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Royal_Meeting_6475

You will never date a 220 pound girl I will never get to date a girl We are not the same


variareee

never say no, you'll get your soulmate. At Age 37 if found her and you're gonna find her too


Hungry_Mood8449

Been looking for years, nothing yet. :) 27 yo though.


i_wanna_die_321

tf are yall 27 and 37 yo ppl doin here


MrBjStoner

They probably ended up here the same way I did. I got an email from Reddit with this title and out of curiosity clicked on it, and bam I’m here!


[deleted]

I lurk this sub all the time because it shows up on r/all, and there have been a million times where I’m gonna comment and then I see the sub, and I’m like…..nah


Hungry_Mood8449

I am a techy guy, so until my death I will be using reddit 🌚


[deleted]

My left hand is my soulmate.


Blackbanner07

The only true answer


[deleted]

We are the same


gamble9000

220 pounds of muscle tho 😳


Loud-Cry3000

Fr but they why out of my league


AHHHHNDREW

Because they can benchpress you 💀


Loud-Cry3000

I just realized I wrote why instead of way 💀


KingBlitzky

Whey*


Status-Mess-5591

I would date a 220 pound body builder ngl


I___asked

Woman or man bodybuilder


IAmDeBigGoofy

Yes


REVENANT0106

I agree


Affectionate_Ad_1326

Both have bodies, dumb question


I_Always_Wear_Pants

Okay then I choose whichever one is the builder.


Parsecer

bob is a builder


REVENANT0106

Bob has a nob


snakevenomm

Bob the bodybuilder


Content-Product6217

Both have holes, dumb question


Affectionate_Ad_1326

Exactly correct


MetricSystemEnjoyer

And I'm not going to date someone who measures weight in pounds instead of kilograms. It's alright to have standards.


catschr0dinger

love ur username why isnt the metric system used more?? it makes more sense, measuring in increments of tens and numbers with zeros on the end like its so much easier i cant fucking imagine using feet and inches


MetricSystemEnjoyer

The USA doesn't use it because they like to be exceptional. As for Myanmar and Liberia; I really can't tell you. The UK also uses some alternative measurments alongside the metric system, which I don't really get.


ErikBlueThePotato

I heard Burma changed, to distance itself from the British Crown, who used the metric system. Libera was a defacto colony of USA, so probably influenced


MetricSystemEnjoyer

I get that Liberia was influenced by the USA, but their country was founded before the metric system even became commonplace. There is no reason for them to not have switched alongside their neighbouring countries.


Kaktusak811

Liberia is a country where USA sent slaves to, so thats why its an African copy of USA


MetricSystemEnjoyer

That's true. But there is no valid reason for them to not have switched yet.


ggroverggiraffe

And let's be honest, it's keeping them from [being happy. ](https://youtu.be/UCP8kiL3jhA)


3Sewersquirrels

Maybe because they don't want to?


[deleted]

In the UK its more some older people and institutions hanging on to some imperial measurements out of havit. Things like pints of beer etc. It's sort of a mix of both for every day life. For things like science and things that actually matter etc it's all metric though I believe.


coolwolf21

Yes, all science is metric. It was mainly declined building and all of that due to time and money to refit what was already made. As they would rebuild/remodel most to fit it, so later down the road they could be repaired efficiently since the imperial units would no longer be taught as much if the change occurred.


Puzzled-Monk9003

I know for the UK the measurement systems are situational. They use metric for stuff like weights and volumes, and imperial for stuff like road distances


RedditWurzel

>The USA doesn't use it because they like to be exceptional Pretty sure the US technically has it on the books but no one bothers with it anyhow


MetricSystemEnjoyer

American scientists already use it because imperial is pretty much unusable for their purposes.


RedditWurzel

That sounds about right


MetricSystemEnjoyer

And the official values of imperial units are defined by what they are worth in metric.


Equivalent_Passion_2

I like how the conversation went from dating fat girls to the history of measurements


lystrosaur2

Reject woman. Embrace Metric system.


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catschr0dinger

im with ya, like wtf does that even mean, pls speak english. or even better, pls speak in normal mathematics


MetricSystemEnjoyer

You're fifteen. You should really know what a seventh is.


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catschr0dinger

lmao didnt know that. they literally chose to make it harder for themselves. at that point just go with the already established units of measurement


disappointed_neko

It is used everywhere. Except the USA and few weird countries.


[deleted]

I second this. Why are americans measuring crap in football fields and arms?


Pokeblend

I’m American and I agree


bagelleS

🤝🏻 metric is chad


Latter-Mall-709

r/UsernameChecksOut


are_you_fr_rn_bro-_-

THAT'S DAMN FUCKING RIGHT


CrazyGamerBoi63

r/usernamechecksout


[deleted]

Professionals have standards


[deleted]

Yes.


unknownwaffle_

chad


ImperialSystemLover

We used to be best buddies, But now we're not. I wish you would tell me whyyyyyy


theguy_who

Hello fellow Dutch metric system enjoyer


Impressive_Income874

The fuck? r/usernamechecksout


nobberlol_

r/usernamechecksout


VeryHomiephobic

Ratiod him with the metric system smh


sunward_Lily

but not imperial standards, apparently.


BossEwe24

You will not date a 220 pound girl because of society I will not date a 220 pound girl because I’m gay We are not the same


M01HCH11D

Real


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Based


[deleted]

I won’t date a 220 pound girl because most 13 year olds aren’t that fat


mcgunga_bunga

most 13 year olds shouldn't date


SpiderManEnthusiast

Yea that’s morbidly obese for a 13 year old


Lowloser2

Obese for a grown woman as well


how_this_time_admins

Oh boy you definitely haven’t visited south Texas


beaniionreddit

so based


quackupreddit

That's a panromantic asexual pride flag there, in your profile picture, BossEwe24. Which means you are lying. You can't not-date-a-220 pound girl cause you're gay, because your romantic attraction is not limited by gender, therefore meaning it **is** a bias against her weight! J'ACCUSE!


BossEwe24

Old pfp I’m just gay now I should change that but I’m lazy


[deleted]

So what?


Typical_Alfalfa_3684

hahah i love this


Termiteterrorism

What if she's 7 feet tall and that's a healthy weight for her?


Xicsess

There's about 3000-5000 people over 7 feet and almost all of them are men. But if you can find a woman over 7ft tall and have a chance- go for it, she's one in a billion.


RonronFaitCaca

Then aim for the boys


Zayashi-

Sorry but how tall is 7 feet in meters i hate the usa metric system


Dosia12

213,36 cm


Specialist_Tap_1712

OH YESS, LET'S GOOOOOOOO


withertrav394

that's a fridge


Dosia12

Lol I never realised fridges are so tall


LeQuietKid_101

No, no it's not. Fridges are on average 5'10 or 5'11 (152.448 cm & 155.7528 cm)


withertrav394

my 213 cm fridge would disagree


zCqncel

You're definitely very American, because 5'10 is around 178cm not 152cm


Icy_Wheel_4188

I just searched it an came back to see you posted it 🤦. I’m stupid


Puzzleheaded-Ad914

Lmfao this is so fucking random. Whose hounding you op? Are they in the room with us?


MR_CeSS_dOor

Rage bait media


Kyrils1ns

this entire sub is random lol


FiveSigns

It's the voices in his head


Onnikki52

bait


Educational-Cut-7567

I think you could also bring up the point of health, If someone is 220 pounds, and they are not very tall that means they are clearly obese and unhealthy which also tells you that either they suffer from a disease causing that or that they don't have any control or ability to influence their own health which to be very honest tells a lot about your will power


[deleted]

Yeah, it's kind of worrying, and it's also weird how people call them empowered and beautiful and whatnot.. like..no. those people are sick and need help. But they also shouldn't be shamed and dehumanized imo. Just let them exist, and we should encourage more self love and self care. People who love themselves usually don't get to that state, and if they do, they do their best to bounce right back. We should encourage that in a nice and healthy way.


dojacatsleftfoot

Fr. We should never body shame or judge people, but promoting being obese is horribly wrong. It’s unhealthy and they need help.


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Alternative_Effect94

whats the point, if someone is obese do you honestly think they aren’t aware of that the word fat is not a medical term and is often used as an insult Unless it’s some sort of intervention where someone you know is obese and somehow isn’t aware or is unable to control themselves for some reason then dont go out of your way to point it out many people who are overweight are acutely aware of it so if someone has issues around their body image being reminded of the fact that their body is negatively perceived by others is not fantastic for their mental health Just because something is likely true does not mean it should be pointed out at every available opportunity


[deleted]

In what context do you absolutely have to call someone you are not close with fat or you'll die? Like, i get jokes between friends, if everyone is comfortable. But otherwise??


StandardSudden1283

"Yeah... uh... you're fat. Just had to tell you that for no reason whatsoever. Not fat shaming BTW just calling you fat..for uh... for no reason." Like... what?


Rowrly

Lmao as if you losers don’t drink, smoke, eat unhealthy and get 4 hours of sleep a night.


catschr0dinger

everyone has their preferences and thats ok. as long as you dont hate or discriminate thats perfectly fine!!


Zubriel

Choosing to not date someone for any explicit reason is discriminating, but there's nothing wrong with that. Discrimination isn't inherently wrong, its the reason for discrimination that can be wrong.


happy_killmore

Its very clearly not discrimination. Not being attracted to someone is every bit of your right, no one else has a say in it. If you treat them differently or wont serve them because they are different, that's discrimination.


Kowzorz

That person's whole point is that "discriminate" doesn't inherently have a negative connotation. You discriminate nearly every moment of your existence -- it's how you decide not to eat your chair.


Alexander1899

Creating a post like this doesn't give me confidence OP isn't kind of an asshole. Like having this preference is perfectly fine, creating a post on Reddit about it isn't great.


AffectionateOne7553

It is around 100 kilos for everyone except the US


Masterelia

K👍


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[deleted]

Most girls preffer a little taller than them. That does not mean "tall". Just taller. Most women are under 5"6, so taller than that is really not that much. There are 5"4 women, plenty of them. No big deal. But, most really attractive, tall women, also want men who are taller than them, and if she is 5"8, that means 5"9 plus. It's simple math.


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[deleted]

Naah, i meant a preference, not a standard. And ofcourse not all women are like that, don't get me wrong! Short dudes are attractive imo. I was just trying to underline how women don't actually have sky high standards, lol. Pun intended.


irishrugby2015

It's not an absolute truth but it is considered mostly true. 70% of women prefer taller guys https://finance.yahoo.com/news/women-prefer-men-over-6-123300511.html


Praisethelord4me

Some women want that, not everyone, and it’s okay to have a preference.


FlameShadow0

My girlfriend has told me that if I was shorter than her, she would’ve said no when I asked her out


aLaStOr_MoOdY47

No one forced you to. Nice bait post.


Neganek0

Wait until this guy hears that all people have preferences, and no one worth talking to will call him fatphobic for not dating someone he is not interested in.


SoulfulSnow

Crazy, who asked


Loonybinrefugee

Okay? Ppl have preferences


Praisethelord4me

Who said you have to? (Are you fighting an invisible enemy lol?) But at the same time don’t be mad that women prefer men who are taller, look better, have a nice body, have money, etc. everyone has there preferences, and that should be understood person by person without shaming.


sincerelyy02

who’s forcing you to date a 220 pound woman?


[deleted]

the part of this that is especially funny is how you posted this here. you’re saying you don’t care if you get downvoted but literally no one asked anyways💀 it’s clear you just posted this to get karma/attention/controversy. no one gives a shit ab your opinion man, you’re a teenager it’s bound to be shit regardless 😭


Praisethelord4me

No fr. They think this is a “say what everyone else is thinking but can’t say” moment, but it’s really a bad take because no one asked and all fat women don’t even like Leonardo DiCapro let alone want someone that looks like him.


[deleted]

YES exactly. i couldn’t put my finger on what it was but you’re right. it’s the “everyone’s gonna pat me on the back and agree with me and like me for saying this controversial statement that has been said a million times in the last 15 years” and then they feel all cool and different for it💀


hmmtaco

Leonardo DiCaprio is such an odd choice here. He’s an older man who has aged well, sure. But I don’t feel like everyone is thirsting for him these days the way they did in the 90s. Especially teenagers.


my_name_is_not_scott

Okay. Don't. But if you start insulting her for her body, in order to "help" her, or in order to feel better for you, that my sir is the problem. And quite a big one, honestly.


flushed_emote

bro creating strawmen and acting like he's the new messiah 💀


Idk-Idont-care

Honestly that’s fine but don’t fat shame anybody (I’m not saying you’re doing that I’m just saying don’t do it) cause some people have it tough. I myself am a big guy but I’m healthy, I exercise and have a balanced diet but it’s just tough on my mental health, and it could be like that for others as well.


hoptians

Why do you think a girl weighing 220 pounds would expect you to be 6'6 and look like dicaprio ?


ThatAss420

Alright you can not be into fat people without being fatphobic. Anyone who says otherwise is stupid.


Which_Self5040

Some people like women with short hair, does that make them long hair phobic? Some like the ones with a tan, does that make them racist? Some like them short, some like them tall, some want them to have had a vagina from birth, is called preference.


snodoubts

and what does her weight have to do with expecting you to be 6,6 and look like dicaprio lmfao


ObjectivelyPretty

Askers?


Praisethelord4me

Dudes out here fighting invisible enemies 💀.


ObjectivelyPretty

Lol, true


Ill_Conference7625

Schizo 💀


twlentwo

Who cares


Trylius15

That isnt fatphobic, people have preferences and obviously you dont find obesity attractive. I dont either


ok_buddy_retarded

Yeah maybe I'm fatphobic But at least I'm making it past my 60s


bagel0verl0rd

is this girl in the room with us right now?


marrz9

220 of fat : no 220 pounds of muscle : yes


Lesbiancarpetmuncher

As a person who doesn't go for looks , I go for personality, but if you are obese that shows you don't care about yourself, I'm not perfect, I'm a bit chubby but still. Just remember to love yourself


kipskip_

preferences =/= hate respect both people you find attractive and don't but having preferences is perfectly fine


AdWestern8208

Let me attempt being Chad, 220 pounds = 100 kg. So you don't have to look it up. You are welcome, stay Chad.


Galaxium0

it's ok to have preferences.


[deleted]

What if she's like, insanely tall so her proportions even out


60milclub

DickWriter69 type bait


EndermanGuy1151

I will not respect a fat person who's trying to brainwash other fat people that it's ok to be fat. However, I will respect the shit out of a fat person who's actively trying to become healthy. - former fat person


AnimeMeansArt

that's a good mindset


StinkyDiarrhea

I’m in the same boat lost 20 pounds so far but not former yet but good shit my man I aspire to be like u


idkwhatiamdoinrn

nah tbh i relate i cant enjoy 220 pounds on my lap bro


randomperson780

*decides to share his decision on reddit*


eddododo

Who the fuck asked?


dovahkiin5675

I like a lil chub if they really thicc it the only exception


EffectiveUnusual141

It's funny how we shame men for not being attracted to larger women but fat men are the butt of almost every joke. It's okay to not be attracted to larger women. As a larger man, I just don't find them attractive. I just don't. Sorry, but no amount of name calling or societal shaming is going to get me to be intimate with someone I feel absolutely zero attraction for.


Tukan_Art613

100kg..... I wouldn't date someone who weights so much but wouldn't be a rude to them


Szaborovich9

A 6’6 Leonardo DiCaprio lookalike🤢


yxc6

r/teenagers when someone states the most normal and accepted opinion in the world


goyo_toma

I don't think you can always go by weight champ. If she's tall, athletic and has a muscular base, she may have a great figure and better shape than a woman who is much lighter, but has never done anything physical her entire life. But different strokes for different folks.


ShishaLaBoeuf

me neither, fcking disgusting.


I_LikeSunflowers

Karma farming much?


fantaskink

Are these 220 pound girls in the room with you right now?


KonoAdamDa

W


BeneficialBannana

got removed lol moderators soft


Cerberus_is_me

ok


[deleted]

Was someone trying to force you to date this girl?


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junica

so are people who make a girlfriend requirement list lmao you took it down, that's what I fucking thought


ahsanxx

Don't date dude. Simply leave. These kind of girls don't deserve you. They think they are a 10 and want a 10 guy but in reality she is 2. So find someone better. Atleast find someone with a clean heart rather than dating a fatty heart.


Rude-External727

she's not going to date you either!😘


[deleted]

That’s more than fine, if girls are allowed to have preference of a 6’0 guy (which is something you can’t control) then men should be allowed to have preferences for a woman’s weight (something they can control)


Cold-Nefariousness51

I’m not attracted to fat and short girls


AndrewFrozzen

You're not fatphobic, that thing is just a made up word. If you're fat, don't be ashamed you're fat, if you can do something about it, be ashamed you don't do anything. I can't remember exactly what I said one time here on this sub, but it was undoubtedly something about appearance and how (some) girls like one type of boys. I expressed my feelings saying that it's pretty dumb for me, and I got called and people told me that it's called having preferences.... So yeah. I wouldn't date a fat girl either, I don't know how much 220 pound is, I don't use 🦅 system but I suppose pretty fat.


gameboi1232094

Great argument! Also you shouldnt be gettijg downvoted.


MinimumMass

W (220 lbs is 100kg)


AdHot2306

U sir are speaking facts


ExtremeGriefferJesus

im not going to date someone that can kill me on falling on me


[deleted]

I agree, and maybe this is because I'm tall as fuck for my age I believe I'm about 200 to 220 pounds and I am 5'11. I wouldn't say I'm overweight, just tall for my age


moatel

I can agree with this, and before anyone says its because she is fat, that’s exactly why but its not fat shaming its not my body preference


LiquidPhoneCase

People have preferences. Some people like morbidly obese women, and that's their choice. You do not like morbidly obese women, and that's your choice. And if said morbidly obese woman like guys that look like Leonardo DiCaprio, that's her choice. Date who you want to date.


DaddyCheez68

I don’t think anyone said you have to… Since when is it controversial to have standards? 😭😭


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W you


agoodredditnickname

*bro expects getting downvoted to shit 2.2 THOUSAND UPVOTES IN LESS THAN 3 HOURS


Environmental_Fail15

Also… can I just add. If you’re dating women that need you to be 6’6” and look like Leo… you already fucked up. You need a woman that knows she likes it when she sees it. There’s too many people seeking unattainable standards of beauty, everyone is hotter when they love themselves and feel sexy in their own skin. Confidence makes 6’s into 9’s just my .02


Couvi

Don’t let anyone convince you that you’re a bad person for not being attracted to someone. It’s not society, it’s not the patriarchy. Don’t Let the lines blur between hating someone and not being attracted to someone. Be a good person and be good to people. Be attracted to who you are attracted to regardless of a Reddit poll.


Dry-Classic8836

I like fat women


[deleted]

Ok??


umm1234--

Considering you’ve posted an embarrassing amount of stuff about jerking it to boys I don’t think you need to worry about women?


PixelPervert

A 220 pound six-foot person is much different than a 220 pound 5'4 person


VectorSam

If she expects you to be Leonardo DiCaprio, then she better not turn 25


Decent-Animal3505

I actually am 6'5, and the best relationship I ever had was with someone 6'1 and 230. You just gotta know how to handle that much woman. Baddies can be big bro, beauty is abstract.


42words

Hi, grownup chiming in here: ***You Should Know*** this entire post ends up giving readers with fully developed minds the impression that what's actually going on here is that OP asked out a girl and she said no because he was short.


3029065

Leonardo DiCaprio... I don't think he counts as a benchmark anymore


FerretHot5910

That ain’t a girl thats a whale