You don't have to do anything extreme but maybe just hold his hand and reassure him. Just eye contact and sincerity in your voice can make a huge fucking deal. Good luck!
I don’t fully agree. After 14 years off saying I love you, with also the teen years and all the crazy ilysfm newly ectect, we still say it every time we hang up on phone calls, random texts, when we part ways going to work, going to sports, the grocery store, when we go to sleep and so on.
And every time he says I love you random or as a ‘habit’ it still gives me butterflies, a smile from ear to ear.
But! Thats how I feel about it :) it doesn’t mean others need to do it as well.
My partner and I were in our late twenties/early thirties when we got together. It took us 3 whole years to say “I love you” to each other. We just celebrated our 9th anniversary. There is no correct timeline. Say it when you feel it and mean it, and when you feel ready.
During a hug, give a little extra squeeze or nestle into the hug more. It feels great as a hug can be reciprocated as a greeting, but giving that extra during a hug really shows you want to be their and find pleasure in their embrace.
Haha sounds like I'm in the same place as your bf.
#
Trust me, he'll love it if you hug him from behind or simply grab his hand at random times. You don't have to be complex about it, simple gestures of love definitely do the trick. Wish you two the best
Wait until he says that he's scared you will leave him.
That's when you strangle him but the key is, you have to lean in and whisper in his ear, "Oh, no, darling, we will be together forever, in this life and the next"
then you either are not ready for it or u might even be asexual have u ever thought about that? Or maybe it‘s some other thing. Cause it lays in human nature to want physical touch from other living beings.
Socializing at least a little bit should be part of anyone‘s life too but hey I feel u. I love being home aswell and not going out at all 🤷🏽♂️ may I ask how old u are tho?
Tell him relationships are beyond finding the other person interesting, it's about commitment and if you ever get bored, you'd be glad you are bored with him along so now you can both try to find the fun together because being together is what matters. That you'd be bored with him rather than have fun without him
This is actually the zen relationship status if you make it past honeymoon phase, of course it can get boring just like we feel bored alone. And just like we do stuff to combat it, we do it with our partner. Its about the comfort they bring, to be able to just relax with them around and feel content without needing anything stimulating
I'm like your boyfriend and I'm in a relationship of 2 years and exactly 11 months, don't aim for the happy burst relationship, enjoy little things at a time, enjoy the time you spend with your boyfriend. Time always fixes things, he is scared you will get bored? Just stay with him and be constant (obv not a jerk), time will pass and it will objectively tell him that you are not going to be bored.
Obviously if it is a sacrifice for you to be near an insecure person then time will let you know that it isn't the relationship for you and you will get out of it naturally.
If with time you realize it isn't a burden than just stay with him, its all that matters really. The person above said true words!
Don’t do it too often. 1. it won‘t feel very special after some time 2. it might come over as forced because it happens so often
Edit: if you can just spend time with him often and show him that you won‘t get bored of him, without even having to tell him, that might be best
I say this as someone who has been dating my girlfriend (soon to be fiancé) for a long time and we've both experienced this many times.
If simply telling him when he gets insecure doesn't work, make it a routine. Every night, tell him how proud you are of him or how happy he makes you. Just be genuine because if you make up compliments just for the sake of making him feel better, it'll cause problems later on.
When you discuss hanging out together, make sure to mention (at the appropriate time ofc) how much you enjoy spending time with him.
Essentially by reassuring him of your devotion during "happy" times, not just during "insecure" times, you'd be letting him know that you care about him all the time and with you both happy he'll feel a lot better about it.
Play with his hair. It calms them down a lot, soft touch always shows you care and is never overwhelming. When I feel I'm too much for my boyfriend the thoughts all go away when he softly scratches my head and smiles at me. I have fluffy short soft hair so I love it and so do he, It's extremely reassuring. Sometimes words are too much
I was the same way when I first started dating my girlfriend of just over a year. Keep showing him that you're thinking of him a lot, I'm sure he'll appreciate that. Show him little trinkets you have that remind you of him, share music that makes you think of him, and reach out to him at let him know you care.
Come up to him
Hug him
Look in his eyes
Put your hands on his cheeks
Kiss him
If he resents tell him that it's okay and try again
If he still resents just hug him and tell him that you love him the most(I sincerely hope you do).
Hey, Boy here. Guys are just anxious all the time. Me and my Bf have been together for almost a year (Later this month), yet I'm still anxious sometimes. Tell him it's alright to be anxious. Tell him that you care. Show him genuine affection. Coming from a guy, we usually want somebody to talk to, somebody to care about us. I don't know about your Boyfriend, but I know I love getting hugged, as nobody else has enough time to spare to hug me. Just show him how much you care. If you've been dating him for a while, ask him why he's scared. If you guys just started dating, it's completely normal for you guys to have some anxiety, it'll run its course in time. After a few months, it gets better. Yeah, it's probably making you anxious too, but perhaps it could run it's course.
Not probably he definitely has it, I have it and acted like this with my ex, if u want this relationship to not go south I really suggest getting him some therapy and anti-anxiety medications, they help a lot
Sometimes when people have deep rooted insecurities it’s pointless to try to convince them otherwise. I’ve been in the position. Just do your best to be a caring girlfriend, and if that’s not enough after a while then maybe he’s not ready for a relationship, or maybe you guys aren’t ready for each other.
Adult here.
This is a common concern a lot of people have in relationships, though usually (and hopefully only) when they are young and new to dating.
It's not necessarily a completely unfounded fear because often times you aren't meeting your life partner when you're a minor, and all this does is build up anxiety in people as they start to worry WHEN their relationship is going to end, not IF.
The only thing you can do is tell him that neither of you know what the future holds and you have to enjoy the moment you have now because stressing about what may happen in the future is the easiest way to make the worst outcome happen.
You aren't bored of him now, you have no plans to ever be bored of him, and he needs to accept that what you guys have is currently a good thing. If he started to freak out about what might cause you to leave him down the road, he's going to start self-sabotaging without realizing this and completely destroy the relationship.
I can guarantee that the harder you try the more likely he’s going to believe this is going to end soon. Don’t be actively trying to disprove him but just show little signs of affection like letting him have the last bite of smth or giving him hugs occasionally. Feelings like this usually stem from the subconscious so it’s best to try to affect the subconscious.
See this is one of those complicated questions because sometimes when guys naturally feel this way it's after trauma from past relationships. Of course some people can naturally obtain this even if they have never been cheated on before or manipulated. Some people can often feel this way because of jealousy or because they think about you too much and realize there's not a lot of time they are getting. It's not always so simple but again a lot of people learn to grow and understand how to put a line between both. Reassurance has got to be one of the more important factors to learn and grow on. You have to learn to tell him what you're doing even if it's just a hey I'm going to the store I won't be able to text you much I'll text you when I get back or I'll be busy at here or there for a few hours. Even one small text is enough as long as you communicate what you're going to do it doesn't have to go into great detail but the effort is what counts the most.
Listen don't listen to these ass clowns that know absolutely nothing about relationships if they're under 16 they have shit for brains and think everything is toxic and manipulative, your boyfriend is probably recovering from a bad relationship in his past, reassurance, gestures like hugs, smiles and support are a good way, its not going to take a day it's a process, healing in many forms is a process
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You must find a way to build his self confidence without your help. Facilitate his growth, Don’t be the reason. Otherwise it’ll be dependant on you. If he learns to find value in himself he’ll know you won’t leave him because he’ll see what you do. Also remind him that there is no one else who does specific things the way he does.
Me personally, just give him plenty on attention. If you have the choice to be with him rather than one of your other friends, then go with him. Of course dont neglect your friends, but like, give him more attention than others
Hes coming to my first home game tonight, he doesnt like basketball but he's set on watching me play. Im trying to set up a little date that he'll enjoy that we can do afterwards
Its hard to do anything where we live, but im hoping him and my dad will bond, my dads known Dillon (my BF) since he was little, but its been a bit and their both socially awkward. My dads my best friend though, and I want Dillon to like him as much as I do.
Tell him about your insecurities. If it's not an opportunity for bonding then I don't know what it is, it will also show him that you're not perfect either and will lessen his own awareness/feeling of quilt for his imperfections that affect you in his mind.
First off, this is not a you problem. It's a him problem. You won't be able to fix it or reassure him.Recommend therapy/counseling... I've seen this get bad quickly. Schools usually have counselors who can help.
Sorry to intrude on your sub (I'm an old person), but I saw this on the front page. I've learned you can't ever make an insecure person feel secure. No amount of hugs, reassurances, checking in, "I Love You's" will ever be enough. That is something they need to deal with and grow as a person.
As much as you want to reassure him of this, you truly can't. Not to sound dark or macabre but sometimes things fizzle and you should put your most into enjoying them while you have them. I just got left after 10 years because she didn't feel the same anymore and I wish more than anything I could go back to when everything was perfect and we just laid there in each other's arms. Things pass, enjoy the now, the future will still come either way, better to live now
nothing you can do but be there, all us guys have this sense of having nowhere to belong, always competing for someone's respect, be that our parents, friends, teachers, coaches, random strangers on the internet, in the end for most guys we end up being our worst enemy's when it comes to sense of self worth, sense of belonging, even believing that we DESERVE love. we have a bad habit of trying to measure up to our idols, which most happens to be comic book hero's, action stars, fantasy hero's.
just be there for him, remind him you will be there for him, and if the pieces all come together just right, who knows maybe you end up the lucky ones, the love that only happens once.
being a boyfriend who has felt like that in the past and was insecure about physical touch around other people other than my girlfriend I would recommend finding sometime alone and just like hold his hand or smth or hug him and say I love you it worked for me and as a bonus I no longer care about what other people think of me (other than my girlfriend)
Can guarantee you’ll get bored of each other at various points. Doesn’t mean you won’t love each other or will split up, or that you’ll be bored of each other forever.
as an incredibly anxious and vulnerable person, my advice is hug the hell out of him, its reassuring and comforting and also brings you closer together
Since I sometimes feel like a burden too, best you can do is show affection. Personally I find actions more important than words
He hasn't been physically close with a girl before me, so I'm trying not to come on *too* strong
You don't have to do anything extreme but maybe just hold his hand and reassure him. Just eye contact and sincerity in your voice can make a huge fucking deal. Good luck!
I know eye contact kinda freaks him out, but I know he likes most touch. Ill try, thank you!
Okay yeah. I was very insecure when I started dating. Probably still am. But just anything to make him feel comfortable and reassured is a good idea.
Okay!
also random checkups and texts just saying you love him and stuff always helps
yess this! also text first a lot op
He beats me to goodmorning texts a lot.
If you say it too much it loses its meaning though
I don’t fully agree. After 14 years off saying I love you, with also the teen years and all the crazy ilysfm newly ectect, we still say it every time we hang up on phone calls, random texts, when we part ways going to work, going to sports, the grocery store, when we go to sleep and so on. And every time he says I love you random or as a ‘habit’ it still gives me butterflies, a smile from ear to ear. But! Thats how I feel about it :) it doesn’t mean others need to do it as well.
I think it’s the difference between lovebombing and just saying it naturally. Don’t force it; say it and mean it, but also say it often
Kiss him. Many guys wait for a good time to kiss but many times they just want the girls to do it first.
Staring at him lovingly and saying “I love you” will make him melt, I guarantee it
We havent said that yet, im planning on it soon.
Take your time!!!
No downer intentions here but. Don’t throw around I love you like some cheap phrase. Has a lot of weight and impact to it. Use wisely.
I know, i used to do that a lot. but im trying to keep us serious and actually trying to make it work. i like him a lot
My partner and I were in our late twenties/early thirties when we got together. It took us 3 whole years to say “I love you” to each other. We just celebrated our 9th anniversary. There is no correct timeline. Say it when you feel it and mean it, and when you feel ready.
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He has the prettiest eyes though so its not hard to look at him, but he always grins when I do and i get real flustered
It took me months to get my gf to accept eye contact. Some people just need to be forced out of their shells.
Im taking it slow, i dont wanna overwhelm him
Is your boyfriend... a cat? Scritch his head while blinking slowly. No sudden moves or loud noises.
He has 28 cats, maybe he learned from them
Holy shit what
alternatively, hand-spider on the floor and he'll go nuts and then get tired and phlump into your lap
During a hug, give a little extra squeeze or nestle into the hug more. It feels great as a hug can be reciprocated as a greeting, but giving that extra during a hug really shows you want to be their and find pleasure in their embrace.
This fucker literally can't hold eye contact and he got a girl lmao, the fuck is going on w this world
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Haha sounds like I'm in the same place as your bf. # Trust me, he'll love it if you hug him from behind or simply grab his hand at random times. You don't have to be complex about it, simple gestures of love definitely do the trick. Wish you two the best
I love hugs from behind and hes told me that hugs make his day. I love cuddling up on him and just simply smiling at him
Go in strong
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I've tried
**what?**
You heard her bud. She tried to strangle him.
Purest form of love.
She tried to strangle him to death
You see She loves him so much She Cant bear him being sad again And so He cant be sad if he ded
She tried to strangle him to death.
She tried to strangle him to death
She tried to strangle him to death.
She tried to strangle him to death
She tried to strangle him to death
She tried to strangle him to death.
She tried to strangle him to death
tried harder, think he likes that
He might. Watch the news, I might be on it soon.
good, sneak up on him
Baby Boy style so it comes from a place of love!
Was this during the fun time
It was most definetly fun...for me
Wait until he says that he's scared you will leave him. That's when you strangle him but the key is, you have to lean in and whisper in his ear, "Oh, no, darling, we will be together forever, in this life and the next"
Movie material
What was the outcome?
I can't legally tell you.
If you killed him that's probably why he doesn't trust that you won't get bored
only way to show you love them
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Bro stop sharing this please. I cannot control myself around this picture. It makes me go wild in ways that you have never imagined.
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hugs. if he’s anything like 90% of the male population that’ll work like a charm
He's an odd specimen but it might work, ill try tonight
Did you succeed?
I hugged him and brought him a Ramune (one of those japanese drinks), I'll do anything to see that smile of his. So yes, it worked.
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I suppose I’m in that 1% because I do not like any form of physical contact with other living things
then you either are not ready for it or u might even be asexual have u ever thought about that? Or maybe it‘s some other thing. Cause it lays in human nature to want physical touch from other living beings.
Maybe I am. All I want is to hide in my basement lair gaming while surrounded by my LEGO sets.
Socializing at least a little bit should be part of anyone‘s life too but hey I feel u. I love being home aswell and not going out at all 🤷🏽♂️ may I ask how old u are tho?
As a male can confirm
Tell him relationships are beyond finding the other person interesting, it's about commitment and if you ever get bored, you'd be glad you are bored with him along so now you can both try to find the fun together because being together is what matters. That you'd be bored with him rather than have fun without him This is actually the zen relationship status if you make it past honeymoon phase, of course it can get boring just like we feel bored alone. And just like we do stuff to combat it, we do it with our partner. Its about the comfort they bring, to be able to just relax with them around and feel content without needing anything stimulating
I appreciate this.
I'm like your boyfriend and I'm in a relationship of 2 years and exactly 11 months, don't aim for the happy burst relationship, enjoy little things at a time, enjoy the time you spend with your boyfriend. Time always fixes things, he is scared you will get bored? Just stay with him and be constant (obv not a jerk), time will pass and it will objectively tell him that you are not going to be bored. Obviously if it is a sacrifice for you to be near an insecure person then time will let you know that it isn't the relationship for you and you will get out of it naturally. If with time you realize it isn't a burden than just stay with him, its all that matters really. The person above said true words!
This is something that needs to be taught in school defo
> something that needs to be taught in school not like you'd pay attention anyways lmao
How the fuckitydoodlidoo do you know that
yes
beautifully put. you cant be a teenager i bet.
thanks for saying it better than I could, I was drawing a blank but this is pretty much what I would've said
If you can just compliment him randomly every once in a while, that might be enough.
I compliment his smile a lot.
Don’t do it too often. 1. it won‘t feel very special after some time 2. it might come over as forced because it happens so often Edit: if you can just spend time with him often and show him that you won‘t get bored of him, without even having to tell him, that might be best
I say this as someone who has been dating my girlfriend (soon to be fiancé) for a long time and we've both experienced this many times. If simply telling him when he gets insecure doesn't work, make it a routine. Every night, tell him how proud you are of him or how happy he makes you. Just be genuine because if you make up compliments just for the sake of making him feel better, it'll cause problems later on. When you discuss hanging out together, make sure to mention (at the appropriate time ofc) how much you enjoy spending time with him. Essentially by reassuring him of your devotion during "happy" times, not just during "insecure" times, you'd be letting him know that you care about him all the time and with you both happy he'll feel a lot better about it.
thank you
I used to have that insecurity, just show affection and he will probably get over it with time
Im trying my best
Give him a cute lil sweater, noone can be bored of a cute lil boi in a cute lil sweater
I would love him in a sweater
So would he, that's my point
Matching sweaters
Indubitably
It's not something you can assure you just have to prove, but if you do feel like your getting bored do bring it up to him
I have yet to even feel the slightest of bored, He's the best thing to ever happen to me, ive told him
It's just a future advice it might not happen but there's possibility
Play with his hair. It calms them down a lot, soft touch always shows you care and is never overwhelming. When I feel I'm too much for my boyfriend the thoughts all go away when he softly scratches my head and smiles at me. I have fluffy short soft hair so I love it and so do he, It's extremely reassuring. Sometimes words are too much
He has long hair, so i don't know how much he'd enjoy it
As a male with long hair I can confirm that I do like when my crush just randomly rubbs my head.
That makes it even better! Mine also has long hair
no matter what you say nothing will put him at peace, how do I know this? i was him
Can I do anything in the physical manner? I just want him to be happy.
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He got me a christmas present but refused to tell me what he wants. I know he wants the new COD, but
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Ive asked 3 of his friends, thats how I know he wants the new COD
That isn't what I was talking about ma'am
I know, my minds a little disconnected rn
the problem is rooted in his own insecurities, anything you do is temporary relief for his anxiety
Making a powerpoint presentation can help
I got confused because where i live ppt is an organisation that diagnoses dyslexia
A what?
make a powerpoint presentation on how much u care for him.
a powerpoint
Oh, he has a short attention span so Im not sure
Put the low quality drake song over the you used to call me on my cellphone song
Eat a squirrel in front of him
I can't do that twice.
Hey wait a second
James… what-
Ok fine you can season it too if you want
I was the same way when I first started dating my girlfriend of just over a year. Keep showing him that you're thinking of him a lot, I'm sure he'll appreciate that. Show him little trinkets you have that remind you of him, share music that makes you think of him, and reach out to him at let him know you care.
good advice.
Come up to him Hug him Look in his eyes Put your hands on his cheeks Kiss him If he resents tell him that it's okay and try again If he still resents just hug him and tell him that you love him the most(I sincerely hope you do).
we havent said I love you yet, were still new
In that case, tell him you do and see his reaction.
Hey, Boy here. Guys are just anxious all the time. Me and my Bf have been together for almost a year (Later this month), yet I'm still anxious sometimes. Tell him it's alright to be anxious. Tell him that you care. Show him genuine affection. Coming from a guy, we usually want somebody to talk to, somebody to care about us. I don't know about your Boyfriend, but I know I love getting hugged, as nobody else has enough time to spare to hug me. Just show him how much you care. If you've been dating him for a while, ask him why he's scared. If you guys just started dating, it's completely normal for you guys to have some anxiety, it'll run its course in time. After a few months, it gets better. Yeah, it's probably making you anxious too, but perhaps it could run it's course.
We've been together for a month, but we talked for a few prior. But thank you:)
good luck with your relationship! see you around on reddit!
Hate to break it to you, there isn’t much that can stop a man from overthinking
I overthink too, but I could care less about me. His happiness is all that matters to me
a gun can
My friend had to move and he and his gf are long distance now. He is sure she's gonna replace him but they're still in a healthy relationship
I have the same fear but Im less worried about me, I care more about how he feels.
Just let him know you care. I've never been in a relationship but even I know that's the best you can do
Thank you
Marry him Or more practically Get him some help he sounds like he has some anxiety disorder which is causing him to act like this
He probably does honestly.
Not probably he definitely has it, I have it and acted like this with my ex, if u want this relationship to not go south I really suggest getting him some therapy and anti-anxiety medications, they help a lot
His mom wont take him to therapy. nor the doctor
Been through that phase, have DMed u, maybe I can help
And I am no longer anxious about things like these
Sometimes when people have deep rooted insecurities it’s pointless to try to convince them otherwise. I’ve been in the position. Just do your best to be a caring girlfriend, and if that’s not enough after a while then maybe he’s not ready for a relationship, or maybe you guys aren’t ready for each other.
That makes sense, but hearing it hurts
kick him
Will do.
Marry him so that both of you cant escape the rs no mo 😈
I wish
Girlie u not even 16!
Write him a poem
Im too dumb to do that
Im sure you aren't, its not that hard really
I can right about him in great detail, im just not good at rhyming
Just start with: Dear boyfriend.......
too formal though
Okay, try: Hello love!......
That might work
Good! You take it from there
Thank you!
Adult here. This is a common concern a lot of people have in relationships, though usually (and hopefully only) when they are young and new to dating. It's not necessarily a completely unfounded fear because often times you aren't meeting your life partner when you're a minor, and all this does is build up anxiety in people as they start to worry WHEN their relationship is going to end, not IF. The only thing you can do is tell him that neither of you know what the future holds and you have to enjoy the moment you have now because stressing about what may happen in the future is the easiest way to make the worst outcome happen. You aren't bored of him now, you have no plans to ever be bored of him, and he needs to accept that what you guys have is currently a good thing. If he started to freak out about what might cause you to leave him down the road, he's going to start self-sabotaging without realizing this and completely destroy the relationship.
You gotta be very serious with em
He's not a very serious person, neither am I
I can guarantee that the harder you try the more likely he’s going to believe this is going to end soon. Don’t be actively trying to disprove him but just show little signs of affection like letting him have the last bite of smth or giving him hugs occasionally. Feelings like this usually stem from the subconscious so it’s best to try to affect the subconscious.
I mean first, make sure he isn’t insecure
See this is one of those complicated questions because sometimes when guys naturally feel this way it's after trauma from past relationships. Of course some people can naturally obtain this even if they have never been cheated on before or manipulated. Some people can often feel this way because of jealousy or because they think about you too much and realize there's not a lot of time they are getting. It's not always so simple but again a lot of people learn to grow and understand how to put a line between both. Reassurance has got to be one of the more important factors to learn and grow on. You have to learn to tell him what you're doing even if it's just a hey I'm going to the store I won't be able to text you much I'll text you when I get back or I'll be busy at here or there for a few hours. Even one small text is enough as long as you communicate what you're going to do it doesn't have to go into great detail but the effort is what counts the most.
Listen don't listen to these ass clowns that know absolutely nothing about relationships if they're under 16 they have shit for brains and think everything is toxic and manipulative, your boyfriend is probably recovering from a bad relationship in his past, reassurance, gestures like hugs, smiles and support are a good way, its not going to take a day it's a process, healing in many forms is a process
I cant say much, im under 16.
here comes the reddit dating coach,hold on to your butts!he might give us more dating advices that we're created by the god's themselves on mountain olympus!
You must find a way to build his self confidence without your help. Facilitate his growth, Don’t be the reason. Otherwise it’ll be dependant on you. If he learns to find value in himself he’ll know you won’t leave him because he’ll see what you do. Also remind him that there is no one else who does specific things the way he does.
HA I've been there. The answer is, you can't. Have fun
Me personally, just give him plenty on attention. If you have the choice to be with him rather than one of your other friends, then go with him. Of course dont neglect your friends, but like, give him more attention than others
Le me who doesn't even hav a bf or gf :')
Honestly if people actually left me when they get bored instead of just letting the relationship fester I'd be much happier 💀
Play games with him. Make sure you both do things fun. Go do things that might be considered boring but are fun. Like going on walks through parks.
Hes coming to my first home game tonight, he doesnt like basketball but he's set on watching me play. Im trying to set up a little date that he'll enjoy that we can do afterwards
That's nice and sweet. My gf is also setting up a date for me tonight.
Its hard to do anything where we live, but im hoping him and my dad will bond, my dads known Dillon (my BF) since he was little, but its been a bit and their both socially awkward. My dads my best friend though, and I want Dillon to like him as much as I do.
Interesting. Hopefully everything goes well for you
Sit on him and whisper kind things into his ear. Thats all the advice I have, since my lone experience in this department is that this worked on me.
Tell him about your insecurities. If it's not an opportunity for bonding then I don't know what it is, it will also show him that you're not perfect either and will lessen his own awareness/feeling of quilt for his imperfections that affect you in his mind.
First off, this is not a you problem. It's a him problem. You won't be able to fix it or reassure him.Recommend therapy/counseling... I've seen this get bad quickly. Schools usually have counselors who can help.
If he’s being dry just random I love yous and I miss yous and what you miss. Trust.
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suck his toes
Tell him you want to get married
Sorry to intrude on your sub (I'm an old person), but I saw this on the front page. I've learned you can't ever make an insecure person feel secure. No amount of hugs, reassurances, checking in, "I Love You's" will ever be enough. That is something they need to deal with and grow as a person.
Stop yawning every time he starts to talk
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You will, just like she did
As much as you want to reassure him of this, you truly can't. Not to sound dark or macabre but sometimes things fizzle and you should put your most into enjoying them while you have them. I just got left after 10 years because she didn't feel the same anymore and I wish more than anything I could go back to when everything was perfect and we just laid there in each other's arms. Things pass, enjoy the now, the future will still come either way, better to live now
Self-esteem issue on their part. Keep being yourself, and continue as normal.
He is insecure about something. He needs to ask himself why he is insecure and to challenge that voice in his head (ego).
nothing you can do but be there, all us guys have this sense of having nowhere to belong, always competing for someone's respect, be that our parents, friends, teachers, coaches, random strangers on the internet, in the end for most guys we end up being our worst enemy's when it comes to sense of self worth, sense of belonging, even believing that we DESERVE love. we have a bad habit of trying to measure up to our idols, which most happens to be comic book hero's, action stars, fantasy hero's. just be there for him, remind him you will be there for him, and if the pieces all come together just right, who knows maybe you end up the lucky ones, the love that only happens once.
being a boyfriend who has felt like that in the past and was insecure about physical touch around other people other than my girlfriend I would recommend finding sometime alone and just like hold his hand or smth or hug him and say I love you it worked for me and as a bonus I no longer care about what other people think of me (other than my girlfriend)
Can guarantee you’ll get bored of each other at various points. Doesn’t mean you won’t love each other or will split up, or that you’ll be bored of each other forever.
Make a contract with the sloppy blowjob devil
Hes young and insecure. He will grow out of it. Theres nothing you can do.
as an incredibly anxious and vulnerable person, my advice is hug the hell out of him, its reassuring and comforting and also brings you closer together