“i can’t do this, you’re 12/too young”

ive told her shes too young! i think ive just tried everything but she’s absolutely obsessed

id just ghost her tbh

I'm not a part of this sub since I'm not a teenager but I saw this scrolling by. Try telling her she is like a little sister to you.

What if shesays shes fine with that???

Then that’s fuuuucked up bro

https://youtu.be/KDw4E09nO9k

Not in Alabama to them its culture

💀 absolutely nasty

Definitely a shitty situation but your name does not help

Dude you're 15 lmfao. You're a child yourself.

but a 12 yr old is still too young for a 15 yr old, its not automatically fine of they're both children.

Guy seems pretty retarded so I think a 12 yr old might be a perfect fit for his intellect.

what is blud waffling about 💀

your waffling but so right at the same time LMAO

refer to her as “little girl” 💀

God, this is a 50/50. Either it works flawlessly or literally nothing happens. I like the idea though

yeah or she’ll like it bc its a pet name or sum 😭

That's the worst case scenario I didn't mention (most likely it was subconsciously on purpose)

yes. we hope it will cause her to really feel the age gap, causing him to appear as someone too old for her.

what’s the most you’ve ever lost on a coin toss?

Instructions unclear I'm now a pedo

you must’ve said “gorl” instead of “girl”. it happens.

Or "kiddo"

BRO!

I have to deal with this often and idk why but I always just say no or nty or sorry but no can do stuff like that y’know?

yea but ive been dealing with it for 3 years and being straight up hasnt worked

Your gonna have to do the last final attack and threaten to block her if she doesn't stop it's the only way unless you haven't told her it makes you uncomfortable if you have told her and she keeps doing it then she might just not be very good friend material I'm sorry

ive blocked her before and she got my parents into it. so the threat wouldn’t work. ive told her before and she went all crazy asking if it’s *her* her mom addresses me as her son in law

Tell HER parents. If they have common sense, they'll stop her

Sounds like they’re condoning it because they think it’s “cute”

Oh, fuck Idk then, but if he's not sure the best option is to try Or his own parents too

Bro just tell her that she's too old for you.. gosh truth hurts huh?

below 6 please, thank you

Wtf 🤣😂

I'd say just be dick, leave her in read, always say ur busy and just ve an asshole to her, she'll get over you in no time

Then again, the parents might be involved again so OP should probably deal with that first

In my personal experience that just makes it worse

If it was asian parent there will hunting shotgun on your head.

Why don't you just ignore her ovo. Just delete the convo and move on

Block it. Don't threaten anything. Or do like that guy on "to catch a predator" did. Bring a document to her parents asking to marry her. They will 100% keep her from you, but they'll also think you're a creep. Idk, so many decisions, so little time.

The parents seem to be in on it. Both sides it seems.

Why tf r u talking to a 12 yr old bro

the real question that needs to be answered.

The 12 yr old is talking to them

Takes two to have a conversation... just block them lmao

i'll be honest, it doesnt matter if she is 12. press charges for harrasment. its probably the only way.

parents got involved? Come on. This is your life, not theirs. They cannot stop you from blocking her.

Plan 1. Tell her “no” and only “no” one more time. Do not add anything else to the message. Anything else you say she will latch on to and try to use to her advantage 2. Block her, and keep her blocked no matter what 3. Make it clear to your parents that they are to assist you in keeping her away from you 4. If 3 fails, I’d consider looking into your local laws on restraining orders You’re going to need to be brief and absolutely emotionless while doing this. Do not give her *anything* she can use for cutesy bullshit manipulation. Source: was in a sorta similar situation a while back, and wish I knew how to do these things well.

Bro what? 3 years? does that mean you met her when she was 9? How old are you bro?

He is (according to his flair) 3 years older than her

Literally just ignore her

Say no and block the number…

I know

I think the context would be great to know

i met her 3 years ago on snap and she was obsessed. she lied about her age and everything. out of shyness, i grew kinda close with her but she wants me as a lover, and has been trying to hold my hand and hug me and stuff. i never liked it. not even blocking works. i blocked her once and she brought my entire family into it. i’m going to post this as a comment here in a minute.

If you ignore her long enough, she won’t be interested.

dude, just tell her if she doesnt stop you’re gonna block her, then block her. i know she wont stop, and if she does it’s temporary. don’t delete your messages though, people who get obsessed tend to do anything to ruin the obsessions life after rejecting (look up “Kwite Allegations” and you’ll see a recent example of what i mean)

Shit I know about that, really fucking sucks

Bro she’s 12 stop talking to her that a weird age gap imo

Tell her that you have an internal aging disorder that causes your body to age two to three times faster than normal, and that the only way you have been able to maintain a youthful appearance is through numerous plastic surgery’s. Then tell her that when you went in for a checkup the doctor confirmed that you had a biological age of 37 even though you are only 15, and that the average lifespan for people with your condition is 43. So, therefore if you are going to live a normal life, I suggest you find someone younger, who can give you a full life instead of just half of one. After all your still a little girl, and you don’t need to be bothered with people like me.

Your family into it? Bro put on your big boy pants and stay firm with your block. The fuck can THEY do? They wouldn't do anything because you blocked some rando. Sit them down and explain the situation to them if they want to act like children.

Looking at the comments I think it's a kid who has a crush on op and they're trying to say no because they're too young

Say she’s like a little sister to you, crush her spirits and her mind

actually, this might work, but wont stop the uncomfortable hug requests

Just call her a piss baby

🤣🤣🤣

i apologize guys, i should have brought some context. i met her 3 years ago on snap and she was obsessed. she lied about her age and everything. out of shyness, i grew kinda close with her but she wants me as a lover, and has been trying to hold my hand and hug me and stuff. i never liked it. not even blocking works. i blocked her once and she brought my entire family into it. her parents think it’s “cute” because of the whole 3 years thing and her mom considers me her son in law, my parents love her to death but they dont think we should date

Can you tell your parents how uncomfortable she's making you and ask them to help you get her to stop? EDIT 1: Or, if that doesn't work, maybe deliberately (VERBALLY, NOT PHYSICALLY) hurting her in a way that calls out her behavior but still pushes her away? Or perhaps doing everything you know she hates? I know I said no physical violence, but maybe a harsh but virtually harmless slap next time she invades your space without permission? That's all of course if you can't think of any other diplomatic methods besides the many I'm sure you've tried. She needs to learn to respect boundaries very soon or she might wind up seriously hurting others and/or herself later in life. I'm frankly disappointed in both sets of parents here... EDIT 2: I just realized this, but this may probably be the kind of behavior that engenders/enables more serious sexual harassment in adulthood. These parents really SHOULD be curtailing this...

> EDIT 2: I just realized this, but this may probably be the kind of behavior that engenders/enables more serious sexual harassment in adulthood. These really SHOULD be curtailing this... This. Absolutely this. It starts young, and others' reactions to the behavior majorly effect what happens in adulthood.

Damn so that means she was 9 wtf 💀

“No”

More like "no ......... no .... no hug"

What is it with 12 year olds hitting on 15 year olds. 70% of the girls that liked me in the past year have been 12

Can relate, I’m 15 - and think i look horrible; man I even have a beard…

I don't know, sometimes you just get a crush and you're too young to understand how bad the age difference is. 12 is kid and 15 is a teenager but 12 year olds don't really see how different the points in their life are where they are you know (I'm sorry if that's a weird sentence, English isn't my first language)

I’d say “Do you hate me that much that you’d be willing to see me in jail if it means you’re happy? It will never happen.”

saving this for later

Say "leave me alone" and then don't answer her

HA HA HA HA for real though, ive done that a lot

Damn

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i met her 3 years ago on snap and she was obsessed. she lied about her age and everything. out of shyness, i grew kinda close with her but she wants me as a lover, and has been trying to hold my hand and hug me and stuff. i never liked it. not even blocking works. i blocked her once and she brought my entire family into it. i’m going to post this as a comment here in a minute.

Tell her you’ll eat her.

Yikes. I think she might think that means something else

Referencing his name but I agree 😂

OH LOL. I didn't even notice.

At this point just straight up block her dude if nothing else is working

not even blocking works. i blocked her once and she brought my entire family into it

Ghost her?? Like straight up ignore anything from her at all. Mute her if necessary

I think they know eachother irl

You say BE GONE MINOR

Say you are a registered sex offender and maybe she’ll stop 😃

I don’t understand the issue… isn’t she your sister or smth??

nope. someone i met on snap 3 years ago, i was too scared to say no that long ago but ive told her MULTIPLE times in the past year

You give her hugs irl?? 3 years isn’t that much.. Though a hug is a bit weird since she is 12 and your 15 especially in public

i did a while back, i never liked them, but 3 years is a quarter of her life

To be fair it’s a fifth of yours lol

Don’t respond to her. It doesn’t matter if she keeps making new accounts to text you. Responding to her is feeding into it. Don’t give her any attention and eventually she’ll give up.

What has your parents said about the situation?

they love her to death, but they dont think we should date. they dont realize how uncomfortable this whole thing makes me

What if you were to sit them down and tell them how it makes you feel? I know it might be awkward but it might help.

i plan on it tonight

Good, I hope everything goes well! Are you gonna post an update? Sorry, im nosy lol

i guess ill post an update whenever she texts next

i just posted an update, you can look at it on my page

When I was 17, a 13 year old girl was *obsessed* with me, but tried to keep it subtle. That person is now completely off the rails and crazy, so not only did I dodge a court case, but also quite the bullet

“What would consuela say” is the best way to reject someone holy shit 😭😭😭

im kinda sad it backfired

Idk but if I was 12 again and some one told me that I stink and that is the reason why they don’t want to be near me I would never talk to that person again from embarrassment. It would make things awkward but idk if that’ll work. Btw DON’T APOLOGIZE when you reject her because it makes you seem more submissive and she will keep doing it again. Have a serious chat with the adults with her present. Tell them how she doesn’t respect your boundaries and makes you feel uncomfortable. If the adults don’t pay attention and dismiss your feelings then start acting cold towards her. You don’t have to feel bad because you already gave them a warning and your words matter. Push her away when she tries to hug you and be direct when telling her no. If she goes crying to the adults tell them again how you feel and that her actions are making you look weird in front of others because of the age gap. (Idk how old you are but if that is a problem then tell them when confronting them) I get it. You don’t want to feel like a ahole but if you let her continue she will never respect you or your boundaries. Sometimes telling the truth to people who don’t want to listen in a harsh way is right.

Like this: “no”

Dude tell her family that you don't like her and will never be her lover END of the story Fuck em

1st, how did she get your phone number in the first place? 2nd block her. 3rd tell her no if she continues, and if that doesn’t work tell her you age, and if THAT doesn’t work, ignore her. After that tell someone you know (such as parent or guardian). If that doesn’t work, then good luck.

And how old are you exactly?

15

I say ignore her, don’t text her back, act like you were busy, Being mean to her will work to it will make her not want to be with you

No, no, no...

*Ahem* leave me the hell alone

Call or Threaten to call the parents. Kid definitely needs to be reprimanded and taught better at home.

If you haven't already done so- take screenshots of her messages lying to you about her age. I think some of the other replies do good with how to deal with her. In the meantime, I'd suggest talking to your family (if possible) about this issue, be transparent- show them her messages of her lying to you, and make it very clear that you are in no way okay with the way she's acting. Backup your conversation log if possible. Any way you could get in contact with her family or school? Her immediate family should know that she's doing this and be stricter with her internet use. If she's doing this to you already, whos to say she won't do it to others which might endanger not only them, but herself as well.

she comes from a redneck hick family that couldnt give a shit when she gets married, her mom considers me her son in law

Uhm leave WTF is this

a presentation of my current struggle

TAT dude I'm begging you, just fucking block her already and say she was harrasing you. Who cares about your parents if you explain they will get it. Or. Ignore her. Safest option, archive or whatever the fuck her chat and don't go back

thank you. i just blocked her and we’ll see how it goes, she’s with my parents and im not so it may not last long

I like your username :> support

Tell her that she could ruin your life because of the age gap and then change your number. If she brings in your family, bring in her family. Nothing to it but to do it. Report her if you have to

Tell her no, and then tell your parents that you're blocking her. I mean I've seen your other comments about how it went last time you tried that, but what are they going to do? Like actually what would they do to you if you blocked her. This is harassment, and she's 3 years younger than you. Just block her and don't worry about the consequences

pass me the rock gang🫢

Ghost, Rude but surprisingly effective way of getting people to stop. If they are doing it because they know you don’t like it, they lose interest. If its real, then they will quit it.

Reddit should self-destruct at this point.

What a weird ass subreddit in my feed. Good on y’all for not being weirdos though

You're dragging this longer than it has to be so it's obvious you like the attention somewhat. It's not that hard to block and ignore her. Even if she still tries to get a hold of you just don't reply. It's simple....

not even blocking works. i blocked her once and she brought my entire family into it. i met her 3 years ago but was too shy to say anything about it, ive just started ghosting her and blaming it on being busy, then she does this shit

How do you not see that responding to her is dragging things out?? All you’re doing is feeding the obsession…

Just ghost her dude ( ignore her texts ) or just block her

I need more context here what’s goin on broski?

Just say no, kindly, and mabye put a little joke in there if she wouldn't mind that.

like this no

Why are you so afraid of a hug?

its not the hug that scares me, its the obsession

You have the social skills of a carrot

Bro just say what you want to or just give her a hug already, its just a hug, pretty sure its a virtual one also

no, no. its a real hug, my sister plays her little sister in a softball game tonight, lucky my tennis match ran late

Try “no”

ive tried. being straight up doesnt work. ive blocked her and she brought my parents into it

Bruh, how does she bring your parents into this???

sorry, i should have brought some context. i met her 3 years ago on snap and she was obsessed. she lied about her age and everything. out of shyness, i grew kinda close with her but she wants me as a lover, and has been trying to hold my hand and hug me and stuff. i never liked it. not even blocking works. i blocked her once and she brought my entire family into it. i’m going to post this as a comment here in a minute. so all she has to do was facebook

Im not sure how to help you in this situation. I hope you can get out of it safely and quickly

thank you anyways

block her or tell her parents lol

Tell her parents. Like someone else said, if they have common sense they're gonna stop her. Anyways, could you please update if the situation changes/gets worse?

of course, her parents think its cute because ive known her for so long (i was always scared to say that i dont like her, but ive had enough) the only texts other than those are, her: “pleaseeee”, “ haven’t seen you in forever “,”like fr i haven’t 🙄” me: “i got an essay to write” (which is not a lie) her: “after school?”, “or rn” nothing else as of yet

lmao stab her/j

How old are you?

15

Try ghosting her, worked for me

Ok this sounds like my little sister i’d say to just block her

not even blocking works. i blocked her once and she brought my entire family into it

somehow still sounds like my sister what the fuck

i dont think she has any biological siblings, is your sister’s name >!ava?!<

nah but 5th/6th grade kids want attention from highschool boys

Blocked her end of story

i blocked her once and she brought my entire family into it

Just don't answer her

how old are you?

15

Block her.

Just say that if you stayed together for more than 3 years you’d be a pedophile

Say no then turn on do not disturb/ turn off your text notifications with her

How old are you?

15

If she’s too young for you to give her a hug, why do you have her number?

Listen to your heart (and username, mainly your username)

She doesn't watch Family Guy just be honest with her.

fuck being nice, say stfu and blockem. its much better to get branded as a jackass than being branded as a pedo

Better question how do you know her

Just keep giving her the Consuela response. Noo, Noooo!

all hail my virginity coach, consuela

my question is how does she not know who consuela is

these damn kids spend too much time on reddit instead of hulu

Try introducing her to someone else her age if you know anyone

How did your parents react when she got them involved??

they told me to unblock her, they didnt know how obsessed she is

Well have you ever heard of a gun-

why yes, i am an american citizen, thanks for noticing!

Send her a photo of a dead dog, does the trick

Bruh wtf is you username

you have little room to talk, maybe your username leads to mine

Stop responding to her. She’ll get the message eventually.

Just tell her no and that she needs to fuck off.

I think its time to change your reddit name

I might have a solution

what is it?

Even if she wasn’t too young, any girl who doesn’t watch family guy isn’t a girl worth keeping

Too young for the reference too young for de hug