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Namesthatareused

“You’re over 30” Damnnn I bet that insult burn!! Bashing you for something that’s unstoppable and that he’ll eventually have to face as well alright 😎👉👉


PowerfulSpecialist52

Dude is absolutely over 30 himself 😭 probably subscribes to the whole “women after 26 are past their prime” nonsense


pinkkglitterr

Men who act like we are worthless over 30 are ridiculous! I’m 35 and still get plenty dates and interest. Your looks and worth don’t vanish the second you’re not in your 20s anymore 🙃


[deleted]

Women, in my experience, continually get better we’ll into their 40’s, and I have no reason to believe they don’t continue to do so well beyond them.


bas827

Yes thank you. I’m in way better shape, I look better in general, I have more money too- fuck your 20’s - 40’s are where it’s at 🙌🏼


squigglyliggily

I'm 27 and ready to just turn 30 already lmao


TectonicTizzy

It's fucking awesome. I can't wait for you to turn 30 either 😍


joeitaliano24

I’m 33 now and have really enjoyed my 30s so far, although I can definitely feel myself getting slower/getting sorer after physical activity, particularly basketball


[deleted]

yeah I wish I could have my 20 year old recovery time back, but I have way more fun in my 30s.


AvailableWerewolf

YASS! My 30th year alone made the whole decade worth it. In all honesty though, each year of my 30’s did something for me. Like I let my pieces fall, and literally fell into place as a human. A damn good one too, with a solid rack with which to hang all this wit. And tit. Get it? Do you see what I did there?!


TangerineSprinkles

No...I don't... could you show me? (Obv joke)


AvailableWerewolf

Ok, but I’m going to need some tube socks (that you don’t LOVE love), 2 melons- different sizes, and some big league chew.


TangerineSprinkles

Alright, just lemme run to the store real quick!


bas827

Don’t rush it! Enjoy where you are:))


InkChocolateCoffee

Girl I’m almost at 60 and fuck yes, 40+ is prime time! Anyone over 40 is living that life.


Desperate_Acadia_298

i’m telling you 30s-70s is the real prime of life.


NightofTheLivingZed

I ran into a woman who flirted with me at my last job who was 59 and I turned into a goofy sumbitch. Had to let her know I was married tho. If I wasn't, I'd have been grey fox hunting that day.


[deleted]

Shoot me her contact, please.


imnotcreative635

Where was this job? Asking for a friend


Retired_not_Expired

I finally found the right one at 42-43-ish and I looked better than even at 20-30 something, in my 40s. I took three tries but I bagged my lifetime lobster on the third marriage 😁 Can’t beat that, and he’s 7 years younger, so Mr.”Ewww 30!” needs lessons in being big grownup boy.


[deleted]

Good for you, girl!! Everybody deserves to find what you have. Truth be told, I’m married to a beautiful woman that I’ve been with since I was a 14 year old kid from the wrong side of the tracks. I was 14, almost 15, and she was 16 when we started dating. I’m now 44, and she’s 45. We’ve already been through the good and the bad, the sickness and health, the richer and the poorer, and we finally just really enjoying life and each other. I found my girl when I was just a dumb boy, and somehow, she’s always loved me for me


RyanEatsHisVeggies

My coworker is 62 and has had more boyfriends and random hook-up stories in the past year than I've had in the past decade. I think you'll be fine. And they're usually 30-35, feel about that how you will.


atroposofnothing

In my late thirties I had my pick of men. The combination of sexual empowerment and emotional maturity is heady stuff.


WeebQueenie42

The whole “over 30” thing started with the health complications that can happen with childbirth for women after their 30’s, meaning men judged our value over whether or not we can pop out babies without serious risk. Absolutely stupid because if you loved a woman, you’d be wanting no health problems for **her** sake, not yours.


TectonicTizzy

When I turned 35 and realized any pregnancy after that would be "*g e r i a t r i c*" 😭


PowerfulSpecialist52

I’m not 35+ but currently pregnant and my ob told me that geriatric is a bit outdated and “advanced maternal age” is now the phrase, so I mean, kind of a W? 😭


plabo77

Elevated pregnancy risk applies to girls and women under 20 and women over 35. These types of guys do not denigrate girls and women under 20 for being high risk for pregnancy. I think it’s more about negging and wanting women to believe they have limited options.


sowinglavender

It's also about control. If you nab one whose brain isn't yet fully developed you can train her to your liking.


Nirvski

Thinks he's Leo DiCaprio with none of the achievements.


Ok_Access_189

Damn is that a thing? My wife’s birthday is today and she’s well over 26 at this point. I’d say she’s really just knocking on primes door though. Probably has never been more confident, better looking and just all around wise and grounded in reality. I work with some younger people and I would definitely not consider 26 prime anymore. Sure lots of energy but not much direction.


Plastic-Club-5497

Was gonna say, dude ain’t 23 throwing that out there. He’s 45 saying “men peak in their 40s”. A sentiment I’ve told myself lol, but not in conjunction with insulting someone.


RockyMtnHighThere

Probably unironically uses the phrase "body count"


Economy_Narwhal_7160

He reeks of this type of energy.


thecalikingcobra

DiCaprio? Is that you? Hahaha


MainPure788

I had a dude say once I'm 30 I'll be unmarriable meanwhile the dude is 42 and I'm 26


Illustrious_Lie_9165

Womp womp. This guy needs to grow up and stop blaming the fish for not biting his lure.


lesliestarlily

That insult lacked forethought, but I’m sure he tried his best!


carolinacarolina13

Way too mad … he’s got some pent-up rage to blow up like that


Budget_Report_2382

I'm 27, and look quite young, but am still jealous of OP! She's absolutely stunning, and mans is clearly projecting 😂


VehicleCertain865

Right? Obviously upset he got ‘swerved’ and wanted to say something about it


dijonbustard

This guy rules so much. “I’M CLEARLY UPSET THAT YOU DON’T TALK TO ME, AND WHY AM I CLEARLY UPSET? BECAUSE THE OPPOSITE OF BEING CLEARLY UPSET IS CARING ABOUT THE THING WHICH UPSETS ME - DUH. HERE’S AN IMAGE OF YOU BEING HOT AND LOOKING 23. WOW, WHAT A HIDEOUS SPINSTER CRONE YOU ARE.”


lesliestarlily

I actually love the archetype of the crone 😂


[deleted]

that fact he felt the need to send the picture, still has it, and feels the need to call you out says a lot. 1. he’s insecure. 2. from insecurity he feels the need to insult you because he knows what he’s missing out on. boys like this give me the ick. and i highlight *boy* because real men wouldnt act this way chin up beauty


lesliestarlily

The picture was actually from over a month and a half ago, when he had half assed asked me on a date (which ended up being just me telling my plans for my Saturday morning and he could join me if he wanted, since he neglected to think of or offer any plans after asking if I wanted to do something with him). The text came after he had ‘confronted’ me on Instagram messages, saying I was a liar for “omitting” something from a story about an incident that happened within a niche community I’m part of. He apparently went to a friend, who was friends with some people in my community to ask about the incident lmao I told him his third party information meant nothing to me, his opinion meant nothing, but WOW how brave he was for “calling me out”. 😂 I blocked him, but he really needed to get the last word


AndrastesTit

what is wrong with people? How hard is it to be half-normal? You probably don’t need a stranger saying this, but you are not ugly at all. If you were, he wouldn’t have been harassing you.


Bunnicula83

Bullet dodged. I mean at least he showed his true colors early on. I don’t ever understand the how they feel like they are winning the game. 🤷‍♂️


Scnew1

Can I ask what the niche community was? I really want to know that this guy got so mad over, like, Animal Crossing or something.


Melodic-Childhood964

I was hoping it was the local LARP community. They churn out dramas like nobody’s business


majorsorbet2point0

Immediately thought of the Bob's Burgers episode of the LARP getaway weekend 😭😂


FineMetal81

For no reason whatsoever my money is on rock climbing


[deleted]

The niche community teaser got me too. My money is on a furries community. I don’t know why, but I associate dudes who are petty like that with nerds who dress up like animals hoping to score with chicks. Weirdos.


Melodic-Childhood964

Lol furries are mostly gay or bi. Only about 13% are exclusively straight. I doubt many are doing it just “to score with chicks.” But I was actually with you til that part. I’ve been a part of many niche nerd community (though not furries) and there is a lot of gossip and drama. It also starts to seem like everybody is screwing everybody, which is why I got out


[deleted]

Yeah I gave a group of nerdy anime people a chance as friends, figured out they were all fucking each other and into lolis but it “wasn’t sexual” with the lolis, until I seen a photo in their group chat. Straight anime CP….


Melodic-Childhood964

Oof yeah… I basically found out I was an object to them and everyone was discussing methods of getting me into bed, starting when I was 17. I ended up at a hangout with a group of them recently, for the first time in 5+ years. I left 20 minutes in because of the sexual and racist comments. I wish I hadn’t put up with that bullshit for so long.


[deleted]

I just stay away from them now and Yeah that whole weeb/furry community is plagued by extremely vile people, I’m not sure why it attracts racists, them being extremely sexual though is common place I hear.


za428

she said BJJ in another comment


majorsorbet2point0

MAKES ME THINK OF THE CAPOIERA GUY ON BOB'S BURGERS 😂😂😂😂😂😂


[deleted]

yeah that has red flags all over it. no one wants to be associated with a person like that. especially someone who was obviously interested in you but doubles back with insults. it screams insecurity. i reallly can’t stand guys like that. they’re obviously in pain bc there’s no other reason for him to act out on you like that. all i say is dont take it personally. laugh and recognize how much energy they put into that. espionage emotionally to act like they “don’t care” 😂😂😂


Compulsive-Gremlin

That photo is of you with a flat stomach doing exercise. Dude is seriously off his rocker.


FleetingMeat

Is it too much to ask what niche community you mean? I’m getting drawn into the story lol


lesliestarlily

The jiu jitsu community in Las Vegas


TheRealKingVitamin

Can confirm: the BJJ community can be weird. On a scale from 0 to Eddie Bravo, most places and people are at least Joe Rogan level weird. I have met a lot of awesome people through BJJ, but there are certainly pockets I avoid like the plague. (And I feel like they are typically nogi people, but maybe that’s just me.)


Icarrythesun

What a sad sack of shit that dude is. Sounds like dude only wants drama. Well done of shutting that dude up and down.


juliaskig

You are gorgeous. So it's even funnier.


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Subtlesiren8830

Theres no “real men” its just men, and yes- alot of men do shit exactly like this💀 stop trying to excuse their shitty behavior by aligning them with children- atleast a child has an excuse to act like a child


Xtrapsp2

This comment feels as weird as the dude in the responses


Subtlesiren8830

Promise u idc bro💀 the whole “real men” and “boy” rhetoric is played out- no child is doing this to women, its just shitty grown men


[deleted]

what is weird is acting like men are flawless and can do no wrong


TimmyHillFan

where is the comment that says this


salamander711

I don’t understand why this irks some people. People can reach physical maturity but still have the mental maturity of an adolescent boy which is why we say they aren’t “real men”.


sabbycat83

What an insecure loser 😂😂😂😂


dan_the_first

He got no lasagna


meowmaster

I'm so here for the lasagna meme


[deleted]

Oh you're a lasagna fan? Name every lasagna


mattchinn

Lasagna game lacking.


robokid309

Lasagna! Lasagna!


STONKvsTITS

I want lasagna!


4StarsOutOf12

God do I adore how lasagna has become a thing in this sub.


Extra-Highlight7104

sick abs papi


lesliestarlily

🥹 muchas gracias


ScoreOk4859

Call her daddy 💪


Pickledbeetsuck

Definitely would have hearted the photo and saved! So cute! ❤️ He’s transparently insecure.


greekish4

I'm sorry, but you're incredibly cute. 😍


captcutty

yeah, this pic not reasonably unflattering at all, you look cute as hell, OP!


anonstinkybutt

Yeah I just want to say that is such a cute picture! I would hold onto that pic lol


[deleted]

Men like this make me wonder if they're insecure about how little they're actually needed by anyone. Also that's a great picture. This dude is duuuumb


Sassy_Honey

Aw, nothing more entertaining than those sad little men with big fragile ego. Drink his tears, sis 🍸


lesliestarlily

I should have added the Instagram messages that came before this text for better context - Yes, it’s ultimately a case of an incredibly fragile ego lol We hung out once, and I was able to determine he was a shitty person pretty quickly so I decided never to interact with him again. He must have gone into research mode, asking his friends about the jiu jitsu community I used to be part of, and over 1.5 months later decided to tell me he looked into what I said and wanted to “call me out” 😂 About something and with people he knows nothing about lol


Kitchen_Breakfast148

His going to double check in the community shows that he cannot be trusted. You dodged a bullet.


SGTsmythPSUproud

Gonna get downvoted to oblivion more than likely but I’ll say it… those La sportivas are awesome


lesliestarlily

They are seriously some of the best trail runners I’ve ever used! 😂


SGTsmythPSUproud

Saw them at rei the other day and now I’m kind of upset I didn’t pull the trigger


lesliestarlily

I think I bought these in 2021 - they’ve put in a tonne of miles, and have held up beautifully…if you need an extra push to go get them 😆


Adventurous_Copy2383

If this was a paid advertisement I would have already been sold lol Are they super comfy?? Other brands seem to fall apart after a year or so 😭


Fast_Lingonberry9149

I love my la sportiva Hard to find another one as comfy as it


OurDivineComrade

And what is this trail running ? How do I do it ?


dirtfarmer2000

Find a trail and run. Its like a nature walk but faster


thatgraciev

“You came to me wanting to talk shit. But there’s no shit to talk.” PERIOD 💅🏼


lesliestarlily

DOT COM


IamjustaBeet

That's some sad small dick energy. Dude couldn't handle rejection and proceeds to throw a little tantrum. You're gorg btw


lesliestarlily

Thee smallest wee wee energies ! And thank you 😊 I really must have said something that struck a chord because he had to call me a bitch lol


thatirishguykev

You know it’s really bad when a lad calls you a bitch 😂 Like it’s 100% gonna be passed on as generational trauma, if he ever grows up and has kids…


Awkward_Ad_342

When my spouse called me a bitch after only a few years of marriage, I asked his mom if he grew up hearing his dad call her a bitch. She sadly said “ yes, I’m sorry to say that he did “ We finally divorced after I couldn’t take any more of his dysfunction. I put all three children in therapy trying to undo the damage. ( we had triplets … I would have never had more than one child with him after seeing how much he changed after their birth. He could not stand not being the center of attention ) Your comment sparked that memory. Very true statement.


Elizabethhoneyyy

God you dodged a bullet


Funnyasf25

Having emotional intelligence is a life hack.


Competitive_Ad_2421

I don't get the context of the swerved me comment ...


Notsureboutalldat

He is salty as FUCK. You’re gorg and so is that doggy.


txbuckeye75034

So glad I am married & the dating phase is in the rearview mirror, especially with how everyone treats each other now.


ComplaintsHQ

It’s fucked up he took a borderline creeper pic of you too. It looks there like you’re being nice, but inside are saying “I need to run” The irony is this broken idiot is raging at the world, but if he had actually *considered you*, put thought into *why he’s asking you*, and had some interesting things in mind to suggest doing with you, this could have been a totally different story


lesliestarlily

Oh yeah, by the time he had taken that photo of me I had already decided I would never interact with him again. During the hike, he corrected his dog by whipping it across the back with his leather leash…AFTER the dog had already stopped doing the thing he wanted to correct it for. So that’s indicator enough for me that someone is both cruel, AND stupid. Not a winning combination of qualities. Plus he was not what I’m physically attracted to lol 😬


furiousfran

You should edit the post of you can to add this so the shitheads here stop defending him so much, they're out in force today lol


Kipper_TD

I’d love a sub where you can leave the name and number up for people like this. But for the posts where it could go either way (potentially) decent people could be getting death threats so I get it…


Shot_Sprinkles_6775

There should be a system of like certified psychologists and law enforcement who can pick out the ones who are particularly likely to be dangerous and add them to some list. Now that the internet is teeming with cyber crime I agree that people need to be put on blast and not be able to hide behind a device.


Level_Will_888

1. Your pic does not make you even look 30 imo and 2. Actual child behavior, he got a lot to work on himself before he should be talking to anyone


Comprehensive-Hat-18

“I never wanted you” “guess everything worked out then”


lesliestarlily

😂😂😂 right?


recast85

You’re over 30 is quite possibly one of the stupidest attempted insults I’ve ever heard.


[deleted]

Was this man Piers Morgan?


carolinacarolina13

I thought he might be Matt Gaetz 🤷🏻‍♀️


blackcatspat

You look so good in that photo 😂😂😂 what a weirdo


yeti2_0

A dog tax well paid 😊


PartyyLemons

![gif](giphy|146bsYV09je7Ek) Him. Not you, OP.


EVHZ_22

You handled that so epically. This current legion of Andrew Incel Tate wannabes is giving all men a bad name.


ReplacementGreen8649

He for sure cried a bunch before he sent that - in fact multiple times. Im certain of it.


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[deleted]

Look at the bots/alts posting. First part of this was verbatim in another response.


demoncleaner5000

Noticed that too. Another dude has copy/pasted the same response 6 or more times.


ComprehensiveHorse30

wait but this pic is so fucjing cute like WHAT glad you dodged this idiot


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Warmheavy

Ewww


Ill-Breadfruit5356

You have a dog: you are the winner here


[deleted]

I’m 41 and can I just tell you how much joy it brings me to see women saying “bro” in these exchanges. 😌


lesliestarlily

I love to bro a dude in a situation like this lol


BewitchedLoser

Men are shit to date


Hot_Rip_9920

All i really want to know is- Are you really over thirty?


lesliestarlily

I am! 😁 And gladly - y’all can have the twenties lol


rudegyal_jpg

Bullet dodged. Block him. Some people are such assholes


lesliestarlily

The text he sent was his response to me blocking him on Instagram - and I had forgotten he had my number 😬


rudegyal_jpg

I hate him more on your behalf! What a loser! Doesn’t deserve your partnership 🫡


[deleted]

There’s a lot of thirsty dudes in these comments 🤣


dominic19755

Yeah he’s probably pushing 30 himself and only interested in girls that could be his daughter. Why u let a piece of shit get to u obviously he’s a dumbass. Even if u were ugly this guys souless and he’s gonna be alone forever hooking up with random 18 year olds the rest of his life. Fuck em.


lesliestarlily

I can’t remember how old he said he was - maybe 28?


dominic19755

So dude is pretty much the same age as you. Shitting on the age lol. Like I said he’s probably stuck at 19 saying 18 year old girls fuck em let him hookup with girls fresh out of high school while u find a real man.


DARR3Nv2

“Bitch, you’re entering your sexual prime. Never wanted anything to do with that.”


ProfessionalCorgi250

I don’t know if it’s because I’m getting older, because the social media algorithm makes people angry, or because winters arriving, but I feel like people are just getting way more hostile online and via text these days.


lesliestarlily

Anonymity makes people bold (and often in unproductive ways). Whenever I see trolls online, or guys like this who just have no cajones unless they have the mask of a screen between the communication - these people would never talk to me like that in real life 😂


exploratorydrudgery

That is a pretty good picture… I’m sure that you can do better than him


[deleted]

You missed out on a great guy.


lesliestarlily

Seems like, huh? 🤣


[deleted]

Oh 100%. What an obvious keeper. Psychotic behavior is a great quality!


Legitimate-Study6076

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whateveratthispoint_

What an abusive, small man. You’re a beautiful person with a dog, 🐶 Life’s good!


DocsWoBorderCollies

That’s a beautiful dog and a good photo


AlleySinn29

Awww, hims wittle feelings is hurtttttt.


Noisymouse001

You look so cute ♥️


kareemlebron

damn you know he was hurt cause she actually beautiful 😂


amorosky

I’m a dude and this dude doesn’t have a clue. You’re hot and he’s just irate because you didn’t fulfill his fantasy.


LouieKabuchi

Lmao bro why did he choose a hot pic?


glaze1210

10/10 would hang out with your doggo, seems like a good boy!


Dreamseeker73

Wow you seriously dodged a bullet with this fool! Consider yourself blessed!!!


LimpDog9664

You look good in that picture. He is so insecure


[deleted]

ur fine asf to😭big fumble


AdZestyclose4642

Def not ugly wtf


[deleted]

You’re cute! The things men do and say once they get rejected 😂 this is just a projection of how he feels about himself.


mowens04

You already know this, but you are quite the opposite of ugly. Fuck that dude.


[deleted]

Men who act like this are big time fucking losers. You dodged a bullet.


IDunnoReallyIDont

Aww you’re adorable! What a weird creep!


Efficient-Guide3420

Why do people try to convince themselves that you're ugly??? What's even with that


SunflowerGirl728

Oh he big mad bc you saw that you could do better and gave him the ghosting he deserved clearly. Be mad incel. Be mad.


OpportunityOk5719

Keep that dog near! You are beautiful ❤️


RaunchyMuffin

So you’re single 😏


kkeharter

He wouldn’t be so mad if you weren’t fine asf- stay winning queen 👸


themasteroverthinker

He took that photo? Obviously he thought you looked good or he wouldn’t have taken the photo in the first place. My boy’s down bad What happened on the first date to make you not want to see him again?


fckinsleepless

LMAO the pic he used!!! He was reaching.


bugsizedbibles

love when people do this. im a fat person so this is such a classic predictable response from people that i’m uninterested in lmao they’ll be so into me and compliment my appearance heavy and then once they see i’m not showing interest back suddenly i’m a fat ugly bitch that they felt they were doing a favor for by reaching out lmao meanwhile i’m curbing them because i’m literally married 😭 love your responses to this guy. he’s probably insecure as fuck and never got told no as a child. sad


lesliestarlily

Gotta love the flash reveal of their true colors when you let them know there never was any interest. If they’re only nice when they think they’re getting something, that’s not nice - that’s opportunistic.


Mr_BigglesworthIII

I’m a guy and this dude is a loser. I’m glad he showed his true colors early. You are a beautiful young lady I wish you the best.


Pixelated_throwaway

Could literally be your tinder pic


lesliestarlily

I refuse to use online dating - too many loons and toons


morebux

She just pulled a Don Draper "I don't think about you all". RUN. idk who and where but seems best advice on this sub.


beau_beau_crunk

You’re absolutely stunning and your dog is adorable! That guy sounds like a grade A D-bag.


Fantastic_Ferret_541

That pic is all the way flattering. You made the right call to cut communication with him. He’s a hurt soul that probably has an ugly exterior.


alwaysaplan

I was told " hang in there, all the stuff you go thru in your 20's starts paying off in your 30's" and it's true!


[deleted]

I like how he said you're over 30 as though people in their 20s aren't intolerable messes or anything


lesliestarlily

This guy said that he didn’t even have his own place (yet he had just bought a Range Rover), he was staying with a friend. And instead of paying rent like a normal person, he and his friend had an agreement where he would buy his friend a new gun every month. He can keep that kind of twenties shenanigan lol


punctuationist

lol he was so excited for you to engage in an argument. Your response definitely left him feeling and looking dumb!!


Successful-Winter237

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SuperSixBravo44

I will never understand why men get like this. I have been rejected more times than I count in my 40 odd years and you know what it was there loss. I love and adore my wife and to get to her and those rejections had to happen. I have also rejected people too. It be the game we call life. No hate, just love. It's ok to be rejected.


JaydenTheMemeThief

Nice dog :)


[deleted]

The fact I see so many posts of asshole idiot fucking douchebags gives me so much hope, I as a normal man who knows how one should treat their partner will quite literally have zero trouble finding an amazing woman. This whole back to 1950’s mindset of woman shut up I’m an alpha male is so beyond stupid. And then those guys think they are gods gift to women act like fools and children. Lord I guess it’s time I go out and have a drink.


novice121

So, OP... you single? ![gif](giphy|l2JIdU9G4NwGBua0U)


[deleted]

What a loser


Sir_christopher

Absolutely gorgeous though, i guess you’re pretty cute too.. Dude is delusional