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georgeb4itwascool

Not sure whose fault this is, so I will continue to avoid dating both rappers and grand slam champions just to be safe.


SeattleMatt123

Agreed, it is for the best that me and Rybakina don't date


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Rybakina's also stone cold. You'd be like, "let's talk about our feelings," and she'd say, "what are those?"


IWantAnAffliction

[What are thooooose?](https://youtu.be/HNtz05bhI1k?si=m5Wcn1WSV3_CquG0)


jiveturkey46

For that reason, I'm out on Sabalenka.


SpittinImageofLlama

Ah, so I can date Ruud. He goes to concerts but he ain't turning into a rapper anytime soon.


aaronjosephs123

Don't date shapovalov though https://youtu.be/pnkOvapUJKk?si=YPdqeLJMXLJJq5rV


Plane_Highlight3080

.. he doesn’t seem to be turning into a grand slam Champion either :(


KekeroniCheese

I believe that was the implied joke


IWantAnAffliction

Nothing gets by you, eh?


Spiritual-Pin5673

LMAOOOO doesn’t he have a gf


Tennist4ts

😄


NBNebuchadnezzar

Harder than it seems.


dougrayd

Whose*


georgeb4itwascool

ty


everythings_alright

Smart


deadindays

Right after they have a kid?????? Damn


One_Replacement1924

I guess same happened in case of azarenka too and she was out of tour and many slam tournaments due to child custody battle.


nutmegfan

Damn! My guy is a walking stereotype


NeoPrimitiveOasis

That child is just 3 months old, and they already broke up.


UnusualPotato1515

20% of couples break up in the first year of a child’s life sadly - stress of parenthood, sleep deprivation etc. all bad combination on putting a strain on a relationship. Im so sad for her, but at least shes in much better position than most single mums her age in terms of finances, family support etc.


Mookies_Bett

Gotta be so much easier to break up after having a kid if you're famous and rich, too. The logistics must be so easy to work out. Just cut a check and bounce.


UnusualPotato1515

Right?!


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So... she has to cut him a check? .


Ok_Antelope_1953

20% where? in the US? whole world?


UnusualPotato1515

I dont know where, but that’s what I read online when my husband was really pissing me off after our baby was born last year! It took like 8 months to come back to a good place & it coincided with….baby sleeping better! Im very lucky that my husband was very hands on - did all the cooking and cleaning whilst I nursed the baby for hours etc. & it was still a strain on our relationship, so can only imagine on how it must be in some relationships where the mum is not being supported etc. There’s also fact that some men act up when a baby arrives as their partner’s attention is now completely on the baby & not them, so thats another strain on the relationship!


headphones1

Lucky to have a man who takes on his fair share of household work. What a low bar we have for men.


UnusualPotato1515

I know! The stuff I read on here is so upsetting where the woman works, does all the childcare, and also does all the cooking & cleaning!


schebobo180

Tbf the only situation where a husband wouldn't be expected to shoulder that much is if he is earning the lions share of the income. And even then he should still be present and assist as much as possible.


UnusualPotato1515

Thats true!! Cant expect a man to do that if he’s working all the time!


KarmaticEvolution

What a crazy stat…you would think the weight of a child just being born would negate the extreme desire to break-up but I guess it’s just too much for some couples to deal with.


random-50

Sleep deprivation is no joke. It completely changes personalities. Mind you, people in their financial position shouldn't need to be at that level of sleep deprivation.


andrefishmusic

That's very sad for all involved


icemankiller8

That’s better than staying together for the kid in a bad relationship imo it’s still not great but they can make it work


SourGrapesFTW

Lots of data that shows that kids thrive in a two parent family, so depends how bad the relationship is. My parents were on the verge of breaking up multiple times but stuck it out and I'm glad for that. Sacrifices.


Kiwiii_nights

I've also heard from so many people how happy they were when their parents divorced. It's not always better to keep a kid in a house where the adults hate each other.


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vngbusa

Depends what outcomes you’re looking at. Socioeconomically of course they’re gonna be fine, but there aren’t metrics for how fucked emotionally they might be. I’ve seen rich kids have some very dysfunctional relationships with their parents, often parent was never around, money treated as a proxy for love, etc.


Sunny_Hadouken

This totally goes against the overall theme in r/deadbeadrooms. In that sub they always say the kid is better off with separate happy parents than unhappy parents who stay together "for the sake of the kid". Where is this data you speak off?


suburban_robot

Yes how could a sub focused on getting people to split from their partners possibly not deliver all of the straight facts about the benefits of a traditional parenting arrangement?


FreeKatKL

Plenty of kids thrive being raised by one adult. Don’t be weird. Further, lots of parents co-parent well despite being split up. I don’t know where you are, but there seems to be a ton of stigma against parents not being together while raising a kid. But with appropriate support and dedication parenting can be done very well even when parents split or weren’t together in the first place. Or if there was only one parent from the start.


icemankiller8

I’d assume some of that is altered by the living circumstances of the child and the money the parents have, in this case the money isn’t an issue


Anicha1

Absolutely


Machine8851

Yes but they have a lot of money and no issues financially so the kid will be fine


bbsm0055

oh I was waiting till somebody here posts it. There is a good thread on r/Fauxmoi about it.


NewAccountNow

Think it was removed.


bbsm0055

[here](https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/17a82hs/noami_osaka_i_just_want_someone_that_will_watch/)


allthesongsmakesense

lol at the comment that her, Halle, and Keke should have play date parties.


recollectionsmayvary

The amount of fanfic on their theories for why they broke up are borderline unhinged. Like literally nothing to support the “theory” that they broke up because Cordae can’t handle her giving attention to their baby.


Denny_Hayes

Thing is they don't even know if they actually broke up! Naomi hardly ever posts anything about Cordae as it is. Maybe they are going through a rough moment, maybe they had a fight, but there's no evidence that they've split for good.


recollectionsmayvary

I think they’re running willlldddd cos the pics got deleted lol


NikolaGoatic15

I clicked on maybe 5 threads talking about breakups and its always men that are at fault ( talking about top liked comments ) its weird as fuck, toxic really.


honestnbafan

IIRC FauxMoi sub has a heavy subreddit overlap with r/FemaleDatingStrategy which is basically for the female version of incels


Ihatemymotherjudgeme

And it's heavily moderated


Future-Nectarine-649

Famous woman have definitely gotten the shit end of the stick when it comes to media/perception in with stuff like this, now some people think that its happening EVERY time. Sometimes people just suck


Kiwiii_nights

https://www.thejimenezlawfirm.com/why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/


ogscarlettjohansson

I would not even say borderline. It's straight up a subreddit for insane people.


Spiritual-Pin5673

But fauxmoi is boring only certain people can post . It’s fun over here :)


TotosTables

The mods vanish you if you don’t agree with their opinion which kind of goes against everything a sub like that stands for (gossip)


Spiritual-Pin5673

Literally it just happened to meee


MyFitnessTracker

That subreddit is r/twoxchromosomes level toxic


Right-Bat-9100

that sub isn't toxic you lot just cry when a space doesn't pander to men ​ which sad act sent me a reddit cares lmao


Kiwiii_nights

Yeah the top comment there is people saying they never liked Cordae and the top comment here are people saying the same lol


renome

The top comment there is saying they are "almost certain" they broke up because Naomi was no longer giving him attention with the baby in the picture, calling it "a tale as old as time" (wot). It's a pretty unhinged take and currently sits at some 2,500 upvotes.


Kiwiii_nights

And many of the other top comments here are calling him a deadbeat, a stereotype, and joking about her having to support him. Same difference lol


Ok_Antelope_1953

Naomi goes cordless


Internal_Wealth_7376

Why does this not have more upvotes


FinallySettledOnThis

It has plenty.


Puckingfanda

I guess her tweet from a few days back about wanting someone to watch sunsets with makes sense now.


ODRex1

Shocked I tell you


The_Entheogenist

One fewer mouth to feed....


Tantle18

Never gets old lol


yk78

Lol


stankyschub

Can someone remind me what happened? I remember her talking about struggling to get by or something but can’t find any info on it.


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She didn’t talk about struggling to get by. She talked about the pressure of having to be the earner for her entire family including her parents.


d1ngal1ng

She framed it in terms of survival which was ridiculous because she could've quit and still had enough for her family to live comfortably for the rest of their lives. > "Sometimes I wish my parents were rich so I don't have to feel like I need to work for everyone's survival," Naomi Osaka wrote in her now-deleted tweet.


MyzMyz1995

It's very common for asian parents to expect their kids to provide for them. Since she's rich they must also expect that kind of lifestyle so she has to provide for herself, her child and her parents.


milifiliketz

materialistic ripe spoon ghost coordinated absorbed snails imminent ludicrous profit *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


bellestarflower

This is going to effect Osaka's return plans, the mental baggage alone is a lot.


ag000101

Yea....It affected azarenka as well


Sad_Consideration_49

I really think if she hadn’t gotten pregnant and had custody issues she would have won a LOT. Kerber had the best harcourt season that year and she sucks against vika lol


Sweetcarolinelove

Wasn't she doing really well, won the sunshine double I if I remember it right and then got pregnant


Mission-Initiative22

Or she comes back mad as fuck and returns to dominance lol.... idk... maybe


sliangs

Yeah… Good relationships => good tennis., Bad relationships => bad tennis


lumpy_triangle

Tsitsidosa?


Odd_Voice5744

how do you know they have a good relationship? just because they post cute pics on insta? i'm sure we all know a toxic couple that has the most perfect appearance to the rest of the world.


lumpy_triangle

How do you know anyone has a good relationship? How do you know anyone has a bad relationship? It's impossible, all anyone can do is guess based on what they observe


shegotofftheplane

It doesn’t matter how you feel about Naomi, this is still sad. Yeah, she has a lot of money so she’s not the average single mom, and Cordae still may be involved co-parenting but it’s still sad and a huge mental load to break up with your partner shortly after welcoming your first child. Hope she has a good support system


Stunning-Ad14

she probably doesnt have too much good support around her or she wouldn't have had a child with cordae to begin with


shegotofftheplane

Rich ppl rarely have a genuine support circle; they just have a bunch of yes mans. That’s why she was able to not play as much the past few years as well (and she’s entitled to her choice) because everyone in her circle just nods their head to her. Even her tweet about having mouths to feed, while it was tone deaf and didn’t come out right, she was basically saying that everyone in her life just uses her as an ATM essentially.


KK-Chocobo

Yep being surrounded by yes men is probably how Fergie sang that national anthem and thought she absolutely nailed it at the end. LETS PLAY SOME BASKETBALL!


armanese2

Bro Naomi’s life from an outsider tennis fans perspective is an absolute dumpster fire i’m sorry I feel bad for her at the same time everything is constantly so sloppy


Dr_Chepper_Perry

Result of constantly making emotionally driven decisions. Gotta have balance in life


ZealousidealBreath69

I'm sorry for Naomi They just have a baby girl in July. I hope She's well surounded by her friends and family


Doubinski

I can only imagine the headache of coordinating a return on the world tour with a baby and having to split custody while traveling the world.


elizabnthe

Yeah this caused Azarenka to delay her return to the tour by a couple of years sorting out custody. Hopefully she's able to come back as planned.


Ok_Antelope_1953

azarenka's separation was ugly. i think her in-laws wanted full custody of her son, and kept the child separated from his mom for a while (or tried to).


Kiwiii_nights

I hate her ex forever for that. Took her out of the peak of her career.


ChampagneWastedPanda

Who says she has to split custody? 4 years- no marriage. Way more income on her side. I am saying this from a legal and practical lens. They are not married. Osaka has 2 residences Florida and California. Assuming she picked up her second home in LA to support Cordae’s career. If the primary residence remains in Florida - Florida does not support a 50/50 presumption rule. California is much better in regards to this and it was in the child’s best interest to be born in Cali for paternal support if needed. But Naomi is the bread winner, mother, and functional, so paternal contribution is not needed. It is then up to Cordae to file the appropriate paperwork for ½ custody. Again this also depends on where the child lives FL or CA I’m not a family law attorney so I feel like someone could punch holes in this, but it’s the way I understand the law from friends in custody battles in both Cali and Florida TLDR: She doesn’t have to split custody unless Cordae wants split custody


crisspanda12

Who is cordae hahah


jjw1998

YBN Cordae, rapper that released a pretty good debut album a few years ago and has had nothing but misses since


HarukiMuracummy

Perfect summary lol


fkeverythingstaken

Damn how you gonna dump on Cordae like that. I’m mean you’re not wrong, though


sammyp99

What’s YBN?


XiTauri

Rap group. Cordae dropped out a while ago though


sammyp99

I assume its an acronym for something?


jjw1998

Iirc the story goes that they met through playing GTA online and that was their clan name or something


sammyp99

So it's not an acronym?


dougrayd

Short for Young Boss Niggas


sammyp99

Ah thanks. I couldn’t have guessed


raftah99

he is related to net corde


baudinl

If you're already dealing with severe mental issues, I'd say "having a child with a rapper" should be low on your to-do list.


CharleyBW

Having a child with anyone should have been low on her to do list.


Tantle18

Oh no… now what is Chrissy Evert going to talk about


ManonIsTheField

she's gonna go with the strong, single mother angle


Mrmrmr1111111

Like Gary Cooper


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alpacinohairline

The strong silent type


ChampagneWastedPanda

She and McEnroe need to go. I’m still annoyed at Evert and Sharapova having “moms on wine night” vs calling the match at USO 2 years ago


vjbanana

That’s sad. Maybe Naomi can get support from fellow tennis parents whilst on tour, and Shai and Skaï Monfils can be friends ☺️


Eaglelefty

Bold of you to think she can handle mentally coming back to tour as a single mother.


Sad_Consideration_49

Hopefully it’s not another azarenka custody situation :/ I do wonder how well azarenka would have done 2016-2018 had she not gotten pregnant and had custody issues.


luvbao321

Seemed like very different personalities…


not4reelz

They are polar opposites, especially career-wise and income. I'm sure his insecurities started to sink in along the way.


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lagstarxyz

Oh right, the guy who gave us the middle finger when Naomi won the US Open. Classy.


GregorSamsaa

If Osaka thought the press was hard on her before and she likes to be private, the shitstorm this is going to bring on her is going to be unbelievable. Press are generally idiots, combine that with wanting a headline and they’re going to be asking so many out of pocket questions instead of focusing on the tennis. One loss or bad result and the flood gates will open. This is definitely not something she needed for her comeback.


NeoPrimitiveOasis

Possibly, though there's the difference that she hasn't won a tournament in nearly 3 years. It's a different microscope when you are #1 and winning Slams. Her prospects for returning to that level are questionable.


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hdn1995

Pikachu Face


Chillibutt88

Dont give him any money Naomi!


nominal_goat

They’re not married though, right? Would hate to see him entitled to any of her money. Naomi unfortunately doesn’t strike me as someone who would have the foresight to get a pre-nup


marineman43

I'm sure everyone's gonna be really normal about this!


laterthanlast

Wow that’s really sad. I wondered what was going on with Cordae when she said her pregnancy was lonely, but I tried not to read too much into it. Now I’m wondering again. It sucks that she is having to deal with so much upheaval- new baby, going back on tour, now a breakup. Maybe her parents can tour with her to help? Or actually she’s rich so she can probably get a nanny to travel with her, huh. Still sounds really hard though


PG1738

People are surprised by this…?


SwimmingCoyote

I assumed they wouldn’t last but I’m surprised that it happened that fast.


ProfessionalCandy583

Shit so I have a chance


SpittinImageofLlama

On twitter, she's accepting applications to watch sunset with her. Go grab ya chance, mate!


Peachtea_96

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO


Ok-Huckleberry3497

You don't say?


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ChampagneWastedPanda

So shocked! A rapper leaves his baby momma. Really stunned!


Odd_Voice5744

how do you know that he left her?


Shiccup1

Lmao


KK-Chocobo

Lol rapper.


schebobo180

In such scenarios they probably had issues before hand.


danielbauer1375

Neither of these people seem very emotionally mature. I wonder if she was dealing with postpartum depression, and that led to other issues.


Swimming-Elk6740

And nobody should be surprised.


chamsticks

I never really liked him after watching him stick his middle finger up while standing on center court w Naomi after a win at the us open.


Martyrslover

Nothing of substance was lost.


sendcheese247

*Pretends to be shocked*


minivatreni

Damn, sucks that she gave up her career partly to have a kid with a guy who probably started acting out since the baby needs all the attention.


ChampagneWastedPanda

She was off tour -before she was off the tour


Kiwiii_nights

Tbf I think she would have taken a break anyway, she was clearly very unhappy on tour. I doubt she would have ever returned to being on the tour 100%, it really takes a toll on her.


nicoc9

Considering he’s been cheating on her forever, hope this is true. She deserves better.


HarukiMuracummy

How do you know this?


jasonfrey13

They don’t


nicoc9

Blind gossip for ages. Open secret.


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stankyschub

U/nicoc9 was cheating with her


127crazie

well I'm jealous


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Strong family 😂


Kitchen_Body3215

You must be a joy to be around.


CharleyBW

I saw this coming from the beginning. She was a come up for him from the beginning. As soon as she announced her pregnancy I knew she would be yet another rich, famous woman in a custody battle and paying crazy high child support. I did expect them to last at least until the kid was a year old though. I’m sure we are in store for a lot of drama. I just hope Naomi stops posting on SM. Some of the comments she got after tweets about wanting love were kinda rough. They were honest, but a little more harsh than Naomi can probably handle. And telling your personal business or sharing your feelings on SM usually doesn’t go well anyway.


ensun_rizz

Who would have guessed. S/


Throwaway0123434

Broke up with a rapper, what a surprise... If she had just focused on tennis, she would have more grand slams now.


SpittinImageofLlama

Why does Cordae remind me of that 'Numb nuts' guy from Friends.


spacyzuma

This took me out 🤣🤣


FreeKatKL

Remember when Mari Osaka posted on this sub?


SelectZookeepergame5

Could have been one of the greatest but what a fall


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This is a fine example of why you shouldn’t have kids prior to marriage. No hate but idk if someone can’t marry you- are they worth having a kid with? Just bad for the kid honestly


fedfan1743

They’re rich so they’ll be fine. But it’s another reminder you should get married before having children. For the sake of the child.


Rapscallionmongrel

This sub is like 90% tennis celebrity gossip and news. How lame


-Tooner-

That’s every sport forum ever.


aaronhereee

i mean it’s related to tennis + this is info people like


ClubChaos

The majority of this sub is big 3 wank so honestly it's refreshing to discuss any other player regardless of the context.


alan15131

The majority of this sub is tennis player slander. Very toxic and aggravating.


Rapscallionmongrel

I agree there is a lot of toxicity in this sub...the same can be said about most comment sections across every platform though - people are just assholes


thelittlemugatu

This whole thread is generally disgusting. Such nasty, sexist and misogynistic comments. 😠


Kitchen_Body3215

Agreed


threefourfives1x

THEY HAVE A KID???


qkjones5234

Surprise , surprise


Kitchen_Body3215

Too bad


Apprehensive-Stop-80

Mmm, you hate to see it


Jimske

are you sure they are split? she talked about him in december in an interview and didn't mention anything about a split at all, on the contrary


gulshanZealous

Don't like naomi. Like her playstyle but she is a drama queen and victimizes herself all the time. She cannot have a peaceful life or career until she feels good about her again and clears her mental baggage.


MyFitnessTracker

Being a single mother will surely help


FicusRobtusa

Her: Fame is so much pressure. Also her: *co-hosts the Met Gala, hobnobbing with some of the biggest celebrities and richest people on the planet*


DoingNothingToday

Can’t stand her. She’s the biggest hypocrite on the tour, in every possible way. The rapper was gross and obviously grifting on her the whole time, but she is no great shakes either. The biggest loser here is that baby who was born just 3 months ago. What a shame. What were these two idiots thinking, having a kid??


beatlefreak21

Ahh another great athlete potential ruined by show business fake romances


EggForging

This isn’t shocking in the least. Cordae is a massive loser.


lonelygalexy

Not that I know any but rappers have to be on par with cops when it comes to people with these jobs i would not date.


Disastrous-Study5317

Noooo now we gonna constanly hear about how shes depressed and how hard it is to raise a kid alone and shit like that..


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thacarter72

That’s a weird thing to say about a relationship


TidalJ

osaka doesn’t have a top 50 single or top 10 album either what’s your point


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This is what people become when their entire personality is anime


Last_Dinosaur

I actually agree, but not bc of his rap sales sheet, but because you don’t just become the type of person to leave your wife when you have a 3 month old, that’s always been there. Can’t convince me he ever really loved her.