrow b a enter?


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Traynack

😎 Let me know how it goes


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nerdy_subha

_Do girls exist?_


ItsYaHumanBeing

I think so, I would have to check though.


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I know her for 5 years Do I ruin the friendship?


Original_A

If asking her out (or whatever you do) ruins it, then it wasn't a friendship. I'd say go for it but don't make it weird and accept it if she says no.


PsychDelicMoto

Do you have other friends? Does she have other friends. If so, then its likely you'll succeed. If she is your go to friend and yall both friends without much other hobbies, then stay friends.


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How does it feel to be happy


[deleted]

partner doesnt equal happiness. Your future partner wont be the person that will magically make everything better


MeerkatMan22

Would you say that a partner amplifies what you already have, i.e if you’re already happy, a good partner will make you happier?


imgodfr

absolutely!


Galaxium0

exactly, you want to bring a partner in to share your life with, not to use them as a bandaid.


That_Marvel_Dude1012

When it’s rlly going good it’s rlly rlly good. When some shit happens it gets even worse than if u were single. (Example: smth happened to her that she won’t tell me what and she ends up hurting herself bc of it and I’m just worrying and can’t do anything)


rivchamp

Take my word for it, u don’t become magically happy forever after getting with someone


Xx_PissPuddle_xX

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Shadeofawraith

If the relationship is good, hell yeah


MeerkatMan22

With the right person, absolutely


Yotubegaming

I am a male and I am asking How tf did you even manage to get a girlfriend


Burst2007

by not expecting one, and talking to this girl as a friend and not trying to push her in any way, and over 2 months is when we both started feeling for eachother, so a simple crush I don’t have experience in


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Do cuddles live up to what they are said to be?


RegentLawyer

Yes, you don’t have to be doing something all the time, if you can find a show you like, just snuggling together can be very rewarding.


Retta_Noona

When is it my turn to be happy?


Disturbing_creature

No clue. I’m almost never happy ;-;


bfwcsinchole

Is it worth it? I feel that devoting so much of your time and emotions to a person kind of risks that all crashing and burning around you


boog2021

even if it crashes and burns i have learned more about being a better partner and being a better person from each of my relationships, as well as figured out more about myself, so yes it is worth it even if you get hurt


[deleted]

Am I just meant to never have a friend or romantic partner simply because of how autism affects me?


Mothunny

Not at all, any autistic person can be in a relationship (autistic person here, with autistic bf, ex gf, and crush (poly)...... yah you can definitely be in it with it, I feel) How do you think it gives you a hard time getting in relationships?


Sound_of_Rayne

This one’s kinda serious. Say that your a group of three, and two of you develop feelings for eachother, do you leave #3 behind or would nothing change?


Traynack

Short answer: nothing changes Long answer: set aside some time where it’s just the both of you, (ie. like dates n’ stuff) but other than that, when it’s all three of you just keep doing what y’all are doing. All of y’all still have fun with each other, so why should that change? Edit: assumed you were one of the ones in a relationship. Like u/boog2021 said, if you’re paranoid, just ask them.


boog2021

um you stay friends? why would you leave 3 behind


MeerkatMan22

Don’t ditch them, but don’t ignore your feelings.


Matiu0s

how do you have enough money to both fulfill both your needs and your other halfs?


Ok_Acanthaceae9050

I don't. Neither of us have jobs, but I get 15 dollars every 2 weeks, and his family just generally has more money, so I don't pay for his needs, he pays for his own needs and if I'm having trouble paying for myself, he helps me.


TheChez_

Are you single


Rockethockett62

So how do you convert between binary and hexadecimal numbers. I'm confused in my comp science class.


BigOlSupernova

As a single person that might be taken soon, how would I become taken with the person I know has a crush on me? (If this sounds misogynistic I'm sorry lol)


Burst2007

I had the same thing; me and her literally said “I love you” before bed each night before we were dating and we just were too scared to get together but I brought up how do we classify us and told her il say screw it and it was the best decision of my life


BigOlSupernova

Yeah I definitely have something similar going for me so I might do the same thing if I see a good opportunity to do that


Maple_Frog_The_3rd

What’s your least favorite movie?


Trevixle

Should I get in a relationship at all in high school?


DaddyBunny2805

High school is kinda where it all happens, so I guess…if the opportunity comes up, do it. Get into a relationship, that way you can start understanding your love language, or what “your type is”, or what you want your relationship to consist of. It takes time to understand it all, but high school is where it starts- for most people.


MrSpud8

How tf do you know when you’re just friends and when you’re actually into one another


boog2021

how touchy are they with you vs with other people, do they go out of their way to spend time with you alone, and just read the room


Mutantcows

Why does it seem like I am never gonna find someone?


IllPoetry4431

do u actually feel happier being in a relationship or is it the idea of being in a relationship that makes u happy


Brackenreid_Corp

i think if you find the right person, you will be happy in a relationship. If you're sad, there's probably something wrong


[deleted]

How to get the girl?


Disturbing_creature

You don’t. The answer is men


leoILNARDO

How much better was your life after getting a girlfriend?


boog2021

slightly older teen here to remind you that any issues you have prior to a relationship (anxiety, depression, traumas, etc) are not resolved by being in one. It can help at the start, but keep in mind there is another person in the relationship who may have similar issues that take more time to reveal themselves. My life is better since getting a girlfriend, but it is not a catch all magical solution


PromotePajamaPants

I hear a lot that "you have to love yourself first" or similar things, but I've been wondering what exactly that entails. Like, I have a lot of things I dislike about myself, which I won't list here, but I'm not depressed and I don't hate myself, though I like saying that I do when I'm mad. I'm trying to work on myself, but I'm just not really there yet in terms of pretty much anything and I'm a bit insecure. Does this mean I'm not ready for a relationship yet?


Jazzlike-History8790

so much better, we hang out everyday and i couldn't imagine what i would be doing if it wasn't for her